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Brent Sanders. And
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are real stories from
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Rio detectives. This
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week, the tangible impact
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of General Judy's policing
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and the dangers of
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online criminal activity. He
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had this mine are you going is is
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actually real Am I potentially going to have
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to take someone's life today. Yasmin
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London is a thirteen year
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veteran of the New South
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Wales Police Force. Her career
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coincides with the rapid rise
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of social media in the
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Two Thousand and Tins. As.
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Others turned a blind eye. Yasmin
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pro actively advocated for children who
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were paying the price for the
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general naive it he to the
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hidden risks of the internet. We
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were confronted snot with than adults. that
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with a fourteen year old girl. I
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have ah a cyber bullying incident. To.
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Start were heading back to
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Sydney's New Town in. The
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Thousand and Six. And
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two, a situation early in her
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career. We.
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Run a a day ceased it was in
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the afternoon you know looking towards the end
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of the shift in hyping, nothing massive was
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gonna happen. Of course we said that the
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dreaded to word which sees in I basically
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illegal in police vague but the word quiet
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and then all of a sudden you know
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they Kj guys off our with an ads
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and job down in a skin will. And.
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So we jumped in in the
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truck, lights and sirens down Cds
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like a sense and we entered
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a house which in our had
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been oscillate destroys i'm broken television
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with a foot barefoot that had
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been through add ah yeah, I'm
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cutlery everywhere, draws pulled out, beds
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thrown in are all over the
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room. Ah and we were met
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with a a young man he
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was probably in his mid thirties
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who was suffering from some kind
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of significance mental illness or mental.
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Episodes he had said that he had
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taken. I had been on there and
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I spend a for a couple of
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days and obviously having a mental illness.
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He was in integrate space so when
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are we came in try to talk
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to him. He became pretty aggressive and
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he ran out the corridor of these
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apartments. And grabbed me by that
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the chest and and flung mean see
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the side of a wall and there
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was one of those moments where you
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really recognize the power and strength that
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comes from paypal taking these sorts of
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substances that he ran out and out.
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We we sort of went on foot,
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chase him all the down kings, three
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essentially down see a clampdown which is
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pretty long or pursuit in the Nc
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live. we had to be pretty seats
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at that point in time. We lost
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him for a period of time and
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you know on foot we were looking
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for at Camp Down Try and find
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him. We had ah the cause looking
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and we ended up finding him in
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an abandoned church and in that moment
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you know when we walked into the
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church not expecting him to be there
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at. Harm you know it was really
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dark, pitch black darkness essentially in the afternoon
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and you have that moment where you're not
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sure what you're gonna find on the other
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side of that. send them what that might
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look like in our members of fear in
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in that that moment for me was was
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a lot it was. It was a lot
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to try to calm my breathing to sort
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of get my head right. We walked in,
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we were searching for him. My partner told
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me to draw my gun. And.
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Sure enough, a couple of minutes into
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our search I saw the glints over
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thirty center made a kitchen knife ahead
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of me and it was him and
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he was still very agitated. It's an
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hour and a lot looking at that
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kitchen. Nice because he was. he was
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doing see your rights with it and
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I wasn't sure in that moment like
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he had this Mine: Are you going?
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Is he actually real? My potentially gonna
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have to take some and lost today.
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They. Teach you you know in the police
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academy that this moment my com for some
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it happens the some you have a city
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career in it and it never occurs And
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it was lucky that day I didn't have
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to. my partner bag you know a lot
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more experience. amazed at a talks me syrup
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or I did have to cover the sky
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for a couple of minutes while my partner
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walked up to him and spoke to him.
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calm him down, got him to put the
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knife down and we handcuffed him and got
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into the ground on that. It was a
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pretty intense situation really early on in my
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police. Curry and we got back to
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add to the station that afternoon. the
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know we'd finished a couple of hours
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later. We have to schedule this, this
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gentleman and or member reflecting and and
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sort of saying this off the cuff.
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Sort. Of semi serious. Remark but trying to
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act cool at the time for my partner and
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said well you know that was that was pretty
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intense you know, is that usual and he kind
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of went to me might that's the job, take
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account of, hard not and get on with it.
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You six weeks in your a probationary
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constable on all the training in the
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world. goes out the window she
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just happened to that church young as sea levels
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come up and everything else and all of a
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sudden you just yourself. You don't
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see yourself as a police officer six weeks in. You've
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got the uniform on and all the rest of it.
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Suddenly you're there, you've got a police issue firearm
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in your hand and that moment of actually pointing
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a firearm at somebody and there are many police
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who as you rightly say were 20, 30, 40
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year service never had to do it. You're
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doing it six weeks in. When
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you look back over that, how does that play
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out in your mind? That whole prospect of pulling
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that trigger, applying a little bit of pressure with
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that index finger and suddenly that person's dead and
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all the ramifications that go with that and
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these are heartbeat decisions. Yeah,
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it is full-on. There's no other
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way of really describing it because
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the weight of responsibility in that moment
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is something that I don't think many
6:45
members of the public really respect or recognise
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is a daily risk for you as a
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police officer. You know holding
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out a loaded firearm, we're not used
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to that. In the police academy you
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have maybe two or three
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goes with real bullets at the shooting
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range. Most of the time you're firing
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blanks, these little plastic blue bullets that
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are in the magazine. So it's the
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weight of that. It is as you say the
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trigger. I just squeeze on
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that and in the pull
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of a finger someone's life potentially
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is gone and you've
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also got to consider do I have the right.
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You're going through the legislation in
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your head and you know your code of conduct
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and the rules around when
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you can pull a firearm out, what's
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an expected situation. This ticked every box.
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You know we were looking at a
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situation where a man was either you
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know imminently or immediately going to
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take a life or hurt himself.
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So you think about that. If I
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had to fire could I be held
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criminally responsible? And then the
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ultimate is taking someone's life away regardless
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of what had happened. You know
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and in this situation this was a
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man who had yes
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taken some illicit substances but was suffering
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a mental illness and that's an... That's
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a no win situation. Nobody wants
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that to go wrong. In
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many ways, he couldn't help the situation that
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he was in yet. We
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were looking at a situation where he might have lost
8:11
his life. For me, I had
8:13
to really reconcile, could I pull the
8:16
trigger if it came to it? If
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I did, how do I live with myself after
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that? It's such an interesting
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way to look at it, Yasmin, because you're right. It's
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the legal justification, and
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he takes a few steps toward your brandishing
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a 30-centimetre knife. You have
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genuine fear for your life or the life of
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your partner, which basically, without going onto the minutia,
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gives you the legal right to
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use fatal force against him. There's
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that, but this case also
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highlights the huge number of incidences
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that police both experience
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and experience find themselves in. Tragically,
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often some of these top-end high-level
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violent confrontations are committed by people
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who, at another time and another circumstance, you
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could be sitting down having a very rational
9:02
discussion with them. It's a
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lose-lose, isn't it? Really, I guess, in many situations
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when we look at it like that. It sure
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is. It is lose-lose. I do look at
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those situations, particularly those that hit the media.
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There's a lot of criticism from armchair experts. The
9:16
police should have done this. They should have done
9:18
that. Why didn't they do that? Why didn't they
9:21
just shoot to maim? One
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of the really important things for the public to
9:25
understand is we're not taught to maim. A,
9:28
there's a really good chance you're going to miss the
9:30
limb that you're going for. We are taught to stop
9:32
the threat, full stop. That
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is a situation. No person, no human
9:37
being. I say human being because police
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are human beings. They wear a uniform,
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but there is a person behind it.
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That person has to wear many hats
9:46
in their day. I
9:48
think there's a really interesting conversation
9:50
around perceptions of police and how
9:52
they're judged, but conversation for
9:54
another day. However, those
9:57
are lose-lose situations for the
9:59
people involved. Nobody wants anybody
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to lose their life or be injured at
10:03
the end of the day but we
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you know have taken an oath
10:08
to protect the public, to protect
10:10
life and property and if
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we don't do that you know we can
10:14
be held responsible personally so it isn't a
10:16
great situation to be in. Also
10:18
coupled with that is the is
10:21
the incredible inaccuracy of handguns. Yes. You would remember
10:23
back at the Academy the first time you picked
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up a gun and they get you about what
10:27
it's probably not even 10 foot from that target
10:29
and you shoot six rounds and you go up
10:31
how many are it maybe one is in there
10:33
and you're looking around to three the other five
10:35
rounds. Oh my gosh and it looks so close
10:37
like yeah I got this. I can't miss. I've watched bad
10:40
boys a few times. I'm all good and no
10:42
you it is actually really hard when you have
10:44
to start to learn how to use the sights
10:46
on a handgun. If you're left-handed
10:48
or right-handed depending on your stance you know
10:51
they teach you all of this stuff but
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the thing is in the Police Academy you
10:55
don't get a lot of opportunities to practice.
10:58
You can't you know bullets are expensive so
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there's not a lot of opportunity
11:02
to perfect your skills and I think
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that's a really interesting misconception when it
11:06
comes to the police is all the
11:08
training that you get or don't
11:10
get and how applicable I
11:12
guess it is to the real-world scenarios that
11:14
you're faced with. You know the Police Academy
11:17
was amazing and I had a fantastic
11:19
time and learnt and grew so much
11:21
but the real job and
11:23
the real learning starts the day you graduate.
11:26
And the idea and you mentioned it before and
11:28
we do hear this yes well why didn't
11:30
the police just you know shoot them in the arm or shoot them in
11:33
the leg. It's not like the TV
11:35
shows. You know from from
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10-15 meters away
11:39
shooting at someone as awful as it is you go for
11:42
that body mass and even then there's
11:44
a chance you're gonna miss. There's a good chance you're gonna
11:46
miss. To say well if you shot him in the wrist
11:48
he maybe dropped his gun. It's not gonna happen. I
11:53
imagine some snipers would struggle with that depending
11:56
on how far away they are. It's
11:58
not easy and in that situation You know,
12:00
you've got to take into account the pressure
12:02
from all angles, the people around you, the
12:04
members of the public. That's the other thing.
12:06
When you think about shooting someone, you've
12:08
got to think about crossfire. You've got to
12:11
think about who's behind that person. You
12:13
know, who are they holding? You know, we're
12:15
in situations where offenders will grab a child,
12:17
you know, and hold them in front of
12:19
their central body mass. How are you
12:21
going to deal with that situation? You know,
12:24
these are all of the considerations that might
12:26
go through a police officer's head in a
12:28
situation like that. Six weeks in,
12:30
this has got to be quite a light bulb
12:32
moment for you, and it's not one that most
12:34
experience six weeks in. Did it get
12:36
you to question Yasmin, you know, your career
12:38
choice? Did it get you to question yourself,
12:40
you know, personally, okay, is this for me?
12:43
Could I have taken that next step if
12:45
need be? Where did you go with
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that? Yeah, definitely. There was a
12:49
huge moment or moments of reflection.
12:52
Firstly, it was could I pull the trigger if I
12:54
had to? You know, did I have a calm
12:57
enough mind to assess the situation
13:00
effectively and make a good solid
13:02
decision? And I think rightly
13:04
or wrongly, and this is a scary thing to learn
13:06
about yourself, to be honest, I
13:09
felt that if I was pushed, I would have done it. And
13:13
that's a moment, you know, of itself,
13:15
you know, if I was pushed, could
13:17
I take a life to protect the
13:19
public or myself or my partner? Yes,
13:21
I could. And you
13:23
do judge yourself in many ways. And did
13:26
I question whether I wanted to be a
13:28
police officer? No.
13:30
You know, you get caught up in many ways
13:32
in the excitement of a job like that. It's
13:36
exciting in ways, but you know, the seriousness of
13:38
it, that's the word where we had to really
13:40
decide is this for me? It
13:42
was an interesting sort of
13:44
point of reflection where I believed that I
13:47
could have done it and what came with
13:49
that? Yasmin, you know,
13:51
the comment that was made to you by
13:53
your partner, Senior Counselor, he's got about 10
13:55
years in the job, almost
13:57
a bit of a shrugging of the shoulders looking down his
13:59
nose. is a bit sort of and there's
14:01
a bit of blokey carry on with that
14:03
too but that sort
14:07
of apathy, did you find as you move
14:09
through the job and you experience more things
14:12
like that, did you find yourself becoming a
14:14
little sort of harder in your thought process
14:16
and things like that? I think
14:18
everybody becomes a little bit harder in the
14:20
way that you think about things. It's a
14:22
self-preservation technique essentially. You're dealing with people on
14:24
the worst day of their lives in the
14:27
worst situation of their lives every day of
14:29
your week but I guess it's
14:31
something that should be considered a
14:33
lot by police officers. I'm
14:35
of the belief that that way of
14:37
thinking is a massive contributor to
14:40
the rates of PTSD that we're saying that
14:42
the lack of access
14:44
for mental health services, the lack
14:47
of a willingness to admit when you're
14:49
struggling or that something has affected you,
14:51
that sort of shut down
14:54
moment where you have to take a can
14:56
to harden up, that's the job, the response
14:58
to that. I think in 2024, in
15:01
today's day and age, it's not a
15:03
very mature response and I
15:05
think there's things
15:07
that in my time I've tried
15:10
to do better. I've tried to make sure
15:12
that I've recognized if somebody was struggling,
15:14
I've watched if I had colleagues that
15:16
were having a hard time. I've asked
15:18
the question, are you okay? It's important
15:22
for us as police
15:24
officers to make sure that we're
15:26
looking after each other and not putting
15:28
ego before our health and that was
15:30
maybe a catalyst moment, that first six
15:32
weeks kind of being a bit shocked
15:35
at that response. Maybe it
15:37
made me do the opposite in
15:39
terms of the way I addressed
15:41
my colleagues then. That's really
15:43
interesting because you're right, you go back further and
15:45
further at time in the job and the general
15:48
consensus was you didn't complain, you didn't put your
15:50
hand up, you just did what you had to do
15:53
and anything other than that was seen as
15:55
weakness and that type of thing. I
15:57
say this with due respect, you said at times you felt
16:00
like a bit of a square peg and a
16:02
round hole and you equated that to your
16:04
personality which is very open, very
16:07
empathetic coming up against a
16:09
different type of personality. Yeah, I think
16:11
I probably wasn't meant
16:14
to be in a paramilitary organisation
16:16
in that context. My
16:19
parents had probably attest to the fact that
16:21
I was always a very outspoken rebellious child
16:23
and that's always sort of gone with me.
16:25
So the rules are meant to
16:27
be bent or broken according to my life. So
16:31
yeah, I was a different kind of
16:33
police officer. I didn't fit the mould. In
16:37
many ways, I liked to be really positive. I liked
16:39
to be a good communicator. I
16:42
tried to be myself despite the
16:44
fact that I was wearing a
16:46
uniform that people would always make
16:48
assumptions about me purely because I
16:50
was wearing it. While
16:53
I think that was difficult early on,
16:56
people made judgements about the fact that I
16:58
looked a certain way or maybe I was
17:00
a bit airheaded. I
17:04
had a colleague I remember early on
17:06
who didn't know me when I first
17:09
started at Newtown. He called me a lava lamp.
17:11
I went, what do you mean lava lamp?
17:15
She said pretty
17:17
to look at but not much else going on.
17:20
No other functions that
17:22
are any good. So you go through
17:24
that and that's your sort of introduction
17:26
to a police force that's
17:28
meant to be about protection but culturally
17:31
it could be really different. I
17:33
think for me, I'm
17:36
gay and at
17:38
that point in time didn't fit the
17:40
mould. I guess the public persona, if you
17:42
will, what the public would think a lesbian
17:44
looked like. They watch Mardi
17:46
Gras and see dykes on bikes and think that
17:49
is the category that I should be within and
17:51
I didn't fit that. So
17:53
there was a lot of challenging of is
17:55
she really gay? She just needs
17:57
to be turned with the right man.
18:00
I had off-the-cuff remarks happen like that,
18:02
but I also had really serious situations
18:04
that impacted my safety because of that
18:06
attitude. I had a police sergeant that
18:08
I worked with who made
18:10
a move, obviously was rejected, and he
18:14
wouldn't talk to me. There were about six
18:16
or eight weeks while we were on shift
18:18
together, so wouldn't answer the police radio. So
18:20
if we look at that situation that we've
18:23
talked about earlier where we've got a person
18:25
with mental ill health who is violent, and
18:28
you've got a person who won't respond to
18:30
your calls on the police radio, that places
18:32
you in significant jeopardy. And so these are
18:34
the situations where you don't fit the mould
18:36
when you aren't the normal sort of cookie-cutter
18:39
police officer that sometimes you
18:42
come up against and
18:44
you've got to find your way through that.
18:46
You've got to find your allies and your
18:48
advocates and really lean into
18:50
your resilience and knowing who
18:52
you are and what you stand for.
18:56
But as a 23-year-old, I didn't
18:58
know myself that well, and that confidence
19:00
comes with time and maturity. So it
19:02
was a gross area and period of
19:04
time for sure. Police
19:06
force has always continues to be a very
19:08
tough environment for women. I mean, you can't
19:10
dress that up. It just is. The
19:13
time that you went into the job, which is close
19:15
to 20 years ago, far more
19:18
men than women. Women
19:20
were the minority on section and that type of thing.
19:22
And we know, and I've had the privilege of having
19:25
a lot of ex-serving police women on the other side
19:27
of the desk. And they do.
19:29
They talk about this. It's a common theme through all of
19:31
it. Interesting too picking
19:34
up there, Yasmin, it's
19:36
dealing with other female police officers that
19:39
can sometimes be perhaps equally
19:41
as tough. Would that be a fair call? Absolutely.
19:44
I think, you know, to build on your point about
19:46
how difficult it is for women in the police, One
19:49
of the ways that they succeed is to
19:51
become like men. And In many ways, you
19:54
know, as much of a man as any
19:56
other man in the police force and to
19:58
really go toe to toe and nose to
20:00
nose with them. And for yeah, you do
20:02
come across women who, ah, Aggressively
20:04
anti feminist and who don't like
20:07
the wide that you look oh
20:09
that sink in I didn't know.
20:11
Make assumptions in ways that are
20:13
some. Categorically untrue
20:16
and and Joji without getting center years.
20:18
So in one of the things that
20:20
always does work in the job though
20:22
is to become a good operate on
20:24
and that's how you gain respects and
20:26
sorry I. The time you pay attention
20:28
you'd get opportunities to sorry what you've
20:30
got. You know how you can contribute,
20:32
how you do with an offender, how
20:35
you write you know a report, how
20:37
you deal with a brace. Everything like
20:39
that starts to come together and your
20:41
reputation like it or lump it begins
20:43
to proceed you and sorry you can
20:45
look. Like I do Or you can look
20:47
like your typical doc on a bike. Whatever
20:49
you want to be. Not the one is
20:51
better than the other at all, but just
20:53
in terms of assumptions that people might make
20:55
about you based on physical appearance. your your
20:57
work will will speak for you as they
20:59
insulate. Two
21:17
thousand and twelve you moved to
21:19
the Rose by command. Very wealthy
21:21
Sydney suburb. one of the wealthiest
21:23
city suburbs had some Sydney harbour
21:26
this automates and ah the assumption
21:28
perhaps poison saw the police and
21:30
otherwise is a pretty cozy command.
21:33
His involvement to were to police
21:35
the reality for you was quite
21:37
different. Yeah, i think i grew
21:39
up in the ice and suburb so
21:42
i had a really good understanding of
21:44
of rice bay and the types of
21:46
people that lived there and i guess
21:48
when i started the types of experience
21:51
that were very unexpected so it's a
21:53
very high socio economic area you know
21:55
people made the assumption both are in
21:57
the police force an external that were
22:00
people didn't really have problems, you know, that they
22:02
had these amazing super yachts that they went out
22:04
on and, you know, maybe their worst part of
22:06
their day was when their bag of coke didn't
22:08
turn up. But what
22:10
I actually found was there was a
22:13
significant amount of mental health in that
22:15
command. Domestic violence
22:17
obviously occurred, but
22:19
it was quite different to
22:22
what you might experience in other
22:24
areas. So let's say Western Sydney and
22:26
the volume of physical assaults that might
22:28
happen there. We were dealing with
22:31
financial domestic violence. We were
22:33
dealing with emotional domestic violence
22:35
coercion, these sort of quite
22:38
sophisticated ways of dealing with
22:41
different people in those situations. But
22:44
of course the physical was there too. I can
22:47
recall, you know, a job not so
22:49
long before I finished up there where
22:51
we had a recidivist victim and
22:54
we had a job in Paddington and we
22:56
turned up to this job and her throat
22:58
had been slit. She was still alive. It
23:00
obviously hadn't caught the jugular. But
23:02
I remember this moment where we sort of come up
23:05
to her and started talking to her and asked who
23:07
did it and she told us that she did it
23:09
to herself. Like that was the level of protection
23:12
that she wanted to afford her
23:14
partner in that moment. And, you know,
23:17
it really speaks to the difficulties that
23:19
police have in court processes as well
23:21
when you're dealing with that sort of
23:23
level of mental health and domestic violence
23:25
that's going on. And that was happening
23:27
in, you know, the richest postcode in
23:29
Australia. So it was seen
23:31
as a cruisy command and yep, we went down
23:33
to Bondi and, you know, had a coffee with
23:35
the lifeguards every now and then. But
23:38
it really did have a dark underbelly as
23:40
well once you were there for long enough.
23:42
It's interesting. You know, that term coercive
23:45
control, Yasmin, is one that we're getting
23:47
more familiarity with, aren't we? And
23:50
it's interesting to note that, you know, when you
23:52
work in areas, and I don't mean
23:54
to generalise, but when you work in what are
23:56
recognised as say tougher areas of Sydney, Domestic
23:59
violence is. There's often a nice
24:01
as a cool com takes its or
24:03
possibly alcohol fueled and things such as
24:05
that. you go into a different demographic
24:07
and it was interesting suited to you
24:09
know, use terms like financial and coercive.
24:12
Control. And I would say
24:14
at the risk of generalizable think
24:17
weekends overwhelmingly miles. Who
24:19
are cover Sibley controlling their partners
24:21
three finance through through all sorts
24:23
of different mains and dumb and
24:26
is powerful people. They really are and
24:28
they will be the first to turn around and
24:30
say the in a high on your i'm a
24:32
barista, I'm a lawyer out and it's really interesting.
24:34
Hasn't he been in the job long enough? Ego.
24:37
Of what sort of lawyer I and
24:40
now sound them environmental lawyer and say
24:42
the Sky A Cat will get new
24:44
level of understanding of their own posturing
24:46
that you're putting on right now doesn't
24:48
mean anything and I'm working within the
24:50
law and my rights and what I
24:53
should be doing to protect the public
24:55
so you can call them on that
24:57
That Yes, there was certainly powerful people
24:59
controlling many parts of their families. I
25:01
certainly their partners that united are in
25:03
the some significant ones where we had
25:06
men who were controlling their. Elderly mothers
25:08
by withholding medication in I to try
25:10
and make sure that they died a
25:12
little earlier said that I could receive
25:14
an inheritance it I All of that
25:16
started to come in supply and we
25:18
learn about the spectrum of domestic violence
25:20
not just being physical abuse that all
25:22
of these other facets of them be
25:24
seen a to be on the lookout
25:26
for and how do you gather evidence
25:28
around that sense you know for. For.
25:31
Offices in A in the come on. We
25:33
weren't really taught on any major level. How.
25:36
To do that in, I had Yo
25:38
Yo procedures for an investigation and particularly
25:40
when it comes to domestic violence. The
25:43
statement: hiking gear, your ability to question
25:45
and into the paypal was really important.
25:49
Those sorts of crimes weren't common until
25:51
he got to places like Rise By.
25:53
In my experience, interesting to you know,
25:56
I'm again without preps, trying to generalize
25:58
if you're working and I. The
26:00
and a command entered a
26:02
tougher demographic. The. Sort of
26:05
a police car pulling up that the front of
26:07
the house it doesn't attract. No one bats an
26:09
eyelid. in fact, in a young some in some
26:11
areas. if there's no police car in the straight
26:13
on a day or a couple days people gamble,
26:15
what's what's going on here? You. Go
26:17
to simulate Rose by. A
26:20
police car pulls up outside one of those
26:22
big Rose by an eye on mentioned some
26:24
of these homes the homes of carry packers
26:27
and some of these other people to see
26:29
a police car in the street to see
26:31
police actually going to an address. This is
26:33
something that many people in those environments haven't
26:36
seen. Who's calling you
26:38
to summers because he would be a
26:40
reluctance to even those on the receiving
26:42
end. And often times with domestic violence,
26:44
police aren't getting cold by the tiger
26:47
to the violence. other so you're often
26:49
getting caught by neighbors by children. But
26:51
things on that guess it's definitely. Say
26:53
it's neighbors are an interesting one in an
26:55
area like this because of their yeah perception
26:57
and as some sensitive in the rights and
26:59
way that they want to leave say in
27:01
a to speak and police cars handing off
27:04
in straight sets. The why is interesting because
27:06
he know you're going to deal with neighbors,
27:08
he will come up to you and demands
27:10
and I while there and this sort of
27:12
presumption, an expectation that I have a right
27:14
to know the ins and outs of what's
27:16
going on. This is dire straight they are
27:18
in that land. This is my house. Has
27:20
your why do you know that are yes I
27:22
do effect of her allies. Is our it?
27:24
I guess it's. It's. Something
27:26
that you do learn in a in a
27:29
come on like rise Bay that. In.
27:31
Many ways tape like that. A really easy to
27:34
deal with when you know how to deal money,
27:36
know the right things to say when you're dealing
27:38
with a guy is can manipulate people quite easily
27:40
that way and they don't really realize it and
27:42
say you know and I don't expect it from
27:44
a loyal a police officer a them. on
27:47
that's not to say no not that we
27:49
manipulate paypal but it's it's about knowing how
27:51
to address paypal whether they are a billionaire
27:53
or there is an usher in a school
27:55
in are you treat everybody equally but you
27:58
know what levels to pull when it comes
28:00
to trying to make that situation work for
28:02
you. And by that I mean make
28:04
sure that everybody is safe, that we're getting
28:06
the information that we need, that we're understanding
28:09
the facts of what's actually occurred and creating
28:12
a better outcome basically because we're there.
28:15
They do call the neighbours, the kids will
28:18
call. We have had,
28:20
speaking of kids, I worked a lot
28:22
as a youth liaison officer and dealing
28:24
with a lot of kids who were
28:26
very violent and families who
28:28
were really reluctant to call because they
28:30
didn't want to compromise their child's futures,
28:33
thinking that they were going to get
28:35
charged with offences and taken to court
28:37
and getting a criminal record. So this
28:40
reluctance to involve police
28:42
by many facets of that
28:44
community, you had to really earn
28:46
their trust first before they would give you a
28:48
call and tell you what was really going on.
28:52
Yasmin, you mentioned high levels of
28:54
mental health issues. I'm just
28:56
interested in a snapshot of the typical type
28:58
of mental health issues that our frontline police
29:00
officer in Rose Bay would be dealing with.
29:03
It could be everything. It could be
29:05
anxiety, depression. It can be drug
29:08
overdoses that have happened
29:11
sometimes. Partners or kids
29:13
or family will say that they've done
29:15
it for attention and that there isn't
29:17
actually mental illness and you're dealing with
29:19
that scenario. Where
29:22
I was probably called most and spent
29:24
the most of my time, as probably
29:26
every other officer at Rose Bay would
29:28
attest to, is a location called The
29:31
Gap, which for any non-Sydney listeners, that's
29:34
a 96-metre high cliff top in
29:36
Watson's Bay. It
29:38
is one of the most famous suicide hotspots in
29:41
the world. So if you were to Google The
29:43
Gap, typically it comes up in the first page
29:45
or the first ten search results of the best
29:47
ways to kill yourself. As
29:50
an officer there, particularly
29:52
at certain parts or times of the
29:55
year, we'd be there sometimes several times
29:57
a week, sometimes several times a year.
29:59
shift to deal with people who were
30:01
wanting to end their life. And
30:04
that was a lesson in of itself. We
30:06
again in the police academy got a bit of training
30:09
on how to speak to people in these situations
30:11
and circumstances. But really when you are
30:13
on a cliff top with someone trying
30:15
to understand why they're there
30:18
and wondering if the next thing you say
30:21
might not be the right thing or might
30:23
make things worse and cause them to jump,
30:26
that's a pressure and an experience that
30:28
nothing can really prepare you for. And
30:31
so you have to go really within yourself
30:33
and I talk a lot about that human
30:36
element of policing because that's what you are
30:38
relied upon to give. You are talking person
30:40
to person. You metaphorically take a
30:42
uniform off and you're there trying to
30:44
understand how you can help a person
30:47
in crisis. And
30:49
sometimes they might have schizophrenia, they're hearing voices
30:51
and there's nothing that you can do about
30:53
that other than try to get them to
30:56
listen to you over the voice that tells
30:58
them to jump off that cliff. Just
31:03
on that yes, in 2014 you'd been at the Rose Bay Command
31:05
for a couple of years and as you say, no doubt
31:08
numerous visits to the
31:10
gap in that role. There
31:13
was a case though in 2014 you got a call in
31:15
the morning that there was someone at the gap. Can
31:18
you walk us through this case? Sure.
31:21
This incident changed my life. It
31:23
was really one of those moments
31:25
that just set me on a different path.
31:28
So we had a job come in,
31:30
lights and sirens down to the gap and
31:32
we got out of the car, walked
31:35
up the stairs to gap loss and
31:37
we were confronted not with an
31:39
adult but with a 14-year-old girl
31:42
who was over the incorrect side of the fence
31:45
up at the gap over a cyberbullying
31:48
incident. Back
31:50
in that year, I knew about
31:52
social media, I knew about Facebook
31:54
and I'd heard of Instagram but
31:57
this was a situation that really woke me up to
31:59
the power of... social media and the online world
32:01
for young people. So
32:03
I spoke to this girl and asked her
32:05
what had happened and tried to get out
32:07
of her, you know, what caused her to
32:09
come to this point. And she said that
32:11
someone had taken a picture of her in
32:13
class without her knowledge and had
32:16
uploaded it to Instagram where people
32:18
who she thought were her friends
32:20
and then other random strangers critiqued
32:22
how she looked, you know, told
32:24
her that she had a terrible face, that
32:27
she was fat and ugly. And
32:29
then at the end of this message thread, someone
32:31
said, why don't you drink bleach and kill
32:33
yourself? Now,
32:37
she obviously didn't choose that method,
32:39
but it did take her to
32:41
a cliff edge within moments of
32:43
stepping off it. And in
32:46
that moment, you know, I
32:48
didn't really know what to say
32:50
to that. I had no experience
32:52
in the online world and didn't
32:54
really know about social media. And
32:57
so I just had to keep talking
32:59
to her and talking to her about
33:01
the reasons that she had to keep
33:03
going to really empathize and validate her
33:06
feelings, despite the fact that I couldn't
33:08
agree with them. But
33:11
I've since learned, obviously, you know, the right way
33:13
to deal with people is to validate where they're
33:15
at. And this
33:17
particular conversation, you know, it was a long one. This one
33:19
took hours, hours to get her over the correct side of
33:22
the fence, which we did in the end. But
33:24
it wasn't just me as well. It was polar
33:27
in the sky. It was Marine Area Command waiting
33:29
in the water for when she went off. And
33:33
those moments, it's just that's never
33:35
left me. And that really did
33:38
make me realize the power of the
33:40
online world for kids. And
33:42
for us as adults, you know, how much
33:44
we need to do better in understanding how
33:46
to help them manage the risks that it
33:48
poses for them. And
33:50
so at that point in time, I was doing a
33:52
little bit of work as a Youth Liaison Officer in
33:54
the command. And part of my job was to go
33:56
to schools and to educate kids and students on a
33:59
range of different things. And at that
34:01
point in time, I had a slide deck with the
34:03
Telecommunications Criminal Code Act on it where I was meant
34:05
to turn up and tell kids that if you shared
34:07
a nude image or you were mean to someone online,
34:09
you were going to be arrested and go to jail
34:12
for 12 years. This
34:14
is ridiculous. And they could see
34:16
right through it as well. And so for me,
34:18
I like to be effective in the things that
34:20
I do. So I changed the way that we
34:23
delivered that information. I did it
34:25
without permission as per my childhood
34:28
tendencies to not listen and
34:30
not abide by the rules. But
34:33
I wanted to start making a difference
34:35
in kids' lives in this area. And
34:38
so I guess, yeah, it set me on a
34:40
different trajectory. As part
34:42
of that as well, we created a
34:44
youth-based film festival which was
34:47
inspired by those events, which was
34:50
really a purposeful event where we got
34:52
kids to use mobile phones as a
34:54
tool for good, of empowerment, of storytelling
34:56
rather than a tool to bully each
34:58
other. And so we created
35:00
this amazing film festival about a year
35:02
later where kids in their
35:05
thousands participated and created
35:07
short stories on their mobile phones about
35:09
their experiences in the online world and what
35:11
they wanted the adults around them to do.
35:14
And the crux of that tragically was
35:17
this young girl, goodness me, 14 year
35:19
nine, who's
35:21
standing on the edge of the gap for
35:24
several hours, could have ended obviously
35:27
tragically. I'm
35:30
really interested in exploring some
35:32
of the work that you've done as a result of that
35:35
moving forward. Could I just take
35:37
half a step back when that
35:39
young girl steps over the other side
35:41
of the fence and she's back there with you and
35:45
you embrace her or somebody does and she's now
35:48
safe. What happens there? What's the police involvement?
35:51
Because there's a real conundrum isn't there with
35:53
the work that you do with those people
35:56
and how draining, exhausting it must be and
35:58
you get them back over the... there.
36:01
And then it's sort of like there's almost nothing.
36:05
It's an ongoing battle and I really
36:07
hope in my time since I've been in
36:09
the police that this has improved. But in
36:11
my time we had so
36:13
many instances countless where we would talk
36:15
people back, we would schedule them, which
36:18
means that we take them against their
36:20
will a lot of the time to
36:22
the police, to the hospital
36:24
I should say, where they are
36:26
to see a psychiatrist, a doctor and they may
36:29
or may not be admitted. In
36:32
many cases, unless
36:35
you stay with them as a police officer, they
36:37
will not voluntarily stay there. They don't want to
36:39
be scheduled. They don't want to go into a
36:41
clinic a lot of the time. And so we
36:43
would have situations we're on the same shift. We
36:45
would schedule someone in the morning. We would take
36:47
them to the hospital. We would
36:49
have to leave because we only had
36:51
a couple of trucks on a shift
36:53
and we'd have to get back to
36:55
our area and we'd find that same
36:58
person back at the gap in the
37:00
afternoon because the hospital had released them.
37:02
And I remember we had quite a
37:04
few arguments with the numbs in the
37:06
emergency departments and the security officers because
37:08
somebody had to babysit this person until
37:10
they could be seen. And if they
37:12
were triaged and they weren't triaged as
37:15
a person that was going to cause themselves
37:18
immediate harm if they were sitting with a
37:20
police officer in a hospital, which is highly
37:22
likely is going to be under control, then
37:24
they're often left. And so we have to
37:27
sit there, limited resources in the police force,
37:29
and make sure that they stay and actually
37:31
receive the treatment that they need or
37:34
we leave and risk that they will go
37:36
off and hurt themselves and they'll go through
37:38
with what we just intervened in or that
37:40
we'd have to deal with them again six
37:42
hours later. And
37:44
respectfully, the skill that it takes to talk somebody
37:47
back from an edge like that, that
37:49
is a skill, there is no doubt. But when
37:51
you're there sitting with them at the closest hospital, what
37:53
is Prince of Wales or wherever it might be? The
37:55
main sense of Prince of Wales, yes. You're sitting alongside
37:57
this person. You're not a... side
38:00
counsellor, you're not a psychologist you know but
38:02
you're sort of almost having to play that
38:04
pseudo role with them as you're looking at
38:06
your watch going well it
38:08
seems very inadequate
38:11
that process for mine. Has
38:13
it improved to your knowledge? Look not
38:15
to my knowledge I believe that you know
38:17
police are still in situations where I mean
38:20
hospitals are in the same boat right there's
38:22
no resources there is limited
38:24
funding and it goes in a variety
38:26
of different areas certainly not to security
38:28
guards or people who have the opportunity
38:30
to sit and do nothing but you
38:32
know hang out with a patient. So
38:34
no I don't believe
38:37
it has improved there was you know
38:39
a memorandum of understanding that was being
38:41
negotiated around the time that I left
38:43
I hope that it has improved because
38:45
we need police to be on the
38:48
job we need them to be out
38:50
there protecting the public rather than you
38:52
know sitting in a hospital ward with
38:54
a patient while that's incredibly important and
38:56
that person needs support and care it's
38:58
not the job of police to do
39:00
that. So Yasmin that tragic
39:02
case as you said it and it's I don't
39:04
think I'm overstating it it changed your life it
39:07
changed the course of your
39:09
career in the police and even perhaps we could
39:11
argue led to a springboard from leaving the police
39:14
and the work that you still do. You
39:16
mentioned that part of what you did
39:18
was through your youth aid was bring
39:20
these young people together and the term
39:22
I think pocket filmmaking is that can
39:24
you explain that? Yeah pocket
39:26
filmmaking so what we
39:28
tried to do given that this you know
39:30
situation that happened with the girl at the
39:33
Gap was was caused by a cyberbally incident
39:35
you know the centre of that was a
39:37
mobile phone we were really
39:39
trying to be creative about the way
39:41
that we could ensure that young people's
39:43
voices were heard in an accessible way
39:45
and to utilise a tool like the
39:47
mobile phone for good and so we
39:49
created this film festival where kids could
39:51
tell their stories about their
39:53
experiences both good and bad to the
39:56
adults in their lives. The
39:58
film festival was called Realise and it's still
40:00
going today, whatever
40:02
it is, 15 years later, 10, my
40:04
maths is terrible, whatever it was. But
40:07
it was a powerful moment. In
40:10
that time, what we
40:12
knew that we needed to
40:14
attract kids and adults
40:16
alike to this festival was to have
40:18
an ambassador. I
40:20
had watched a celebrity called
40:22
Charlotte Dawson for a while
40:24
experience some pretty significant online
40:26
trolling. I'd read the media
40:28
and seen the reports. I
40:32
approached her and asked her if she would be
40:34
our ambassador. Like
40:36
the amazing woman that she was, she didn't
40:38
even blink and I didn't hesitate and said
40:41
yes, absolutely. So I got
40:43
to know her over the time that we
40:45
ran Realize in the first couple of years.
40:48
She was an amazing woman, obviously
40:51
no longer with us, also
40:54
a situation where she took her own
40:56
life, but a significant part
40:58
of her experience was negative
41:01
online behavior directed towards her by members
41:03
of the public. As
41:06
part of Realize and getting to know her, I
41:08
started to work with her a little more around
41:10
her experiences. I
41:13
guess it was another moment, another layer
41:15
of exposure to this world and
41:17
the impact that it has on everyday human
41:20
beings. When I was talking to
41:22
Charlotte, we'd meet and have a Gozleme
41:24
down at Double Bay Markets and she talked to
41:26
me about how people would send her pictures of
41:30
dead babies on Twitter and how could she
41:32
get rid of that. I'd
41:34
learnt a little bit more about it, obviously
41:37
subsequent to this experience. We
41:39
tried to put in reports. We
41:41
didn't know much about the eSafety Commissioner
41:43
at that time and it would take
41:45
days for Twitter to remove posts like
41:48
that from her feed, let alone mean
41:50
and nasty comments or people that had trolled
41:53
her. It was a
41:55
really tricky scenario from a human perspective
41:57
because Charlotte was a really strong
41:59
woman. and really fierce advocate
42:02
and did not want to
42:04
back down to trolls. Now
42:06
the advice that we would often give
42:08
someone in those scenarios is to not
42:10
respond, is to block, report, restrict, whatever
42:13
it might be, but Charlotte
42:15
wouldn't do that. And on one hand,
42:17
I totally respected Maya her fight, but
42:19
on the other hand, all
42:21
it did was encourage more and more
42:24
trolls and pylons in her life.
42:28
We had situations where she
42:30
had my personal number, so she'd call me
42:32
in the middle of the night and just
42:34
want to talk about what had gone on
42:36
and she was quite emotional and upset about
42:38
it as would anyone be. And
42:41
it's certainly not the reason
42:44
that she's no longer here, but certainly
42:46
a contributor to her mental health at
42:48
that time and another example that we
42:50
can't let this sort of behaviour go
42:52
on. Your connection with
42:54
Charlotte Dawson both in a professional
42:56
level and a personal level was
42:58
such that I understand that with
43:01
her tragic death taking her own life,
43:03
it becomes a coroner's case and you
43:05
I think submitted a report to
43:07
the coroner. I thought the right thing
43:09
to do, I went and saw the
43:12
OIC who was at King's Cross, which
43:14
is the area that Charlotte had lived
43:17
and I asked if it would be okay if
43:19
I submitted a report and
43:21
just detailed her experiences and the
43:23
people that we had tried
43:26
to investigate, tried
43:28
to bring some charges against.
43:31
We didn't end up being successful in
43:33
that because it was really difficult to identify
43:35
beyond a reasonable doubt that this person
43:37
who wrote this comment was the person sitting
43:40
behind the screen at the time. But
43:43
I thought it was really important that that was
43:45
included, at least for consideration for the coroner. Yasmin,
43:48
you're 10 years on from the incident
43:50
at The Gap and it was
43:53
that incident as tragic as it was but not as
43:55
tragic as it may have been had it not been
43:57
for your intervention, Which took you
43:59
on that different the half way through the police
44:02
which is now leads you Yeah, leaving the place
44:04
of your own volition and and going there meant
44:06
that. So that path with as you've just described
44:08
the company that you now that you now running
44:10
that young go see Be twenty four now. Do.
44:13
The wonder. Where. She is
44:16
has she got on, Do not? I don't
44:18
know, but I wander off and. I.
44:20
Have say that sees ha. I
44:23
mean when we got off that
44:25
cliff, it's obviously very high intensity
44:27
situation. Did I feel
44:30
like see would return soon
44:32
thing in my.said she would
44:34
be okay. I'm. In. I
44:36
die situations as well. What brought her to.more
44:38
immense was obviously a cyber bullying incident. A
44:40
terrible thing that happened. It's certainly not the
44:43
only thing that was going on in her
44:45
life, so that's one of the things you've
44:47
gotta remembered. As always. Elements.
44:50
That contribute to a person ending
44:52
up in that particular situation. But
44:54
sometimes it takes that to change
44:56
your life. That takes that to
44:58
really recognize way you want to
45:00
go. She struck me as a
45:03
girl that was going to be
45:05
okay. She had an amazing support
45:07
system, a lovely and wonderful family.
45:09
Do. I wonder where she is? Yes. A.
45:12
Hype that sees iti. I
45:14
really feel axes and I'm really grateful
45:16
to try to role in. Making so
45:18
that that I was and hella. Yes
45:24
when I want to thank you so
45:26
much for coming in to the studio
45:28
to have a chat with today. Thirteen
45:30
years of service to the good people
45:32
New South Wales and ah, thank you
45:34
so much for your service and thank
45:36
you for the work that you continue
45:38
to do in that area. That is
45:41
that much much needed area with regards
45:43
to understanding, dealing with and trying to
45:45
reduce cyber bullying. And because this is
45:47
a world that you're too young children
45:49
growing up and mine have grown up
45:51
and and we just cannot do enough
45:53
in that spice and. To have got their.
45:55
on the back of the with he didn't the places
45:58
to such a wonderful story and and think you some
46:00
for sharing it with us. Thank you so much for
46:02
having me, it's been an absolute pleasure. Crime
46:08
Insiders Detectives is a listener
46:10
original production. It's
46:13
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46:15
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46:17
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46:19
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