0:04

Aid, Do you have any tattoos?

0:07

I've always wanted one where

0:11

who oh my, but

0:15

that would be a little heart

0:18

a little hard so I can

0:20

leave hearts as I walk away.

0:22

Or you want someone to know where to aim when they like

0:24

give you.

0:24

A little.

0:28

You know me too? Well?

0:30

That's amazing all right, Welcome

0:32

listeners. This is day on a Walida. First,

0:35

we're our cute but ail Lilian

0:38

plays matchmaker for one hopeful

0:41

main dat. She's gonna meet three

0:43

lucky contestants before sending one of them off

0:45

on a one on one date with our amazing

0:48

main dator. I am your host,

0:50

Vigo ortis joined by the lovely

0:52

Aura.

0:57

How are you today? I didn't

0:59

forget about the tattooth leading Now

1:01

tell us about our main dater.

1:04

Are they tatted up well?

1:06

Our main dater this week is

1:09

Marian. Marian is twenty

1:11

eight and she's a fellow.

1:13

Piees VIIs twin.

1:16

Marian is a tatted and

1:18

pierced nurse in a psych

1:21

unit who dreams of traveling and writing

1:23

a screenplay.

1:25

She is a lover girl

1:27

with specific taste.

1:29

She's usually attracted to the skater

1:32

look with a little tat or a little piercing

1:34

Marian is looking for a serious relationship,

1:37

and some of her red flags include no ambition.

1:40

I feel that mommy issues and

1:42

bad hygiene. Also feel that Marian

1:45

loves all things horror. She

1:47

even has a replica head of Twisty,

1:50

the clown from American Horror Story

1:52

in her bathroom.

1:54

Oh my god, what an experience.

1:56

She's been cheated on in the past, so

1:59

she says she's working untrusting people.

2:01

What do you think that can we find someone

2:03

worthy of Marian?

2:05

I think I want to be friends with Marian.

2:07

Oh and I want to do that right now.

2:09

Oh.

2:10

I love that way.

2:10

I think that Segus perfectly into

2:13

bringing Marian in. Hello Marian,

2:15

welcome, Welcome, Thank.

2:19

You so much.

2:19

No, it's so lovely to see you again,

2:21

MiNet Alin that you look amazing, a

2:24

beautiful lady.

2:26

Yeah, we were so glad that we met you on that first

2:28

episode with rough Us. But definitely we

2:30

saw you and we're like, we're gonna get you three

2:32

people that are gonna vibe for your love.

2:35

So that was really fun

2:37

too, just being like a contestant. I wish

2:39

I got to meet that guy. But I'm so excited

2:41

that you guys have found potentially a

2:43

good one for me today.

2:45

So tell us more about yourself.

2:47

What should awilli than I know about you.

2:50

I just came back from a really big

2:52

trip. I joined like a group of strangers

2:54

essentially and Costa Rica. We were there

2:56

for like ten days and we got to like tour

2:59

around and I would say, like traveling

3:01

is one of my other really big passions.

3:04

I got to meet people from like other countries

3:06

like Australia and like England and stuff,

3:08

and for me it's really cool just to see like

3:11

other cultures.

3:12

Were there any situations there.

3:14

Yeah, there was one person that was

3:16

fond of me, but it happened to be my

3:19

freaking tour guide.

3:21

Oh my gosh, that is a

3:23

situationship.

3:24

I don't know. This is my favorite type.

3:26

You just like go to a trip and you meet someone

3:28

that you probably will never see again, and you have fun

3:30

and then you did so you had

3:32

a blast.

3:33

It was kind of awkward because

3:36

I mean I didn't feel the same way as him. Oh

3:39

it was early on into the trip where

3:41

he like kind of came on to me and he

3:43

was telling me, like I could lose my job over

3:45

this dangerous.

3:47

But did anything happen?

3:49

We just kissed a bit. Aside

3:51

from that, there was a really hot like surfer

3:53

dude from Costa Rica nice

3:56

I danced with at the club and then

3:59

he found his way over to us like

4:01

after the club, like he was driving

4:04

and then he saw us on the street and asked

4:06

me and my friend if we wanted to ride. I said

4:08

yes, but my friend said no.

4:10

So surfboard, skateboard,

4:12

don't matter what board it is.

4:14

I

4:16

I want to learn a bit more about your past

4:19

relationships. What's been the longest

4:21

relationship you've been in, and what

4:23

are some traits from past relationships

4:25

that you definitely want to see moving

4:27

forward.

4:28

What are the things you're like.

4:29

Ooh, I really like this about

4:31

this person and I learned this about this person.

4:34

And yeah, So my longest relationship

4:37

was four years and that

4:39

was like a high school sweetheart.

4:42

They didn't you break up and then go back?

4:43

Yeah, you know, like there's that time period where

4:46

like you break up and then you still are seeing each

4:48

other but not really. It's

4:51

a little bit of that. And then some trades

4:53

that I really like from these people. It's

4:56

like different people, but the

4:58

last one, most recent one to take good

5:00

care of me. I always thought that like relationships

5:03

should be like equal across the

5:05

board. But I don't know. As a lady,

5:07

it was nice to be taken care of, you know sometimes,

5:10

so acts.

5:10

Of service is a good love language

5:12

for you, Like receiving acts of service.

5:15

Yeah, because I also give love by

5:17

acts of service, so to

5:19

receive it back it just made me feel really

5:22

special. And it's not something that I

5:24

expected because the relationship before

5:26

him was a total opposite, Like I was

5:28

given give and giving and not receiving a

5:30

lot back, not even a thank you.

5:33

But I also really

5:35

liked when my partners

5:38

would integrate with my friendships.

5:40

I like someone that can have like a good

5:43

time, is very versatile. I consider

5:45

myself to be pretty social. I like to

5:47

be like out and parties and

5:49

like all over the place. So I would appreciate somebody

5:51

who doesn't judge me for

5:53

that and instead of like putting

5:55

me down.

5:56

No, we don't accept any putting down here.

5:59

Yeah, I would. I want them to like support me

6:01

even though if I'm like dancing on the tables,

6:03

which I do sometimes, like I would want him

6:06

to be like hyping me up, not like getting

6:08

mad at me, you know.

6:10

Championing you up the table.

6:12

I like that.

6:13

But but I feel like that also is a metaphor

6:15

to life.

6:15

You know, someone who does need diminish your life, someone

6:18

who's championship.

6:18

A whole time, who doesn't hold you back.

6:21

I love that. I love that.

6:23

I also want to learn a little bit more about

6:25

your trust with people. I

6:27

know that you had that happened in the past. How

6:29

have you learned from those past relationships

6:32

and how are you working on trusting people now?

6:34

Well, yeah, I have been treated

6:37

on by like multiple different partners.

6:39

I don't know what it is, because I feel like I'm a

6:42

great girlfriend, like I have never cheated

6:44

on anybody. But what I've

6:46

learned, I don't know if it's necessarily

6:48

like a good thing, because it kind of made

6:50

me a bit more guarded when it comes

6:52

to relationships. I don't know. I've learned

6:55

just to be more patient and getting

6:57

to know people and not be so vulnerable

6:59

so quick.

7:00

I guess, specifically, what kind

7:02

of person is this? What trade do you think it is

7:05

that attracts you? Check

7:07

you out, look at that big smile, so

7:10

you're very well aware of it, which

7:12

is really really good. That shows that you

7:14

are growing up and you're looking for something

7:16

better. In life. So that's

7:18

where we're going today. Absolutely, we're

7:21

going to drop all that BS and

7:23

leave it behind. Yes, what

7:25

do you want in a partnership right now?

7:27

Yeah?

7:28

One loyalty consistency.

7:31

How does loyalty and consistency look like?

7:35

Not cheating? But also just I

7:38

like communication, like consistent

7:40

communication, knowing where their head

7:43

is at. I'm a words of affirmation girl,

7:46

so I think that reassurance is

7:48

really helpful.

7:49

Tell me a little thing about your passions. How many

7:51

do you have and what's going on with that? And

7:54

do you want your partner to have the same interest and

7:56

passions that do you have?

7:57

Oh?

7:58

Actually, I don't want them to have the same interests.

8:00

I like to be like the only one, but

8:03

I want him to have his own too that I can

8:05

appreciate, like for me, some

8:07

of them are. I like to drum, like

8:10

I'm learning to play the drums. I also bartend

8:13

a little bit on the side, like private events

8:15

and stuff I've always liked to write, like

8:17

fiction, poetry and horror.

8:22

Yes, I mean I work in the sideborg that's like

8:24

my job. But I also really appreciate

8:26

like mental health and dogs.

8:28

I volunteer at like a dog shelter.

8:31

Amazing.

8:32

Oh my gosh, Well,

8:34

I think it's time for Alan

8:36

to find Marian, a gentleman

8:39

that has a board.

8:41

You can surf on.

8:44

A board, you can ride life.

8:48

Chris, Yes, let's do this. We go, We'll

8:52

be.

8:52

Back after the break.

8:56

Welcome back today, Malani the first.

9:01

Alrighty, let's bring on the contestants.

9:04

Let's start with Mark. Mark

9:06

is a scorpio who loves

9:08

aliens in three D printing.

9:11

He is affectionate, monogamous,

9:13

and was raised Catholic.

9:15

I hope that you are doing okay

9:17

with that.

9:18

He competes with Spartan races, dungeons

9:20

and dragons fuck yes, and has a collection

9:23

of miniature haunted houses.

9:25

How dope is that? Who lives there?

9:27

Mark was married once, but he's

9:29

now looking for a long term relationship and for that

9:31

special someone who will play with his hair.

9:33

Oh I love that.

9:34

We're so happy to have you Mark, Yes,

9:38

yes.

9:38

Yes, yes, yes. And next we'll welcome

9:41

Sahil.

9:41

Sahuil is twenty seven, a virgo

9:44

and is a Boston, Celtics obsessed

9:46

LA based film composer. He's

9:49

passionate about music and film and

9:51

is looking for a partner who values their career

9:53

and their passions.

9:54

Hells yeah.

9:55

Sahil has only ever dated other

9:57

Indian folks to please his parents, but

10:00

is now interested in exploring beyond that.

10:02

Sahel says that work life balance can be

10:04

hard for him, but that he is building

10:06

better boundaries. Hell's yeah, while looking

10:09

for a more serious relationship. Say hello,

10:11

Sahuil, Hey.

10:12

Guys, excited to be here. It seems like it'll

10:14

be fun.

10:15

Yes, yes, yes, yes, oh yes,

10:17

hold on to your pants.

10:18

Yeah, Oh my goodness, finally

10:21

we meet.

10:21

Louis Lewis is looking for someone he

10:24

can really connect with. He is his best

10:26

self when he is around cheery. An

10:28

upbeat company will definitely

10:30

give him that.

10:31

Lewis works in tech.

10:33

As a data scientist and

10:36

is passionate about health and fitness.

10:38

Lewis wants a real connection and is ready

10:40

to cook a nice meal for

10:43

his partner. His family is

10:45

from Columbia, and while his own hourly

10:47

that is in Columbia right now, he is very

10:49

excited to meet ours.

10:51

Yes, say hello Lewis.

10:53

Hello, nice to meet you guys.

10:55

Yes, oh my gosh, I love this now,

10:58

contestants, I am really excited about

11:01

you all being here today, and I'm

11:03

looking forward to seeing how you do in

11:05

little games that we're going to play and

11:08

see if one of you could be the match for our

11:10

beautiful.

11:11

Main dat Let's dive into game

11:13

number one, shallow.

11:15

Well, I hope none

11:17

of you are scary cats.

11:22

The reason why we're laughing so maniacally is because

11:25

our first game, we're sending you all to

11:27

a hunted house, a

11:30

hunted dating version of House of

11:32

Horrors, if you will.

11:34

Now, our main dator is a big

11:36

fan of horror, so for this

11:39

first game, we're going to throw three

11:41

scenarios at you that are straight

11:43

out of a horror film, and you'll

11:46

tell us what you would

11:48

do.

11:53

For the first Hunted House of Horror

11:55

scenario, imagine you are

11:57

on a date with your sweetie.

12:00

But.

12:01

Oh no, she brought

12:04

seven of her friends.

12:08

You are already feeling pretty annoyed,

12:11

but then all of

12:13

her friends transform

12:16

into mutating slime

12:18

that makes everything it touches

12:21

toxic. And

12:24

I don't mean just toxic like you'll

12:26

die, I mean toxic. You'll

12:28

become the most toxic person

12:31

imaginable. What do you

12:33

do knowing that

12:36

your girl rides or

12:38

dies for her friends, even

12:41

if they're toxic as.

12:48

Lewis kick us off.

12:50

I think what i'd first do is, you

12:52

know, maybe get a round of drinks for everybody and maybe

12:54

you know that's the antidote to get the toxicness

12:56

out. And then yeah, that doesn't

12:58

work, you know, we get it to go and

13:01

uh maybe try their friends sometime else.

13:03

Okay, okay, Mark, what would

13:05

you do?

13:06

Okay, Well, if this is a real

13:08

horror situation, right, I would make

13:10

a trap. I would dig a hole and get

13:12

them to fall into the hole and then you know, they can just

13:15

be toxic down there. That's

13:17

like right away what I will do, Like, all right,

13:19

I'll re surviving this. I don't want to kill your friend because obviously

13:22

care about them, but they're monsters now, so

13:24

oh yeah.

13:25

Put them away for a while.

13:26

It's amazing.

13:27

Well and now, last, but not least, Sahil,

13:29

what the heck would you do?

13:31

I'm introducing her to my friends. I'm

13:33

sorry, but he's gonna

13:35

meet my friends. She's going to join that group. She's gonna

13:37

be happy, We're all gonna be happy. No disrespect

13:40

to the toxic friends. I'm sure they, you know,

13:42

have certain values that work. But I think my

13:44

friends can kind of turn her around.

13:46

Oh, what a sweetheard.

13:49

How would you address that she has toxic

13:51

friends?

13:52

Oh?

13:52

My friends are going to handle that part. That's that's their

13:54

responsibility. I'm

13:56

just gonna say, Ony, don't you go meet my friends? And why don't

13:58

we, you know, just hang out and go to the movies or something,

14:00

and she'll meet them and then you know, they're

14:03

my friends for a reason.

14:04

They'll handle the hard part.

14:05

That's the end of toxicity as they

14:07

know it. I love it. I love

14:09

it all right. Listen, here's another one.

14:12

You are crushing on someone and

14:14

they invite you on a date to

14:16

a carnival. Both of you decide

14:18

to go into the House of mirrors.

14:21

I love that. It's already

14:24

trippy enough, but then all

14:27

of a sudden, in the mirrors

14:29

are the reflections of previous

14:32

partners and mistakes you had

14:34

in the past. Now what do you do?

14:37

Do you run? Or do you face

14:39

your past head on?

14:41

This is therapy,

14:44

Mark, what's your reaction to this?

14:46

What will you do if.

14:47

This really happened? I think my first

14:49

reaction is like, what the hell is going on? Did this carry?

14:52

Break the mirrors?

14:53

Break mirrors, mirrors are out done?

14:56

My goodness,

14:58

hel what would you do?

15:00

Yeah, I'm kind of similar to Marx Boat,

15:02

except my fight or flight reflex

15:04

is usually flight, So I probably rut like

15:07

I'm here.

15:08

That never goes well in horror movies.

15:11

I know you're always going to the wrong classet,

15:13

right, Lewis, what would you do?

15:16

I guess I'd first see kind of her reaction to

15:19

see, you know, is she trembling or

15:21

does she want to know? Because I feel like

15:23

a lot of the times you can kind of learn a lot about

15:26

someone from their past and kind of what

15:28

they want.

15:28

So but if she's ready to bolt, I'm

15:31

also ready to storm out.

15:32

And then then you talk a little later, it's like, oh my

15:35

gosh, she's terrified. Let's get out of here

15:37

and be like I can explain it

15:40

was a tough time.

15:42

I love it, Okay. I have the

15:44

last scenario.

15:46

You've been dating someone for a couple of months

15:48

and it's going really well and

15:51

so far nothing huge is

15:54

standing out as a red flag.

15:57

Now your date invites

15:59

you to a haunted.

16:01

House and when you show

16:03

up, you are met with

16:06

every single one

16:09

of your worst fears and

16:11

they all come to life.

16:14

What do you do?

16:15

Do you face your fears to rescue

16:17

your date, or do you ditch because

16:19

the fear inside is too much

16:22

to bear? If you decide to

16:24

stay, describe what's

16:26

inside?

16:26

What are some of your fears? Very

16:29

danger?

16:29

This game real major

16:32

therapy.

16:34

You will be built for this one.

16:37

Sorry, what's your what's your response?

16:39

I'd like to think I would stay.

16:41

And that's the case. If you stay, what would it look

16:43

like? What are some of the fears that are coming up to life?

16:45

Fire? I can't really be around

16:48

fires. I still mix my spaghetti

16:50

with an oven mitt on because I'm afraid of

16:52

the stove. I hear that I have like

16:54

a weird eye fear, Like if I'm watching

16:56

a movie and like zoom in someone's eye, I have

16:58

to look away or stuff like that interesting, And I

17:00

can't put contacts in or eye drops in because

17:03

I have a really weird kind of eyes.

17:05

Definitely be a lot of eyes.

17:07

That needs to be studied, right

17:10

Lewis, So, Yeah, would

17:12

I stay?

17:12

I think it depends on how much I like her? Yeah,

17:15

I see a future worth her. Yeah, I'm definitely staying.

17:17

Fighting it out.

17:18

And then what that would look like I'm

17:20

imagining like big spiders, Yeah,

17:23

something a little bit more psychological

17:25

maybe like inadequacy.

17:29

Yeah, I think I'd fight through it if it was

17:31

worth it.

17:32

Hell's yeah, Hell's yeah, Mark, what about you? How

17:34

does it look like.

17:36

On a more grounded level, there would be a you

17:39

know those Triloquist stummies?

17:42

Yeah, I hate those things.

17:45

I'm kind of chasm that I would have to walk through

17:48

because.

17:48

I'm terrified of heights.

17:50

Ooh same and much like these other

17:52

two gentlemen, I have abandonment

17:54

things from my dad, So

17:57

loneliness would be a concept somehow.

18:00

But yeah, I would also say, you said,

18:02

we've been dating for what five months?

18:04

Yes, it's been five months.

18:05

Definitely, Even if I didn't like her that much, at that

18:07

point, I'm invested in this person, at least as a friend.

18:09

So what's trying to savor?

18:11

Here?

18:12

Here? Here here? Well, that was juicy.

18:14

I think you guys did an amazing job. Can

18:16

we applaud you? But if

18:19

you think that a Wilita is gonna take a break. Hell

18:21

Now, next.

18:22

Game, This one is

18:25

a crowd favorite. It's called the Red Flags.

18:28

We're gonna list three things

18:30

that are generally considered

18:33

to be red flags, and you're gonna

18:35

rang them from tolerable to

18:37

totally deplorable.

18:39

Some of these are gonna be really,

18:42

really bad. I'm just warning you. Here

18:44

we go. Says they're not interested

18:47

when you talk about something exciting

18:50

to you, always makes fun

18:52

of your taste in music, defers

18:54

to your preferences when making all

18:57

plans. One, two, and three

18:59

mark.

19:00

The biggest reflect I guess would be

19:02

the third one. If she's always deferring

19:05

to me, then I don't know how much of her

19:07

would I even really know?

19:08

Right?

19:09

The other one was not interested when

19:11

you talk about something exciting to you.

19:13

That would be I guess number two. For me, it's

19:15

not that big of reflex. I think it's healthy

19:18

to have different interests at times.

19:19

You can.

19:20

My taste in music is so broad. I will listen

19:22

to death metal and I will listen to tas with. If

19:26

she's making fun of my taste of music, he's making fun of her

19:28

own, that's cool. That's not a problem for.

19:30

Meright, cool cool, Lewis, what's your

19:32

order?

19:33

Okay?

19:33

So Toleral, I think defaulting to

19:35

me when it comes to like logistics.

19:38

And plans, I kind of like that.

19:39

I kind of the plans and you know, usually

19:42

do a pretty good job at it. So I take

19:44

that the second one laughing at

19:46

music tastes.

19:47

I laugh at my own music taste sometimes, so

19:50

I think I'd be okay with that.

19:51

But what I would not stand for is

19:53

someone telling me they're not interested when I'm

19:55

talking about something I'm excited about. You

19:57

can at least pretend to be interested, or you

20:00

know, you don't have to be mean about it.

20:01

Here here sihil what are yours?

20:04

So like deferring to me? Like, I'm cool

20:06

with that. I'm not the most decisive person myself,

20:08

but maybe that's a good thing. If people defer to me more,

20:10

I can be a little bit more decisive then in terms

20:12

of my music taste, you know, I wouldn't prefer for

20:14

people to make fun of it. But at the same time, people

20:16

make fun of my music taste all the time already, as

20:19

long as like we're already close because I just listen

20:21

to film scores and people think that's kind of weird.

20:23

I love that.

20:24

But the things that I'm passionate about, like I

20:26

only talk about things that I'm like, if you see

20:28

me start talking about basketball, I won't

20:30

stop, or like the same thing with like movie scores,

20:32

I just don't stop. I just continue to go. So it's

20:35

like pretty important that if that's all I talk

20:37

about, to be with someone who's cool with me

20:39

talking about those things.

20:41

Cute q qq okay. I got three other

20:43

ones.

20:44

Their moto in life is live, leftlove,

20:47

where's sunglasses? Indoors

20:49

for no reason and calls

20:52

you babe after the first

20:54

date. I want to

20:56

start with you, Saio, what came

20:58

up for you in these three?

21:01

I don't want to be called babe after a first date.

21:04

That's your biggest red flag.

21:06

Yeah.

21:06

To me, it's like a sign of endearment. And

21:09

if I'm hearing that after the first date, then I

21:11

have to really wonder how authentic it

21:13

is. The second one

21:15

would be sunglasses inside. I just that

21:17

seems kind of weird. And then I'll deal with the live laugh

21:19

love.

21:23

Lewis, what's you?

21:25

Yeah, I guess most tolerable would

21:27

probably love, even

21:29

though I wouldn't say it that way.

21:31

You know, I like the mentality,

21:33

the mindset.

21:34

Next tolerable would be wearing the sunglasses

21:36

inside, you know.

21:37

On the same page.

21:38

Yea like a fashion statement, you know, and

21:41

then yeah, getting called babe. You know, maybe

21:43

it's like an amazing first date, but still,

21:45

you know, maybe wait, at least till.

21:47

A third date.

21:48

I hear that, Yeah, Mark, what's

21:50

yours?

21:51

Live?

21:51

Left love as the most tolerable?

21:53

Yeah, little sense of adventure. I guess being

21:56

called babe after the first date wouldn't

21:58

be a huge red flag for me, so that

22:00

would be my second. But the sunglasses indoors,

22:02

that's a little odd.

22:06

Okay, here we go now with another set? Are we ready?

22:09

Doesn't ask questions about

22:11

your life? Says that all

22:13

of their exes are crazy since

22:16

they don't do drama,

22:18

but creates dramatic situations.

22:20

Often these are tough, yo, how

22:23

about it? Mark?

22:24

Most tolerable would be that

22:27

he says all her exes are crazy because

22:29

it sounds like hyperbole, but it could be true.

22:31

Maybe she had terrible tape in men that

22:34

she doesn't like drama but creates. It would be the second

22:36

mm hmm, And what.

22:37

Was the third?

22:38

Doesn't ask questions about your life?

22:39

That would definitely still be the worst one. I'm

22:42

just a mannequin.

22:42

Then, yeah, there's a prop mm,

22:45

sachio, what are yours?

22:47

Yeah?

22:47

Not asking questions is the worst. The

22:49

drama thing would be second. I

22:52

think I'd find that kind of annoying at times the

22:54

exes are crazy. That doesn't bother me as much. I

22:56

think that's a lot better than I miss my ext

23:00

Hm hmmm, I understand that if he

23:02

has terrible taste in men and she's seeing me, what does that say

23:04

about me? So that kind of, I guess be a little bit of a concern.

23:06

You're breaking the cycle.

23:08

Yeah, No, I'm totally always gad for people

23:10

to talk trash about their exits.

23:12

I mean, that might be one.

23:13

Of my red flags, Lewis,

23:16

what are yours most tolerable?

23:18

Is all my exes are crazy, just

23:20

because all they're great. Next to that second

23:24

would be not asking questions

23:26

about me. I think that's a little weird, but I'm

23:28

sure we'll get to know each other at some point. And

23:30

then the third would definitely be says she

23:32

doesn't like drama. It makes drama

23:35

for two reasons, very hypocritical and

23:37

yeah, I hate drama.

23:38

I'm looking for peace, So yeah.

23:40

Well you're here for peace and ease.

23:43

Absolutely.

23:45

Thank you all so much for your answers

23:48

and your analysis. These were

23:50

some sticky, yiky

23:53

situations, so hats

23:56

off to y'all.

23:57

No, even though

24:00

these red flags may seem silly to all, of

24:02

you or atrocious. They

24:04

really help me get a sense of your preferences

24:06

in what you would tolerate or

24:09

not tolerate, which is so helpful

24:11

when thinking about who might be

24:13

the right match for our main data.

24:16

That is very, very true,

24:18

So Alida Leana, who is

24:21

not going to be moving on with us.

24:23

The one thing that we have to keep in mind is

24:26

what is our main data about who

24:28

would start out with a nice friendship

24:30

and take it on to a nice relationship, which

24:33

is what we hope here. Unfortunately,

24:35

the one person that will be leaving us

24:37

now, and thank you so

24:39

much for being here, because you are adorable

24:42

is Sahil.

24:45

Sahil, thank you so so much

24:48

for bringing it, for being so charming

24:50

and so funny.

24:52

This is thanks guys, thank you so much. We'll

24:54

see you. We'll

24:58

be back after the break. Welcome

25:02

back today, my HOURII the.

25:04

First well,

25:07

alrighty to you too.

25:08

You've made it to the next portion.

25:10

Of our show where Awilita

25:12

is going to take you on a speed date

25:15

a little cafeo Awilita

25:18

with each one of you. This

25:20

is an opportunity for her to get to know you better,

25:23

dive deep and ask you questions that will

25:25

help her pick the winner.

25:27

So shall we get started out what you do?

25:29

Let's do it alrighty Mark, I'm gonna go ahead and hand

25:31

you over with Awlita for a little one

25:33

on one.

25:34

How are you, my darling? Thank you? Vico?

25:36

Really good? Having fun?

25:38

That is very good. Now, when was the

25:40

last time you had a relationship and what

25:42

happened last July?

25:46

And frankly he

25:48

was on paper so the relationship

25:51

ended.

25:51

Is it safe to think then

25:54

you might have some trust issues.

25:56

No, I've been in therapy since

25:59

I was two. My

26:02

brother passed away and

26:04

him and I were never close, so I hadn't

26:06

talked to him in years and that really messed me up. So I've

26:08

been in therapy for a long time. So as far as trust

26:10

issues, I know that he's a person not everyone's.

26:13

I'm not like that, right, so I don't expect

26:15

other people to be the same.

26:17

I'm very sorry about your laws. That had

26:19

to be very difficult. And the fact that

26:21

you have continued talking to someone about all

26:23

the issues or questions that you might

26:25

have about life that is pretty impressive.

26:27

Also, so because of all the therapy

26:30

that you have taken and how

26:32

you have been able to grow up from

26:34

all that baggage that you were carrying. What

26:36

is it that you want now?

26:38

Essentially, I'm looking for a life partner. We're

26:40

not getting any younger.

26:41

You look wonderful for your age.

26:43

But you know, I want to have kids

26:45

at some point, if possible. I know millennials

26:49

are not having a lot of luck having kids for

26:51

whatever reason, but eventually I would

26:53

like to try to have kids. So as far as a partner,

26:56

I want someone who is willing to go there.

26:58

It's not a necessity it I want

27:01

it to be an option. I want someone

27:03

who enjoys some of the similar things that

27:05

I do, but they don't have to be all like I can have my

27:07

own Like Dungeons and Dragons. It's a hard

27:09

ass. It's a very involved game. It's

27:11

not for everyone.

27:13

My last husband played Dungeons and Dragons.

27:16

He did I didn't see him for days.

27:19

Yeah, it can be it can be a thing. But

27:21

you know, I love horror films too, and that's

27:23

actually a big part of who I am.

27:25

But you are willing to compromise in these things

27:28

that you want to do in order to spend time

27:30

with your partner. Of course, make

27:32

sure that you each support each other.

27:34

Right, Yes, if you're making a commitment

27:37

to a partner, there should be your main priority until

27:39

you have kids.

27:40

At least that's kind of how I see it.

27:42

So what is the biggest green flag

27:44

of something that you really really want

27:47

in your partner?

27:48

Any kind of passion for a creative endeavor? I

27:51

would say it's a huge green flag for me.

27:53

You like to have a lot of fun?

27:55

I do, but you know, within reason.

27:57

Well, what if you were at a party and you

27:59

both gods so out of control that you're

28:02

just dancing all over the place getting up

28:04

on chairs.

28:06

I will do that without getting out of control.

28:09

So I'm not a big drinker, but I will

28:11

still get on top of a table on death.

28:13

Okay, I like that. Thank you so

28:15

much, Mark, loved your answers.

28:18

Fantastic. Let's bring in the

28:20

next one. Hello Lewis.

28:23

Hello, alright, I'm going to hand you

28:25

off to our Wilita for a little take

28:29

it away.

28:29

Oh so cute are you Latino?

28:32

See

28:34

see Colombia

28:37

on the Colombia in sign? And that's pretty good. I'm

28:39

also South American, so yeah,

28:42

but listen, what are you looking for?

28:44

I think I'm looking for like a genuine connection.

28:46

I think I want someone where I can

28:48

be myself and you know, be outgoing

28:51

and you know, someone that'll appreciate

28:54

that, and someone that I can just have a good time with

28:56

no matter you know, if I'm at the club or

28:58

you know, family party.

29:01

When was your last relationship and how long did

29:03

it last?

29:04

That would have been about I mean, I

29:06

guess a year or two years ago, somewhere around that

29:08

time.

29:09

That one was about three years.

29:12

That was a long time. Why did it end?

29:14

She moved and then I stayed here and

29:16

you know we tried long distance but it didn't really work.

29:18

So what is it that you

29:21

don't want in a new relationship?

29:23

What kind of baggage did you bring from the past that

29:25

you said, I don't want this anymore.

29:30

Some people that are stuck in their ways are a little

29:32

stubborn. I don't really get along with some

29:34

people that like try to be, you know, on

29:36

the more positive side, just because you know

29:38

there's a lot of negative going.

29:39

On, but what can you do about it? And you know, on

29:42

the day to day that doesn't really help.

29:43

Yeah, you do seem like a very chill person.

29:46

You are.

29:46

Yeah, I would self describe myself and.

29:48

You're a Wlita, what kind of advice does

29:51

she give you about love?

29:52

Mamilita is also a really happy, cheerful

29:54

person. You know, she's the one that's you know, gossiping

29:57

and knows all her neighbors. So I

30:00

don't know about as outgoing as she is, but I

30:02

definitely relate and try to kind of emulate

30:04

that.

30:05

It's very good. I love that answer because

30:07

I'm a Wilita, so you know, thank

30:09

you very much, my love. I appreciate your answer

30:11

with a great smile.

30:12

Thank you, Thank

30:15

you both so much for having your

30:17

one on One's cafe. Will lead

30:19

that, and I think it's now time to be

30:22

honest with you all since you've been so honest

30:24

with us. So Awita and I have been a

30:26

little sneaky and we've

30:29

invited our main dater to

30:32

listen on everything today,

30:35

meaning she's been in here in

30:37

secret this.

30:38

Whole time and watching.

30:41

Awlita might have an

30:43

idea of who she likes.

30:45

But let's see if we have a unanimous

30:47

decision.

30:48

So muchisimus, Grassies, We're

30:50

gonna ask you for a quick exit and we'll

30:52

bring back our main contestant.

30:59

Oh okay, I will lead that. What

31:02

do you think about.

31:03

Oh, I don't have any doubts.

31:05

You don't have any doubts. No, you don't

31:07

have any No, what are

31:09

you not doubting about.

31:11

I'm not doubting that Ryan

31:13

would have a wonderful time with this person.

31:15

They would start out as amazing friends.

31:19

It would be a good balance for

31:21

both of them, and I think they're

31:23

pretty much on the same wavelength.

31:26

I have a feeling what I would eat us leading to and I'm

31:28

gonna be I'm gonna throw a curveball. I

31:31

can see why you're leaning towards

31:34

Lewis.

31:34

He's a cutie.

31:36

Okay. If that is the case, then let me just

31:38

put this little thing about Mark, our

31:40

beautiful mandator wants to

31:42

travel and do a lot of stuff. And

31:45

I think that Mark is more

31:47

on the clock. He is ready to

31:50

not only have a wonderful relationship,

31:52

and I have no doubt whatsoever about

31:54

that.

31:54

Mm hmmm.

31:55

He's a great guy. I love him dearly.

31:57

He is beautiful, But his

32:00

schedule is a little different than our main dator.

32:02

He is ready to solidify a relationship

32:05

right now and start having kids.

32:07

I would have wished to have hear a bit

32:09

more of Lewis's handling of past

32:11

relationships. Because when

32:13

I see guys that are really chill

32:15

but have not given me their process

32:17

around their chillness, I get a little

32:20

like, hmm, what have you been resentful

32:22

about that you're not communicating.

32:24

But I don't think that he is chill because

32:26

or he said he was chill because I asked

32:28

them, I saw it, I felt

32:31

him, and see. That's why you're the logic and

32:33

I'm the heart. Yeah, yeah, we're

32:36

gonna bring these topics. And you're very

32:38

right. I should have asked one more question or

32:40

two, but our main dator can

32:42

do that easily. Also, that's true right

32:44

away.

32:45

That's true, Marian. What are your thoughts?

32:47

Just say it, drop it. Yeah,

32:52

but listen in regards to what Vico

32:54

was saying. Yes, I didn't hear

32:57

or ask any questions in regard

33:00

to how he handled any of that, but

33:03

he does seem like a nice person. We can't be

33:05

asking all questions that need to be

33:07

asked, and we can't just decide

33:10

that because a person also is in therapy

33:12

for a very long time, that things

33:14

are as good as they should be. You

33:17

know what I'm saying, There are still questions

33:19

and you know, fragmented pieces from the past that

33:21

still keep dropping on now questions

33:24

that you might have. It is going to be up to you

33:26

to make sure that that relationship gets half on the

33:28

right foot.

33:29

Right Yeah here, alrighty,

33:33

let's bring back these two

33:35

handsome fellas. Welcome,

33:42

Welcome back, my goodness,

33:45

nail biter, nail biter, indeed,

33:49

so Wilita tell us who gets a shot

33:51

at MUCHU MUCHU more?

33:54

And Hawaii.

33:56

Listen, guys, because I am all about

33:58

love. I just hope that the person that

34:01

we picked today to

34:03

meet our main dater, we'll do

34:06

it with an open heart and an open mind.

34:09

You have both said that you want

34:11

a relationship, so make sure

34:13

you don't bring the mistakes of the past

34:15

into this new day. And for

34:17

that and beautiful other reasons,

34:20

we have chosen one of you

34:22

to meet our main dater, and

34:25

that person is.

34:28

Lewis Mark.

34:33

Thank you so so much for your time.

34:35

Thank you member.

34:36

You're hilarious and creative answers.

34:39

You definitely know your horror.

34:41

I have not left in the moment that you're like I'm gonna dig

34:43

a hole and like put them all there.

34:45

That was freaking hilarious. Thank

34:47

you. So so much. You're so sweet, almost

34:50

a big D and D fan.

34:51

So Hell's yeah, thank you guys, thank

34:53

you that day,

34:57

Take it easily, good luck.

35:01

And then there was one.

35:03

Yeah, so Lewis, let's

35:06

go ahead and introduce you to Marian.

35:09

Go ahead and turn on your camera.

35:15

Marian, what are your first impressions

35:17

on Lewis?

35:18

I like, favorite to him since the beginning,

35:21

So I'm so glad that you made it to the

35:23

end.

35:24

Hells, yes, Lewis first impressions.

35:27

She's very pretty. I like the chucky doll

35:29

in the back.

35:31

It's hanging in there, observant.

35:35

All right, well, now.

35:36

We're gonna send ar contestants away for a little virtual

35:38

dates.

35:40

Just have fun, cuties, please have fun.

35:44

My nickname is Ryan. I don't know if that's

35:46

what's showing up on your screen. It's probably

35:48

still producer.

35:49

Ye, yes, yeah,

35:51

that is my name. When you were talking

35:53

about how like you would invite like all the

35:55

monsters and stuff to like have drinks

35:58

and stuff, yeah that's perfect. And

36:00

then when you were saying about like how

36:02

you would want someone who is like fun

36:04

and like optimistic and someone that you can

36:06

bring around like family, Yeah, I

36:09

was like, Yo, this boy is describing me.

36:10

So yeah, yeah, you know, I

36:13

don't know a lot about you, but I can kind of feel that. Oh

36:15

yeah, I know, get energy, your

36:17

cheerfulness. You know, I'm thinking, yeah,

36:20

I was very curious to see you know what you look like.

36:22

And you know, I was like, okay, we'll play

36:24

the game.

36:25

And I know it's been fun. I

36:27

hope that, like, you're not disappointed.

36:30

I am not at all.

36:32

How old are you again?

36:33

I am thirty three?

36:35

Oh perfect, because I

36:37

just turned twenty nine. I just celebrated

36:39

a birthday. So when on

36:42

the twenty fifth of February.

36:44

Okay, gotcha.

36:45

I'm like used to dating men who

36:47

are a bit younger. I don't know

36:49

why, like they just tend to be So I was like hoping

36:52

to meet someone older.

36:53

Yeah, I think I think that's the

36:55

right ratio to go. You know, older got younger

36:58

girls.

36:58

So yeah, I think. So have

37:00

you been to Colombia?

37:02

Yeah yeah, I.

37:02

Try to go every so often. I was there maybe what

37:05

a year now?

37:05

Ago?

37:06

Maybe you can take me because I hear

37:08

good things about it.

37:09

Oh yeah, yeah, I'd love to take you.

37:12

I just came back from Costa Rica, okay

37:15

literally on Saturday.

37:17

Oh, nice. I'd you like it?

37:18

I loved it. I was there for like ten days.

37:21

It was one of those like social

37:23

travel solo groups.

37:25

Okay, that's cool.

37:27

Have you been before Yeah yeah,

37:29

a while ago, but yeah I remember the Yeah

37:34

do you like Do you like to travel?

37:36

Yeah?

37:36

Yeah, I try to travel. Take at least a one big

37:38

trip a year.

37:41

You know.

37:41

Done, South America, done, Europe, Central

37:44

America.

37:45

So yeah, try to get out there. How about you?

37:47

Nice? Yeah, this travel book been

37:49

me so hard that I'm low key

37:51

thinking about like quitting my job just

37:53

to travel for like six months or something.

37:56

Yeah.

37:56

That's always nice.

37:57

But I think it would be fun came

38:00

out and get to know each other.

38:02

Yeah, definitely.

38:04

Yeah. Yeah, let's go get some drinks.

38:06

You know. Do you have weekdays free?

38:08

Yeah? Maybe Wednesday tomorrow?

38:11

Is that tomorrow?

38:12

Yeah, I'm

38:14

off tomorrow, so I work out.

38:17

Yeah, you know, let's kick it off

38:19

strong.

38:25

Well wow wow wow. I hope

38:27

those sweeties hit it off.

38:30

Find us back here next week as Leanna

38:32

and I make some more matches.

38:36

Good work today, Ali, Oh we did good,

38:38

But I like what I'm looking

38:40

at.

38:43

Date my Ali.

38:43

The first is a production from WV Sound

38:46

and I heart Media's Michaultura podcast

38:48

network, hosted by me Vico Ortiz,

38:51

joined by the fabulous Lena Montenegro

38:53

date My Houri. The first is produced by Leo

38:56

Klem, Nico Raquel and Sophie Spencer

38:58

Zavos or Executive producer are Wilmer

39:00

Valder Alma, Leo Clem and Nico Raguelt

39:03

WV Sound. This episode

39:05

was edited by Sean Tracy and Sophie

39:07

Spencer Zalos and features original

39:09

music by Alvara Morello and Gabe

39:12

Lobez. Special things also to our

39:14

hopeful romantics this week, Marian

39:17

Lewis Mark and Sahio.

39:19

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39:22

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39:31

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39:33

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