Robert Brooks Cohen, is a screenwriter, podcaster (Two Bi Guys), and the author of the new book "Bisexual Married Men: Stories of Relationships, Acceptance and Authenticity". In this episode of Detoxicity, Rob shares his journey of self-discovery and acceptance as a bisexual man. He discusses the challenges faced by bisexual men and the shifting attitudes towards bisexuality in society. Rob emphasizes the importance of building a queer community and the benefits of in-person connections. He also explores the dynamics of mixed-orientation marriages and the exploration of non-monogamy. Rob reflects on imposter syndrome and the integration of his pre-coming out and post-coming out life. He concludes by discussing the role of masculinity in his identity and the importance of authenticity. In this conversation, Rob and Mike discuss various aspects of self-acceptance and personal growth. They explore the importance of acknowledging and accepting one's sexuality, taking baby steps towards self-acceptance, and the continued evolution and self-discovery that comes with embracing one's true self. They also touch on the addictive nature of "Law & Order: SVU" (one of the shows that Rob has written for) and the impact of meeting role models who embody qualities one sees in themselves. Overall, the conversation highlights the significance of modeling behavior and living authentically.

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Takeaways

• Building a supportive queer community is crucial for self-acceptance and personal growth.
• Challenging societal norms and expectations can lead to a more authentic and fulfilling life.
• Open and honest communication is essential in navigating relationships and exploring non-monogamy.
• Accepting and embracing one's true identity can help overcome imposter syndrome and promote self-confidence.
• Masculinity should be defined by authenticity and being true to oneself, rather than conforming to societal expectations. Acknowledging and accepting one's sexuality is a crucial step towards self-acceptance and personal growth.
• Taking baby steps towards self-acceptance is a valid and effective approach.
• Self-discovery and personal evolution are ongoing processes.
• Meeting role models who embody qualities one sees in themselves can have a profound impact on personal growth and self-acceptance.
• Modeling behavior and living authentically is important for oneself and for others.