Thank you guys and girls for tuning in to the latest episode of Change The Subject. Today we have a bonus episode for you to get into. And such a great conversation this is. Today we are discussing crushes at our adult ages. Titled 'I Ain't Had A Crush In Years", we talk about the differences in how men and women behave NOW when they discover they have interest in someone. There isn't a long lasting interest in the opposite sex nowadays. And as we progress in life, and other areas...we begin to realize that love is slowly passing us by. What has changed about interest and attraction so much, that men and women become disposable so quickly? Today we discuss this...This episode is featuring Kira from MomsAndMartinis Podcast. She is a returning guest that really is heating things up in the podcast world. She has a extremely transparent and entertaining platform that BJ enjoys. She is currently looking for love in this process of self discovery as well. How does she navigate throughout the process that she coins "Operation Stepdad" to find a true and compatible love interest? And is having a crush of any kind likely to anyone who has had traumatic and very realistic experiences that have knocked you off cloud 9? Kira discussed what's it like as a woman in her prime looking for a boo in these city streets.In this conversation, we discuss the maturity of what a crush once was...and how it was known as the very first boundary some of us had with the opposite sex. We also discuss why we don't respond the same to crushes as adults in this day and age. There are so many changes men and women are facing today that were influenced by our childhood. We discuss the way boys and girls interpret their experiences with crushes. which makes our behaviors as adults seem a bit dysfunctional.This is a great conversation that I'm sure you will enjoy. Tune in to this episode and tell us what you think!!!