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could Gray Wayne and this is my

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video coaching newsletter and the topic of

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today's newsletters going to be how to

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get women to approach chase and seduce

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you. Well, this particular

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email is from a thirty

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one year old viewer. He

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says he's the third year

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Anastasia student. Is. About to

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graduate in a few months and he

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shares a success story of how he

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created the conditions and his wife were

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a hot classmate who happen to various

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be a year younger than him. Approached.

1:02

Her mother with put herself in her

1:04

her is or read started sit next

1:07

to started pursuing I'm started talking to

1:09

them eventually he got her number he

1:11

may lead heard start reach now and

1:14

then he made a day in the

1:16

end up hooking up and the first

1:18

day and and about a week later.

1:21

He reached out to make a second

1:23

day. And. She was

1:25

excited to hear from said she was excited.

1:29

Obviously the he's reach a now and

1:31

then he notices she was kind of

1:33

slow to respond. It was messages and

1:36

sore eyes. Get order. Sosa

1:38

good email just to show or

1:41

because he really did good job

1:43

of starting things off and being

1:45

totally indifferent and his inaction really

1:48

turned or on and made her

1:50

try harder to get his attention.

1:52

So. It's. Great email first,

1:55

starting things off, starting the courtship

1:57

off and create the conditions were

1:59

women. This You and they come

2:01

and try to get your attention.

2:03

Because men who understand three percent

2:05

man. That is typically where we

2:07

live. When you have a choice

2:09

with women, this is your reality.

2:12

You're used to women hating on

2:14

you, You're used to women trying

2:16

to get your attention. And quite

2:18

frankly, this is where. All.

2:20

Man. Should. Be. As

2:23

long as they do the work and obviously they apply the

2:25

things that are in the book. And

2:28

so before I get into this

2:30

particular guys email or talked about

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doing a couple extra video newsletters

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of a week. As a fact

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I'm gonna be posting right now

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too weak and were Also we've

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got a. Three percent man study

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group with the girls and chunky

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and so they've all read the

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book and what we're doing is

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we're going through it. Just.

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Giving example we've done to film

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sessions with Caroline and Jade on

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this and so they went through.

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they marked of the book they

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highlighted passages in, so we're really

3:18

doing an in depth discussion. Of.

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The book in the contents, the techniques,

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the strategy, the things I teach and

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so the girls are challenging me on

3:26

things. They may be a troll me

3:28

a little bit on some of the

3:30

things but it's just really creates a

3:32

conditions were from a woman's perspective. they

3:34

can challenge me on why I teach,

3:37

where I teach, and why the principles

3:39

are with. They are in the books

3:41

just as another tool. To. help

3:43

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and really do an in-depth discussion and

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just based on like the two film

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that I've done lot of content for you guys to catch

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up on. So with that

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said let's go through our regularly

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scheduled email. He says good

6:07

afternoon coach my name is Bob

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I'm 31

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and I'm a third year anesthesia student

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about to graduate this coming May. On

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my spare time I watch and read your

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book and I practice your work on nurses

6:22

when the chance is right. You

6:24

know so what's interesting is when you look at because

6:27

you know I've been doing this 20 years at this

6:29

point and so I've dealt with a lot

6:31

of people that have had cheating in their lives and then

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the female nurses are

6:35

one of the groups of

6:38

careers where women cheat a

6:40

lot. Freaky things

6:42

go on in the hospitals a lot

6:45

of promiscuity a lot of people

6:47

cheat none there's significant others and

6:49

so if you're dating a nurse

6:52

proceed with caution. He said

6:56

several months ago I noticed that a

6:58

student from the class the year below

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me started sitting next

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to me during my morning

7:04

coffee breaks. So women do they

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come and they put themselves in the order

7:09

of it but typically they're not going to

7:11

ask you out. You still have to be

7:13

the man you still have to be direct

7:15

and decisive get to the point make a

7:17

definite day definite date definite time where you're

7:19

going to get together on a

7:21

date it's up to you to ask for her number

7:23

or to give yours out and so and this

7:26

guy says again I always remember what you teach

7:29

and I don't lose my head when a pretty

7:31

girl shows up. We started

7:33

talking about anesthesia and asked and

7:35

she asked for some advice and she knows I'm about

7:37

to graduate. That's another thing

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when a woman would like you she typically tends

7:42

to ask you for advice because she admires you

7:44

she respects you she looks up to you she

7:46

seeks out your counsel and so when women do

7:48

that typically is another

7:50

indicator that they're interested in you

7:52

and they respect you. He

7:56

says weeks went by and I started noticing that she

7:58

would mention that she was single, lived

8:01

nearby and had no

8:03

roommates. So

8:08

if a woman's doing that, it's like she's

8:10

making it really obvious. But if

8:12

you think from this perspective, what if this

8:14

guy already had more than enough

8:16

women in his life? What if he was

8:19

already getting his balls sucked dry and he

8:21

just didn't need any more tacos to

8:24

deal with? He'd

8:26

be in no rush to make anything happen because he's

8:29

already got more than enough. And

8:32

that works to his advantage, as you'll see. He

8:35

said she would say this in a way that

8:37

didn't sound obvious but would look at me in

8:39

the eye to see what I'd do with it.

8:43

Yeah, because she's trying to figure out, does this

8:45

guy like me or what's he doing? It's a

8:47

scientific fact that women are more attracted to men

8:50

whose feelings are unclear. And this

8:52

guy's doing nothing. He's just showing up and going to his class.

8:54

And he's acting like a guy whose balls are

8:57

already on empty. And he doesn't have time for

8:59

any of that. He's nice. He's respectful.

9:01

But the last thing he needs is another beer

9:03

to taco in his life. He

9:06

says the next week, she sat next to me

9:08

and I asked her for her phone number and

9:10

she quickly had me put

9:12

on her contacts and texted me shortly after

9:14

to make sure I had her number too.

9:17

Again, I had this mentality of

9:19

I'll wait until she texts me

9:21

and a couple of weeks went by

9:24

until she did. So

9:26

she asked for his number, texts him

9:29

back her number

9:31

and she's doing all the

9:33

work. Why

9:36

get in the way of her phone? She

9:39

texted me asking about something school related and as

9:41

a wise man once said, if a woman reaches

9:43

out, assume she wants to see you. So

9:46

I asked her out for a drink on

9:48

a day that I was already in the area

9:50

practicing anesthesia. I invited her out at a time

9:52

when I was getting out And

9:54

told her to show up at a nice

9:56

Irish local pub at 6 p.m. Shown

10:00

up and looked gorgeous.

10:03

I. Could tell she had spent some

10:05

time looking good for me. Yes, she

10:07

was worried about your approval. She was

10:09

seeking your attention and your approval and

10:12

trying to seduce you Can again, she's

10:14

already hinted say I got no roommate

10:16

so be nobody there to interrupt us.

10:20

She. Might as well have said that way, but

10:22

when a woman hinting like that aside to make

10:24

it obvious he says I had to bears and

10:26

I didn't want to get drawn for many reasons

10:29

including the fact I still have to drive home

10:31

so I pay for the drinks and I pay

10:33

for the both of us and she immediately said

10:35

that she will pay next time. I

10:38

didn't think much of it and will we get

10:40

out a bar. I offered a walker home and

10:42

by the time we get your door she as

10:44

if I'm okay to drive to which I tell

10:46

her that I'm a bit tipsy. But.

10:48

I'll just stop somewhere to get some water. And.

10:52

She says oh. I can

10:54

give you some water. Do you want to come in?

11:02

Notice how he just gonna wanna go get

11:04

some water to take off his own passenger?

11:06

Be some water. Can.

11:09

I have a heartbeat injection. I merely

11:11

gave her a smirks and accept. And

11:13

as soon as we walk in, she

11:16

gives me some water and sits next

11:18

to me in the couch once again,

11:20

putting yourself in his orbit. and I

11:22

already been out for fourteen hours and

11:24

didn't feel like dicking around too much.

11:26

I mean, yeah, I mean, this guy

11:28

had wound her up for weeks by

11:31

doing nothing. She's inviting him in in

11:33

the house for some water, but the

11:35

reality is, she's making it easy for

11:37

a seduction that happens. But still, you.

11:39

Gotta be the one to pick up on

11:41

the signs and signals and make the move

11:44

with who knows what happened next. So

11:47

I tell or to get over with and

11:49

kiss me. I'm.

11:51

Pretty sure I read that in a book somewhere.

11:55

That. Exact phrase A matter of fact, he

11:57

says this to me seemed like I just

11:59

released a be. Because

12:01

she mounted me and the couch and started

12:03

rubbing my clothes off. Oh you poor baby.

12:06

I'm sure he suffered right through them. But.

12:09

You can see that this was like

12:11

over May weeks of the anticipation building

12:14

up and him not really doing anything

12:16

and again he's acting like a guy

12:18

who's balls are already dry use doesn't

12:21

need any more, he doesn't anymore of

12:23

energy and life is Oregon up. And

12:27

look how aggressive she's become. Now

12:30

do that. Ain't had a date and

12:33

ten years. He's

12:35

going to give off a completely different vibe and this

12:37

is never gonna happen to. He

12:40

said. Needless to say we tickets in

12:42

the bedroom the following day she messages

12:44

me and mentions the second beer. Again,

12:50

I. Didn't make the second day them because I told

12:52

her I was traveling to see some family for

12:54

spring Break. Out aside, love to y'all get in

12:57

touch when I get back from my trip. That's

12:59

always said. His. Yacht Toner,

13:01

when exactly are we back to? So when I

13:03

left my trip next week or a week after

13:05

are in a couple weeks or whatever they do

13:07

that organ touch. He.

13:09

Says earned my entire time. They are roughly seven

13:11

days we didn't speak. I could

13:14

shake the feeling of having her think that I

13:16

just used or but I didn't see the point

13:18

and just texting when she texted you. After all

13:20

the only thing I again I would have done

13:22

differently or like mad I'd love to get that

13:25

second. Beardsley will definitely do it when I get

13:27

back in towns. Know my your battle for her.

13:29

Yup. He.

13:31

Says testing is just for setting dates

13:34

and today I messaged her after one

13:36

week and she seemed excited over attacks

13:38

by was taking a bit too long

13:40

to reply. Documentation. that's

13:43

just like tennis hit the ball over

13:45

the net it's like don't get mad

13:47

that the kitty cat is a little

13:50

flaky and a little indecisive and it's

13:52

behavior is unpredictable was like this is

13:54

the way they are you can't take

13:56

it personally it's exhibitors change it perturbed

14:01

He says, there could either be another dude

14:03

or dudes in the picture. She's

14:05

truly busy with school or I simply did

14:07

not manage to leave a long lasting impression.

14:10

What are your thoughts coach? Make

14:13

the fucking date. Hang out. Have

14:16

fun. Hook up. Your job is to create

14:18

an opportunity for sex to have to hang out, to

14:20

have fun, to hook up. She

14:23

texted you back but she's taking her time. There

14:25

probably is another guy. Maybe there is another guy.

14:29

As far as you texting her after you had sex, she

14:31

texted you the next day and so you spoke the next

14:33

day so you shouldn't feel guilty about that at all. Even

14:37

if she does get mad or upset, that's one of the

14:39

reasons why you behave this way. You

14:41

want a girl who's easy going, easy to get

14:43

along with, doesn't give you a hard time. Think

14:47

about it. It's like if you call her up

14:49

and she seems to be happy to hear from

14:51

you but she's taken a little longer. You don't

14:53

get pissed off. You don't get mad. You

14:56

don't get perturbed. You just constantly stay calm.

14:58

You just assume, she'll get back to

15:00

me when she can. She must be busy. You

15:04

have that attitude. It's like not a big deal because

15:07

if you don't make a big deal out of it, she won't

15:09

make a big deal out

15:11

of it. Again, you don't really know this

15:13

girl. Who knows? In between that

15:15

week, an ex-boyfriend could have come back in the picture or

15:18

another guy who she was hooking up with that

15:20

went sideways before she got in touch with you

15:22

and you started hooking up. It's

15:25

like you don't know what you don't know. Bottom line

15:27

is just make the next date and then

15:29

get off the phone. Whenever she does reply, just say,

15:31

hey, I want to see when you can get together

15:33

for that second beer. What's your schedule

15:35

like? And come from

15:37

a place of presupposing, of course she wants

15:39

to see you. That's

15:43

all I would do. It's like, again, typically when a

15:46

woman's real hot and heavy initially and then she starts

15:48

to get cold, usually it means there's another guy in

15:51

the picture. And especially if she's hot, in

15:53

this case in the medical field, they

15:55

tend to be more promiscuous. It's just the way they

15:57

are. They tend to cheat more too. make

16:00

them that way. Maybe it's because

16:02

you're dealing with death and end of life stuff

16:04

and so they're just like people that serve in

16:06

the military. You got to kind of, you know,

16:09

you're dealing with death and bodily fluids

16:11

and things that most people can't relate

16:13

to. So

16:16

make the date, live in

16:18

the moment, don't worry about it. And

16:21

once she starts pursuing you and reaching out, you

16:23

know, every couple of days, just use that as

16:25

an opportunity to set the next date. So

16:29

if you got a question or a challenge and you'd

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like to get my help, go to understandingrelationships.com, click the

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products tab at the top of your screen on any

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page of my website and book

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a coaching session with yours truly. Until

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next time, I will talk

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to you soon.