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My guest today is Holly Porter . Holly
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is an international speaker and creator
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of 11 startup companies . Holly
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stands as a beacon of resilience , a
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13-time best-selling author , seasoned
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philanthropist and true survivor
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. Her remarkable journey includes
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a 70-day battle with COVID-19 . Emerging
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from this challenging experience with unwavering
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determination , she is not
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just a speaker but a living testament
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to the power of resilience . Passionate
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about wellness , she goes beyond her achievements
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in the business world . Holly leads
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a nonprofit dedicated to aiding
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the long COVID community Showcase
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some commitment to making a positive impact
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on people's lives . Her infectious
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joy embodies hope and
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her wisdom uplifts others , proving
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that healing is possible after the toughest
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of battles . Inspirational
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and influential , holly provides
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and inspires , continues to inspire
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countless lives along
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the way . Through her diverse accomplishments
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and commitment to philanthropy , she
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has become a source of motivation of
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those facing challenges , illustrating
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that one can overcome adversity with strength
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, positivity and a generous
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spirit . We welcome Holly
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to the show . Well
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, we welcome Holly to the podcast . How you doing , holly
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?
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I'm great . How are you ?
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I'm fantastic . It's sunny
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here in Forty after being frigid for
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so long , so we're thankful
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that we can see the sun and not freeze it up
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.
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Same .
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Yeah , I like the
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weather . The East Coast can have the weather . Take
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it , we're passing
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it on . I'd love to ask my guest
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this question , to get a chance to know you a little better what's
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the best piece of advice you've ever received
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?
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The best . I've had a lot of really good advices
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because I've hired a lot of consultants
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and coaches in my life . Hmm
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, the best would
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probably be the golden rule and
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even above that , the platinum rule . So just
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treat to treat others how you want to be
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treated . I feel like my parents
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raised me that way and
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now I feel like I raised my kids that
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way , and hopefully that you
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know it . Just to me , what
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goes around doesn't always come back around
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, right , but that's how you can't live your life
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in that space . You've just got to do
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good , be good and hope for good
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.
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Right , I like that . I
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love finding out about my guests because you know , along our
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way , in our journey , so many people come
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into our lives who either inspire us
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or spend time with us or invest
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in us . Who are some people that you want to just
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kind of maybe take a moment to thank , who have done that
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for you in your life ?
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Oh , wow , yeah , it means
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a lot to me when people are willing to invest . I
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call those mentors and my
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parents . Obviously I still
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my mom's passed away now , but I
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still have my dad and they . They
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just gave us a lot of very
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different skills . Each of them were so
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opposite , but I think
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I got a little piece of each of them
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and so I would say first of all them and
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then just , I've had a lot of mentors
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in business . I've had a lot of mentors in
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, you know , religious opportunities
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, different ways that I've served in
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Rotary International for a long , long time
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and watching people
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that are changing the world and serving
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just at a higher level lights
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me up , Like I want to be part of that
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, and so I'm always . I'm always on the
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move and when I like
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change like a lot of people don't , I
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love it . I think change is good . I think
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that's how we learn , that's how we grow and and
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conquer our fears . So I've just watched
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people like that over my life and follow
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their lead .
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I like watching other people go through change . I don't want to go through
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it myself , but if you're going through it , that's fine
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.
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Well , I don't love it all , but
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I do . I like just knowing
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there's going to be change . So if I'm going through something I
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don't like knowing that it's going to change
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, that that's good .
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That's true . That part I agree with . I
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read your bio and you have such an interesting
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background , but just kind
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of walk us through your personal journey .
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Oh gosh , starting when I'm
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old , you get , you get to pick . Oh
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, wow . Well , just to sum
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up before really my life changed
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the last couple of years , I've always been
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an entrepreneur . I always had
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my own businesses . Even starting
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probably when I was 12 years old , my
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dad was an entrepreneur , my mom was more
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of a homemaker , but she also had her own businesses
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as well . Over the years and
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then after I got a high school , my
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big goal really was to get married and have kids
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and have three jobs , and
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nothing's changed Like that has
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all been . We have eight children
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between my husband and I and almost seven
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no , we do have 17 now grandkids
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, and that just
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. But I always had like at least three
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or four companies at a time that we were doing
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things with , and it
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was kind of chaotic sometimes , especially
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when we had a house full of teenagers , and we've
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raised all our children . Now They've . We've been empty
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nesters for about 11 years . My
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baby's in the military and we
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, like , have lots of grandkids and they're
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all live with it about an hour apart
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besides a couple of
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them , and then a
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lot . So I had a salon in Spa for 20
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years . That was probably my longest journey
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of my entrepreneurship , and
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I've been a real estate broker now for about 19
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. And so along
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came COVID and changed everyone's
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world . In fact , I can't think of one
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thing on the planet of the history
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that changed the whole world so
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quickly as COVID all at once and
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if you can think of something , I'd love
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for someone to challenge me on that . But that's my theory
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and I didn't
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think I would even get it . I was really
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healthy and about a
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year and a half in so late
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fall of 2021
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, I went to a conference and came
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home with the Delta version and landed
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myself in . At first . I bought
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it at home for about a week before
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I intuitively woke up one morning and my husband
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. I gave it to him . We were both super sick
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, living in a fifth wheel waiting for a house to close
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, so people would just bring his food
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and leave it on the steps . We didn't talk to anybody . We
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were just so , so sick and I
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knew I was in trouble , and so he
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took me to the hospital at the
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emergency room and they sent him home
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, even though he was really sick . He wasn't sick enough
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to keep . Of course , they didn't want to keep
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anyone . They didn't have to because they were so crowded
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at that time and they
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had me in an ICU room
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. If you've ever been to the emergency room , first
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of all , you know what takes hours . Within
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30 minutes I had all three levels
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of oxygen they can give me on up
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to level 10 and was in the
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ICU in my own room . So
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I was bad like . My oxygen
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was like 63 . And that started
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the whole change of my whole
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life because my health . I
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don't know if ever we'll be back to where I was
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. I would love to say that , but
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I do suffer from long COVID . I
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was gifted so many
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auto-immunes and
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diagnosis from COVID that
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I was in a coma for
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quite a bit of time Some induced
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, some paralyzed and
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had lots of experiences there and
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that really just started a
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different kind of a journey for me . So I
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still have , you
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know , some of our companies that we work with , but
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I started two more
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basically in the last two years .
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Wow . So
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let's stay there a little bit , because I had COVID myself
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. I joke . I went to
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a Lutherans
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for Life conference and
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came back and had
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COVID really bad , and I joke , I was like
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you tried to kill me . I'm
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at a life conference but yeah
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, it was weird too , because you
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can't , the doctors didn't know
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exactly what to do yet . So there was lots
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of confusion , lots of mixed messages
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, lots of who they take , who they don't
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, but there was this sense of isolation
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. So for you , when you went through that , you
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said it changed your life and you had a . We
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talked before we got on the show about your near-death
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experience . I'm kind of curious . You wanna walk
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us through what that was like for you , cause
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I mean , I'm sure we all watched the
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movies and we all have this view
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from the movies of what that was like
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and what people see , but just from
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someone who actually went through it , I'm kind of curious what
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your experience was .
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Right ? Well , I'll tell you I
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had . So I was sharing with you earlier
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that I didn't know . There were
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actually three different kinds . Maybe there's
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more , but I know of three . There's out-of-body
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experiences and then there's
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near-death experiences and
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then there are spiritual transformational
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experiences , and I
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didn't know that I had all of them . I
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had a whole bunch of out-of-body
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experiences and I always went back
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in time for those into , like
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what we call the pioneer days . I
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live in Utah , so my history is pioneer
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, and I would be in this little
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town not very big , that
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has a museum now of a house
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that ended up being my great , great
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great grandfather's home . Don't
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ask me why I was there . Like that's where
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I always went . So
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those weren't my best memories . Those were kind of creepy
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. There was a lot of weird things that happened there , but
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then I had those after
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. So I was trying to do the timeline , since we're
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working on a book that's coming out this quarter
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and I was working on all
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like when was my near-death , when
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did everything happen ? Because when you
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have the COVID fog it really messes with your
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brain . It is a brain disease and
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I realized between the first
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I was intubated two times and
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had a trach and had sepsis . So
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the in between the first trach and the
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second I'm not the sorry first intubation
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and the second one it
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happened . The near-death happened
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during During
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my first innovation , but
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I told them about it . When
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you know , they take it out . You could talk , not
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very well , but I could talk . But my sister said
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just before they walked in , she
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said you Were like
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I have to point to the alphabet , and they
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had my hands tied to the bed by the way . So
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I wouldn't pull the ventilator out , not that I wanted
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to , but I couldn't smell
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. I lost all five senses . I couldn't smell , I
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couldn't taste . I
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had the ventilator in which took away 90%
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of my hearing for some reason , and
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then I couldn't touch and I couldn't see
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because I'm way past legally blind . So
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if I didn't have glasses or contacts , in which
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I didn't most of the time Until they realized
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, I really wanted to at least see . But you know
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, everybody had the yellow mask , the hats
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, the Capes on , so
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all I could see was people's eyes . That's how we communicated
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. But they would untie my hand so I could
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point at the alphabet and that's how
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I would spell out things , and I
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barely even could lift my hand
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because I was so weak . I
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remember it was like a big deal when I could
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lift my phone and then it was a really
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big deal , which was way later , when
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I could lift my ipad so I could I
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had a case on , I could lift it up and watch movies
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and things . But she my sister
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said I spelled out . I started
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spelling out Um , kid
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, kid , and she was oh , your kids , do you need something
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for your kids ? No , I kept going
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and she said when I realized you were spelling
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out , kidnapped . So
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what's interesting ? Now , looking back , it's
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been two years , there's still pieces coming
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together . I truly believe there's a lot
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more to the story that will be revealed to me
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when it's time , and that's
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really unlike me to not want to know so
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bad , but I really don't . I don't feel like I
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need to know that information . I feel like
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I saw a lot more Um , but
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she's I felt kidnapped
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. So in that particular experience she
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said I was freaking out . She's
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like I'm looking around because my husband's home
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sick . He couldn't come see me for about three and a half
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weeks because he had cove it and at that time
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Thank heavens , when I had it they
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would allow one person every 24 hours
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and they knew they
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saved my life . My two twin sisters
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and then a daughter were there most of the
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time with me , but they would stay with
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me for 24 hour shifts because somehow
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they knew I wouldn't make it if they
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didn't and and I don't believe I would have
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, because early on they they
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just said do you need us to stay ? And I , I
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did . I , and it's weird , I'm very independent
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, but I think it held the , the medical
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staff , more accountable because
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they were in the room all the time and they
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were so overworked . But I just think there
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was so , so much going on
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at that time that that , anyway , that
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was another . There were so many miracles . I could talk
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about miracles a lot with . I
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mean , let me just throw this one out there I
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never had medical insurance my whole
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life . Two months before
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I got sick . I got it and
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my bill was a million dollars , holy
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cow . So I mean , I'm telling
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you there was so many miracles , I could just
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go on and on but having them , there was
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a miracle . And she said
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as soon as she realized I said kidnapped
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. Sorry , I'm jumping all over the story , but
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back to the story . The
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doctor walked in and they were gonna
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ex bait me and Take
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it off , and so soon as they took it off , I was able
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to tell her and jokingly
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, probably really shouldn't be jokingly , but jokingly
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I feel like everybody's job descriptions
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have to have some kind of training
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, right . And I look back and I think whoever
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took me because I don't ever remember seeing my
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guide that took me in this
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near-death experience , but I feel
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like they were like Learning the job
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or they were training or they were new right , because
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they took me and they weren't supposed to . That's
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the only I come up with and I think that's
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why the kidnap felt like I was
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kidnapped because I was taking Taken and
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I wasn't supposed to be taken but I
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would . I would see people in my room and she
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, I was having her like open closets
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and and I wasn't really that , I was scared
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, I think I I loved
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where I went , but I knew I was
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supposed to be here and so I think that fear
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of they kidnapped me . They
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shouldn't know . I think it was more like I was more
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mad . Why would you do that ? And I think
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part of it . I might have been more mad
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that I had to come back , who knows ? I
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mean , I'll know someday , because
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most people that you talk to that had those experiences
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. They'd rather stay now . Obviously
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, we don't get to talk to them because they didn't come
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back . Right , that's
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true , right , yeah , so that
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that was . That was basically how that
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first took took place at that point . But
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I was in . I mean , that's
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all another story . I was in a some
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beautiful place , but I will
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say Just a couple
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months ago I had a friend of mine who
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trained me in hypnosis . I
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said there , since we're writing my
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book , I says there's some pieces to my near-death
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experience that are missing and
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I feel like I don't want to be out of integrity . I want
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to make sure you know I'm not figuring
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out , filling in gaps that aren't really true
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. Would you hypnotize me so that
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I can see if we can experience Whatever
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? I can't remember I didn't even know
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everything , I just felt like there was a few things , and
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that was an amazing experience because
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he took me to the before the
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near-death that I remembered , like it was where I
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was I call it the in-between , and
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there was a couple things that so
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solidified Some business
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things that I'm doing right now and some
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reasons why I did things in the
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last couple years that Were
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so amazing , because it was like , oh my
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gosh , subconsciously I knew that
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I made that decision and I didn't
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know why . And now I know why and
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I feel like that's kind of like
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I got a little peek behind the curtain of
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what I saw that I didn't remember
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and so , like for me , it's
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exciting to know that there's . There's probably
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more of that and it'll be revealed
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when it's supposed to be , and I'm okay with that .
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So this is a question I'm
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curious to know what was
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your faith like before the near-death experience
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?
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Well , I was always , I was raised
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very religious . Um , I
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would say I was religious and spiritual
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. I would say now
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I'm more spiritual . Does
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that answer that ?
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Cuz I know sometimes people who
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may not have been religious sometimes
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after that experience Become
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more , more religious or more spiritual
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. So I'm just kind of curious you know before
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, after the transformation , that
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you felt about your connection
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with God and just life in general ?
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yeah , I feel like it's more of a
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connection with God . That's spiritual and the
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Religious it's still there , but
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I feel like , yeah , definitely more spiritual
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now . I Didn't have
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the greatest two last two years
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like that . That's still coming together
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for me , like there's so many medical
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things that were happening with my body that I didn't
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have happening before , a lot of COVID
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fog , a lot of
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those kinds of things . But it's you
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know , when I , when you come back and and
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you think that
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, like your children , for instance , you would
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think they'd be like , oh my gosh , my
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mom almost died . I mean there were many
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days I should have and
19:35
you would think that they would like
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, want to be closer to you , or you
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know , and then they're adults and they have children in there
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. But I will say it was
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almost . It was the opposite for me . It was
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like , it
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was like I was just vibrating at a different level
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or something , and they , it was like I felt pushed
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away and that was hard . I
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mean I , I cried I'm not a crier
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and I cried and cried and cried the last two years more
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than I ever want to have been over so many
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things and so many heartbreaks , and
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I'm a world changer
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and I know that and it's like Dang
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, how do you change the world if you can't even feel like
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you can change your backyard Right
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? A friend from political office before and same thing
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. It was like that . It's like that defeat
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when , when you know you can do so
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much good , but it's like they don't want
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it Right and so they're
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not your people . It's just learning
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how to step back and say , okay
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, I'm not gonna make everybody happy , everybody's
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not going to like change , everyone's going not going
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to like to move forward . They , they say
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it , but their actions speak louder
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than their words right .
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So you say you've been dealing with some after
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COVID-19 stuff
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. So what's long COVID ? I mean , I've heard people talk
20:47
about long COVID but maybe for
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those who don't know what it is
20:52
, maybe kind of explain to us what long COVID
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is .
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Yeah , Well , it
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stinks . 200
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Symptoms , so think
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about 200 symptoms medical
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symptoms that are linked to long COVID . It's pretty much
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everything it . It affected
21:08
every organ of people's bodies
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. No two people are affected
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like there's 65
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million documented
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cases . Last I checked and
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you know there's a lot that aren't documented
21:23
. Obviously , right where there's people that have it that
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we don't even know they had COVID , and
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there's never going to be people
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that we will not be able to serve
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, like there will never run out . There's just
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so many , so many , and so many
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have it . Okay . First I want to say
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I was the extreme , I
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was a miracle that
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should not have walked out of the hospital . I know
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it . They they didn't live . People
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like me didn't live . You could
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have had COVID for three days , flew
21:52
like symptoms and still have long
21:54
COVID . So what it does is
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it take anything in your body
21:59
there or not ? There it
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catches on fire , and so
22:03
, like I mean I could name off Probably
22:06
six or seven different Diagnosis
22:08
that I got that I didn't have before
22:10
. I don't want to be attached to
22:12
them , I don't want to like focus my life
22:14
on the sickness , I want to focus
22:17
on my health , and so I always
22:19
say better is better , and to
22:21
me when people ask me
22:23
what did you do to get better , because
22:25
I knew how bad I was ? Another miracles
22:27
I got a hyperbaric I
22:29
. I was Going to
22:32
one and then a high school . Believe
22:34
it or not , I'm old , so high school was a long
22:36
time ago for me . A high school friends
22:38
brother had a whole bunch who
22:40
was selling for a really good price and we
22:42
were just moving into our house and it just that
22:45
was another miracle . It worked out where I could have it because
22:47
I needed to be in it every day and
22:50
I believe that saved my lungs , because pulmonary
22:52
fibrosis was one of my diagnosis , which
22:55
is a two to four year lifespan , and
22:58
they're better . I'm not saying I'm great
23:00
, but they're better and better is better . So
23:03
I think it's people are
23:05
getting things going wrong in their
23:07
body and they're not realizing
23:09
that it's COVID related and
23:12
I think if they realized that it's probably
23:15
from having COVID that causes
23:17
that and that is long COVID . So
23:19
long COVID is all kinds of usually
23:21
autoimmune . There's Usually
23:25
more than one autoimmune . If you have one , usually
23:27
you end up getting another . I'm
23:30
not saying we can't cure
23:32
Ourselves , we can't get better
23:34
, because we can . I've seen people with long COVID
23:36
Be at 100% . I'm
23:39
super jealous because I feel
23:41
like I do all the work and
23:44
you know , with the stress I
23:46
was under the last couple years with things
23:49
going crazy , I
23:51
think that probably deterred
23:54
me from getting better faster , I believe
23:57
you know , because stress definitely
23:59
so . I think that that's one thing we have to watch
24:01
. Stress just causes all kinds
24:03
of crazy things . But I
24:06
think if you just find in
24:08
your heart what is positive for
24:10
you , what helps you move the needle
24:12
, and do more of that , what makes you
24:14
happy , do more of that , because
24:16
can we just talk about the mental
24:19
is . I mean
24:21
, I have survivor's guilt and
24:23
I never had anxiety , I never had really
24:26
depression , I wasn't a depressed person , all
24:29
of that , I had all of that . Out
24:31
of those 200 symptoms , I could
24:33
check off 75 easily that
24:36
I've had . So , yeah
24:39
, that's just anyway . So people
24:41
just need to realize if you have some
24:44
symptoms that you didn't have before but you did get COVID
24:46
, even if you didn't test positive , that
24:48
doesn't mean you didn't have it . If you had the symptoms
24:51
, that possibly could be what it is . It's
24:53
not like oh , all of a sudden I have
24:55
a new label , I have lung COVID . Wow
24:57
, wow . Right , it's not like there's a
24:59
big prize for you . Unfortunately
25:01
there's not a big prize for you and unfortunately
25:04
that's why . So when I am in my coma
25:06
I was told to start this nonprofit
25:09
. I would have never started a nonprofit
25:11
for lung COVID . First of all , my
25:13
motto is if it's not fun , I'm not doing it Long
25:16
. Covid is not fun , this nonprofit
25:18
is not fun . So
25:20
trying to find people that , like I
25:23
mean , there's not a lot of happy in it , right , and so we
25:25
need to create that and the awareness
25:27
is the first step is just letting people know , because
25:30
doctors , they so
25:32
many people think COVID doesn't , or lung COVID
25:34
doesn't even exist . They don't know what it is
25:36
, they don't understand it . We are their statistics
25:39
and so like that's how they're
25:41
getting their science and their data is off people
25:43
like me and I'm
25:45
volunteered for anything- so
25:49
tell us about your nonprofit . The
25:52
nonprofit is called Adventure
25:54
Bucket Wish Foundation , so
25:56
it's wish , not list , and
25:59
we created it to be able to
26:01
give people experiences that they
26:03
might not be able to have . There's a lot of people that
26:05
are having to go on disability . It's
26:07
extreme . I'm on some Facebook
26:10
social media groups for lung COVID and breaks
26:12
Like I almost don't like visiting them because
26:14
it's depressing , and I think
26:17
sometimes I'm just thinking when
26:19
I'm feeling down , go read
26:21
someone else's story and you hear their story
26:23
and you're like , okay , I'm happy now , like
26:25
I don't have , I'm not like them and a
26:27
lot of it you got to remember is in the
26:29
mind . It's so we created
26:32
this just to help people mentally
26:34
, help them physically , help them spiritually
26:38
. Any way , people need to be
26:40
served , and it's
26:42
a new nonprofit and we need help
26:44
and we need money . That's
26:46
what makes it all happen , and so we did
26:48
just start a podcast . So a couple
26:51
weeks of the month we
26:53
interview people with stories and
26:55
they don't have to be just like extreme , like mine
26:57
, but I've got some really good ones . I've
26:59
got already banked up ready to
27:01
hit the hit the live button on amazing
27:05
stories that are just like heartthrobbers
27:07
. And then I do one
27:10
week we do a caretaker , so somebody
27:12
that has maybe lost somebody or
27:15
they're taking care of somebody . So we get that
27:17
other side of the story and then
27:19
another week is in the medical
27:21
, holistic , mental
27:23
, all that side . I will interview
27:26
somebody and then if there's a fifth week in the
27:28
month , it'll be on the science , just
27:30
different science things , nothing
27:33
political , nothing religious
27:35
, even though I , you
27:37
know , I mean my person that helped me is
27:39
God . But for other people , whatever
27:41
that is for them , I respect and it
27:44
doesn't hold you back . But people can go in
27:46
and volunteer people for
27:49
a wish , an experience
27:51
that we'll create for them . They can donate
27:53
right on the website . So that's
27:55
really our purpose is just to get
27:57
that awareness out and bring that hope and
27:59
bridge that gap , that that
28:02
they lost .
28:04
So what is the name of the podcast ? Where can people find
28:06
it ?
28:06
It's called hopeful horizons
28:09
podcast .
28:11
And you mentioned a website . What's the
28:13
website ?
28:14
I'm hopeful horizons . Oh
28:16
no , I'm sorry . No , the the
28:18
website is adventure bucket
28:21
wish . Okay
28:24
, and so adventurebucketwishorg
28:27
.
28:29
And it is a kind of a- .
28:31
Oh , excuse me .
28:32
No , you just have such a bubbly
28:35
personality . For someone who
28:37
dealt with COVID , it's
28:40
good to see someone like yourself who
28:42
is pouring into people
28:44
who are at different phases and dealing with different
28:46
things in our life , and it's
28:48
just inspiring to know that people like
28:50
you exist and you want to give back to
28:52
the world in such a meaningful way .
28:55
Oh , thank you . Well , my other
28:57
company that came I was working
29:00
on just before I got sick . It's a
29:02
SaaS company , so software
29:04
for the retreat industry and
29:07
there's nothing like it built . It's
29:09
like an Airbnb the RBO for
29:11
bookings , and then there's some
29:13
for hosts , for events
29:15
, and then there's some for education
29:18
, and that's
29:20
been two and a half years now in the making . But
29:22
it was interesting because I was going
29:24
to partner with somebody very big that you
29:26
would all recognize the name if I said it , so I won't
29:29
. And while I was
29:31
in my coma that was another thing I
29:33
got . Basically schooled
29:35
is what I call it . Not to do that
29:37
. That . That wasn't my best avenue
29:39
, and so I feel like it's taken
29:41
me just a little bit longer , but for
29:43
the right reasons , and it is also
29:46
now . The nonprofit
29:48
is the philanthropy piece to this company
29:50
, so it's part of it , and so it'll
29:52
be launching this quarter along with
29:54
our book , and so first
29:56
quarter we've had a lot of things going on , and
30:00
the biggest challenge with long COVID is just
30:02
managing your energy , because it
30:04
just zaps you . If you've got the fatigue
30:06
end of it , you can be fine one minute
30:09
and you crash the next , and so putting
30:11
on that I'm tough hat and just saying
30:14
, hey , push through . But sometimes pushing
30:16
through is a setback as well .
30:19
Right . So I'm curious . You mentioned
30:21
this booking company , because I'm
30:24
always looking for a booking . What's the name of that
30:26
company ?
30:27
So it is called a retreat R&R . You
30:31
won't find it yet because it's not live . We
30:34
have different phases we're bringing out , but phase one
30:36
is just about ready so you will be able to book
30:38
. But obviously we've got to get
30:40
venues . So this will be
30:43
for , like , corporate retreat , yoga
30:45
retreat , any kind of a
30:47
space where a group can go . It
30:50
will be for them , which Airbnb
30:52
and VRBO don't cater to . What we're catering
30:55
to . They look at as a retreats
30:58
more of a party , so they don't really
31:00
like having . That's not their business
31:02
model or they would have done it already . But
31:05
yeah , people retreat leaders that
31:07
book retreats . That's
31:09
our main people that we work with
31:11
and they're going to love it . It's going to be amazing
31:14
.
31:15
That's great . So , because you have such
31:17
a hopeful personality , I'm curious
31:19
if you had a message of hope to give to
31:21
people who are listening today , what
31:23
would that be ?
31:27
The biggest lesson I think I learned was
31:30
to just love people where
31:32
they're at , because we're
31:34
always going to find people in life that we
31:36
aren't going to agree with . And
31:38
that was my big message
31:40
in my NDE was with
31:43
hearts . Really , it kept showing
31:46
me , forming in
31:48
this like fog , and forming hearts
31:50
, and the hearts kept going to the light
31:52
and I knew everything
31:55
really just centers around love and I think
31:57
that was a big lesson for me
32:00
, because sometimes we can be
32:02
a little judgmental , not just on ourselves
32:05
but other people mostly , and I think
32:07
if we just step back and realize everybody's
32:09
got their own journey and everybody's
32:11
got their own challenges . We don't always know what
32:13
they are and we don't need to know what they
32:15
are , we just need to love them where they
32:17
are .
32:19
That's great . So in
32:21
this season of your life , what
32:23
are you most excited about ?
32:27
Oh gosh . So I'm
32:29
more excited about life
32:31
right now just because two
32:35
years ago I couldn't . I mean , I had all
32:37
these startup companies . I always was a happy
32:39
person . I loved mostly
32:41
everything I was always doing in business
32:43
or whatever activities , whatever
32:46
. But I couldn't really
32:48
tell you like I was writing books and speaking
32:51
and traveling and loving life . But I
32:53
couldn't really tell you like , is this it
32:55
? Is this my legacy ? Is this my
32:57
passion ? I couldn't answer that and
33:00
now I know I got those answers
33:02
in my NDE and I know that
33:04
path was laid out very clear to me and
33:07
I'm on it and it's taken
33:09
me on a few detours and a little bit
33:11
of a ride the last couple years and
33:14
right now it's like bigger and better
33:16
than ever and I see the end result
33:19
and nothing is going to stop it . I
33:21
mean I might get some more detours , but
33:23
the right people are going to show up . They
33:25
have too along the way
33:27
and I just think , just knowing
33:29
, like my book I have 13 books
33:32
that I'm part of and
33:34
this book is it for me it's
33:37
like actually has a purpose and it has the
33:39
stories all weaved into it and the
33:41
whys and what
33:44
fors and I'm going to be really proud of
33:46
it , and so that's kind
33:48
of what I have to look forward to . This is going to be a great year
33:50
.
33:52
Once you kind of alluded to my , my favorite question
33:54
what do
33:56
you want your legacy to be ?
34:00
Really I want it just to help
34:02
as many people and serve as many people as
34:05
I can . And I feel like with
34:07
the combination of that
34:09
retreat software I mean , it's a
34:11
$93 billion industry
34:14
. So there's no reason why we
34:16
can't find so many people and
34:18
fill so many gaps in business
34:20
and pleasure and
34:22
retreats for
34:24
that matter , and just help as many
34:27
people as we can . And I feel like
34:29
with the nonprofit it's going to do the same
34:31
. It's a limited . Avatar
34:33
is people with long COVID , but
34:36
with 65 million 65
34:38
million , sorry million people
34:40
having it , we're not going to run out . So
34:43
I think that's the latest to know that I'm
34:45
a changemaker and that I care about people
34:47
and I want them to succeed .
34:51
That's awesome . Is there anything I haven't
34:53
asked you that I should have asked you ?
34:57
I don't know . I probably
34:59
told you way more than I wanted to know . No
35:05
, you did a great job . You're
35:08
a good question , ask her .
35:10
I appreciate that . So
35:13
what can people find you
35:15
? The best place to find you and what you're doing
35:17
, and connect with you on social media .
35:21
Well , my Facebook's just it's
35:23
under it's actually under Holly and
35:25
Porter , and
35:27
then my website is
35:29
holliportercom
35:32
, and then
35:34
we've got the adventurebucketwishorg
35:37
as well , and
35:39
so all those will have connections . If you get to
35:41
any of them , they should all connect you to the right
35:43
places , if we did
35:45
it right .
35:47
Good . So do you have a title for the book that's
35:49
coming out , or is that still in works ?
35:52
Hmm , Do I want to say okay
35:54
, I have a working title . Let's
35:57
not put the stamp of approval 100% . Okay
36:00
, let me think , Hang on a minute . It's
36:03
called Retreat Forward . And
36:06
then my journey from NDE
36:08
to CEO . Wow
36:11
, cool , do you like it ? I
36:13
do like it . That's our
36:15
working title . Yeah , I don't know , we'll see .
36:18
Yeah , when I wrote my book , my title changed a couple
36:20
of times too . Yeah , one just
36:22
stuck , it was okay , that's it .
36:26
Yeah Well , I don't know if a lot of people understand what an
36:28
NDE is , but that really is
36:30
what changed everything for me , and
36:32
I think it's . We did the story and
36:35
so yeah .
36:38
Well , holly , blessings on the work you're doing
36:40
and the business you're starting , especially the
36:42
nonprofit , to be there for people
36:44
along COVID , and just
36:47
keep that bubbly personality that you have
36:49
and spirit of hopefulness as
36:51
you continue to pour into people's lives
36:54
.
36:54
Well , thank you and thanks for what you're doing . It
36:57
makes a difference .
36:58
Thank you
37:05
.
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