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Okay. Yeah. Before we get into this episode, we should
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say this is a, this is not one you should
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listen to with your kids in the room. That
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out of the way. Time for a gang bang. I
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might sit this one out, Jesse. I don't know if I really
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want to be in the same room with room with you during
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a, during your birthday gang bang. So this is a post.
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I mean, she tweeted about it too, but it's
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a post on the sub stack of former bar
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pod guest and genuine friend of the pod. Ayla.
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Genuine freak. And I say that with love
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genuine freak of the pod. You
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have people have to read the full post. I'm worried
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too many people are just going to get the Twitter
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version. The post is amazing. So it's
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titled my birthday gang bang, a slutistical
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breakdown. And
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it begins. She
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is having to get to this. She's an
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amazing troll without knowing she's a troll. Here's
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the first Katie, just read the first part.
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Do not reveal the source of the quote
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till the end. So this is a, is
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it, what's it called an epigram? Epigraph. That's the,
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yeah. In italics quote, I learned
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that courage was not the absence of fear,
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but the triumph over it, the brave man
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is not he who does not feel afraid,
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but he, who conquers that fear Nelson Mandela.
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Jesse, is it not our
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Nelson Nelson Mandela when you really think
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about it? We could like,
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we could just stop the episode there. My
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birthday gang mate has a logistical breakdown,
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Nelson Mandela quote. That is like the
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basic format for 2024 content. Oh,
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it's so good. This was the first
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thing I saw when I woke up this morning and
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I've been in a good mood ever since, which generally
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reading about gang bangs would not be my preferred
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way to start the morning. But when Ayla does
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it for some reason, it happens to be hilarious.
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But it's like, it's hard to tell what it's
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intentional and what's not. And so
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this post is she analyzes
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everything in the most autistic,
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statistical, slutistical way. You
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explain it. Well, I was gonna, I was
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gonna relegate this point to the end, but the
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autism is too important to leap to the
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end. I think
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Ayla's view is she might be autistic.
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She's not sure. She has
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some of the... I'm sure. I
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was at the gang bang. I'm sure. They
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gave everyone an autism test before the
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gang bang and they all passed. She's
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a perfectly nice person. You can absolutely have a conversation
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with her. She is a little bit detached
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and weird and she writes and talks
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about things in this way where she
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doesn't really care, doesn't seem to care that
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much that people might think she's weird. She
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writes about how much she poops and about how
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little she showers. Actually that was my
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one question and the post is paywalled at the end.
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I don't know if she actually
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answers this. Every
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year she posts a breakdown. She analyzes everything
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that she does in a day, a month,
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a week, a year. Yes, it'll be like
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37. I shit 37 times in June. I
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showered seven times in June because she really
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does not shower very often. I am desperate
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to know. Wait, she said 37 times in June. That
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would be a lot. No, she shits 37
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times in June. How many times do you
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shower? Seven. Oh, just seven. Yeah,
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that's not enough. No, especially if
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you're fucking that much. Yes. As
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she does. I'm desperate
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to know if she used one of
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her monthly showers either before or after
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the gangbang. And.
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If you know it, know, tell and. I
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am. Is it the top of
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this is a seizure I need Or it
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it from the outside or might see much?
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I'm fearless in my sexual adventures like I'm
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a confident slot running wildly from penis penis.
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This is into at all all the risks
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in my life. other sexual choices I've made
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that have a vote, societies blessing are mates
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I've done. Despite his fears, he sheer terror,
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I'm not immune to the heavy handed social
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narratives that I must be damaging myself some
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house that no man will ever want me,
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that slots are deeply that. Those. Nutters
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made me sees with fear is just.
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I figure the seer must be unfounded.
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When I salmon myself, I can't find
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any actually bad thing. There's no inherent
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badness openess enter my vagina us So
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I force myself to move forward into
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the dead of Forty Two Mad all
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just as often as them. So bathrobes.
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Well, I've screwed a big eternally sir.
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Yes, there was identical bathrobes. Disc.
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A big had a uniform Tt can you
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describe it. So it's a bathrobe
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on the back at says I
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went to the ala birthday gang
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bang and all i got was
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this bathrobe and also to fuck
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a porn star. Can you imagine
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finding out and your. New. Boyfriends Closet
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assists. This post contains a lot
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of us actual game big details
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ala is nothing if not data
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driven. he has evolved. They started
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their search for day when participants
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was some sort of brief online
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survey and it led to eighty
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three brief screening interviews. Td
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to do badges, us interviews, and three people
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for anything even. For a job we would
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say now now we would idea. Of. That's
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why we just rely on things like
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race and religion to determine who we
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hire us further. Somoza, the South he's
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exposed. They did job Std testing and
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all that. They also too common sense.
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precautions. Quote everyone. Everybody used condoms. Everybody
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was required to switch out condoms between
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women and discard any condoms of the
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actually try to put on backwards first.
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Moved in. The women the reason there were
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multiple women there and besides is ill. As
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because she had slavery is was a
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very low plans. Yeah, again, it's
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hard to tell the story in order because there's
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so much I want to get to, but there
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was a group of women there for free who
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were just fluffers. There
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were consent rules, so the women weren't just free
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game to any man who wanted to do stuff
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to them, but as Ayla
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waited to have the train run on her, the
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fluffers were just there to help keep the men
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hard. Okay, Katie, I'm going
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to force you to read this next paragraph just because
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it will make you feel icky. The
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event itself is pretty simple. We had the doors open
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in the evening for a half hour. You couldn't get
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in before or afterwards. We checked
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IDs and sent them to the code check where they stripped
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all their clothes and possessions, put them in a bag marked
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with a numbered label. Okay, so so far
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it's like, is this Auschwitz or a gay?
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Close. We gave
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them name tags on which they wrote their
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name and bag number and also to differentiate
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the identical Ayla's B-Day branded bathrobes from each
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other. We then held an opening
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circle where we went over the rules, behavioral norms
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and expectations. One of the organizers
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made everyone solemnly swear to do their best
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to come and only the birthday girl as
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opposed to any of the fluffers. Thank you
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for that, Jesse. Thank you for that, Katie. As
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you would expect from Ayla Post, there are a lot
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of statistics. The total cost of the
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Orgy was $3,335, which honestly seems like a bargain, given the number
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of the logistics, the lube alone. The
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only people who got paid were the security guards.
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Okay, it could be there's
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an underground economy of Orgy security
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guards. That would be less funny. Well, it's
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the Bay, so probably. It probably is.
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It'd be more funny if this was a security
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guard who was like usually dispatched to stand outside
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a Chick-fil-A in the Tenderloin. The
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Walgreens. But then someone's like, I've got a
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sort of weird assignment for you. Are
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you familiar with Ayla? The
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irony is this would be such a better
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and safer gig than regarding any
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store in certain neighborhoods in San
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Francisco. A bunch of dorks who get
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interviewed to take place in a gang bank, including
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one virgin. That
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was, well we're gonna get to that. So there
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was no entry fee, this was another statistic, but
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there was an optional donation. 19%
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of participants didn't donate anything. Can you imagine
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showing up for a gangbang empty-handed, the etiquette
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breach that is? I mean seriously, what would Ann Landers
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have to say about this? Here's just
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one part that I found just as interesting as
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Ayla did. Quote, we had
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way more fluffer interest than anticipated. By
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the end, we were turning away women
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trying to get in, which I think
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more women than you might think actually
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do want to participate in gangbang sluttery,
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they might just not admit it publicly
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or feel safe enough at most events
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to inhabit their full sexual expression. I
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totally thought this would be a sausage fest, like
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as Ayla puts it in the post, of course
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men from the internet would show up en masse
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to stick dicks in me. They would for basically
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any woman, but it was weird to
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me that like so many women wanted to be
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fluffers, and I suspect it's just like a selection bias,
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like the sorts of people who Ayla knows. Right,
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right. I mean there's a lot of people in the
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world. There's a lot of people in the Bay
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Area, a lot of them, yes,
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who follow Ayla are probably more likely to
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be interested in this sort of
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thing. That said, I think you could fairly
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assume that there would be more interest in
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this from men than from women. And I'm
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curious about how it would go if this
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were the opposite, like one dude wants to
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get nailed by 42 women. Let's
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do it. Can
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you imagine if I was like, guys, I've
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got a great opportunity for you. I should
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say I sweat and I pant a lot.
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You might want to wear like a tarp.
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I might start crying. The next bar-bought Christmas
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party is going to be very weird. Can you
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imagine? My
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one other explanation for this is she linked
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to the profiles of some of the fluffers
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and some of the more sex workers. So
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I do think this would put them in
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touch with like rich Bay Area clientele. Okay,
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I'm going to skip over some of the sexier details
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because this has always been a family. a
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goddamn family to the panel. Which by that you
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mean your dad listens to it. Exactly.
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I found this part weirdly inspiring. And I
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found the whole post surprisingly wholesome, given the
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subject matter. This was about a guy who
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showed up as a virgin. He lost his
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virginity at the Ailey gangbang. Quote,
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we asked if we could celebrate his first
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time and he said yes. The wackier the
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better, I believe. So we had
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him go first and pop confetti over him
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when he finished and I signed a personalized
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gift for him. He was also
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wearing a heart rate monitor and said I could
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include the data from it here. I'll update this
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post once he sends it over. Once
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a man had sex with me, he drew a
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tally mark on my leg with a Sharpie and
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then signed the guest book, which was a pretty
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white wedding guest book I got because it was
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hilarious. It turns out Loub ruined
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Sharpies. So despite us starting out with
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a surplus of Sharpies, by the
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end of the night we were scrounging. There's even
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some useful service journalism in here. Can you imagine
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losing your virginity as part of some sort of
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ritual where everyone blasts confetti over you after? Would
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you ever be able to have sex again? Yeah,
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if he ever does have sex again, this will be a
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story that he tells his children. Did you have any other
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questions or concerns or observations about
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the Ailey birthday gangbang? I'm just
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so curious to find out what Ailey's parents
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think about this. I mean, I can guess
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because they're very Christian and they homeschooled her
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until she was like 17 years
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old, which maybe explains what every
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time I see, you know, you'll see like
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libs of TikTok or other trades. They'll post
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some clip from some teacher with like pride
11:27
flags in the classroom and the commentary will
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be homeschool your kids. Every time I see
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that, I think of Ailey. That's
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a counter example though homeschooling your kids.
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That could go different ways. This is what happens. Anyway,
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happy birthday to Ailey. Happy
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birthday to Ailey. Honestly,
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like I think there's some
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like I wouldn't go to an event like this nor would
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I be invited, but I think there's something to be said
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for like, you only get one life.
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Have you ever heard that before? You only get one life. I
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think I just came up with it. Yolo. That's
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not what you, that would be a Yogo. You
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only go. one like yoga. We've
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got one yoga. Yeah. Yoga. Yeah,
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get that tattooed on your back. People should read this
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post. It's quite a thing. She
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was very smart to pay wallet right at the part
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where she's about to start talking about penises. That's going
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to get people to sign up. Oh, the
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other thing that's super important is the
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data journalism in there. So
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there's this amazing graph. She
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literally does it the way you do like a study
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selection meta analysis graphic if anyone's seen one of those.
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It includes like 42 people
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showed up, five didn't
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bang Ayla, 37 penetrated Ayla. Of
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those 37, 17 came in Ayla,
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five came in a fluffer, 15 didn't
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come. She said performance anxiety among the men was
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actually a pretty big problem, which makes sense to
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me. So yeah, seriously, come
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on. Not only is Ayla there
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the famous Ayla, you have 41
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other men watching you. And
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so whoever's next in line is like, dude, come on, hurry
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up. God, imagine being the last person
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in line. You
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do not want to arrive. Oh,
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get stuck in traffic on your way to a game. There
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was one part that I found like
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bizarre and like a little bit upsetting
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almost. Let me redo this. The
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way it worked was a few men volunteers held me down on
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a bed and a line of guys. This is exactly what
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I skipped over because it was because we're a family. Continue.
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Yeah. Once a guy got that's it. That's all you
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get. You can hear us talk
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in depth about the Aaron Bushnell suicide and
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journalistic responsibility in terms of how to cover
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it. blofterimporter.org become a
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primo. Thank you for listening
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to this.
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