In this episode, Gordon and Neil catch up on their recent activities and discuss the challenges and decisions involved in youth sports. They explore the concept of success and how it is often defined by societal metrics. The conversation delves into the commitment and time investment required for team sports and the potential benefits for children. They also discuss the importance of variety and allowing children to explore different activities before focusing on one or a few. Overall, the episode highlights the considerations and trade-offs involved in parenting and supporting children's interests. The conversation explores the themes of socialising and making friends, bribing children into activities, pushing children to overcome fears, the role of pushing in personal growth, and navigating parenthood and self-doubt.