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Welcome back to get another Canfully Reckless

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episode with your girl Jess.

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I be fixing mess and I'll be fixing it all the time,

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Thursday.

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anyway, the first story somebody

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sent me this long ass excerpt

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this is. This is longer than a passage. Okay,

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this is like a chapter of a book. And y'all

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know pregnant jest do Now, I do all everything,

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So please, I'm gonna have one of my producers

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read from me and then I'll fix the mess.

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Hey, Jess, I.

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Need some on relationship advice,

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as in, how do you get rid of someone who just won't

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let a relationship go. I'm completely

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over the father of my children. We've been together

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almost ten years and I was completely

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in love with that man and thought he was

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my best friend and soulmate. It must have

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been the sex because I was completely digmatized.

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He played me damn near the entire relationship,

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but I didn't find out until two years ago, and

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it's been a complete mess. I

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suspected him cheating and things fell off, but

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I never had proof or he made

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it seem like.

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I was crazy.

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Two years ago, I was eight months pregnant

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and engaged in him. I picked up his pants

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and his phone fell out his pocket unlocked.

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It's like God was basically telling

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me to see the truth. What was in the

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phone was way more than I ever

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expected, and he was complete slut,

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even fucking around with women I knew

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and saying the money as gifts while not

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helping with the household. To make it worse,

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he messed with women at the apartment complex

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we've lived at, even our most

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recent place.

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I'm so over his lives and bullshit.

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Last year, I was ready to get my own place, but he guilt

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tripped me and said it was best for the kids

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to stay together another year.

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Well, this year has been hell.

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He's so toxic and it still has drama

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with females coming to my door tells

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me I'm making things up. I

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can't deal with this. So recently I got

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my own place without him knowing. The lease is

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almost up, and I'm doing everything in

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my power to jumpstart this man into finding

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a place to live or even rehome him

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to another bitch for all I care, But

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he refuses to accept it and still makes it

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seem like we are going to be together. His

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family refuses to help and even

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encourages.

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Him to stay with me.

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I don't even know what to do to get rid of this man because

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he literally needs me for everything housing

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and transportation. Yes, he

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works, but rarely helps with household bills.

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I don't want the father of my kids on the street,

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and he still needs to watch the kids while I work,

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But I also don't want him laid up in my new apartment.

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Think he could say there, we don't have family

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that can help with the kids, so it's just us taking care

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of them.

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So we were basically stuck with each other. Any

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advice t'n be.

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Homing my baby daddy, and so don't

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fill in the blinks that you are not having sex

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at all and there's no chance to ever getting

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back together.

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Just big with everything. Y'all listen, I have but everything

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before I jump into our story. I got

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everything big for the first time, so

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it's gonna have my breath like real oniony, but

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the cream cheese and it.

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Is toasted with extra butter. Baby,

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thank you. That's all I gotta say.

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Now. I

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do not like calling my beautiful

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black woman clowns.

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But baby, i'd be lying

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if I say you as in lying, you are a

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clown. And sometimes we have to tell each other

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this so we can pick ourselves up and dust ourselves

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off and try again. Why are

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you worried about a man who

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don't give a damn about your feelings at the

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end of the day, being put out

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on a damn street.

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Oh, because he the father of my children.

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He didn't give a fuck that she was the mother of his

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kids when he was cheating on your ass for the past ten

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years. What you just found out about two years

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ago, all because his phone was slipped out the pocket.

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And you washing his clothes.

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What I believe if

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he ain't putting his hands on you, if he ain't

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got no gun to your head, if he is not holding

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your children hostage, if he ain't

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doing none of this car.

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You can leave his ass. Let him be on the fucking

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streets.

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Now, Listen, what he may do is go be with

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somebody else for the convenience of it. Because he seems

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to like being taken care of and his family raised

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them wrong.

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Don't give a fuck.

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Wud nobody say they raise them wrong because they're still

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encouraging his cheating ass to be with you. That's

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because you're taking care of him. You're

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not responsible for your children's father.

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You're responsible for the children just like

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he is. Leave his ass. Talk

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about oh, and don't there's no feeling

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the blanks. We're not sleeping together. We're

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not what happens when you want to date the fuck because

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I know he's still dating. He just probably

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ain't bringing the bitches around you. And also,

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if you're able to take care of him, then you

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should be able to take care of getting a babysit

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up for your kids.

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Why you gotta do anything? Look, I don't care. I do

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not care.

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I see mom's do it all the time, without

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their families, without friend groups, without

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support groups, all that. Like

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we do it women, We do it all. No

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discredit to men, because every man out there not

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like that. And we have a lot of heartworking

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dads. But women, come on,

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now, we do this shit. You

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feel sorry for him, yourse to have a soft spot for him.

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That's crazy. He didn't have not one fucking

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soft spot for you. You can't seem to shake

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them. You can't, girl, like I said, unless he beaten

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your ass up and down the house, or

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like I said, holding you hostage, gun to your head,

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all that you can walk the fuck

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out of his life period.

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Get a restraining order. Oh but then he can't

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see the kids.

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He wasn't worrying about that when he was with Denise, Vanessa

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and Rudy and Claire.

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He wasn't thinking about none of that.

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Girl. No, I think you

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have lost your everlast of mind. And

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I'm sorry for all my aggression, but

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sweetie, you can do better. And sometimes

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a lot of us women need to be told that by other

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women who are completely unbiased. Like

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I'm not your friend. I don't know you, never saw you a day

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in my life. You know what I'm saying, So I

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don't know you. This is just like anonymous.

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You know, I'm hearing a story and I'm telling another

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woman what she could do, what she

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should do.

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You know what I'm saying. You still love them?

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I know you do.

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You know I'm not saying that you are attracted so on or

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you don't you know what I'm saying, because all right, taking

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account me and my son's father, we

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are way past intimacy. We're not, you

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know, attracted to each other anymore.

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I haven't dated Rome since before our baby turn

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one year old. Like that's just how that

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is, you know. And I often say that we're like brother

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and sister. So I would give Rome

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the shirt off my back, yes I will, But I would not

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give him a place to stay in my house because I am

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in a relationship.

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I'm moving forward. That's just that's a

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no.

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No.

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There are still boundaries. That's why I'm telling you

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this.

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There are still boundaries that has to be set

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and have to be put between you and your baby daddy.

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What's wrong with him getting a fucking y'all? If he ain't got no

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record with even niggas with records, fuck

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a record. Even men with records are

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able to get jobs. He got to start from somewhere.

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You cannot carry him as one of your kids.

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That's just not what it is. That's not what it's supposed to be.

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But about what I was saying about Rome,

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Me and Rome are close enough. Well, I never want to

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see him on the street either, but he can't come into my house.

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He can't.

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And a man, a real man, would

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never let himself be on the fucking

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streets. You know, of course it's

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circumstantial. But if this nigga

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got all the sense and all the high mighty power

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to go cheat back to back like that and

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sending money to other bitches, this nigga was

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fucking with bitches and y'all complex where

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y'all live, and you worried

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about him being thrown out on the streets? Are you dumb?

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I'm sorry, Like, uh,

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we're not going for that. Sometimes we need tough

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love as women, and I'm here to give it. But I'm

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serious, like this man, this

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is not what love is supposed to be. This is not

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even what a friendship looks like. He don't respect

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you, says, why the fuck you sending

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money that you don't have or that

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you claim you don't have when it comes to me putting your ass

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out on other bitches to other bitches, like

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why what are we doing? What are we doing here? His

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priorities is all fucked up. It seemed like you

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were engaged to a kid. You had babies by

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baby a baby mindset ass Nigga,

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we're not doing that. We shouldn't

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do that in twenty twenty four. We shouldn't have never

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been doing it, like we shouldn't have been ever doing it.

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But it needs to stop now,

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So you need to get back in touch with me

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and update me.

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Sorry.

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Like I said, sorry for the tough love, but baby, we need

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to give it to each other because I would want somebody

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to talk to me like this if I was, you

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know, stuck in a situation like this, How

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the hell you stuck? No, that's some shit you speaking over

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yourself. You ain't stuck with him. No,

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his aad stuck. He's stuck

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in his own way, So get out

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of your way and push his ads to the side.

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Raise your kids, and when it's time

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for you to date, you go date shit.

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But check back in with me, boom.

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If you love me, you'll listen to this commercial

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and then we'll be right back.

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Next story.

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I'm gonna have Tailor read again because I got finished the other hand

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of my bage wheel.

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Hey, Jess, I just needed some advice

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about my job.

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I feel like I'm very stuck, almost like

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I'm trapped at this job. I'm a carrier,

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so I kind of like FedEx or ups,

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but I'm actually an independent contractor,

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so I own my own vehicle, but I don't make

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my own hours or any of the cool stuff that you actually

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get owning your business. And I have been

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working here for almost three years. My uncles

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are the managers. The job itself is not bad,

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but I can't take all the arguments between

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the employees myself, included the

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vehicle issues, which I'm responsible

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for. Because I'm an independent contractor,

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I can never do any of my side stuff on

9:43

a consistent schedule basis because

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I never know when I'm going to start in the day

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or when i will finish in the day. So

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I actually have a YouTube channel Tasha

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die Oh, But because I never

9:55

know when I will start or finish, I can't dedicate

9:57

as much as my time to my YouTube channel

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or my only fans. It's very frustrating

10:02

because I have so many ideas for my YouTube channel

10:05

and more than what I want to do. But

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by the time I finish work, I'm very tired

10:09

because my job is very physical. Then

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on my days off, I had to tend to my family

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and any other things I couldn't get done during the

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week. And I also believe that part

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of my feelings stem from me knowing what

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I want to do and trying to take the steps

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to do that, but not having very many options

10:25

because of where I live. I live in Rockford,

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Illinois, so there's not much going

10:29

on here, but I am very interested in photography

10:32

and videography. Also, I would like to take

10:34

my YouTube channel and kind of make it a

10:36

podcast, but there isn't very

10:39

much business for that sort of thing around here.

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I just want to know if you had any advice that

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you could pass along to me, maybe how

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I can get my foot in the door. But

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also there's my job that I have now. I'm

10:49

just in a tough spot because I just I get

10:52

paid a lot of money. Well for me, it's a lot

10:54

of money. If I got paid hourly, I

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would get paid between twenty three and twenty

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five dollars an hour. I don't actually have

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any real skills, so I can't just go somewhere

11:02

and start out at that much. So that's

11:05

why I'm having such a tough time, because

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I don't want to take a pay cut if

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I'm not going to be doing something that is helping

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towards my career goal.

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So I like how she saw it talking about

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I'm having all these problems,

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like with my job.

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It's not working out for me, Like

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you know, I feel like basically

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I'm a host to this job and I don't have

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time for my only fans. What

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girl, Listen, if

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I tell people all the time, if you're doing something

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that don't bring you joy, if you're doing something

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that doesn't seem passionate to

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you and it feels purposeless

11:43

and you're not happy and you

11:45

can manage financially, do

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what you want to do. It seems like you do

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have a passion for, you know,

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talking to people with communications so YouTube,

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being blogging and you said you have a

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podcast that you're starting and stuff

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like that. That girl,

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I'm not one to tell people quit jobs, because as

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hard as it is to get a goddamn job,

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and you sit in me here complaining about one, it's

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just ass backwards. However,

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if it's not bringing you joy in your stress

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and every day you find your

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peace disturbed, girl, quit the

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job and

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do what you are most passionate about.

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I see a whole lot of people that

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stream, you know, they're only fans and

12:27

they make money off their YouTube and all that. But building

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a platform, I'm telling you, baby, it's not easy.

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So un let's Tasha dot Oh already got

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a lot of subscribers. You will not be

12:36

making money like you was at your job.

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I think. I don't know if you pray.

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I don't know if you know if you are

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religious in any fashion or

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whatever.

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But I'm a Christian woman, and I

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pray.

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I pray every day every day of my

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life, you know,

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and certain things I pray for

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When I'm confused about certain things. I don't

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go to people for advice. That's why I'm happy that y'all

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come to me. But I don't go to people

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for advice because I don't like for people to tell me what

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to day.

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But go it.

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So I pray. So just

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pray on it fast, like do you know?

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That's my advice to you.

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You do make good money, all right, So I say,

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give yourself about another

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year there, stack your money, save it,

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you know, pay your bills. That mean you're gonna have to cut out all your extra

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expenses, you know, whether it's just leisure or

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just for pleasure. Cut all of that shit out,

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really grind, build that savings account up, and

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then you can invest into your business.

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Or why not stay at your job and use

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the money to

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invest into your blog and invest

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into your cause. Listen, I'm telling you

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you don't just gain a platform

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overnight. You need to invest. You need

13:47

to I'm talking about get videographers. That comes

13:49

with videographers and photographers

13:51

and shit like you got to stand out these days. That

13:54

is a very competitive space because who

13:56

the hell don't got a podcast? Okay, Like

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when I say, I'm so sick up everybody

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fucking having a podcast, I

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ain't trying discourage you, but goddamn, what

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do you be talking about on here?

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But let

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me calm down.

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I think you should use the money that you have

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to invest in your business

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that you really want to develop, that you really

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want to get off the ground, and you want

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a catapult.

14:22

That's what you want to do.

14:23

But nothing happens overnight and

14:25

you can't look at your career or something that you want

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to do is microwavable,

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that's so instant.

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You're not gonna be able to do that. You can't.

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I've been doing this shit for about

14:36

not podcasting. I'm talking about, you know, being

14:39

in the social Like this

14:42

is my ninth year. Now you get what I'm saying. I

14:44

started this shit in twenty fourteen, so no,

14:47

this is my tenth year. Like I started

14:49

this ship when my son was two years old.

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You get what I'm saying.

14:52

And I done went through so many

14:54

hardships, you know, like with trying

14:57

to build a brand and marketing, it's a lot

14:59

to go into it and just having a bunch of followers and a bunch

15:01

of subscribers.

15:02

You gotta work at that shit.

15:03

That's why all those people that you see at

15:05

the top, they didn't just blow up last

15:08

night, you know, like ad Era,

15:10

You remember Diarra and Ken they

15:12

were doing this shit like

15:15

a long time ago. You know, some of the biggest

15:17

bloggers been in this shit for like what six

15:20

seven years plus.

15:21

So if you quit your job, you don't want

15:23

them my fucking money.

15:24

Now, you said that you like videography

15:26

and photography, you need to start offering your services.

15:29

That's gonna get you out there and start getting you booked and stuff

15:31

like that. You know, do you own a camera?

15:33

Do you own any equipment? That's why I'm saying That's why

15:35

if you don't you need that job, because

15:37

that shit gets expensive as well, cameras

15:39

and like I said, lighting and all that shit, and

15:42

even taking short classes like you

15:44

know, like these seminars. Not all of them are scams,

15:46

but some of them actually do teach you shit,

15:48

you know, consultations or whatever. You

15:51

know. My video guy does consultations.

15:53

I loos work on Instagram. He

15:55

does all my edits and that's the guy that you see that makes

15:57

my video magic, my visual magic on

16:00

my page and stuff. You really have to put

16:02

yourself out there. But I wouldn't leave my job just

16:05

yet. I get it, but try.

16:06

Oh way.

16:07

If you're an independent contractor, what

16:09

you should do is you should be able to make your own schedule

16:11

right or you should be able to at least work for these

16:13

and take three for yourself to

16:15

do your business. How old are you did she say

16:17

how old she was? I'm guessing you're fairly young,

16:20

but check back in with me. You know, I think

16:22

it'll be wrong for you to walk away from your job

16:24

now, especially since you make good money, Especially

16:27

if you don't have any kids or anything.

16:28

You really have nothing holding you back.

16:30

Stack your money and invest in yourself,

16:33

so when you finally leave your job, it can be

16:35

for more than just

16:37

the reason of or I got my own blog, I got No, I'm

16:40

an entrepreneur. I'm a CEO of

16:42

this, that, and the other. I make my

16:44

own business. I mean, you know, I make my own money, and

16:47

that'll be your success story. I

16:49

used my nine to five to pay for my

16:52

entrepreneurship period. All

16:55

right, girl, So

16:58

so make sure you update me on your progress,

17:01

you know, just just let me know. But I do want to know how old

17:03

you are as well. It does sound

17:05

like you're fairly young, and that is the end of that story,

17:07

looks.

17:07

So we got one more.

17:09

Hold up, Hold up, I know this shit getting good, but

17:11

listen to just a couple seconds of a commercial.

17:13

If you love me, you'll listen.

17:16

Oh we got a voice note, Shaw, we got a voice

17:18

note. Okay, here y'alls.

17:20

Yeah. So my question was basically, being from Baltimore,

17:23

I wanted to know, like, as a first generation in

17:25

college student, I see a lot of myself and justin how

17:27

she was able to put both theom on the map.

17:29

So my question basically is how is just

17:31

able to navigate her success and enjoy it

17:33

while not letting survivors get

17:36

to her, because coming out the city, it can feel

17:38

like, Okay, I'm the only one that made it out, and that's something

17:40

I'm going through right now.

17:41

Okay.

17:42

So somebody asked me a similar question like this before

17:44

when I did mister Jay Hills podcast.

17:46

He's also a fellow Baltimorean, my

17:48

brother.

17:49

He is now in Atlanta

17:51

doing his thing, bigger than ever and

17:53

only growing bigger with his business. But he

17:56

had asked me the same question, Actually,

17:59

do I ever have survivor's guilt? Baby

18:01

girl? Hell no, I'm

18:03

sorry, there's no other way to put it. No,

18:06

No, I don't. And then somebody

18:09

else had asked me when I first listened

18:11

to your voice, No, did I feel like that

18:13

earlier on? You know, cause I've been in

18:15

this game, in this business, in this industry

18:18

or what you know so called for

18:22

going on ten years now, you know, And

18:24

so.

18:26

Did I feel that way early on?

18:27

No?

18:27

I just knew I had to get the fuck out. I knew coming

18:30

from where I grew up, I looked around.

18:32

This is not where I need to be. This is not where

18:34

I have to be for the rest of my life.

18:36

This is not where I'm gonna be for the rest of my life.

18:38

Fuck, No, I can't do it. So

18:42

survivor's guilt absolutely not. What

18:45

I like to see more success come out of Baltimore.

18:47

Yes, is that my responsibility?

18:49

No, I had to get to a point

18:51

like that, you know where I

18:54

said that and not felt bad for it.

18:56

I used to feel bad for saying shit like

18:59

that. Now I don't. Everybody is responsible

19:01

for themselves. I try to help wherever

19:04

I can. I give money, I give opportunities,

19:07

and all of that. Now, whether or not people

19:09

going to do what's right with the money and opportunities,

19:11

that's on them. I have too

19:14

much responsibility and too many things that's going

19:16

on in my life that I need to focus on because I

19:18

need to continue to grow my riches.

19:20

I need to continue to raise my child.

19:22

I need to continue I'm pregnant again,

19:25

I have a family. I got other goals

19:27

as well, not just to be successful financially.

19:30

I have to build generational wealth. That's what I'm

19:32

doing, and that takes a long

19:34

time. I was just piggybacking off

19:36

of what I said about the story,

19:38

the previous story. No, it

19:41

takes a long time to get where you

19:44

really can say Okay,

19:46

I'm comfortable. I'm still not

19:48

comfortable where I am. I still got a lot of work

19:50

today. So no, baby, I don't

19:52

feel survivor's guilt. No,

19:55

I don't, and I don't think you should either. You

19:58

said your first generation college went

20:00

to college. If anything, the people

20:02

around you, your family, and your friends

20:04

should feel motivated to see that anybody

20:07

can do that. We got some of the smartest motherfuckers

20:09

in Baltimore City.

20:10

Let me tell you.

20:11

We're smart, We're creative, We're an innovative

20:14

city. We make gold out of dirt.

20:16

Okay, we can do that. Shit, I've

20:19

done it. So many people can do it,

20:21

but a lot of us are in our own way.

20:23

You know what I'm saying. Then, a lot of people are afraid

20:25

to.

20:27

Explore new things because we get

20:29

so accustomed to where where we come

20:31

from and how we were raised.

20:33

You get what I'm saying, And Nah,

20:36

that's not the way. You gotta jump

20:38

out there. You gotta step out there. And

20:40

so don't feel guilty.

20:43

They're supposed to feel pushed and motivated

20:45

by what you do. And don't feel like

20:47

you have the responsibility of taking

20:49

care of everybody because you don't. You

20:51

just the baby and you trying to find your way your damn

20:54

self, and you've seen ambitious. That

20:56

tells me something. You have some type of ambition. You

20:58

can't teach that. So

21:01

even if you tried to go back and gather four

21:03

or five family members to do that, they gotta

21:05

have your mindset.

21:06

You had a mindset to say.

21:08

I'm gonna go to school, I'm gonna get up

21:10

out of Baltimore, I'm gonna do this, I'm

21:12

a this, I'm this, I'm gonna at A B and C.

21:15

And so I get all the way to Z and then I'm

21:17

gonna start over. You get what I'm saying.

21:19

That's your mindset. You're not stuck.

21:22

You're not stuck, and you

21:25

didn't want to be stuck. So if we get to

21:27

get out of our own way, we won't actually

21:30

ever have to blame

21:32

a person for making it and not coming back to get

21:34

us. How about you following me? How about you

21:36

chase me? How about you follow your fucking dreams.

21:39

I'm not gonna come back and get you. Because sometimes

21:41

we go back and we don't make it the fuck back

21:43

out where we were. It just is

21:45

what it is, and that comes with the hate in

21:47

the city to see somebody who actually

21:49

made it be successfubl.

21:50

So you know how it is in our city,

21:53

You know how it is.

21:54

I can't speak for other cities, but I imagine

21:56

that shit is not only in Baltimore City, It's

21:58

in any any urban city.

22:00

You get what I'm saying. And it's always like that.

22:03

A lot of people want to pull you back in. They scared to

22:05

see you flourished. We want you to win, but don't

22:07

win too much. You gotta take us with you. But

22:09

what the fuck you doing while

22:12

I'm grinding? What

22:14

you're doing, while you waiting for me to come back and get

22:16

you, You still sitting there chilling and shit,

22:18

Nah, ain't no growth there.

22:21

I can help.

22:21

I love to help people who have potential,

22:24

who want to do something.

22:25

Maybe they don't know exactly what they want to do, but they got.

22:27

Some type of some type

22:29

of ambition where they can meet me halfway

22:32

or just a little bit something that I can take and

22:35

I can parachute that bitch. I can help you amplify

22:37

what you are already thinking or with your

22:40

ideas, then bring it to life and help that out

22:42

for you.

22:43

You know, so, I thank you for that question.

22:45

Baby Girl, and that is the end of

22:48

the Carefully Reckless episode. For today, I

22:50

love you guys. I just want to give a big shout out to Atlanta.

22:52

The second annual Black Effect Podcast

22:54

Festival was so fun and I want to

22:57

also give a shout out to Wallow and Gilly. They

22:59

were funny, fucked. The engagement that

23:01

they had with that audience was great. I

23:03

want to give a shout out the Horrible Decisions.

23:05

They also had a good show as well. And

23:07

then they said, t I

23:09

came through there and I wasn't even there, Talo,

23:12

Why the fucking ex them to stay for me?

23:15

You're as one finance man.

23:16

Ha. All right, y'all, Well, make

23:18

sure you tune into Carefully Reckless on the

23:21

Black Effect podcast network as well as

23:23

The Breakfast Club on Thursdays. Make sure you call

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up and so I can fix your mask. One

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