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Hi. I'm Claudine, and I'm Benavie and
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me. Before we get started,
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people of the the coronation.
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Brenda, it's your birthday. Happy
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birthday. day to you.
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Happy birthday to you.
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We're not allowed to like candles
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in the studio. video. Happy
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birthday to you.
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Imagine your candles.
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Which which country?
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Oh. What do you call the day
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Brenda? Oh. I love you.
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No. All thinking flowers. you wanna touch
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in.
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these flowers, when I bought them, they were
1:26
all like tight and cute because normally
1:28
when flowers look like
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this, they're like about to end. Yeah.
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But
1:31
at this shop, they reflex
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he called it. Like, they they make them bloom,
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but they're like brand new. So they'll last a long
1:39
time. Does that make sense? That does make sense. Other
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subly. Oh, beautiful. Thank you, brother.
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Beautiful. I am going away
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tomorrow, so I'll have them with you.
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Take them with me. Put them in the back of the car.
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Lilly, but eat them whilst you drive.
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Can we have some of the cake? Oh,
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I haven't had breakfast. That's why I'm so hungry.
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Mhmm. Hey, smart.
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I
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don't want anymore now. You want anymore? I
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will after. Okay. it for Ron. Let's
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take it for Ron. Last time you want him, that
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makes me feel very special. That's
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funny. It's one of those it's one of those off years,
2:14
you know. It's like forty four. celebrate forty
2:16
five. But when I turned forty, I
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said to myself, you know what? because, you know, you celebrate
2:20
your big birthdays, really the important ones, and
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then all the in between. I'm like, you know, I'm getting
2:24
old now. The birthdays are in decline.
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Like, the amount that I'm going to have.
2:29
So let's celebrate every year. Do you
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think you've got less birthdays
2:34
left than ever before?
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Oh, god. I hope so. Well,
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well, What about eighty eight? I don't think I can make
2:40
it eighty eight. No. I don't. Where
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do you reckon do I get to? I'm
2:44
just eating cake. I'm
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using I'm using a soft button, though.
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How about you just wait?
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So we
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have a conversation. No. Don't understand that.
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Okay. Look,
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I mean, it's at the fear of sounding
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a just, which I don't want to, and I'm
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not. Like, my own seventy next
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year. And and I like,
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I would hate. I would love for her. I
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guess it's the same way you think about me talking
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about, you know, happy to to
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go at any point. You're like, no. What you around for a
3:14
long time. I want my mom around for a long time. So
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seventy to me doesn't sound
3:19
too old for my mom. Like want her to be
3:21
around for a long time. But for me, I
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don't know. We'll see. We'll see. You don't wanna make a
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pass seventy?
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ah
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I don't wanna make a pass yesterday, but Here
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I am. Well,
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I'm glad. Thank
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you. I'm happy to be here. I'm happy
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to be here. It's a yeah.
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It's a funny thing. So I I'm not celebrating really
3:42
this year. I'd be like but
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I am going home to mom. to
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my mummies because I haven't spent
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a birthday an actual birthday with her
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since I was nineteen. And she visited me
3:53
when I first moved out of home and she came to my house.
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and that's when I was smoking a lot of
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marijuana with my with my flatmate
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at the time. And I was having
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a birthday bomb and she was in the
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in the living room and something we're
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in a bedroom having a birthday bomb. And
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and and she comes in. It was
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nineteen. Like, you know, it was the nineties,
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you know, it's like, you know, it's when you're young.
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And And she comes in. She's like, oh, we're
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we're gonna go. And I'm like, oh, why?
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Like, smell of marijuana to the whole house. And
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my little sister was there. And she's like, yeah. We're gonna
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go. Okay. Thanks for coming down by.
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I haven't spent a birthday with
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her. She came to my fortieth. She came down to celebrate
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my fortieth birthday with me. I had a big dinner.
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but I actually celebrated the actual day
4:35
in Bali with friends. So it's like
4:37
so you should you know what you should
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you should take a bong to your mums. So you can do a
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birthday bong again in her home. Oh
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my god. I could think of nothing worse. Oh
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my god. Yeah. The thought of it gives
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me the even knowing I used
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to do it. Don't know. No. So I and
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mom's like, what do you wanna do? What do we what do you want for your
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birthday? Like, nothing, mom. Like, don't and
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she and it's the same story. It's like every gene
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sis on biomi and present. My my mama, I'm an
5:01
adult. I can afford it by my own presence. And
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the things that I really want, I
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don't want you to pay for, like, you know, they're
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they're they're you know, I need
5:08
a I need a new pair of sunglasses. I'm not gonna
5:10
make her pay five hundred dollars for a new pair of sunglasses. nine
5:12
hundred dollars for sunglasses. Oh, for nice ones,
5:14
they don't have to be five hundred dollars. Jesus.
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My last ones are five hundred dollars, but all Gucci,
5:18
really beautiful. And then last week, that was my my present
5:20
to myself, my forty that though. And
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this year, I definitely need to get
5:25
new sunglasses because they are Are
5:27
they the ones that are rising?
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Yeah. Yeah. And the look at cataracts. Yeah. So
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I need to get new ones. But anyway, I'm really
5:33
looking forward to going to my mommy's. I'm having
5:35
a wake up there and just a little bit. Take a
5:37
little bit. said a little bit of, like,
5:39
last night, I just said, two
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two sleeps. We're gonna see many. Did
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she did she answer the question? She reacted.
5:46
She was like, But III think
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when when I say I'm gonna
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see Doesn't matter who it is. She just
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knows she's get like, you know, someone she's gonna see
5:54
someone. So I'm a bit
5:56
yeah, but it's exciting. I do remember mom
5:59
because I was calling I'm not sure if I spoke about this in the but
6:02
but I was referring to
6:04
my mom as a little bit snanny
6:06
because that's mom's known mom's nanny
6:08
to the grandkids. And and mom's
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like, oh, god. It's Why
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why are you saying that at the door? I was like, you know, like, I'm like, so I
6:14
was like, getting any getting any, I'm
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like, mom. This is the only grandchild
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you're gonna get from me. Well, you got tired. but
6:20
that's different. But but, you know, this
6:22
is this is as close as I'm gonna get to
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be able to use the word nanny
6:26
in a personal way. So can you just give
6:28
me that? Is that okay? She's
6:32
your daughter. She's my daughter. Yes.
6:34
She is. Oh,
6:34
lovely. Yeah. Well, thanks,
6:35
Brenda. That's really that's really thoughtful of you.
6:38
always feel guilty when people give
6:40
me gifts for presents because I'm so
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self absorbed. I don't I I don't even know how to
6:44
buy presents for other people. Well, I don't
6:46
ever buy presents for anybody. The last time I
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bought a present was for you for your fortieth
6:50
birthday, I think. Yeah. I didn't know if you were sending me a
6:52
subtle hint last night when you messaged about
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the Jo Malone Rose Moisturazer
6:57
going. Just so you remember, it's my birthday
6:59
this week. No. That
7:01
wasn't a subtle hint at all. It was a little bit.
7:03
They worked. Good. You've got it the
7:05
calendar now, Javier? Yeah. Your birthday's on Wednesday.
7:07
Yesterday, if you're listening to this. Yes. It's
7:09
twenty twenty eight to eight hundred bar. You
7:13
you still don't know, really. I don't even know what day
7:15
it is. Twenty eight.
7:17
Two years before thirty. Twenty eight
7:19
September. Yeah. And you must be a labor because
7:21
Adores' birthday is the day after yours
7:23
and as we know from Jibrate. She's
7:25
a Libra. Yeah. I'm a Libra. I'm a
7:27
quintessential Libra as well. Creative, the
7:29
most feminine of all the star signs
7:31
and the most creative, you know, and artistic
7:34
and the most indecisive. Mhmm.
7:36
Yeah. Yeah. They're speaking of birthdays.
7:38
We're not birthdays, but, you know, events.
7:40
Oh, yes. Maxie and I are celebrating
7:43
our twenty five years in Dragon, silver
7:46
lee. Oh. And so this week, we have announced
7:49
our silver ghibli tour --
7:51
Oh. -- which is a great exciting positioning for Sydney
7:53
at Leiden Melbourne. Lovely. So
7:55
the dates are it's it's it's not
7:57
Brisbane. No. Not Brisbane just yet, but like
7:59
we don't we're gonna test the waters. It's just a start.
8:01
It's not no. We just wanna do something fun to
8:03
commemorate You know what I mean? Paul. So
8:05
poor, hot, hot camera. Yeah.
8:07
Paul, warmongong. Paul, warmongong. I'll never
8:09
know. Paul, Newcastle. Yeah. They can
8:11
drive. They can drive. They can drive to
8:13
Sydney. Catch the bus. I caught the plastic camera
8:15
once. I met a boy at
8:17
Fair Day. Oh, yeah. We fell in love. Wow.
8:21
Mobby
8:21
put us in a cab to go home and
8:23
we go back to my place. I was in drag and
8:25
then it was like awkward because we'd soap it
8:27
up. and then I went and had a shower and then we fell in
8:29
love. And then he had to go back to Cambria the next day because
8:31
he was flying back to England. And so I
8:33
caught the bus to Cambria and went flying
8:35
back to England via Cambria, because he
8:37
was from Cambra, so he's gonna see his family. Oh,
8:39
okay. So he, like, got, like, a cheap
8:41
motel in Cambra and, like,
8:43
felt so, like, It was like the idea of two thousand
8:45
and one or two or I don't know. I was
8:47
wearing a yellow. So I remember what
8:49
I was wearing that year was fair say it
8:51
was a Dallas yellow bando
8:54
bikini with like a yellow
8:55
single
8:56
Georgia sort of drape or a single chiffon
8:59
yellow drape thing and I think I even have
9:01
those, some of those yellow kitten
9:03
heels. Yeah. That were,
9:05
like, a little clear. I don't know. Whether yours
9:07
is worth it. I don't like maxis.
9:09
They're mine. Now they could How do they fit
9:11
me? How do they fit? Well, they, like, put, like, clear
9:13
strap but, like, yellow, perspexy
9:15
kind of, like Yeah. And they had,
9:17
like, like, a one or two
9:19
inch heel. because remember that year, I went to
9:21
Mardi Gras, the girl who picked up all the streams at the end
9:23
of the party. No. Well,
9:25
that's all we decided the outfit was
9:27
after the fact. And then I I wore,
9:29
like, knee high stage suede
9:31
boots, and I was like interviewing people on the
9:33
parade route. And then I got to my diagram, my
9:35
figure was so sore, and so I left. And you
9:37
said, oh, I've got a pair of shoes at my house.
9:39
and I went back to your house on Crown Street and found
9:41
these yellow curtain heels. And I came back
9:43
to Mardi Gras and I wore your little yellow curtain
9:45
heels on that. Anyway, Okay, Chris. Back to your
9:47
Silver Jubilee. Silver Jubilee. So we're Maxi
9:49
and I are doing a little tour.
9:51
We're gonna be in Melbourne at Chases on
9:53
the second of December. We're
9:55
gonna be at Mary's Poppins
9:58
at on Saturday the third
10:00
of December, not speaking to you with Molly
10:02
Poppins. No. home. And then we're going to be at
10:04
Beresford on the fourth in Sydney. And you're
10:06
gonna perform. I am. You do a number. You
10:08
usually write me wrong. A minute. If you can find it.
10:10
Yeah. If can find it. the
10:12
wengie remix -- Yeah. -- have it have diomed
10:14
wengie to hire your gravy, has it?
10:16
Yep. I'm sure. When is it? So the date
10:18
of birth? fourth of December, which is
10:20
the Sydney Sydney one. Okay. Some No.
10:22
No. My my hard drives might be
10:24
here by then. I reckon it's on a hard drive that I'm
10:26
that's on a slow boat from China. Oh, yeah.
10:29
Yeah. Have from London. Yeah. It's
10:31
exciting. It's it's something that, like, you know, we we wanna
10:33
commemorate. Kinda like, you know, I've said many times,
10:35
like, you know, doing any job for twenty
10:37
five years is a fee You would get
10:39
a long service label here, because I'll get a
10:41
watch. You get a watch. a company? Maybe a
10:43
pen. Maybe a pen. Mhmm. I don't know.
10:45
least somebody, you know, health insurance
10:47
maybe. Get dental. Do you have health
10:49
insurance? Yeah. The health insurance. Yeah. Yeah. But
10:51
got it now. You have you haven't got
10:53
it two weeks ago. Oh, it's good for your tax or
10:55
something like that. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. I've only got
10:57
I don't have hospital cover. I've got ambulance cover
11:00
and extras. Hang on. Shouldn't
11:02
it be the other way around? No.
11:04
We only have hospital cover, like, that's the one
11:06
that, like, if something goes wrong. because
11:08
if it's an emergency, it's all it's all Medicare.
11:10
Like, you're going to going to e r if everybody's
11:12
got, like, something bad.
11:14
Yeah. But look, if you got something bad, then
11:16
yeah, I'll I'll think about that. I just wanted to get it just to say,
11:18
I've got it. You know what I mean? For my tax, and
11:20
I've used the extras a lot, like especially
11:22
dental, and I that you're forty four at
11:24
your advanced age. Yeah. No. I believe you're thinking about the
11:26
hospital cover, you know. Yeah. I know.
11:28
But, like, you know, if it's an emergency, a
11:30
bit if not an emergency?
11:32
Like, what if you've got? No.
11:35
Oh, something. Well, we don't well, you don't
11:37
well, it used I'm pretty sure. I don't know
11:39
how the Australian health system works, but it's pretty to
11:41
look after you. I think if if something came
11:43
up that I needed attention, I'd be
11:45
able to get a scene too. I'd
11:47
rather be miss
11:50
Gucci, that Lady Gaga
11:53
played in the House of
11:55
Gucci -- Mhmm. -- her famous
11:57
quote was I'd rather be
12:00
what does she say?
12:02
Something like happy in a oh, here. Here. It's
12:04
better to cry in a Rolls Royce.
12:07
than being happy on a bicycle. It's
12:09
better to have
12:11
some sort of terminal illness in a private
12:13
hospital than it is in a public one.
12:15
Yeah. Hardly. Totally. But even still, I
12:17
mean, ugh. Yeah.
12:20
Anyway. Anyway, moving right along. But but I
12:22
mean, compared to America's health system,
12:25
Yes. We have very good We have
12:27
one. We have one. Yes. And I and I
12:29
have faith in them. Anyway, really long.
12:31
We've talked about on the podcast last Oh,
12:33
wait. Wait. Wait. I'll I'll go back to suit
12:35
herably. Back to suit her properly.
12:37
We have to get this in this week because it comes out
12:39
this week. And we know, if I got a short time, I got two
12:41
months. So buy tickets. You can buy a ticket
12:43
from -- i t.
12:46
-- events dot com.
12:48
dot com. The dark events dot com.
12:51
Well, IITDED
12:53
Yeah. Yeah. Yes. But, you know, you can go
12:55
to my Instagram page. It'll be there, the post
12:57
with all the details of the information. Because
12:59
he's a maxi and we're still gonna do different
13:01
different guests So so it's gonna be fun. It's
13:03
gonna be cute. And father's at the baricit. Does
13:05
the baricit again? Night of the week is it?
13:07
Sunday. Oh. Oh, and then. after
13:09
you the silver jubilee, you can
13:11
let loose on the dance or the beartooth
13:13
dance or the sun comes up. Although, alias
13:15
Faggots -- Yes. -- with all of the mean games
13:17
of Sydney. Yes.
13:20
Brenda, we talked about heartbreak high
13:22
last week. We did. And I'm not saying
13:24
that's our single contribution, but maybe
13:26
I am. heartbreak has
13:28
gone to number one in Australia and Netflix.
13:30
That's it. Number five in the UK, number three
13:32
in France, number two in Kenya. Oh,
13:34
wow. Only number two in New Zealand
13:36
though. So I'd like to set it to number one in
13:38
New Zealand. I've got Netflix. Netflix.
13:40
Yeah. I don't wanna
13:41
set it up because I wanna set up I wanna season two. They're
13:43
not doing a season two of queers folks.
13:45
I saw that. which I know you didn't love. Yeah.
13:47
I wasn't surprised. I did. But you liked
13:49
it. I did love it. Yeah.
13:51
Also in other pop culture
13:53
news, Sam Smith and Kim Petras have
13:55
released songs that I've called heard of
13:57
Holy. Which when I first heard it, I
13:59
did touch
13:59
my pearls because It's
14:02
too queer people singing about how, like,
14:05
the husband has been going
14:07
down to the body shop and having
14:09
extramarital affairs. And
14:11
then I I
14:12
thought I'm sure that does happen. At first, I was like,
14:14
oh, no. Don't tell them that's what happens. Don't
14:16
don't let them know. Don't let the wives
14:19
know. And I thought, well, it's not just
14:21
queer people that they're having it off with. It's not
14:23
that, you know, we're
14:24
the ones, but that's Hang on. Let me look up
14:26
the words. unholy Sam
14:29
Kim. Mama don't
14:31
know daddy's getting hot
14:33
at the body shop doing
14:35
something unholy. Yeah. It's
14:37
a it's a banger. I listened to it once and
14:40
it's got like sort of It's
14:42
not like a like a pepper. It's got that kind
14:44
of like religious y
14:46
sort of low.
14:47
No. No. That didn't hot, blah blah
14:49
blah blah blah.
14:50
I think it's gonna be a a banger. A
14:52
banger. Okay. I haven't listened yet, but I will. I
14:54
will. Chandula is on dancing with
14:56
the stars. Oh, yeah. We're which is very
14:58
exciting. It's very exciting. We can go and see her. Oh,
15:00
yeah. When you go to LA, the
15:02
fourth, whenever that is. Okay. Yeah.
15:04
I'm gonna go and sit in the lives to the audience and
15:07
watch her dance, which will be really fun. I'm looking forward
15:09
to that. I'm gonna go see drag the musical,
15:11
Alaska's musical, Kevin, are
15:13
that I would to see that. That'll be a lot of fun. If we hear
15:15
them, we talk about that on on race race race race race race race race
15:17
race. Yeah. William and I are gonna go to a screening
15:19
of Hocus Pocus two in the Hollywood
15:21
River
15:21
Cemetery. doing some good things.
15:23
Katie Perry in Vegas. Wow.
15:25
Then a
15:26
girl finally is gonna be in LA, and
15:28
so Ashen Ann, the Squared Vision,
15:30
who created did Katie's show in Vegas.
15:32
We're all gonna have a road trip and drive
15:34
to Vegas, and then
15:36
we're gonna watch Katie's show.
15:38
Apparently, it's amazing. Mhmm. and then
15:41
I have to fly back. Oh, did you use a
15:43
copy? I did not use a copy of him. Oh,
15:45
Sorry.
15:49
And then the next morning,
15:51
yeah, I'm coming back to LA to the job that I'm flying over
15:53
there for. So I've got an
15:56
action packed That's exciting.
15:58
Of things. This is only a week.
16:00
You're scrambling probably all day long.
16:02
Yeah. Yeah. That's
16:04
exhausting. I couldn't do that. I'm I'm I'm tired
16:06
thinking about it. Fun not yet degraded.
16:09
Yeah. Yeah. You'll be buzzing. Yeah.
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For
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the yellowneck road.
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For the
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yellowneck road? For the yellowneck
16:54
road. So it's time to follow the Yellow Brick
16:56
Road, which is last week
16:58
because I was talking about Bill
17:00
Patel and a documentary
17:03
that I had watched on the
17:05
YouTube. It was an ABC documentary from, like,
17:07
two thousand and seven. Mhmm. And then I
17:09
stumbled across from nineteen eighty
17:11
two the year I was born. Four
17:14
corners did a special on the
17:16
homosexual, homosexual. It's so
17:18
fun hearing the way -- Mhmm. -- the
17:20
Australian accent of the nineteen eighties. and
17:23
homosexual lifestyle. And they they everyone's
17:25
pronounces homosexual, homosexual,
17:28
homosexual, homosexual, And so
17:30
it was called Australia's
17:32
new Golden City of the Gays,
17:35
and it was a It's
17:37
an old episode of four corners, which is an Australian,
17:40
like institution that
17:43
does, like, sort of,
17:45
often, like, journalism, quality
17:48
journalism, like, they'll often break stories into
17:50
investigations into things. And
17:52
so we we ask everyone if
17:54
they wanted to to watch it this
17:56
week. So we could talk about it. Watch it last week. So
17:58
we could talk about it this week. Yeah. Yeah.
18:01
I watched it, and I thought it was
18:03
fantastic. Isn't it? I loved it. I absolutely loved it. And usually, like,
18:05
you know, you're like, this is a quite a few
18:07
things that you've asked me to watch. I'm
18:09
like, Oh, which is that boring thing.
18:11
But this was like and I was like, okay. I've gotta watch
18:13
you down for the pod. And then within two
18:15
minutes, I'm like, this is amazing.
18:17
This is wonderful. there
18:20
was so It was
18:22
it's hard to fathom I
18:26
found that that was on TV
18:28
in nineteen eighty two -- Yes. -- and then some happened --
18:30
Well, well, the AIDS crisis. -- crisis. Yeah.
18:33
And then for us to even
18:36
imagine that being on
18:38
television now, like a whole one
18:40
hour
18:40
episode about
18:42
the homosexual lifestyles half an hour
18:44
half an hour, half an hour, thirty minutes. It's
18:47
just, like,
18:48
in the way the things that they talked about, the
18:50
way that they talked about, like, obviously, there was,
18:51
like, language and stuff that you
18:54
know, lots of poofters and faggots and stuff like
18:56
that. Yeah. But it
18:57
was just
18:58
amazing. Yeah. And and
19:00
it was through lens as well before the AIDS crisis.
19:03
So, like, there wasn't there was
19:05
obviously the stigma of being a
19:07
homosexual or
19:09
a lesbian. But there
19:11
wasn't all that other stigma
19:13
attached to it. Yeah. It was
19:14
just this thing that happened and
19:16
it was
19:17
only forty years ago, but it does
19:19
feel like it was like,
19:22
it could have been it could have been in the
19:24
thirties or the sixties or the fifties. I can
19:26
just it was such felt like a ago. mean,
19:28
these are lifetime. It's more lifetime. Yeah.
19:30
Literally, but multiple lifetimes.
19:33
At a time, and homosexuality was still a crime in most parts
19:35
of Australia, including New South
19:38
Wales, Sydney was fast gaining a
19:40
reputation as the San Francisco
19:42
of the southern hemisphere. The
19:44
ABC's Four Corners aired this report in
19:47
September nineteen eighty two. Some parts of the program
19:49
have been edited out due to
19:51
copyright. And it opens up, like,
19:53
even if things I guess, I didn't
19:55
have
19:55
Grindr or Instagram
19:57
or that
19:58
like, the the the gay men's
19:59
chorus singing the song at the beginning. Hang on. Let me
20:02
play a little bit of it. It's quite up.
20:04
I was actually having a
20:06
lovely time today
20:09
for being singing, having
20:11
on because the last were
20:13
proud to say we're
20:16
gay, drunkards, and
20:19
line. Congrats.
20:25
And isn't
20:30
it heaven?
20:33
isn't it Like, that's how that that broadcast
20:35
like, I can't even imagine a
20:37
TV show opening like that now with a bunch of poofs on
20:39
stage going, well, I'm a six
20:41
year old. I'm a
20:44
six year old. And, I mean, it was it
20:46
was legalized in nine ninety four. So this is too easy
20:48
for it became legal. Oh, it still was too easy
20:50
for it. League was legalized. Yeah. So it was
20:52
like, I it's it's
20:54
baffling to me. Yeah. It's just Well, they talked about
20:57
It was I I think it was on that one where they talked
20:59
about the fact that, like, it was
21:01
illegal Oh, no. It
21:03
was on one that I
21:05
followed on from watching that one was also
21:07
in nineteen eighty two as ABC's
21:10
Monday Conference. which was I
21:12
think it was like a show at the time that
21:14
would happen on a Monday. And then I talked
21:16
about a different topic, and they had,
21:19
like, what and who was a who
21:21
sort of was the representative of the gays
21:23
on the episode with the host. But
21:26
it was coming to you live from Mount Isa -- Yeah. --
21:28
which is a mining regional town.
21:30
Why on earth? Put that in Mount Isa
21:32
-- Yeah. -- even now. Even now,
21:35
I wouldn't Sorry, Mount
21:37
Isa. Yeah. You you understand?
21:39
Yeah. You get it. But it
21:41
was in that conversation that he talked
21:43
about the fact that to put him in
21:45
the clink. And it was sort of just this attitude towards
21:47
it that even though it was criminal, it wasn't
21:49
really enforced. And therefore, like, the
21:51
laws should be changed to come in line
21:53
with public opinion. And
21:54
it's amazing to think about, like, just these people
21:56
being so like visible and brazen
21:59
and
21:59
open in nineteen eighty two.
22:02
Yeah. Yeah. There really are
22:04
the shoulders we stand on. We really are. We
22:06
really are. Yeah. Did you see
22:08
the little clips I posted on my story
22:10
of, like, the SWotsun
22:12
one where the one and hang
22:14
on. For about about the pink guy. Yeah.
22:17
Let me play it. This doesn't show how ignorant
22:19
people were. Yeah. still are in a lot of ways, but
22:21
like but, you know, back then, it was like seeing
22:23
a unicorn. Yeah. And it's funny because,
22:26
like, when I was watching the Lex watch one because
22:28
there's lots of public opinion. The the four
22:30
corners one was, you
22:32
know, a curated piece of
22:34
journalism. And the journalist who
22:36
did it I just approach so
22:38
good. Like, he didn't seem judgey,
22:40
but he, like, went and
22:42
talked about, like, uncomfortable conversations.
22:45
Went to went to beat. I
22:47
was even given a section on Cottage, though in, like, the park
22:49
on Darlinghurst Road talking about how,
22:51
you know, gay men
22:54
engaging in sex in
22:56
public restaurants. I do like I do like that that gentleman that
22:58
they that they interview was so great. He
23:00
was a perfect. The perfect advocate.
23:02
Perfect. Like, it he was he was educated
23:04
and smart and was, wasn't wasn't phased
23:06
by it and wasn't ashamed of it, but,
23:08
like, spoke up about it. But, like, I like his line about
23:10
it. He's like, we should claim these as sacred spaces
23:13
because these are the only meeting places
23:15
or, like, you know, whatever he said, we are
23:17
paraphrasing. But I'm like, yes.
23:19
We should. Yeah. But they they didn't. They didn't
23:21
they tore them all down. Oh, they didn't
23:23
do that. The retundant? The retundant. Was that
23:25
that was that was it? Yeah. Oh, yeah. Yeah. That's
23:27
not a grassy knoll. Yeah. That's but they
23:29
used to be the the grassy knoll. No.
23:31
The returns on darling horse ride across the road
23:33
from the wall.
23:34
Oh, there. There. Oh,
23:37
there. Which were tires didn't come in? I
23:39
think I meant Townsquare. Oh, sorry
23:41
again. Yeah. Let's
23:42
still got those toilets at Taylor Square underground.
23:44
Right. And it's coming into like an art gallery
23:46
of Yeah. Fun. Absolutely. I've always wondered
23:48
what was down there. little tour down there once
23:50
they opened them up. Or
23:52
maybe it wasn't art gallery, but, like, for
23:54
a Sydney festival or something. Yeah. I
23:56
can't find the
23:57
clip of the lady. I do
23:59
remember, I have this got this
23:59
I thought this this traumatic memory,
24:02
which is like ingrained into my
24:04
psyche, which is which contributed
24:06
to so much of my shame, my
24:08
early show up being gay, and it must have been
24:10
around the time, around this time. We're not
24:12
about it a bit later. But when
24:14
the public first became aware,
24:17
of men having sex in public toilets. And
24:19
I'm being app at Mary Wall with my RD0I
24:21
love Vaden. I love Vaden. I love Vaden. But,
24:24
you know, back in the eighties, you know, where
24:26
country was different. And I remember
24:28
sitting around the table and and then
24:30
talking about it, and then her turn to me,
24:32
she goes, and don't you have a
24:34
turnout like that? And it
24:36
sort of was like this. Let's
24:38
always stay with me. But it's like it's that
24:40
thing. It's like, you know, you just they they they
24:42
heard what they heard and they didn't have any
24:44
ability to process that in a
24:46
non judgmental or reasonable way.
24:49
and so they, you know, channeled it into this little kid
24:52
they knew was queer. Yeah. Well,
24:54
like this woman asking a
24:56
question, this is a woman in the audience in
24:58
Mount Isa in nineteen eighty
25:00
two asking well, asking
25:02
this question. Now
25:06
could you tell me if there is anything in big
25:09
time that changes homeowners
25:11
in children? Because So
25:16
she thinks that a pink where a boy wearing pink
25:18
would turn him into a poster. She said she's heard that
25:20
there's something in the pink die that we'll
25:22
have to call him. hormones. of boys
25:24
and turned them into a poofter. And
25:27
she was asking that honestly, like, people in the
25:29
audience laugh of her. She was she was
25:32
serious. seriously. Mhmm. Because that was the
25:33
fear. Also, it's interesting because you hear
25:35
all of the opinions and Lex Watson gives,
25:37
like, the most brilliant answers.
25:40
but he's he's almost a bit condescending.
25:43
He's like, well, obviously not.
25:45
Like like you're fucking dickhead. That's
25:47
what he wanted to say. But when then would
25:49
like give an answer explaining it
25:51
without it was very unapologetic, and
25:55
it was just like giving the
25:57
answers but then you would always hear the
25:59
questions. Even though he would give these good answers, you'd
26:01
always hear the questions came from, like,
26:04
the idea that being gay
26:06
was like the worst thing in the world that could
26:08
ever happen. And so it was all about
26:10
people's fear -- Mhmm. --
26:12
about
26:12
them being
26:13
gay or the children
26:15
being gay. And like her asking that
26:17
question, like, that she was like, how do I
26:19
avoid, like, even a gay man, like a
26:21
proud gay man sitting on stage. No no point
26:23
did she think, oh, this is a bit insulting
26:26
to say, how do I avoid my son
26:28
becoming a poofter? like you, you
26:30
know, disgusting faggots sort of
26:32
thing. When a lot of people are
26:34
like Courtney Act, I don't get how
26:36
that's a play on words like Courtney
26:38
Act. and never before have
26:40
I heard my name said
26:43
so perfectly as I heard
26:45
in this documentary by a
26:47
girl, I reckon she's in a school uniform. Yeah.
26:49
Like, she's turned up to Monday. She's she grew
26:51
up in Mount Isa. She grew up in Mount
26:53
Isa, and this is So
26:55
how can you get committed
26:57
as being a high sexual, you
26:59
know, I do have to get cognizant
27:02
to Yes.
27:04
is that is just your that is Courtney Act. Courtney she said
27:06
Courtney Act. Courtney Act.
27:09
To be committed of being a homosexual, do you have
27:11
to get Courtney act? Yeah. Does she have to come along? Do you
27:14
have to? Do do I have to turn up the old
27:16
budget? Oh, god. Imagine if the I'm sure I
27:18
was still legal and I had to turn up
27:20
to every human sexual conviction. Nah. I'm here.
27:22
Yeah. Like Alright. Yeah. Go on. Press him.
27:25
Yeah. Yeah. That's definitely anal sex. Yep.
27:27
Uh-huh. That taken away. Yeah.
27:29
Come on. better than this.
27:31
I've got a head down to
27:33
the the park at Dowlinghurst Road for
27:35
another illegal homosexual conviction.
27:37
By the way, this is the documentary that need didn't
27:39
ask. Oh, yes. Sorry. Sorry. Yeah. That's
27:41
the documentary we did ask. But in the
27:43
documentary that we did ask people to watch, I was
27:45
I was I was amazed
27:48
at how thriving the gay scene was
27:50
in Sydney at the time
27:52
while it was still illegal to
27:54
be homosexual. And
27:56
at the time, this is in the documentary, but I wrote
27:58
it down. There were sixty
28:00
one gay groups and social clubs,
28:03
three newspapers, hotels,
28:06
eight discos, five bookstores, and
28:08
fourteen gay restaurants. In a pantry, in a
28:10
pantry. Yeah. Well, it was still illegal to be
28:12
gay,
28:13
which is
28:14
very impressive. Very impressive. But
28:17
those shots those early shots of the bars --
28:19
Mhmm. -- and did feel like, like,
28:21
when I came out in nineteen nineties
28:23
well, III was eighteen
28:25
nineteen ninety six and first came
28:27
to the scene in Sydney in set
28:29
ninety seven. And it still felt like
28:31
that. When I those pictures, those images of the
28:34
gay bar, that was
28:36
still, all these years
28:38
later, the beginning of my
28:41
in my introduction to the gay scene. That's what it
28:43
looked like. That's what it felt like. So, you
28:45
know, I mean, obviously, social media
28:47
and, you know, grinder and and, you
28:49
know, the modern world is changed what the inside of
28:51
a gay bar looks like, but for a long time My
28:53
first gay bar memory. My first
28:55
gay bar memory was the
28:59
Aubrey. Yeah. Walking through
29:01
the Aubrey on my own because I used to go out
29:03
when I was eighteen with my
29:05
friend Kirsty at the time and
29:07
we used to go to the George the George something
29:09
club bar that was underneath the Hilton
29:11
in on George Street. Oh, yeah. I'm not
29:13
sure what it was called something George. I don't
29:15
know. Anyway, and because she wanted to go there.
29:17
And I was like, oh, yeah. I didn't care. I was go out. Like, oh, you know, go
29:19
and get drunk. I'm, you know, I'm eighteen. And did you
29:22
regularly live in Sydney? No. I was
29:24
living on the cell. I was still at home on such a coast.
29:26
And so I'd come down in Thornley. So we'd
29:28
come down outside her place and we'd make a little trip
29:30
into the city of the train and then we'd like, you know, get
29:32
pissed and but I remember I'm like, can we go to a
29:34
gay club, like, can we, like, go the street,
29:36
please. And I was and I used to dress very queer. Like,
29:38
you know, when you when you, you know, when you come out
29:40
and you dress very, very
29:42
queer. You don't understand fashion or -- Nice. -- what's called just
29:44
need to dress, like, to show that you
29:46
just dress. Yeah. Yeah. But I'll be I never
29:48
had any problems. Never had, like, in this very
29:51
straight heterosexual bar
29:53
never had any problems with any of the people. Like,
29:55
just just, you know, it was great. That was in that that was
29:57
in the nineties. I'm I'm glad about that.
30:00
But I remember, like, can we can we please, like, do a trip
30:02
walk us up to Oxford Street and just just go to
30:04
like, let's just walk through a gay bar, please. I've
30:06
never been to one like, I'm here all the
30:08
time with you. so she
30:11
wouldn't. So I went up on my own. Good on
30:13
you. I just walked, did a lap of the Aubrey,
30:15
then walked back home. Oh, you
30:17
walked from George George Street
30:19
two, the Aubrey in Paddington. Did a
30:21
lap did a lap and went back. Before
30:23
I could have bought a cab. Yeah. You
30:25
know, So that was my first experience.
30:27
But then when I moved to Sydney
30:29
before I did drag and I would go
30:31
to the gay bar and I didn't know anyone,
30:33
and I would just stand at the I was one
30:35
of those bus busfires
30:36
sitting on the corner. I'm just like be like,
30:39
where did you go? I went to the shift
30:41
-- Mhmm. -- and to the Aubrey. Dan
30:43
says the shift. Dan says the shift. Yeah. I had
30:45
never been upstairs for a like, even not upstairs
30:48
existed. So It's been intense up there for a
30:50
nineteen year old or for years. a a young folk. Yeah.
30:52
And I mean and and also, like, the the
30:54
only reason I was going out was to pick up trade, you
30:56
know, like, get get late. You know what
30:58
I mean? Three eighteen? Eighteen. Yeah. Yeah.
31:00
Yeah. But you. My mind
31:02
was stonewall, but I do remember
31:04
my first time in the Aubrey. and
31:07
remember my friend Stephanie
31:09
saying, that's Porsche
31:10
Tervo. She used to be thin.
31:13
That was like a We thought
31:15
she was fat then. Yeah. That's a unique
31:18
memory. But it
31:20
was just, like, such a fun time
31:22
that was, like, it felt like
31:24
there was so many bars when you first
31:27
arrived -- Yeah. -- and you slowly sort of narrowed it
31:29
down to the one or two that you went to.
31:31
Do remember being afraid of going
31:33
to arc like, when I was eighteen because that
31:35
was, like, the the nightclub, like, where the
31:37
I don't know. The big kids went --
31:39
Yeah. -- first felt a bit intimidating. He was there
31:42
overnight. good muggies doing the boss in the
31:44
dance floor. Kevin.
31:46
But, yeah, we used to go to like the flinders
31:49
and stonewall a lot.
31:51
the shift to the upstairs was still sharp
31:53
because I remember going to the opening night of
31:55
upstairs at the shift -- Uh-huh. -- the
31:58
reopening. Reopening. Yeah. and
32:00
the Aubrey. Yeah. So many, like,
32:03
fun ex new experiences, Palms,
32:05
and the lizard lounge. Yeah. I
32:07
think I actually saw when I saw a drag. I
32:09
think it was still Thursday
32:11
nights at the Aubrey. III sorry. Thursday
32:13
Thursday night at the shift upstairs. And
32:15
I had, like, I think of the transistors, nudging
32:17
the transformers -- Mhmm. --
32:19
with Trudy and, I think, Chris Pender
32:21
and Alice in it? No. No.
32:23
I think she popped I think she she
32:26
she did do I I kind of the the Power Bubbles is one
32:28
of the cast members. And I think I
32:30
saw one of those shows in my very
32:32
like, but within the first couple
32:34
of weeks of do or so or months of starting drag. And
32:36
that and they sort of, you know, finished that up, and that was
32:38
that was like a that was like a legacy show. But I'm glad
32:40
I got in and saw one of those
32:42
shows. But, yeah, it it
32:44
it did feel very nostalgic watching that
32:46
old video. Mhmm. Being, you
32:48
know what? The gay scene was really like,
32:50
you know, what we had.
32:53
for a long time. That was it. Mhmm. But I mean, I mean, it
32:55
was what was four years after the first
32:57
Mardi Gras, to choose before it became legalized.
33:00
Oh, yeah. Yeah.
33:02
I always Honestly, the
33:04
fact that the seventies come just before the
33:06
eighties does not compete in my
33:09
mind. I always think of nineteen
33:11
seventy eight as being hundreds
33:14
of years ago. So that was when I was born.
33:16
I always think of
33:19
it as being so long,
33:21
like much longer than four years
33:23
before I was born, like the seventies. They
33:25
sound like this far off mister book because I was born
33:27
in the eighties. The seventies
33:29
don't even you were born in the seventies so
33:31
that you got a connection to them. Yeah. Whereas
33:34
my perception of time -- Yeah. -- means that Basically,
33:36
who in eighteen seventeen. Yeah.
33:39
So when you said that, I was like, what? Oh, yeah. Yeah.
33:41
She had a meme of the night that I was of of
33:43
skeletal just by doing it like this because
33:45
this is stupid memes. And it's like in six years,
33:47
I don't know, in eight years, the eighties
33:49
will be fifty years ago. Yeah.
33:51
It's like, oh, god, that's
33:53
confronting, isn't it? Yeah. yeah,
33:55
fifty years. It just feels like, I mean, in my
33:57
head, it always it always be twenty years ago.
33:59
Like, it always it always it always
34:01
be two thousand five, you
34:03
know? Yeah. do you think that's because
34:05
it's when we came of age? Or do you do
34:07
you think it's because the millennium
34:09
turned over? because
34:10
we had we never got like a it's not at the twenties, the
34:12
thirties, the forties. Like, that the
34:15
early noughties and the teeny or
34:17
whatever we called. We didn't have, like, clear
34:20
markers. Mhmm. And so that twenty years
34:22
just felt like ten
34:24
years. Yeah. You mean
34:25
that of the new millennium? Yeah. Yeah. Like, from
34:27
two thousand to two thousand and twenty felt
34:29
like a decade. Yeah. You're right. Absolutely
34:32
right. Yeah. I could very confused. But
34:34
they're they're also out, you know, one day years as
34:36
well of, like, when everything was happening and,
34:38
like, you know, so we fit so much into
34:40
that time. But Yeah. Yeah. I think I do
34:41
love. There was a line in that documentary that
34:43
I love, the Abominable Act of
34:46
Buggery with
34:48
mankind. Every
34:50
day. Don't nothing till
34:52
you're proud of. Diabdominal
34:54
active buttery. Oh, got but
34:57
also the maximum sentence for consensual
35:00
homosexual acts was double that
35:02
of rape of a heterosexual rape.
35:04
that wild? Isn't that what five years
35:06
for having gay sex, but it was only
35:08
seven years if you raped someone. I
35:10
know. Isn't that crazy? The accent that
35:13
accent said it's bonkers. Yeah. It
35:15
is bunkers. I'm just so so grateful for, like, all of
35:17
those people who, you know,
35:20
for for
35:22
outright to change them. I think that's amazing. Like, even
35:24
the people being visible in this documentary in nineteen
35:26
eighty two is is challenging for
35:28
me to wrap my brain around that these
35:31
people would go on camera, go on record at a time when it
35:33
was illegal, and it's just
35:36
there. I feel very grateful for all of
35:38
those people who -- You know why?
35:40
-- who who were there and who were visible -- Yeah. -- like you said, we stand on their shoulders.
35:42
Yeah. It is. And it's important to remember that. We are
35:44
so lucky now. And, I mean, even in our
35:46
lifetimes, like, we started off and we had
35:48
so much like.
35:50
I mean, obviously, as, you know,
35:52
there's always always a a
35:54
hard period of, you know, sort of
35:56
coming out. Once you come out,
35:59
life for us.
36:00
Yeah. Got very easy. Yeah. And
36:03
and very enjoyable. And that's only because
36:05
we had, you know, these people that came
36:07
before us, that fought. And they community that
36:09
we got to come out into. Yeah. Like, when
36:11
we came out, we got to come out into
36:13
a bubble -- Mhmm. -- and just
36:16
revel in, you know, gainus, gainus,
36:18
gainus. It was just wonderful. Like,
36:20
no one ever I guess, like, if you come
36:22
out in your town or
36:24
your city or your suburb and
36:26
you're, like, the only again, the
36:28
village, you've got you're battling
36:31
against everything constantly, but when we
36:33
moved to Sydney and we came out and we
36:35
were living in Darlinghurst and we just it was
36:37
just everything was gay and it was this
36:40
wonderful bubble where you didn't have to
36:42
explain anything. You didn't have to, like,
36:44
minimize yourself. You didn't have to change
36:46
anything. Everything was gay. Like, the
36:48
cafe was gay. The accountant was gay. The bookshop was
36:50
gay. Everything was just Yep.
36:52
Yep. Yep. Yep. The restaurants you
36:54
ate up
36:56
were gay. it really was like a magical little bubble.
36:58
Yeah. I hope that Oxford
37:00
Street
37:00
gets reinvigorated. I know that,
37:02
you know, Clive has got big plans and
37:06
that north side of Oxford Street from, like,
37:08
Taylor Square down is all being
37:10
redeveloped and there's big
37:12
plans for stuff and there's
37:16
there's a thing about keeping the
37:18
historic sort of culture of the
37:20
neighborhood being a queer place. So every business
37:22
has to or every, like, new building
37:24
has to have, like, percentage of
37:27
their commercial space dedicated
37:29
to like a queer -- Oh, yeah.
37:31
-- something. Oh, nice. Yeah.
37:33
So that's good. that is good because it it is it is
37:35
an important part of of our history. And Sydney's history -- Yeah. -- like
37:37
as this documentary shows -- Yeah. -- where the
37:40
where the the gay capital. Oh,
37:42
yes.
37:42
Yeah. That's no
37:44
wonder Sydney, San Francisco, sister
37:46
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38:35
sofab. The
38:35
best part of when you talk
38:37
about your drag careers in the naughties could literally
38:39
listen to hours of blow by blow accounts of your night
38:42
out. I thought, well,
38:44
we should think about a night out
38:47
that we can, like, we can do a
38:49
dramatic retelling. What would be a good
38:51
one? Well, the problem is so many of
38:53
my well, all of my nights
38:55
out and my I mean, yours as well from those days were
38:57
all very affected heavily -- Yeah. -- chemically
39:00
heavily impacted. Okay. Brenda, what about
39:02
that time
39:04
that we were at my house in the Taylor Grande. Yeah.
39:06
And we did we
39:08
we were going out. You know, that was
39:11
and Wonderland. It's quite a psychedelic
39:14
sort of situation situation. Yes.
39:16
Anyway, I don't know why I I don't know why I bought that up. But
39:18
anyway, we
39:20
decided that we put on acrylic nails. Yes. We wanted to wear nails. Long there's
39:22
long lines to nails. Yes. There's huge massive long
39:24
what talent. So if we got out
39:28
the superglue, We typically them aren't really too Really, really, really
39:30
strong. And then we
39:32
my memory is that we went
39:33
to the shift with the nails on. Yeah. I
39:35
remember that. I didn't know
39:38
we went I'm pretty sure we just we're
39:40
just we're at home. It's one of those days we're just we're like, we didn't leave the
39:42
house. Well, I just remember we were
39:44
so traumatized by the nails,
39:46
whether we're at the shift or whether at home, or to
39:48
be fair, in the state we're
39:50
in. I know. We're in the
39:52
cardboard box. do have a very vivid
39:54
specific memory of us laying on your kitchen floor at the Talli Grande with
39:56
them on. Yes. And we could not
39:58
we we had knives under, like, I
40:02
was trying to pick them off and they wouldn't come off at all. I remember we
40:04
were laughing in hysterics, and I
40:08
had It was, like, some sort of,
40:10
like, it was way before iPhones. It was, like,
40:12
two thousand and two or something. Yeah. And
40:14
and I had one of those phones you
40:16
could record It was like a Sony. It had
40:18
like a a stylus. Oh, yeah.
40:21
So we were laughing so
40:23
much, and I remember thinking as people often do when they're in
40:25
altered states, think like, oh my god, this is so funny. We
40:28
never Did you record record this? And I
40:30
recorded and we've, like, worked out the meaning of
40:32
life. It was, like, the
40:34
whole thing recorded it. We're laughing historically for hours and
40:36
hours, and then the next day, I didn't hit
40:38
record. Oh, I'll just show. Am I
40:40
thinking I'm gonna surprise me. I found the
40:42
recording. I
40:44
found the applying that we didn't care. We haven't I
40:46
remember, we we couldn't get them -- We could not get
40:48
them off. -- and we and we thought
40:50
of many solutions.
40:52
We tried all of them, all
40:54
solutions to get them off, and we couldn't. And we we
40:56
we we even tried one that probably we
40:58
shouldn't have. We soaked down
41:00
nails in a bowl full of a very strong
41:02
solvent. Yes. I mean,
41:04
friction the lines. Yeah.
41:06
And it was it was
41:08
sold as nail polish remover. Yeah. But
41:11
yeah. We we I didn't we I guess we got paid off. It
41:13
didn't work. It didn't work. They didn't come off. We slept
41:16
in them for days. I think we'd
41:18
I haven't I don't remember them
41:20
coming off. Oh my god. It's still on. Hold on.
41:25
There are lots of nice. We should actually sit down and
41:27
we should do maybe like what you do for your book
41:29
where you you put all the post it notes up. And
41:31
remember what we care of and then try and fill
41:33
in the gap I'm sure that once we start putting the
41:35
puzzle together, things will come back. You
41:38
know, it really helps us going back through
41:40
the photos. Yeah. And I've
41:42
got the photos. You've got the photos.
41:44
I've got that vault of photos.
41:46
There's like a viewing
41:48
destiny dress as trippers. When you went to Slazewell as trippers. Yeah.
41:50
And we will all back at Ashley
41:52
and Jared's house and,
41:54
anyway, anyway, anyway. Anyway, it's
41:56
a shame I still I need to go through my computer
41:58
because there is on one of my
42:00
computers, my early computers.
42:02
See, when I before we went digital,
42:05
I've got all the photos on every single photo camera camera, everywhere.
42:08
I've got a a huge box
42:10
full of actual photos. So
42:12
I've got when it got printed
42:14
every week develops. Some people listening
42:16
to this podcast who don't know
42:18
what a photograph is. Who've never
42:20
seen one printed out. Like before our
42:22
iPhones took cameras and we sold them
42:24
digitally. Mhmm. We and we've used to
42:26
take them on film and take them and get them
42:28
developed, and you would get twenty four
42:30
or thirty six -- Yes. -- pieces of paper with the photograph on
42:32
something. It's seven ninety nine or
42:34
or twelve ninety nine for a for a thirty
42:36
six. Okay.
42:38
Yep. so I've got I've still got all those
42:40
photos, but then I went the moment I went to digital
42:42
because I always had, like, a a camera. I
42:44
was I was always, like, you know, having a
42:46
new wife. I was, like, upgraded my camera every couple of years and, like,
42:49
you know, and, you know, then when I went to digital, I
42:51
thought it was the best thing ever. And so I had all
42:53
these digital photos and I had photos and
42:55
photos on my laptop. all
42:57
those laptops, like over the years, have lost or
42:59
I just haven't backed up properly, and I've lost
43:01
the hard drive, I've lost everything. But
43:03
you've you took copies not
43:05
a chunk of them -- Yeah. -- from about two
43:07
thousand and five. Well, this whole chunk of photos were all,
43:09
like, I didn't take these. I'm not in these, and I'm my
43:11
other your photos. photos.
43:14
Yeah. I'm some guide tips to got them, but I do have the hard drives or less the computers
43:16
at hard work that I need to just take
43:18
to someone and see if they can extract just the
43:20
photos, same to the Apple Store of
43:22
make sure they sign an
43:25
NDA. Yeah. Yeah. That sleazable when
43:27
you and Destiny were dressed dressed
43:29
as trippers. Yep. And
43:31
we all ended up back at
43:34
Ashley's copies. I'm not a chunk of them
43:36
-- Yeah. -- from about two thousand
43:38
and five, this whole chunk of photos
43:40
where I'm like, I didn't take these. I'm not in these. I'm
43:42
my other your photos. Yeah.
43:44
So I'm some guy that just got them, but I don't have the hard
43:46
drives or less the computers at at
43:48
work. That's only just take to
43:50
someone and see if they can extract just the photos. Same to the Apple store, make sure they sign an NDA.
43:54
Yeah. Yeah.
43:58
Got sleeves for when you and Destiny were dressed as
44:00
trippers. Yep. And we all ended
44:02
up back at Ashley's house
44:04
and Ashley's
44:06
flat plate had been like bush walking
44:08
and there was a brown
44:10
snake, an actual wild snake.
44:14
Okay. Let's clarify. A brown
44:16
snake. As a strange brown snake is one of those
44:18
venomous venomous snakes in the world.
44:20
Yeah. It wasn't a brown snake. The snake
44:22
was brown. Okay. And it wasn't
44:24
a brown snake. Well, that we know of. That we
44:26
oh, god. Surely, it couldn't have
44:28
been an actual brown snake. Like,
44:31
they are they are So It was
44:33
very aggressive. So what had happened was he saved it and took
44:35
it home. Hang on. Hang on. Hang on.
44:37
He didn't save it. He'd he'd he'd
44:39
snapped it. He'd
44:41
kidnapped to from the wild, from its home, to its family,
44:43
from its wife, and its kids -- Yeah. For his job. -- I
44:45
didn't know where he said he was going out
44:48
for milk. never came
44:50
back. Those poor snakelings.
44:52
So he's out like bush walking
44:54
and just first of all, okay.
44:58
everybody listening in the rest of the world.
45:00
I know the number one comment I
45:02
get from people all around the world is, I'd love to
45:04
come to Australia, but I'm sorry to worry about that.
45:07
I'd, yeah, I'd get killed by a snake or a spider or
45:09
a shark or a crocodile and Everything wants to kill
45:11
you. wants to kill you. Okay.
45:13
We do have things here that can kill you.
45:15
But you know what? In America, You've got
45:18
guns. Yeah. They're in people's hands in
45:20
school. Yeah. And they're much more irrational than what the
45:22
snakes do. The wildlife is. The wild side
45:24
of you. wild love is more afraid of you than you are of it, and in
45:26
the wild. It's not in the suburb. It's not
45:28
like in your backyard. Like, if you're coming Sydney
45:31
for world pride, do comes sitting for World Pride twenty twenty
45:33
three. Yes. You're not going to encounter any snakes, any
45:36
crocodiles, any crocodiles, any spider -- You might
45:38
get a funny way. -- you might get a very
45:40
bad. Not not like Not
45:42
in the city. No. If you're in a hotel. No.
45:44
No. No. No. No. If you're, like, if
45:46
you're in, like, a a terrace house
45:48
and you go out the back to the detached Lou. Yeah.
45:50
I found it read back up back of
45:52
my place. Yeah. But it's not, like, coming for
45:55
you. It's not, like, lying. No. It was money
45:57
away from me. At the moment, the
45:59
moment, I've exposed it. It was gone.
46:01
Exposed yourself to it.
46:04
Oh, sucking off those
46:06
razors. So anyway, back to seeing
46:08
it, yeah, the browns at Ashley's Place
46:10
after sleigh's Mall.
46:13
And we there
46:15
was a fish tank in the
46:17
living room. terrarium. terrarium.
46:20
terrarium. Yeah. It's like a fish tank with no water in
46:22
it. Mhmm.
46:24
With, like, like brown stick in the
46:26
bottom. And everybody was
46:28
like in the state that everybody
46:30
was in it
46:32
perhaps in a heightened state where the of snakes
46:35
and spooky things might make
46:37
your skin crawl a little bit
46:39
more than usual. And
46:42
a lot of people in that house didn't like
46:44
snakes. Like, Ashley hates snakes. You hate snakes. Like like terrified. Yeah.
46:46
Shirley hates them. And so
46:49
me being little Courtney act wanders over to the
46:52
the tank, not in an antagonizing way, but
46:54
I was just, you know, curious -- Yeah. -- going out,
46:56
there's this snake. And I'm looking I'm
46:58
like, guys, where's the snake
47:00
chain stop it? I'm
47:02
like, what? I'm just no.
47:04
No. No. Like, we don't even wanna think about
47:06
it. We don't wanna about the reality that in
47:08
the state that we're in, there is a snake named
47:10
in the house. In this in
47:12
wildest snake. Well, it's not loose in the house. Just in
47:14
a fish tank in the house. It's not loose
47:16
yet. Oh, okay. and I'm
47:17
like looking and I'm like, okay, I'll be I'll be
47:19
respectful
47:19
of everybody else's boundaries around snakes.
47:21
And so we went
47:23
about the party everywhere that's having
47:25
a good time. And then like me,
47:28
went over again to the tank, thought maybe they'd moved
47:30
up for underneath this very small brown
47:32
stick that was in there that the Snake couldn't
47:34
possibly be hiding under. And I was
47:36
like, Guys, I'm not trying to spook you all
47:38
out. But how big is
47:40
this snake? And I was
47:42
like, no. stop it. Stop talking
47:44
about a snake, and I'm like,
47:46
because if there is meant to be a
47:48
snake in this tank -- There's
47:50
not. -- unless it's a very very
47:52
small snake, There is no snake in this thing, and
47:54
that
47:54
means that
47:54
there's a snake loose in the living
47:57
room that we're all currently rolling the
47:59
floor, listening to Britney Whitney and Mariah. And so I went
48:02
downstairs and woke up his flatmate and was
48:04
like, can you come and have
48:06
a look? and turned over the very small stick that was in there that the snake
48:08
possibly couldn't be hiding under and low and behold, there
48:10
was nice snake in the tank.
48:12
And so everybody
48:14
freaked out and he's, like, jumped up on the couches and he's screaming.
48:16
And I'm, like, down on the floor looking around. And
48:18
the snake was under the couch. The couch
48:21
called out. So was standing on top of,
48:23
and everybody freaked out and then actually
48:25
flatmate put it back in the tank. And -- Yeah. --
48:27
I do have a memory of us all
48:29
gathering around the Fishers the
48:31
tank trying to work out if it is
48:33
or isn't in there? Like like,
48:36
wait, is that easy? Is it that or is it a
48:38
stick? It's a stick. Like, how
48:40
small is this snake that's hidden under
48:42
a stick? It was like a bit of
48:44
bark off a tree. Yeah. But then
48:46
later on, everyone had fallen asleep
48:48
and I remember being
48:50
awoken by this, like,
48:52
this studying, oh my
48:54
god, and I looked
48:57
up. and I looked over at the tank and
48:59
the snake was, like, up on
49:02
its hind quarters. Yeah.
49:04
Yeah. Yeah. Read up.
49:06
Read up. trying to head butt its way out of the glass
49:08
top of the tank. It was, like, phew. phew.
49:10
phew. Like, trying to get out. It
49:13
was a while and -- Wow. -- and it was trying to,
49:15
like, headbutt off the the -- Oh. -- half
49:18
lid of the fish tank so that
49:20
it could escape and go back
49:22
to its wife and kids in the
49:24
bush. Oh, god. In
49:26
the state we're in in the state we're in.
49:28
Yep. That's one story. Alright.
49:31
Well, there you go, Kiribili,
49:34
that one's for you. You wanted
49:36
to hear a story about the good old days. I've got the
49:38
photos of that say as well
49:40
because there's a photo
49:42
of don't know if that's
49:44
fine. Competitor has a poppy seed in her eye.
49:46
Yeah. She Yes. Yeah. That was a good idea. Yeah. Okay. Well, thanks for
49:48
listening too. Brenda, Carly. We would
49:50
love to hear from you. So send us an email
49:52
at brenda at novapodcasts dot
49:56
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49:58
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50:01
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50:04
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50:07
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50:10
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50:12
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