It comes for us all and touches every one of us. Death. when someone close to us passes, Is it okay to not be okay? Often we are told to snap out of it or they are in a better place so we should rejoice. When a child's father passes from cancer he is told by many members of the church that now he needed to be saved in order to seem him again which pushed him further away. How do we handle the loss of a child or a loved one, do we blame God? Do people who commit suicide or unsaved babies go to hell?  Being on staff I was told that I needed to snap out of it and there is a very real expectation of keeping up a happy appearance. This episode hurts, come and join the conversation.