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Erin Foster on 'Bachelorette' Personalities, Standout Men, and Fashion Choices

Erin Foster on 'Bachelorette' Personalities, Standout Men, and Fashion Choices

Released Thursday, 21st July 2022
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Erin Foster on 'Bachelorette' Personalities, Standout Men, and Fashion Choices

Erin Foster on 'Bachelorette' Personalities, Standout Men, and Fashion Choices

Erin Foster on 'Bachelorette' Personalities, Standout Men, and Fashion Choices

Erin Foster on 'Bachelorette' Personalities, Standout Men, and Fashion Choices

Thursday, 21st July 2022
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, doesn't hundred i've had

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with get two baths or baths widow

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and lots of questions

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about this questions about go down known

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as jesse palmer prancer it's so he doesn't

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have and i mean it's play

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i wonder why they don't try to make that

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role a little bit more spicy

1:25

like it's just it's such a nothing

1:27

role what is the point of even having someone

1:29

in that role

1:30

really good question i i don't

1:32

know i thought that

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maybe with him in that spot

1:37

they would have them be a little bit more of like

1:40

there are like fatherly presents the way to chris

1:42

harrison was too reliant of his tenure mumbai

1:45

oh wait i'm like obsessive jesse but

1:47

as i think about it and not really sure why

1:49

how do you feel about him i feel nothing

1:51

about i'm honestly i mean he's handsome

1:55

you seem nice ah

1:58

i don't know in it is kind of he ends up looking

2:00

like a lot of the guys i think it's a little thing

2:03

yeah

2:05

fbi he , a landmark

2:07

for yeah he no he doesn't really do

2:09

anything for me if they fired him tomorrow that look

2:11

at his ex you know know

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you know what i don't dislike him which for

2:16

me is important you know yeah adaptable

2:19

agree i think i like the fact that he's like

2:21

a house i also find it funny that

2:23

he's like i have no idea what's going on and maybe i'm

2:25

just like drinking the kool aid but i kind of

2:27

believe that a no idea he has no idea

2:29

whenever they come to emily would we do the things

2:32

happen he's like ah you can

2:34

do whatever he wanted it elicited up it's

2:36

up to you and your journey he doesn't

2:38

really have any input but i guess

2:40

and system kind of the filler role and

2:42

the filler likable and so and honestly like

2:45

if we're being real they probably just wanted someone non

2:47

offensive ah not as anything

2:49

wrong nothing to get cancelled or get

2:52

in trouble and he's riding

2:54

that vanilla though said

2:56

they wanted to be on

2:57

yeah, it's been a lot i mean,

2:59

i know, i'm obsessed with him, cuz i him

3:01

over google hangouts, and he

3:03

has the most beautiful eyes and, basically,

3:06

every opportunity i get like,

3:07

you ever forget his green eyes did

3:10

they have chemistry?

3:12

how i did you chemistry the everyone he did

3:14

like that that either football guy

3:16

and i follow sports pretty closely

3:18

so as a time limit for it's not just the bachelor

3:20

the you like that but that's not really

3:22

chemistry could tell you my life has a thing

3:25

as a woman who likes of hurts does not cover

3:27

three make so yeah die so

3:29

what really well by that really care

3:31

although the

3:33

my reluctant to share there's like tolerate

3:36

says quietly thank you it's like our

3:38

girl stuff you know we want our guys to

3:40

tolerate it but we don't really want them to be

3:43

generating it you know about my

3:46

husband is like a psychotic sports fan

3:48

it's like deeply permeates every cell

3:51

in his being ah i'm and

3:53

i'm this last year decided to embrace

3:56

basketball season and okay

3:59

the warriors and i gotta say

4:01

you really like the in a mental of to him

4:04

that's right i saw the warriors

4:06

are pretty hard to he also klay thompson as irrational

4:08

player isn't he hopes you

4:11

yeah i bit obsessive verbal a long time a

4:13

was a rumor when he was in college that

4:16

he was on an allowance because he got busted

4:18

for having lead and like his fellow

4:20

at all houses afterwards

4:22

i don't think that's true but i thought it was

4:24

so funny that i became obsessed with and his arm

4:26

and now he's really get a basketball so i have

4:28

varied that better you you are

4:31

you invest in early before yeah

4:33

the thing well i at the moment last

4:35

year and people who are listening this to listen the bachelor

4:37

deathly in owning a cyclist forth but last

4:40

year when clay got injured he

4:42

like blocked off the court with a torn a cel

4:44

and then you wash him the tunnel the like you know what

4:47

fuck it i'm going back out there and he went

4:49

back out there i literally like looks my husband

4:51

was like i'll leave you for him right now i am

4:53

in love with have me and my sisters

4:56

their inaugural for dead my we're all like we have

4:58

romantic feelings for the first them

5:01

but yeah he is that

5:03

ass i love him i don't we can move on and

5:05

second plasma say he would be a great

5:07

like bachelor yeah so you are a

5:09

on a date or never get other he has a boat i

5:12

think like my ideal bachelor day it would be

5:15

klay thompson like driving around

5:17

the couple for around san francisco

5:19

bag as he like really as as though and i

5:21

know what i'm female that else they don't

5:23

use both enough on the bachelor maybe

5:25

like the sound is difficult how

5:28

many out there going to a cruise ship when they go to europe

5:30

that and son are selected by me oh man oh

5:33

you know i'm sorry last time i like interviewed us

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on mckinnon among hundred a month in a diary

5:37

a hard reset her saying you

5:39

just still really like sort to you're not

5:41

driving the mods or science with

5:43

a camera whatever whatever feel said oh really

5:45

control how

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are you believe a tube amps or has so far the

5:51

further detail everyone take ever and i discuss

5:53

the bouncer outlet i'm like what do you think about having two

5:55

gals so i've

5:57

had when i first

5:59

watched first episode

6:01

the first half of

6:03

it was really boring i thought and

6:06

i like all the introductions has is too many

6:08

too many guys are getting it was like a lost

6:11

an arm the girls weren't like giving

6:13

strong takes on anything hi

6:15

the second episode i'm now really really

6:18

into the idea i'm i'm cared

6:20

about it because you can see how quickly

6:22

this is going to spiral out of control

6:24

you feel that way fuck

6:27

up the science experiment or like social

6:29

experiments watching to women

6:31

who genuinely like each other and are like

6:34

nice girls and supportive of each other like

6:37

be forced to be turned on each other

6:40

for guys yeah you know and they're

6:42

like

6:43

clearly going to start analyzing

6:45

themselves and comparing themselves to

6:47

each other it's like every girl's nightmare

6:49

is a guy with now me like i like your friend

6:52

i know you carry

6:54

on like i like anxiety watching it is that

6:56

how it would make me feel for that was like let me be

6:58

clear i'm not here for you

7:02

when when michael buble said that to rachel

7:05

a the beginning of their date i just start

7:07

jason i just com michael buble was

7:09

like wait michael buble on the show okay

7:11

right oh oh oh the race car driver

7:13

now someone who

7:15

said to her i'm here for gabi at that like

7:18

the barriers are yeah he's as a result i'm

7:20

here for gabby you look for michael boob

7:22

i i know that michael bouvier very same as the saying

7:24

your dad thug that's probably where we to say that

7:26

but really weird for me to talk about my

7:28

close personal friends on his podcast some

7:31

capital of that fund for the record i know

7:34

conversion too

7:35

the i love up until

7:37

yeah i felt like i actually really cute and i

7:39

felt like he was really overlooked on that date

7:42

when he said that said felt the pain

7:44

of racial been like fucked the says really cute and

7:47

then i would sanofi with he would get the

7:49

road because he seemed like a vibe

7:51

you know back the you the sleeper

7:54

as ugly gotten a lot of shots of have

7:56

made this this is cute but i think i

7:58

think he's

7:58

enquire be nice

7:59

you see him and he'd italy's gets to leave ally

8:02

we see him and some other places but if

8:04

the are like maybe gabi

8:06

is getting more attention for the guys

8:08

the season right i

8:11

discussed this with my my coerce

8:13

on mondays tally the

8:16

about your other call her and i'm

8:18

on upon oh

8:20

sorry i i just i

8:23

saw tell you i'm not here for the of your mother

8:25

or again

8:29

getting more attention i'm not really

8:31

biased pro gabi like i'm just

8:33

like a mcgarrigle will listen we

8:35

thought about this is not been a lot

8:37

of girls that have a good sense of humor on the shell

8:40

and i love

8:42

this love this girl who's like properly sunny

8:45

like see as like

8:46

right search day

8:49

like genuinely funny like she would

8:51

you stand up and like do a great job she's like

8:53

funny and and just like

8:55

weird and corky and i'm just into her

8:57

vibe and

9:00

i think she's so beautiful and she's iraq

9:02

and body and i was i was bomb

9:04

we listen it's it's so so

9:07

get how it happens that i feel like before

9:09

the show everyone gets like fresh injection you

9:11

know or like their new ingestion that they've

9:13

never had before and i

9:15

really missed like

9:17

why have you been gathering previous say yes

9:20

idea it how i feel

9:22

really next about it obviously comes of a lot of reality

9:25

the is as if you are how size without

9:27

the brought up in the bravo world the

9:29

i got it

9:30

that's cool one is that single

9:32

different on tv than they do in real life so in

9:34

real life maybe you think that it looks good

9:37

a natural than like you know harsh

9:39

lighting and a camera can really

9:41

more nfl jason not

9:43

kind of what not finding attic and have

9:45

them and then i also think

9:48

i would have the goes far as to say

9:50

i know that the

9:52

same amount of injections they look really

9:54

different on every single person so

9:57

someone can do illegal little shows and it

9:59

looks interface the last night

10:01

the nice natural and someone else can do and

10:03

it looks like really sake and really weird on them

10:05

to the all of our faces are so different and people

10:07

have different sicknesses to their skin and

10:09

i could handle different amounts you can see one

10:11

girl gets lip injections that looks so

10:13

weird and so like misshapen

10:16

and and other times are like alex great

10:18

if if if i if i knew that a look like that

10:20

the maybe i would try though i think the

10:22

know that sucks for girls you don't realize

10:25

they're doing like a little amount or the same zone

10:27

else notice what's weirder on them

10:29

no i have to

10:31

say i'm gabby hasn't had this type type of tell the

10:33

next year before police as i'm aware of

10:35

selling airplanes she probably it

10:38

know at what was gonna look good on camera

10:40

and what's not going to the

10:42

argus was really young how that i

10:44

ah gabi thirty one and rachel twenty said

10:47

how twenty six you don't need any

10:49

induction that's for sure and thirty warlock shiny

10:52

yeah i think he was pretty normal yeah

10:56

gabby look so smooth to me it was a she's

10:58

and like

10:58

the touch but she leaning out that not

11:01

about i got it it's like you're going on

11:03

tv is about for and people say like ours

11:05

you up and need to say yes i get it

11:07

i mean i think she's really hot those he

11:09

said barry how pod and they're

11:12

both they're both beautiful girls like

11:14

there's and there's no doubt about it

11:16

i like seen that they generally like each other like they

11:18

seem like really caring about one

11:21

hundred and silly got some easily

11:23

actually a benefit of this

11:25

by it you know i tried under the actually

11:28

pushing away the hurt that will also assiduously

11:30

com but i both

11:33

handling it really well so far like what

11:35

reason like you know we see a bunch of

11:37

guys the i'm here for gabi and she's she's taken

11:39

a pretty well i don't think i'll take a bow wow sounds

11:42

i can confirm her i can confirm i would not

11:44

take it that well and i

11:46

think she i agree with you i think seat listen

11:48

i was looking at their friendship

11:50

how excited they were to be doing this together and how

11:52

and the same page they were and how happy they were

11:55

for each other and the moment when

11:57

rachel said she was like ceiling one

11:59

of those guys or maybe logan

12:01

logan is later okay me today and

12:03

gabby like you're saying but instead of saying

12:05

anything you know it's so easy for

12:07

that and has of the to get ignited a new

12:10

of the girl and when she like we can

12:12

the attitude of like oh that's okay

12:15

a week has to be like

12:17

they see because it's like source human nature

12:19

to like defend novice at nothing we you're excited

12:21

about and instead she just like swallowed it was like

12:23

that's really exciting i'm so happy for you and what

12:27

i agree with you really nice for women

12:29

wanting to be reminded ethan

12:31

no not

12:33

mall your best friend over

12:36

a a guy that you met

12:37

hold hours ago

12:39

very to play

12:41

seriously also i'm pretty positive aca

12:43

low get is gonna be a true fuck boy

12:45

he just seems that he's got done by had

12:47

you were married cell is so so full

12:49

of share i don't like i might i

12:52

agree watch him closely isn't he was playing

12:54

he is playing both sides in and the guy the

12:56

gabby gave the rose hill what's his name

12:58

gabby gave

13:00

her rose to johnny

13:03

yeah i might not understanding what these girls are

13:05

seeing him they're both think you should i'm like not seeing

13:08

have a person here will obviously

13:10

in our personality and presence accounts for a lot

13:13

fighting over type of like attractive person

13:15

who lives like looks the average on t v

13:17

but must look super above average in real life

13:19

especially when it comes to reality shows his and mary

13:22

often the really that guy yeah

13:25

then you see him up cause you're like oh that's

13:27

i mean i get it

13:29

on it or yeah and i was really

13:32

however really kind of happy that

13:35

rachel being really vulnerable really real

13:37

honest i really respect that that she's like i'm

13:39

scared that we like me here and i don't really know

13:41

where i stand and so i think

13:43

both of them are not being like pageant

13:46

he about it you know they're being and a real i

13:48

do think that rachel the much more like

13:51

the often fleet had a good

13:53

girl yeah spare nest and

13:55

he is very younger she doesn't

13:57

mean she hasn't had a heart

13:58

broken as much as yeah

13:59

it is a cop hard in my life yeah

14:02

exactly like not like jaded and cynical

14:04

yet which is a beautiful thing to watch i

14:06

know hold onto rates always wanted

14:09

a whole lot as long as possible so pie be gone

14:11

by the of the season yeah seriously isis

14:14

a , more say about race also please indulge

14:16

easy good on the rachel path and i have seen that coming

14:18

for you to give it to

14:20

that point about her earnestness your

14:23

take on how she reacted to

14:25

race car guy that she ends up sending home whose

14:27

name i believe is jordan

14:30

she was like freaking out that

14:32

she wasn't into him and she was like really worry

14:34

that his observations about sir at we see her

14:36

talking to her producer and she's like a

14:39

, to do i suppose you think we missed

14:41

something like why did she has a strong reaction

14:44

he definitely so dramatic

14:47

to me

14:48

i mean i i'm not like a big

14:50

fan of girls crying like all the time for

14:52

the save with the same severity of no matter what

14:54

the situation as you know i'm obviously this guy wasn't

14:56

like invested at this point it's

14:59

the first date ever so

15:01

i think he was fine so

15:03

i don't beginning to be so dramatic but having said

15:06

i do understand this feeling of like

15:08

the pressure to be what you think

15:10

the bachelor at is where you're supposed

15:12

to

15:13

the right person for your first one on one

15:15

deaf people invested in a relationship

15:18

and she feels like she may have picked wrong or

15:20

like you know how it is a relationship so there's

15:22

a nice guy the reality

15:24

shot of it isn't real

15:26

you go out a nice guy that into that checked all the

15:29

boxes and you don't the or

15:31

what you thought you would feel what you think you should

15:33

feel and you feel

15:35

you feel like you have failed relegated

15:37

i wonder why problem exactly why

15:40

don't i liked this guy and thinking about the guy that

15:42

satellites you know it's successes

15:44

of mine zoc and so i can send

15:46

her to ceiling lot of pressure especially after she

15:49

was thinking she's not really getting a lot of attention

15:51

and maybe thinking like maybe i'm not great

15:53

at this which i think they are a great

15:55

layer to have of the so

15:57

yeah i actually worth independent

15:59

observer

15:59

it's like can bambee loves

16:02

and of course that can be loved but yeah

16:04

i'd love to i think that seems happy he's

16:07

so cute who he was her

16:09

name is just and she

16:11

seems very nice as well they met the

16:13

his instagram oh dot a burial

16:16

not the shutdown yeah now they married

16:18

so he was only there to ramble syracuse love

16:21

that anyway

16:23

another piece of that rachel day that my friends arab

16:25

instantly cannot not you're not your sister

16:27

to my system affecting you for the buster the

16:30

wild that he thinks i'm his the

16:32

they she's never watched it that bad

16:35

that mother aware that but anyway

16:37

ritual unilaterally send somehow think

16:41

there is a different like one of the wrong

16:44

what do you think she decided on the fly do you

16:46

think that's see and gabby decided

16:48

that short and the drag car racers only

16:50

for rachel but why was she able

16:52

to do that

16:55

are you using he

16:57

i was confusing she decide to send him home others like

16:59

way of gabi doesn't get to decide if she wants in there

17:01

either i don't know i don't know how

17:03

it works and will i don't think they know how it works either

17:06

tiger and his overall i feel like i

17:08

could imagine gabi be like

17:09

sorry why is it that guy home like

17:11

i was feeling that guy and now he left and humid

17:14

as executive decision on that you

17:16

, job losses as job losses

17:18

interested go for it ability seem but maybe

17:20

too short for gabi yeah

17:22

i honestly all girl she just felt to

17:25

innocent you did had

17:27

the reply an edge and by the way maybe she'll

17:29

have known better you have that add some

17:31

but i always i also think

17:34

it's really kind of funny that

17:37

think it's really funny when people i'm

17:39

build up it's

17:41

like really emotional moment to tell you

17:43

that their parents got divorced like

17:47

by the way i'm way kid have like fifteen

17:49

divorces okay they can absolutely

17:52

the dramatic but they're really

17:54

com and no would

17:56

ever be somebody like gets really

17:58

emotional and like the punchline

18:01

is my parents got divorced i'm just

18:03

like the you think that's unique i

18:05

mean all of her parents has horses

18:07

you must be been held to say that i had the exact

18:10

same by and then i was like and my parents are still

18:12

together so like what do i now but i

18:14

was just someone tell him to play that up silly

18:16

there that says it's that nothing else

18:18

interesting about him and like nothing else to

18:20

disguise because they're

18:23

really seem like he didn't the move the conversation

18:25

anywhere i think he can really pride boring

18:27

and the

18:28

yeah i'll be so bad from though when she

18:30

left him waiting who's sitting there like not knowing what to do

18:33

the i know it was him on a date his

18:35

his on the day that she asked him to the on and he just

18:37

sitting there like you know now probably

18:39

a civilian about to get dumped and it was sad

18:41

watching him there

18:43

a phone for times like that like you

18:45

can be on your phone all the time but like

18:48

the ten minutes wanna leave has you by

18:50

yourself and there's nothing to do like they

18:52

should be given like a like

18:54

a mad libs are like a game of of

18:56

like pseudo go or tiger any anything

18:58

to pass the time or i always

19:01

like an adult i would think about like

19:03

when we used to go out to dinner on a date

19:05

or with a friend and they go the bathroom

19:07

and like the the line of the bathrooms their conflict him whatever

19:10

you to do with we weren't looking our phones that

19:12

who doesn't look around the room and take it all

19:14

in and like think now it's like so

19:16

embarrassing were held

19:18

when you got your first time

19:19

i was seventeen

19:22

sixteen or seventeen i was like i think a

19:25

senior and with a can look the nokia

19:27

they had snit neighbor equity stake yeah

19:29

yeah yeah as the sale adam play snake

19:32

an aeroplane sake of high school i got my first

19:34

phone as thirtieth so

19:37

i had almost no alone time when i

19:39

am didn't have that

19:41

here the thing there were so many generations

19:43

and hill you were like a slap a

19:45

messenger where you can like constantly be on

19:47

it and you were and and instagram

19:49

didn't come around and that was a surreal kicker

19:52

you know where you really focuses their your phone all day long didn't

19:55

come until somewhat later so i don't know

19:58

bbm silicon says said because

19:59

i know that

20:00

the your pet carrier pair was like

20:02

pretty pretty big like l he was

20:04

hence we can be be an as fifa

20:07

it really was i know people were

20:09

it's weird when things get discontinued and

20:11

like things out that unanimous unanimously

20:14

ever love

20:15

the night with my library curve my two thousand

20:17

and i'm blackberry the like silver one that was

20:19

like not really for is the first time it is not

20:21

it for work and the who are like a fun

20:23

phone that's the best on ever had i

20:25

murmur a broker wonder years the of as dempsey that

20:28

it was just successor great fun a messy

20:30

be am greatly make it here anyway

20:34

join and deserved some fun time in that moment

20:36

but i agree something a game i

20:38

know nothing he seems to be to help africa yeah

20:41

seriously i'm who's the other guy that caught

20:43

your attention like who who are you you know

20:45

you can describe them i will probably disgustingly

20:47

know their names so yeah and i don't another name

20:49

for it so free dial the guy that

20:51

gabby when l with with the earring

20:54

they yeah me ah

20:57

i was surprised at first there

21:00

like she was feeling him but then

21:02

when i saw him on the data was like

21:04

i really thought he had this very cool

21:06

vibe and he feels very

21:08

mature and very deep and an

21:10

almost like he wasn't showing it enough on the day

21:13

like using really lovable unlikable

21:15

in the interviews and then when he was with her

21:17

he just kind goofy foot i

21:19

was is dying when he like open up about

21:21

his daughter

21:23

the result only sweet

21:25

and so beautiful and then it cuts the gavin she's

21:27

like as soon as he said it i would like i don't

21:29

want to be a mom had

21:32

about your first saw your first i

21:34

i she said i don't have a ready to be a mob

21:38

yeah the interpreted how

21:40

are you well but my gabi

21:43

grade she can't like you know selzer

21:45

she says she's thinking like rates

21:47

are so sweet how much he loves his daughter

21:50

and like i could totally see myself as

21:52

his daughters mob exceed our shoes play

21:54

along that because i have already

21:56

been said been said but it confused

21:58

me because she started

21:59

crying sommelier this

22:02

is confusing like if you're crying when you really moved

22:04

by it which you know she should be but

22:06

then asked him if she's like oh he said and

22:08

i like freaked out and co it

22:10

was not it was like miss

22:11

jimmy

22:13

i think you can put it out mother had because of her own

22:15

relationship with her mom much candidly i don't completely

22:17

amber accepted fact she's like that really the picture

22:20

i don't really remember the details of it either

22:22

but some but that makes sense enough as

22:24

you can have to like i'm a i love that they're opening up

22:27

and and admitting things like this i do feel like the

22:29

show has gotten a little bit more real the last couple years

22:31

and dumb people are beyond

22:34

that more themselves a little bit more

22:36

open

22:37

the i agree i did i instagram

22:39

snoop on ne not really a snoop

22:41

when he gone the bachelor at the out due diligence

22:44

really ah i'm nate does

22:46

not have a lot of pictures his first photo

22:48

as from twenty eight and

22:50

he has nine of his daughter and

22:52

those does have are like pretty

22:55

art see though like travel

22:57

photography my life

22:59

the white comic serious stuff so select

23:02

basically the dream instagram when you thought

23:04

the guy

23:05

yeah

23:06

i am positive it was not always as way i

23:08

think sydney period at a

23:10

i support that like protect

23:12

your daughter and present your best self you're

23:14

going on t the like i love this is a hater

23:17

ad like to see of a man is like savvy

23:19

about how is presenting himself cel i as

23:21

i know those apply says look at

23:23

more people to do this like get rid of your problematic

23:26

instagram there are just you know you

23:28

also protects his daughter gray and not accusing

23:30

him of having been problematic but like more people

23:33

should do that the problem is that

23:35

is that of guys especially guys are going the bachelor

23:38

they don't realize that having

23:40

like cheesy cel fees the

23:43

is so growth on instagram

23:45

so they don't know to hide at fail

23:47

noted for their that they should be hiding it as they think

23:50

that they're like selling their best side but it's

23:52

just it's is devastate the see how many men

23:54

are comfortable i'm living

23:56

not like she's healthy life

23:58

now do you do you feel the judge women

24:00

as much as man for the cheeses healthy life within

24:03

women are

24:05

like expected to an assumed

24:07

to have more vanity than men

24:10

frames know i do think that they're the like more

24:12

leniency for women who are being

24:14

really vain and like some superficial

24:17

then there are about men like you kind of want to guy

24:19

to be above that

24:20

the and so when they're not it's

24:22

like not kill ah

24:24

but don't be don't so because his i judge women

24:27

also god ,

24:29

as to declare that the basis

24:32

of the five hour and the entire bachelor the

24:34

franchise groundwater are the same page yeah

24:36

don't worry about outline although

24:38

need his friends were philippines

24:42

yeah ten from had a seasons

24:44

as it hello peter currently were minutes and

24:46

york attorney deathly got some tips

24:48

on like had at present thou for his lands

24:51

again i like it or hate that

24:53

like it's that's great know i'll i like him at

24:55

the end it seems like from the scenes

24:57

so the future he's around for a while and like

24:59

that yeah and it feels like he goes

25:01

out with both of them to sell

25:03

if you don't really

25:06

dicey

25:07

yeah

25:08

how did you do a marissa who got ah

25:10

the first pressure as gabby got like

25:12

getting some time with rachel and kind of like

25:15

i'm hanging out like what do you think if

25:17

you are going on this show like how would you

25:19

approach it like would you like want

25:21

to see them up would you be like

25:23

the card games like i don't either i don't even

25:26

know it's raid i don't allow here

25:28

first of all i found nothing for mario and

25:30

i was really surprised he got a first impression was because

25:32

he didn't leave a great first impression house

25:35

i was a i was i don't know nothing i'm still

25:37

antibes like no thanks these issues a

25:39

year is like not doing anything

25:41

and i don't see him any up with them and so i know i

25:43

was bummed that al as a first impression row that when l

25:47

i felt kind of like gabi is gabi

25:49

give it away i fell in chicago

25:52

didn't know who else to give it to cause you other

25:54

it really like that impressive anybody

25:56

and so she just picked a nice person

25:58

that i can appreciate that

25:59

ah

26:01

the part where she saw him

26:04

she saw him like dipping rachel or something

26:06

i leave the hotel

26:08

yeah

26:10

i mean

26:11

in that these guys are in

26:14

it it's tough position see can even

26:16

want to like way your options

26:18

who likes me more so who do i have

26:20

like in l a better on who the better option

26:22

for me who i get more attention from and

26:24

then also you know who to i like more

26:27

and you can't like you can have to decide really

26:29

quick an early before you get know that it

26:31

has if you play the both sides grover

26:34

not going to be down for that so yeah

26:36

another you didn't he thing hair a wall

26:38

but i think it's not like a smart

26:40

long play with you use of high pick one person

26:43

and like focus on them and stick to it

26:45

i know if we don't know if

26:47

can evolve like

26:48

the hardest part about that you about your ass is like

26:51

getting the opportunity to let explore connection

26:54

as they say you know my new if

26:56

you know gabi are exploring and if erase

26:58

illegal after illegal just i don't know the

27:00

answer as

27:01

like it's really not a perfect scenario

27:04

i had thought before the show

27:07

aired the season

27:08

that maybe they with each have their own group of guys

27:11

and that may be like if one

27:13

girl with like i'm not feeling this on any more

27:16

than like they would have an opportunity for the

27:18

other girl to save them or something like herself

27:20

good idea yeah so that there wouldn't be

27:22

so much confusion

27:24

but that's not how it is so

27:29

it's definitely die definitely will say

27:31

that even on it said to have to have

27:33

i was really happy that the guy erica

27:35

said on saturday he

27:37

i think so everyone yoga and upset

27:39

help the us ah because

27:42

he was such a bad vibe and i really

27:44

that was funny that the guys told me as condescending

27:46

and then the girl told him you condescending and i'm like

27:49

bro you might want to like listen to the feedback

27:51

as you're clearly condescending

27:53

during my mate with so great when he is talking

27:55

about how you know china

27:58

like control their sex sex lies

27:59

now the police and i

28:01

really like thing is like feminist ramp

28:03

as berries yeah i loved

28:05

it i mean i keep talking about this that's very hard for me

28:07

to like divorce the shell from the moment we're living

28:10

in right now so like i feel more

28:12

anger towards some of these situations

28:14

the maybe i would have two years ago

28:17

or whatever the i mean that as air the world

28:19

is

28:20

well if on of actually quickly falling apart

28:22

yeah now you know i thank you so

28:24

much they need

28:25

they'll play keeper of the i really

28:27

my other

28:28

what kind of one him like redo

28:30

the like the like swish

28:33

sidebar air side hair thing that

28:35

yeah i'm just the like we could

28:37

you know simplify it it's like distracting slaves

28:39

to see it like always to one side you know

28:42

one show has really done for me is normalized

28:45

mail jewelry cousin you're like neat as the earring

28:47

like i have like the earring what of

28:49

really suck out to me but i just kind of a breeze

28:51

right pass it in the previous nate for michelle

28:53

season he also have like a dangly airing

28:56

done on earth really like caught my eye

28:58

on her now i just like i'm used to it i'm

29:00

like okay met male male juri sir

29:02

okay yeah i don't that in real life

29:05

breaks up on the shall i guess

29:06

it's really a peacock with like the

29:09

side part in the area

29:10

that combo ain't nobody has

29:12

that he doesn't as him than previously an electrical

29:15

engineer he seems like a like a

29:17

very sweet father the unit

29:19

name is like deathly great on paper and or

29:22

he's great

29:23

any as a human tears that was will

29:25

say ah

29:27

five hundred feet as the spent over com

29:29

the regional aspect of this week navy bald

29:31

israeli infuriated that they have them

29:33

were speedo my reaction

29:36

wire people why the controversial

29:39

why you know if

29:41

they is safe while women wear bikinis

29:44

why is ahead of them were silly like even more

29:46

the employee clad are more skimpy

29:49

or be like he will be freaking out over

29:51

of asking women to do that

29:52

right i mean listen

29:55

i think that there are

29:57

though so he acceptable thing sassy will

29:59

do in real life and then they're socially acceptable

30:01

things as someone who agreed to be on the show

30:04

and signed like a forty five page contract

30:06

and level mechanically so polaroids

30:09

of themselves naked to

30:11

get the job so i think like we're

30:13

not watching real life

30:15

here fray you go on a show and you know

30:17

that your body is a part of it

30:20

and that you're in to be asked to do

30:22

embarrassing things in there are we going to find a way to get

30:24

you guys you know in you to

30:26

the together so i mean

30:28

yeah it's like the only but what

30:31

are we gonna like suddenly pretend like this show has to

30:33

be through like the best earth that america

30:35

has offer in terms of value

30:38

i mean know like the girls wanted you

30:40

know analyzer their abs

30:42

and probably how he big the bulges

30:44

in their sito

30:46

yeah of course it's just the i did something as

30:48

an attractive way to like interface the man

30:50

the i'm on my thing about a man and a speedo

30:52

turns me on or does anything for me so

30:55

that i agree with you there is like not

30:57

kill ah i'm so i guess i would say

30:59

i'm offended by just because i think it's like near

31:02

unattractive that yeah growth to see guys like and

31:04

will be does you have excited

31:06

about an hour so i guess it out and so

31:08

sooner it's all i think it's funny when girls

31:10

are like

31:12

the i have much more of a liquor

31:15

than physical is

31:17

your thing they loved to see you know but i

31:20

typically thing that guys attractiveness

31:23

is really much more of like a vibe it's confidence

31:25

it's like a feeling you're at a care of themselves

31:28

as how they talk to you and so

31:30

i always find it really surprising when

31:32

women are like excited to

31:34

see a guys like it or yeah like

31:36

still isn't a pack the like either

31:38

see a guy making terrible conversations

31:40

that conversations was i was strive to buy packs

31:42

and i'm like who cares about pets when

31:44

a guy like speaking gibberish you

31:46

know i i i don't really

31:49

agree with you

31:50

yeah i don't think like i would never want to go

31:52

to like chippendale and biggest lake and like

31:54

the magic mike live show actually thanks

31:57

within that some fun but only because it's funny and

31:59

like and like

31:59

ironic it's not because the labour i

32:02

gotta go upstairs

32:02

a man

32:07

agree i do i just how the heat vegas

32:09

so i'm like no thanks but i

32:11

could see what you're saying it's like a fun

32:13

trip for yeah not like that

32:15

the hot say

32:16

yeah shepherd about syrup party

32:19

is also a funny thing to do but like not

32:21

like actually hi i'm

32:23

the i'm sure they can recover with these guys

32:25

after their embarrassing entrances

32:28

like that would be enough for me like please don't come in

32:30

the house i can't with village the weird like

32:32

need is for this is so like

32:34

you decide to meet with your daily the

32:37

like so try hard you want to see a guy just

32:39

kind of like

32:40

i don't know like the a little my mom and

32:42

yeah like philo more effortless

32:45

yeah well if you're going agree and gone

32:46

the show you have is your threshold for that are

32:49

a high our and by through mom i

32:51

think we're point about like

32:52

the attract nothing and how so many different

32:55

things that sucker lived there

32:56

if i feel ugly really see

32:58

at with how the guys talk to

33:00

that like you know what they talk about

33:02

how engaged they are how they make them see

33:04

all like that what blows and outgoing

33:07

and him for him so barnes and nobles

33:09

rates on gabi like amazon though i think he's

33:11

is a his bullshit on t v in the moment

33:14

what you like you're so brave for continuous

33:16

or any and rachel's like

33:18

let me so much any the movies

33:20

like cricket i'll be right back gabby you're also

33:23

so brave for being here

33:25

like that guy the

33:28

and a few lines and it worked really well

33:31

yeah but they obviously like you

33:33

primacy of worn down from these sizing

33:35

really the january and

33:37

out and no connection someone someone shows like it

33:40

seems like genuine interest in must be you

33:43

know you're like addicted to a swanky more

33:45

and more shots of that yeah no i

33:47

agree i mean did the guys are a surprise

33:49

me in in episode two i

33:51

felt like they

33:53

don't know they had a more linked

33:56

interesting personalities than i was expecting

33:58

from none that you there's more than me

33:59

hi

34:01

definitely agree wonder

34:04

what we talking a lot about is rachel style and one

34:06

of my coworkers pointed at me the perhaps i'm projecting

34:08

my own like get comfort

34:10

with rage

34:11

lock onto her rachel

34:13

apparently told

34:14

the stylus that she was going for a mother of the bride

34:16

the has an interview energy

34:19

we were the sale of carry that that news alerts

34:21

what rachel

34:21

wayne that she actually said

34:24

currently i why would she ever want to look

34:27

like my mother of of right i

34:29

have no idea of especially

34:32

because she does now look very matronly

34:35

yeah mind

34:37

the super weird kid god is

34:39

gabi have a cute style like gabi

34:42

was wearing like last season like plaid

34:44

sweater with of mini skirt and like

34:46

had like of leaning and like the nineties ascetic

34:49

and i felt i feel she has like cute

34:51

nineties style ah and rachel

34:53

definitely has played dowdy style

34:56

yeah you know the whole ah

34:59

but apparently what rachel said as

35:01

her go to silence mother of mother bride

35:03

musab and she doesn't necessarily

35:06

want to look that way with what she feels like she pecks

35:08

and then carrier science

35:11

like okay let's try to do that for ten years younger

35:13

and someone

35:15

yeah they know they're really good doubt that it feels like when

35:17

rachel style they don't know how to make her look

35:19

high if it doesn't involve showing her boobs

35:22

and she doesn't have like

35:24

vivid and i should really got me at the she

35:26

may wish that showing it ah as a sickly

35:28

good at them or a ceremony not black dresses have

35:30

accounted for the v towards her were

35:32

natural waste but i'm curious

35:35

like

35:35

are you working fast and like what should rachel

35:38

be wearing and like house could sheila you

35:40

know mother the bride ten years younger

35:42

but actually it but less dowdy you know

35:45

i was really confused

35:47

by the choice of the red dress you are on her went to one

35:49

because it

35:50

didn't fit he did not fit her philly to see

35:52

didn't sit her properly and was like digging

35:54

into her the sides and like pushing

35:56

her boobs down and it was

35:58

like really high like he didn't

36:00

fit price or less than flattering has it

36:03

didn't center and when you have big boobs it is

36:05

hard to dress

36:07

for your body without really like putting your

36:09

tits out so to me i

36:12

feel like rate so

36:14

who'd have a much like seeker

36:16

kind

36:17

monotone cool like that

36:19

vibe because she can look like

36:22

like wearing you can always

36:24

were like the ice skater dresses you know like their prom

36:26

he and i feel like she would be really

36:28

cool cause she's curvy and she has

36:30

and beautiful face so great hair i

36:32

feel like seated really were

36:35

like like high waisted

36:37

like cool trousers that like since in of the ways

36:39

with i go you know why like an oversized

36:42

man ser like i feel like that would be a really cool

36:44

look on her

36:45

the

36:46

so i wish you would lean into that allah more publicity

36:49

really hard to draw

36:51

when you have

36:52

the big chest and you don't know

36:54

if you should hide it or you should accentuate

36:56

because i'm sure if you accentuated that we would be

36:58

girl

36:59

hell what are you doing they're all really out there

37:03

no i am so desensitized

37:05

that look for the his about the other

37:07

outside the ohio just be

37:09

like okay yeah that seems about

37:11

right but i destroyed the also see your point

37:14

zero more sleep

37:15

you are a lot of like one shouldered dresses

37:18

last season and like she the were

37:20

like holsters to evening

37:22

should be doing more think like that issued

37:25

control of that like a moral for getting dressed as

37:27

they have like a higher and netanyahu and i'm

37:29

like a fleet of less for him that we're

37:32

calling where it's i hard too because gabi

37:35

hi like you

37:37

the body to their clothes any know clearly that

37:39

she just seems like she like naturally very

37:41

like lean and tone and like of how

37:43

really easy for her to look

37:45

you to dress and it's like i was

37:48

thinking that a watching

37:49

how hard it is for for

37:51

women and were like have such as

37:53

the the relationship with our bodies and then to

37:55

have the like a dueling

37:58

bachelorette that doesn't

37:59

have that problem of having like figure out how

38:02

to like fit your you know big boobs and

38:04

to address it's gotta just feel

38:06

like i would feel so self conscious of he

38:08

says stressed about that feeling of you

38:10

like what if she will sort of i looked are

38:12

you know it even rachel's really beautiful and says

38:14

they're quit by i've harped a lot

38:16

i'm like how bad our style is it's like not

38:18

her fault

38:19

like it she thinks she looks good i

38:21

feel bad that unlike shield city subway

38:23

the same time as i think you're right like there's

38:25

just such like a complex as

38:27

being i think so many people particularly women have

38:29

to complex listen to their body how they dress

38:32

the then having to like be stacked up against someone

38:34

else the watching her cell fact that must be

38:37

oh really grew morning and

38:39

like yeah listen guys also really

38:41

you know particular about what they like

38:43

what they don't like and so

38:45

all the sudden you know a handful of guys are

38:47

saying i'm here for the other girl

38:49

and

38:50

you're on camera in front of a billion

38:52

people and you're like kill me right

38:54

now that i have to deal with the is and

38:56

like feel awkward my body finally seems

38:59

as if you awkward in her life you

39:01

love how she likes of so i'm really happy for her

39:03

i just think the like he did faggot they

39:05

can improve or style i also watching

39:08

is like the list serves the the gulf

39:10

between their styles so huge

39:12

and who am i ask them for the be like matchy

39:14

matchy and money to ask them to be like a girl group

39:16

like kinda still little bit more coordinated

39:19

like that they were

39:21

going with like

39:22

the a crew catalog she and for this

39:25

cocktail party we are going with like

39:27

surveil as a like utter know i can

39:29

i just like who are in a more it really bothers

39:32

me i have to say that i

39:34

really like see able to see their personalities

39:36

in their else at so i like to see the differences

39:38

like i like to see like okay rachel clearly

39:41

more like a small town girl and

39:43

she has only found her style yet and gabi

39:45

the little older and she's sort of like found her cool

39:47

girl vibe and so i'm always

39:49

curious like

39:50

how the guys react to the

39:52

a different vibe that they bring to the table and

39:55

how

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you know how they choose their outfit and so much

39:59

about the the person the way you dress shirt

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yeah

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the nightly and getting we can learn about lot about

40:06

you from favor daughter i think

40:08

so i'm you sarah and i

40:11

you know both

40:12

right we try to make things that we both

40:14

like but it doesn't always happen so

40:16

there are times where we have fights

40:18

and thera love something and i'm like their that so

40:20

cheesy and i lose out and then i'm like

40:22

okay well my name's on it so i that are bracelet

40:26

a and there's and there's for the

40:28

have of the same way the opposite so

40:30

oh we did have to hope that we represent two

40:32

different kinds of they're all than that

40:34

were both in and you know the something for

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it one

40:38

have you on for selling them some kind

40:40

of fashioned it would have been so fun through

40:43

the absurd amounts for us to come back

40:44

i mean not her back of either the first session

40:48

can we were playing for hillary duff

40:51

so rude whatever

40:53

without without yet was the slate yeah

40:56

i forgot about that you care about clayton

40:58

susie anymore

40:59

no it's so funny cause it's

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like my whole world of focus on the people

41:03

when it's on and in utah three six months later

41:05

i couldn't even hear the names of people that were on the show

41:07

them previous season couldn't tell you now

41:10

a friend of isis is as he just drags

41:12

the folders trash amazon is literally

41:14

five so much is is very

41:17

close how i feel i really dislike forget

41:20

i i

41:23

i did so really care about them care you following any

41:25

other bats are nation gossip like how much to keep

41:27

up with what's going on going the nice

41:29

i don't think i follow that deeply i mean

41:32

i follow amanda her son is from not

41:34

skinny but not that i feel like she kind of

41:36

keeps the up to date

41:38

on who the thing there was recently some kind of like

41:40

scandals break up with them when they michelle

41:42

yeah michelle the bouncer at broke up with

41:45

ne yeah they the people who think

41:47

you probably heard this we thought the hot drama

41:49

as neck miles of the center of it he

41:51

was like having a fight with katie their sand

41:53

of faster at last yeah that yeah

41:56

and then

41:57

caitlin brazil and blake horseman both ways

42:00

and next sister and stuff

42:02

like now like net and on alive

42:06

i feel like you've created a different via

42:09

for bachelorette and bachelor seven he'll i kind

42:11

of cult says it like it is and like through

42:14

the bullshit like causes they

42:16

they controversial no way that feel the

42:18

early authentic them

42:20

yeah he also has created

42:22

has new that her himself and like physically

42:24

as well is that like so many tattoos last

42:26

year i year knob

42:28

the whole a whole new neck and are now face the

42:30

his are striving he's like the ryan

42:32

seacrest of reality tv or something was

42:35

, huge compliment harmless

42:37

very accomplished gentleman cel cla

42:39

that means that lot of i know i just

42:42

the latest thing ryan night controversial

42:44

at all but i'm but nexus

42:46

has found has way that he himself at

42:48

the center of every competition

42:50

i've talked about him and many podcasts

42:52

are easily sell here here we suffer fits

42:54

all this is still happening for next

42:57

ah what other reality shows you watch at the moment

42:59

ah i'm i am

43:02

what i'm a real vander pump fan but it like it's

43:04

college and enough it's done or if it's coming back

43:07

in a different forms you know where it's of sand

43:09

is just opened okay i

43:11

was wondering was wondering some post and

43:13

about that had a photo of them and i

43:15

didn't like noted about that that seem like a place

43:18

i supplied though have a meal that

43:20

isn't the franklin village i believe across from a scientology

43:23

ah like castle hundred side to drive

43:25

there

43:26

yeah okay get let [unk] report back

43:28

if you go let me know you can do a filter portland okay

43:30

great what's another what other reality shows

43:32

i watch and will want others dot a charm

43:35

the water entire

43:37

honestly you annoying as at not skinny when i thought

43:40

watches it ally and like city slides

43:42

i target

43:44

the real the real like that's my

43:46

only guilty pleasure like i don't feel guilty about

43:48

watching reality tv for my part of my job

43:50

and second of all that says entertainment the ah

43:53

but this is so guilty about as the people are like

43:55

so horrible

43:56

like there's a lot of them are are indefensible

43:58

by also like

43:59

that i look forward to watching it every night

44:02

my sister is in

44:05

england right now and she sent me a clip

44:07

from a tv so she's watching over there were

44:10

like a girl the on

44:13

the stage and then the you

44:15

like

44:16

guys are around and a half circle in front

44:18

of her and and like a gate comes up

44:20

in front of them are the shade and

44:22

it shows them full frontal like

44:24

is so slow yeah i've i've heard

44:26

about the south but i have i forget the name of that

44:28

she'll chooses had well as based on his penis

44:31

yeah really crazy i

44:35

could watch they go for in the uk

44:37

us love island

44:39

i feel like i'm against appointee

44:41

i can't either montana was just

44:43

telling me how good it as and that i watch

44:45

it oh i'm into love is blind

44:48

that we're now let's say like that

44:50

now

44:53

the are selling found that i was selling sunset

44:55

the only me or three is coming at the end of august and

44:58

grilling the new chase and oppenheim

45:00

was my real it or

45:01

haven't you have your how did he do the job

45:04

yeah i bought my on tone of with

45:06

him

45:07

the guy he got a for it's i will

45:09

say that i am like

45:11

devastated that the fashion world has

45:13

decided to take christine

45:15

seriously and bring her into the world i'm

45:17

very confused by that the new york times

45:19

profile she got

45:21

railing were like did see the

45:23

see like have an affair with someone like laugh

45:26

like didn't really weird or

45:28

hi holly mean i'm so confused as the house

45:30

me data

45:32

have you learned sort of my not fair she's

45:34

actually not a nice person yes i

45:36

agree i think it's like really bizarre to

45:38

reward people for being like horrendous

45:41

on reality tv and get that

45:43

i agree by also she doesn't have good style

45:45

shield like the tacky a sale ever

45:47

aggie house shows front row tacky

45:50

to me that says like evidence

45:52

that the fashion world is so

45:55

panic to be relevant until

45:57

hop on to whatever is culturally relevant

46:00

the reality tv and so they

46:02

think like okay guess we have to have on the front row and

46:04

only thinking if i'm anna wintour

46:06

and i'm seeing christine quinn

46:08

you see for me i'm like offended even

46:11

know who that is i hope for her sake she doesn't

46:14

and now you do i mean

46:16

i don't know how to kill the whole

46:18

you know like the elite

46:21

as a mom and my i gradually it's so

46:23

they sufism and lover yes is lucy

46:25

so exclusive and so aspiration

46:27

all and you're supposed

46:29

to have to like burn your place

46:32

the be invited to fashion show you know if you show

46:34

you how great style you're really

46:36

relevant you're like you add some like

46:38

cool flair to

46:40

and i'm doing something like new and

46:42

different or your innovating are you representing

46:44

a point the view or a group of people

46:46

a cousin that had access to a fashion

46:49

before and christina none of that

46:51

slow like i owed is

46:53

over

46:54

like an the ama chamberlain's of the world being

46:56

brought into fashion to she has really cute style

46:58

she's like funky and like real

47:00

and young and like plenty of the when she interviewed

47:03

people the mat and like her whole vibe is

47:05

like you and it totally makes sense and

47:07

it helped fashioned kind of like hey

47:09

at the forefront of pop culture and

47:12

christina know get that one

47:14

now to see me than dire that

47:16

valentino your idea of the week and says

47:19

historical i don't like it would be rewarded

47:21

for such awful behavior

47:23

she done that she doesn't have a

47:25

tornado season of a point of view

47:26

if she doesn't play

47:28

the that is right that yes not

47:30

not here for it

47:33

thank you so much for joining their help you have found the second

47:35

time unisex second date magic

47:36

it's hard to capture

47:38

okay the first is like pretty good so

47:40

you know they'll build up my road

47:43

i will accept arose i am

47:45

here for the right reasons and one

47:48

i've

47:49

i'm on a family figures

47:52

, gets around his for prisons episode thank you

47:54

to implants hannah arendt team for coordinating

47:56

this the making it happen and

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i'll either

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you

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