0:05

Shakespeare once said, if

0:07

music be the food of love, play

0:10

on and boy on, boy

0:12

are we playing today?

0:14

And I happen to be so hungry

0:18

that food of love? Yoah, yeah, yeah,

0:20

yeah, yeah yeah. Husband number one hundred

0:22

and twenty seven, here he comes. Well,

0:25

you know we are. But I'm practically a one woman

0:27

band over here, my love, because playing

0:30

love on everything from a recorder

0:32

to an electric guitar or wherever I go,

0:35

I'm always playing the music

0:37

of Bella.

0:41

That is very, very true, don't I know it.

0:44

Welcome listeners. This is Dave my Ahalita

0:46

first, where our incredible Aharita

0:49

Liliana plays matchmaker

0:51

for one luggy main dater. She

0:53

will sort through three hopeful contestants

0:55

before sending one of them off on a one on

0:58

one date with our star. I

1:00

am your host, Vico Ortiz, joined

1:03

by the ever stunning Awlita.

1:07

I love that vehicle. Stunning.

1:09

Yes, I'm so glad to be here,

1:12

me too, Awalita.

1:13

You're going to absolutely love our

1:15

main dater this week.

1:17

I have no doubt I will.

1:19

I love all of our main daters, you know, yeah

1:22

you do.

1:22

And I crush on all of them.

1:24

Yes you do. We're a perfect

1:27

pair.

1:27

Yeah, you love them all and I crush on them all. It's great.

1:30

Our main data this week is Marcy. He

1:33

claims music is the language of Bacon.

1:36

She's a Venezuelan who plays guitar,

1:38

drums and bays and loves knowing

1:40

that she's able to connect with everyone no

1:43

matter what language they speak through

1:46

music. She's a true Aquarius,

1:48

creative and complicated, with good

1:50

viumes all around. Marci and

1:52

Benita, welcome.

1:57

It's a pleasure to be here. This is so fun.

2:00

I'm so so glad to have you here on day

2:02

my Auralida. First, Marcy, tell

2:04

us about yourself. Why should Ailita and

2:06

I know about you?

2:08

So?

2:08

I'm a musician you already know that, but that's

2:10

more like my passion. Actually, I work

2:13

more as an influencer who doing

2:15

ex silly videos for Internet. But

2:17

definitely my passion is music

2:20

and I would love to live out of music someday.

2:22

Oh Marcy, let me ask

2:24

you one very important question just about

2:26

you. What is it that motivates

2:29

you every morning that you wake up to go

2:31

and find that love of your life.

2:33

Well, to be honest, I don't feel that I

2:35

have like one motivation. It's like I'm

2:37

always trying to keep myself busy doing stuff

2:40

and like, I don't know, life

2:42

excite me. I like to live like different

2:44

life every day, try new things, new

2:47

experiences. Basically I

2:49

think that I'm in love with life and

2:51

everything that I can do and try every

2:53

day.

2:54

Are you looking for a steady relationship?

2:56

I would love that.

2:57

Yeah, yeah, I'm tired to try.

2:59

You know.

2:59

That would be cool, like to just find

3:02

the one.

3:02

You know, when was the last time you had a relationship

3:06

that was like five six months ago?

3:08

Oh?

3:09

Okay, it was a one.

3:10

Year relationship, very chaotic,

3:12

I'm not gonna lie.

3:13

Complicated, complicated all the way through.

3:16

Yeah, we try like so many times to break up.

3:18

It was complicated. We were living together.

3:20

So with that said, what are you looking for right

3:22

now in a partner?

3:24

I think that now I'm like in a more mature

3:26

stage of my life, I would love

3:28

someone that is honest and have

3:32

the same goals in life. I would

3:34

say not the same, but like we're not that

3:36

opposite in what we want, how

3:39

we see live. I want someone that would

3:41

add to who I am, not take.

3:44

What were some lessons that you acquired

3:47

from that one year relationship? What have

3:49

you processed what do you not want

3:51

to repeat? What are some things that you want to

3:53

bring also in a partnership moving forward

3:55

based on the things that you've learned in the past.

3:58

I learned to go slower literally

4:01

how I met her. I ended up like taking

4:03

her to New York, like a few weeks after

4:06

and we were like suddenly

4:08

living together. And it shouldn't be like that.

4:10

I know that you live with lesions.

4:13

It's like, you know, like the U hole stuff.

4:15

It's like then they're done that. Then

4:17

they're done that, buddy. Yeah,

4:20

so slowing things down.

4:22

Yes.

4:23

You close with your.

4:24

Family, Mercy, very very

4:26

close.

4:26

Have your parents voiced a pattern that

4:28

they've seen with people that you've dated and have been

4:31

like you always end up with these people, Like, yeah,

4:33

what is it? What did they tell you?

4:35

The crazy ones?

4:36

Oh boy, but I guess that I'm a little crazy

4:39

myself, so like that's kind of the people that

4:41

I attract.

4:42

I have a very important question to ask you, only

4:44

because I identify so much with

4:46

you in this regard. Tell me about

4:49

your marriage and divorce.

4:52

Oh boy, we

4:54

were dating for like a few years

4:56

and we were married, and honestly,

4:59

it was because we just had different goals

5:01

in life. She didn't want to come here.

5:04

I want the ring cards, so I wanted to come

5:06

here and try.

5:07

And so she's back in Venezuela.

5:10

No, she's in Germany right now.

5:11

Oh in German? Goodness, where did you marry?

5:14

Then in Venezuela.

5:15

You married in Venezuela. What that's fucking

5:17

amazing.

5:18

And she didn't want to come to the United States, but she wanted

5:20

to go to Germany if you know.

5:22

Like later like someone told her that

5:25

the ring card what is something cool to have? And

5:27

she wanted to come back. But

5:30

like, I mean, I'm too late.

5:32

Yeaquet yeah

5:35

right?

5:36

But what drew you to her? Is it because

5:38

she was a tall Slavic blonde or did she not

5:40

fit that like archetype

5:43

she was.

5:45

I just love like tall slavic

5:47

girls.

5:48

I mean, good

5:52

to know the.

5:53

Last relationship that I had, she was

5:55

probably the most beautiful girl that I saw in

5:58

La. And you know, La is full of gorgeous

6:00

people, you know, like amazing people. So

6:03

I don't know, I thought that I was it, you know, I was

6:05

like, Okay, this is it. And after that I was

6:07

like, Okay, this is not it. You know, like I'd

6:10

rather have someone that cares for me. You

6:12

know, it's not like always taking

6:15

from me, and you know it was a big

6:17

mistake for me.

6:18

Here here, here, here, And that's what's up. Good

6:20

to see that you like, are open to meeting

6:23

new people, people that are nurturing, people that are

6:25

caring.

6:25

And that's exactly what Awilita is going to do today.

6:28

Yeah, we absolutely have some amazing contestants

6:30

that we cannot wait to interview

6:32

and get to know and see what aligns

6:34

with you with all this very exciting. We'll

6:37

be back after the break. Welcome

6:42

back today, Maya Wani the first. Hello,

6:48

contestants. Thank you all for joining

6:50

us today. We are so looking

6:52

forward to getting to know you all. First,

6:55

we have Arson. Arson is a

6:57

very social bartender who likes to go out

6:59

to cultural like Fiata,

7:01

but doesn't mind having fun at a nightclub

7:04

every once in a while. They're self

7:06

described as monogamish

7:09

and haven't dated in a while,

7:11

but are ready to take things slow

7:14

and see what happens. Welcome Arson. Next,

7:18

we have Catherine, and Catherine is a rugby

7:21

player. I wonder if she can lift me anyway.

7:24

She has been awarded Bitch of the pitch by

7:26

her teammates. She's currently working as a legal

7:28

assistant and is planning on going to

7:31

law school in the next couple of years.

7:33

Yeah, Catherine is incredibly loyal, which

7:35

sometimes can grow into jealousy, but for both

7:37

partners and friends, but considers the most

7:39

important people in her life her chosen family.

7:41

Nice to meet you, Catherine. Hello,

7:45

finally we have Rex.

7:48

Rex has that shaggy from Scooby

7:50

Doo look and he puts it into practice.

7:52

He's a stoner and creative who likes anime

7:55

and video games. But don't think he's

7:57

not active. He is a professional dancer

7:59

and choreographer and was even on Netflix's

8:02

Dance one hundred. He is a Taurus

8:05

son in Taurus Moon. His family is

8:07

full of our teeths and he likes

8:09

to try obscure art forms with his beloved

8:11

grandmother.

8:12

Says Bhi

8:15

guys Ah bezels

8:17

besils, contestants, I'm so glad that you're here with us.

8:19

Thank you.

8:21

Right, it is such a treat to have you all

8:24

here today. Let's get an

8:26

icebreaker going showing. We'd

8:30

love to see how good you

8:32

are at first impressions.

8:35

So in this game of assumptions,

8:39

you three will be asked to make an assumption

8:41

about one of your fellow contestants.

8:44

For example, I might say, I'm

8:48

assuming you clean your house at least

8:51

once a week? Am I right? Oh?

8:53

God?

8:54

Every day?

8:55

Oh my god?

8:57

Anal? Can I say that you're analsy?

8:59

I sure did? And cleaning I must

9:01

do it? Okay. Listen, people be

9:03

kind to Ailita. She comes up with these

9:05

things, especially.

9:06

When you're anal. Be really kind.

9:11

Wow where did we go there?

9:14

Listen?

9:14

You start?

9:15

I follow anyway, that's the

9:17

game. Let's get started. Arson,

9:20

Why don't you start us off by making

9:23

an assumption about Catherine?

9:25

For example, I assume Catherine, you

9:28

might have hooked up with one of your rugby teammates.

9:31

Don't see fine day

9:37

you know, I know how rugby teams are.

9:41

I would assume that you're a dog person.

9:44

I actually am not really.

9:48

Her name is Suki, named after

9:50

the character from Avatar the Last Airbender.

9:52

Oh my god, that's amazing. Obsessed.

9:55

But also, can you answer the rugby team question?

9:58

How's five teammates for you?

10:00

Yes? And we have a goal

10:03

that is impressive. Also, I was gonna say

10:05

the same thing about Arson. Have you slept with any of your

10:07

bartender coworkers.

10:09

I haven't slept with any of my co workers.

10:11

I feel like it is good

10:13

to keep it a little bit separate, you know

10:15

what I mean. There are people I'm interested in at work,

10:17

but like I think, people be messy and I'm

10:20

not trying to Like. Am I allowed

10:22

to say shit where I eat on the podcast?

10:24

Absolutely? I mean we just talked about anal.

10:27

I say anal exactly. Thank

10:29

you again.

10:30

Yeah, I'm glad that you don't ship where

10:32

you eat because I feel, I mean, bartending is

10:34

a slippery slope. We'll be flirting out there, so I

10:36

feel you.

10:37

Well, let me tell you I was a bartender for

10:39

thirty five years, so it was always my part time job.

10:41

I did it all the way from LA to Hawaiian

10:43

back and I never

10:46

never did have sex with any

10:48

of my co workers, but those customers.

10:51

Hey,

10:59

I have questions about this. Well,

11:02

now, Catherine, make an assumption about Rex.

11:04

Okay, Rex, I assume

11:08

I see you like a gaming microphone.

11:10

I assume that your

11:12

favorite game is Valorant.

11:16

Ooh, that is a specific Wow.

11:19

My favorite game was overwatched for a

11:21

long time, which is like Valorant adjacent.

11:23

So that's a pretty good assumption on

11:25

it.

11:26

Oh damn, wow, very

11:28

good.

11:29

I would say point for that. Yeah, excellent.

11:31

People you are a very are they paying attention? Rex?

11:35

What is your assumption about Arson?

11:37

Hmmm?

11:38

I would assume that you also could do

11:41

some sort of art form, like I could see you

11:43

painting or maybe like sketching

11:45

or something like that. Woo. Yeah.

11:48

I skulpt and do ceramics, so

11:50

that's kind of my grain.

11:51

So you're like really.

11:52

Good with your hands, then huh.

11:56

Ask my ceramics inbstractor but like hopefully

11:59

unless and then I'm gonna listening.

12:00

I'll give you that.

12:02

They've got to be used.

12:04

Arson. Make an assumption about Aulita.

12:06

Oh okay, wait, hold up, I want to. I

12:08

want it to be like good and specific. I

12:11

am going to assume that

12:13

you like thrills that you like,

12:16

like a roller coaster that you like,

12:18

like an adrenaline.

12:19

Rush, only when it comes

12:21

to marriage. I

12:25

hate roller coasters.

12:27

You seem so like fearless and fun.

12:30

Fearless for anything and everything else, but

12:32

not a roller coaster.

12:33

Emotional roller coasters though, absolutely

12:35

I.

12:35

Take those any day of the week. Yeah,

12:38

all righte Rex. What

12:40

is an assumption about vehicle oh

12:42

god.

12:43

This is terrifying. I don't put into the spot.

12:47

I would assume that you could like

12:49

cook down like I feel like you could

12:51

make a mean, mean plate.

12:56

You know what, when I have time and I like, really

12:58

make it, I do, I can get into it. Yeah,

13:01

I make a really delicious meal.

13:03

I am Puerto Rican, so I there'll be

13:05

a lot of sassan in there for sure. So yeah,

13:07

nice exce assumption. Yes,

13:13

Catherine, make an assumption about aa

13:15

alita.

13:16

Okay, let's see you have a

13:18

very colorful personality, so

13:21

I'm going to actually switch

13:23

it up a little. I think that your

13:25

drink of choice is probably

13:28

smoky, maybe like a mescal

13:31

margarita.

13:32

If you put some halopenias in it, I'm in,

13:34

yes, get

13:37

it, get it a Alita, you

13:39

ring it well.

13:40

I have one final assumption, and

13:42

I assume that

13:44

you'll be able to find a perfect match

13:47

for Marci from one of these three contestants.

13:49

One hundred. I'm

13:51

certain of it now. So now let's do a game

13:54

number two.

13:56

Yes, yes, yes, let's get it going.

14:00

We'd like to know a little bit more

14:02

about all of you before Aita

14:04

decides who will be moving on

14:06

to the final game. Now, This

14:09

game is going to help us know how

14:11

your mind works. We're

14:13

looking for you to fill in the blank. If

14:16

I said to Awalita before

14:18

a date, I don't leave my house

14:20

without a I don't ever

14:22

leave my house with little crystal. I always have a crystal on me.

14:24

Okay, it's in the box

14:27

with the condoms.

14:28

Just in case on a date, my goodness.

14:31

Never know that you can use them as gloves.

14:42

Yes, I did, right.

14:45

Anyway? Ready?

14:46

Yeah, do you want to have to let's go Okay,

14:49

now fill in this blank. Be ready?

14:52

If I never had to blank

14:55

with a date ever again, my

14:57

life would be a million times better.

15:00

Catherine, let's start with you.

15:02

Yeah, if I never had to small

15:04

talk with a date again, I

15:07

want to get into the nitty gritty.

15:09

I want to get to know them. I

15:11

think there's like more important things to do for

15:13

them.

15:13

I don't want to waste your time, like

15:15

you're not wasting my time. I

15:18

just want to be able to move on.

15:19

Okay, that's scores, points, points, points

15:21

and more points.

15:24

You can't play favorites right off the mat. Well, I'm going

15:26

to give them to the others too, Arson,

15:30

What would be your answer kind of.

15:32

For similar reasons to Catherine, Like, you

15:34

know, when you're on a date and you know it's not going well,

15:36

like you guys both kind of tell there's no chemistry, but

15:38

it feels a little rude to like cut it off.

15:41

If there was just a way where we never had

15:43

to do that dance again, where we could both just kind of

15:45

shake hands say like I'm not really feeling it,

15:47

but like thank you so much for your time, Like

15:50

you're cool. It's just not exactly what.

15:51

I'm looking for.

15:52

If we were able to all do that in an amicable

15:54

way, I would love if we were all sort of able

15:56

to get out of doing that dance.

15:58

Here here for that, no more awkward

16:00

dancing with words.

16:04

Rex, what's your answer?

16:06

Mine might be unpopular, but mine is go to

16:08

the movies and let me explain why. Let me explain

16:10

why. I feel like that's a really easy cop

16:12

out first date. But you aren't

16:14

talking, it's quiet, it's in the dark,

16:16

there's a bunch of other people, you're focused

16:19

on something. So I think when you're trying

16:21

to get to know someone, like going

16:23

on a movie is not really ideal unless

16:25

it's included in a day of plans.

16:27

You know what I mean I go to the bathroom

16:29

and walk out the theater. Yeah,

16:32

I hear that.

16:32

I hear that. I will say though, as a

16:35

what was it high school? Middle school, going to the

16:37

movies with a crush was the most exhilarating

16:40

experience.

16:41

Well for sure, maybe maybe you sneak a handhold.

16:43

Yeah, oh my god, like sweaty palms, and you're

16:45

just like, oh my god, we're watching hams.

16:47

Oh no, that's okay, that's the

16:50

movies.

16:50

Okay, I have the last one. I get

16:52

to have a fill the blank. Now, if I

16:55

think someone is sexy,

16:58

I will blank. Arson

17:00

take it away.

17:02

I'm gonna be honest.

17:03

I don't think you guys are gonna like this answer, but

17:05

I'm just gonna sit there and pray they approach

17:07

me. I like, I'm

17:09

really chatty when you like come up to me, but

17:11

I don't like to approach people like I'm kind

17:13

of reserved in that way.

17:15

You can't do that. You have to go get

17:17

it.

17:17

So truly, the answer is like, if I see someone

17:19

sexy, I will panic internally and hope

17:22

for the best cross fingers that they approach

17:24

me. That's amazing, Catherine,

17:29

what's your answer.

17:30

Arson, I'm the complete opposite. I

17:33

absolutely go for it. My friends know

17:35

me that I don't

17:38

make it a seeker. When I like somebody,

17:40

I just absolutely go for it.

17:42

Falls to the wall, great expression,

17:44

and now we know why she's slept with five teammates.

17:47

Yep, there we go, just

17:50

like, what's up?

17:52

Look him in, let.

17:53

Just do it.

17:54

You're sexy.

17:54

You're sexy here, here, here,

17:56

here, Rex, what's

17:59

your answer.

18:00

I'm definitely more on Catherine's team.

18:02

I tend to kind of play

18:04

it off as a joke and be like, oh wow,

18:07

ha, yeah, you're really attractive, and then

18:09

at the end I'm like, but I'm not joking now, I'm very serious,

18:11

and then I'll engauge the reaction after

18:13

that, and if they're like, oh ha haha,

18:15

stop playing, then you know, I'll respect the boundary.

18:18

But I definitely am team like. At

18:20

the end of the day, maybe they go home

18:22

thinking that they're a little bit sexier than they walked

18:24

in the door, feeling like and if

18:27

that's all I get out of it, then at least is sparking someone's

18:29

confidence. But I don't know. I try to choose

18:31

to see that side of the rejection if it happens,

18:33

But I would definitely go for it. Just be

18:35

like, yo, I think you're way out of my league. That's

18:37

a really good way to tell someone that you think they're sexy.

18:40

I'm sorry, Arson, I'm gonna have to join team

18:42

Rex and Catherine on this one.

18:44

Arson, check out these stories.

18:46

I know they're gonna have to take me to a bar and I'm gonna have to like

18:48

watch everybody else.

18:49

I'm good, Okay, tonight, tonight, all

18:54

right, thank you so much for playing these

18:56

two incredible games. We have learned so much

18:58

about all of y'all. I think Alita

19:00

is gonna have a very tough decision to make.

19:03

One of you will unfortunately not be

19:05

continuing on with a chance to date

19:08

our main dater, Ailita.

19:10

See what's the verdict?

19:12

I know

19:16

I have a surprise. Oh, we

19:19

are not gonna let anyone go

19:21

for now. Yes, you're

19:24

all gonna stay to the end.

19:26

Beautiful, fantastic, So glad because

19:28

I'm a Libra and I can't choose and I love

19:30

y'all. Anyway, what

19:32

we're gonna do is we're gonna have each of you have

19:34

a one on one cafe, but a

19:36

Wilita. You'll just have like just

19:39

you and her, She'll ask you some personal

19:41

questions, to dig deeper, get a little bit more like

19:43

you know, and the nitty gritty of the end, I must

19:45

say, Arsen, I'm

19:47

gonna hand you over to Alita for a

19:49

little one on one they get away.

19:51

Arson, You are so beautiful. Thank

19:53

you for being here with us today.

19:55

Thank you for having me.

19:57

You are right now twenty

20:00

six years old. Yes, all of a

20:02

sudden, twenty years have gone by. What is your

20:04

life looking like? You're in a relationship

20:06

twenty years from now? What do you see.

20:08

Twenty years from now?

20:10

Yeah, ideally I have like a partner and

20:12

a stable life. I'd love to

20:14

have lived other places, like I'd really

20:16

love to have lived abroad by then. I'd

20:19

love to have an artistic practice

20:21

that I feel confident with and like,

20:24

I don't know, I.

20:24

Would love for there to be some community around it.

20:26

Like it doesn't have to be like recognition or necessarily

20:28

that I'm producing things for work,

20:30

But I would love to like have like minded people

20:32

who are also creative and artistic and

20:35

like want to talk about like culture and theater

20:37

and sculpture together, Like.

20:38

So you want to travel a lot?

20:40

So here's my thing.

20:41

I'm actually kind of like a freak for scheduling

20:45

any kind of risk averse like I

20:47

don't know, like I tend to get kind of stuck in routines.

20:49

We know, some people are just always flying off

20:51

to wherever they just got back and then they're leaving again.

20:54

I don't know if I could sustain something like that, but I would

20:57

love to, like long term, live

20:59

in other parts of the world, but maybe Ireland

21:02

because I.

21:02

Have some family there.

21:03

Amazing that would be beautiful with

21:05

your partner.

21:06

You know, if I meet them before I leave,

21:08

or maybe I meet them there. Sure if they join

21:11

me, you know, wherever I'm living at the time, you

21:13

know, another ten years.

21:14

Great like possibility that you have a partner

21:16

that you meet today and

21:19

that person could stay with you for all those years.

21:21

Would that be something.

21:22

Perfect of Elita, If you can hit that up, I'd

21:25

be so Apprecia.

21:27

No, it's just that you know, everybody

21:29

wants love everybody. It doesn't matter what age

21:32

we are, where we come from, or what we're doing.

21:34

It does not matter. To keep you a

21:36

little more grounded in this life and find

21:38

someone that can do super great

21:40

God love that attraction. So let's

21:43

see what happens, and I wish you the best today.

21:45

But remember just

21:48

always open up your heart and approach that person

21:50

whenever you go to the bar. Okay, don't forget

21:52

that.

21:54

Thank you Arson. We are going

21:57

to move on over to the next cafe. See

21:59

the go away lead. Welcome

22:01

back, Catherinen. Are you ready

22:03

for your one on one?

22:07

So I cannot wait?

22:08

All right?

22:09

They get away?

22:10

Oh how are you, my love? Thank

22:13

you doing?

22:14

How are you?

22:15

I am a little confused

22:17

because I don't know who to pick, but

22:20

we're working on it. We're gonna do

22:22

it with a big heart and a lot of honesty.

22:24

Here.

22:25

I want to know for sure,

22:27

thank you. What is

22:29

your best quality?

22:31

My best quality probably

22:34

my passion. I'm very driven

22:37

due to my passions, both in like my

22:39

work life and in my extracurriculars,

22:42

like with rugby. I mean, you have to be

22:44

passionate about it to be able to play. And

22:46

also just like in finding like

22:49

family with my friends,

22:52

I'm very passionate about just like having

22:54

a good structure around

22:57

me, a good circle.

22:59

When was the last time you have relationship?

23:01

My last major relationship was

23:04

last year in April,

23:06

when I got broken up with two days

23:08

before my birthday.

23:10

How did you handle that?

23:13

Terribly? I didn't want it to ruin

23:15

my birthday.

23:15

I had a whole plan to go out in West Hollywood

23:18

and party it up, and party

23:20

it up. I did until I turned

23:22

into a sad drunk crying

23:24

on the streets of WIHO, and my friends had

23:27

to take me home.

23:28

I'm so sorry. But the best part of that story

23:30

is that you had friends around you and they took

23:32

you home exactly. We will remember

23:35

that and never do it again.

23:38

I had a great support system.

23:40

So how do you see life in the future. What

23:42

is it that you want to fill your life with.

23:44

I don't need like a flashy career.

23:47

I don't need like a great

23:49

house or anything like that. I just

23:52

need a lot of love and support around

23:54

me. And that's what I'm looking for.

23:56

I love it, you know. I'm all about love.

23:58

And so very nicely said thank you

24:00

so much.

24:01

All right, thank you so much for

24:04

all these beautiful answers. Catherine really

24:06

really appreciate. We're gonna now

24:08

move on to our other Cafesita, Rex,

24:12

it is your turn now for a one one.

24:14

With a Wilita. How are you,

24:17

darling.

24:17

I'm doing so good. I'm happy to be that.

24:20

Oh yeah, such a great smile.

24:22

Are you always smiling?

24:23

Thank you? Honestly, yeah, I

24:26

really do. I try to find the joy in life,

24:28

you know.

24:29

Now, tell me how did these beautiful

24:31

women in your life, your grandmother's

24:33

influence who you are today?

24:35

Oh my gosh. Okay, so I can talk about

24:37

this for hours, but I'll try and keep it cute for time's

24:39

sake.

24:40

Thank you.

24:40

But my grandma on my dad's side,

24:43

is a singer, so she was always calling

24:45

me her superstar, always telling me I was destined

24:47

for things. Always just my biggest cheerleader.

24:50

And then on my mom's side, who

24:53

I grew up. On my mom's side, my parents kind of split

24:55

when I was younger. My grandma she was a school teacher,

24:57

so as I was growing up, she would have me of

25:00

test out the things that she would do for her classroom,

25:02

So new arts and crafts, new games,

25:06

new learning exercises. So

25:08

every time I went to grandma's house, it was like, Oh,

25:10

what are we going to do? What are we going to paint? What are we going to create?

25:13

What are we gonna paper mache? What are

25:15

we going to make with our

25:17

clothes?

25:18

They all kept you busy, busy, busy.

25:20

Yeah, there was always an inspirational,

25:22

like a creative experience of

25:24

like, oh, what idea do you have? What

25:26

do you think? And they both always cultivated

25:29

that for me.

25:29

Are they both still around absolutely?

25:32

Oh that is beautiful and you still have a good close

25:34

relationship with them?

25:36

I do, I do.

25:37

What advice have they given you about your love life?

25:40

Definitely, as someone who grew

25:42

up in a single mother household, it was always

25:44

like cherish the women or cherish your partner. I

25:46

know, obviously it's very heteronormative ideas

25:49

back then, but it was always cherish your

25:51

partner and listen to them

25:53

and be open minded because no

25:55

one is ever going to agree one hundred percent on anything.

25:57

That is kind of like a little fantasy. But

26:00

my two grandparents on my mom's side are high

26:02

school sweethearts, so they were a really

26:04

good visual representation

26:06

of love working out how to communicate,

26:09

how to support and sustain

26:12

each other.

26:12

So yeah, you had wonderful role

26:15

models, and we thank you for all your beautiful

26:17

answers and let's see what happens at the end.

26:19

Thank you so much for being with.

26:20

Us, Thank you so so much

26:23

for our remaining contestants, You have made it through

26:25

the GAF so

26:29

little did you know that our

26:31

main dater has actually been listening this whole

26:34

time. That might

26:37

have an idea of who she likes.

26:39

But let's see if we have a unanimous

26:42

decision. So muchisimus, Grassies,

26:44

We're gonna ask you for a quick exit and

26:46

we'll bring back our main contestant.

26:49

We'll be back after the break. Welcome

26:53

back today, May I wanly the first?

26:56

Marcy?

26:58

What is good? You? Three people

27:00

who are so wonderful? This is gonna be tough.

27:03

Who do you want to go on a date with? What's your heart telling

27:05

you?

27:05

I know they're so funny.

27:07

I love them all.

27:08

No, you can't have them all.

27:10

Unfortunately, I can't

27:12

come on.

27:13

Yes, I think the

27:16

number two would the path

27:19

and I just like the personality of Rex.

27:21

Rex's is really is and

27:23

that's your number two.

27:25

I'm between the both of them. They're like both

27:28

nice, grounded people. I feel like I

27:30

like that a lot. But I have to say

27:32

that it was a huge red flag

27:35

that Kathleen's friends.

27:37

Who best friends with the ex, noted

27:40

that's no.

27:41

No.

27:41

I understand. There were a couple of things

27:43

that I thought would be red flags to you

27:46

like the team and all that.

27:49

So knowing a little bit

27:51

about your background by being Latino

27:53

and us being Latino, we know how we

27:55

feel and all these things, I understand

27:57

exactly what you're saying.

27:58

Yeah, fantastic, Marci,

28:01

thank you so much for your input. All

28:05

right, A Wilita, how are you feeling?

28:07

It was between Rex and Catherine until

28:10

the very end, right now, But

28:12

then when all that started coming out about

28:14

the ex being the best friend,

28:17

it was a little tough for me to think

28:19

that Marcy would understand. I would be comfortable

28:21

with that, but I particularly

28:25

love Rex.

28:26

Yeah. Rex is sweetie.

28:27

He's very honest, he's clear, he

28:29

really expresses his feelings

28:32

well, and he would be great at communicating.

28:34

I am there with you. I think it's a time

28:36

to bring them all back in and a

28:39

Willita your time to make

28:41

a choice.

28:41

I think we're ready.

28:48

Hello, Hello everyone again,

28:50

Thank you, thank you, thank you so very

28:52

much for doing this, for playing,

28:55

for being earnest and honest. Awalita

28:58

has landed on a match, so.

29:01

Holy le Leana, thank you so much

29:03

to each of you for being in this amazingly

29:06

entertaining and heartfelt show. I'm

29:10

sorry that only one person can go out with

29:12

the main data, and after

29:14

thinking about it and putting all the ideas

29:16

together and how you each feel and you're expressing

29:18

your feelings, the person who will

29:21

be going out with our main data today

29:26

it's Rex.

29:30

Thank you, Thank you, Bild

29:34

Times a roller coaster, Arson,

29:36

Kat, thank you so so very much for joining

29:39

us. It has been such a delight. You both are

29:41

absolutely wonderful by.

29:42

Me some moist.

29:45

Oh, thank you guys.

29:48

So so alrighty well,

29:51

Rex, let's welcome and Marcy Marcy

29:53

join the call.

29:55

Hello, Marcy

30:00

submitted. I was saying that I just love

30:02

your vibe. I really love like how

30:05

silly you are and I don't know. You have a beautiful

30:07

vibe, beautiful smile, very

30:10

honest. You seem very honest, and that's what

30:12

I like.

30:13

That's the tourist in me. I can't I can't lie even

30:15

if I wanted to.

30:16

Yes, Well, y'all got ahead and went

30:19

right to first impressions without me prompting, So thank

30:21

you for that. Okay,

30:24

you too. We know there's a lot

30:26

to talk about, so we're gonna

30:28

send you off on your little virtual

30:31

date. We're gonna

30:33

try not to eat straps so hard.

30:38

What kind of movies do you like?

30:39

I like comedy. I would say that comedy

30:41

is my thing. My favorite movie is Scott

30:43

Pilgrim Versus the World. I feel

30:45

that, okay, yeah,

30:48

because it makes like things that I

30:50

like that. It's like, I don't know, video games,

30:53

comics with music,

30:56

superpowers, pop culture. I

30:58

feel that.

30:59

So you like video games.

31:00

I don't get to play that much, but I like

31:02

them. Yeah, yea, yea yeah.

31:03

I'm a gamer myself. I like to play a lot.

31:05

So oh that's awesome.

31:07

Yeah.

31:08

No, I moved here less than two

31:10

years ago, so for me, it's like I

31:12

don't know. I didn't come with a lot of stuff,

31:15

so I don't have any consoles yet, so that's why I

31:17

haven't played.

31:17

So where did you come from?

31:19

Venezuela?

31:21

Venezuela? What was the Venezuelan

31:23

slang they told me to say when I was in Peru.

31:26

I think I think it was. I

31:29

think it's a bad word. Maybe I shouldn't say maybe say

31:32

it, let's say it go first. I

31:34

think there's a mama guebo.

31:38

Yeah, being that's the best.

31:40

That's right, that's the one, yes, perfect,

31:43

That's the one that I always teach my friends.

31:46

I'm so happy you know that.

31:47

Really they told me, They're like, yeah, you have to

31:50

learn mama guebo. I was like, okay,

31:52

yeah, it means stick sucker. See

31:56

they didn't tell me. They didn't tell me what it meant. They were

31:58

like, it's just like a bad word.

31:59

Yeah, it's something that we say

32:02

all the time.

32:02

It's like saying fucker.

32:05

It's like, yeah,

32:08

yeah, did you come to LA for

32:11

music for? You

32:13

said you played guitars? Like, what did you come

32:15

to LA for?

32:17

It's not that I came here for something specific.

32:19

I would say that I knew that this was like the capital

32:22

of entertainment. So by

32:25

the music, I like art, I

32:27

like acting, I like so

32:30

much stuff that is like, okay, LA

32:32

kind of makes sense for me, and

32:34

I'm an influencer. That's actually my

32:37

real job. What I would say, Yeah, I don't

32:39

know. I'm like trying out like all the possibilities

32:41

that you know, you can find in

32:43

these wild place. I love

32:46

it so much.

32:46

LA is definitely very free. There's a lot you could do here. What

32:50

what apps

32:52

are you an influencer on? Like what do you typically

32:54

use? Are you a streamer? Are

32:57

you like, what's your vibe. What's

33:00

your content? I would say Instagram

33:02

and TikTok me too. I do

33:05

a lot on TikTok and Instagram as well. I'm trying

33:07

to get more into streaming, but like, I don't know,

33:09

it's hard for me to like take myself seriously like

33:11

going live.

33:12

I don't know why I feel that you would

33:14

do so good as a streamer because

33:16

it's your personality.

33:18

I don't think I could just like you know how people like go

33:20

on like Bigo and they're just like live all

33:22

day and just talking to people, or like

33:24

I couldn't do that, or like people on TikTok

33:27

live that just like talk to people. I

33:29

think I would have to like do something, you

33:32

know. Yeah, so, what what's

33:34

your what's what's your TikTok oh?

33:36

I recommend you better Instagram.

33:39

Instagram is better. Yeah,

33:42

what is it my name? I'll

33:45

shoot you with DM. I don't just Marcy,

33:48

Yeah.

33:51

Just that? Yes?

33:53

Oh yeah, you popped right up. You

33:55

follow Halloween Horneites? You like you like Halloween

33:57

Horneites.

33:58

Oh?

33:58

I used to work there. I worked

34:00

there last year. What did you do? Were you

34:02

a scaracter?

34:04

I love what I was doing because I was one of the rip,

34:07

no people, the tether.

34:09

But the problem is that they.

34:11

Were paying so bad.

34:13

Yeah.

34:14

Yeah, it's definitely not the best. To me, It's better

34:16

than like working at Starbucks, you know, or like

34:19

working because at least it's entertainment. It's

34:21

like doing something.

34:22

Actually, I was in the prop party of Yours of

34:24

this year in no vacancy.

34:26

I was yes, yeah,

34:30

that's crazy. Yeah, we definitely would have crossed

34:32

paths.

34:33

I was just taking a friend of mine there and

34:36

then they were like, oh no, no, this close

34:38

is a private event. And I was like, I know

34:40

everyone in LA come on, what's the

34:42

name?

34:42

Like, what's this?

34:43

I was like thinking, I'm going to shoot at em to see if

34:45

I can get in, And then like they were

34:48

like, oh, Halloween, and there was no way. Halloween,

34:50

Hornet, I got you so like a guy recognized

34:52

me. I honestly don't have no idea who

34:54

he was, and he was like, oh Martin,

34:57

and I was like, oh, hey, by the way, I need

34:59

to get can you help me? And he

35:01

sent me a screen shut off the QR

35:04

code.

35:05

That's crazy.

35:12

Well wow, wow wow. I hope

35:14

those sweeties headed off.

35:16

Find us back here next week. As Leanna

35:19

and I make some more matches.

35:22

Good work today, Ali, Oh, we did good.

35:26

I like what I'm looking at.

35:29

Date Myaori The First is a production from

35:31

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35:34

podcast network, hosted by me Vico

35:37

Ortiz, joined by the fabulous Leanna

35:39

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35:41

is produced by Leo Clem, Nico Raguel,

35:43

and Sophie Spencer Zavos. Our executive

35:46

producers are Wilmer Valderrama, Leo

35:48

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35:51

This episode was edited by Sean Tracy

35:53

and Nico Raguel. This episode

35:56

features original music by Gabe Lopez

35:58

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36:00

to our team of cupits at WV

36:02

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do our hopeful romantics this week, Marcy

36:07

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36:23

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