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Welcome to Can't Fully Reckless, the production of

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iHeartRadio and The Black Effect, And

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just like.

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That, we're back on the air.

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Welcome back to get another carefully Reckless episode

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with your girl, Jess.

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Hilarious. What do I be doing? I'll be fixing

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mess and we're gonna jump straight into it.

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We don't have any voice notes because people's

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voices are very recognizable. But I

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did pick three interests in stories, actually all

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three of them. We're at the top of my

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DMS on the Carefully Reckless podcast

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page.

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Y'all been doing really, really good with sending these.

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I gotta cushy'all more often, because after I

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cush y'all out, then y'all get it together.

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I shouldn't have to cush y'all out. I'm

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sick of y'all.

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Y'all, but I love y'all at the same time, so we're gonna jump

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straight into it.

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Hi, Jess, I'm sending you this message,

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mad lad, but I hope you get to it. Congratulations

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on your pregnancy. I am also pregnant

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and do in July. I wanted to reach out

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to you because as I feel so lost and

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I just feel myself going into a very

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deep depression. I lost my husband

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of three years two months ago due to a shooting

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that happened across the street from my house.

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He was caught in the crossfire.

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It's crazy because we were in the process of

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moving and just brought our first house

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together to prepare for our family. I'm

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still trying to process if this is real or not.

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He would always do this thing every day

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when I come home from work. He would have my

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favorite show playing and dinner ready

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on the table. I look forward to that every

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day I get home, and I think it's just

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now starting to sink in that I will never come

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home to him again. I just figured out

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the gender of our baby yesterday and it's a boy,

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exactly what he wanted, and this is also

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our first child. I feel like no

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one understands the pain I am going through,

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and it's causing so much stress on me that I've

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even been in and out of the hospital because

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of my stress levels. I have a village

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that is absolutely one hundred percent supportive

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and is with me through whatever, but they are not

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him. Sadly, no one could take this pain

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away. He gave love a new meaning for

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me and brought so much light to my life.

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My soul has gone from You probably won't

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even get to this one because I know you

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probably have thousands of other dms to answer

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to. So I'll just let this be a diary to you,

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and I hope that you take this in with open

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arms. Once again, I am so proud

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of you and all your successes. I've

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been rocking with you since the beginning.

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Man, that was very very

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heavy.

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And the reason why I did it that way I let

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the computer read her voice, I mean read

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her story, is because

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y'all, I'm struggling with this noseous install

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and I was supposed to get some

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ginger candies, but they're not good to

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me at all. So I have gum in my mouth, and

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I understand that it sounds disgusting and

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listening to me talk chewing and swallowing

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gum flavor and shit like that. So I

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want to eliminate that as much as possible,

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but I cannot get rid of this gum, y'all. Y'all gonna

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hear a whole bunch of shit coming up out my

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stomach, all right. So

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that was a very very heavy

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story, damn. And I'm gonna be

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honest. This is the first time that I really

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can't even really give a

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lot of advice because

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I've never gone through this, nor is this

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something that I want to go through

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that I wish on the next person that I wish on my worst enemy.

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I understand her and her husband,

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who was married, like she said, for

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three years, they were about to move out

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of their house, and in the midst of them moving,

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he gets gunned down, caught in a crossfire

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that wasn't even going on with

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him, like it wasn't.

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Even for him.

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Obviously, in these instances,

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you don't know why

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things like this happen, especially if you are a believer

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in the most high you know or whoever

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or whatever you believe in. You kind of

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question your faith and you're just like, why why

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did this happen? Well, you know, but

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I would always say everything happens for a reason.

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But I don't know, honey.

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I would definitely say, get

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therapy because that

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has got to hurt every day,

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every night, every waking moment,

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you know what I mean. And then you just found out the

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gender of your baby. Congratulations on your beautiful

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bundle of joy.

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Yes, I am pregnant. I appreciate you for

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congratulating me.

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On that and my successes, but I still

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feel so empty for you every

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time somebody reports to me a story

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or you guys willing to

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expose even a little bit about

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your life, and you know, seeing

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how vulnerable a lot of men and women

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can be with me, I just take

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my head off to you.

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I love it.

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I'm in a position where

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I can actually amplify

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these stories by bringing awareness to

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it on my platform. And I know

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she's not the only one that's going through something like this.

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So, like you said, you were just writing

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this to me like a

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diary, and trust me, I hear you.

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My heart goes out to you and that beautiful baby

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that you're going to have, and I'm

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really really sorry, but I think you should start your therapy

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work right now, not when your baby gets here, and

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don't try to figure this out on your own.

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And I'm happy that you do have a village. You

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know.

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I don't know whether that be your mom, you didn't specify,

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you know, your parents, your family, your friends.

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Whoever it is.

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I love those people for being there

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in those moments for you as well, because

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you have to be strong for that baby and

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to know that he wanted a boy. It's even

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more amazing. But it's very

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sad that that baby will never know it's father.

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And if you have anything like a gofund

5:24

me, make sure you submitted into the Breakfast

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Club because I actually want to take your story

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a little bit more broader than this,

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and we can cover this. This is something that we can

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briefly cover on the Breakfast Club. We

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will definitely help you. I will help you.

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I know DJMV and Charlottage. God

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will help you stories like this. Just

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God leave a damn hold in your heart, so

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we're gonna move on. Definitely update

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me anything you need for that baby.

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Girl.

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That's why I'm asking you for the go fund me, because it's

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gonna be hard doing this by yourself.

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Although you do have a village, you can never

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have too much love, too much support, too

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many things for a child, you know what I mean, So just

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send that over.

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Damn.

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If you love me, you'll listen to this commercial

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and then we'll be right back.

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All right, Hey, Jess,

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I know you love voice messages, but

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my voice is very recognizable. However,

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I most definitely need help with my mess right

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now. I'm not even sure where to start,

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but my ex broke up with Emmy two days

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before Valentine's Day twenty twenty

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four. We were together for two years

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prior to this incident, so I need to

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say that the year already started off bad with

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us, considering she canceled plans on my birthday,

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which was at the beginning of January, which

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I wasn't really tripping because she kept promising

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to come see me when she had the time.

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Well, fast forward to her birthday, which

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is at the end of January, where she went

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with her hoeing s sister on an out of state

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vacation. We were talking throughout

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her being out there, just not as much as usual,

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no biggie. Right before she leaves to

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come back home, she calls and tells me

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how she wasn't really with the girl the whole trip

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and all this other gossip. Not one did

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she mention anything out of the ordinary happened.

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M Sarah

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read it and it was too complicated. Then I read

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it and it was still complicated because I don't get

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it. So breakfast down, NYA, my little

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sister here, y'all stay high.

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Hey, all right, So, what

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the girl was trying to say is

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that the relationship was bad from the beginning of

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the year, so she already

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feel like something something was off.

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So their birthdays in the same month, her

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birthdays in the beginning of January and

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the girlfriend birthdays at the end of January. The

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girlfriend told her that she was going on a vacation

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with her sister. She says, she's a hoe. Nobody

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trusts you know, anybody said, yeah,

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nobody want to be with out you feel me?

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Okay? Boom She comes back

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and say she wasn't with her the whole time.

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Oh, so she wasn't with the sister the whole

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time. Oh okay, she

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was out getting her life with another hole,

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with another hole that's not her sister.

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And she said she usually they usually

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open about that.

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Yeah, but she didn't want to make a big deal about it because

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it's her birthday. So that's why she was like, no, baby, you

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know, but this ain't right.

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And that's why she trying to get to the bottom of it. Yeah,

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you wasn't with your whole sister. Which

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hole was you with?

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Yeah, you know what, probably one of her whole

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as sister friends. Oh, because

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you know, if her sister a hole, so was

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some of her friends, right? And and or

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she didn't even go on a vacation. Maybe

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she just went somewhere else with somebody else.

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Okay, So now I said, well, maybe she didn't even go

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on a vacation. Maybe she went somewhere

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else with somebody else to sneak. Yeah,

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that is sneaky, And maybe

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it was just easier for her to tell her I'm going somewhere

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with my sister. But if this girl already thinks the sister

8:41

as a whole, so you fucked either way. Yeah,

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So so they broke up.

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They still together, but the relationship is rocky,

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rocky, and it started with the birthday at

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the beginning of the year, lawing.

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Yeah, sounds like she needed to cut the whole

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off. It sounds like you need to cut this girl

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off. That's what it sounds like.

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Yeah, I

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really believe that, though it does sound like it's

9:06

taken a different it's going

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into a different direction.

9:10

I mean, especially since you.

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Ended it with we are usually open books

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about this type of information, So that means

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you and your girlfriend are usually honest about things.

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But y'all haven't

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been seeing each other lately

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like that, you said, you haven't been talking as much

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as you talk to her, you know, the

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whole time she was on the trip, but not as

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much as usual, or not as much as

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you would have liked to seeing that she was

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with her whole as sister.

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That would have made me feel some type of way too.

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Yeah, yeah, and I could see how to didn't make you feel

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some type of way. I

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definitely think it's worth a

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conversation. I mean you should

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because what if there is someone

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else, you know what I mean? And honestly,

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if you two are always honest about things,

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maybe this is like a little fling that she got.

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Maybe this is something that she just having fun with you

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know what I mean. She don't plan to leave you for this person.

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She don't plan it, cause I think with

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you, if she's as honest as you said,

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and you always open books about shit, that would

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be something that she would come to you about.

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You don't got a location? Yeah,

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my sister said she ain't got her location or nothing

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like that. Like what that is that we do

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those? Yeah, definitely these

10:18

definitely share locations and stuff like that. And

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are you cool with the sister? Was there

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any pictures?

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I mean everybody,

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because are there any vacation videos, pictures

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whatever?

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Like anything? You get what I'm

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saying?

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Like you you got a further investigation,

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especially if this is something that you want to get to the bottom of

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or hold it on.

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Tocaus.

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She didn't even she didn't

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even say she asked her. She just said

10:44

that she came here and said she wasn't there,

10:46

she wasn't with her.

10:47

So what happened next?

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Oh, yeah, she didn't she

10:51

didn't see My pregnant mind.

10:53

Is like, oh, okay.

10:55

So we're trying to build out the rest of the story.

10:57

Now you really didn't know, I'm in true.

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Yeah, you didn't elaborate on it both.

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In fact, you ended it and said not

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once did she mention anything out of the

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ordinary happened.

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We're usually open books about this.

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And then you said that and

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that was it. I mean, right.

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Before she leaves to come back

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home, she goes and tell me how she wasn't really with

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the girl the whole trip and all this other.

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Guysip, what was the gossip?

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Yeah, okay, what she said, So what

11:26

was the gossip? What are you leaving out? And then yeah,

11:29

like Naya said, did you talk to her at all? Did

11:31

you you know you're trying to get to the bottom of it. Are you

11:33

scared to do you? Do you

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not want her to flip out on you and leave

11:37

you or like, what the hell are you and all

11:39

of this, because if you're worried, if

11:42

you're that worried about the vacation and everything,

11:44

this definitely needs immediate attention. I

11:46

mean, the fuck you're just gonna let the ship slide. And

11:49

then she said, yeah

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she did. She said, my ex broke up

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with me two days before Valentine's Day twenty twenty

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four.

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Oh, that's what I'm saying. I'm

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like, nah, this that this y'all. Yeah, y'all

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did break up? So she broke up with you? Oh?

12:03

Yeah, it was definitely somebody else.

12:05

Definitely it was somebody else, whether it's

12:07

one of the whole as sister's friends, whether

12:10

it's somebody that that.

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She been dealing with. Yeah, don't

12:13

nobody just come out of nowhere and fall out the fucking

12:15

sky. Did she give you a reason why?

12:18

Yeah? And have y'all talked about why

12:20

y'all broke up?

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Like, did she say that y'all

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been you know, look, I've been a litt unhappy

12:26

with you. I mean, you don't do the things you used to, you

12:28

know, those type of things that leads

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up.

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To a breakup. Usually have y'all sat

12:33

and.

12:33

Talked about this shit, because

12:36

this was all right, but it wasn't that goddamn

12:38

juicy girl you leaving meet off the bones? Goddamn.

12:41

So you gotta gotta hit me back

12:43

up and update me and let me know about this, all right?

12:45

All right? Cool?

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Yeah? And is it worth fighting

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for you? Gotta let me know that too.

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You want to read this one? Sure?

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Real? Because I don't understand? Go

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ahead, okay, Hey,

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jus love your podcast.

13:03

I love you because you'd be fixing people mess

13:05

even help me in some leaks. So today

13:07

I need some help and try to make the story

13:09

short.

13:10

Here goes. Me and this girl met

13:12

in Okay.

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Everybody gay out here, Oh my god,

13:15

just keep on going with the story.

13:17

Say, okay, we were together

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for almost a year, but she broke it off and.

13:21

Started dating some guy.

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Oh yeah, See, everybody

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don't want to be gay all day?

13:26

Go ahead, all right.

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While doing so, she still was around me and everything,

13:31

going out, having fun, et cetera. The

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nigga that she was dealing with knew about me as

13:35

well. I knew what who

13:37

his bitch as was. He would be all

13:40

in my face and everything, like we was cool,

13:42

but I couldn't trust him and I didn't go with my gut

13:44

feeling. She broke it off with him after

13:46

he stabbed himself in front all

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right.

13:49

My good, he

13:52

stabbed himself your friend?

13:55

Oh shit? Oh wait? Did he die? Hold

13:57

on?

13:58

She broke it off with him after he said this south in front

14:00

of her over a fight the head?

14:04

Where are you doing this? This nigga stabbed herself

14:07

to get her to be with him. Oh

14:09

my god, right

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down? Yeah? Like what like? No, we

14:14

don't do that. Okay.

14:16

I get to work and no more than ten minutes into

14:19

work, she caused, my phone, tells me what had happened.

14:22

I left work and went right to her. She was

14:24

scared and anxiety through the roof. I

14:26

save with her that name to make sure she was okay

14:28

and everything.

14:30

Oh okay, that's

14:32

it. Yeah, Oh my god.

14:35

I gave y'all

14:37

props two goddamn early, y'all ain't what

14:39

So what the fuck you want to know?

14:41

Shit? What did she want to

14:43

know?

14:43

I shan't ask me for no fucking advice. She told

14:46

me the nigga stabbed herself. Stabbed herself because

14:48

he saw her and the girl

14:51

together, so he was like, oh shit,

14:53

all right, this will get her back.

14:55

Shank shank, shank, Like, what the fuck

14:57

boy, what are you doing?

14:59

So and then this is her ex girlfriend

15:01

and she went to go support her after this time,

15:03

and.

15:03

Me, oh, so she went to go support

15:06

her.

15:06

Yeah, because you know that

15:09

is a lot. So yeah,

15:11

it would have been confused as well as scared.

15:13

Yeah, confused. Yeah.

15:15

Like if you're willing to cause harm

15:17

to yourself on some shit

15:19

like that just to like profess

15:22

your love or like to get a bit to see

15:24

you, nigga, you obviously

15:26

are in the wrong relationship. You need

15:28

to do work on your damn self. I would never

15:30

self inflict pain like that, like, you

15:33

know, just to get somebody to see me. Nah,

15:36

it's somebody out here, but I mean worth

15:38

much more of your

15:40

time and love and real efforts

15:42

like then, just for somebody. And

15:45

I'm not even saying that you required him to stab

15:47

himself, because I don't want you to think like Jess.

15:49

I didn't tell him to do it.

15:50

No, you're damn right, you damn sure didn't, baby, But

15:53

like you shouldn't want to really

15:55

be with somebody like that either, You get what

15:57

I'm saying, because those are type.

15:59

Of people go and

16:01

try, Oh, I'm a I'm suicide with

16:04

the ex girlfriend.

16:05

Oh who is writing me? The

16:07

girl girlfriend was

16:10

oh shy.

16:11

Not the governor, because she went with the guy, and

16:13

the guy and the girlfriend

16:15

broke up with the guy and

16:18

she got with some other nigga,

16:20

and the nigga saw them together and said

16:22

this, So.

16:23

Oh my god, girl, you don't

16:25

fucking run. You ain't get stabbed ship.

16:28

Let her go and support her because

16:30

she ain't crying about you while you supporting

16:33

her for him getting stabbed, crying

16:35

about him because he didn't die from stabbing.

16:37

This dumb and self girl, go ahead run,

16:39

you dodged the bullet. The fuck.

16:40

Come on, gay girl, You's so many girls out

16:43

here that you can go ahead and get

16:45

that ain't gonna cheat on you with no nigga that ain't

16:47

no seriously, and she broke up with you, and

16:50

she broke up with you. Oh

16:53

my god, Oh my god. Look

16:55

this is old my fucking TV show. Now, this

16:58

is bullshit. You ain't supposed

17:00

to be sitting in We're going

17:02

to the next story.

17:03

I don't know what the fuck they's sitting in here

17:05

talking about. It's just crazy

17:08

now, insane. Come on, I

17:10

don't know se alright he love? Is

17:12

he? Alright? I don't give a fuck?

17:14

Is he?

17:15

Alright? To max to you? What should need?

17:20

Oh my god, I man,

17:22

shit, she went over there to support her in that time, to need

17:25

while she trying to get over the stabbing, the

17:27

self stabbing of a nigga who saw her with

17:29

a bitch.

17:29

Ain't nobody got time for that? Ship?

17:31

Girl back, get up, go to that bitch

17:33

a box of tissues and sigh and all her bitches,

17:36

so many, so much of a pussy out here.

17:39

But that was very generous. Though, it was

17:41

very generous. But it's very dumb too.

17:43

You don't do that. Don't fucking

17:45

do that. Alright, read the next one and then

17:48

be out of here. All right.

17:49

Now, we got a commercial, and if you click off of this

17:52

podcast, I swear I'm gonna beat your ass.

17:54

Listen.

17:56

Okay, Hi Jess, congratulations

17:59

to your beautiful but new joy as

18:01

you pull up your stomach rain. Now let's

18:03

get into it. So I have an issue that I don't

18:05

even know if it's considered a mess. I

18:08

have a friend that I call my sister that everyone

18:10

keeps saying is a hater personally,

18:13

do I feel that way, No, but my mom

18:15

dad says the boyfriend, what

18:20

the fuck?

18:25

Okay, do I feel that way?

18:27

No, but my mom dad since the boyfriend and

18:29

others have said she is so Within

18:31

the last year, I've had a baby and bought

18:33

a new house.

18:34

That's when I noticed the behavior did a one eighty.

18:37

We tug.

18:37

The attacks still most days. That

18:39

can sometimes stop for weeks. But

18:42

it's like, since those two things happen in my life,

18:44

she distanced herself for me. We

18:46

have talked about the distance before and she kept

18:48

blaming pregnancy. Well I'm not pregnant

18:50

no more. And it's like, no matter what I invite her

18:52

to, she has her excuses lined up. But

18:55

then I get on Snapchat and she out with her other

18:57

friends, where yeah,

18:59

I don't feel like she's a hater, but I do feel

19:01

like maybe we're growing apart and I'm

19:03

holding on more than her. It's like, hit me

19:06

up when the others don't show up.

19:08

Just yeah, okay,

19:11

yeah, I've seen things like this before. I

19:14

yeah, absolutely, that's that's what it

19:16

is. But you know, you want to write track baby

19:18

girls. Some friends just grow apart, and

19:21

you actually went through something like that too. Yeah,

19:24

I haven't gone through that shit because I

19:26

beat a bitch to fuck up.

19:28

But I know, well I used to.

19:30

I wouldn't do that now because I'm

19:33

just not like that no more. But you know,

19:35

this is in my younger days, Like, don't have a fucking play

19:37

with me like that. But but this

19:40

happens when you're younger. So I don't know how

19:42

old you are or whatever, but this definitely

19:44

happens.

19:45

You can give us some insight on it.

19:46

Yeah, you know, some people just don't like to

19:48

see you doing better than them. Also

19:51

when you're elevating, like you just say, you had

19:53

a baby, you got a new house, like you're.

19:55

Doing big things.

19:56

So maybe she's not where she

19:58

wants to be and it's making her

20:01

feel some type of way because she sees you doing your

20:03

thing and it's like, damn, I'm want to be there, you

20:05

know. And some people use their friends

20:08

who have more in an advantage of things

20:10

as.

20:12

A piggy big ride to success. You know,

20:14

we're there.

20:15

Yeah, yeah, So I

20:17

think like when you were doing your thing and

20:19

then you probably like, oh, yeah, like where

20:22

are you, She's just like, well, if you're

20:24

not taking what you yeah, then

20:26

I don't think yeah,

20:29

yeah, and then yeah, that's definitely

20:31

some making ship. And then with

20:34

you having your baby and all that, she probably thought

20:36

that that would depleach your success more

20:38

than anything, because if you were younger, or

20:40

if you're still youthful, then.

20:43

A lot of a lot of people would be like she

20:45

was.

20:45

Probably counting on you the fall, like counting on your downfall,

20:47

Like, oh, she's just gonna be another be mother. She's not gonna

20:49

be able to move out, she's not be able to have her own she's not be able

20:51

to have a job, and.

20:52

That's know what I mean.

20:53

Yeah, And a lot

20:55

of people really really want they

20:57

want to hold you back to where they at you get

20:59

them saying and where they are. But like, for

21:02

instance, my little sister, her

21:04

life has leveled up, the one that just read your story,

21:06

Like, her life has leveled up in many

21:08

ways, very very quickly before both

21:11

of our eyes.

21:11

And we both didn't see this coming. It's

21:13

like, no, I'm playing I I already knew she was gonna be

21:15

something, but yeah, like

21:18

I she.

21:19

You know this, this has happened. She's working, she's

21:21

making her own fucking money, she's driving her own car,

21:23

she has her own license, she pay her own moutfucking

21:25

bills, she travels, she's

21:27

in a gay relationship and

21:30

it's amazing, all right, you don't gotta

21:32

funk say, all right, And

21:34

she's in a relationship and she's fucking happy,

21:36

you know, for the first time in a

21:39

long time in her life.

21:40

Everything is really looking up for her.

21:42

And some people couldn't

21:44

come, you know, because some people

21:47

felt like, oh damn, she left me.

21:49

She could you know what I'm saying, Like, nah, my sister

21:51

was going through.

21:52

A bunch of shit before, you know, before

21:54

her glory days, before she actually got

21:56

to make her own money.

21:57

She had to go through a lot of shit. And it's not

22:00

my place to speak on it.

22:01

She will tell more about that in

22:03

the future and however she wants to do

22:05

it, whether that's a podcast or a book or a

22:07

TV show, whatever, But it's

22:09

a lot of things she had to go through

22:11

to get to where she is now. And

22:14

she went through that by herself, and she went

22:16

through things. Although she had friends along the way,

22:19

she went through things and didn't even tell everybody

22:21

a business because just being ashamed or

22:23

embarrassed of certain things and just wanting to

22:25

act like a lot of it wasn't affecting

22:28

her because she never wanted sympathy from anybody.

22:30

So like some people just

22:32

can't cannot grow with

22:35

you. Some people don't understand what it evolved.

22:37

Like when an evolved person is whether it change

22:39

Oh, oh money changed you?

22:41

No money changed you.

22:42

My money changed you because you expect for me

22:45

to give it to you, and hell.

22:47

And hell like she said, and hell

22:49

no.

22:49

So the next time you might want to listen to your brother,

22:52

sister, cousin, uncle and aunt and others,

22:54

all right, because I know this is your friend

22:56

and I've lost friends along the way as well. I'm not even

22:58

gonna act like I haven't. But that

23:01

just comes with growing up and growing

23:03

apart from people, and that happens.

23:06

So just stay updated with us, but

23:08

with.

23:08

Congratulations to you though in your house

23:10

your baby, ye be happy.

23:12

Don't even worry about it, girl, I absolutely do

23:14

not try not to worry about it. I notice your friend

23:17

prior childhood friend, but leave

23:19

her child to share.

23:20

It's where the fuck she at? Period?

23:22

Yep period, And just like that we come

23:24

to yet the end of another Catholic reckless

23:26

episode with your girl just hilarious.

23:28

And nah yah and

23:30

We'll be back next week.

23:31

I'm if I'm reading from now on, y'all because

23:33

I just until I get over the nausel. Sun sorry,

23:36

so, oh

23:39

my gosh, she just like me. She's crazy,

23:41

but tune in next week.

23:43

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