Today I’m sharing a special video with my fiancé, Joe Moffett.  Joe is a peak performance coach and the mastermind behind the website, Master Life By Design.  In this video, we’re discussing simple ways to keep the love and passion alive in your relationship.

FALL IN LOVE WITH YOUR PARTNER LIKE YOU DID ON DAY ONE

What attracted you to that person in the first place?  Replay those beginning moments and remind yourself of all the reasons that you love your partner.  Make these thoughts part of your morning ritual, so that you start each day feeling like you did on day one.  Don’t forget to do all the things you did your partner at the beginning of the relationship as time goes on.  These are part of the reason you two fell in love.  So why stop now?

CHECK YOUR EGO AT THE DOOR

Relationships are not without give and take.  You’re going to get into disagreements and you may even be triggered with anger and frustration.  Remember, you can be right or you can be in love.  Practice letting things go.  Be quick to say you’re sorry.  You can easily overcome these speedbumps by being working to find resolution swiftly.

A RELATIONSHIP WITHOUT INTIMACY IS A FRIENDSHIP

You both have needs, and it’s possible that your moments of desire will strike at different times.  Be cautious of rejecting intimacy with your partner.  Repeated and consistent rejections can become a recipe for disaster and lead to resentment.  As time goes on and situations change, being intimate may take more effort.  Add a little spice to your bedroom routine.  Find new ways to make it passionate and exciting again.  There is always room for improvement.

SMALL THINGS MATTER MOST

It could be as simple as a warm touch, letting your partner know you’re there.  It might be a quick text in the morning or a note left behind, letting them know you’re thinking about them.  Maybe they washed the dirty dishes in the sink or took out the trash, just so you wouldn’t have to do it.  Sometimes the little things make all the difference.

Are you trying to figure out how to get the intimacy back in your relationship?  Start taking personal responsibility for how you show up in that relationship.  What else could you be doing?  Condition yourself to figure out what turns you on about your partner, then use that to reignite the spark.

At the end of the day, you must know exactly why you’re in your relationship.  Always be conscious of what you love about your partner.  Develop a shared vision for the future and work together to stay on track.  And perhaps most importantly, stay consistent with all of the actions you are taking and you will see massive results!

TAKE ACTION

Want to connect with Joe directly?  Check him out at www.masterlifebydesign.com or email Joe at [email protected].

I’d love to hear your feedback on today’s episode!  Feel free to send me a message at [email protected]!