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All right, Now, go ahead and leave your question at

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Hi, Cheeky's, I just want to

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get election about marriage.

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So I've been married for four years

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now and there has been a

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lot of lying, meeting, disrespect

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and damn not honest. So

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I want to see, like, what's your

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advice that you'll give me to

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leave?

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Ooh this is hard, Okay,

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lying, cheating, I

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mean that's a lot.

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Hi Chrissa. By the way, sorry, it's just I

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had to jump right into it because I was like, oh my goodness,

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I can never be one to tell you,

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hey, get divorced, because

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you guys are married and you guys made a commitment.

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But it's pretty heavy. If

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you're asking me to give

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you advice, it's because you already

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know what you should do. If

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I were you, I

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wouldn't necessarily deal with lying.

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Maybe a tiny bit of lying, maybe like

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white lies, But if it's some deep

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shit, then I don't know. I can't. I

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need to trust the person that I'm with if they're cheating

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on me. Men, I

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just know myself. So if I were

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you, I would probably say, hey,

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this isn't working out for me. You're causing me more pain

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than good in my life. So deuces.

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You know it's not going to be easy because it hurts.

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But I think you know the answer.

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But I know it's scary to take that step. But

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you got to think about yourself. Ask yourself,

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am I more happy? Or am I

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more unhappy? And if you're

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more unhappy, then maybe that means

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you need to walk away. That's all I'm

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going to say.

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Oh I hope that helped. Okay,

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all right, Danny is the

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next question?

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Hi, Tikis. I'm a big fan of yours. I've

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been a fan of yours since you start your career,

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especially with palm ma. Blanca.

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But I've been a huge fan of you. I feel

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like you're my idol and look up to you.

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I have a question for you. I feel like I've been struggling

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with this a lot for years.

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I tend to be too nice, and

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I feel like I don't know

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how to like stop being nice. I

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feel like when it comes to work, family,

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friends in general,

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I'm just too nice, and I sometimes

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feel like I get taken advantage of it, and

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sometimes I just don't know how to, like

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I guess handle the situation.

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Oh, Danny, First of all, thank you

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so much for being a fan of mine since Baaloma

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Blanca. I know you are real one, so

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thank you. Oh Okay,

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I've struggled with this. I have

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also been too

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nice sometimes to the wrong people. And

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because there's nothing wrong with being nice,

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it's just being

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nice to the right people. You're gonna feel

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with time, with maturity. But

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I don't want you to change your essence. If

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who you are is a nice person in then

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be nice. If the people

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that you're being nice to aren't appreciating

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you, then that's something different. Then that's

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probably someone that you need to stay away from.

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Boundaries huge I

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learned that in therapy through therapy, and

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I'm a huge advocate of therapy for

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that reason because I didn't

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have boundaries since I was a

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little girl, and I had to learn to say,

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hey, I need to put this line here,

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and you can't cross this line, because if you're

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crossing that line and you're not respecting my

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boundary, then maybe you shouldn't

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be in my life. It's

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being nice, but also being gracefully

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assertive, being able to say hey, no,

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I'm not okay with that, and

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being okay with saying no to other people. In

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order to say yes to yourself. That takes

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a little bit of time through trial and error.

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So don't change your essence. Don't change your

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heart if that's who you want to be. Is

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just creating limits and learning

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with who I

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see you know, but

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don't change your heart, Danny, don't don't. Don't

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stop being nice because people are gonna

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take your kindness for weakness. But those are the wrong people anyways.

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But again, you're gonna learn, you're gonna see that.

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But there's nothing

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wrong with being too nice or too sensitive

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because I'm like that. It's just you have

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to know who

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to be like that with. If that makes sense.

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I hope that made sense. Sending you a big

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hug, Danny, thank you so much for

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loving me, and yes,

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don't change that beautiful heart.

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Okay, don't change it.

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Our next question comes from Stefania.

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Hi, Queen, I want to start off by saying

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that I am so in love with

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you. I hope that you have an amazing twenty

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twenty four because you deserve

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it. You are a queen. Might

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I add I love Carol Might

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I add? Anyways, sister, I

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just wanted to ask you. I know that

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you're a big Carol G fan and that you're a big

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Bud Bunny fan because hello, we love

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supporting our Latino family, right, but

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I want to know what is your favorite

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Give me top three favorite Carol

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G songs because I know it's hard because she has amazing

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songs, Like Manianna saida Wanito was the best album

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ever. But I want like your

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top three favorite Carol G songs. And then also

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to our king Bad Bunny. We love Umano

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Sinti that was my favorite album. But it doesn't

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have to be the albums that I mentioned, like just your top

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three favorite songs of Bad Bunny

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and Carol G. I really want to know. I want

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to see if they're the ones that are mine,

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because I think we're like girl, I have

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songs, you know. But anyways, I

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love you, queen, and I hope you have a wonderful, wonderful

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day.

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Oh it's Deefania. Thank you for your question.

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I love it something different, okay, cool?

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I do love Carol And first of all, thank

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you, baby. I think you're a queen too. Okay,

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Queency's qu you feel me? Okay?

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So Carol Ge, for sure,

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I love that song, especially because she wrote

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it with Carla Morrison, who I also love. I

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love also a yeah, and

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last but not least, the third Carol

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Ge song, I would have to say

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me Andrescuro such

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a good song, Oh my goodness

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okay, And then I love

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a lot of Carolgi songs AnyWho, and then Bad

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Bunny and I'm not Gonna

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lie. In the beginning, I was kind of like because

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I was such a huge J valuing fan, But then I was

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like, what the heck They're so different? What was wrong with me?

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Right?

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But I think they're both great to be honest. Okay,

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So here we go. Okay, of

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course I love the theme. And

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then there's Vete is a great one.

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Pero Sola. Of course during

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the pandemic, that song got

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me through. And that's just the name a few, because

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there's a lot of bad Bunny songs. But I love

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Peola because it got

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me through the pandemic. You guys, I was just

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obviously think we were all going through it so

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bad Bunny's music just like made me feel like, yes,

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I'm in the club at home, you know. Okay,

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So those are those are my top

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six songs from the artists you mentioned.

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And yes, we got to support Latinos, you

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know all I mean Spa,

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but right now we're the hottest commodity. You

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know, we're the largest minorities.

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So shout out to all the Latinos in the world.

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Whoo whoo.

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Okay it's se Fani. I love your question. Thank you so

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much. All

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right, guys, so we have one final

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question and that comes from Victoria.

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Oh it's an update they're telling me here, Okay,

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Victoria, Okay, let's see.

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Hey Cheekey's. I don't know if you remember, but

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last year I sent a question

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asking about my deea that had breast cancer

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and just how to navigate that situation,

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and you really gave me some amazing,

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encouraging words. So I just wanted

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to give you a little life update. Is

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now cancer free and remission.

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She's doing great, And I

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also wanted to let you know how like God

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works in mysterious ways and

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life is so full circle that like,

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maybe days after that episode

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aired, your team

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noticed me on Instagram and invited

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me to participate in one of your campaigns

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for your Shape Where And I was actually

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able to take a break from

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taking care of my THEA and go

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participate in

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that campaign. And I just wanted to say, even

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though I didn't get to meet you, that

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like changed my life and it pushed

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me in so many ways and motivated

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me to continued with modeling

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and like just getting

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my life back on track. And

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I just wanted to say thank you, and

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I wanted to let you know how she's

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doing and You're amazing and I

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love you.

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Oh my goodness, Victoria, thank you so

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much for the update. And I'm so happy that my advice

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was able to give you some peace. And oh

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my gosh, thank God, Glory

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to the Lord that your

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aunt is in remission and she's feeling

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good and you're feeling good. I am

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so happy to hear that. Honestly, it just

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brings my heart so much joy. And

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yes, faith, God, it

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like moves mountains having

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faith, So prayer is super

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powerful. So thank you

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so much for the update, and I'm so glad that you

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were able to join the casting call. That

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makes me so happy. We're going to continue doing that

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because I love meeting you guys, and I know you weren't able

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to meet me, but the fact that you were there, that you took

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the time, and that not only that, it

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just helped you just kind of forget

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about what was going on in your life personally.

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You were there and you were focusing on yourself and

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you're able to do something for yourself. So I am

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so so happy and I'm so grateful

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that you were there, and we're gonna have more,

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so stay tuned. I will let you

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know on that. And oh my gosh, give your aunt

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a big hug from me, please,

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Oh my goodness. Okay, guys, So

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that is it for today. I am so grateful

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for your questions. Like I always tell you, guys,

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thank you, thank you, thank you for taking the time to record

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your questions. And I'm glad

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that I'm able to speak to you guys and have this direct

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contact. It makes me so happy

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helping you guys in some way, like you guys

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help me, you know what I mean. So thank you guys.

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Thank you too, Carissa.

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Thank you to Danny two, Stefania and Victoria

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for the update. You guys update us okay

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when I give you advice. I love to hear

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all the updates. So thank you guys so much,

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and I will catch you on the next episode of Dear

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