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Hey guys, welcome to another episode of Copy
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Columbus podcast. Good morning.
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Good morning. I have I'm I know it sounds like I'm may or may not be on crack, but I'm actually just on coffee and I'm not really excited about the coffee conversation.
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We're about to have, because I got Wawa coffee, which I haven't had in forever and my lid wouldn't stay on.
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So I kept like almost willing it the entire time I was drinking it.
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That is really unfortunate. You know, I hate does my voice sound like a boy right now?
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No, but it sounds a little like, are you sick?
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Do you have Rona? No
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stop spreading rumors.
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No,
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I
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didn't
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have
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anything
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to
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drink
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this
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morning
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until
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like
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a
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few
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minutes
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ago. And so maybe my throat just dry and sounding a little boy ish, but anyhow, back to the coffee, it's very unfortunate when situations like that happen, you know, like when things just go wrong.
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Yeah, yeah. 100%. Like we know what else went wrong this morning.
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I had bought Buddha a new bed.
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He's the, the, I was gonna call him the queen, but he's the King of, he rips up his bed.
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Like I can't keep a bed for him for some reason.
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And I bought him a new one and it came yesterday.
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Literally took it out of the package at probably like five o'clock last night.
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And this morning I came downstairs and it was completely ripped to shreds.
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So that was a nice little thing.
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Oh
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my
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God. Imagine honestly, can we talk about that for a second?
1:45
Because what is it like having dogs that are as big as humans?
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Because I can't relate and can't imagine, Well,
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I love it sometimes because he just feels like he's a person like he's I just love him so much.
2:00
And then, well, karma, she's a bitch.
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Like she's a huge bitch.
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So she's like, she's good.
2:08
She's great. But she's, she doesn't like men.
2:11
And so she's just like me and dog horn, but they're just shut up.
2:16
Cause they're so like, I just feel like they're very cuddly and like loving and then gizmos just he's little and he's like Della and he's well, I'm lying.
2:30
He's a really cuddly too. Is Della cuddly?
2:32
Like will she cuddled? Yeah, No
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honey, no, no, no, honey.
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She Doesn't cuddle.
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She is like a, Percher
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like, yeah, she gets on the top of the furniture and she lays there and she doesn't want to be bothered.
2:48
She doesn't want to be touched.
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And she does this weird thing.
2:51
I actually wanted to ask all the pet parents on here, if their animals do this, I feel like cats probably do.
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But when you like talk to Della in a sweet voice, she starts stretching her body out, like so that she can get like more attention.
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And then she stretches like her back legs out.
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I'll take a video of this, but like every single time.
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So it's got to be something that she does, like when she's getting affection.
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She like, she like, she stretches.
3:21
Yeah. That's so interesting. I need to see a video of this.
3:24
I love when she smiles. That's my favorite thing.
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And I just, I need you to frame a picture of her smiling because that is amazing.
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She she's the funniest, but yeah, I couldn't imagine cuddling with a dog.
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That's as big as a horse. Yeah.
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That's Like cuddling a person. That's why I love it so much.
3:43
I love that. You love that. And I love all of the people on here that have big dogs.
3:48
I got bit by a big dog whenever.
3:51
Well, it was no really, I guess like border Collie.
3:56
That's not a big dog. Well, It felt like it was big to me, but we're talking about, I was in fourth grade, I think.
4:03
So it probably was like big then, but yeah, I got bit by a border Collie and it like drugged me and ripped my blue jeans and I was so upset about it.
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Not only was I like afraid, but I was upset to go home.
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Like I would be in trouble because my pants were ripped and like I was bleeding everywhere and obviously that's a completely irrational, like why would I be in trouble for that?
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But I just remember like, feeling like that.
4:33
And I just wonder if big dogs aren't a thing for me because of that.
4:38
Right, right, right, right. Yeah. I could see that.
4:40
I could totally see that I've never talked to any animal.
4:43
No, I was going to say, I mean, my mom had a cat when I was a kid and his name was Sergeant pepper and he was an indoor cat.
4:51
And I used to drag a blanket behind me when I would get up in the middle of the night to go to the bathroom.
4:58
Because in the middle of the night, if he saw me walking, he'd like attack me.
5:03
But like he wasn't doing it because he was, he wasn't doing it to be a Dick.
5:08
He was doing it because he's a cat, you know, like, yes.
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But I would just, I learned to drag the, either a towel or a blanket behind me to go to the bathroom.
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But other than that, no, I've never actually been attacked by an animal.
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So I can't really, and that's, I could see how fucking scary and terrifying that would be So
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terrifying. And then when dogs like come up to me, we'll be like at the park and they'll try to come up and Jackson loves any dogs.
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And I don't know.
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At what age did you start teaching your boys?
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Like not to approach other people's dogs.
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Because I feel like for Jackson, he started doing, he started trying to do it like maybe two years ago and we had to have that conversation and that, you know, it was like the era of why.
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Well, why don't I approach the dog and wide So
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far? I haven't had to explain to my kids only because they they're not dog people.
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They aren't no, like, they're not like Lincoln actually ju like hobby texted me the other day.
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And Lincoln was bawling his eyes out about bear, but he was, you know, bear was there when he was born.
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Other than like bear.
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They're just not interested in dogs.
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Like at all. None of them.
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Wow. That's so interesting.
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Yeah. It's they don't, they don't care.
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And they have dogs at all. Like hobby has a dog, Joe and V have two dogs, Lux.
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His dad's family has dogs.
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Like, but Lux is like the most interested out of all of them.
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But definitely still just not like, if we didn't have any, they wouldn't Care
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and lugs might be his age too.
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Like just curious and wanting to be into everything at this moment in time.
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So. Right, right. You know, it could be a little bit of that too.
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Yeah. We had to have the conversation about approaching other people's dogs.
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And when dogs come up to me at parks or whatever, I always like jump back because I'm like afraid and how to think it's like a natural reaction to do that.
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And then I always feel bad because I'm like, I don't want people to think that I think they're dogs mean or whatever, but literally anytime I see a border Collie, forget it, like freaking forget it.
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Not a thing. Cats are not a thing for me.
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Jackson loves all animals.
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He loves cats. He loves dogs.
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We would have a zoo at this house.
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He
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just
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loves
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it. Like he wants a big dog. He's like, mom, I want a dog where I can ride on its back.
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And like, my that's a horse, honey.
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Like that's not, that's not a dog and it's not happening at our house.
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10:21
Anyhow. So what else is going on in your life?
10:24
Okay. There's well, a lot, but also there's just so many other things that I want to talk about that have been going on like pop culture and like current events, like the free Brittany stuff, the Robin hood app situation.
10:37
And then I read yesterday that P Diddy was suing Sean, John, which I thought that P Diddy's name was Sean, John.
10:44
And I thought that he owned it too.
10:46
When I read that.
10:47
And then I don't know what else that we were going to talk about.
10:52
I know that you were trying to watch the, the other JonBenet Ramsey thing.
10:56
Was there another documentary that you were, Yeah,
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so I didn't want to spend a whole bunch of time on the Jon Benet Ramsey thing, just because we covered it.
11:03
So in depth, in the last episode and a million times, because we're just so invested, but I did watch the action Googled
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her H the house last night, like I couldn't stop.
11:13
You did. Yeah. I went up for sale in 2008, 2009 and 2014.
11:18
There is someone living there and it's like completely remodeled.
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But yeah, I was looking at, I was looking at the floor plan.
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I wanted to tour it. I thought maybe it was like a thing, but someone lives there.
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So Actually people send us messages of where you can do like an online tour of the house.
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So maybe I can send you the link and see if it works.
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Like I didn't look or anything. Cause it's just not something I wouldn't look, but that would probably freak me out.
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But anyhow, yeah.
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So did discovery plus did a documentary on JonBenet Ramsey too.
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And over the weekend I told will.
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I was like, Hey, can you put on discovery plus for me so I can watch the JonBenet Ramsey thing.
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And he was like, I swear to you if I hear about this case one more time.
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And I'm like, Oh wow, will you go back to your office?
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Because if so, then I'm going to keep talking and talking about no, I'm just kidding.
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But no, he was like, I swear, I can't listen to this anymore.
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I can't watch this anymore.
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You're obsessed. You're too invested, blah, blah, blah.
12:25
This is never going to get solved you and kill whack jobs and whatever.
12:31
Tell him to say it to my face. Yeah. Say it, say it to her face.
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And then the sad thing is, is he probably would.
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And then I
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love you. We'll stop. Don't call me a whack job.
12:41
He, It
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was like, Lindsay, this is ridiculous that you're making me pay four 99 a month just to get discovery plus so that you can watch this one documentary.
12:49
And so that brings me back to the point before I say about the documentary, we have literally like 19 streaming services and it proves your point of yes, you can cancel cable, but you're probably going to end up paying similar amount to have all the different streams, to be able to watch the different things.
13:08
And it's just hard when you see stuff being so followed like in the media or, you know, on Instagram and it's like this documentary coming out and whatever, and then you don't have the stream and it just is so easy to download it and get it that I'm like, Oh, wow.
13:26
You know, for four 99, it's basically like apps on your phone that you pay for except like on your TV.
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And I'm all about it.
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And kale is going to have all my logins and probably hacked me.
13:41
So I,
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but I did watch the free Brittany movement on the New York times thing, which was on Hulu.
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And I did use your login for that Before
13:53
we get into that, I just wanted to say that it was really interesting to me that the, the discovery plus documentary definitely more so followed the intruder conspiracy or theory, whatever you want to call it.
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It definitely like followed more of that.
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And a lot of things made, made sense to me, but I just can't get past like certain stuff.
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Like we talked on the last episode and then also like more of the side following like the da and the grand jury and like all of that stuff.
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So I did find that it was interesting and there was like different information, a lot of information, obviously recycled, but, but different information.
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And following the one theory, like it was kind of sticking to that and eliminating it kept reiterating and eliminating the fact that it would have, would have, or could been the parents.
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So yeah, I'm still sticking to, it was just, I,
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I think about it a lot, probably more than an average person thinks about like a crime.
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Like it's probably abnormal, but wow.
15:08
Yeah. A little bit. I don't, I can't get past.
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And that's why, like, when people like in your regular life, when you think about like a lie that they've told or whatever, like certain things just don't add up, but you know, at the end of the day that they still lied, like, that's how I feel about like JonBenet's case.
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Like I just feel like, yeah, there's a little bit of weird things that don't add up, but at the end of the day, like the parents still did it.
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Well, the mom probably still did it.
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I just can't get past the ransom note and I cannot get past the outfits not being changed.
15:43
And like, there's just like too many things where like, yes I can.
15:46
And I see how someone would come to the conclusion that maybe an intruder came in, but like the cobwebs and the window and stuff that we talked about last time.
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Like I just, I can't, I can't bring myself to think anything else.
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I just can't Me either.
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So basically if you watch the discovery plus documentary, you will either now be convinced that it was an intruder or you will be like still too much evidence that is against that theory.
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So anyhow, then kale texts me this weekend and she's like, you have to watch, what is it called?
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I, it was, I thought it was like free Brittany.
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I don't know it was on the New York times, like show they had a series and they focus, Oh, it's called framing, Brittany Spears.
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It's called framing, Brittany spirits. It's a New York times series where they do a different episode each week.
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And episode six was on the free Brittany Spears movement.
16:43
Yes. Well, with that being said, I then take a bath, kale texts me when I'm in the bath.
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And I'm like, they didn't make me go down this rabbit hole where I'm like, okay, in my new house, I'm going to put a TV above my bathtub because I spent an enormous amount of time in the bath.
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I could get like an hour show in while I'm also taking a bath and killed two birds with one stone.
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Anyhow, not really important.
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I get out and I turn on this, this documentary.
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And honestly, I don't know this whole time I've gone back and forth on this, like, okay, free Brit free Brittany movement, whatever crazy.
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This is just outlandish, whatever.
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But then there's been times that I'm like, okay, there could be some validity to this.
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And then after watching that documentary, to me, there is enough that draws the conclusion that there, like, I don't know if you would call it like foul play or whatever, But
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yeah. Like abuse, conservatorship Abuse.
17:55
Yes. I believe that that is going on.
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And I just can't get past the fact, if you are an adult that has earning potential, that can go to a job or jobs or, you know, whatever, I don't believe that you should be under that type of conservatorship.
18:21
I agree. I, and if you, if you watch the episode in the beginning, one of the first things, I think it was Felicia, which the whole time watching it was really like, I was ha it was like nostalgia.
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Like I was like, Oh, wow. Like I remember as a child, like seeing pictures in magazines and in the little album, I'm like, remember those album things that they had in the CD case where you could take it out and like open it up.
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And it was like 12 images, like a, like a little booklet magazines with Felicia and Brittany.
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And I always, like, I knew who Felicia was too, because I was heavily in, like, I was invested like Brittany Spears, baby.
18:58
One more time. All of that.
18:59
So when they interviewed her, I think it was her that said one of the first things that Jamie spear said was my daughter is going to be so rich.
19:08
She's going to buy me a boat.
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So that right there was a red flag for me because it was to me right off the bat.
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Her dad was invested in the money in the dollar signs.
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And so that was a huge turnoff and red flag.
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And then later on, like if she, she, it stated in the documentary that she knew, at some point, I want to say it was after her first or her second son was born.
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She knew that she wasn't going to be able to fight the conservatorship.
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She knew that, but she said that she just didn't want her dad to be the one that is the conservator.
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She just, that was the one thing that she asked for.
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I will say, I don't understand to this day, even after watching the episode, I don't understand why her family like her mom, her sister, her brother, why they're not speaking out more on re on her behalf.
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And then I know that Jamie Lynn Spears was getting a lot of shit for, she was the trustee of who, of her, her revokable trust or something like that.
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I also have a rural workable trust, and I have a trustee and things like that.
20:13
I do not pay this person. That's not somebody that I pay.
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It's someone who will have control of, you know, the money for wherever my kids are so that whoever, you know, if something were to happen to me, the person taking care of my kids could go to the trustee and say, Hey, you know, these are the expenses, you know, Isaac or Lincoln or Lux or creed, whatever the case may be.
20:34
You know, this is, these are the expenses.
20:37
Can I have X amount of dollars? And then the trustee would, would give them money.
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Does that make sense? So I think there for people who don't know, like there's like an estate plan and things like that, I don't know why then Jamie Lynn removed herself.
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And I know that she was trying to move money.
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I want to say out of the conservatorship and out of Brittany's control to like move it out of her control.
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I think something along those lines, but like, why are they, why are they not fighting?
21:06
Are speaking against Jamie Spears if they don't agree with it.
21:09
Because at one point in the, in the episode, it was like, Brittany's mom says something about like wanting to have some control over her daughter, you know, giving her some freedom and, and she wants to see her happy and things like that.
21:22
And then you turn around and then they're like holding hands, coming out of the courthouse.
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Like, I don't understand.
21:27
There's a couple of things in the dynamic.
21:29
Okay, go ahead.
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So
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let's
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back
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up
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a
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little
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bit. Okay.
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None
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of
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us,
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anyone
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who's
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listening,
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probably
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I
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would
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say
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unless
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you're
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like
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Kim
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Kardashian,
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but
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definitely
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us
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can
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not
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relate
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to
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the
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level
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of
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fame
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that
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she
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experienced
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as
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she
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experienced
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it. Right. And I think that with that comes a lot of change.
21:59
She came from a small town, she blew up, she was performing in malls and then literally she was selling out concerts and arenas.
22:09
Like that's a lot of change to go through, definitely developmentally, but like from an emotional standpoint, a mental standpoint, and then to be having paparazzi following you and wanting to know your every move.
22:28
That's where I feel like it took a term, this the paparazzi and, and I media, the media really did her so dirty.
22:36
And that I think that they needed to focus more on that.
22:39
Like just the mental health aspect when you're constantly in interviews and seeing yourself in magazines being bashed and everything is negative.
22:46
And then to me, Justin Timberlake completely took advantage of the situation and, and played a part in that.
22:55
I think that that was the turning point.
22:59
The point that I want to make here is that none of us can relate to that level of fame and the mental warfare that she was going through when dealing with it.
23:14
And I think that it's very easy to sit back and say, and judge people that you see online, or, you know, an, a list celebrity or whatever, because I mean, I'm guilty of it.
23:27
I've used the Brittany Spears, umbrella, GIF, or Jif, whatever you want to call it, I've used it.
23:35
And now I feel completely horrible after watching that documentary because it's really predatory behavior.
23:40
And a lot of these things that people are going through, whether it be a custody battle or just general normal life things that are blown up to the max because of who they are.
23:53
And it's spread all over every tabloid that pictures of her were going for millions of dollars.
24:00
There was just so much that I, I could understand why someone, I can completely understand why she went off the, You
24:10
had a breaking point, Oh, I'll all a hundred P like I, and that was something that I was saying to you too, where like, when we were texting about it was, I can't understand.
24:19
We, neither of us can understand that magnitude of fame, but I've, I've experienced it on a very, a fraction of a fraction of her scale.
24:27
And it's like, I've hit my breaking point because of, of the things that have been said about me that are untrue and the things that have been blown about me that are untrue.
24:35
I can only, I can't even imagine what she was going through.
24:38
I mean, her, her custody stuff, you know, her breaking point with wanting to shave her head.
24:43
She doesn't have a good relationship with her dad and he's wanting to take control of her life.
24:46
Like I cannot imagine people using her fame against her, like what bruh, Justin Timberlake did and just all of it.
24:56
And then her dad wants to turn around and have a conservatorship, but then she's able to do four more albums, four more tours she's able to do what was the documentary that MTV released, where she talks about the conservatorship.
25:10
It was behind the scenes or something like Brittany spheres behind the scenes or something.
25:17
Yeah. Well, Oh, also before I forget about this point I wanted to make is that when, when there's a lot of money that is involved and people around you haven't seen it.
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I
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think
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that
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that,
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and,
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and
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people
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would
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have
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an
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agenda
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and
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easily
25:33
be
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able
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to,
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like
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in
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her
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dad's
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case
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easily
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be
25:33
able
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to
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prove
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she
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is
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crazy. She is incompetent.
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She is not capable.
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She is a detriment to herself or to society.
25:58
There
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was
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a
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enough
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agenda,
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financial
25:58
agenda
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behind
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it. And I can't get over the fact of the boat, you know, and then him trying to press this conservatorship to use that as leverage, to control all of her finances, that would be a really sad life kill.
26:19
I think, I think though, on the documentary and correct me if I'm wrong, I think she gets either one or one and a half percent of her earnings.
26:27
And that's like her allowance.
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And I'm sure the, if you heard from the other side, it would be, Oh, she gets one and a half percent of her earnings because anything more would a detriment to herself or whatever.
26:45
Nowhere in that documentary, did it prove that by her having access to more money, that, that caused the problems?
26:54
What it showed to me was that her not having the protection that she should have needed when it came to paparazzi, when it came to the rising fame, that was the issue.
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I think she, She had more, a little bit more guidance.
30:56
I mean, that was the peak of, I feel like paparazzi and like really selling someone's struggles for profit.
31:03
You know what I mean? Like that was really when first.
31:06
Sure. And can you imagine kale, someone like a Joe, Joe seawall or Selena Gomez or whatever, going into an interview like Brittany was interviewed and these male correspondents or Reporters
31:23
about her virginity, Can
31:26
you imagine in today's time if that happened?
31:30
Oh my God, no, I would be I, no, no, not now.
31:34
Not today. No people are advocate advocating for, for, for those things to not happen.
31:41
Now they didn't, Brittany didn't have that.
31:42
And there was an interview where Justin Timberlake got on the radio and they flat out, asked him, did you fuck Britney Spears?
31:50
And he like, doesn't know how to ask.
31:51
And he doesn't defend her and he doesn't, you know what I mean?
31:54
And he went at that time, he was just coming off of, you know, in sync and trying to get his solo career off the ground and took advantage of someone so vulnerable in such a, and I don't think that anyone put two and two together at the time.
32:09
And obviously we didn't either because we all use the Brittany Spears, Jeff, and, you know, literally said I was, I was gonna pull hot polar Britney Spears and shaved my own head off at the worst time of my life.
32:20
You know what I mean? And, and nobody put two and two together.
32:22
It's just so fucking heartbreaking.
32:24
And you know, what's even worse is that, I guess it was last year when I was going on her Instagram, like what the fuck is going on with Brittany?
32:32
Like her Instagram is like, she's just not herself.
32:35
It's like, she's I don't. And I'm, this is an assumption.
32:37
And what is the word?
32:40
Not an assumption, an observation that her Instagram is just like, I don't know if she's medicated, if her mental health has just deteriorated that much.
32:50
But I went on that was last year when I was like, what the fuck is going on?
32:54
And then this year yesterday, I went on her Instagram and she has a video on her feed of kinetic sand.
33:04
Okay. And it's, she has it in a ball and she puts her finger in it.
33:07
And then it like, kind of like falls apart.
33:09
And the caption is I do this about two hours a day.
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I'm
33:12
sad
33:12
for
33:17
her. Like, I'm, I feel horrible.
33:19
I feel like when you're think about the people in, like in a mental health hospital that are just being medicated and they're not actually being helped.
33:29
Do you know what I mean? Remember when we had the episode of Rachel, where she went to Provo Canyon, Canyon school, and she said that they don't even, like, they don't even give her real therapy and help.
33:40
They literally just drugged her. Like they just gave her meds.
33:43
But I think that that is society today, But
33:46
that's not like Brittany is, if she's capable, she's she refused to work until her dad was removed from the conservatorship conservator, which speaks fucking volumes.
33:56
Like she's not asking for much, she's saying that she it's.
33:59
Okay. Well, I'm not saying she said it's okay, but she understood that she couldn't fight it.
34:03
She couldn't go against it. She's willing to work and to continue making money because she's obviously fucking capable.
34:09
But then to see, to know that, and then to hear that she's like basically confined to her own house most of the time.
34:16
And then she's playing with kinetic sand for two hours a day, and then she posts about it.
34:20
Like, there's something wrong there There's
34:23
something very wrong. And I want to join like the, the free Brittany movement, because something is very wrong.
34:31
And I feel like as a, as a woman that we do have a voice and we can speak up that it's it's wrong.
34:40
And there needs to be more awareness around that.
34:46
And the mental health aspect, just in general, people do not understand.
34:50
And we can't understand to like an alias level, how, you know, how she is, but the mental toll that it takes on a human being and why someone who has ever had any form of fame or notoriety or whatever you want to call it probably has signed themselves up for a lifetime of therapy and problems that have come from that.
35:17
I
35:17
think
35:17
that
35:17
that's
35:17
a
35:17
very
35:17
important
35:17
point
35:17
to
35:17
make
35:17
that
35:17
she,
35:17
no
35:17
matter
35:17
if
35:17
her
35:17
conservatorship
35:17
ever
35:17
gets
35:17
turned
35:17
over
35:17
or
35:17
whatever,
35:17
because
35:17
of
35:17
what
35:17
she
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faced
35:17
with
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the
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media
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tabloids
35:17
just
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general
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public,
35:17
the
35:17
people
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in
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the
35:17
business,
35:17
like
35:17
Justin
35:17
Timberlake,
35:17
those
35:17
types
35:17
of
35:17
things
35:17
she
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is
35:17
going
35:17
to
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struggle
35:17
with
35:17
and
35:17
have
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repercussions
35:17
from
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that
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stuff
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for
35:17
the
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rest
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of
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her
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life.
35:53
I, I could not, I still can't wrap my head around watching interviews of her as a young girl and a young woman to now her Instagram, like the videos of her on her Instagram, you know what I mean?
36:07
Like the comparison of who she was and who she is today.
36:11
And I don't blame her one bit.
36:14
Like I don't, none of this was her fault, in my opinion, Like
36:18
her voice completely change.
36:21
Let her face everything about her space, her face, everything that she said, like, even the video that she just posted about the Superbowl, like, she's not the same.
36:30
Like it's, I just, it's so fucking, it's heartbreaking.
36:35
Like, and we don't even know her. Imagine the people that are close to her and do they see it the same way that we do?
36:40
Is it on a greater scale or a lesser scale?
36:43
Or do they think, Oh, that's just Brittany. You know what I mean?
36:45
Where it's like, no, that's not just Brittany.
36:47
That's what the fucking public and everyone around her did to her because nobody knew how to handle what she was going through.
36:54
And To
36:56
that point, though, you said that you don't understand why other people in her family, like isn't speaking up, like her sister, her mom, whatever, this is just a complete speculation.
37:07
My thoughts on that were I'm wondering if her estate or business has some type of like gag order or a non-disclosure to where no one in the family can speak on the issues regarding Brittany publicly.
37:34
Yeah. I mean, that definitely makes sense, but definitely makes sense.
37:36
It just, I guess it, it just sucks from, I
37:42
mean, it sucks from, from Perspective.
37:44
I can imagine it sucks for that, like their heart justice heart.
37:48
Yeah, you're right. It's just, And
37:52
though, from other situations that I think a lot of people that are, I'm trying to figure out how to say this properly without divulging too much.
38:12
I
38:12
think
38:12
that
38:12
when
38:12
you
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are
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media
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followed
38:12
and
38:12
that
38:12
there
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is
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an
38:12
agenda
38:12
to
38:12
be
38:12
pressed
38:12
or
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whatever,
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that
38:12
if
38:12
other
38:12
people
38:12
have
38:12
a
38:12
benefit
38:12
in
38:12
this
38:12
situation,
38:12
they
38:12
might
38:12
be
38:12
less
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likely
38:12
to
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speak
38:12
knowing
38:12
that
38:12
there
38:12
could
38:12
be
38:12
ramifications
38:12
against
38:12
them
38:12
financially
38:12
or
38:43
whatever. So they're going to take the financial benefit versus doing the right thing.
38:50
Does that make sense? Okay. Yes.
38:52
Okay. So in that way, there may or may not be money involved.
38:58
Yes. Cause I know that Jamie Lynn was saying that she hasn't received a dime from her sister and, and I'm not here to decide whether she has her, she hasn't, but that was one thing, you know, she basically said that she, you know, believes in her sister and that nobody has room to talk about it and you know, you're right.
39:17
She, she may very well just not be able to, and, you know, it's, it sucks, but I mean, maybe it's in the best interest.
39:23
I don't know. It's just, it's so heartbreaking to see from just a fan's perspective.
39:28
And I, I, I hope that people aren't like in her family saying, you know, all that's just Brittany or, you know, I'm just going off of the interviews.
39:37
I've seen of her as a young woman and a young girl versus Instagram posts now are I can't like, I it's so sad and it feels like a mystery.
39:49
Like it's like an eerie, weird mystery.
39:52
And it's fucking heartbreaking.
39:55
I also just wonder, this is, this is truly just like a question.
39:59
I
39:59
wonder
39:59
if
39:59
a
39:59
little
39:59
bit
39:59
of
39:59
North
39:59
and
39:59
South
39:59
comes
39:59
into
39:59
play
39:59
in
39:59
this
39:59
situation
39:59
because
39:59
dads
39:59
to
39:59
me
39:59
and
39:59
the
39:59
South
39:59
are
39:59
very
39:59
controlling
39:59
in
40:14
general. Like the, and especially with her Of
40:20
a man, like taking care of the family and having the final say and things like that, is that what you mean?
40:27
Yeah. And especially when it comes to their daughters and stuff.
40:30
And so I just wonder if part of the upbringing of where they're from, would it, you know, being from the South has anything to do to do with it.
40:44
Like maybe her dad is like a very controlling Southern man.
40:47
And like, I do think that men in the South, and this could just be a complete stereotype that I'm saying, but I do, I tend to find men or dads and the South being a lot crazier than people or dads from the North.
41:09
I
41:09
don't
41:12
know. You brought up the point that if that was a situation with your kids or whatever, that you would hope that one of your boys or your boys would be able to speak out, like if they wanted to.
41:23
And yes, I agree with you, but also you're not like a controlling narcissistic asshole.
41:35
Oh, I'm not.
41:36
Cause there's rumors that I am so, okay.
41:40
I'm glad that the rumors are that, But
41:45
just from knowing you personally, that couldn't be further from, from the truth.
41:51
So I think that you can make that you have that perspective because you aren't that, does that make sense?
41:58
Yeah. Yeah, for sure. I just think the whole thing is so sad and I, I, I hope that everyone that's close to Brittany is really doing everything they can.
42:06
Cause I can't imagine, you know, feeling, I, I just, I cannot, I don't even want to say too much cause I don't want to say the wrong thing.
42:13
You know what I mean? Like I don't want to say something that is going to make it more like, are we contributing to the struggle, the struggles that she's facing right now by talking about it, like, I don't even want to do more D you know what I mean?
42:27
So I just, I want to be careful with the things that I say in the way that I word things.
42:30
Cause I don't want to say anything that could potentially cause her more harm.
42:35
Not that she cares about this fucking podcast.
42:39
You're definitely not listening to this, but I'm just saying like, I
42:43
feel horrible first, But please Brittany do listen to us also.
42:48
Yeah. Moving on from this though.
42:51
I have to tell you something that is so freaking funny.
42:54
The pictures that I got in my DMS from last week of people, would their kids with their clothes looking insane coming from like a custody exchange or whatever it's called.
43:10
Like what do y'all call that?
43:11
Not a custody exchange or is that like, yeah.
43:15
Yeah. Oh, okay. So like that or kids coming back from their grandparents, it's like the blue jeans are ripped.
43:21
There's like mud everywhere.
43:22
They might be wearing two different shoes.
43:25
Like the pictures that I got were so fricking funny.
43:29
That's so funny. I love that.
43:31
I definitely, I think I want them to look nice.
43:35
We talked about this. I wanted them to look nice, but I it's so funny if you've, if you've ever been on Tik TOK and you see the videos, it's like how my mother-in-law dresses, my kid and how I dress her or how my husband or my ex dress is my kid and how I dress him.
43:50
It's like literally two different words.
43:54
That's so it's so funny to me because I can't relate in the fact of like a custody exchange or anything like that.
44:02
However, when I get pictures, like for example, if we're traveling for the podcast or something and we're together and I get a picture of Jackson and what he's wearing, I'm like, where did those clothes even come from?
44:13
Like, I've never seen them.
44:15
Like, we're going to we'll find them Like
44:17
having him, you know, taking them out to lunch in the ugliest outfit.
44:21
Yes. And it drives me nuts, but I'm just like, okay, that's just a battle that I'm not going to fight because he's taking care of him.
44:28
He's fed.
44:29
He might not be like Wayne Jackson.
44:32
Think about it. Does he like the outfit? Does he not care?
44:35
Like does he, Oh
44:37
gosh. So the other day I went to Lake Jackson's clothes out for school and I went into his bathroom and there was like this weird outfit in there.
44:46
And I was just like, what is going on?
44:48
Like hoop Here.
44:50
And it was just like Jeans
44:52
that I had never seen before. And Jackson doesn't really like jeans.
44:56
And I don't know if anyone else's kids are like, this Hates
45:00
them. Isaac, Isaac and Lincoln bolt hate jeans.
45:03
Okay. So they only want to wear joggers all the time.
45:06
I'm assuming? Yes. All the time. Yes. All the time.
45:08
Same. So there are blue jeans in there and I'm like, first of all, where did these even come from?
45:16
And Will's like notorious for going to Goodwill and like buying stuff and not telling me not like clothes for Jackson or anything like that.
45:25
But he might, like, I might find a little like knickknack and the garage or something.
45:30
And it's because Wilson to Goodwill's in my mind, I'm thinking, why made me do that?
45:35
No.
45:38
What kind of knickknacks is he getting from Goodwill and why are they in the garage There
45:43
in the garage? Because he knows that I'm going to be like, why are you bringing junk into the house?
45:47
Like I take things to Goodwill and he brings things home from Goodwill.
45:50
Well,
45:50
I
45:50
don't
45:50
want
45:50
to
45:50
know
45:50
what
45:50
he's
45:50
buying
45:55
Like golf clubs.
45:57
Okay. I've got a funny story about that actually. But anyway, the blue jeans were laying in there and then there was like this shirt that was too small.
46:03
It was like an under Armour shirt that was like a dry fit shirt.
46:07
And it had like American flag or something on the front, definitely something that you would wear like in the summertime.
46:12
First of all, it was short sleeves and it was just like, okay, a dry fit under Armour shirt really doesn't go with these blue jeans.
46:20
Like it's a two totally different looks trying to be put together.
46:23
So either Jackson did this, which I don't believe because he doesn't like blue jeans or have no idea why we'll do this.
46:31
So
46:31
I
46:31
went
46:34
Like put the stuff back on his dresser and got out an actual outfit and put it in his bathroom.
46:38
And Jackson thinks it's so funny whenever I like start going in on will about his lack of fashion.
46:47
Wait, Jackson laughs about it. Oh, Like
46:50
hysterically, because I'll be like, you have no fashion sense.
46:53
Like, I don't know who told you that this goes together.
46:56
Like this looks terrible.
46:57
Where did these things even come from?
46:59
Blah, blah, blah. So anyway, basically we'll dress as Jackson, like a jackass and Not
47:08
here for it. Oh, that's funny.
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Tell you the story though, about Goodwill. So will told me that he went to Goodwill like a couple of weeks ago and that he found this golf club and he was like, Oh, like, I can repurpose this and like, make it nice.
49:17
And whatever Golf
49:20
club, like for golfing or for something.
49:23
Yeah. Unsure to be honest, like he said, the golf now, like not really like, so what The
49:29
fuck are you repurposing a golf club with?
49:31
I don't know. I think it's truly to see if he can do it, like to see if he can like re grip it, like, like He
49:39
wanted to do a project. Okay.
49:42
Okay. But this gets good. So then I like go in my basement and I find fingernail Polish down there that like doesn't belong to me.
49:52
So I'm like, who's is this and like, I didn't want to start asking questions because you know, sometimes when you start asking questions, you get answers that you don't want.
50:03
So sometimes it's just like best not to go there.
50:06
Yeah. But it was like a white fingernail Polish, a red fingernail, Polish, and a blue fingernail Polish.
50:11
And I was like, okay, clearly it looks like somebody who was painting their nails for the 4th of July, but definitely not.
50:18
And these were ones that looked like they were maybe like dollar store brand or something.
50:23
So it was like, okay, this definitely looks like something will Bob, but why would he be buying Polish?
50:27
Like I have so many questions.
50:29
So then he goes to Goodwill and he bought this golf club and then he bought some kind of like, like re grip stuff so that he could like regroup it.
50:39
Well then apparently he got into an altercation with like some workers at Goodwill.
50:47
Okay. Supposedly We'll
50:50
knows like when they put stuff out and when they don't and why.
50:56
Okay. And so he said, I know that they just like got a whole thing of golf clubs, but they just put like one out and whenever it gets gone, they'll go and put the other one out until like, so they always have a golf club or something.
51:10
And I'm like, well, that's just like a weird theory, but like whatever.
51:12
So will says he gets in trouble because he walked in the back of Goodwill.
51:17
Can you imagine this?
51:20
It's like six foot, four guy walking back to the stock room of Goodwill.
51:25
Oh
51:25
my
51:27
God. And I'm like, what? In the actual house Hell
51:29
is like going on.
51:30
So he says that the people like start yelling at him and stuff saying that he can't be back there.
51:35
And he was like, well, I know that there's like the other golf clubs back here or whatever.
51:39
So I want to be able to get them.
51:41
And the guy was like, well, we put stuff out whenever we get it.
51:44
And we'll was like, no, like you definitely didn't, there's more golf clubs back here.
51:49
And I want to get them. And we'll was like, I'm pretty sure they just wanted to keep them for themselves.
51:55
Like they probably the people who work at Goodwill probably see the good stuff come in and they just keep it and like, they don't put it out.
52:01
And I'm like, first of all, the fact that you're arguing with people who work at Goodwill and like the stock people at Goodwill, I'm pretty sure they don't have any investment.
52:10
And like what's coming in there. First of all, secondly, again, same question that you have.
52:16
Why is, will buying golf clubs?
52:17
Third, the fingernail Polish was for when he was like redoing these golf clubs on the like part where you hit it'll have like a brand or whatever, and they have like a color on there.
52:32
And so he was painting.
52:39
Can you imagine this?
52:41
No. Y w there's other paint to use?
52:45
Why was he using nail Polish dollar store?
52:48
Now, first of all, I have so many questions that I really want to get him on the podcast.
52:54
Like I want to know how he got invested in Goodwill.
52:57
I want to know how often he goes.
52:59
I want to know what kinds of things he buys or where he looks for.
53:03
I
53:03
just,
53:03
I
53:03
have
53:03
a
53:03
lot
53:03
of
53:07
questions. He says that they have like a lot of stuff, a lot of like really good stuff.
53:12
Oh, I know plenty of people that get like really, really good stuff at Goodwill.
53:15
Like, I'm, I don't doubt it, but like what, what does we'll look for?
53:21
But I'm not that type of shopper, you know what I mean? Like I couldn't go into Goodwill and like, Oh yeah, I can make that into a gym.
53:28
Well, right. Like, we're just like, not those types of like, I, I'm not, I'm not creative in that way.
53:32
Like, I, I went through a phase where I was wanting to like go to what Goodwill and like repurpose furniture.
53:37
And then I realized I was horrible at it and I just didn't stay better.
53:43
We all been through that phase. I wonder how many people who are listening to this have also been through that phase and then realize like, okay, this is just not for me.
53:50
Like totally not for me.
53:51
I hope, I hope I'm not the only one.
53:54
Well, I know for a fact, you're not because I also was that person.
53:58
I was thinking I was going to be a repurposer that I was going to, you know, like make all these gyms and I did nothing, but fuck everything up.
54:05
So that's what happened there.
54:10
I always, Oh, and then like, occasionally I'll see, will wearing like something that I've never seen before.
54:18
And I'm like, that's interesting.
54:20
Like where did you get that?
54:24
And he literally like sneaks It
54:26
in the laundry somehow. And I don't know, and it gets washed and it came from Goodwill And
54:31
I'm like, He
54:34
goes all the time, kill. I swear to you, like, this is like in his free time.
54:37
And he has it.
54:45
I'm just like, Literally I could probably be going to the gym, no lie.
54:49
And this man would be like, I could pass by Goodwill and probably find his truck there at any given time.
54:56
So does he take Jackson ever on the absolutely actually Jackson, the biggest accident that Jackson's ever had?
55:03
He bust his chin open at Goodwill because will, was letting him play with like ride on toys at Goodwill.
55:11
And I'm like Goodwill people that like work there regularly when they see you guys coming, they probably are like, Oh fuck.
55:19
Oh,
55:19
I
55:21
bet. Can you imagine like, will it is not, it is not rare for him to want to wake up early on a Saturday morning, take Jackson to Bojangles and get breakfast.
55:33
And then the Jangles, what does that, do you guys have that?
55:37
No, I don't like it, but it's kind of like, do y'all have Popeye's chicken Popeye's okay.
55:44
So Bojangles is kind of like Louie Louisiana style.
55:47
I think it is, but they have breakfast biscuits and like stuff like that and fried chicken.
55:54
And so they go there. Sometimes Jackson actually hates it, but will loves it.
55:59
So they'll sometimes do that like really early on a Saturday morning and then just like go and sit in the Goodwill parking lot until freaking Goodwill opens shut up.
56:07
I'm not making it up. And I'm just like, Oh my God, like, Can
56:11
you give Jackson like a GoPro or something to document one of their trips to Goodwill?
56:17
Oh yeah. He would actually, I need to see this.
56:21
Like I, I just need to see like what they, what catches their eye, like what they're interested in, how many things, like, I just have so many questions.
56:29
Like I I'm so interested How
56:33
many people that are listening to this are like all time thrifter hours.
56:37
Cause I think that that is I
56:39
envy people who are me to fucking thrift or is that fine?
56:42
Good shit like that go.
56:44
I don't know that I, I'm not a person that can like look through things.
56:48
Like I just don't like to do. I don't even like to go shopping in a regular store.
56:51
That's organized.
56:51
And like w w all of those things, like, I just don't want to go shopping.
56:56
I'm not a shopper. Like, if I was good at it, I would do it.
57:00
Yeah. I've just, but I'm not like I'm not going to look through things and like, do all of that, but I've seen people get some really good stuff at Goodwill.
57:09
Like what, like what kind of things probably better than golf clubs.
57:12
I'm sure. So I actually saw, I watched, I follow this girl on Tik TOK and she's planning her wedding and she found she's buying all of her girls, bridesmaids, dresses, but she found, and she tries all of them on.
57:27
And like, she has like a holistic that she's going with.
57:30
And she like updates everyone. And she found one of her dresses for $4 at Goodwill.
57:34
And it's actually really, really pretty. I'll send you the video.
57:36
Oh my God. I need video evidence of this.
57:39
And I need everyone to write into us and tell us, like, if you're an ultimate thrifter, if your husband is like an avid Goodwill shopper, and then I'll determine if I'm just married to a psycho or like a normal person moving on, moving on from that.
57:59
Okay. Since we are so into like American crimes and whatever, I did see this crazy thing.
58:07
And I just have to get all of y'all's perspective on this, because I feel a type of way about it.
58:13
So I don't know if you saw that Casey Anthony was going to be doing a documentary about her daughter's death.
58:23
Yes. And it said that she will be an executive producer and they're calling it like an authorized documentary and it will cause an authorized documentary unsure.
58:35
But
58:35
it
58:35
basically
58:35
said
58:35
that
58:35
she
58:35
will
58:35
offer
58:35
her
58:35
viewpoint
58:35
of
58:35
the
58:35
gruesome
58:35
death
58:35
of
58:35
her
58:35
two
58:35
year
58:35
old
58:45
Caylee. And the co-executive producer was saying that she's finally ready to like clear her name, bring justice and shed like a different light.
58:59
And that producer other producers on the show are quoted saying that many of the revelations will be shocking.
59:08
So a couple of things on this, if she is an executive producer of this there's financial benefit for her to do this.
59:18
Correct. And so I have a really hard on people like who I would say that I feel have committed crimes that are so gruesome, like this to pad their pockets benefit.
59:38
Yes. By watching it. But also it's something that I want to cover.
59:40
So like how, Oh, a hundred percent.
59:42
I don't know. And that's so hard.
59:44
Cause I totally hear you. It's like OJ Simpson's book.
59:47
If I had done it, this is what I would have done kind of thing.
59:49
We all know, Oh, Jay fucking did it.
59:52
There's no other fucking explanation. But yet here we are reading his goddamn book and supporting him and filling his pockets.
59:57
I, I hear you must acquit.
1:00:02
Yeah. No, but it, it, he, he did it and I don't, you can't convince me otherwise.
1:00:07
So I, the same thing, like I'm highly invested and I need to watch, I need to watch this documentary, but also don't want to give her, I
1:00:20
just feel like it's one of those things that if you watch it, you're silently supporting it.
1:00:29
Yeah. Right. Like, but also I want to watch it because I followed the case so heavily.
1:00:36
Yeah. Same. That it would be not natural for me not to watch it.
1:00:41
Even though my standpoint is I don't want her to financially benefit from any of this.
1:00:45
And I find it to be sickening.
1:00:48
I would really like to know how much she's making to do this documentary.
1:00:51
Because I feel if you want to clear your name and you really didn't do it and you, you know, there's so, so many shocking revelations, then you should be willing to do it without being, finding, having financial gain.
1:01:05
I agree. I definitely agree. Or there's just between her OJ Simpson and Patsy Ramsey.
1:01:14
Like they all, I don't know.
1:01:17
I can't, but you're right. I mean, it wouldn't, I I'm going to watch it and that's, it sucks.
1:01:22
It sucks when you're like between a rock and a hard place.
1:01:24
Like you want to know what she's going to say to potentially clear her name, but at the end, I don't think that anything, she says, whatever revelations, you know, they think are going to sway us.
1:01:35
There's no way that I would, I'm going to be swayed.
1:01:39
There's also no way that I'm going to be swayed, but also I'm going to watch it.
1:01:44
I just want to know, Was
1:01:46
the air and was it on Netflix or what is it on?
1:01:49
So if it's, if they've released an air date or anything like that, I can do some more research.
1:01:55
Yeah. I did read something about it. And I want to say maybe it was on like an advertisement somewhere.
1:02:00
I don't remember where I saw it or when I saw it was recently, but I did see that.
1:02:04
And I was like, what the hell? Like what the, I didn't know that she was going to be an executive producer.
1:02:08
I thought she was going to be interviewed. I mean, how does this woman live?
1:02:11
Where does she live? How is she living?
1:02:13
Did she change her name? Like, I mean, I know that people tried to kill her after she was acquitted or whatever, but like, how do you live after that?
1:02:23
Like where do you, how do you live a normal life?
1:02:26
That's why I'm so interested in just seeing what she has.
1:02:29
Not that I really care what she has to say.
1:02:31
I just want to hear what she has to say, because I think it's something I say it's like important to my life.
1:02:37
I have watched so much of everything of that story, like unfold and just followed it so heavily that it would be really weird for me not to watch it.
1:02:47
So I just want to know like how other people feel about that, you know, is it, is it silently supporting, is it being informed?
1:02:56
Like, is it, what, what do you consider it?
1:03:00
Because I'm a little bit conflicted on it.
1:03:02
But then in other news, probably the last thing that we have time for today is a question for you.
1:03:09
Kale, someone wrote in and said, I'm curious how each of you feel about gender selection.
1:03:15
I have two daughters and would love to have a son, but I'm wondering what you feel about it morally, financially and ethically.
1:03:21
I've gotten a lot of pushback from my family when spoken about it, but there is no guarantee as we all know that even three or four more children would give me a boy as much as I love my girls.
1:03:30
I'm not sure I can be six kids, deep waiting for a little guy to join our family.
1:03:35
I would love your feedback and thoughts.
1:03:37
Thanks so much. I don't have many friends working multiple jobs and as a mom with very young kids and love that, I feel that I have girlfriends listening to your podcast.
1:03:46
So I
1:03:49
have a lot to say about this. And it's crazy that someone asked that after I told you what I'm doing, Lindsay.
1:03:54
So as everyone that listens to this knows I have four boys.
1:04:01
I made an appointment for March 9th where I'm going, that's my initial appointment to go through the process, to have my eggs frozen.
1:04:11
And that being said, when if, if, and when the time comes, you know, if I want to get married later on or have another child later on, you know, that would be the way that I want to do it.
1:04:28
Just because I don't know what type of health I'll be in at that point, or if I'll be able to conceive naturally, because I've had trouble in the past.
1:04:34
And you know, some things with my heavy periods have led me to go in this direction.
1:04:40
And
1:04:40
I
1:04:40
was
1:04:40
informed
1:04:40
by
1:04:44
Lindsay. And just knowing that I would be able to essentially pick the genders based on the healthiest embryos.
1:04:49
I, why wouldn't I do gender selection?
1:04:52
You know what I mean? Like why wouldn't, I, I don't care what people would have to say about it.
1:04:58
I don't care if they fail to me. I don't think there's ethically anything wrong with it.
1:05:02
I don't think there's anything morally wrong with it.
1:05:03
I think that the people that are feeling like it's, you know, not what God chose or whatever.
1:05:10
I mean, I'm sure there are a ton of things in the, in their lives that God didn't wouldn't have chosen for them.
1:05:15
But they, you sin differently than you.
1:05:18
I just, I feel like you should not consider anyone else's opinion on this.
1:05:21
This is something that is up to you and only you and your doctor.
1:05:24
And I personally don't see anything wrong with it.
1:05:28
I don't see anything ethically wrong with it.
1:05:29
I don't.
1:05:30
How
1:05:30
do
1:05:30
you
1:05:30
feel
1:05:32
Lindsay? Like, I don't know what more I can say if, you know, if, if they, if they come back to me, you know, in five years, 10 years, if I wanna have another child and they tell me, Oh, you have two healthy girl embryos and two healthy boys.
1:05:46
Which ones do you think I'm going to pick?
1:05:48
Well, right, because I'm gonna pick the girl ones.
1:05:52
And my point to you, I didn't know if you were going to share that information.
1:05:56
So I didn't want to like say anything, but when you crave so much to have a girl, it would be when you're already going through that whole process already it's to me, I see why people say that ethically, you shouldn't do gender selection because of your religious beliefs, whatever.
1:06:21
However, I have some people that are very close to me who have gone through IVF and who did do gender selection.
1:06:31
And I don't think any differently of them.
1:06:35
And quite honestly, you're going through a science process anyway.
1:06:39
It's not a natural process.
1:06:40
And so for that reason alone, I think that just negates the whole argument of if it's wrong or right.
1:06:49
I think that The
1:06:51
alternative you're going to keep trying to have kids until you have a girl.
1:06:54
And then you have three kids that you essentially, I'm not saying that you didn't want them or that they don't, you don't love them.
1:06:59
But that would be like me.
1:07:01
You know, I want to have a girl so bad that I'm willing to have six kids to get to the seventh child.
1:07:07
That's finally a girl. I mean, what's the alternative to me.
1:07:10
I feel like, why not just go through the process to pick the girl?
1:07:16
And then I don't bring three Other
1:07:18
children into this world by drying.
1:07:23
Right? So to me, which one is more, do you know what I'm saying?
1:07:26
Like we live in a generation where it's, it's scientifically possible to go through a process, to have a baby that you didn't quote unquote, naturally conceive.
1:07:35
So if you have that also ability to choose the gender, why I just don't see why you wouldn't.
1:07:41
So I feel like at the end of the day, you're the one feeding your kids, not your, mother-in-law not your mother-in-law's cousins, brothers, sisters, boyfriend.
1:07:48
Like none of these people are feeding your kids and you're taking care of them.
1:07:53
You're living with them. You have to raise them.
1:07:54
And while they are a part of that, they're not the ones that are there day in and day out.
1:07:59
So do what you want and what makes you happy.
1:08:01
That's how I feel. I mean, at the end of the day, we're all going, we're all your mother-in-law or whoever your mom, your sister, they're all going to do what they want to do with their families.
1:08:10
And, you know, maybe stop offering your opinion on their life and maybe they'll do they'll suit and stop offering opinion on yours.
1:08:16
I don't know. I won or maybe just don't fucking tell them how about that.
1:08:20
Yeah, I was. And I don't, I'm not saying it to be, I'm not saying it in a bitchy way.
1:08:24
It's like, okay, if you want to have negative opinions about every single thing I'm doing, I just, I'm not telling you anything anymore.
1:08:31
I think that's like the motto for 2021 is just like, don't tell anybody anything and just do what makes you feel happy and complete and whatever, because to be perfectly honest, I don't really feel like any man, any other woman, any, whatever should have any control of what a woman does with her body and what dishes, what decisions that she makes.
1:08:59
And I think that, like I said, you're already going through a scientific process anyway, and that's just a perk of it.
1:09:07
And so, you know, with that being said, you know, then you run into the, okay, well obviously somebody is choosing, right?
1:09:17
Because if you're going through the IVF process anyway, a doctor's not going to choose to implant an unhealthy embryo.
1:09:24
So there's already a selection process and there to begin with.
1:09:30
So to me, it's not that big of a deal.
1:09:32
And I just think, I think it's so insane that we have access to science and that way that, that can be chosen.
1:09:44
Yeah. Like it didn't say Such
1:09:46
a good point. You're already going through the scientific process.
1:09:49
Like, I don't know, pick one friend that you're, you're able to, you're able to trust and, and doesn't judge you and you feel safe with and let you know, because you always need that one person that you can talk to about certain things, pick that one person you trust or right into our podcast so we can discuss it for you.
1:10:06
And then just don't tell the other people the rest.
1:10:08
Cause that's your, that's your choice.
1:10:10
I'm your prerogative. And I support, I
1:10:13
also support. So anyhow, well, what are you doing for the rest of the day?
1:10:16
Anything fun.
1:10:19
I'm filming a scene and then I'm gonna take my dog to the vet at three o'clock.
1:10:25
So that's fun. I feel like nothing's wrong with him?
1:10:27
Just to check Always at the vet at the doctor, at the barbershop, at the dentist, the dentist don't rheumatologists.
1:10:37
Like does it ever end?
1:10:40
No, never, never, never.
1:10:43
Oh. Oh. I also just wanted to say that I don't have Frank pants in my bushes anymore and my house is complete and it feels so good.
1:10:55
Yes. Oh my God. It feels so good.
1:10:57
I spent the whole day cleaning yesterday and just like getting all of my stuff in order I put together gift bags for something that we have coming up for coffee combos and just like, yes, it felt so good to just like have my stuff in a place.
1:11:11
But anyway.
1:11:14
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1:11:16
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Hey, guys. Welcome to another episode
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of Comcast podcast. Good
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morning. Good morning. I have
0:15
I'm I know it sounds like I may or
0:17
may not be on crack, but I'm actually
0:19
just on coffee. Yeah. And
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I'm not really excited about the coffee
0:24
conversation we're about have because I
0:27
got Wawa Coffee, which I haven't had in forever,
0:30
and my lid wouldn't stay on. So I kept, like,
0:32
almost Will's it the entire
0:35
time. I was drinking it. That
0:37
is really unfortunate. You know, I hate does my voice sound like a boy right You know, I hate Does
0:40
my voice sound like a boy right now? No.
0:43
But it sounds a little, like, Are
0:45
you sick? Do you have Rona? No.
0:47
Stop spreading rumors. No.
0:53
I didn't anything to drink this morning until,
0:55
like, a few minutes ago. And so
0:57
maybe my throat just
1:00
dries and sounding a little boyish. But
1:03
Right. -- anyhow, back to the coffee, it's
1:05
very unfortunate when situations
1:08
like that happen. You know, like, when things just go
1:10
wrong? Yeah. Yeah. One hundred
1:12
percent. Like, we know what else went wrong this morning.
1:15
I had bought Buddha a new bed.
1:17
He's the the I was gonna call him McQueen, but
1:19
he's the king of he
1:22
rips up his bed. It's like I can't keep a
1:24
bed for him for some reason. And
1:26
I bought them a new one, and it came yesterday,
1:29
literally took it out of the package at probably,
1:31
like, five o'clock last night. And this
1:34
morning, I came downstairs and it was completely
1:37
ripped to shreds. So that was a nice little
1:39
thing. Oh
1:42
my god. I can't imagine honestly,
1:44
can we talk about that for a second? Because what
1:46
is it like having dogs that
1:48
are as big as humans? Because I
1:51
can't late and can't imagine. Well,
1:54
I love it sometimes because he
1:56
just feels like he's a person. Like he's
1:59
I just love them so much. And
2:01
then, well, Carma, she's
2:04
a bitch. Like, she's a huge bitch.
2:07
So she's Lindsie's She's
2:09
great, but she's she doesn't like men.
2:11
And so she's just like me and dog warm.
2:14
But they're just shut it up
2:17
because they're so like, I just feel like they're
2:20
very cuddly and, like, loving.
2:23
And then Gizmos just he's little.
2:26
And he's like, Bella, and he's
2:29
well, I'm lying. He's really cuddly too. Is Bella
2:32
cuddly? Like, will she cuddle you guys? No,
2:34
honey. No. No? Said
2:37
no, honey. She
2:39
doesn't cuddle. She is, like,
2:41
a perchy cat Like, yeah.
2:43
She gets on the top of the furniture, and
2:46
she lays there, and she doesn't wanna be bothered, she
2:48
doesn't wanna be touched, And she does
2:50
this weird thing. I actually wanted to ask all the pet parents on here, if their animals do this, I feel like cats probably I actually wanted to
2:52
ask all the pet parents on here if
2:55
their animals do this. I feel like cats probably
2:57
do. But when you like,
2:59
talk to Bella in a sweet voice, she
3:03
starts stretching her body
3:05
out, like, so that she can get a like,
3:07
more attention and then she stretches like
3:09
her back legs out. I'll take a video of this,
3:11
but like every single time.
3:13
So it's got to be something
3:16
that she does. Like, when she's getting affection, she
3:19
like she like she stretches. Yeah.
3:22
That's so interesting. I need to see a video this.
3:24
I love when she smiles. That's my favorite thing.
3:26
And I just I need you to frame
3:28
a picture of her smiling because that is
3:30
amazing. She she's the
3:32
funny biggest. But, yeah, I couldn't imagine
3:36
cuddling with a
3:38
dog. It's as big as horse. Yeah.
3:40
Oh, it's like cuddling a person. That's why I love it
3:42
so much. I love that
3:45
you love that. And I love all of the people on here that have big And I love all of the people on
3:47
here that have big dogs. I
3:50
got bit by a big dog whenever it
3:52
was -- No. -- really, I guess, like,
3:54
border collie. That's
3:57
not a big dog. Well, it felt like
3:59
it was big to me, but we're talking about
4:02
I was in fourth grade, I think.
4:04
So -- Yeah. -- it probably was, like, even
4:06
fourth grade. Big then. Mhmm.
4:09
But, yeah, I got bit by a border
4:11
collie and it, like, dragged me and
4:13
ripped my blue jeans. And I was
4:16
so upset about it. Not only was I,
4:18
like, afraid, but I was upset to go
4:20
home. Like, I would be in
4:22
trouble because my pants were ripped
4:24
and, like, I was bleeding everywhere.
4:26
And obviously, that's completely irrational.
4:29
Like, why would I be in trouble for that? But
4:31
I just remember, like, feeling like that.
4:34
And I just wonder if big dogs
4:36
aren't a thing for me because of that.
4:38
Right. Right. Right. Yeah. I could see that. I
4:41
could totally see that. Have you ever been attacked
4:43
by an animal? No. I was gonna say I
4:45
mean, my mom had a cat when I was
4:47
a kid and his name was sergeant Pepper and
4:49
he was
4:51
an indoor cat and I used to drag
4:54
a blanket behind
4:57
me when I would get up in the middle of the night to go to the bathroom.
4:59
Because in the middle of the night, if he saw me
5:01
walking. He'd, like, attack
5:03
me. But, like, he wasn't doing it
5:05
because he was he
5:07
wasn't doing it to be a dick. He was doing
5:09
it because he's cat, you know? Like,
5:12
yes. But I would just I learned to drag
5:14
the the the either a
5:16
towel or a blanket behind me to go to the bathroom.
5:18
But other than that, no, I've never actually been
5:20
attacked by an animal. So I I can't relate,
5:23
and that's I could see how fucking scary and terrifying
5:25
that would be. So terrifying. And then
5:27
when dogs, like, come up to me, Will's
5:30
like, at the park, and they'll try to come up in
5:32
Jackson loves any dogs. And
5:34
I don't know at what age did
5:36
you start teaching your boys, like, not to
5:38
approach other people's dogs? Because I feel like for
5:40
Jackson, he started doing he started trying
5:42
to do it like, maybe
5:44
two years ago and we had to have that conversation.
5:48
And that, you know, it was, like, the
5:50
era of Why? Well,
5:52
why don't I approach the dog? And why? And
5:54
so far, I haven't had to explain
5:56
that to my kids only because they they're not
5:59
dog people. They aren't? No.
6:01
Like, they're not like, Lincoln
6:04
actually jut like, Hobby texted me the other
6:06
day, and Lincoln was balling his out about
6:08
bear, but he was, you know, bear
6:10
was there when he was born. Other than,
6:12
like, bear, they're just
6:14
not interested in doll. Dogs like at None
6:16
of them. Wow. That's so interesting.
6:20
Yeah. It's they don't, they don't they don't they don't
6:22
care. And they have dogs at all like Hadi
6:24
has a dog Joe
6:26
and V have two dogs. Luxe's
6:29
dad's family has dogs, like but
6:32
Luxe is, like, the most interested at all
6:34
of them, but definitely still just
6:36
not. Like, if we didn't have any, they
6:38
wouldn't care. And Lux might be
6:40
his age too, like, just curious and
6:43
wanting to be into everything at this moment
6:45
in time. So -- Right. Right. You know, could
6:47
be a little bit of that too. Yeah. We had
6:49
to have the conversation about approaching other
6:51
people's dogs. And when dogs
6:53
come up to me at parks or whatever,
6:55
I always, like, jump back
6:58
because I'm, you know, like, afraid.
7:00
And I don't think it's like a natural reaction
7:03
to that. Right. Yeah. And then I always
7:05
feel bad because I'm like, don't want people
7:07
to think that I think their dogs mean or
7:09
whatever, but literally anytime I
7:12
see border collie, forget it, like
7:14
freaking forget it. Not a
7:16
thing. Cats are not a thing for
7:18
me. Jackson loves all animals. He loves
7:21
He loves cats. He loves dogs. We would
7:23
have a zoo at this house. He
7:27
just loves it. Like he wants a big he wants a big dog. He's
7:29
like, mom, I want a dog where I can ride on its back
7:31
and, like, like, that's a
7:33
horse, honey. Like, that's not that's
7:35
not a dog and and it's not happening at our house.
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Anyhow. So what else is going on in your so what else is going
10:23
on in your life? Okay. There's
10:26
well, a lot, but also there's just
10:28
so many other things that I wanna talk
10:30
about that have been going on, like, pop
10:32
culture and, like, current events, like,
10:35
the free Britney stuff, the Robinhood app
10:37
situation, and then I read yesterday
10:40
that P didi was suing Sean
10:42
John, which I thought that P didi's name was
10:44
Sean John, and I thought that he owned it.
10:46
Me too. Weird when I read that. And
10:49
then I don't know what else
10:51
that we were gonna talk about. I know that you were trying
10:53
to watch the the other jominee
10:56
Ramsey thing. Was there another documentary
10:58
that you were gonna watch? Yeah. So I didn't wanna spend
11:00
a whole bunch of time on the jominee Ramsey thing,
11:02
just because we covered it. So in-depth a
11:04
lot of times -- Yeah. -- episode in million
11:06
times because we're just so invested. But
11:09
I did watch I actually Googled her the
11:12
house last night? Like, I couldn't stop.
11:14
You did? Yeah. I went up for
11:16
sale in two thousand eight, two thousand nine, and
11:18
two thousand fourteen. There is someone living
11:20
there. And it's like
11:22
completely remodeled. But, yeah, I was
11:24
looking at I was looking at the floor plan. I I wanted
11:27
to tour it. I thought maybe it was like a thing, but someone lives I thought maybe was like a
11:29
thing, but someone lives there. Will's,
11:32
people send us messages of
11:35
where you can do, like, an online
11:38
tour of the house. So maybe
11:41
I can send you the link and see if it works.
11:43
Like, I didn't look or anything because it's just
11:46
not something I wouldn't look, but
11:48
that would probably freak me out. But anyhow
11:51
yeah. So did Discovery
11:54
Plus did a documentary on
11:56
John Benéramzi too. And
11:58
over the weekend, I told Will, I was like,
12:00
hey, can you put on Discovery Plus for me? So
12:02
I can watch the John Benéramzi thing. And he was like, I swear to you if I hear about this case one more and
12:04
he was like, I swear to you if I hear
12:07
about this case one more
12:09
time. And I'm like,
12:11
oh, wow. Will you go back to your office? Because
12:14
if so, But I'm gonna keep
12:16
talking. Keep talking about no. I'm just kidding. But
12:19
no. He was like, I swear, I can't listen
12:21
to this anymore. I can't watch this anymore.
12:23
You're obsessed. You're to invest it blah blah
12:26
blah. This is never gonna get solved. Do you and
12:28
Kail, whack jobs, and whatever. Tell
12:31
them to say it to my face. Yeah. Say
12:33
it say it to her face. And then
12:35
sad thing is as he probably would. And then
12:38
I love love you, Stop. Don't call me a
12:41
whack job. He then
12:43
was like This is ridiculous that you're making
12:45
me pay four ninety nine a month just to get
12:47
discover three plus so that you can watch this one
12:49
documentary. And so that brings
12:52
me back to the point before
12:54
I say about the documentary, we have
12:56
literally, like, nineteen streaming services,
12:59
and it proves your point of,
13:01
yes, you can cancel cable, but you're probably
13:03
gonna end up paying similar
13:05
amount to have all the different streams to be
13:08
able to watch the different things. And it's just hard
13:10
when you see stuff being
13:12
so followed like in the media or,
13:14
you know, on Instagram Lindsie's this documentary
13:17
coming out and whatever and then you don't
13:19
have the stream and it just is so
13:21
easy to download it and
13:23
get it, that I'm
13:25
like, oh, wow. You know, for four ninety nine.
13:28
It's basically, like, apps on
13:30
your phone that you pay for except, like, on
13:32
your TV. And -- Right. --
13:35
I'm all about it. And Kail gonna
13:37
have all my login and probably
13:40
hacked me. So I didn't
13:43
I, but I did watch the free Brittany movement on the New York times thing, which was on but I did watch the
13:45
free Britney movement
13:47
on the New York Times thing, which was on
13:50
Hulu, and I did use your login
13:52
for that. Will's, before we get into that,
13:54
I just wanted to say that it
13:56
was really interesting to me that
13:59
the discovery plus documentary definitely
14:02
more so followed the
14:06
intruder, conspiracy,
14:09
or theory, whatever you wanna call it. definitely,
14:11
like, followed more of that. And
14:14
a lot of things made made sense
14:16
to me, but I just can't get past, like,
14:18
certain stuff. Like we talked on the last episode, and
14:22
also, like, more of the
14:24
side following, like, the d
14:26
a. And the
14:28
grand jury and, like, all of that stuff.
14:31
So I did find that it was interesting and there
14:33
was, like, different information a
14:35
lot of information obviously recycled, but
14:37
but different information and following
14:40
the one theory. Like, it was sticking
14:43
to that and eliminating.
14:46
It kept reiterating and eliminating the
14:48
fact that it would have or
14:50
could have been the parents.
14:53
So, yeah, I'm still
14:56
sticking to it was You know,
14:59
I I think about it a lot,
15:01
probably more than an average person thinks
15:03
about, like, a crime. Like,
15:05
it's probably abnormal. But Wack
15:08
job. Yeah. A little bit.
15:10
I don't I can't get
15:12
past. And that's why, like, when people,
15:15
like, in your regular life, when you think about,
15:17
like, a lie that they've told or whatever, like, certain
15:19
things just don't that up, but, you know, at the end of
15:21
the day that they still lied. Like, that's
15:24
how I feel about, like, John
15:26
Monet's case. Like, I just feel like, yeah,
15:28
there's a little bit of weird
15:30
things that donut up, but at the end of the day, like, the
15:32
parents still did it. Well, the mom probably
15:34
still did it. I just can't get past
15:37
the ransom note and I cannot get past
15:39
the outfits
15:43
not being changed. And, like, there's just, like,
15:45
too many things where, like, yes, I couldn't and
15:47
I see how someone would come the conclusion that
15:49
maybe an intruder came in, but, like, the
15:51
cobble's in the window and stuff that we talked about last
15:53
time, like, I just I can't I can't
15:55
bring myself to think anything else. I
15:57
just can't me either. So basically,
16:00
if you watch the Discovery Plus
16:03
documentary, you
16:06
will either now be convinced
16:08
that was an intruder or you
16:10
will be, like, still too much
16:12
evidence that is against that story.
16:15
So anyhow, then
16:17
Kayle texted me this weekend, and
16:19
she's like, you have to watch. What is it
16:22
For It was I
16:24
thought it was, like, free Britney. I don't
16:26
know. It was on the New York Times, like, show.
16:28
They have a series, and they focus,
16:30
oh, it's called framing Britney Spears. It's
16:32
called framing Britney Spears. It's a New York
16:34
Times series
16:37
where they do a different episode each
16:39
week and episode six was on
16:41
the free Britney Spears movement. Yes.
16:44
Well, with that being said,
16:49
I then take a bath. Kail me when I'm
16:51
in the bath. And I'm like, then
16:53
it makes me go down this rabbit hole where I'm like,
16:55
Kail. In my new house, I'm going
16:58
to put a TV above my bathtub
17:00
because I spend an enormous amount of time in
17:02
the bath, I could get like
17:04
an hour show in while I'm
17:06
also taking a bath and killed two birds with
17:08
one stone. Anyhow, not really
17:10
important. I get out
17:14
can I turn on one more this
17:16
this documentary? And, honestly,
17:21
I don't know. This whole time, I've gone
17:23
back and forth on this, like, okay,
17:26
free Britney movement, whatever. Crazy.
17:30
This is just outlandish. Whatever.
17:33
But then there's been times that I'm like,
17:36
Kail, there could be some validity to this.
17:38
And then after watching that
17:41
documentary, to me, there
17:43
is enough that
17:47
draws the conclusion that there
17:49
is, like, I don't know if you would call like,
17:51
foul play or whatever, but Yeah. Like abuse,
17:53
conservatorship abuse. Yes.
17:56
I believe that that
17:58
is going on. And I
18:01
just can't get past the fact if you
18:03
are an adult
18:06
that has earning potential
18:09
that can go
18:12
to a job or jobs or, you know,
18:14
whatever. I
18:16
don't believe that you should be
18:18
under that type of conservatorship. I
18:21
agree. I and if you if you
18:23
watched the episode in the beginning,
18:27
one of the first things I think it was Felicia,
18:29
which the whole time watching it was
18:31
really like, I was I was, like, nostalgia. Like,
18:33
I was, like, oh, wow. Like, I remember as
18:36
a child, like, seeing pictures and
18:38
magazines and in a little album.
18:41
Like, remember those album things that they had in
18:43
the CD case where you could take it out and, like,
18:45
open it up and it was, like, twelve images
18:47
-- Yes. -- like a like a little booklet
18:49
-- Yes. -- magazines with
18:52
Felicia and Britney, and I always like,
18:54
I knew who Felicia was too because I was heavily
18:56
in like, I was invested. Like, Britney Spears,
18:58
baby one more time, all of that. So
19:01
when they interviewed her, I think it
19:03
was her that said one of the first
19:05
things that Jamie Spears said was
19:07
my daughter's gonna be so rich. She's gonna buy
19:09
me a boat. So that right
19:11
there was a red flag for me because it was
19:13
to to me right off the bat. Her
19:16
dad was invested in the money
19:18
in the dollar signs. And so that was a
19:20
huge, like, turn off in red flag. And
19:22
then later on, like,
19:25
if she she it stated in the documentary
19:28
that she knew at at some
19:30
point, I wanna say it was after her first her second
19:32
son was born. She knew that she wasn't gonna be able to
19:34
fight the conservatorship. She knew that.
19:37
But she said
19:39
that she just didn't want her dad to be
19:41
the one that is the conservator.
19:43
She just that was the one thing that she asked
19:45
for. I will say, I
19:47
don't understand to this day even after
19:50
watch in the episode. I don't understand why
19:52
her family, like her mom,
19:54
her her sister, her brother, why they're not
19:56
speaking out more. On
19:59
re on her behalf. And then I know that Jamie
20:01
Limb Spears was getting a lot of shit for
20:04
she was the trustee of who of
20:06
her her
20:08
revocable trust or something like that. I
20:10
also have a revocable trust and I have a trustee
20:13
and things like that. I do not pay this person.
20:15
That's not somebody that I pay. It's someone who
20:18
will have control of, you
20:20
know, the money for wherever my kids
20:22
are so that whoever, you know, if something were to happen
20:25
to me, the person
20:27
taking care of my kids could go to the trustee and
20:29
say, hey, you know, these are the expenses,
20:31
you know, Isaac or Lincoln or Lux or Creed,
20:33
whatever the case may be. You
20:35
know, this is these are the expenses. Can I
20:37
have x amount of dollars? And then the trustee would
20:39
would give the money. Does that make sense? Yes. So
20:43
I think they're for people who don't
20:45
know, like, there's, like, an estate plan
20:47
and things like that. I don't know why
20:50
then Jamie removed herself. And I
20:52
know that she was trying to move money,
20:55
I wanna say, out of the conservatorship and
20:58
out of Britney's Convos, to,
21:01
like, move it out of her control, I think,
21:03
something along those lines. But, like, why are
21:05
they why are they not fighting or speaking against
21:07
Jamie Spears if they don't agree with
21:09
it? Because at one point, in the
21:11
in the episode, it was like Britney's
21:14
mom says something about, like, wanting to have
21:16
some control over her daughter you
21:19
know, giving her some freedom and and she wants
21:21
to see her happy and things like that. And then
21:23
in you turn around and then they're, like,
21:25
holding hands coming out of the court Like, I don't understand
21:28
There's a couple things. Dynamic. Okay.
21:31
Go ahead. Go ahead. So Let's
21:34
back up a little bit. K? Okay. None of us, anyone who's listening, probably I would say unless you're like Kim Kardashian, but definitely us can not relate to the level of fame that she experienced as she experienced
21:38
None of us, anyone who's
21:40
listening? Probably, I would say,
21:42
unless you're like Kail Kardashian. But
21:45
definitely us cannot relate to
21:48
the level of fame that she
21:50
experienced actually, when she experienced
21:53
it. Right. And I
21:55
think that when
21:57
that comes a lot
21:59
of change. She came from a small town.
22:02
She blew up.
22:04
She was performing in Will's. And then
22:07
literally, she was selling out Convos and
22:09
arenas. Like, that's
22:11
a lot of change to go through definitely
22:16
developmentally, but, like, from an emotional standpoint,
22:19
a mental standpoint. And
22:22
then to be having paparazzi
22:24
following you and wanting to know your every
22:27
move. That's where I feel like it
22:29
took a turn. Does the the paparazzi
22:31
and and an media.
22:34
The media really did her
22:36
so dirty. And that think that they needed to
22:38
focus more on that, like, just the mental health
22:40
aspect when you're constantly in interviews and
22:43
seeing yourself in magazines being bashed
22:45
and everything is negative
22:47
and then to me, Justin Timberlake,
22:50
completely took advantage of the situation and
22:54
and played a part in that. I
22:56
think that that was a turning point.
22:59
The point that I want to make here is that none of us can relate to that level of fame and the mental warfare that she was going through when dealing with point that I wanna make here is
23:02
that none of us can
23:04
relate to that level of fame. Mhmm.
23:07
And the
23:09
mental warfare that she
23:12
was going through when dealing with
23:14
it. And I think that
23:17
it's very easy to sit back and
23:20
say, and judge people
23:22
that you see online or, you know,
23:24
an A List celebrity or whatever because, I
23:26
mean, I'm guilty of it. I've used the Britney
23:28
Spears umbrella GIF,
23:31
you know, or GIF, whatever you wanna call it.
23:33
Right. I've used it, and now I
23:35
feel completely horrible after watching
23:38
documentary because it's really predatory behavior.
23:41
And a lot of these things that people
23:43
are going through, whether it be like custody
23:45
battle or just
23:48
general normal life things
23:50
that are blown up to the max because
23:52
of who they are and it's spread
23:55
all over every tabloid that
23:58
pictures of her were going for millions
24:00
of dollars. There was just so
24:02
much that I
24:05
I could understand why somewhat
24:07
I can completely understand why she
24:09
went off the You had a breaking point, Oh, I'll all a hundred P like I, and that was something that I was saying to you too, where like, when we were texting about it was, I can't had a breaking
24:11
point. 0AA hundred like,
24:14
I and that was something that I was saying to
24:16
you too. Like, when we were texting about it was,
24:18
I can't understand we neither of us can
24:20
understand that magnitude of fame. But
24:23
I've I've experienced it on a very a
24:25
fraction of a fraction of her Kail,
24:28
and it's like, I've hit my
24:30
breaking point because of of the things that have been
24:32
said about me that are untrue and the things that have been
24:34
known about me that are untrue. I can only I can't
24:36
even imagine what she was going through. I
24:38
mean, her her custody
24:40
stuff, you know, her breaking point with wanting to
24:42
shave her head. She doesn't have good relationship
24:44
with her dad Lindsie's wanting to take control of her
24:47
life. Like, I cannot imagine people
24:49
using her fame against
24:51
her, like, what Bra Justin
24:54
Timberlake did and just all
24:56
of it. And then her dad wants to turn around
24:58
and have a conservatorship, but
25:00
then she's able to do four more
25:02
albums four more tours. She's able to
25:04
do what was the documentary that
25:07
MTV released where
25:10
she talks about the conservatorship? It was
25:13
behind the scenes or something? Like Britney
25:15
Spears behind the scenes or something? Yeah.
25:18
Will's, also, before
25:20
I forget about this point I wanted to make,
25:23
is that when
25:27
when there's a lot of money that
25:29
is involved and people
25:32
around you haven't seen it. I
25:36
think that that and
25:38
and people would have an agenda
25:41
and easily be able to, like
25:43
in her dad's case, easily
25:45
be able to prove she is crazy.
25:49
She is incompetent.
25:52
She is not capable. She is
25:56
a detriment to herself or to
25:58
society, there
26:01
was enough agenda financial
26:04
agenda behind it, and I can't get over
26:07
the fact of the vote. You know? And then
26:09
him trying to press this conservatorship to
26:13
use that as leverage, to control
26:16
all of her finances. That would be
26:18
a really sad life kill. I
26:21
think though on the documentary, uncorrect
26:23
me if I'm wrong. I think she gets either one or
26:25
one and a half percent of her earnings,
26:28
and that's, like, her allowance. And
26:30
I'm sure the if
26:33
you heard from the other side, it
26:35
would be, oh, she gets one and
26:38
half percent of her
26:40
earnings because anything more
26:42
would be a detriment to herself or
26:45
whatever. Nowhere in
26:48
that documentary did it prove that
26:50
by her having access to more money,
26:53
that that caused the problems. What it showed
26:55
to me was that her
26:59
not having the protection that she should have needed
27:01
when it came to paparazzi, when it came to
27:03
the rising fame, that was the
27:06
the issue. Yes. Agreed.
27:09
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30:56
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30:59
of I feel like paparazzi
31:01
and, like, really selling someone's struggles for
31:03
profit. You know what I mean? Like, that was really
31:05
when for sure. And
31:07
can you imagine, Kail, someone
31:11
like a Jojo Sewa or
31:14
Selena Gomez or whatever going
31:17
into an interview, like Britney
31:19
was interviewed and these male
31:22
correspondents or or
31:24
asks about her virginity? Can
31:26
you imagine in today's time if
31:29
that happened? Oh my
31:31
god. No. I would be I
31:33
no. No. Not now. Not today.
31:36
No. People are advocating for for
31:39
for those things to not happen now. They didn't
31:42
Britney didn't have that. And there was
31:44
an interview where Justin Timberlake got on
31:46
the radio and they flat
31:48
out asked him, did you fuck Brittany Spears?
31:50
And he, like, doesn't know how to ask, and he doesn't
31:52
defend her, and he doesn't You know what I mean? And he went at that time, he was just coming off of, you know, in sync and trying to get his solo career off the ground and took advantage of someone so vulnerable in such a, and I don't think that anyone put two and two together at the
31:54
mean? And he at that time, he was just coming
31:56
off of, you know, in sync and trying
31:58
to get his solo career off the ground
32:01
and took advantage of someone so
32:03
vulnerable and such a and I don't think
32:05
that anyone put
32:08
two and two together at the time. And, obviously, we
32:10
didn't either because we all used the Britney Spears
32:12
GIF and, you know, literally
32:15
said I was I was gonna pull up Britney
32:17
Spears and shave my own head off at the worst time of
32:20
my life. You know what I mean? And and nobody put two
32:22
and two together. It's just so fucking
32:24
heartbreaking. And you know what's even worse
32:26
is that I guess it was
32:28
last year when I was going on her Instagram,
32:30
like, what the fuck is going on with Britney? Like, her
32:32
Instagram is, like,
32:34
she's just not herself. It's like she's I don't and
32:37
I'm this is an assumption and what
32:39
is the word? Not an assumption. An
32:42
observation that her
32:44
Instagram is just, like, I don't
32:46
know if she's medicated, if her mental health
32:48
has just deteriorated that much. But
32:52
I went on that was last year when I was, like,
32:54
what the fuck is going on. And then this
32:56
year yesterday, I went on her
32:58
Instagram and she has a video on her
33:00
feed of
33:03
kinetic sand. Kail.
33:05
And it's she has it in a ball and she puts
33:07
her finger in it, and then it, like, kind of, like,
33:09
falls apart. And the caption is,
33:11
I do this about two hours a day. I'm
33:17
sad for her. Like, I'm I feel
33:19
horrible. I feel like when you're think
33:21
about the people in like
33:25
in a mental health hospital that are just being
33:27
medicated and they're not actually being helped.
33:30
Do you know what I mean? Remember when we had
33:32
the episode of Rachel where she went to
33:35
Provo Canyon school, and she said
33:37
that they don't even like, they don't even give
33:39
her real therapy and help. They literally just drug
33:41
her. Like, they just gave her meds. That's
33:44
literally not a society today. I
33:46
think But that's not like, Britney is if she
33:48
is capable to she's she to work
33:50
until her dad was removed from
33:53
the conservators. Which speaks volume. Which
33:55
speaks fucking volumes. Like she's not asking for much, she's saying that she She's not
33:57
asking for much. She's saying that she it's okay.
33:59
Well, I'm not saying she said it's Kail, but she
34:02
understood that she couldn't fight it. She couldn't go against
34:04
it. She's willing to work and to continue
34:06
making money because she's obviously fucking
34:09
capable. But then to see to
34:11
to know that and then to hear that she's,
34:13
like, basically confined to her own house
34:15
most of the time. And then she's playing with
34:17
kinetic sand for two hours a day, and then
34:19
she posts about it. Like, There's something
34:21
wrong there. There's something very something
34:23
very wrong, and I
34:26
want to join, like, the
34:29
the free Britney movement because something
34:31
is very wrong and I feel like as
34:33
a as a woman that
34:36
we do have a voice and we
34:38
can't speak up that it's
34:40
it's wrong and there needs
34:42
to be more
34:44
awareness around that
34:46
and mental health aspect just in
34:49
general, people do not understand. And we can't understand to like an alias level, how, you know, how she is, but the mental toll that it takes on a human being and why someone who has ever had any form of fame or notoriety or whatever you want to call it probably has signed themselves up for a lifetime of therapy and problems that have come from and
34:51
we can't understand till like an a list
34:53
level how, you know, how she is.
34:56
But the mental toll
34:59
that it takes on
35:02
a human being and why someone
35:04
who has ever had any form
35:06
of fame or notoriety or whatever
35:09
you wanna call it, probably
35:11
have signed themselves up for a lifetime
35:14
of therapy and
35:16
problems that have come from that. I
35:20
think that that's a very important point
35:23
to make that she
35:27
no matter if her conservatorship ever
35:29
gets turned over or whatever because
35:31
of what she faced with
35:34
the media tablets, just
35:38
in general public, the people
35:40
in the business, like, Justin Timber, like,
35:43
those types of things she is going to struggle
35:46
with and have
35:48
repercussions from that stuff
35:51
for the rest of her life. I
35:55
could not I still can't
35:57
wrap my head around watching interviews
35:59
of her as a young girl and a
36:02
young woman to now her
36:04
Instagram, like the videos of her on her
36:06
Instagram. You know what I mean? Like the comparison
36:08
of who she was and who she
36:10
is today, and I
36:13
don't blame her one bit. Like, I
36:15
don't none of this was her call in
36:17
my opinion. Well, Will was, like, her
36:19
voice completely changed -- Her voice.
36:21
-- like her face. Everything about her face.
36:23
Her voice. The everything
36:25
that she Kail, like, even the video that she just posted
36:28
about the Super Bowl, like, she's
36:30
not the same, like, it's
36:33
I just it's so fucking it's heartbreaking. Like, and we don't even know
36:35
like and we don't even know her. Imagine the people
36:37
that are close to her, and do they see it the
36:39
same way that we do? Or is
36:41
it on a greater scale or a lesser scale?
36:43
Or do they think, oh, that's just Britney. You know what I
36:45
mean? Where it's like, no. That's not just That's
36:48
what the fucking public and everyone around
36:50
her did to her because nobody knew how to handle
36:54
what she was going through. And To that point, though, you said that you don't understand why other people in her family, like isn't speaking up, like her sister, her mom, whatever, this is just a complete
36:57
that point, though, you said
36:59
that you don't understand why other people
37:01
in her family, like, isn't speaking up, like, her
37:03
sister, her mom, whatever. This
37:05
is just a complete speculation.
37:09
My thoughts on that were
37:11
I'm wondering if her
37:14
estate or business
37:20
has some type of, like, gag order
37:22
or nondisclosure to where
37:24
no one in the family can speak
37:28
on the issues regarding
37:30
Britney publicly? Yeah. I mean, that definitely makes sense, but definitely makes
37:34
I mean, that definitely makes sense, but definitely
37:36
sense. It just I guess
37:39
it it just sucks from I
37:42
mean, it sucks from from our
37:44
perspective. I can imagine it sucks for
37:46
that. Like, their heart justice heart. Yeah. You're right.
37:49
And I it's just
37:51
stay at it from though from
37:53
other situations
37:58
that I
38:02
think a lot of people that
38:05
are I'm trying to figure out how to
38:07
say this properly without diverging
38:12
too much. I
38:14
think that when you are media
38:17
followed and that there is
38:19
an agenda to be pressed
38:22
or whatever that if
38:26
other people have a benefit
38:29
in the situation, they
38:32
might be less likely to
38:34
speak out knowing that there could
38:36
be ramifications against
38:39
them financially or
38:43
whatever. So they're gonna take the financial benefit
38:47
versus doing
38:49
the right thing. Does that make sense? Okay.
38:52
Yes. Okay. So in that way, there may
38:54
or may not be money
38:57
involved? Yes. Because I know
38:59
that Jamie Lindsie's saying
39:01
that she hasn't received a dime from her sister.
39:03
And and I'm not
39:05
here to decide whether she has or she hasn't,
39:07
but that was one thing
39:10
you know, she basically said that she, you know, believes
39:12
in her sister and that nobody has room
39:14
to talk about it. And, you
39:17
know, you're right. She may Will's,
39:19
just not be able to. And,
39:21
you know, it's it sucks. But, I mean, maybe it's
39:23
in the best interest. I don't know. It's just it's
39:25
so heartbreaking to see from just
39:27
a fan's perspective. And III
39:30
hope that people aren't, like, in her family
39:32
saying, you know, all that's just Britney or, you
39:34
know, I'm just going
39:37
off of the interviews I've seen of her
39:39
as a young woman and a young girl versus
39:41
the Instagram post now are
39:45
I can't. Like, I it's so sad.
39:47
And I and it it feels like a mystery.
39:49
Like, it's like an eerie weird
39:52
mystery and it's fucking heartbreaking. I also just wonder, this is, this is truly just like a
39:55
I also just
39:57
wonder, this is this is truly just like
39:59
a question I
40:02
wonder if a
40:04
little bit of north and south comes
40:06
into play in this situation because
40:09
dads to me in the south are
40:11
very controlling
40:14
in general. Like the and
40:19
I especially was very tired of
40:21
a man, like, taking care of
40:23
family and having the final say and things
40:25
like that. Is that what you mean? Yeah. And
40:27
especially when it comes to their
40:29
daughters and stuff, and so I just
40:32
wonder if part of
40:34
the upbringing of where they're from
40:39
with, you know, being from the south
40:41
has anything to do to
40:44
do with it. Like, maybe her dad is
40:46
like a very controlling southern man. And,
40:48
like, I do
40:50
think that men in the south and and this
40:52
could just be a
40:55
complete stereotype
40:58
that I'm saying, but I do I
41:01
tend to find men or dads
41:03
in the south being a lot crazier
41:06
than people
41:09
or dads from the north. I
41:11
don't know, but you brought up point that if
41:13
that was a situation with your kids or
41:16
whatever, that you
41:18
would hope that one
41:20
of your boys or your boys would be able to speak
41:22
out, like, if they wanted to. And,
41:26
yes, I agree with you, but also you're
41:28
not like, controlling
41:32
narcissist sick asshole? Oh,
41:36
I'm not. Because there's rumors
41:38
that I am. So Okay. Will's,
41:40
I'm glad that the rumors are that, glad that the rumors are
41:42
that. But
41:45
just from Yeah. I've done knowing you personally,
41:48
that couldn't be further from from
41:51
the truth. So I think that
41:53
you can make that per you have that perspective
41:55
because you aren't that. Does that
41:57
make sense? Yeah. Yeah. For sure.
42:00
I just think the whole thing is so sad and
42:02
III hope that everyone
42:04
that's close to Britney is really doing everything they
42:06
can because I can't imagine, you know,
42:09
feeling I I just I cannot I
42:11
don't even wanna say too much because I don't wanna say the
42:13
wrong thing. You know what I mean? Like, I don't wanna say
42:17
something that is gonna make it more
42:20
like, are we contributing to
42:22
the struggle the struggles that she's facing
42:25
right now by talking about it? Like, I don't even wanna
42:27
do more you know what I mean? So I just I wanna be
42:29
careful with the things that I in a way that I word things,
42:31
so they don't wanna say anything
42:33
that could potentially cause her more harm, not that
42:35
she cares about this fucking podcast. You get what
42:37
I mean. I'm dead. You're definitely not listening to this, but I'm just saying like, definitely
42:40
not listening to this, but I'm just saying,
42:42
like, I feel horrible for
42:44
her. So But please, Britney, do
42:46
listen to us. Also yeah.
42:50
Moving on from this, though, I have to
42:52
tell you something that is so freaking
42:54
funny. The pictures that
42:57
I got in my DMs from
43:00
last week of people with their
43:02
kids, with their clothes looking insane
43:05
coming from, like, a custody exchange
43:08
or whatever it's Kail,
43:10
like, what do you all call that? Not
43:12
a custody exchange biller. Is that like how this
43:15
is? Yeah. Yeah. Oh, Oh, okay.
43:17
So, like, that or kids coming back from their
43:19
grandparents, it's like, the blue jeans are
43:21
ripped. There's, like, mud everywhere. They
43:24
might be wearing two different shoes. Like, the
43:26
pictures that I got were so freaking
43:28
funny. That's so
43:30
funny. I love that. I
43:32
definitely I I
43:34
want them to look nice. We talked about this.
43:37
I want them to look nice, but I it's so
43:39
funny if you've if you've ever been on TikTok
43:41
and you see the videos, it's like, how my
43:43
mother-in-law dresses my kid and
43:45
how I dress her? Are there -- Really? --
43:47
how my husband or my ex dresses
43:49
my kid and how I dress him. It's literally
43:52
two different worlds. That's so
43:55
it's so funny to me because I
43:58
can't relate in the fact of, like, a
44:01
custody exchange or anything like that.
44:04
However, when I get pictures like,
44:06
for example, if we're traveling for the podcast
44:08
or something and we're together and I get a picture
44:10
of Jackson and what he's wearing, I'm like, where
44:12
did those clothes even come from? Like, I've never
44:14
seen them. Like, we're gonna Will find
44:17
that Will's, like, having him, you know, taking
44:19
him out to lunch in the ugliest outfit. Yes.
44:21
And it drives me nuts, but just like, Kail,
44:24
that's just in battle that I'm not gonna
44:26
fight because he's taking care of him. He's
44:30
fed he might not be playing Jackson,
44:32
think about it. Does he like the outfit? Does he
44:35
not care? Like, does he oh
44:37
gosh. So the other day,
44:39
I went to lay sections closeout
44:42
for school. And I went into his
44:44
bathroom, and there was like this weird outfit
44:46
in there. And I was just like, what is going
44:48
on? Like, who put this here? And
44:51
was just like jeans that I
44:53
had never seen before in Jackson doesn't
44:55
really like jeans and I don't know
44:57
if anyone else's kids are like No.
44:59
I just hates them. Isaac Isaac
45:02
and Lincoln Bolt hate jeans. Okay.
45:04
So they only wanna wear joggers all the time. I'm I'm
45:06
a say Yes. the time -- Yes. -- all the time.
45:08
Same. So there
45:11
are BlueJeans in there, and I'm
45:13
like, first of all, where
45:15
did these even come from? And Will's like
45:17
notorious for going
45:19
to goodwill and like buying stuff
45:21
stuff and not telling me, not
45:24
like clothes or jacks or anything like that, but
45:26
he might like, I might find a little, like,
45:28
nicknack in the garage or something, and
45:30
it's because we'll been a good will. So in my
45:32
mind, I'm thinking, why? Mayes
45:34
do that? I don't know. Like,
45:38
what kind of nicknacks is he getting from Will's?
45:40
And why are they in the garage? They're
45:43
in the garage because he knows that I'm gonna
45:45
be, like, are you bringing junk into the house?
45:47
Like, I take things to goodwill and he brings
45:49
things home from goodwill. I
45:53
just wanna know what he's buying like
45:56
golf clubs. Kail. I've got funny
45:58
story about that actually. But anyway,
46:00
the blue jeans were laying in there and then there was
46:02
like the shirt that was too small. It was like an
46:04
Under Armour shirt that was like a dry fit
46:07
shirt. And it had, like,
46:09
American flag or something on Definitely something
46:11
that you would wear, like, in the summertime. First of all,
46:13
it was short sleeves. And it
46:15
was just like, Kail. dry
46:17
fit under armor shirt really doesn't go with
46:19
these BlueJeans. Like, it's a two
46:21
totally different looks trying to be put together.
46:24
So either Jackson did this, which
46:26
I don't believe because he doesn't like BlueJeans or
46:29
have no idea why Will did this. So
46:33
I wouldn't just like put the stuff back on his
46:35
dresser and got out an actual outfit
46:37
and put it in his bathroom. And Jackson
46:40
thinks it's so funny whenever I,
46:42
like, start going in on Will's about his
46:44
lack of fashion. Wait.
46:48
Jackson laughs about it. Oh, like,
46:50
hysterically. Because I'll be like,
46:52
you have no fashions in like, I
46:54
don't know who told you that this goes together,
46:56
like, this looks terrible, where do these
46:59
things even come from? Blah blah. So Anyway,
47:02
basically, Will's as Jackson
47:04
like a Jackass, and I'm
47:08
not here for it. funny.
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800-466-6103. Let
49:04
me tell you the story, though, about goodwill. So
49:07
Will told me that he went to Will's, like, a couple
49:09
of weeks ago and that he
49:12
around this golf club and he was
49:14
like, oh, like, I can repurpose this
49:16
and, like, make it nice and whatever.
49:19
Repurpose Golf Club,
49:21
like, for golfing or for something else?
49:23
Unsure, to be honest. Like, he
49:25
says it's golf? No.
49:27
Like, not really. Like, So what The fuck are you repurposing a golf club the fuck are you repurposing
49:30
golf club with? I don't know. I think it's truly
49:33
to see if he can do it.
49:35
Like to see if he can, like, regrip it
49:38
like Like, he wanted
49:40
to do project. Okay. Okay.
49:42
But this gets good. So then
49:45
I, like, go with my basement. And
49:47
I find fingernail
49:50
polish down there that, like, doesn't belong
49:52
to me. So I'm like, who's
49:56
is this? And, like, I didn't wanna start
49:58
asking questions because, you know, sometimes
50:00
when you start asking questions, you get answers
50:02
that you don't want. So sometimes it's just like best
50:05
not to go there. So not. Yeah. But
50:07
it was like a white fingernail polish,
50:09
a red fingernail polish, and a blue fingernail
50:11
polish. And I was like, Kail. It clearly looks like somebody
50:13
was painting their nails for the fourth of July. But
50:18
definitely not. And these were ones
50:20
that looks like they were maybe, like, dollar
50:22
store brand or something. So I was like, Kail. This
50:24
definitely looks like something will evolve. But would he
50:26
be buying fingernail polish? Like, I
50:28
have so many questions. So
50:30
then he goes to goodwill and
50:33
he bought this golf club, and
50:35
then he bought some kind of, like,
50:38
regroup stuff so that he could, like, regroup
50:40
it. Will's, apparently, he got into
50:42
an altercation with, like, some workers
50:44
at goodwill. Okay.
50:48
Because supposedly, Will's
50:51
knows, like, when they put stuff out
50:53
and when they don't. And
50:55
so why okay. And so he said,
50:57
I know that they just
51:00
like, got a whole thing of golf clubs,
51:02
but they just put, like, one out and whenever it
51:04
gets gone, they'll go and put the other one out.
51:07
And until, like so they always have
51:09
a golf club or something. And I'm like, well, that's just
51:11
like a weird theory, but, like, whatever. So
51:14
Will says he gets in trouble because he walked in
51:16
the back of goodwill. Can you imagine this?
51:20
This is like six foot forward guy
51:22
walking stocked. In the stock
51:24
room of goodwill. Oh
51:27
my god. And I'm like, when the actual
51:29
hell is like going he
51:31
says that the people, like, start yelling at him
51:34
and stuff saying that he can't be back there. And
51:36
he was, like, well, I know that there's, like, the other golf
51:38
clubs back here or whatever. So I wanna of
51:40
people to get them. And the guy
51:42
was like, well, we put stuff out whenever we
51:44
get it, and Will was like, no. Like,
51:46
you definitely didn't. There's more golf
51:49
clubs back here and I wanna get them. And
51:53
Will was like, I'm pretty sure they just wanted to
51:55
keep them for themselves. Like, they probably
51:57
people who work at goodwill probably see the good stuff
51:59
come in and they just keep it and, like, they don't put it
52:01
out. And I'm, like, first of all, the fact that you're arguing
52:04
with people who work at goodwill and,
52:06
like, the stock
52:08
people. goodwill, I'm pretty sure they don't have any
52:10
investment in like what's coming in there first
52:12
of all. Secondly, Again,
52:15
same question that you have, why is Will's
52:17
golf clubs? Third, the fingernail
52:19
polish? Was for
52:22
when he was, like, redoing these
52:24
golf clubs on
52:26
the, like, part where you hit, it'll
52:28
have, like, a brand or whatever. And
52:31
they have, like, a color on there and
52:33
so he was painting them.
52:39
Can you imagine you imagine this? No.
52:42
Why there's other paint
52:45
to use. Why was he using nail
52:47
ish. Don't don't know. I
52:50
have so many questions that I really want
52:52
to get him on the podcast. Like,
52:54
I wanna know how he got invested
52:56
in goodwill. I wanna know
52:59
how often he goes. I wanna know what
53:01
kinds of things he buys or what he looks
53:03
for. I
53:06
just I have a lot of questions. He says
53:08
that they have, like, a lot of stuff.
53:10
A lot of, like, really good stuff. Oh,
53:12
I know plenty of people that get, like, really, really
53:14
good stuff at goodwill. Like, I'm
53:17
I don't doubt it, but, like, what
53:19
what does Will's look for? But I'm not that type of shopper, you know what I not
53:21
that type of shopper. You know what I mean? Like, I
53:23
couldn't go into goodwill and be like, oh,
53:25
yeah. I can't make that into a gym.
53:28
Like Well, right. Like, we're just, like, not
53:30
those type like, I I'm not I'm not creative
53:32
in that way. Like, I I went through a phase where
53:34
I was wanting to, like, go to
53:36
goodwill and, like, repurpose furniture, and then I
53:38
realized I was horrible at it, and I just
53:40
didn't say better. Have
53:43
all been through that phase? I wonder how many people
53:45
who are listening to this have also been through
53:47
that phase and then realized, like, Kail, this is
53:49
just not for me. Like, like, totally
53:51
not for me. I hope
53:53
I hope I'm not the only one. Well,
53:56
I know for a fact you're not because I also
53:58
was that person. I was thinking I was going to be a repurposer that I was going to, you know, like make all these gyms and I did nothing, but fuck everything was thinking I was going to
54:00
be a repurpose her that I was gonna, you know,
54:02
like, make all these gyms and I
54:04
did nothing but fuck everything up. So
54:09
that's what happened there. I
54:12
always oh. And then, like, occasionally,
54:14
I'll see wearing like something that
54:17
I've never seen before. And I'm
54:19
like, that's interesting.
54:21
Like, where did you get that? And
54:24
he literally, like, sneaks it in the laundry
54:27
somehow, and I don't know. And
54:29
it gets washed, and it came from goodwill.
54:31
And I'm like -- Oh. --
54:33
but he goes all the time, Kail. I swear to you.
54:35
Like, this is -- Like, in his free time,
54:38
and he has a lot of it. Just
54:41
a lot. I'm
54:46
just literally, I could probably
54:48
be going to the gym. No lie. And
54:50
this man would be, like,
54:52
I could pass by goodwill and probably find
54:54
his truck there at any given time. So
54:57
does he take Jackson ever on his side? Absolutely.
54:59
Actually, Jackson, the biggest
55:02
accident that Jackson's ever had. He busted
55:04
his chin open at goodwill. Because
55:07
Will was letting him play
55:09
with, like, ride on toys at goodwill.
55:11
And I'm, like, goodwill people that,
55:14
like, work there
55:16
regularly. When they see you guys coming, they
55:18
probably are like, oh, fuck. Oh,
55:21
I bet. Can you imagine? Like,
55:24
it is not it is not
55:27
rare for him to wanna
55:29
wake up early on a Saturday, more ring. Take Jackson
55:31
to Bojangles and
55:33
get breakfast and then Bojangles.
55:36
What is that? Do you guys have that? No.
55:39
I don't like it, but it's kind of, like,
55:41
do y'all have popeyes? Yeah.
55:43
Do y'all have popeyes? Okay. So Bojangles
55:45
is kind of, like, Louis Louisiana. Style,
55:48
I think it is, but they have breakfast
55:51
biscuits and, like, stuff like that, and
55:54
fried chicken. Until they go
55:56
there, sometimes Jackson actually hates it,
55:58
but Will loves it. So they'll
56:00
sometimes do that, like, really early on a Saturday
56:02
morning and then just, like, go and sit in the goodwill
56:04
parking lot until freaking goodwill opens.
56:07
Shut up. I'm not making it up,
56:09
and I'm just like, oh my god. Like,
56:11
can you give Jackson
56:13
like a GoPro or something? To document
56:16
one of their trips to goodwill. Oh,
56:18
yeah. He would actually I loved
56:21
I need to see this. Like, I I
56:23
just need to see, like, what they what
56:25
catches their eye, like, what they're interested in,
56:27
how many thing like, I just have so many
56:29
questions. Like, I I'm
56:32
so interested. How many people that are listening to this are like all time thrifter many people that
56:34
are listening to this are like all time
56:36
thrifters? Because I think that that is
56:39
I envy people who are me to fucking thrift or is that people who are -- Me too. -- fucking
56:42
thrifters, that find good shit, like,
56:44
that go. I don't know that
56:46
I I'm not a person that can, like, look through
56:48
things. Like, I just don't like to do don't even like to
56:50
go shopping in regular store that's organized. And,
56:53
like, all of those say, like, I just don't wanna
56:56
go shopping. I'm not proper. Like, if
56:58
I was doing that, I would do it. Yeah.
57:00
I just but I'm not like, I'm not gonna
57:02
look through things and, like, do all of that.
57:04
But I've seen people get some really good
57:06
stuff at goodwill. Like,
57:09
what, like, what kind of things probably
57:12
better than golf clubs, I'm sure. Well
57:14
So I actually saw, I watched, I follow this girl on Tik TOK and she's planning her wedding and she found she's buying all of her girls, bridesmaids, dresses, but she found, and she tries all of them so I actually saw I
57:17
watched I followed this girl on TikTok, and she's
57:19
planning her wedding. And she found
57:22
she's buying all of her Will's' bridesmaid's
57:24
dresses, but she found and she
57:26
tries all of them on. And, like, she has,
57:28
like, a whole aesthetic that she's going with. And she like updates and she, like, updates
57:31
everyone. And she found one of her dresses
57:33
for four dollars at Goodwill. And it's actually really, really and it's actually
57:35
really really pretty. I'll send you the video. Oh
57:37
my god. I need video evidence of need video evidence
57:39
of this, and I need everyone to
57:42
write into us and tell us, like, if you're an ultimate
57:44
thrifter, if your husband is like
57:46
an avid Will's And
57:51
then I'll determine if I'm just married to a psycho
57:53
or like a normal person. Moving
57:57
on, moving on from that? Okay. Since we are so into like American crimes and whatever, I did see this crazy
58:00
Since we are so into, like, American
58:03
Crimes and whatever, I
58:06
did see this crazy thing and I
58:08
just have to get all of y'all's
58:10
perspective on this because I
58:12
feel a type of way about it. So
58:15
I don't know if you saw that Casey Anthony
58:17
was going to be doing a
58:20
documentary about her daughter's death?
58:23
Yes. And it said that
58:25
she will be an executive producer and
58:28
they're calling it, like, an authorized documentary
58:32
and it Will's an authorized documentary
58:35
unsure. But
58:39
it basically said that she will offer
58:41
her viewpoint of the gruesome
58:43
death of her two year old, Caylee. And the co-executive producer was saying that she's finally ready to like clear her name, bring justice and shed like a different
58:46
And the
58:49
co executive producer was
58:52
saying that she's finally ready to, like, clear
58:54
her name, bring justice, and
58:58
shed, like, a different light. And
59:01
that's producer other
59:03
producers on the show are
59:05
quoted saying that many of the
59:07
revelations will be shocking. So
59:10
a couple of things on this. If
59:13
she is an executive producer of this, there's
59:15
financial benefit for her to do this.
59:18
Correct. And so I have a really
59:20
hard time on
59:23
people like who
59:27
I would say that I feel have committed
59:30
crimes. That
59:33
are so gruesome like this to
59:36
pad their Potentially benefit. Yes.
59:38
By watching it. But also it's something that I want to but also it's something that I wanna
59:40
cover. So, like, how Oh, a hundred percent.
59:43
I don't know. And that's so hard because I totally
59:45
hear you. It's like o j Simpson's book. If I
59:47
had done it, is what I would have done kinda thing.
59:49
Yes. We all know. O j fucking did
59:52
it. There's no other fucking it. There's no other fucking explanation, but
59:54
yet here we are reading his goddamn book and
59:56
supporting him and and filling his pocket. I
59:58
I hear you. Love didn't fit,
1:00:00
must quit. Yeah.
1:00:02
No. But it it he
1:00:05
he did it. And I don't you can't convince
1:00:07
me otherwise. So the
1:00:10
same thing, like, I'm
1:00:12
highly invested and I need to
1:00:15
watch I need to watch this documentary, but
1:00:17
also don't want to give her
1:00:20
I just feel like it's one of those things
1:00:22
that if you watch it,
1:00:25
you're silently supporting it.
1:00:29
Yeah. Right? Like, but
1:00:31
also I wanna watch it
1:00:33
because I followed the case so heavily.
1:00:36
Yeah. Same. That it would be
1:00:39
not natural for me not to watch it. Even though my standpoint is I don't want her to financially benefit from any of even
1:00:41
though my standpoint is I don't
1:00:43
want her to financially benefit from any
1:00:45
of this. And I find it to
1:00:47
be sickening. I would really
1:00:49
like to know how much she's making to do this
1:00:51
documentary because I
1:00:54
feel if you wanna clear your name and you really
1:00:56
didn't do it and you, you know, there's
1:00:58
so so many shocking revelations, then you should
1:01:01
be willing to do it without being finding having
1:01:03
financial Kail. I agree.
1:01:05
I definitely agree. And there's just
1:01:08
between her
1:01:12
OJ Simpson and Patsy Ramsey,
1:01:14
like, they all I
1:01:17
don't know. I can't. But you're right. I mean, I
1:01:19
I wouldn't I I'm gonna watch it, and that's
1:01:22
it sucks. It sucks when you're, like, between a
1:01:24
rock and a hard place. Like, you wanna know what
1:01:26
she's gonna say to potentially clear
1:01:28
her name. But at the end,
1:01:30
I don't think that anything she says, whatever
1:01:32
revelations you know, they think are
1:01:35
gonna sway us. There's no way
1:01:37
that I would I'm gonna be swayed. There's
1:01:39
also no way that I'm gonna be
1:01:41
swayed, but also I'm
1:01:44
going to watch it. I just
1:01:46
want What is it here? And is it on Netflix?
1:01:48
Or what is it on? I don't know if it's
1:01:50
if they've released an air date or anything
1:01:52
like that, I can do some more reads
1:01:54
I did reads. Yeah. I did read something
1:01:56
about it, and I wanna say maybe it was on,
1:01:59
like, an advert Hizeman somewhere.
1:02:01
I don't remember where I saw it or when I saw it was
1:02:03
recently, but I did see that. And was like,
1:02:05
what the hell? Like, what the I didn't know that
1:02:07
gonna be an executive producer. I thought she was gonna be interviewed.
1:02:10
I mean, how does this woman live? Where does she live?
1:02:12
How is she living? Did she change her name?
1:02:15
Like, I mean, I know people tried
1:02:17
to kill her after she was acquitted or whatever.
1:02:20
But, like, how do you live after
1:02:23
that? Like, where do you How
1:02:25
do you live a normal life? That's why I'm so
1:02:27
interested in just seeing what she has. Not that I really care what she has to not that
1:02:29
I really care what she has to say.
1:02:31
I just wanna hear what she has to say because
1:02:33
I think it's something
1:02:36
I say it's like important to life. I
1:02:38
have watched so much of everything
1:02:42
of that story, like, unfold just followed
1:02:44
it so heavily that it would be really
1:02:46
weird for me not to watch it. So I just wanna
1:02:48
know, like, how other people
1:02:50
feel about that you know, is
1:02:52
it is it silently supporting?
1:02:55
Is it being informed? Like, is it
1:02:58
what what do you consider
1:03:00
it? Because I'm a little bit conflicted on because I'm a little bit conflicted on
1:03:02
it. But then in
1:03:04
other news, probably the last thing that we have
1:03:06
time for today is
1:03:09
a question for you, Kail.
1:03:11
Someone wrote in and said, I'm curious
1:03:14
how each of you feel about gender selection I
1:03:16
have two daughters and would love to have a son, but
1:03:18
I'm wondering what you feel about it morally, financially,
1:03:21
and ethically. I've gotten a lot of pushback
1:03:23
my family when spoken about it, but there is no
1:03:25
guarantee as we all know that even
1:03:27
three or four more children would give me a boy
1:03:29
as much as I love my Will's. I'm not sure I
1:03:31
can be six kids deep, waiting for
1:03:33
a little guy to join our family. I would
1:03:35
love your feedback and thoughts. Thanks so much.
1:03:38
don't have many friends working multiple
1:03:41
jobs and as a mom with very
1:03:43
young kids and love that I feel that I have
1:03:45
girlfriends listening to your podcast. So
1:03:49
I have a lot to say about have a lot to say about this. And it's crazy that someone asked that after I told you what I'm doing, and it's
1:03:51
crazy that someone asked that after
1:03:53
I told you what I'm doing, So So
1:03:58
as everyone that listens to this nose, I have
1:04:00
four boys. I made
1:04:05
an appointment for March ninth where
1:04:07
I'm going, that's my initial appointment
1:04:09
to go through the process, to have my eggs
1:04:11
frozen. And
1:04:14
that being said, when
1:04:17
if if and when the time comes,
1:04:20
you know, if I wanna get married later on,
1:04:22
or have another child later on, you
1:04:26
know, that would be the way that I want to
1:04:28
do it just because I don't know
1:04:30
what type of health I'll be in at that point or if
1:04:32
I'll be able to conceive naturally because I've had
1:04:34
trouble in the past and know,
1:04:37
some things with my heavy periods have led
1:04:39
me to go in this direction. And
1:04:42
I was informed by Lindsay
1:04:45
and just knowing that I would be able to
1:04:47
essentially pick the genders based on the healthiest
1:04:49
embryos. I why
1:04:52
wouldn't I do gender selection? You know what I mean?
1:04:54
Like, why wouldn't I? I don't
1:04:56
care what people would have to say about
1:04:58
it. I don't care if they fail to I don't care if they I to me, I don't
1:05:00
think there's ethically anything wrong with it. I don't
1:05:02
think there's anything morally wrong with it. I
1:05:04
think that the people that are feeling
1:05:07
like it's, you know, not what God chose
1:05:09
or whatever. I mean, I'm sure there
1:05:12
are a ton of things in in their lives that God
1:05:14
didn't wouldn't have chosen for them,
1:05:16
but they, you know, sin differently than you.
1:05:18
I just I feel like you should not consider
1:05:20
anyone else's opinion on this. This is something
1:05:22
that is up to you and only you and your
1:05:24
doctor. And I personally
1:05:26
don't see anything wrong with it. I don't see anything
1:05:29
ethically wrong with it. I don't how
1:05:32
do you feel, Lindsie? Like, I don't know what
1:05:35
what more can say if, you know, if if
1:05:37
they if they come back to me, you know,
1:05:39
in five years, ten years, if I wanna have other child,
1:05:41
and they tell me, oh, you have two
1:05:44
healthy girl embryos and two
1:05:46
healthy boys. Which ones do you think I'm gonna
1:05:48
pick? Well, right because I'm
1:05:50
gonna pick the girl ones. And
1:05:53
my point to you, I didn't know if you were gonna
1:05:55
share that information, so I didn't wanna, like, say
1:05:57
anything, but when
1:06:00
you crave so much to have
1:06:04
a girl, it would be when
1:06:06
you're already going through that whole process already.
1:06:10
It's to me,
1:06:12
I see why people say that ethically,
1:06:16
you shouldn't do gender selection because
1:06:20
of your religious beliefs, whatever.
1:06:23
However, I have some
1:06:26
people that are very close to me
1:06:28
who have gone through IVF and
1:06:30
who did do gender selection. And
1:06:33
I don't think any differently of
1:06:35
them and quite honestly, you're
1:06:38
going through a science process anyway. It's
1:06:40
not a natural process. And so -- Right. --
1:06:42
for that reason, alone. I think that
1:06:44
just negates the whole argument
1:06:47
of if it's
1:06:49
wrong or right. I think that Well,
1:06:51
what's the alternative? You're gonna keep trying to
1:06:53
have kids until you have a girl and then you have
1:06:55
three kids that you essentially I'm not saying that you didn't
1:06:57
want them or that they don't you don't love them, but
1:07:00
that would be like me you
1:07:02
know, I wanna have a girl
1:07:04
so bad that I'm willing to have six kids
1:07:06
to get to the seven child that's finally a girl.
1:07:09
I mean, what's the alternative? To me, I
1:07:11
feel like why not
1:07:13
just go through the process
1:07:15
to pick the girl and then I don't bring three
1:07:18
other children into this world
1:07:21
by trying to have a girl. Right.
1:07:24
So to me, which one is more do you know
1:07:26
what I'm saying? Like, we have we live in a direct generation
1:07:28
where it's it's scientifically possible
1:07:31
to go through a process to have a baby
1:07:33
that you didn't quote unquote naturally conceive.
1:07:36
So if you have that also ability to
1:07:39
choose the gender, why I just don't see why you
1:07:41
wouldn't. So I feel like at the end of the
1:07:43
day, you're the one feeding your kids, not your
1:07:45
mother-in-law, not your mother-in-law's cousins
1:07:47
brothers to year's boyfriend. Like, none
1:07:50
of these people are feeding your kids and you're
1:07:52
taking care of them, you're living with them, you have to
1:07:54
raise them. And while they are a part of
1:07:56
that, they're not the ones that are their day
1:07:58
in and day out. So do what you want and what
1:08:00
makes you happy. That's how I feel. I
1:08:02
mean, at the end of the day, we're all going we're
1:08:05
all your mother-in-law or
1:08:07
whoever your mom, your sister. They're all gonna
1:08:09
do what they wanna do with their families and,
1:08:11
you know, maybe stop offering your opinion on their
1:08:14
life maybe they'll do they'll follow suit and stop offering
1:08:16
opinion on yours. I don't know. I won't or
1:08:18
maybe just don't fucking tell them. How about
1:08:20
that? Yeah. I was and I don't
1:08:22
I'm not saying it to be I'm not saying it in a bitchy
1:08:24
way. It's like, Kail, if you wanna have negative opinions
1:08:26
about every single thing I'm doing, I just I'm
1:08:28
not telling you anything anymore. I
1:08:31
think that's, like, the motto for
1:08:33
twenty twenty one. It's just, like,
1:08:35
don't tell anybody anything and just do what
1:08:38
makes everybody feel happy
1:08:40
and complete and whatever. Because to be
1:08:42
perfectly honest, I
1:08:45
don't really feel like any man,
1:08:49
any other woman, any whatever
1:08:51
should have, any control of
1:08:54
what a woman does with
1:08:56
her body and what decision what decisions
1:08:58
that she makes. And I think
1:09:01
that like I said, you're already going through
1:09:03
a scientific process anyway. And
1:09:05
that's just a good point. Perk of it.
1:09:07
And so -- Mhmm. -- you know, with
1:09:09
that being said, you
1:09:12
know, then you run into the okay.
1:09:14
Well, obviously, somebody's
1:09:17
choosing. right? Because if you're going through the IVF process anyway, a doctor's not going to choose to implant an unhealthy Right? Because if you're going through the IVF
1:09:19
process anyway, a doctor's not
1:09:21
going to choose to implant an unhealthy
1:09:24
embryo. So there's
1:09:26
already a selection process
1:09:29
in there to begin with. So to me,
1:09:31
it's not that big of deal. And
1:09:34
I just think I think it's so in
1:09:37
saying that we have access
1:09:39
to science in that way that
1:09:42
that can be chosen. Yeah.
1:09:44
Like, it's insane. That's such such
1:09:47
a good point. You're already going through the scientific
1:09:49
process. Like, don't know, pick
1:09:51
one friend that you're you're able to you're able
1:09:53
to trust and and doesn't judge you
1:09:56
and you feel safe with and let you know, because you
1:09:58
always you need that one person that you can talk to
1:10:00
about certain things, pick that
1:10:02
one person you trust or write into our
1:10:04
podcast, so we could discuss it for you.
1:10:07
And then just don't tell the other people the rest because
1:10:09
that's your that's your choice and your prerogative
1:10:12
and I support. I also also
1:10:14
support So anyhow, well, what are you doing
1:10:16
for the rest of the day? Anything fun? I'm
1:10:19
filming a scene, and
1:10:21
then I'm gonna take
1:10:23
my dog to the vet at three o'clock, so that's
1:10:25
fun. I feel like nothing's wrong with him just to check
1:10:27
up. Always at the vet, at the
1:10:30
doctor, at the
1:10:33
barber shop at the dermatologist
1:10:36
or the dentist? Any dermatologist? Like,
1:10:39
does it ever end? No.
1:10:41
Never. Never. Never. 00I
1:10:44
also just wanted to say that
1:10:48
I don't have frying pans in my bushes anymore.
1:10:51
And my house is complete and it feels
1:10:53
so good. It's so good. Yes. Oh
1:10:56
my god. It feels so good. I
1:10:58
spent the whole day cleaning yesterday
1:11:01
and just, like, getting all of my stuff in order.
1:11:03
I put together gift bags for something that we have
1:11:05
coming up for coffee combos and just like, yes.
1:11:08
It felt so good to just, like, have
1:11:10
my stuff in a place. But
1:11:13
anyway, Kail. Well, that's all we
1:11:15
have time for today. If you guys have not
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