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Stop Waiting to Get What You Want

Released Friday, 5th April 2024
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Stop Waiting to Get What You Want

Stop Waiting to Get What You Want

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Stop Waiting to Get What You Want

Friday, 5th April 2024
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0:08

Never give up for a into the

0:10

ain't gonna get back. Know

0:13

top and loss by into the no

0:15

matter what the cost. Down

0:18

again. Why the. Reality

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t y keep him. Happy

0:27

happy Happy Friday. Come on and

0:29

keep moving! Gotta get back up. No doubt about

0:31

that. eighteen years. can you believe that? Eighteen

0:34

years doing a show with very simple

0:36

premise. But

0:38

he got. To get into bed if you're lucky enough to

0:40

do so and you get stuff on your mind you want to

0:42

do. And one have a good

0:45

life to win. That's what we're here

0:47

for today. It's time. For you to get what

0:49

you want and I want to help you get a

0:51

little bit faster. If I make as you could do

0:53

all this on your own, there's no doubt If you

0:55

use live a good solid life and get out there

0:57

and put yourself in motion, you're going learned most and

0:59

lessons you need to learn. But do you want to

1:01

take eight or nine years? Do it. The answer is

1:03

probably not so you need to learn for people. Been

1:05

doing her while after twenty years doing this I have

1:07

no I figure out how to go off for myself

1:09

but also helped a whole bunch of people on the

1:11

way and today you are on that list so I'm

1:13

happy to have here today. It is a daily boost

1:15

from motivation to move like Com the positive boost you

1:17

need every. Single Day Episode: Four Thousand and

1:19

Eight Hundred and. And five.

1:23

Going to five thousand. So at end of year this

1:25

podcast will become a little bit different that people already

1:27

seen. We got what you going to do. You can't

1:30

walk away from a top one percent podcast. And

1:32

stop doing What am I going to doing it but something's and

1:34

be different about I can't tell you what it is yet on.

1:37

I will tell you this that I I'm

1:39

doing another podcast. That.

1:42

I've already done a couple prototypes on. I.

1:44

Like what I'm hearing. I'm kind of plane within

1:46

getting a or wanted to be and it's gonna

1:48

be good. You going to like it? really really

1:50

really different than this one? I'll tell you about

1:52

that here. In little bit.

1:55

My name is Scott Smith good Have you here today?

1:58

I'm exciting. Excited! I should say

2:01

because I I'm sorting out a goal today. Because

2:03

one month from about yesterday.

2:06

And one from today. I'm sexy One month. One.

2:09

From Saturday. I get

2:11

my new hip. the up

2:14

the doctors have said deal for the other went out

2:16

I at what was it was a job or airplanes

2:18

is it probably wasn't martial arts Is it probably. Was.

2:21

It was at all it kids stuff I did

2:23

they probably wasn't anything else. and your propagate whole

2:25

don't see that to me. But.

2:28

One month. For a new hip So

2:31

as go on the journey together and I get excited about

2:33

it because it's not going to hurt any worse in this

2:35

hurts right now the satanic crazy been a way account m

2:37

forty and will go through that process together because I got

2:39

share with you can I do that. Tone

2:41

of Friday's i always ask a question how do

2:43

you want to feel interesting When I launched my

2:46

Face Repression coaching program which has to school really

2:48

really well right now. And if you

2:50

wanna know more about it could affect your passion.com Watch the

2:52

replay of the workshop that we did and I come join

2:54

us if you'd like to. One

2:56

of the questions very early on in the face repression

2:58

program. In fact it said the second question. The first

3:01

question was what do you do when you do when

3:03

you. And. The second question was. How.

3:06

Do you want to feel. And people

3:08

were a surprise that Lassie put it

3:10

in the beginning of this big program.

3:13

Why? Do you take the simple things you talk about the podcast

3:15

every single day in and put him in this is coaching program.

3:17

And be they were like man, In.

3:20

The context of really think it about my

3:22

life. It really works.

3:25

So today, whether in or not, I just want you to ask

3:27

yourself that question. How do I want to

3:29

feel really good? Aren't you have the option to feel

3:31

whatever what you want to. You

3:33

could change anything you want to today. There.

3:35

Are no cars? Consequences are limitations

3:38

really. If there are, they could

3:40

all be really good. Yes, some may be bad, but

3:42

that's okay. Sometimes. You gotta leave. Some

3:44

of the bad go through some bad get to the good. But

3:47

when you ask, how do I want to feel. You.

3:50

Have a choice to get. there's asset question

3:52

today when this programs done and just wait

3:54

to flood yourself a the answers. Open up

3:56

and receive the answers. nobody

3:59

was feel bad Do you want to feel great? So

4:01

ask a question and invite it in. So I

4:03

was sitting at a dining room table of a friend and we've

4:07

been solving the problems of the world for several

4:10

hours and we'd solved pretty much all of them. There were a

4:12

few we didn't want to go to. There's a few that, you

4:14

know, I mean I knew the answer but she didn't know the

4:16

answer to the side. You know, I'm

4:18

not going to push it and make her feel bad. I

4:20

know I got every... I do not. I'm

4:23

like Socrates. All I know is what I don't know. That's

4:25

it. I'm just pretty good

4:28

at kind of faking it until I make it most of the time. But

4:30

fortunately on this podcast I never do that. I talk

4:32

about what I do know about. Anyway,

4:34

I had solved all the problems of the world and then

4:37

she asked me a question. What

4:40

are you talking about on today's... tomorrow's podcast? And my answer

4:43

was pretty simple. I said I hadn't thought about it yet. Usually

4:46

my process is many, many times that the podcast

4:49

idea comes from somebody I've talked to, comes from

4:51

a coaching call or a friend, and oftentimes it'd

4:53

be the same day. I'm

4:55

like, hey, that's a good idea. Let's make a podcast. Come back, spend

4:57

an hour, write it up, and we record the show. Why

5:00

don't you talk about why people don't take

5:02

big chances and stay in their comfort zone

5:04

for their entire life? I've

5:07

got to tell you, the woman I was talking to was not

5:09

that person. But she had

5:11

a passion for helping people do that. But

5:14

my mind didn't kind of insta-reveal my life in all

5:16

the areas I had stumbled in before I got out

5:19

of my own way. Are you in your own way right

5:21

now? Is it possible that you're in your own way? I would

5:23

suggest, yes, you are. I

5:26

forgot I am my way. The

5:28

way I do things is absolutely the way I want to do it. It works

5:30

out my way. It is what it is, man. Hmm.

5:35

Are you in your own way to get what you want? Just

5:38

a thought. I also remember

5:40

conversations with clients over the years on the topic

5:42

of life's leaps, if you will. Before

5:45

I could say anything, she said, I know what it is. I

5:47

told you, she's working with women all the time about how to

5:49

get out of their comfort zone. I was talking to a lady

5:51

here who does some really adventuresome stuff, so

5:53

I knew this wasn't about her. She

5:56

said, people get so comfortable with

5:59

what they built. They

6:01

don't want a chance losing it. Their

6:05

money, their home, they

6:07

wonder what their family will say. Is

6:10

there anything else? Yes!

6:12

She was loaded. Everybody gets

6:14

scared and freezes. I'm

6:17

like that sometimes, but I've learned to push through fear and

6:19

I go for it. As

6:21

long as I'm mostly sure I won't lose what I

6:23

built. I

6:26

love that idea. Because I'm that way too.

6:28

I'll go for just about anything. As long as I'm mostly

6:30

sure I'm not going to die. Like I'll jump out of

6:32

airplanes. As long as I'm mostly sure, for the most part,

6:34

the parachute's going to work. I

6:36

fly airplanes. As long as I'm mostly sure I know how to

6:39

land the airplane. There was a time

6:41

when I didn't know how to do that, but I've learned. I'll

6:43

ride my motorcycle. As long as I'm mostly sure I'm okay.

6:46

There's some things I won't do because I'm pretty sure it's not

6:48

going to work out. But

6:51

some people get stuck. Cavity's

6:53

been mostly sure almost 100%. They

6:56

have to be absolutely sure or they won't do

6:59

anything. Because you got

7:01

stuff to lose, right? You got family, you got friends, you got money,

7:03

you got all that stuff. You could lose that if you make a

7:05

change. And that's the first thing we talk about. But have you ever

7:07

wondered and thought that possibly maybe if you made the change, you

7:10

might get more of that stuff. All

7:13

the goodness. It could happen. So

7:16

we talked a bit more about what

7:18

it takes to make change in life

7:21

and we came to three conclusions. Are

7:23

you ready for them? You have a growth mindset. I

7:26

believe that anything is possible. You

7:29

can do anything. Holding

7:31

on too tightly to what you have sends

7:34

the wrong energetic message. When

7:37

you are willing to expand, you will.

7:40

I know it's scary. Next

7:44

as a human, you will never be comfortable gambling

7:46

on the very thing that allows you to dream.

7:49

The foundation that takes care of your personal

7:51

needs is the very reason you desire to

7:53

self-activate Maslow's hierarchy of needs taught us that.

7:57

Your Foundation must remain while you

7:59

expand. And finally. Fear

8:02

will always be present when be getting

8:04

into adventure. The cure,

8:06

his knowledge, Would. You

8:08

know what you have. See. Your path forward

8:10

and it as much as possible for your

8:12

journey. Going to find

8:14

his of willing to go for it. It's

8:17

pretty simple. While.

8:20

Things I've learned over time in coaching people I

8:22

built right into my face. Your passion found a

8:25

certain decent builders program. The ask me. Why do

8:27

I call it Foundation builders? As.

8:29

I know you want to do all the fun starts, the

8:31

mastery stuff, the legacy stuff. I know you want to do

8:33

all your dreams on a climb, Mount Everest and everything else.

8:35

I know you want to do that but reality as. If

8:38

not us, our nation and place, he can't do any that.

8:41

So we have to take a breath. We have to take a

8:43

breather. We had to pull back and take the time to build

8:45

a solid foundation. From. A foundation.

8:49

That. Even I can climb Mount Everest. Anything

8:53

is possible when you protect your foundation or

8:55

spec the challenge and honor the dreams that

8:57

are was fleeing from your soul. To

9:01

climb Mount Everest You know why? Because

9:03

I see the movie is.

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