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Buena Mihimonees, It's Vico and

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Lile.

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First. Here

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we are again.

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Here we are on our little chi

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smid time, the behind the

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scenes of our.

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Show, of our last encounter

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with Joel.

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Oh yeah, we're gonna talk today about joe

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Elle. What are your thoughts, Anita, Yes,

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your.

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Little yes,

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amazing young man and

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ready to find love, Ready to find

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someone that can take in that path of

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adventures and love and settle down.

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Absolutely, we definitely saw a

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lot of fire from Joel and a

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lot of adventure and spiciness, but

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we also heard a lot in the way that he spoke

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that he was looking for someone to balance out that

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fire, that he has, someone that has more groundness.

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And we have we had three incredible

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contestants. We have had Stephen, we had Clinton,

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we had Joshua.

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Let's talk a little bit about Stephen.

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Oh my goodness, I feel for Steven

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so so hard. I am also,

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I am in a point in my life where I'm realizing when I

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have my own control,

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want to like take over and that my

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way is the way. But then it's like, oh no,

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my way is my way right, and there's

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other ways that also can work right.

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To conflict with yourself.

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Exactly, and then able to trust on other

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people. For example, I'm very particular

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to live with, and I feel like I resonated a little bit

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with like Stephen in some ways. Not in the cutting of the

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broccoli bit, I'm not

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like that, but I am very particular to live with.

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And it's been really interesting for me to explore

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how to delegate and trust

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that folks that are around me are gonna

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care for me in my living environment.

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And you know, there's nothing wrong in being particular

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in how we'd like to live our own

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lives exactly. If that is the case

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and you want to hold on to that, then stay

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by yourself. It's very

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clear, you know, because you are

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suffering by trying to find

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something that you're actually not ready

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for.

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Mmmmmm.

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And in that part, you're just gonna end up hurting

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yourself and others.

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Absolutely.

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I mean the way again, I was like,

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mm, buddy, you have to let go of some of

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that control. You have to trust, and you have to delegate.

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And then Clinton and Clinton what

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a sweetheart definitely

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guarded in the beginning, but opened up a little

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by little. A capricorn, someone

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who definitely had a energized

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stillness, discipline. Yeah,

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Like there was something about him that like had

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a lot of energy, but at the same time a lot of calmness

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and groundness. And I think that that was the thing that

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like ended up us choosing Clinton.

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For Joelle, I think his experienced

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as a gymnast.

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And caring for other kids

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and himself and all that jazz absolutely,

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And I mean he had the experience of

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being with somebody for five years.

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Though it was the first time relationship exactly.

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That was the only concern too, because

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do you tend to find or want the

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same things that you had in the past or are you actually

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ready to open up that door and allow someone

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else different into it?

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Mm hmm.

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And Joshua, my goodness, graation

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is I adored Joshua

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what I feel like also, I mean, Joshua and Joel

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would have had an incredible time together. I don't

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know if there was something there that could have maybe

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led to something a bit more longevous,

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but I think definitely would have been a really

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fun I don't know, a couple of dates,

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maybe a couple.

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Of months, right.

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I still think they should hang out. I think they should

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still like go to like club and dance

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or like, I mean, incredible

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humor on both of them, very lively,

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very charismatic, but I definitely

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could feel that energy. I feel like between

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Joshua and Joel it would have been a

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lot of fire and not enough groundness.

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And I feel like.

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There wouldn't fire department. It's always available.

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Departments

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exactly, but you know, sometimes the difference

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is what spices think up. So

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in the future, we do want to know what happens

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to these relationships, So you want to know how

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it all came out, so that we also can learn

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from what we are doing now.

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Absolut freking leutely, but goodness gracious

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Clinton. I really saw his

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growth within the episodes, right

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as he started off a little bit more closed off and started

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to warm up a little bit.

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He was ready.

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He was like by the end, he was like, oh

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no, I'm here. And he was so sweet too. He thought that

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we had eliminated him at the end, and it was like, no, Boba,

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we chose you. It was you

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all along.

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What a cutie.

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And Joelle, I mean, what can I say from

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one Puerto Rican to the other. I am so

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here for what he guaz and I should

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have maybe gotten an honorable mention for my song.

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But that's okay. You know, you don't have to

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always get your.

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Words of validation, even though that's one

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of my love languages.

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Well, we're not just we're here for Puerto

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Ricans. We're here for Ecuadorian's,

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Chilean, Salvadorians, people

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from.

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I'm gonna play favorite ehere anywhere.

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I'm sorry. If you're Porto Rican and you come to the show, I wanna

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be like, fuck, yeah, let's go.

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And you have to bring your own thoughts out with you.

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I'm so freakingly, I'm so freaking lutely.

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Yeah, I'm like one hundred percent playing favorite.

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I love them all, we love them all, we

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love everyone that listens to date Miamilia.

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First, especially Puerto Ricans. I'm

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ready to get another chunk here.

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Be like, oh my god, Vico, like, you can't

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play favorites. You can't play favorites with the Polyamoras,

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you can't play versus Perto Ricans.

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I know, yeah, there's no bias.

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Don't know me.

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I'm like, choose the Puerto Rican We

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did very well, we did really well. I'm really

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excited to see, like what the updates are between

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these two.

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How does does it all make you feel? I

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feel great? You know, I'm

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I'm a Libra.

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I'm always here for like the flirty and the

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good time and Sash Rising

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so here for an adventure and uh,

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you know, Scorpio Moon so down

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for the emotional depth. So it's been a really

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fun time for.

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Me and it's been pretty deep. How

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deep were we talking about?

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