0:00

If you could give your younger self some words

0:02

of advice, what would that be

0:04

and why being.

0:06

Able to say no? Like no, I don't feel

0:08

comfortable with that. No, I don't like that No. No.

0:11

You know, it's a very small but very

0:13

strong word. I was always very

0:15

afraid to read in

0:17

front of the classroom.

0:18

I was in fifth grade.

0:20

So I go up there and I'm reading the paragraph,

0:22

and I'll never forget I said island.

0:24

Island.

0:25

I said island, you guys, and the whole

0:27

freaking class laughed at me. So since then, it's like,

0:29

get really nervous.

0:39

Hello everyone, and welcome to Cheeky's

0:41

and Chill and Happy first

0:43

Monday of February, you guys, Oh my goodness.

0:46

Starty February. AnyWho.

0:47

So today we're going to be answering questions

0:50

from our listeners. I was answering

0:52

questions at our first live event

0:54

with Miketura, and some of you

0:56

were there and some of you were streaming, and a lot

0:58

of people sent questions, so we have them here and

1:01

I wasn't able to get to all of them that day. So that's

1:03

what we're gonna do today on Chiki's and Chill. Okay, we're

1:05

gonna be answering questions. So let's just get started.

1:08

I'm just gonna pull one out right, Let's do this.

1:11

Here we go.

1:12

These are real questions, by the way, you guys, these are real questions

1:14

from listeners. You guys sent them in. I

1:16

haven't seen them, you guys know. I

1:19

like to be very like I like weaning

1:21

it.

1:22

So here we go. Here's the first one.

1:24

It's like a little siphem. It's

1:28

coffee, you guys, not anything else. Just FYI, all

1:31

right, this is from Betty.

1:33

All right.

1:34

My boyfriend and I have been dating

1:36

for about three years now.

1:38

I love him so much. He treats

1:40

me.

1:40

Really well, and things are really

1:43

good between us. The only problem is I

1:45

want to be a mom someday and he says

1:48

he doesn't want kids. Do

1:50

you think he'll ever change his mind? Or should

1:52

I break my own heart and move on? Oh my gosh,

1:55

girl, ooh,

1:59

this is a one because I

2:03

don't think that you should

2:05

want to change someone. If

2:08

that person is for you,

2:10

you will find a way to make it work if you If

2:12

you feel at the that you can be okay with

2:14

not having any kids, this is the person that you want

2:17

for the rest of your life then

2:20

and if he's worth it, you have to weigh it out. Then

2:22

you stay with him. If you

2:25

feel that I want kids it doesn't matter who

2:27

the father is, or I just want

2:29

kids and that's what you really

2:31

want, then yes, you're gonna

2:33

have to let him go, let him be

2:35

happy, and you have to find your happiness.

2:39

It is a deeper conversation. I

2:43

don't know if he'll ever change his mind. I think

2:45

that a

2:47

man never knows if he wants to be a dad until

2:49

he actually has a child in their hands. Like

2:52

this is what I hear, or sometimes like

2:54

hey, there's guys that's like I want kids no matter what.

2:56

So it's it's a tough one.

2:58

I wish I could give you better advice, but I do

3:00

think that it's a deeper conversation and you really

3:02

need to ask yourself, is

3:04

he worth it? Is he the person that I want

3:06

and I see myself with forever Things

3:09

are going great, But if you really

3:11

want children, then you're gonna have to choose

3:13

yourself.

3:15

And that's the best advice I can give you. Betty.

3:17

Oh my goodness, that sound's tough. Okay,

3:20

guys, you guys, pray for Betty. Okay, Okay,

3:22

here we go.

3:23

Next question.

3:26

Alrighty see

3:28

if it's a spicy one, it

3:31

is from Madi. You're a singer, songwriter,

3:33

author, entrepreneur, and god knows what

3:35

else. Thanks, But you've

3:38

also mentioned how much you love podcasting.

3:40

I do.

3:41

What makes podcasting different and what is

3:43

it about it that you love so much?

3:44

Okay?

3:45

I love podcasting because I

3:47

feel that my mission

3:49

in life is to help

3:51

others, and this is my way of helping

3:53

others, of bringing information to you guys, of giving

3:56

you guys advice. It's a form of therapy

3:58

for myself. It's not because I love to talk and to

4:00

hear myself talk. No, it's because

4:02

it's healing for me. And it's healing for me

4:04

because I'm letting it out. I'm

4:06

sharing my experiences with you guys, and I feel that everything

4:09

that I've gone through has made me a

4:11

wiser person. And if I can

4:13

help anyone else through my

4:15

experiences and having a platform

4:17

like this to have guests or to answer

4:20

questions, I feel like I'm

4:22

living my godly purpose. I'm

4:25

living my mission. It's

4:28

part of who I am, it's part of what I do.

4:30

It's my testimony. So That's why

4:32

I love it. And because even

4:35

now with like the video part of things,

4:37

like before, I was like, oh, I just get to sit in my house and I'm

4:39

just talking to a microphone or no makeup, hair done like now,

4:41

but I am really enjoying putting

4:44

on a little bit of a makeup even when I don't have to. But

4:46

I have to now and maybe you guys will see me off.

4:48

I don't got here too.

4:49

But really, really, what

4:51

I just told you is the reason why I love podcasting

4:53

so much.

4:54

It's such a blessing.

4:54

And we're on our third season. I'm so

4:57

excited. I'm so grateful to all of you guys, so thank

4:59

you for that. So give me like another twenty seasons.

5:01

Okay, guys, please, Okay, here we go, next

5:03

question and.

5:06

Here we go.

5:09

All right, albao, who

5:13

are some dream guests that you would

5:16

love to have on your podcast? I love

5:18

this very like you know, podcasting

5:20

questions.

5:21

I love that.

5:22

Okay, So who would I like to

5:24

have on the podcast? Oh my gosh, honestly,

5:26

I've had great guests. I can't even complain.

5:28

I would love to have Carol

5:32

G. I would like to have a very deep

5:34

conversation with her about just

5:36

things, you know, all kinds of things,

5:39

being a woman in the industry, her

5:42

music, just so many things. Uh who else?

5:45

Oh my gosh, Michelle Obama. Would love

5:47

to have Michelle Obama, you guys, pray I would

5:49

have loved that, love to have a conversation with her. Oprah,

5:52

Hey, there's nothing wrong with

5:54

dreaming. One day, we can make it happen.

5:57

Yg he's my neighbor and he's my homie.

5:59

But but he's a little selective, so I

6:01

don't know if he'd come, but I would love to have him on here. I

6:03

was just thinking about that this morning. I was like, what would I ask him?

6:06

So many people, but those are the ones that come to mine now,

6:09

So thank you for the question.

6:11

At it. Okay, here we go. Ooh

6:17

one felt Nemo.

6:20

I think this is the one I should answer.

6:23

Okay,

6:25

this is from Vanessa.

6:27

I think I'm in love with my best friend. Okay,

6:31

We've been friends for almost ten years and

6:33

I've kept the secret to myself. Part

6:35

of me thinks that if he ever

6:38

felt the same way, he would have

6:40

told me. By now, not sure what

6:42

I should do. Is there a way to find out if

6:44

he likes me? In the same way without

6:46

exposing myself. Hmm,

6:49

it's a good question. Maybe

6:51

you should write him a little card and just say, hey, do you

6:53

like me?

6:53

Yes or no? Circle one? And I'm kidding.

6:56

Oh it's tough because I

6:59

get you like you feel like especially a man.

7:01

Unless he's very shy, you're gonna

7:04

know him better than I do obviously, So I don't know. If

7:06

he's a shy person, that just he's one to

7:08

wait for the he's respectful, he's one

7:10

to wait for the woman to make the first move.

7:12

I don't know.

7:15

One thing I will say is if you think

7:18

about telling him

7:20

like, hey, I like you, I have stronger

7:22

feelings for you, just be okay

7:24

with him the relationship and

7:26

that the what should the dynamic

7:28

of the relationship changing a little bit? Hopefully

7:31

you guys are I

7:33

mean, hopefully he does like you. That's the best outcome.

7:36

But if he doesn't feel the same way, I

7:38

hope you're okay with still feeling like okay, not

7:40

feeling rejected. Remember, rejection

7:42

is God's protection. Okay, So if it

7:44

doesn't, then you

7:46

know, you guys both have to be mature enough to say, okay, hey, we're

7:48

still gonna be friends. We're not gonna let that get in the way. But

7:51

you have to really think about that before you

7:53

say something. If not, then you have to be okay

7:55

with having him as a friend. But

7:58

if I were you, my advice is, I

8:01

wouldn't want to live with the what if I would

8:03

say, Hey, I have strong feelings

8:05

for you, I love you, I don't want to lose you as a friend,

8:08

but I like you in a different way, and

8:12

be ready with whatever answer that may be

8:14

emotionally, you know, And that's

8:16

I wouldn't want to live with the w if. So that's just my personal

8:19

opinion, Vanessa. So

8:22

I gotta think about that one, weigh it out.

8:25

But for sure, I

8:27

think you guys will be fine. You guys have been friends for ten years.

8:29

Even if you guys don't make a relationship

8:31

out of it, I think you guys can still be friends for another

8:33

like ten twenty plus years.

8:35

But I hope he does like you too. I hope it works

8:38

out. Okay,

8:44

here we go. Next

8:46

question. The

8:48

coffee is kicking in.

8:49

I feel like I'm brah.

8:52

Okay, here we go from Marianna,

8:54

this is a short, sweet one. Let's see, how do you

8:56

deal with jealousy? From friends. Ooh,

9:00

I don't think I have any jealous friends.

9:04

To be honest, how

9:06

did I deal with it when I was younger? Because

9:10

I think exists more when you're younger.

9:12

If when you're a mature especially

9:15

women like you

9:17

don't, there's.

9:18

No like you don't. I don't have jealous friends, you know what

9:20

I mean?

9:20

Say, we support each other, we celebrate each other, We

9:22

support each other. That's how it should be. If

9:25

they're jealous of you, I don't think they should be your friends.

9:28

Personally, I think that they should be

9:30

happy for you. I don't know what they're jealous

9:33

about, but I wouldn't deal with it. I would

9:35

just say, you know what, you're messing up my vibe.

9:37

You're screwing it up. Girl.

9:38

Peace love you, but I'm go aa love you from far

9:40

away. Because jealousy brings nothing

9:42

but just nastiness.

9:45

It brings out the worst in people. So I personally

9:48

wouldn't deal with it at

9:50

all. That's my personal opinion. And

9:53

yeah, thank goodness, I don't have any jealous

9:55

friends. Thank god. Oh my gosh,

9:58

that's high school stuff. Don't know how old you are, but no

10:01

jealousy.

10:01

Girls.

10:02

We have to celebrate each other. We got to like lift

10:04

each other up empowerment. Okay,

10:09

let's see, Samantha.

10:16

O cute.

10:17

What's the best present Emilio has

10:19

given you? What's the best present you've

10:21

given him? This is a very cute question.

10:23

Oh my god, He's given me so many amazing

10:26

presents, you guys, like stuff that I would have never thought

10:28

of. Obviously, I could say, my ring, this is

10:30

beautiful, and you know, he asked me to marry him. But

10:33

I think one of the best gifts that I'll never forget.

10:36

Oh there's two. Okay, Well, last

10:38

Christmas, Emilio

10:41

gave me a frame

10:45

that says Balama Blanca. Palama Blanca

10:48

is the is the song that I wrote

10:50

for my mom. And

10:53

he named a star, bought

10:55

a star for me. I don't know how you do that, but you buy a

10:57

star and you name it. And I have a

10:59

star up there and the name

11:01

is Bama so and he framed it and

11:03

it was just so cute and like you.

11:05

Can figure out where it is. I

11:08

haven't.

11:08

I don't know, but I have a star.

11:10

And I thought that was so cute. It was so like

11:12

out of the box, something I wasn't expecting. I was just

11:14

like what the heck? This is crazy. So that

11:17

was I think one of or the one

11:19

of or the best present he's given me a

11:21

lot, thanks, bib Okay,

11:23

and the best present I've given him myself.

11:28

True, I give myself every day. I

11:31

would say he made the best decision of his life. And I'm

11:33

just kidding. We're gonna leave it at that because

11:35

I can't really think of like a good present I've given, but I've

11:37

given him a lot of gifts. So

11:40

yeah, thank you for your question. By the way, Samantha,

11:43

Okay, that's cute.

11:45

That's cute.

11:47

Okay, And this question comes from Raoul

11:49

Okay, Hi, Cheeky's you mentioned before that

11:51

you're a fan of vision boards and that

11:53

you even created one that

11:56

had a podcast in it, and

11:58

now.

11:59

You have a podcast. Yes, I do, thank the Lord

12:01

and a great one.

12:02

Thank you so much. What's going to be on

12:04

your vision board for twenty twenty four?

12:06

Mm?

12:08

Here's the thing with that. My vision

12:11

board is so sacred for me. I'm actually

12:13

gonna get it done like this month

12:15

because of the Chinese calendar. You guys know, I've

12:17

talked about this before. I am huge

12:20

I believe in the Chinese calendar. Anyways, it's

12:23

very sacred, so I don't like

12:25

to say what I'm gonna put on it

12:28

per se until I

12:30

have it up. But I will tell you that

12:34

I do want to have a very successful

12:36

God willing help me, pray you guys

12:40

tour, my new tour. I can't share

12:42

the name yet in Mexico, especially,

12:45

so I have that I want something

12:47

that's coming and it's big for me,

12:49

and I want it to be sold out. So I'm

12:52

going to have that on there and

12:55

a lot of stuff that have to do with music

12:57

and maybe even

13:00

like a

13:02

pregnancy.

13:03

That's it. Okay, here we go.

13:05

Next one, Okay, next question,

13:09

Rey Lena, Oh, this is a pretty name.

13:12

Okay.

13:13

If you could give your younger self some words

13:15

of advice, what would that be?

13:17

And why?

13:19

Mmm? What

13:21

would I tell little cheekies? I

13:25

get this question a lot, and

13:27

I think what I would tell little cheekys is.

13:31

Don't be afraid to speak up.

13:35

For a long time, I lived with

13:37

fear of expressing

13:40

myself, of

13:43

letting my mom know or people around me, adults

13:45

around me, what was going on in my little life,

13:47

you know? And it caused me a lot of

13:49

pain and turmoil and confusion.

13:52

And I think if I would have spoken up a

13:55

lot faster, things

13:58

would have been a little better, you

14:00

know. And also being

14:03

able to say no, like no, I don't feel

14:06

comfortable with that. No.

14:06

I don't like that no. No.

14:08

You know, no, there's it's a very strong

14:10

word, you know, It's a very

14:12

small but very strong word, and it's like no.

14:16

And I for sure would tell

14:18

cheeky's little, Cheeky's, Hey, that

14:21

doesn't fly with me. I learned that a

14:23

little later in life. Even

14:26

now, sometimes it's hard to say no, but it's

14:28

it's sometimes and I've told you guys this before. Saying

14:32

no to yourself and saying

14:34

yes to someone else is

14:36

not good. That's a being a people pleaser. And I was

14:38

a people pleaser. I wanted people's approval. I

14:40

didn't want to disappoint anybody. That's why I would stay

14:42

quiet. And I'm like, no, if I don't feel

14:45

peace, if I don't feel comfortable with something,

14:48

I need to learn to say yes to myself

14:50

and be okay with saying no to someone else. So

14:53

even to this day, so that's

14:55

a bit of advice for everyone. And

14:57

I hope that resonates because it

14:59

is something thing that will

15:02

prevent you from a lot of pain

15:04

and a lot of.

15:05

Disappointment with yourself. Okay,

15:09

thank you for your question. Relena.

15:10

I like your name Relena very pretty. Hopefully

15:12

I'm pronouncing it right. Okay,

15:15

here we go. Jose,

15:18

you performed with your sisters recently

15:20

at Premios Hu went thud. Are

15:23

there any plans for you all

15:25

to do an album together? Would

15:27

you consider that? It's a very nice

15:29

question. I loved being on stage with my sisters.

15:32

For me, it was.

15:33

Such a beautiful moment because I'm

15:35

their older sister, I'm kind of like a mother figure

15:37

to them, and it was just a lot

15:40

but I had to really just contain my composure

15:42

and just breathe and be

15:45

strong, not only for myself but for them. So

15:47

it was there were so many emotions. We

15:49

were singing a song to my mom for my mom

15:52

on a huge stage like prehmus Shubenthoud, and

15:54

it was a beautiful moment. My sisters,

15:57

both of them are super talented, so

16:00

proud of them. So I would love to do some

16:02

type of album or at least a song with

16:04

them. With both of them, Jennica's

16:07

amazing at harmonizing. She has a

16:09

beautiful voice, she plays a guitar. Jackie Bunny

16:11

said, you guys, she has a beautiful voice.

16:13

So I don't know.

16:15

That's a good question and something to definitely

16:17

consider. Maybe I should put that on my vision board, you guys for twenty

16:19

twenty four.

16:20

Maybe that's what I need to do a song with

16:22

my sisters.

16:22

That would be awesome. I know my mom would be so proud. I

16:25

know for sure she would. So thank

16:27

you for that, for

16:30

that little spark that you gave me of

16:32

an idea.

16:33

Jose.

16:34

Okay, so we have another question from Susanna.

16:36

What's the biggest misconception about

16:38

you? Wow,

16:41

the biggest, because there are quite a few. The

16:45

biggest misconception, I

16:47

could say one, but I'm like, eh,

16:50

I would probably say I've heard of this a lot, that

16:52

people think that I'm conceded that I'm a mammona

16:55

and a mamona means that you just think you're better

16:57

than everyone else, that you're just like whatever, super

17:00

like snooty, like you know, I

17:03

am not like that at all, And I could say that with confidence.

17:07

I've gotten that a lot where people are like, oh my god, I thought you were

17:09

so this, you were that like you're actually really cool.

17:11

I'm like, yeah, because.

17:13

You probably have let

17:15

what other people have said or

17:17

even sometimes what media wants to paint like.

17:20

That's another advice that I can give you, guys, is

17:22

don't judge a book by its cover. Don't

17:24

judge a person by what you hear about

17:27

them from someone else. Like you have to be grown

17:29

enough to give the person

17:32

the opportunity to get to know them for who

17:34

they are. And that's what I tell everyone.

17:37

Once you sit down with me and you vibe, you're

17:39

gonna feel it. I'm not a lot

17:41

of those things that people think. I don't know if

17:43

it's because of how I act in my video. Sometimes

17:45

I'm like, I'm a baddie. I don't know what it is.

17:47

But you, guys, I'm

17:50

chill chickens and chill hello.

17:53

But yeah, I think that's the biggest

17:55

misconception besides another

17:57

thing that I just don't want to talk about because it's like, you

18:00

know, we're in twenty twenty four. Okay,

18:06

here we go. Oh,

18:09

I like this one. Let's see cute little

18:11

short one. Let's see from

18:13

Brenda. If you were

18:16

to do the story of your life, what actress

18:18

would you like to play you? And why

18:21

who would play Amelia? Oh

18:24

my god, I was just asked this question yesterday,

18:26

Yes, yesterday, by my hairstylist.

18:29

Honestly, I don't know, you, guys, I

18:31

don't know who would play me. My makeup art

18:33

is Jessica, said Araceli, Arambula.

18:38

She said that, you know, she's like, I think

18:40

she would play you know you very well, but

18:43

I don't. Honestly, that's a very good question, and I'm gonna

18:45

owe you that one. And who would play a Medio?

18:47

I have no clue. This is I usually have a

18:49

lot to say and I don't even know. I

18:52

gotta think about it. I

18:54

need someone that speaks both Spanish and

18:56

English. That's super important to me, like really, for it to

18:58

be as authentic as possible to who I really am

19:01

and for them, so yeah, resemble

19:03

me, of course in some way.

19:05

But I don't know.

19:06

This is a good question. Oh my gosh. I'll get

19:08

back to you on this one. Okay, I'll get back to you on this one.

19:10

Thank you, Brenda.

19:11

Okay, so

19:14

here we go. Another question,

19:18

Carly.

19:20

Do you and your friends split the bill when

19:22

you go out to dinner or does everyone

19:25

take turns picking up the tab? This

19:27

is constantly an issue between me and my friends,

19:29

and so I want to know how you handle this. This is

19:31

a very good question. I'm gonna tell you. When

19:35

I was younger, I was

19:37

always the one that picked up the bill. And

19:39

again, I was a people pleaser, remember that whole people

19:41

pleaser. Didn't want to disappoint. I want people's approval.

19:44

It was kind of like, let me buy your friendship.

19:46

In a way.

19:46

I wasn't trying to do that, but I was doing that, and

19:50

I just wanted.

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I'm a giver.

19:51

That's one of my love languages is like I give, and I

19:53

want to give. I just I love to give. That's

19:56

the way I show you my love. And

20:00

I realized that in a friendship

20:03

everything should be very fair. So

20:05

now when I go to dinner, my friends, my current

20:08

friends, my real friends that I can count right here

20:10

in one hand, we split the bill, or

20:12

sometimes I'll pay, and then the next time they'll pay.

20:15

It's a very mature, very

20:18

like reciprocated type

20:20

of friendship, both or all

20:23

of them, should I say. But before

20:25

I was the one that would pick up the bill, and I just started

20:27

realizing that those weren't the type of friends that I wanted,

20:29

and that I wasn't too sure if they were

20:31

in my life. For that reason, I didn't like how I was feeling.

20:34

So those friends are no longer

20:36

in my life, and I'm happy

20:38

about that. But now I'm good

20:40

with saying, yes, we all split the bill

20:43

and it feels good. So that's how it should be. And

20:45

if you want to give someone a gift, then you let them know, Hey, I'm taking

20:47

you to dinner.

20:48

I'm buying.

20:48

But if someone if you're going to dinner, you guys should split

20:51

it or treat each other.

20:52

But it should be.

20:53

Even balanced, you know. So,

20:56

Carly, if you're feeling uncomfortable

20:58

for a reason, that means you don't have

21:00

peace with that. So you gotta

21:03

watch that because your

21:06

soul, your gut is telling you something. Okay,

21:09

So before we move on, see

21:11

how many questions we've answered so far? One, two,

21:13

three, four, five, six,

21:16

seven, eight, nine,

21:20

ten, eleven, twelve. Okay, let's

21:22

do two more questions, twelve

21:25

questions, and we're going to do a total of fourteen.

21:27

Here we go. Not

21:30

me trying to avoid the big ones because

21:33

I've always had that thing.

21:35

I don't know if I've ever told you guys on Cheeks and Choll on

21:37

the podcast that one time.

21:40

I was always very afraid to

21:43

read in front of the classroom. I was in fifth

21:45

grade and I would always get to rese.

21:47

I'm like, oh my gosh, please, I hope they don't. I

21:49

hope the teacher just ignores me, and I would just try to hide. And

21:51

of course, Janey,

21:53

because that was my name before, Jane, not Janney.

21:55

I'll tell you, guys, it's a wholely story. Janney, come and read.

21:58

So I go up there and I'm reading, and

22:00

I'll never forget I said is land Island.

22:04

I said is land, you guys, and the whole

22:06

freaking class laughed at me. So since then, it's like

22:08

I get really nervous to read. I can

22:10

talk all day, but to read, I get like, I

22:13

don't know, it's weird. So any who, besides,

22:17

you know, I was a little school

22:20

was hard for me the first year. So anyways,

22:22

that was just a little side question. This

22:25

is just a little side story. Okay, So this is

22:27

from Michelle. I'm eighteen years old and I'm struggling

22:29

with body confidence. I feel

22:31

like I can't live up to all the ig

22:34

models. Oh my gosh, I want to get healthy

22:36

and change my mindset. Do you have any advice?

22:38

First of all, baby, you're eighteen

22:40

years old. Your body is still changing, is still

22:42

developing. Be patient, be compassionate with yourself.

22:44

Okay, we don't start developing until we

22:47

don't stop.

22:47

Should I say?

22:48

We don't stop developing until we're about twenty five

22:50

as women?

22:51

So remember that. Okay.

22:54

The first thing you have to do is stop comparing yourself.

22:57

Okay, what you see on IG ninety

23:00

five percent of the time, I'm telling you

23:03

ninety five percent, maybe ninety percent of

23:05

the time, it's not real.

23:06

It's all a facade.

23:07

There's a lot of editing, there's a lot

23:09

of photoshop, there's a lot of and that's fine,

23:12

phase tune all that stuff. A lot of it isn't real,

23:14

especially what you see on magazines like I

23:16

Get You because I felt the same way. I was like, I want to look

23:18

like the girls on TV. I want to look like this.

23:20

The truth is you need.

23:21

To learn to love yourself for who you are. And if

23:23

you want to improve your physique, then

23:26

work out. Okay, then eat healthy,

23:28

then make healthy your choices. Say I want to change my lifestyle.

23:30

I want to feel good and

23:32

that's where you got to start, especially with your nutrition.

23:35

Like it's like you want to feel your body, you want

23:37

to feel good, you want to have energy. That means you need

23:39

to eat better, you know, and working out

23:41

helps so much mentally, emotionally

23:44

of course physically. So stop comparing

23:46

yourself. That is the first thing that you have to do. And

23:49

in the society that we live in, you guys, I know it's hard

23:52

because it's that you see like what

23:54

goes on Instagram and they're perfect lives

23:56

and this and this and that. Like we

23:58

all have issues, we all have things that working through.

24:00

People only show you what they want to show

24:02

you on Instagram. That's the truth. You

24:04

don't know what's really happening. So don't go based

24:07

off of that, you know, just here.

24:09

Always remember this is this is where true beauty

24:11

comes from. Your heart, your intentions,

24:14

what you think, what you feel for other people,

24:16

what you want for the world. Focus on that.

24:18

You're so young, and I get it, but you

24:22

can't compare yourself. It's the worst thing that we can do.

24:25

Believe me, I'm telling you. So I'm

24:27

sending you a big hug. I'm sending you a big, big

24:29

hug. Michelle Okay, our last question,

24:31

you guys, our last question.

24:35

I avoided the big one again. Okay, here we go, Georgina.

24:39

As you get closer to turning forty, what's

24:41

on your list? I don't want to answer this one. Forty

24:44

who's turning forty? Girl?

24:47

Just kidding?

24:47

Okay, fine, I'll answer it, Georgina. Okay,

24:50

As you get closer to turning forty, what's on your

24:52

list of things to do? Are there special

24:54

places you want to travel to? What are you looking

24:57

forward to? Okay, So, first of all, I can't believe

24:59

I'm to turn forty.

25:00

I don't know when.

25:01

Richard is probably gonna be very upset that we out of this because

25:03

he doesn't want anyone to know my age. But the

25:05

truth is, I'm very proud of

25:07

my age. I'm very proud of everything that I've accomplished.

25:10

It took me a long time because sometimes I say my

25:12

age out loud, and I'm like, what when?

25:14

How did that happen? Because I feel so young?

25:16

But then again, I like to stay young.

25:18

I like to do things that make me happy, Like I'm

25:21

always doing anything and everything I

25:23

can to heal my inner child and to satisfy

25:26

her and make her happy and go to Disneyland and wear little

25:28

ears. And it's not because I don't want to grow up. It's

25:30

just that's how I feel.

25:31

You know.

25:31

I actually probably want to have my fortieth birthday

25:34

at Chuck e Cheese, to be honest, like, I've thought about

25:36

that.

25:36

So that's one of my plans. Okay.

25:39

I also I need to possibly

25:41

I don't know, God, maybe I'm gonna be a mother.

25:43

Maybe I'm not. I don't know.

25:45

I want to move to Hawaii. That's another thing that I want

25:47

to do. I want to open a

25:49

Talco shop in Hawaii. I won't tell you, guys what

25:51

island, because I might want to just get away.

25:52

I don't know.

25:54

There's so much that I still want to accomplish, but I'm

25:56

not afraid of it anymore now. I'm like, you

25:58

know what, it's okay. It's

26:01

a beautiful thing to age gracefully to accept

26:03

it, and I thank God that I was able

26:05

to and I have been able to accomplish

26:08

so much. So this is a very good

26:10

question. So I want to go to Hawaii. I want to go to Paris.

26:12

I've never been to Paris, you guys. I want to go to Jamaica. I

26:15

want to travel the world, that's for sure. I think I just

26:17

want to be able to make enough money to say I'm leaving for

26:19

an entire year and I'm

26:21

just going to go travel and see the world. So I think

26:23

that's one of the things that

26:25

I want to.

26:26

Do for sure.

26:27

So thank you for your question, Georgina,

26:29

and you guys, thank you all for your questions. I wasn't able

26:31

to obviously get to all of them, but I am very grateful

26:34

that we're able to have Cheekis and Chill and your

26:36

Cheeky's and answer these questions. And thank

26:38

you guys for trusting me to answer

26:41

the questions. I always

26:43

give you guys my best advice from the bottom of

26:45

my heart. I

26:47

will give you guys advice like I'm telling one of my sisters

26:50

or one of my friends.

26:51

You know, I want the best for you, guys.

26:52

So thank you so much for listening, for watching

26:55

Cheekis and Chill, and I will catch

26:57

you on the next episode.

26:58

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