0:00

moms turn babies into boys, but it

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is the dads that turn those boys

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into men. Hey

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guys, welcome to the Bedros Coolian show. I want

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to talk to you about something that I feel

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is very important and that is our kids. This

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nation, this generation that's coming up is dealing with

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more anxiety, more depression, and

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a higher level of low

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self-esteem than any generation ever.

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So I want to talk to you about what it

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takes to raise great kids. And I'm not saying that

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I've been able to raise great amazing kids. My kids

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are awesome. I love them. Andrew and Chloe to me

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are the, just the apple of

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my eye. They are good human beings

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and they have great friends. And I

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want to let you know through my

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experience and through experiences that I've seen

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other people raise their kids on what

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I think the problem is

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and what I think the solution can

1:08

be to raising great kids. So let's

1:10

get started. Now, listen,

1:12

here's the deal. If, if,

1:14

if our goal is to leave our

1:18

kids in a better state

1:20

than we were raised in as

1:23

parents, that means we have

1:25

to do things differently, right? We have

1:27

to do things differently. And so it's

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not just about how we raise our sons and

1:31

daughters, but it's also about

1:33

how we raise ourselves. And

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you may come from trauma. You may come

1:38

from abuse. You may come from a low

1:40

income family. You may come from getting bullied,

1:42

whatever it is hurt

1:44

people hurt people. And so if you are

1:46

someone that comes from trauma, from

1:48

hurt, from adversity, and

1:50

you haven't healed yourself, odds

1:53

are you are going to pass that hurt along

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to your children. So thing number one, and I'm

1:57

not going to go deeper into this other than

2:00

telling you that if you haven't healed

2:02

yourself, consider

2:04

working with a therapist. Consider

2:06

reading books on stoicism. Consider

2:09

watching, going back and watching the rest of

2:11

the episodes of the Bedroschulean show and

2:14

really consume the stuff that's about

2:16

self-mastery, developing yourself into a better

2:18

human, overcoming your pain, your trauma,

2:21

your adversities and rewriting your story

2:23

because when you do, you become

2:25

a better parent. You

2:27

become a better role model and example to your

2:29

kids, which is something that we're going to

2:31

talk about here. So let's get started. Now, like I

2:33

said, I think I've got two amazing kids. I've been blessed

2:36

with two amazing kids. We've done a great

2:38

job raising them as a family and, well, quite

2:40

honestly, I want to share with you what

2:43

has worked for us and

2:45

what has worked for many of my friends who

2:47

have great amazing kids that are servants

2:50

to humanity, that carry themselves well,

2:52

that have high self-worth,

2:55

that aren't struggling with anxiety

2:57

and depression all the time

2:59

and aren't necessarily sucking social

3:02

media bandwidth day and

3:04

night or stuck playing video games

3:06

left and right because

3:08

as a parent, I know you feel that.

3:10

You're like, well, I want to make my

3:12

kids happy. I want them to be happy,

3:14

but there's this fine balance between making your

3:17

kids happy and then hurting

3:19

them by spoiling them, right? If you want

3:21

to make them happy, you might want to

3:23

create structure. One of the

3:25

greatest compliments my son Andrew ever gave

3:28

us as parents was

3:30

that he said, thank you for

3:32

making me continue to go

3:34

on to guitar lessons. When

3:37

he was a tiny little puppy, maybe five,

3:39

six years old, we got him into guitar

3:41

lessons. He wasn't a big fan of

3:43

it. We encouraged him and

3:45

made him go anyway. And

3:48

today, not only does he play the guitar well,

3:50

he plays the piano well, he's picking up the

3:52

drums, he's writing music. He's

3:55

a very talented, talented

3:58

young man. Same with me. my daughter, right?

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Put them both in sports, expose

4:03

them to music, talk to them

4:05

like they're adults, set expectations, set standards.

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And so that is what we're going to

4:10

talk about here. Before we break down like,

4:12

okay, what's the difference between raising a daughter

4:14

and raising a son? There's like a

4:16

core foundational thing that you,

4:19

mom and dad, need to do. So

4:22

we talked about you first raising yourself,

4:24

developing yourself into the best possible version

4:26

of who you are, right? And that

4:28

is overcoming your pain, overcoming your fears,

4:30

overcoming your doubts, overcoming the trauma,

4:33

healing from past hurts. Because

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without you being whole, how can you pour into

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your kids? What you're going to pour into

4:40

them is what you already are. Anxious,

4:43

depressed, fearful, overweight,

4:46

right? Low income, always

4:48

struggling to make ends meet. You

4:50

don't want to pass along a curse. What

4:53

you want to do is leave them

4:55

better than you were left by

4:57

the generation that raised you and I. I

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think that's how I kind of always viewed it

5:02

is I'm going to raise my kids.

5:04

I'm going to pour into my kids in a

5:06

way that my mom and dad never poured into me.

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And this is not a knock on them. They

5:11

just didn't know any better. They did the best

5:14

they could, my parents, your parents, did the best

5:16

they could with what they had. And

5:18

if what they had was addictions to alcohol,

5:21

to drugs, maybe they were

5:23

just crazy, maybe they never healed from

5:25

their own emotional baggage and

5:27

they poured that into us, well guess what? We

5:30

had to heal first. I had to heal first

5:32

before I could start pouring into my kids, right?

5:34

In fact, I had to heal while pouring into

5:37

my kids. And there's plenty of times I can

5:39

tell you where I've had to

5:41

apologize to my son and daughter for

5:43

being a certain way with them being

5:45

loud, being angry, one time smashing an

5:48

iPad out of anger, right?

5:51

Like that was uncalled for. Like what did

5:53

that demonstrate? What did I just role model

5:55

to them? That it's okay to lose control

5:57

of your emotions and smash an iPad?

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pad out of anger because they

6:03

didn't listen to me. And

6:05

so it's not, it doesn't make me feel

6:07

good to say this, but I realized in

6:09

the process of helping them develop, I

6:12

had to speed up my self development as

6:14

well. Because no one

6:16

wants to be a hypocrite. You

6:19

don't want to be a hypocrite and say, well do as I

6:21

say, not as I do. Like

6:23

if you're vaping, if you're smoking

6:25

weed, if you're drinking alcohol, and then you're

6:27

telling your kids not to vape, not to

6:29

smoke weed, not to drink alcohol. If

6:32

you're eating shit over consuming caffeine,

6:34

if you're not working out,

6:36

but then telling them to eat clean and

6:40

to exercise daily, but

6:42

you're a little tubby jelly roll of

6:45

a mom or a dad, your

6:48

words are never as loud as

6:50

your example of

6:52

your physique, of the lifestyle that

6:54

you live. And so you got

6:56

to understand that it starts with the core foundation.

6:58

The core foundation is this. Number one,

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you've got to set values.

7:04

What are the core values that you and

7:06

your family want to live by, right? You

7:09

got to get together with your spouse and set

7:12

the core values. Like how do we

7:14

want to live? What do we want to be known for?

7:16

Like what are the fundamental

7:19

truths about this family? And

7:22

if you have core values, that becomes your

7:24

true north, right? Like for example, you're

7:26

going to, let's say, hey, we're never going to have alcohol in the house.

7:29

Great. That is a great core value.

7:31

Hey, we're always going to go to bed by 10

7:33

o'clock, teaching the kids to go to bed by 10

7:35

o'clock. Like, hey, we're always going

7:37

to exercise no matter what. Teaching the

7:40

kids that they're going to exercise, right? We're always

7:42

going to have clean food and not processed food

7:44

that are in bags and shit in the house.

7:47

Because if it's processed food and little packages

7:49

and bags that can last forever, it's probably

7:51

full of poison that's slowly going

7:53

to kill their bodies and

7:55

their health. Right?

7:57

We're not going to go through the Starbucks drive-through. and pick

8:00

up 2,000 calories of

8:02

high sugar, high caffeine, and

8:04

high fat, and then tell our

8:07

kids, make sure you eat your fruit at school. You're

8:09

hypocritical if you do that. So there

8:11

are core values that you have to live by. There

8:14

are core values in terms of how you're going to carry yourself.

8:17

Are you going to go to church? What is the

8:19

faith that you're going to have? Is there a belief system you're

8:21

going to carry? Is there are

8:23

you going to open doors and say please and thank yous? So

8:26

once you develop your core values for your family,

8:28

you also have to set the standard. Set

8:31

the standard of living those core values. Like

8:33

you, mom and dad, have to be the example

8:36

of living those core values. There's

8:38

no other way to say it. The do as

8:40

I say, not as I do thing doesn't

8:42

work. You're a hypocrite. You're

8:44

a hypocrite if you do that. So once you

8:46

have your core values and you set the standard by you living

8:49

that life, then the next step is you

8:51

can set the expectations. Because

8:53

if we have the core values and

8:55

I'm actually living that standard of

8:58

core values, I can now expect you, set

9:01

expectations, I can expect you as my

9:03

child to live that,

9:05

right? I'm going to demonstrate what

9:07

a healthy relationship is. I'm going to demonstrate what

9:09

love is. I'm going to hug them. I remember

9:12

a long time ago, Chloe was a little puppy

9:14

and she got into a little phase where she

9:16

was giving me the sideways hug. I

9:19

said, Chloe, we always hug belly to belly.

9:22

Belly to belly. I'm like, bring it in, bring

9:24

it in. And

9:26

oh, okay dad, right? I have to demonstrate

9:28

it. It's one thing what

9:30

they can learn a lot from their friends. They can learn

9:32

a lot from school. But if you let that carry into

9:34

the household because you're like, well, I don't want to rock

9:37

the boat. I don't want to

9:39

make them unhappy. I want to always get

9:41

my kids approval and validation. Sometimes

9:43

you have to lay the rule down. Sometimes

9:48

you have to lay the rule down and go, hey, these are the

9:50

expectations. Here are the core values.

9:52

I live by these standards, right?

9:55

And then I expect this of you, the

9:57

expectations. Once you have those, You've

10:00

got the foundation. So

10:02

what are some of the ways that

10:04

you can maybe start leading your daughter?

10:06

So let's talk about the daughters first and then

10:09

we'll get into the sons after. And

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a lot of this is transferable to sons and daughters

10:14

but I kind of broke it down to sections. How

10:16

about this? Be involved in

10:18

their lives. Actually take interest. And

10:21

men I'm talking to specifically right now,

10:24

actually take interest. Like yeah,

10:26

but they're into dolls and they're into kid stuff, like

10:28

girl stuff and I don't know it, figure it out.

10:31

Pretend like that's

10:33

okay. That's okay. Take

10:36

interest in their music. Take

10:38

interest in their toys. Take

10:41

interest in their school. Take interest in

10:43

their friend group because to them

10:45

their friend group is their world, right?

10:48

Like remember the friend's names. Remember what they're

10:50

into. Like yeah, but I'm so tired.

10:53

Shut the fuck up. Try and remember

10:55

the stats of your favorite athlete on

10:57

a football team, basketball team, baseball

10:59

team. You know the stats, you know their fucking

11:02

number, you know how much they get paid, you

11:04

know how long their fucking contract is. Don't tell

11:06

them you have a hard time remembering your kid's

11:08

friend's names and what they're into. You

11:12

are not just prioritizing. That's the problem. You

11:14

have a priority issue. You don't have a memory

11:16

issue. You have a priority issue, right?

11:19

So start getting involved in their lives.

11:22

Take interest in what they are interested

11:24

in. Number one. Number two. When

11:26

Chloe was a little puppy, we

11:28

started going on dates. We

11:31

started going on dates and that kind of set

11:33

the expectation of what she can expect when

11:36

she is older. Now she's 16 and

11:38

she goes on a date with a young man. Like

11:40

she just expects him to open the door. She

11:43

expects him to be a gentleman. She

11:45

expects him to say please and thank you.

11:48

And she carries herself like a

11:50

lady, right? Which leads to the next thing. We've

11:54

taught her traditional

11:56

values. That

11:58

Doesn't mean that she's a damn. When the stress like

12:01

my daughter's a great athlete. Very

12:04

intelligent, witty, Smart.

12:06

And sharp as a whip. And

12:09

can absolutely handle herself. But.

12:12

Both my son and my daughter terry

12:15

Traditional values. And I

12:17

love that about them. Like.

12:19

They are a rare breed. right?

12:23

And. Ever since they were puppies. When we go

12:25

out to a restaurant, his family's. People.

12:27

Would come up to. To

12:29

us his parents and be like wow you know

12:32

without your kids there and high chairs would I

12:34

be loud and obnoxious and screamed has read a

12:36

nice restaurants were shocked he brought into a nice

12:38

restaurant but matter at the gender your kids were

12:40

so cool there were so polite and have to

12:42

put any I pads or I phones in front

12:45

of them. not a once. Because

12:47

we were engaged with them. And

12:50

we continued that engagement. Till

12:53

this day. Chloe. Sixteen Andrews,

12:55

eighteen. And That engagement.

12:57

Continues, So he and I still don't

13:00

date nights rights and that's important. You

13:02

also have to encourage and model the

13:04

traditional values that you want because if

13:07

you're asking that of them, but you're

13:09

not literally modeling traditional values that, how

13:11

are they going to see it in

13:14

action, right? And it's

13:16

model that what a healthy relationship

13:18

is. And if he

13:20

can instill confidence in them, And

13:22

instill confidence. Teach them the stack

13:24

wins. Like teach him

13:27

to stack wins. I love

13:29

seeing my kids learning to drive,

13:31

learning to get a job. For

13:34

themselves accountable to a time. You.

13:36

Know. Getting into sports

13:39

music, Challenging. Themselves.

13:42

By. Chloe just got our license and she's

13:44

already driving herself. the places. I

13:47

can be saying this in the pure carbs

13:49

here in Chino Hills please be called my

13:51

daughter but so driver friends around make. She's.

13:54

got that responsibility to drive her friends

13:56

around and know she's not quite old

13:58

enough to be driving her friends around

14:00

according to the California state law but

14:03

she drives her friends around. I love the

14:05

fact that she feels confident enough that we've

14:07

instilled that in her, right? And

14:09

she also has the responsibility of

14:13

what that is. Like hey, you've got other

14:15

little lives in your car. It's not just

14:17

your life so you can't be reckless. If

14:20

you're willing to do that, they will gain confidence.

14:22

They will gain self-esteem. And

14:25

if you're willing to draw the line at certain

14:27

places with them, yes, be friendly. Yes,

14:29

go on a date. Yes,

14:31

rough house with them. Yes, I have rough house

14:34

with my daughter and my son. Hell,

14:37

my daughter, when me, Andrew, and Chloe would

14:39

wrestle on our bed in

14:42

our master bedroom, I

14:44

think at the time, Andrew was

14:46

probably five or six, which would make Chloe

14:49

around four years old, Chloe would get the pillow and try

14:51

and smother me. Just like put it on my face and

14:53

try and smother my face and I have to fight my

14:55

way out. And

14:57

that was such a cool thing because she knew that if

14:59

she did this, the dad would do that and

15:03

now, brother's gonna jump in and save me. And

15:06

sometimes it was a two on one against

15:08

me. Sometimes it was a two on

15:10

one against Chloe. Sometimes it was a two on one against Andrew.

15:13

But at the end, bumped with

15:15

bruises and all that, we

15:18

had this fun, exciting experience.

15:21

I never once treated Chloe differently because she's

15:23

a girl. Yes,

15:26

I took her out on dates. Yes, her

15:29

mom and I taught her how

15:33

to carry herself as a lady, the

15:36

expectations she should have from

15:38

a young man. And

15:41

if that young man does not meet those

15:43

standards and expectations to walk away, to call

15:45

me, call Andrew, we'll come pick her up.

15:49

And it's such a good feeling to see that

15:51

confidence in her, to see that she doesn't live

15:53

in a state of anxiety, a state of depression,

15:55

that she's not popping pills. And so I'm telling

15:57

you as a parent, and you're like, whoa, what

15:59

if we're not together. What

16:02

if me and the spouse are not

16:04

together and we're divorced? Guess what? You

16:07

may not be able to control what your

16:09

spouse is teaching her. You

16:12

certainly can control what you are teaching her, what

16:14

you are role modeling to her. And

16:16

you don't have to throw the spouse under the

16:18

bus. You just have to be a shining example

16:20

of good humanity, right? You've

16:23

heard me talk about control what you can,

16:25

cope with what you can control, and concentrate

16:27

on what counts. Well, if

16:29

you want to raise great kids, control

16:33

what you can. Control the fact of what

16:35

can you teach? What examples can you live?

16:37

How do you keep your apartment or your house when

16:40

your daughter or your son comes over, right?

16:42

What is the new relationship that you're in like?

16:46

Do you demonstrate love, patience,

16:48

care, humor, compassion,

16:52

empathy? You

16:55

can still model even if your

16:57

spouse doesn't. That's

17:00

very important, you know. And so

17:02

don't for a moment use a divorce as

17:04

a cop-out of why you can't

17:06

be there for your child. Now,

17:09

what about the sons? Well, I'm

17:12

a big believer in Jack Donovan's book. Jack

17:15

Donovan has a great book entitled The

17:17

Way of Men. And

17:20

everything that I shared here about daughters really

17:22

applies to your sons as well. Put

17:24

them in sports, put them in

17:26

combatives, make sure that

17:29

they understand music, play

17:31

some kind of music, get

17:33

involved in their life, take interest in it.

17:36

And arguably, I'd have to admit that I have more

17:39

things in common with Andrew than I

17:41

have with Chloe. Like

17:43

when Andrew was probably four or five years old, I put

17:45

a ping pong paddle in his hand. I was like, son,

17:47

you're going to learn to play ping pong. It's fun. And

17:52

even since he was a puppy, and he'll tell you the stories,

17:54

if you ever see Andrew, he tells a story. He's like, I

17:57

know dad didn't take it easy on me when

17:59

I was young. Because I never

18:01

really let him win and now he

18:03

beats me all the time Like he

18:05

would get upset as a kid and cry and you're probably thinking

18:07

like Baderos. That was shitty No,

18:09

it was like son. We're gonna play another game. Maybe you'll win this

18:11

next one. So we're gonna play another game Maybe you'll win this next

18:13

one and he's got older. He got

18:15

better. He had better hand-eye coordination. He could serve

18:17

better He could return better

18:21

He now regularly beats me at ping-pong and

18:23

we're both damn good ping-pong players also

18:26

known as table tennis So

18:29

I share that with you because Whether

18:32

we're one-wheeling we're playing ping-pong. We're surfing.

18:34

We're lifting together. We're doing jiu-jitsu together.

18:36

I Want

18:39

to be as involved in his

18:41

life and in my daughter's life is possible Taking

18:44

interest in their music but then going hey you want to

18:46

hear the music of my generation Like

18:49

the very first thing we do when we walk into the gym

18:51

BK strength my gym together is like

18:53

hey whether it's mere Chloe or or

18:55

me and Andrew Do

18:58

you want to play your music or do you want me to play my music

19:01

on the Bluetooth, right? And

19:03

I'll introduce them to my music and I'll tell

19:05

them about the history of that music whether it's

19:07

Tupac or Dre or cube Right

19:10

or Wu Tang and then they'll

19:12

introduce me to their music the mumble rap the weird

19:14

shit that I can't understand But they'll explain that to

19:16

me and I still can't understand it, but I can

19:18

find some beauty in it. I can

19:21

and When you

19:23

do there's a commonality a connection and they

19:25

feel respected and when your child feels respected

19:27

and heard and that is the magic Here

19:31

they need to feel respected. They need to

19:33

feel heard. They need to be given boundaries

19:35

They need to be given standards and expectations.

19:38

And so yes, sometimes you have to be firm with them

19:41

You can't always expect them to be happy because if

19:43

you are then maybe you're gonna let them go to

19:46

bed without brushing their teeth No,

19:48

you're gonna brush your teeth. Even if you're gonna cry about

19:50

it, right? You're

19:52

gonna have to say please and thank you to people you're

19:54

gonna have to not have a temper tantrum

19:57

It's a grocery store like there's expectations that

19:59

are needed and there's punishments for it if

20:02

you don't meet those standards and expectations. But

20:05

also, when you do meet those standards and

20:07

expectations, look how

20:09

involved I'm going to be in your

20:11

life. And you have to

20:13

be the constant, mom and dad. You have to

20:15

be the constant. Our

20:18

kids are going to have ebb and

20:20

flow in their energy. It doesn't matter

20:22

if they're tiny or if they're teens. They're

20:25

going to have an ebb and flow in their mood, in

20:27

their energy. And if you

20:29

can think back to the time when you were young, you

20:32

were a prepubescent, or

20:34

you were a teenager, you

20:36

probably thought your parents were stupid. You

20:39

probably had good days with your parents. You probably had

20:41

bad days with your parents. You probably took some shit

20:44

out on your parents for no reason, just like our

20:46

kids take shit out on us for no reason. In

20:49

their head, in their mind, in their emotions, they have a reason.

20:52

But to us, we're like, what the fuck did I do wrong? You

20:54

have to be the constant nevertheless. You are the

20:57

adult. You are the example. You

20:59

are the example. And if you can

21:01

do that, then you're

21:03

literally helping them wire their brain

21:05

into being consistent, even

21:07

when their emotions are

21:10

being flowing. As

21:13

I talked to you about Jack Donovan's book,

21:16

The Way of Men. There's

21:18

also another book out there, and I forget the

21:20

author's name, Robert Something. The

21:23

book is called Raising a Modern Day Night. Really

21:28

both of these books talk about a rite of

21:31

passage for young men. But

21:33

in Jack Donovan's book, he says, a man

21:37

is forged by these four things, strength,

21:41

mental strength, physical strength, emotional

21:43

strength, resiliency, right? Strength.

21:48

The courage to take

21:50

a risk. The courage to defend those

21:53

they love. The courage to

21:55

stand up for what's right. Honor.

22:01

Are they honorable? Do they have core

22:03

values? Do they have a great character?

22:05

Do they carry integrity? Are they loyal

22:08

to their fellow man, to their tribe man? And

22:12

of course mastery. Mastery.

22:15

Do they have a skill that they bring to the

22:17

tribe, to the community? Or

22:20

are they just mooches extracting value

22:22

and useless to the tribe? And

22:26

I share that with you because it is our

22:28

responsibility as dads to teach

22:30

our sons this. Now I've said this before and

22:32

this pisses off a lot of the feminist women

22:35

out there. But

22:37

moms turn babies into boys. But

22:40

it is the dads that turn

22:42

those boys into men. And

22:45

gentlemen, it is your responsibility,

22:47

dads. It is your responsibility

22:49

and duty to instill honor,

22:51

strength, courage, mastery, core values

22:54

into your son. But it is your

22:56

responsibility to give him a rite of passage into

22:58

manhood. It is not the

23:01

moms responsibility. The moms responsibility is to nurture

23:03

and love and raise that baby into a

23:05

boy. But it is your responsibility to turn

23:07

that boy into a man. And

23:11

if you absolve that to someone else, the school

23:13

system, you absolve that

23:15

to somebody else, then

23:17

they will go and become passive

23:19

aggressive little

23:22

bitches. You

23:25

know that to be true. I

23:28

think in many ways today, the

23:30

modern society, we have a more

23:32

difficult time raising sons who

23:34

are providers, protectors,

23:38

who are confident and capable, who

23:40

can be savage and servant. And

23:45

then that's why you see so many girls

23:47

and women stepping into

23:49

their masculine energy and

23:51

then complaining that there are no good men left. Yes,

23:55

I will agree that a large

23:58

contingency of women out there are. being

24:00

brainwashed by social media, by

24:05

television, movies, the

24:08

news. They're being

24:10

brainwashed. Universities are

24:12

brainwashing them into feminism. You can do anything a

24:14

man can. No, no

24:17

you can't baby girl. You can't.

24:20

That's the reality. Go watch a

24:22

few Jordan Peterson movies or podcasts

24:24

or shows. You can't. Just

24:29

like a man can't do everything a woman

24:31

can. I know there's a pregnant emoji, pregnant

24:33

male emoji on the iPhone. I know it

24:35

exists and therefore you're fooled into thinking with

24:37

your soft mushy brain that

24:39

men can get pregnant but you can't.

24:42

Can't do everything a woman can. I

24:45

cannot nurture my

24:48

children when

24:51

they are hurt emotionally

24:55

like their mother can. A mother

24:57

has such a gentle heart, gentle

25:01

touch, gentle words that

25:04

a dad simply cannot muster up. And

25:09

so if you understand that then

25:11

you have to understand that it is our job to

25:13

raise strong men, courageous men,

25:16

confident men, honorable men, men

25:19

who can develop mastery. But it is

25:21

also our job, moms

25:24

and dads, to raise women.

25:28

Like 10 of these young

25:30

girls who have been brainwashed by

25:32

the feminist movement and therefore hate their life. That's

25:34

the weird thing is they're brainwashed by the feminist

25:37

movement and then they hate their lives because they've

25:39

stepped into this masculine role that they don't want,

25:41

this masculine energy and they're looking for masculine

25:44

men but when they get masculine men

25:46

they they don't know how to be

25:48

because they're so stuck in that masculine

25:50

energy. They're afraid to let go the steering

25:52

wheel and hand it over to this

25:54

guy who says I truly confidently

25:56

want to lead myself and you as a

25:59

family unit. And

26:01

it's so sad it breaks my heart because they'll find

26:03

what they're looking for but they don't know how to

26:05

let go of control and step into their natural

26:08

feminine energy Because

26:11

if you did That

26:13

man will feel the confidence

26:16

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26:19

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29:21

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