Flexible Parenting
Strategies
Welcome to the Different Skill Notebook! We have a very special guest today Paula Mancino. Paula is an extraordinary client, an amazing teacher, writer, editor, and supermom.
Her message today is as parents we need to have skills that our child needs to acquire and build. If we have the same weakness or fail to acknowledge our skill limits our parenting is hampered. One of the most effective teaching strategies is modeling. Paula, wants to share her strategies and processes to increase her son's cognitive flexibility.
Skill: Parent cognitive flexibility
Some important factors to consider when teaching flexibility.
1. Flex with and for your child:
Strategies:
1. Be aware of whether you have your child's attention (eyes). Can they hear you and see you.
2. Set Timer: when my child is engrossed I set a timer to remind him to transition and it also allows him a minute to stop, get unstuck. It is very difficult for him to walk away from something unfinished.
Note wiring! By being aware that the lack of flexibility is rooted in a neurological difference and not defiance helps to manage the situation. Cognitive inflexibility is the inability to shift mindsets/transition and is frequently perceived as opposition.
3. Be aware of your frustration level and expectations.
Some closing comments avoid:
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