I can't count. I said I would answer two here and two in the Patreon- there are three answered in the Patreon.

Questions:

I have never felt truly safe in a relationship. I feel like they're going to run away from me and then I get insecure and it ends up pushing them away. I don't know how to change this.  

I’m 26, I’ve been a lesbian since nine yrs young, always been with girls, and non binary trans masc. people. Recently in the past couple of years I realised I am pansexual. I want to have sex with a guy, the fantasy of dick inside me really turns me on. I have been on dates with four guys but dating them is not for me. I just want fun hot sex but in order for me to feel safe prior to sex I need to get to know them first. I wish I have the confidence to just say to someone I just met “Do you want to have fun, safe, caring and hot sex?” What advice would you give, Agony Aunt?

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Even though I never really felt like my ex understood me, i really miss him. I felt like I’d been over it for ages, but when I’ve tried dating I’m unable to appreciate new people and I’m put off when they’re clearly into me. I don’t want to be with anyone now and I’m worried I'll be stuck feeling this way for so long that I'll miss out on opportunities for things like a family or even just having a nice healthy relationship with someone. Please advise on how i should get out of this funk?

I am with a really great guy. He is handsome and really respects me but there's just something missing. Am I being too picky? It's been six months and we see each other about three times a week. 

I am in love with my friend. A few years ago they told me they liked me but I didn't feel it so we pushed on through to stay friends. They just got a new girlfriend and I realised that I actually love him. What should I do? 

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