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Buenas buena miha is.
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Do you believe that
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knows best? Well? This is
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date my first, where plays
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matchmaker for our star
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dater and three contestants
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looking for Alita's firm stamp
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of approval. I am
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your host, Vico or this is joined
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by our.
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Lovely with
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that Comstan.
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I'm ready for all of you, cuties. Just bring
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it, bring it, bring it.
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Today's main dater is Maria.
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Today is interesting because a
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lot of people who've applied for your help
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have not really had much luck on the dating
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apps. You know, however, Marias
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is that on the apps, they are on
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my body. So we
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have a case of abundance
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here, Alita, we have abundance.
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Have you ever had to choose between lovers?
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No?
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I just took them all at the same time.
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Oh yeah, but as long as they
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didn't know about each other.
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I was.
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I was young and foolish, I was gonna
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say.
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I was like, oh my goodness, I'm
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the complete opposite. I don't
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want to choose, and everybody knows, yes,
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actually I choose them all. I'm
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like, yes, please, everybody.
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The more the merrier. But
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here's the thing. For Maria.
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Monogamy is the historical preference,
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but they say they
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can maybe be convinced to try more
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openness. And it has been around
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five years since they've had a serious relationship,
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when they were deep into what they
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call one of their big big loves, a
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different kind of BBL. Maria
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recently moved to Los Angeles and trying
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to find another partner for
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a new season of life.
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I love that this this stunning
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queen has tried all of the apps, but has
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been a little bit overwhelmed by everyone
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who's been knocking on their door.
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So e that do
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you think, Well, let's see
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what we can do to get this beautiful
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Maria of the apps. Welcome
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Maria, come on into Alita.
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How Hi everybody?
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Oh my goodness, hello, Hello,
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you came in and it's like boom radiance
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that introduction.
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I'm like, oh my gosh.
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I hope it transcends everybody who's
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listening. If they can't see, yes, they're gonna be like,
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who's this girl who thinks she's so beautiful?
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I know, listen, honestly,
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you have like some beautiful like neon flower
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blouse situation. We got some
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platinum nails. I understand
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why you're just off the charts on the
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apps.
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Let's get to know Maria Maria.
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I'm interested on your beautiful name.
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Where did that come from?
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Well, there's a few stories
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behind it, but mostly my grandmother
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who pretty much raised me when I was little.
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Her name is Maria, and she
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passed, So this is a name that I honor
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her in. You know, I'm born
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Christopher, and my chosen
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name now that I go through when I perform
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and do things like that, is Maria.
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Maria then Cartier.
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Yes, were you close to you're Alida?
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Oh my god, yes, we were so close.
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When I was little, my mom was going
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through the academy.
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She's an officer, but she was an officer.
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She retired and so I was pretty
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much raised with my grandma, so I spent
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most of my time with her. So when she passed,
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I was about like maybe seven, So I tooked
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that pretty hard because I was always
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being with her and I was attached with her literally
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by the hip. If you saw her, you saw me. My
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mom says, I get my fire from her.
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I love that. I love that you
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said that. It's been five years since your last like
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big, big love right, Yes, a long
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time?
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How long with did that.
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Relationship last That was
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a four year relationship. We
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lived together and we were walking through
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the adoption process as
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well. But it was the huge, huge
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thing when it was the decision to separate
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and go our separate ways. But me and him have an
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amazing friendship and relationships
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still.
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That's beautiful.
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What are the things that you've learned from that past relationship?
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I learned how much I really do love
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and a door, the romance that comes
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with the everyday stuff
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like you know, you get home and those
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little small things that your partner does for
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you that goes a long way, and
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how much I like that.
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And what I learned that I don't
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want.
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I need someone who is
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secure and super supportive.
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I get a lot of attention in rooms that I am.
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I'm a performer, I'm boisterous, loud.
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You know, there's a lot of eyes on me, and
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I need someone secure in that.
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You know, Okay, people are talking
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to her, taking pictures, hugging this.
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App but you know I know she's mine, or I
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know we're together, or we go home together.
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Someone who's secure and confident in that way.
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And then another thing I learned, the big
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takeaway from that was how important
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like having financial discussions
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are in adult dating. You
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know, I know taboo. That's not something
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you want to talk about on the first date.
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But it is second when it's Okay,
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you're new to La correct.
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Yes, yes, I've been here six months.
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Wow, Oh
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my god, welcome to La La Land.
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Well what is it that you find different about
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La in the dating life?
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I don't know why, but I just feel like people are a lot
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more accepting here and embracing.
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And it's weird to say that because as a New Yorker
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it's like the melting pot everything goes. But like
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just from an identity perspective, because
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I do consider myself gens are not unconforming
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and I used all pronouns,
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and you know, it's not every day that I'm
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fem presenting. So I have
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my days where I'm maybe more masculine
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presenting or things like that. And
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so I'm just finding that here I don't
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have to explain so much what it is. People
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are just like go with the flow, whereas I felt in New
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York and in my past, my whole life,
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I'm constantly having to explain
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why I woke up with a beard tomorrow
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and why last night, you know, I was
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at the Beyonce the Council looking glamorous.
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Well, in the name of all the LA listeners,
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thank you very much. That is something
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very nice to be said about our LA
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peeps. I want to know a little bit more
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fun facts about your life. How did you get
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into the business that you are in. What
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made you who you are?
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I was very much a person who was on
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the straight and narrow. I went
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to college in three years, I got my
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degree and went straight into work through
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my internship and just was working
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adult like corporate retail life
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and just straight at it.
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So before twenty five years old, I
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was just living this life of like not
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a twenty year old person, you know what I
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mean. Like I had the four oh one K
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and I had a retirement plan going
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and a salary and this and that, and it was just
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like you're painted the picture that that's
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the dream and that's what you're supposed to go after.
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But then you realize in your early twenties
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and you haven't done none of the early twenty
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shit, you know what I mean, It's like, what is
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going on? So I'm living this straight in our life
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and I think I was just sitting at my desk one day
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realizing this is not what I want to be doing.
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I'm a creative. I went to art school,
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so it's like I want to be doing my thing.
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And the only thing that was like a creative
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outlet for me was doing drag and
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performing and creating and acting
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and doing things like that. So I just started
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kind of just jumping in and pursuing it.
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And I had been doing drags
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since like twenty eleven or
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something like that. I started in college, so
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I knew that that was a passion for me, but it was
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like something that I buried deep, and I
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never looked at it as like something
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that could be a profession or make me
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money or pay the bills. And now
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I'm happy because Maria pays the bill, and
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I say, oh my god, how cool. I never thought that I
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could just work for myself and make
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money off of my own personality and
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who I am and my talents. I was
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so straight and narrow. You got to go work somewhere
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fifty hours a week, now, right.
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I was going to mention something in regards to that. There
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was nothing wrong with that either.
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Yeah, yeah, nothing wrong because.
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You knew exactly where you were going. You were preparing
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yourself and it's very true that no matter how
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young we are, we need to be prepared
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for the day in which you are a Wilita's age,
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because hell, life moves quick.
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Amen, And it set me up to understand
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money, understand bills, understand
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all of that.
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And more power to you in the fact
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that you return to your creative world
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and are doing exactly what you love the
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right way.
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But I want to ask you.
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You say that you lost your Awlita when
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you were young, but she's always around
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you. So what would
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she think of your life right now?
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And what would she tell a dating
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possibility about what makes you
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such a great catch?
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That's so interesting. I think she will
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be blown away by who I became.
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She was a very big queer advocate.
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She used to work and cook food at like
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the LGBT centers.
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And I would go with her and things
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like that.
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She would help a lot of like people battling
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HIV and AIDS and things like that. So
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that was something she was passionate about that I
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didn't realize until an adult that
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that's what she was doing because I witnessed all of this and her
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doing it as a kid, and so I realized.
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I think she would just be.
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So proud and astonished by just why
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I become but the advice that
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maybe she would give me.
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He planted a seed because I Willitas
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know they really do. You are
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so beautiful inside and out.
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I love you. You're gorgeous, gorgeous.
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We will definitely get you off
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the apps and on a date.
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This, this is the goal. We are so happening.
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You have to know it's happening.
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I'm happy to be at a place where I can stay
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out loud. I am welcoming romance
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into my life.
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Oh I love that. I love
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that.
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Thank you for being here with
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us, Maria. Honestly, you can
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throw away your phone. Me and Amalita,
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we got you. We got you handling it. So
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Aalita is going to have to
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find someone that has
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a heart as big as yours, who
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can handle all of this glam
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with grace and fabulousness.
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And I had to say, there was a moment when
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I got really choked up, and
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that's because Yi Aelita is here with us.
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She is so ready and so very
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proud of you. Awelita doesn't need
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to stick together. We are the salt
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of the earth. We bring
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with us a little bit of the wisdom from the past
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that we're trying to put together with
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the presence so that we can have
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a more accepting, more loving world. And
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she's here with you, She's in your heart, she is
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you.
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Yes, thank you so
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sweet mom.
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After this, tell
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you that I cried because I did. Look I
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get the CLEENX.
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All right, Mandia, thank you so much.
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We'll be back after the break. Welcome
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back today, Maya Wili the first.
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Well, now that we've had the chance to get
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to know Maria, we are
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going to send Awelita off
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on her three speed dates
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for some GAFA
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with each contestant. So
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shall we bring in the first
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one.
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Yes, let's do this.
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Ah right, Ailita,
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Let's meet Billy.
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Hey, Hello,
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Hello. Before
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I hand you over to our give
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us a little intro to yourself.
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All right. I am Billy Horren from Los
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Angeles.
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Born in Ohio, actually
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thirty five years old, and I
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do branding and marketing for
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fashion companies.
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Gorgeous.
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I love that.
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Well, thank you for that.
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And I'm fun, all right. I
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like that fun fact is that I'm fun, So
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I'll add that on there.
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That's what I wanted to hear. Well,
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welcome to date.
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Mayamilita first, where you have the
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chance to walk away with the beautiful
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main data and let
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me ask you a couple of questions.
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Let me talk about your dating life. What is
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that? Like, Oh, Graham, it's pretty
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wild.
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Explain
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you know those like crazy dating stories
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that you go on a date and you're like, I can't believe this
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happens.
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This always happens to me.
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Give us an example, Give us
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an example.
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Well, here we go.
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Recently, in the last months, I went on a
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blind date and everything
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was going well until the
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big question dropped is like, what's your Instagram?
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So you give him the Instagram and
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he gives.
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Me his and we finally have somebody
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in comment, you know, a friend in comment? And he goes,
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oh, how do you know this
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guy? And I was like, oh,
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we kind of like hooked up a
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while back, you know. And he was going like.
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Oh, well, how long ago? And
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I was like, I don't know, like a
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year or so ago. And I was like,
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why how do you know him?
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He's like, well, that's my ex
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boyfriend and we were together at that time.
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Okay, alrighty, next
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date. So
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what was your answer to that? How did you respond?
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I mean, I was kind of like obviously shocked.
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So I just said, well, I
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guess practically we've slept together already.
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And his response, I mean he thought
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it was funny.
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He thought it was funny.
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Oh that was cool.
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But again there was not a second date after that.
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Yeah, I can see why. So
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what are your red flags when
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it comes to finding someone special?
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And what are you looking for a
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committed relationship?
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You're looking for love.
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I'm looking for love, the love
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of my life.
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You know, I've always known since I was a child
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that there was one person there for me. So
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it's kind of like when I go on dates when you realize,
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like, Okay, they're nice, they're great, but do
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you really feel that like spark that you found
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your other half? And
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if I don't, I can't really pursue that because
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you know, it's kind of like you're lying to yourself. So
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red flags for me, I guess for people who
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are serial daters, people who
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date one after another after
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another after another, trying to find
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something.
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Maybe they don't know what they're looking for.
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You made me cry, Yeah, because you
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are looking for love and aren't well.
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But that's where you're here.
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So Awalita can help you now, in
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looking for that special someone in
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your life. What is the one quality
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that you have to have in that relationship?
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What is the number one?
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They have to be in love with themselves in a sense,
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they have to be secure with themselves, but they also
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have to live life as an adventure. I'm
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not very into like being a cookie cutter
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by the book. Let's do this, Let's
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be here, and then let's sit around and retire
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together for the rest of our life. I want to like live
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life as a fun adventure with that other person.
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And sit on that rocking chair out in the porch and just
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forget about everything else.
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Just die on that rocky chair. Thank
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you.
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So sorry to interrupt, but we're gonna
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send Alita to save her next
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cafecito Billy.
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Thank you so so very much. We'll
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be back with contestant number two. Welcome
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back to day, my an Alita. First, I
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will ead that meet Juni.
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Hi, Hello, Hello Juni.
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Before I hand you over with a Wilita for a little
16:09
one on one, give us a little
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intro to yourself.
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So my name is Juni. I
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am from Los Angeles, California. I
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love to cook and I'm a big foodie.
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So when it comes to cooking, I always
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hold food to like such a high expectation,
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and so every time I go to a Michelin Star restaurant,
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I'm going to be that snooty person that's like this
16:30
is okay, or like this could have been done.
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Different, not just the food, but the
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whole experience.
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The whole experience, of course, because anytime
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someone comes to my house, I always make
16:39
sure that I am giving them the Michelin.
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Star experience and the addresses.
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Anytime, anytime, You're
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welcome over, anytime.
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Oh thank you, JUNI.
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Well, I'm gonna go ahead and hand you over to a Wilita
16:56
for a little cafecito.
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Aiita, take it away, Junia. Plea sure
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meeting you. You are so cute.
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Now are you on vacation in Italy right
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now?
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I am so. I came
17:08
with a group of friends to Italy.
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We kind of have this thing where we go to
17:13
a different country every year, and so
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last year we went to Brazil. This week
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we're in Italy. Before that we were in Costa
17:20
Rica. So I am a big traveler as well. I
17:22
love to experience a new cultures, on new
17:25
cuisine, on new adventures
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people. So that's why I'm
17:29
here.
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That is awesome. I love it. I love it.
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Well, let's talk a little bit about your dating life. You have all
17:34
these wonderful friends that you travel with. How
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about your dating life? What is that about?
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What's up? So?
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When was the last time?
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Then it was the last time you actually
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were in a relationship.
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Four years ago, pre pandemic And I was
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in a relationship for ten years prior
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to that.
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My goodness, yes, ten beautiful
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years.
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Ten beautiful years. We have the dog, we have
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the house, had the engagement
18:01
ring. I was ready to commit, but
18:03
then pandemic hit, and you know that's when like the
18:05
whole foundation crumbled, right, Like I think
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that I opened up a lot of uglies for a lot of people.
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Did Now I'm very single, moved
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across the country, started a new life.
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And I was going to ask you that did your life change
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dramatically after that?
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It did?
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It?
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Did?
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I felt in a way that I was like I was
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in a good place and then all
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of that happened, and I was like, you know what, it's
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time to choose me. It's time to do something
18:29
different. So I got a job in California,
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and I said, you know what, I'm going to go
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and they said when can you be here? And I said, give me two weeks.
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So I packed up my car, packed up my dog, and
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I just drove across the country. No furniture,
18:41
no nothing, Just like you know, I
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wish to hope a dream and my dog
18:46
and I made it. And I've been in California
18:48
for you know, four years, and I love it.
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I love everything about it.
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Now, you tell us that your
18:54
dream is to have a farm full of
18:56
animals.
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What appeals to you about that?
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You know, despite living in Los Angeles,
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the mecca of materialism,
19:05
the mecca of beautiful people, concentrating
19:08
people, you know, the traffic, the amount of people
19:10
that are constantly flocking to Los Angeles,
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I'm like, I just want some peace and quiet.
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I want to have like the farm.
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I want to have no neighbors for miles. I
19:20
want my neighbors to be chickens, goats,
19:23
a cow. You know, I want to
19:25
be best friends with Betsy the cow. That's
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what I.
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Want, Lindo,
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Helindo.
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There is something to be said about the
19:33
piece that quietness
19:36
and solitude and animals bring to
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your life. You know. That's why I think
19:40
in La a lot of us most of us have pets
19:42
because we do want that little connection, even
19:45
if it's just in a little cubicle that we live every
19:47
day. What is it that you are
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looking for right now in a partner? Are
19:51
you looking for love? Are you looking for a long term
19:53
relationship?
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I think I want that. I've been single
19:57
for so long that I
19:59
thought in Los Angeles, where there's
20:01
ten million people, I'd be like, there's
20:04
bound to be at least one person that likes me. And
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I've been here for four years and
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I've yet to find that one person that like
20:11
I connect with on a more intimate level.
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I can connect with people on you know,
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any kind of superficial thing, fashion,
20:18
movies, aesthetic, whatever
20:20
it is that you know, Californians love, but
20:23
nobody has been able to make a commitment.
20:25
And that's been the hard part. That I want somebody
20:28
that I can connect with, that I can like
20:30
really just like not have to think about
20:32
being more than myself.
20:34
You know.
20:35
I hear a lot of people say, oh,
20:37
yeah, it's Los Angeles, It's what California
20:40
is all about. But I think that as human
20:42
beings, we are different everywhere
20:44
we go, and it's just a matter of who
20:46
we surround ourselves with who
20:48
we open our hearts to and who is able
20:50
to do that for us. So I think
20:53
a Wilita is going to try and do that for you.
20:55
Let's see what happens. Okay, thank you, thank
20:58
you, Juny.
21:00
And that's the time we have for this. So
21:03
let's kick off your third
21:06
and final CAO. Let's
21:08
meet Florentino, Mida
21:12
Florentino. Before I send you over with the
21:14
little.
21:16
Give us like a little intro
21:18
to.
21:19
You, your name, where you're from? What
21:21
do you do a fun?
21:22
Facts
21:24
Florentino, the tropical experience,
21:28
Rico slashes Dominica Republic and
21:31
I am just a fabulous experience for
21:33
to have some fun.
21:34
Then really I love it.
21:36
Well, thank you so much, Farentino. I'm going to
21:38
hand you over for a little.
21:41
Alita. Trig it away, take it away.
21:43
How are you me florentinot
21:50
I have an espresso already right now. The
21:52
first thing that I read is that you say
21:55
that alitas are the true test.
21:57
What do you mean by that?
21:59
As the person that was race by
22:01
my grandma, they always
22:03
have great insight and their best
22:05
intentions for your in mind, so they're always
22:07
the toughest critics. So I feel like if
22:10
you can get thrown out Waalita, you're most
22:12
likely to get to the heart of the person you want.
22:14
Because if the a Walita approves like, it's
22:16
a yes for the family.
22:17
You know.
22:19
Okay, I'm crying again, all right,
22:21
Phoenix, Is your Awalita still
22:23
with us?
22:24
Yes, thankfully she is. She's about to
22:26
turn eighty, so I am the blessed
22:29
to have her around. That's the tough woman, the toughest
22:31
woman I know.
22:31
I love that woman.
22:32
Does she give you dating advice?
22:34
No?
22:35
Time has changed, orientations
22:38
have changed, mentalities are a little bit different.
22:40
So Mayawalita has like an
22:43
overall idea, but going to
22:45
deep, especially being a gay
22:47
man, it's a little harder getting
22:50
super deep into details
22:53
and emotions with an Aa. So
22:55
Maalita gives me like a broad
22:57
view of how you approach things,
22:59
you know, like my mom is really good at giving me
23:01
advice. I go to her to like the deeper questions,
23:04
you know.
23:05
But you would be surprised sometimes how I Willitas
23:07
have a better understanding than you think
23:10
we do because we love you so much.
23:12
They do. Maa actually surprised me with
23:15
a lot of love and acceptance throughout
23:17
the years and having difficult conversations.
23:20
So I definitely cherish
23:22
that woman's opinion deeply in it's
23:25
nice to see her evolve and accept
23:27
me more and embrace me more, and it's made
23:29
for us to have like even more special relationship through
23:31
out time.
23:32
It's the ultimate love. So, speaking
23:34
of love, are we looking for love in a relationship?
23:36
I'm always looking for love.
23:38
I love love, You love love?
23:40
So has that gotten you into trouble? Because sometimes
23:43
it's kind of hard to see all the red
23:45
flags if you're in love with love,
23:48
Yes.
23:49
That has gotten me answer trouble. That has got to
23:51
be out of trouble. I mean, I am
23:53
just a lover. I use a lot of that love
23:56
for inspiration. I feel like love
23:58
is one of the most powerful process and that
24:00
keeps me alive as a writer, as
24:02
a musician, love is like my
24:05
biggest inspiration in life. So I often
24:07
find myself pulling from love for different
24:10
sorts of inspiration.
24:11
You know, so you also are
24:13
a hard worker and you have a lot of hustles
24:15
going on out there.
24:16
What is that all about?
24:17
Well, living in la is not an ec city,
24:20
and being a freelance artist,
24:23
you need to stay on top
24:25
of your game all the time. So
24:28
I'm being very blessed to live
24:30
off of art here since simum to La.
24:32
So I'm constantly working in production,
24:35
using my body as my vessel
24:38
for modeling, acting and
24:40
doing all the things that I as the child thought
24:42
were a dream. And I'm here living
24:45
off of ghost little things. Honestly, I'm
24:48
having the best time. Hustling very hard because
24:50
it's tough out here. But if you're doing
24:52
what you love, I feel like no hustle is
24:54
hard enough.
24:55
No, and you have to.
24:56
Life has changed completely for all of us, no matter
24:59
how old we are. Life is a
25:01
hustle. And do you hustle
25:03
to find that right person?
25:04
Also, I feel like I have
25:07
a lot of open doors. I am on
25:09
the dating apps. I'm very open so like going
25:12
out and meeting people. I'm very open
25:14
to giving people chances. Like I said, I'm
25:16
an open door for love, and I love love and
25:18
I always welcome it in whichever
25:21
way it comes.
25:21
That you are also looking for commitment, yes.
25:24
And that is so hard to find here in La.
25:26
I guess I don't know the culture. Everything moves so quick,
25:28
everybody's looking so like the person that's gonna
25:31
give them their next moment or taking them
25:33
more and like finding a person that's willing to commit.
25:35
I feel like it's so hard.
25:38
I hate cutting off coup of seat those because
25:40
I always want to like keep hearing, But unfortunately
25:42
I have to stop this because we will be getting to know each
25:44
other more with games and challenges,
25:46
So do not worry. So,
25:49
thank you so so much for
25:51
Lentino. Ah
25:53
so aut eat that you just met
25:56
three lovely, gorgeous humans.
25:59
They all seem to have great, big hearts
26:01
and just exactly what Maria is looking
26:03
for.
26:03
So and do you think's something
26:06
little different to offer? Absolutely,
26:09
it's harder for Awilita, but very
26:12
interesting.
26:12
Do you think it's going to be possible to find someone?
26:15
Yeah?
26:15
I think so. We always do,
26:17
Veico.
26:18
All right, Maria, come on in for a hot
26:20
second and tell us what have been your
26:22
first impressions.
26:23
I'm freaking out because I
26:26
love like everyone's answers, and
26:29
I agree with you Awlita that they are
26:31
like bringing something different and
26:33
unique that all seems like
26:35
hard to like if I had to make a choice,
26:38
like, oh my gosh, they all bring something
26:40
else so different.
26:41
I liked all the contestants I thought their
26:43
answers.
26:44
Were great, and most of all, I love that it seems
26:46
like everybody's on the same page
26:48
about looking for something serious
26:51
currently, which like I love the
26:53
most and like full transparency
26:56
between us and whatever.
26:57
I'm just like really nervous right.
26:59
Now because I'm wondering
27:01
if these daters or contestants
27:03
are quote unquote like transamorous,
27:06
or if they're interested in someone who
27:08
does drag or looks so female
27:10
presenting, because I'm not presenting
27:13
as a boy today, but that does
27:15
exist, you know what I So, I just
27:17
don't want to seem like I'm like cat fishing
27:19
or doing like a bait and switch or something.
27:21
So that's just that's one thing that keeps
27:24
running through my mind.
27:24
Is all this guy's great, he's cool, Like I'm
27:27
lik in theses, but I wonder, like.
27:28
You know what I mean, don't question,
27:31
Okay.
27:32
Go with it, Okay, let us do all
27:34
the questions. Like I said,
27:36
they each bring something different and
27:38
special, but in the way that
27:40
they speak, they've opened their heart and their
27:42
mind to being in a format
27:45
like this, So we are accepting
27:47
of everything. This is a program
27:50
of inclusion. It is a program
27:52
dedicated to Ldbqtia
27:55
community. Everyone who
27:58
is looking for love is
28:00
here with us, so don't question
28:02
it, relax, enjoy the process,
28:05
and uh let's see what we can do.
28:07
Oh yeah, it's gonna be a good time. It's gonna be a
28:09
good time. Well
28:15
for this week, that is all the heat we
28:17
could handle. So we'll see you next
28:19
week when A Wilita and I
28:22
will play some fun and flirty
28:25
games with the three contestants
28:28
hoping to be a Walita approved
28:30
for Maria. And
28:32
remember to subscribe to Date my
28:35
auralid the First wherever you get your
28:37
podcasts. Date my Awalita
28:39
First is a production from WV Sound
28:42
and iHeartMedia's Mike Wueltura podcast
28:44
network, hosted by me vicordis
28:46
joined by the fabulous Lina Montenegro.
28:49
Date my Awalita First is produced
28:51
by Leo Clem, Nico Raguel, and Luigi
28:54
Villian Meva. Our executive producers
28:56
are Wilmer Valdorama, Leo Clem and Nico
28:58
Raguel, and wvsaund. This
29:00
episode was edited by Sean Tracy
29:03
and Nico Raguel.
29:04
This episode features original music by
29:06
Gay B.
29:07
Lopez. The original artwork
29:09
for this show was created by Mack McClain
29:12
special thanks to our team of cupids
29:14
at WV Entertainment Special Things.
29:16
Also to our hopeful romantics
29:19
this week, Maria, Juni, Billy
29:21
and Florentpino.
29:23
Additional thanks to Salt and Lime Media.
29:26
For more podcasts from iHeart, visit
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the iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts,
29:30
or wherever you listen to your favorite
29:32
shows. See you next week and in the meantime,
29:35
don't do anything Amanita wouldn't do.
29:37
Just do it better besit
29:40
us
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