Are you really ready to have that magical relationship, or to discover work that you’re passionate about and to otherwise make that shift from hoping to having?  If you're at all like me, then you're probably saying "Yes!  I am, I’m so, so ready to create miracles in my life and I've been ready for a very long time!"  "But (you might add), I'm still waiting to actually HAVE what I want and I don't know what I'm doing wrong."