All over the country, black women hold out hope of finding the mythical "Good Black Man." This guy is as rare as a Unicorn. Yeah I do know a few (some of them call this show), but reality is that 99.5% of black men are no where NEAR a "good black man" in behavior, attitude or treatment of women.Yet, black women insist on holding onto the hope that they will meet such a guy.It is my position that most black men are the same due to their socialization. That means that only a very small number of men are going to escape the clutches of a group mentality which praises sexuality, gaming on and violence towards women, and condemns commitment and honesty. The violence is what makes men stand around and not say a WORD to men they observe violating, cheating on and abusing women.What we have currently is a society in which males are encouraged to condone abuse of women and children in a quest for power. Black males believe women are inferior to them and must "submit". They also condemn defending, protecting and loyalty to the female gender. Their general attitude is bros before hoes.To me this means that 99.5% of black men are anti-female and hate women because they want more than anything to dominate and control them. Definitely not LOVE them.My position is that black men are after total and complete control of black women by any means necessary, and will resort to violence to get that control. Shadid McDonald sits in as guest co-host to share the male point of view. Share your take with us by calling 347-327-9215.