Before I had kids, I always imagined having sons. At least 13 of them... After kid one... I was like lawdddd, labor was hell... I might not wanna do that again.

Well, I did... and it was another girl, completely different personality. Now they are 9 and 12.. I removed my tubes because I'm still single and unmarried. Two kids and experiencing single parent living... I don't need a third single parent experience... although there is still a 1% chance... my God wouldn't do me like that... I hope not.

Nonetheless, I always wanted to see the boy version of me... I wanted to put my son up on game about style, manners, what works/ doesn't work with girls. How to be confident no matter what... ways to protect himself while being emotionally aware. I see the loopholes in boys, young men and older men that their mama's missed... Women today are dealing with raising kids they made with men and the fathers are still struggling with their inner child. Which makes it exhausting for a partner because as a woman, you carry more mentally, emotionally and sometimes physically because as a father... they still do not understand how to step up.

Women cannot be the mother to grown men... we cannot fix their "Mama Wounds". We want them to get better, seek therapy and repair their relationships with their mom... but we cannot force it.

Each episode I will explore the needs of boys and how I would handle them... If I had a son of my own.

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