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1:35

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1:37

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1:40

I friend. I

1:43

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1:56

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1:59

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2:01

is. It takes time. Am I gonna let

2:03

you take time to get what you want

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Eighty season. Oh my goodness. A specific come

2:14

a long way man. Eighty years ago Isis

2:16

fact That ago skinny assorted show. Eighteen years

2:19

later I do. I get a limp, I

2:21

have to get my hip replaced and having

2:23

a hip transplant. A. Hip

2:26

replacement. Is

2:28

not a transplant. Missing as think

2:30

about this for a second. If I could get a

2:32

hip transplant who's hip, what I want? The

2:36

As. A thought. Haven't had that. one

2:38

of it's a replacement. Good. A Heavy

2:40

how are you? My name is Scott Smith

2:42

Benefits if put waiting officer here Motivation who.com

2:44

today recording these shows the day before I

2:46

go in for yes. A hip replacement

2:48

kosher. Fun story with if it's all about

2:50

the in life. We all go through lot

2:52

to transition so there's no doubt about it

2:54

in every stage of life. depended eighteen going

2:56

to nineteen and twenty nine going to thirty.

3:00

Still, Time left for us. It's

3:02

always a transition throughout life and certainly I've been through

3:05

that does a number times. Gotten pretty good at doing

3:07

it, but make no mistake when you have something I'm

3:09

doing now. Getting hip France but

3:11

in office proposal. It's. Weird is

3:13

kind of strange. So I i

3:15

i go to my doctor the other day. The.

3:19

Pre up Check out Bright. Does it look at me?

3:21

okay? Get your hips to ban. Let's go fix it.

3:24

So. He does all his thing. Takes all

3:26

but about six minutes the do. A nice guy

3:28

asked a question because. I am

3:30

not a guy that likes to hack life. I.

3:32

Don't need to push that hard. I yes, I'm gold

3:34

driven. I like to do things for them and optimizers.

3:37

I. Like to hire good coaches. I like to figure out

3:39

what's the most optimal path for me to get what

3:41

I want. Acid from your point

3:43

of view that you're the boss doc right? You're the

3:45

guy that air by the doctor see with the doc

3:47

says you're the boss talk. So

3:50

what are you tell me in your opinion?

3:52

When. You're laying in. I think it about Scott

3:54

having a hip replacement. What should

3:56

scott to? What? What advice would you gifts

3:59

got? He's.

4:01

Well. I've been loosened your

4:03

podcast. First

4:05

it was my pastor sort of islam I pod guess

4:07

know my doctor. For

4:10

you know it's gonna be my account month at the

4:12

be in serious trouble. He

4:14

said. Keep moving.

4:17

Gotta get back up. What

4:21

would you book by? It's

4:23

satellites, that's that's very least.

4:26

Is it really is? It was your specifies the sometimes

4:28

yet to hear things people say Those me close to

4:30

your is I believe in hiring a coach. I

4:33

believe in the city where people who are experts tell you a

4:35

lot of times they won't tell you because they're gonna cover the

4:37

but rights They don't know who they're talking to. the got of

4:39

I'm gonna be sure to raise Okay you want to take on

4:42

a lawsuit? Stuff like that. He just

4:44

wasn't sure. Professionals. Take

4:46

a time Lot arrest. Or

4:49

good advice he got You do that no matter which, doing right

4:51

or similar prose. take your time good lot or as you don't

4:53

have to have a hip replacement to do that. You

4:55

do that yourself. Busy. Keep

4:57

moving. He's. A Don't fall down, don't Would

4:59

you get back up? Do that. Us as a can. He

5:03

said. But at the into

5:05

this got don't be stupid with your leg as

5:07

it now you're talking about language. And

5:09

can we do that with anything in life? Really

5:11

can't. I can't tell you how many people

5:14

I talked to a day by day, week by week basis.

5:18

Biased I tell him. You. Just been

5:20

stupid, you know? And I know it when you don't have four. So

5:23

that's the rule today. Whatever you do and don't

5:25

be stupid with your life, whatever decision you're about

5:27

to make, but you know can be stupid cause

5:29

look at the Mayor, you've done it before. Raise

5:31

your has a yes I have. No.

5:33

Be stupid. Be. Smart. Okay,

5:37

I'm panic and often run deny I gotta

5:39

give you some stream a conscious as before

5:41

I go unconscious. My

5:43

hip than. Thirty

5:45

days of crazy. Sometimes.

5:50

I know you are. I. Know

5:52

we're working with my Face Your Passion Coach and Group. What?

5:54

A great group of people. My God. It's

5:57

amazing! Will open the Republican soon and introduced

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to so to. Madame and me you want to come and

6:01

join us. And or

6:03

the drive in the so crazy and the reason is

6:05

because are there Google in their tic Toc in. Their

6:08

do novice on what tick tock tick tock. For.

6:12

The don't know, it's stuff, debates and to everything

6:14

but themselves to get confused. Got too much stuff

6:16

in you had to get information overload. Do with

6:18

the stork. Say it. Adequate information. Drop the overloaded

6:20

sucks. Don't do it. So.

6:22

Much information coming in their mouths right now. A guy, the brain,

6:24

maybe the mouse on oh no, my dear, eat the stuff on

6:26

who knows, So. Much come in and. Of

6:29

can't make a decision. So.

6:32

What have you know? Whatever you desire, everything starts with a

6:34

thought you've heard that would you think to get right to

6:36

when a man think as. To.

6:39

What You haven't read? That. Argument

6:42

and Aca take what it is. Do homework.

6:45

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6:48

all there is to it when interface pressure group. it's

6:50

all about awareness and attention. We talk about that all

6:52

the time. I just feel like if when you become

6:54

aware of what's getting your attention you can change anything.

6:56

because right now I know most people would get their

6:58

attention is not doing any good for you at all.

7:05

So what happens? When. You find

7:07

yourself with something getting your attention. Suddenly

7:10

you listen to this podcast his do name skies

7:12

his hip replaced. But he saying. They

7:15

didn't become aware. What I do now is something or

7:17

else I'm ahead. but if you done my homework assignment

7:19

a give you every single Monday. Perfectly.

7:22

planner.com is a great place to start for

7:24

that. You.

7:27

Know this couple things. When. I thought

7:29

comes in your head. You.

7:31

Have a couple of options. Are

7:33

some he all or sit on thought since you

7:35

were eighteen years old and you turn sixty this

7:37

year and as drive you insane joy or better

7:39

news of about it. Yeah. You die

7:42

soon, like won't listen the next forty years. Okay, you

7:44

better do some about it. Does

7:46

being honest not line anybody today? Stream

7:49

of Consciousness before I go unconscious to get my

7:51

hip replaced. Three

7:54

option so you get a thought. The passing header somebody says

7:56

hey, I got a thought some use. they could be good

7:58

at something. Gives you an idea. Maybe. Maybe a

8:00

dream when I decided pops in your head. maybe driving

8:02

down the road Your cardio may I should do this.

8:05

Watch. Tv show. That

8:07

on where you get it from stuff pops in your

8:09

head. that's what happens to you default mode network your

8:11

brains listen and even when you're not and suddenly it

8:13

was listening as a you didn't hear me i know

8:15

you didn't catch as well as could do this anyways

8:17

like what were they come from your brain was listen

8:19

to your. Would be great to be

8:22

turner years off the be awesome. Awesome!

8:24

You're good at already anyway at the same.

8:27

So what do you do when you have. A

8:30

thought that pops in your head you trying to get

8:32

your career try to figure out you have to do

8:35

to until I get married some and not get married.

8:37

How to make more money All stars. All

8:40

the things in life. Well.

8:42

You have three options are any. Option

8:45

Number One. Deny

8:48

it. A keep Moving. Are

8:51

you didn't hear from me? With

8:54

is. Quite a few things in your

8:57

denied bucket. Past

8:59

acres of. Tonight.

9:04

Is a lot of stuff and that denied bucket are there?

9:06

Are you deny it? Dude? Or do that? Could

9:09

be. Somebody when the nine some came

9:11

your head you just kind of did. I don't need a

9:13

deal with, I just keep on moving on. Now

9:15

in some cases are no no, that's a bad

9:17

thing to something she should just denied. Move on.

9:19

But but we also have to kind of. Forget

9:23

what do with it. And keep moving. That's

9:25

one thing the can have do. What's

9:28

the number two thing that though that can

9:30

happen to. Well.

9:33

You could not deny it. You can delay it. A

9:36

driver So crazy. So she

9:39

denied his come over there. It

9:41

could be a truth speak and write Aca wait

9:43

a second detects they just pass. And

9:46

you didn't file. You.

9:48

Denied they're going to catch if that's how

9:51

it works. How

9:53

about delaying it? He. Says something you

9:55

ought to be doing today. But

9:58

you busy? And is nothing. He.

10:00

Doesn't do in it. That.

10:02

My friends is where you drive yourself crazy.

10:06

I'm telling you, How do you fix

10:08

that? Third,

10:11

One. He. Do It. He

10:14

put it in action. Diet

10:17

too late. Do it. A

10:19

that it's rewind or but here so you get is clear okay

10:21

on the deny it part of it. Here's what I would do.

10:24

If I deny deny one hundred percent. In

10:26

other words, it's not lingering out there like

10:29

in the delay. Gonna think it's not done.

10:31

Pump out gone. Say no,

10:33

turn somebody to. Cut

10:35

it off, be done with it, and then keep

10:38

moving. So deny it. Slammed. The

10:40

Door and move on. If that's the get you

10:42

away, do that with. If you delay at.

10:45

Delay it for a reason. I'm

10:47

very fond of. I have. I work people through process

10:50

lots and sometimes is five or six or maybe ten

10:52

steps are you more than that and but it breaks

10:54

down to usually three or four big chunks of like

10:56

caped i'm doing this My jobs can we do to

10:58

the into the year? what am I going to do

11:00

then. I saw with a

11:02

Worry About Man we don't have that problem for another six

11:05

months, so that's a good delay when you realize you could

11:07

actually delay it. We don't need to worry about a worry

11:09

until it's the worry. Why? Would you

11:11

do that? He got things to

11:13

worry about today, so sometimes it's okay

11:15

to delay stuff. If I

11:17

may I it's of I want to do. I'm getting

11:19

hip replaced. You think of stuff I can plan on

11:21

doing while I method convalescence for that sort of never

11:24

use for myself. As caught

11:26

someone come on board com Vanessa little bit. About

11:30

convalescing conversation maybe Ccc I can't

11:32

do says like that a delay.

11:35

it. I don't even know when

11:37

it gets delayed to because I don't know exactly know when I

11:39

can do the things I want to be doing. All.

11:41

My mind says it's like five minutes after

11:43

surgery, but you know that Scott? So

11:46

we're going to deny it, slammed the door and keep

11:48

moving. Further delay it.

11:51

Only and only if we have good reason to do

11:53

it. And if you don't. Don't lie to

11:55

yourself. Know why? To me, He

11:57

drives of crazy signal twins gets put us in your.

12:03

He going to do it. The

12:05

faster you can decide either deny it,

12:07

delay it, or do it the happy

12:09

you're going to be. Speed: Success

12:12

I should say with other

12:14

crack my voice success or

12:16

does it again Loves speed.

12:19

So when decide to do it to do it. As

12:22

it would put it off, people pay me

12:24

a lot of money. Spent a long time

12:26

of the on the phone at done this

12:28

now over twenty years talk of people I've

12:30

been down this road thousand the dives say

12:32

that again and again and again. A you

12:34

cannot For me you can't know comes out

12:36

of. The

12:41

I'm not old as long as I can pretend to be old with

12:43

my voice or model the as. High

12:46

as it. I saw that today but tomorrow be

12:48

totally insane and as the the makes you think

12:50

all day long below us back here on the

12:52

think it's hysterical.