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Welcome to another episode of Busy

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Babes with Hannah and Sid.

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Happy Valentine's Day, Gallentines,

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Happy Valentine's.

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Day, Happy Valentine's Day. You guys

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are so excited, so exciting.

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We have a guest. Yes, long

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time coming. Kristin Bautista

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is in the house.

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Woo woooooo that's me. We

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love having you here. I'm so excited

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for this episode.

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I've been anticipating recording

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this for so long.

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Now. Wait, don't tell me that because then, Okay,

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No, I'm not nervous. I'm not nervous. I'm fine.

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Just conversation. It's fun, it's easy.

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Yeah, okay, do you want.

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To tell us a little bit about yourself and just

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give a little intro about Kristen.

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If you know me, well, you know, call me

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KB. Yeah. I've lived in LA

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since twenty nineteen too, and I've been

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kind of just living life.

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Fun fact is KB. Do you want

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to call Kristin or KB on the pod?

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Would you prefer? I don't know. Whatever

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whatever you guys say.

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Kristin, I'm like, no, I do I know you're not

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that well maybe never. I've never called

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you KB.

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I don't know that I've ever noticed call me KB

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like on occasion, Oh

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my god.

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Well whatever, whatever you guys want to call me.

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I'll call her KB. You call her Kristen

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and really confused because.

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That's I swear. I've heard you guys call

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me both. But okay, that's okay, I'm down for whatever.

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No, but the fun fact is that you sit right behind us

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or particularly and then

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when when Sydney's in office, then so

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I'm sure you listen in on Can

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you hear us talking?

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Sometimes I feel like you guys can hear me more than

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I can hear you.

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No, I don't.

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I don't feel like I ever hear anybody

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else around me. And maybe that's just

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because like when I lock in, like I lock into

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whatever every other hour,

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I feel like, yeah, that's also true. But

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like every time I want to talk to you, I'm like, oh, Sydney's

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in a meeting. The good thing is I

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don't hear you in the background of my conversations,

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like whenever I am at a meeting, so it's like I

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really don't hear you.

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That's good. I got in trouble one time. They

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were like, oh really, yes, because I kept

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talking and talking and talking and the

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person that was on the meeting I had to put themselves on mute

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and tell me, like a Kat, shut up, you're

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being loud. I'm like, oh, oh my god, okay,

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And it was the hardest, like thirty minutes of my life.

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I can't not talk. That's just me. You guys

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know that. I'm like, oh, okay, I hate this. I hate this. I

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hate this. But that's so funny.

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Well, we're excited to have you here because

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this is a relationship episode.

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Yes, it is.

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Juice. We got the juice, lots of juice, lots

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of hot piping tea. And

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what better way to do a relationship

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episode than on Valentine's Day?

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Of course. And I call this the three

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Stooges.

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I don't know why other than the fact that

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we are currently in the

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three stages of a relationship.

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Yeah.

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So yeah, so Sydney's

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currently dating HM, I'm

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married, and then KB Kristen.

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We'll figure out what to call you midway through. Yeah, she

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is newly single.

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That is correct. Nice. So

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we've got.

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Some hot, juicy questions

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to ask Kristen. Okay

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in this episode, So, Sidney, do

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you want to kick it off? I would love

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nothing more than they kick off. Then

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to kick off this conversation, here

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we go, everybody, Here we go. Starting

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first, we just want to know

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the people on the pod want to know what

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advice would you give to someone who just got

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out of a relationship and is newly

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single.

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Okay, I this is probably my favorite

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question only because I

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I probably would have never been able to answer this

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and like give you an answer that I'm proud of up

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until this point. So four

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bullet points. The

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best advice to get over a breakup? Right, I

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would say, find a playlist

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or create a playlist, listen

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to a podcast, look

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for your tribe or like go to your tribe

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and feel everything.

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And like what I mean by that is like your

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playlist. Like I have multiple playlists. I have playlists

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that's like I'm feeling good today, I want to be happy,

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so I'm gonna play that like all these songs. And

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then I have like a reminder playlist, which

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if Lauren Spencer Smith is listening out there,

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I need to meet her because whatever she's gone through,

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like her songs really just like

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okay, yes, Lauren Spencer, She's

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so nice. What I'm talking about knows what I'm

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feeling and then yeah, just like like a

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workout, like a workout playlist.

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I don't work out. I'm getting to that

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point, okay, okay, I mean just something to pump

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you up, you know, like all different kinds of playlists, but definitely

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like curate your own for any mood that

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you're in on any given day. Listen to a podcast.

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I love Jaysheddy on Purpose, I know, and

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Busy Babes, of course, I love you guys.

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Jay is elite,

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He's like the one, so for

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sure, find something that like kind of suits

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your current situation again

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day to day, Like sometimes I don't listen to him,

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sometimes I do, but it definitely does help find

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your tribe, like go to people that like will

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support you and like lift you up and

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make you feel better.

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And then yeah, feel everything everything,

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feel it, because the only way to get through it is to actually

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go through it. Oh so true.

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I just got chills.

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I have a question for you about one

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of your bullet points. So when you say

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find your tribe, yeah, did you

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feel like it was really easy to identify

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your tribe when you felt like you needed to find one,

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or did you have to like search for

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what was right for you.

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That's a good question. I'm very

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blessed to be really really close with my

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family. There's a lot of cousins my age,

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Like we're all within like ten years

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but like three years apart, two years

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apart, five years apart. But we're all so close,

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and they've all been through

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their own, you know, experiences

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in life, so I knew going to them was kind of a

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no brainer. But in terms

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of like non family, like to be honestly talking

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to you guys, like letting

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you in on my life and like kind of

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just getting a fresh perspective on

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a situation where you might not have known

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the other person, you

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know, and you're kind of just looking at it from an outside

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point of view. But yeah, like I definitely

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have my tribe that's already existing,

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but you know, welcoming you

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guys into that inner circle was also a huge help.

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Like I do not have girlfriends,

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Like it's so hard for me. I don't know what it is, but

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like I feel like over the past couple

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of months, even just over the past like year, like I've

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really grown close with you guys,

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A couple of the girl other girls at iHeart and

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I love it and I value you

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and I'm so grateful for your guys' friendship.

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That's really so sweet.

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We love thank you, Yeah, I know, thank

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I mean I mean it, you know. Yeah, I

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was gonna say thank you for bringing us into your inner circle.

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Yeah, you know, I loved you know, being there

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for you during that because it's hard. You know, we can

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safely acknowledge that breakups are really painful

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and really hard, and that pain when

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you said, you know it's okay to feel

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that.

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Lasts that can last a while.

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Yeah, and you need people in your life to

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bring you through that process because

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it is hard.

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Yeah, and it's it's definitely like hills and valleys.

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You know, there's like all

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feel good for like a good month, and I'm

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like yes, and then a random day happens, and you

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know, you just go through it. And sometimes

7:20

when Sydney's not here and it's just

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you and me on the fourth floor, I'm like, Okay, what's Hannah

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doing. Let me go go like talk to her,

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vented out. So yeah,

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I love you guys, always love you too.

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I was gonna say I was talking to Hannah earlier

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today and we were just talking about how excited we

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were for this podcast, and I was like,

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it has been really incredible

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to see how you've blossomed as

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like an individual from like the first time we

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all hung out, we all got like tea together, and

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just to see the difference in like the confidence

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and the personality, where like you've

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really just stepped into this amazing

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person.

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Wait really yeah, yeah, I was.

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Yeah, we were literally just talking about this a few hours ago,

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just how you've really come into your own h

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And that's you know, I think people don't really anticipate

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that, even when they're going through a painful breakup,

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like how much

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better they end up being on the other side of it.

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And that's been you truly. I

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just you know, people say that

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to me and I don't notice it for myself,

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And I don't know if that's a thing that

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I need to work on or if I

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just like I'm so like, oh, I don't want to recognize it

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in myself. But I mean, whow you

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guys, Okay, I think thank

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you. I don't think it's a change necessarily

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from who you are. I just think it's a really nice

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like shine of who you've always

8:35

felt on the inside really being like reflected

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on the outside.

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Yeah, it's really nice. I'm like, we love

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it, ye support it.

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I'll show up for you guys.

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You always do, miss hand. Do you want

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to ask the next question? I absolutely

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do? So who is your relationship

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role model?

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And why? Oh my gosh,

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I have so many first and foremost,

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and this is not like a cop out answer by any

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means, but I of the

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way my dad loves my mom cry

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so truly, especially

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like like there's this one picture

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that I have of them

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and they're wearing a King and Queen hoodie

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hoodies and they're playing I think they're

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playing beer pong. I have this

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photo. I'm just like, oh my god, my parents are so cute.

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And like now that my my dad still works but my mom's

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like retired, he'll take

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like vacation, like they go on staycations.

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They'll literally go to Vegas for a weekend and

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they'kay. And I remember my dad telling me like this

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one weekend that they went to to Vegas and I was like,

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oh, how was your trip? He's like, oh, it was good.

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Like you know, your mom and I just held hands walking down

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the shop. I would like tickle her

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a little bit, and I'm like, dad, oh

9:44

yeah, he like I love

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how they love each other, how they value each other, even

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as simple like they discuss everything, even

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like which credit card are they going to use

9:54

to pay for dinner? Like I would, we would

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go, you know, to dinner as like family, like okay, which

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one should we like? Okay? This one? Okay? Like

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just everything, they talk about everything, and

10:02

they are they still have this friendship

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foundation that is very like a parent, you

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know, when you're around them. Yeah, they're

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for sure like my biggest relationship

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role model. And it is true what

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they say, find somebody

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or find a man that you know loves

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you the way your dad loves your mom or

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you know, my daughter. I'm sorry, okay, I'm

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sorry. I'm sorry. I'm sorry, but

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yeah, my parents are the best. Love

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you guys.

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That's adorable, you know. I

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I do recognize like little patterns like

10:35

that when I'm with Parker. Sometimes

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it's like, oh, like I feel like

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it's been almost three years now when we

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still act the same like when we were first dating,

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Like that's never changed. So I'm like, I don't

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know, like Hannah, if that's how you feel

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with Simon.

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Oh yeah no, the friendship piece,

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yeah is so key, Like Simon

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as my husband, like he is my best friend.

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Oh I love that.

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And it's that person

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who you literally can't picture

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doing life without and

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that's him for me. So no,

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I just like I love what you were saying about your parents, because

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yeah, that's how you know you've found

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your person.

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Yeah, I love that you brought up Simon because and I

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still have yet to meet Parker. Well, I've met Parker

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multiple times, but never like

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to like kind of talk and chit chat. Like

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it's just always so like such a short like moment.

11:25

But last week we had the Valentine's

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I've met Simon before, but it was more like a high

11:30

nice to meet you. Yeah, and even just that short

11:32

interactive He's such a nice guy, just from

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all the what fifteen to twenty minutes that

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he like had come home. He wanted

11:39

to brash our party. He changed.

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He put on a pink hoodie that was like, He's like,

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I want to get it read pants.

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I was like, did you change to match us?

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He made his own little Valentine cocktail. He

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was in it back. Yeah, he

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was there for it for sure. But yeah, I can see it

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even even in your guys's like

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Instagram posts, and I

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know you know social media only tells

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part of the story. But I love seeing your

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guys' relationships. You know, it's it's

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very cute and I'm happy for you both.

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Aw, thank you.

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That's very cute.

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Now, Kristen, I assume

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that you are maybe dating or

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looking to start dating, but I

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wanted to know what is your least favorite

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date question to be asked?

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Oh my gosh, I haven't been on a date

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in so long, but I feel like, I

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mean, the generic questions you ask on a first day is kind

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of the same, right. I hate.

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I don't want to say hate, but when people

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say, so, what do you like to do for fun?

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Oh my gosh, I just feel.

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Like, honestly, it's like,

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I'm down for anything. If it's not fun, then I'll

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let you know. If it is fun, then you can tell,

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like, what do you like to do for I don't just

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why don't you take me somewhere and we'll

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see if I have a good time? Breach? Yeah that's

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good. Yeah, Like, I can't just list like, oh, this

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is what I like, you know what? I just so

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it's too generic.

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And why does that question send me into no matter

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who's asking, I'm like, I

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don't know actually.

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But I think also because I'm such a homebody, I'm

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like, what do I like to do for fun? Stay

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in bed and watch episodes of suits?

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I don't know that's fun. Suits.

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I was gonna say, well, if you say

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that you like, I don't know, hiking, and this guy's

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like, perfect, I'm like a hiker and I'm gonna

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take you for like an eighteen mile hike

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around trip.

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You would not be down for that, would you?

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Oh my god? I think I would say, you know, I would

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like more of a stroll. No incline,

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please, maybe one mile? But

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then that makes me sound like, Okay, she doesn't like, well,

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I didn't say that I liked hiking.

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It's a setup. It's all, yeah, all set

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up. I don't I'm not about a trap, like,

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don't trap me, yeah into something I don't

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want to say.

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Wait, what about you guys? What's your What's

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like a first date question that you just absolutely

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just hate.

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I mean, it's been so long since I've been on a first

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day. I'm just like trying to think of questions that Simon just asked.

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Me, like

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can you take up the trash? Babe? No? I hate that question.

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No, honestly though, I love him

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for this, but it always catches me up guard. He's like sometimes

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he'll just be like, so, what

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is the like one thing in life that makes you the happiest?

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Oh my god, I'm the headlights.

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Yes, like

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ice break.

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Your questions like that are just so scary to me.

14:18

Sometimes very true, very true.

14:21

I was gonna well one, I feel like when

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I'm on first dates, I get so nervous that like

14:25

I like mentally like black out half the

14:27

conversation because I'm like so focused

14:29

on like that person and like not saying

14:31

something silly. But

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I think when they ask like, oh, well, like

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what do you see for yourself in the future, Like

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I feel like that's almost like a loaded question in

14:41

some ways, because if I say, like, oh,

14:43

in five years, I want to be like settled

14:45

down and married and this and that, and it's like the first date,

14:47

then they're going to be like, Okay, maybe

14:50

maybe next, like thank you next.

14:52

But I don't know that would be the only question I would

14:54

think that I'd be uncomfortable or like nervous

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to respond to.

14:58

I feel like it's not a bad question, just a bad

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first date question, because you do make a good point. It

15:02

is very loaded, like we're just here to have dinner.

15:05

Yeah, exactly, It's like, what do you see yourself doing

15:07

in five years? I'm like, well, I don't want to share

15:09

all my drooms and aspirations if you don't understand

15:11

them yet.

15:12

Like that's a good point. Yeah, that's a

15:14

good point.

15:14

It gets really hard out there. Okay, we're gonna take

15:17

a quick break. We'll be right back. Okay,

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we're back, and Kristen,

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what are your Valentine's Day plans

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as a newly single woman?

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So I have this guy waiting at home for

15:32

me, already on

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the bed. Just I

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know what you're gonna say. I know what you're gonna say, but

15:40

it still he spends his day just

15:42

like waiting for me to come

15:44

home.

15:44

My gosh, just you ready to snuggle?

15:46

He's ready to snow. Literally,

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my Valentine's Day plans is me

15:52

and Samson, my dog Samson. If you guys

15:54

don't you guys don't know already, He's

15:56

like the pride and joy of my life. I'm just absolutely

15:58

obsessed. But he's my guy, he's my

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date. We're just gonna hang out, you

16:02

know, maybe get some cold stone. I don't know, but

16:05

yeah, he's my dude for sure for

16:07

tonight. And I'm that's so

16:09

romantic.

16:11

No, I love it.

16:12

That's so cute. Yeah, like

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it's kind of cute, like knowing like, okay,

16:16

yeah, I'm single whatever, but I

16:19

have I have a dog that loves me. That's

16:22

great.

16:23

You're never single with a dog.

16:25

That I'm taking that quote. I love that. Please,

16:27

that's your new Instagram bio. There you go. I

16:29

need to change mine, I think. I yeah, I need

16:32

to change my mind. You're never single with it, never single dog?

16:34

Yeah? Did you? What was it?

16:35

You're never single with a dog?

16:37

You're right?

16:37

Yeah, you're no alone time and I

16:40

love it more than any.

16:41

Literally, no alone time even when

16:43

I go pee. Yeah, they're

16:45

there. I know.

16:46

It's perfect. It's nice.

16:47

It's like you feel supported always. You never have to

16:49

question their loyal true.

16:51

That's true. Yeah, unconditional love

16:53

right there.

16:55

I love you anyways, even when you don't want them to.

16:57

I'm so mean to my dog. Please

16:59

go away.

17:00

Sometimes to sage.

17:02

I mean, I won't lie. Yeah, sometimes I'm just

17:04

like dude, I need my

17:06

space, but then I welcome it like two

17:08

seconds later. I know.

17:10

I know. I'm the worst with that, I'm like stage get

17:12

away way for me. And then literally

17:14

two seconds later, I'm like here yea, and

17:16

you feel bad.

17:17

And you're like, oh, hey, no, I'm just kidding. Come back, come back, come back.

17:20

Oh my gosh, speaking of love.

17:23

Oh no, I'm nervous. If I wasn't

17:25

nervous already, here we go, Kristen.

17:28

Yes, when do you think would be the right

17:30

time to say I love you to someone

17:32

that you're dating?

17:33

Oh?

17:34

Oh my god.

17:34

Okay, I thought I can answer this question. I feel

17:37

like if you, if you know

17:39

that you love somebody, don't say

17:41

it, then I feel like you should say I

17:43

love you when you feel

17:46

genuinely loved by that person. Back.

17:49

Wow, Because

17:51

I and I fall hard, I will

17:53

admit I'm like hopeless and romantic.

17:56

I look at you know, the I see

17:58

the best in people. All of that. So I know that I fall

18:00

hard. But if there's anything

18:02

that I learned from

18:05

just past experiences, especially

18:07

because I love so fast, I love everybody, you know, they're

18:10

like, Okay, let me I know that I love this person,

18:12

but let me hold off until I just get that feeling

18:14

of that feeling in return that

18:17

I that I genuinely feel loved

18:19

by that person and then I can share it.

18:22

That's like job dropping,

18:25

like not even kidding right

18:27

now, I am rethinking my entire

18:29

life.

18:30

No, don't do that. Don't do that.

18:32

I'm like, I mean

18:34

that's fair because I feel like as

18:36

a person and just kind of like as a

18:39

girl, I always say like I love you. It's

18:41

like like everybody, like all my friends,

18:43

like family, like, but that word

18:45

in a relationship means so much different,

18:48

like than just be like, oh my god, like girl, I love you.

18:50

You know, it's just so much like heavier, so

18:52

like sometimes you really have to like think about

18:55

the weight of what you're saying.

18:56

Yeah, yeah, and I don't I'm not like

18:59

discouraging, Like if you know that you

19:01

love somebody, say it and if that's your thing, then

19:03

for sure. But for me moving

19:06

forward, you know, if I do ever fall

19:08

in love again, I think I'll hold off and

19:11

just wait to see if I yeah, if I feel

19:13

like that's love is reciprocated and it's

19:15

safe, it's a safe space for

19:18

me to let them know that.

19:20

Wow. Yeah, that is incredibly

19:23

so wise, so wise and insightful

19:26

too.

19:27

Yeah I will, I will say, yeah, you know, I

19:29

am a little bit wiser. Yeah

19:31

anything, Yeah, yeah, no.

19:33

It's amazing. Are you pro

19:35

dating apps? If so, which ones?

19:38

Oh? God, I have not been on a

19:40

single dating app. I'm

19:42

not against it. I think I'm scared of it.

19:45

I don't blame you. It's scary if it can't

19:47

me like, it's the new way of dating.

19:49

And I'm like, I haven't dated in

19:53

almost a decade. Like, I'm like, oh my god,

19:55

did it change? Do I still know how to flirt? Like? Do

19:57

you flirt through an app? Like? App's

19:59

terrified. I'm not opposed to it. I just don't

20:01

know that I'm there yet.

20:04

Okay, but when I am, I know

20:06

who I'm calling. I'm like, Busy Babes hotline

20:10

here, we have a caller. Yeah,

20:12

Busy Babes help hotline. That's your good is

20:15

a new thing?

20:15

Oh my gosh, that would be fun for them

20:18

that I'm keeping that in the notes.

20:20

Yeah, yeah, taking it down.

20:21

You're welcome.

20:22

I will say there was.

20:24

Only one time that I've ever been on

20:26

a dating app, and it was just to kind of like help

20:28

build my confidence type thing. And

20:30

instead of seeing it as like a really serious

20:32

dating platform which helped me a lot, was

20:35

I picked the photos that I felt were like best representative

20:38

of me, that were like I'm like, okay, good, I feel

20:40

good about these photos. And then my profile

20:42

was just kind of like a bunch of funny

20:44

stuff, like I didn't take it seriously at

20:47

all, and to see people like responding and

20:49

like matching to stuff that I was like, well,

20:51

this is just me being funny, So like obviously they're

20:53

like either interested in me or they're.

20:54

Like my humor.

20:56

And it took all the pressure off of needing

20:59

to be like approachable

21:01

in a.

21:01

Way or like likable.

21:02

It just kind of like put out the humor and was fun in

21:04

conversation starters.

21:05

Did you get any dates from it?

21:08

No?

21:10

No, because this was also like right

21:12

when the pandemic started.

21:15

Well we were like kind of in the pandemic at the time, so

21:17

I was like, well, one, I don't want to go meet.

21:19

Someone or like get from

21:21

them.

21:22

Yeah, like you know when people were like in the cars

21:24

but like a parking lot, like a parking space

21:26

overtype thing. Yeah, like this is not the time,

21:28

and I was kind of not ready

21:31

to like actually go on a date.

21:33

Yeah.

21:33

So and that was the only one time I'd been

21:35

on the dating app but it helped, Like I.

21:38

Get what you're saying, like if I'm whenever

21:41

that time comes, if I just

21:43

don't take it so seriously and

21:45

I use it to help boost my confidence, and yeah, I

21:47

kind of just like, look but don't touch

21:50

type of thing, like just see what's out there, then

21:53

maybe I'm not opposed to it. I think

21:55

I'm just yeah, scared, scared about

21:57

that whole situation. But yeah, if I

22:00

take it lightheartedly, I think I'll have a better

22:02

attitude about it.

22:02

And it kind of helps with like your flirt game.

22:05

Really, yeah, how do you flirt

22:07

through?

22:08

I mean, well, that's how you learn because

22:10

it's like, cool, they didn't respond next,

22:12

Like there's no like real attachment

22:14

at that point. I think that's so it's easier

22:17

to like kind of like suss out how

22:19

you want.

22:19

To approach things.

22:20

Yeah, and when you do find the right person or like a

22:22

conversation flows naturally, you're like, Okay,

22:24

that.

22:25

Worked, that's true. That's true.

22:27

Oh my gosh, I have to learn how to flirt all over again,

22:29

you guys, No, no, just be yourself

22:32

yourself, You'll figure it out. That's true. That's

22:34

true.

22:35

Beating as are easy because yeah, there's no commitment

22:38

tied to it. Yeah, you don't know the person

22:40

unless you accidentally swipe on someone you do know.

22:43

Oh god, no, just kidding.

22:44

But yeah, there's no commitment tied to it, so

22:46

you can just say do whatever.

22:49

Yeah, go with the flow, Go with the flow, be yourself.

22:51

Yeah, maybe I'll catfish somebody the first time around.

22:53

Oh no, oh my god, that's

22:57

such already. I'm like,

22:59

no, I'm

23:03

gonna be on the next episode. Isn't there a show?

23:05

Yeah with Leave. I used

23:08

to watch that show all the time.

23:10

Okay, so I've got a question

23:12

for you, and then I think we'll have Hannah have one

23:14

more question for you and then and then you're off the hot

23:17

seat. But if someone were to

23:19

like capture your heart, what

23:21

is your favorite way to receive affection?

23:24

Quality time? One thousand and

23:27

one percent, two thousand and five. That ten thousand

23:29

percent quality time, And

23:32

I'm not talking about like

23:35

going to the movies. To me, like is

23:37

not quality time because

23:39

you can't even really talk to the person. You know, you're

23:41

kind of both absolutely watching. I feel like that's something

23:43

where it's like, after that's fine,

23:45

go to the movies, but you're not. It's not really like

23:48

an intimate You're not getting much out

23:50

of it, you know, except for Okay, you both might like this

23:52

movie and that's cool. But yeah,

23:54

quality time try some trying something

23:56

new with

23:59

somebody that like both of you are

24:01

new at, you know, because then you get to learn

24:03

like their character and like how they approach like

24:05

something that they're terrible at, but you're also terrible

24:07

at it too, So there's like a sense of humor in that. Cuddling

24:11

on the couch, cooking dinner together, whatever. It is.

24:13

Just quality time is like the

24:15

way to my heart. For sure.

24:17

I relate to that so much. I'm such a quality

24:19

time girl.

24:20

Yeah, I love it.

24:21

I eat it up, the cuddling on the couch,

24:23

the yeah, the making dinner to get like anything

24:26

that involves doing something together, not

24:29

something that takes you away from like going to I

24:31

mean, I love Simon and I love watching movies

24:33

together at home. Yeah, I'm not a

24:35

big theater person. Oh

24:37

it's like sitting. I mean, I'll do it, but I don't

24:39

love it as much I do at home.

24:41

I think it's just different.

24:42

Yeah, No, for sure, it's different.

24:44

I just like the popcorn vibe of the theater.

24:47

Like can we just get popcorn

24:49

and then leave?

24:50

Oh my gosh, don't even my family would do that. We

24:52

would go to the movies. You would buy popcorn

24:54

and we bring it home for movie nights.

24:56

I don't know what's the problem. You

24:58

know, there's like a movie butter popcorn

25:01

the same. Yeah, what's

25:04

or Will?

25:04

I can never say his name or written but Bucker,

25:07

whatever his name is. What that's the popcorn

25:09

brand?

25:09

That's like? Is that is that the popcorn

25:11

brand? You know? We should do a chest. We should

25:14

buy movie butter popcorn from like the grocery

25:16

store and then go and get popcorn side

25:19

by side.

25:19

No chance.

25:20

If you ever new Cinema city, there's

25:22

nothing like Cinema City popcorn. I mean, it's

25:24

pretty much like all movie popcorn.

25:27

Yeah, you need it. I'm like salivating. You need the butter,

25:29

you.

25:29

Need the salt. It's it's a whole vibe.

25:31

It has to be like grease dripping through

25:33

the little tray that.

25:35

Oh my god, the

25:38

experience. That's true. That's true,

25:40

like a whole handful. You just eat it by the handful.

25:43

There's just like I don't know, like the smell. It's

25:45

really the environment. For me.

25:46

I'm like, I love a good like movie,

25:48

but I don't go as often. But I will go and

25:51

get the popcorn and take it home.

25:53

I'm so dead, that's I'm

25:55

just in it for the diet coke. I can get that anywhere,

25:57

but for some reason, like a movie diet coke extra

26:00

large DC.

26:01

I think I need an icy an

26:04

icy. Oh that's what they're yeah, right, that's how you pronounce

26:06

it. I see like we

26:08

used to call it.

26:09

I think it's cinema city.

26:10

They were just polar pops. Oh that's

26:12

a cute name for it.

26:13

I will go get This

26:18

is my experience and my experience only.

26:22

Okay, Kristin, Okay, final question?

26:25

Oh thank god, No, I'm just kidding. I'm

26:28

just kidding. I'm just like, okay, nervous.

26:30

You should be nervous for this one.

26:32

Yeah, I agree, absolutely, even gonna be

26:34

like the easiest one to answer. I'm sure I

26:36

don't know.

26:37

Okay, ready, yes, okay, Kristin,

26:39

Yeah, maybe yes? Will

26:41

you be our Valentine?

26:43

Oh my god, yes, of course

26:47

I love that.

26:48

All right, folks, that's it, that's

26:51

it.

26:53

Yeah, well you have at least two Valentines

26:56

today, so kel Samson to move

26:58

over.

26:58

Yeah, you know, find find another

27:01

dog.

27:01

Or tell Sampson you have other plans.

27:04

New phone. Who's this Sampson.

27:06

He's like waiting in the bed, and you're like, sorry, buddy.

27:08

Oh my god, I need to go home right now. I need to go

27:10

give Samson a hug again next year. Well,

27:14

thank you guys for having me on. I love

27:16

it.

27:17

Thank you for joining us. We had such a good

27:19

time with you. Thank you our relationship

27:21

guru. Like this really turned around. I feel

27:25

healed. I feel like I learned a lot from

27:27

you.

27:27

Yeah. Absolutely, I'm here for it. Yeah,

27:30

thank you guys.

27:30

Love you guys, thank you, love you, love thanks

27:33

for joining us. Valentine's Day, Happy

27:35

Valentine's Day, Jinks,

27:38

Happy Valentine's Day.