Using a keystone activity as a reflection anchor.

- Choose an activity that has meaning to you. It may be something that has uncomfortable associations, it may reflect an underlying value. It may be celebratory.

- Choose an accompanying affirmation to use as a reflection.

You can try 'I release myself from the outcome'.

- Whilst you are engaging in the activity actively reflect on thoughts and feelings that arise; the nature of the process; and the outcome of the process.

Through releasing expectations and allowing yourself to fail, you are treating yourself with compassion.

May joy flow through the cracks this Christmas.

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Without doubt we are a special bunch.

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A reminder this podcast is for general information and advice only. It is not designed to replace therapy in any way. For some people Christmas is not just stressful, it is also traumatic. 

The information provided in this podcast is not meant to address Christmas trauma. If you are experiencing trauma, overwhelming Christmas anxiety, depression, or any other mental health concern please see your GP, or your mental health therapist.

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