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1:45
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1:47
is one of the most incorrect
1:50
sayings out there. Curiosity
1:52
did not kill the cat. It's
1:55
so totally wrong. And they couldn't
1:57
have been further from the truth. Asking questions
1:59
and. being curious about everything
2:03
about your life is absolutely
2:05
key to and fundamental to how
2:07
we function as humans. So it's funny
2:09
how we can have these things that get into
2:11
popular culture and we kind of you know think
2:13
it's good and bad. It's very
2:15
often said to children in this manner as a
2:18
discipline for the whole. Now remember when asking my
2:20
parents questions and then saying things like curiosity killed
2:22
the cat. It's kind of like that
2:24
this part of the awful leader who's going to kill
2:26
the cat and why would curiosity kill the cat? It
2:28
didn't make any sense. So well I'm
2:30
your host Dr Caroline Leaf and welcome
2:32
to my podcast Cleaning up the Mental Myth
2:34
and I'm going to talk to you about why curiosity
2:36
did not kill the cat and maybe tell you some
2:38
very obvious stuff but I just want to remind you
2:41
to be very curious. In fact it's
2:43
curiosity that would expand your life experience,
2:46
help you get unstuck, move you forward,
2:48
help you grow as a person, empower
2:50
you to get autonomy over situations, change
2:52
your brain health for the better, being
2:54
curious changes your brain health for the
2:56
better, who doesn't want to improve brain
2:59
health, help you process instead of suppress
3:02
that really is a key piece of trigger and
3:04
in doing so increase your health span and longevity.
3:07
I mean that is so cool. I want to say those
3:09
again. Curiosity will
3:11
expand your life experience, help
3:14
you get unstuck, move
3:16
you forward, help you
3:18
grow as a person, empower
3:20
you to get autonomy over situations,
3:23
change your brain health for the better, help
3:26
you process instead of suppress
3:29
and in doing so increase your
3:31
health span and
3:34
longevity. For
3:38
health span is how healthy
3:40
you are as you age. So not
3:42
only do you want to live longer but you
3:44
want to live longer in a healthy way
3:47
And curiosity is key to that. You
3:49
Know that these research showing that the
3:51
dementia's Alzheimer's cognitive decline and those kinds
3:54
of things a lot of that is
3:56
it comes from us not using our
3:58
mind enough. Not
4:00
an Illini, Don't use a mind of
4:02
and healthy views on Monday incorrectly like
4:05
suppressing and that kind of thing. If
4:07
make sure that it's in, it's an
4:09
unhealthy minds it seems an unhealthy wave
4:11
and into a see the brain and
4:13
and with that causes and healthy brain
4:16
and unhealthy brain And and healthy mind
4:18
means unhealthy body. Has. Over time
4:20
it's cumulative, so your vulnerability. To
4:23
cognitive decline and and those kinds
4:25
of things increases. When. We
4:27
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part of the news cycle. Is
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being curious. Asking
5:32
questions, To think of. When.
5:34
A child growing up. As they are starting to
5:36
learn to speak, it's. Why Mommy
5:38
As a Why Betty the sending you answer
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the in line. And you onto the same
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line spaces. Three. And censor the can
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be here in fewer seats from because
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she turned into something you should eventually.
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Here. You max on a because a seats and
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it will happen. But you can always give some
5:54
sort of reason to tell. This country as a
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child is. pulling the brain they going in
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mind this would be out of the
6:00
life by all being curious. Curiosity, you
6:02
can see I'm very into curiosity. Curiosity
6:07
in asking patients is so healthy for our
6:09
mental and emotional wellbeing. In fact, it's a
6:11
crucial aspect of managing your mind, which is
6:14
your driving life force. If you think of
6:16
then your mind, let me add
6:18
to that statement. Your mind is
6:20
your driving life force. Your mind
6:22
loves being curious. Your mind is
6:24
curiosity. Your mind is constantly
6:27
asking, answering and discussing. Your mind
6:29
is thinking, feeling and choosing, thinking,
6:32
feeling and choosing around what you're
6:34
being curious about. So
6:36
I'm telling you information. You are in your
6:39
mind asking questions. You're thinking, feeling and choosing
6:41
in response. And your thinking, feeling and choosing
6:43
is generating a curiosity where you are curious
6:45
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6:48
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you're in a conversation with someone you're
9:00
going to watch a movie. I mean, that's a
9:02
great example. You watch a movie, you're curious to
9:04
see what's gonna happen with the characters and the
9:06
plot and the climax and the builds, it's
9:10
all about the climax and what happens at the end and reading
9:12
a book. We're constantly curious, what
9:14
should we eat? How are others gonna turn
9:16
out this meal? What's this new restaurant? How are my
9:18
new friends? What are they gonna talk about? We live
9:20
in the state of curiosity. And
9:22
that state's natural, but when we deliberately
9:25
and intentionally add questioning to the process
9:27
and guide their curiosity, we are increasing
9:30
our brain health as I said, and
9:32
health span and longevity. So much out
9:34
there on biohacking and
9:36
longevity and we're updating on living
9:38
for a long time too. But I know that one
9:40
of the main things and I've done a podcast on
9:42
this as well is how you managing your mind and
9:44
curiosity keeps that mind going. It
9:47
keeps it sharp and active. So
9:50
it's a fundamental process in my mind
9:52
management system and my mind
9:54
management system as I've said is the
9:56
neurocycle. Throughout the neurocycle and every step
9:58
you're getting awareness. my feeling,
10:00
what is going on in my body as I feel this,
10:03
how's this happening, who, what, when, where, where,
10:05
what's more detail, where's this happening, where's this
10:07
coming from, its curiosity is throughout. Okay,
10:11
you're being curious in how you show up in
10:14
your emotions, your behavior, your perspective, your body sensations
10:16
and ever deepening layers until you get
10:18
to the core through asking, answering and
10:21
discussing. So the whole overarching
10:23
process is ask, answer, discuss, ask,
10:25
answer, discuss, ask, answer, discuss, you're
10:27
being curious. And as you're
10:29
asking, answering and discussing, you're thinking, feeling
10:31
and choosing, that's the mind in
10:33
action. This enables you to do
10:36
a deep dive into the inner workings of
10:38
your conscious, subconscious and non-conscious mind that I
10:40
talk about all the time. I've done a
10:42
whole podcast on the difference between the three
10:44
and I refer to it often throughout. So
10:47
what is curiosity doing in your mind and brain? It's
10:50
creating an energy and neurochemical
10:52
flow through the brain that results in an
10:55
increasingly malleable state in the relevant
10:57
brain networks. Let me say that
10:59
simplistically. It changes the
11:01
way that the energy flows in the brain and
11:03
it changes the way that the neurochemical
11:06
flow in the brain in a constructive
11:08
way that enables the networks that are
11:10
driving you to be loosened up so
11:12
that you can either add to them
11:14
or change them or fix them or
11:16
whatever. If they're not loosened up, they're
11:18
stuck and then you're stuck in that pattern of
11:21
thinking. When you break a pattern of thinking
11:23
into building a new habit, curiosity starts
11:25
creating an energy wave through the brain
11:27
that starts loosening up those networks and
11:30
preparing for change. You
11:32
get an increase in gamma wave
11:35
activity, which if gamma wave, I always use the example
11:37
of when a wave crashes on the
11:39
beach, the little wave or the gamma wave. And
11:42
when you are in this curious state, we get
11:44
a lot of gamma activity, which is actually
11:46
the activity we need to blow the brain. It
11:49
stimulates a wave pattern that's fertile ground
11:51
for brain growth. And when your brain
11:53
grows, it grows
11:55
in the right direction. You're getting healthier. When your brain
11:57
grows in the wrong direction, you're not getting healthy.
12:00
So that's why being curious is
12:02
going to help you decide, oopsie, I'm thinking in
12:04
the wrong way. How can I change this?
12:06
Whereas versus, okay, I'm just going to keep thinking
12:08
in this way. So then you're
12:11
going to, you know, you're building the wrong kind of
12:13
network. So your conscious mind,
12:16
this is an interesting one. So when you are
12:19
being curious, your conscious mind doesn't
12:21
multitask. Okay. Multitasking
12:23
is a risk for the conscious mind. So consciously
12:25
we do one thing at a time first, but
12:27
we do one thing, finish, one thing, finish, one
12:29
thing, finish, one thing, finish. And we,
12:31
the more we manage our mind, the more
12:34
effective we get at doing that in
12:36
our conscious mind, but our non-conscious mind,
12:38
which is the biggest part of you
12:40
runs 24 seven conscious mind is
12:42
slow and it operates in your
12:44
wake. Non-conscious mind never stops. It
12:46
never runs out of energy. It's
12:48
infinite in size and ability and
12:50
what capacity it's on your
12:52
side. It stores every experience. It
12:54
is scanning every experience to find the stuff that's good,
12:57
the bad, and the ugly and making you aware of
12:59
it. It is running your body. It
13:01
is doing a lot. So your
13:03
non-conscious mind is extremely active and
13:06
it's going beyond multitasking because
13:08
it's doing so many things
13:11
simultaneously. So
13:14
your conscious mind switches between tasks.
13:16
Your non-conscious mind works at a
13:19
level far exceeding multitasking and incredibly
13:21
fast. So when you ask
13:23
questions or pose questions to yourself, when
13:25
you get curious, you are
13:27
allowing a funneling effect between the conscious
13:29
and the non-conscious mind. So by you
13:32
asking a question, you are opening the
13:34
door where you're allowing a funneling effect
13:36
of the conscious question, going to the
13:39
non-conscious mind and creating an interaction between
13:41
the two, which is brilliant. You
13:43
want that. It's grabbing the
13:45
wisdom that's inside of you and grabbing
13:47
the power that's inside of you to
13:50
solve problems, to gain knowledge, to expand
13:52
knowledge, to grow. All those things are
13:54
said in the beginning to bring brain
13:56
health into your brain, to grow your brain. The
13:59
Non-conscious mind. Odom elephant existing thought
14:01
related to the Christians it's asked for
14:03
you are city since you seem to
14:05
to to the non conscious and unconscious
14:07
searches and signs all the trees. With.
14:10
The so trees with the memories that are
14:12
relevant to the Christian scenes in back up
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on it or time at different speeds to
14:16
the subconscious. A subconscious is kind of a
14:18
holding boy and pop in and out of
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an unconscious Chris, An unconscious his as is
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in and then please can than unconscious which
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is super fast into the subconscious. It's like
14:27
a holding pattern. It's a bit slower. And
14:30
then into the conscious. Mind has kind of
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holds the and in a pop. In and Out
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says that this movement from the unconscious to the
14:36
subconscious to the punches. See. The
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subconscious minded about Forty Actions physique
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and which we consciously perceive in
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chunks of a few seconds off
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a christian. A big them
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to an unconscious mind and countries fund
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signed the lease, pushes him into the
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subconscious and forty times a second hand
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in we take him into a conscious
14:56
mind if we see seconds and the
14:58
we use that information to help us
15:00
on the police and big exercise alone
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is like going to the gym. I
15:04
mean excellent. Literally an excellent
15:06
exercise to develop your mind to
15:09
do the little mind management skills.
15:12
So. To. It's really brilliant. So that
15:14
subconscious mind is like a delay between the
15:16
contest and set an unconscious focus. So single
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conscious mind. To. Focusing on the
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one Christian and embedded within
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the. Within. An unconscious
15:25
mind that the that punches ninety spending
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soon So this in is this is
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a very in and she thinks task
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to your brain is activated to channel
15:33
all that energy specifically to this task
15:36
which is good for brain health. When
15:38
his his. Curiosity demands lot
15:40
of energy of the mind and
15:42
body so you've it's which is
15:44
good because you're bending channel that
15:47
energy resources on the ears of
15:49
the brain that meets upstairs. You're
15:51
hoping with accept that these different parts that
15:53
are more after the second time so we
15:55
see like magana the frontal lobe with when
15:57
you Qantas in deliberately asking this question and.
16:00
And it. Got a balance
16:02
also ways and say the websites
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oldest. Person. That
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is created that enables you to going to.
16:09
An ideal the plane state which recall
16:11
the Goldilocks state. And in
16:13
helps you to function. As okay about
16:15
the Goldilocks. Concede before when it comes
16:18
to worry since he's operating officer. Has
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nothing to do more yoga and do many
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things with added to it's initially knuckling assisted
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with. Yeah As a com your body shape
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and physical mental health improves. Sites.
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And comes Austin as christians don't really.
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Have. Time.
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If you're going to good information to help
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him in others intrusive thoughts on a podcast
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about it's a curiosity, the things he sort
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of and he sees him as your best
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friend and the helps. Manage.
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Them. A listen to the passcode
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costs on hockey team consists of sorts
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As a new best friends. That
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you best friend and your friends was left to them.
16:56
It's really helping with you. Can you
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buy lots of the networks to improve?
17:01
Siblings? Curious! Sir. And the
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one exception of exercising or so I can
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you a better to connect with increase resilience
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as well which makes his pants because we
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become access the read it means in the
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wind. This is the old. A
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bronze fake breaks and tax and
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schools us a citizen answers. In
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general majesty sort of threat to support
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curiosity, Gaming? Your loss? And
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it's problem solving to your city
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encourages creative problem solving Seem. Things
17:30
from different angles: the skinny to
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innovation. And the development of new
17:34
strategies, new life of business. He.
17:37
Reconceptualize assistance in different ways from
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listen to speak to father's come
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to this. Is souls and
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Sadie's in the steaks to come. Information to
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learn from this to yes he does. Curiosity
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takes a problem. On
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the problem to an object of to souls and
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say you're from his failure. To
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information to listen. And mistakes
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information to mention. I'm
18:01
said it was a happy to get emotional maturity.
18:03
And. Self regulation population in need to
18:05
turn him in. Our last. Secretions.
18:08
Were able. To gain a sense of own abilities
18:10
and then. Did you
18:12
hear that says creases the cutlass Again a
18:15
sense of our own abilities and learn how
18:17
we can adapt and change to improve our
18:19
abilities the same time. And. Then
18:21
adaptability. Curiosity helps to be
18:23
adaptable. And a rapidly changing
18:25
roping truth is essential to death. Penalty:
18:28
Stay open to new ideas to
18:30
just keep you open minded. And
18:33
making it easier to death New
18:35
technologies, teams, environment changes, belief systems,
18:37
Curiosity. Grows percent of possibilities and
18:39
said abilities mindset has to is that
18:41
we wanted to a city that possibilities
18:43
are the heard that you can achieve
18:46
probabilities are all the things can happen
18:48
on the way to get This is
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actually the thrones as doesn't work for
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deserted that as you get to wanted
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to possibility. And a
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curiosity analysis possibility. Probability.
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Mindsets allowing you to system to
19:01
develop. Allowing. You to sit picky
19:03
and a state of you can change You
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need to be changed. Our concern. Paralyzing in
19:08
action. And this relates to
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constrain our minds employees to your skin
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please relationships says or a prostitute relationship
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to find out more about the pussy
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and and were packed animal curious debates
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and to see. Some. The connections
19:20
communication Is she getting back and forth? Did
19:23
you ask a question? They're going to onset
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of create so tired today since it's the
19:27
back and forth. So it's a whole
19:29
point is sinking. Learning education, technology,
19:31
medicine, philosophy should be to build a
19:34
base, a world and that connectedness and
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soon as as as as it's cool
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fundamental purpose for for. Curiosities generating.
19:41
It's creating a kitten asked to
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to be. Paid a Siemens more
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committed and building a building a
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world that's more can access. And.
19:51
More Human and how the census. Said.
19:54
No. Curiosity did not kill the
19:56
cat. Curiosity only gives us a deeper
19:58
and root cellar. The understanding about
20:01
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