I never understood birthdays growing up. I knew I always hated mine as a child, because I was unsure how much heartache the day would bring. But, when I became a mother myself, I finally connected the dots and got it: birthdays are about celebrating the life of that person and the joy you have for their presence in yours. So, when you grow up with a pattern of rejected opportunities to be celebrated, it dramatically affects your sense of self and self-worth. Listen in as I describe my own experiences and the tendrils of impact into my life as an adult. What dots can you connect between the occasions where people failed to celebrate you and how you see yourself now? Let’s explore…

Host: Debbie Dibs of the Calling Dibs Podcast

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