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moment. Enjoy and we'll see
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you next week. Welcome
2:08
to Critics at Large, a podcast
2:11
from the New Yorker. I'm Alex
2:13
Schwartz. I'm Nomi Fry. And I'm
2:15
Vincent Cunningham. Hello, everyone. Greetings. Hey.
2:17
Good morning. We- Good afternoon.
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Good noon. Yeah. Right
2:22
at noon, we are staff writers at the New
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Yorker and each week we make sense of what's
2:26
happening in the culture right now and
2:28
how we got here. So,
2:32
guys, I just have to ask you, have you
2:34
tried to get a restaurant reservation lately? Please tell
2:36
me about it. I have tried
2:38
and I don't know if this is going
2:40
to ruin our conversation, but I've succeeded.
2:42
Oh, have you- I'm in fact going
2:45
to dinner this very evening with a
2:47
restaurant reservation. How- Is it a hot, hot
2:49
restaurant? Well, I should say, first of all, it's
2:51
a Monday. Let's just keep that in mind. It's
2:53
a Monday. And the reservation is for $4.50. All
2:57
tricks of the trade. It is a
2:59
restaurant that was a bit
3:01
of a hard ticket and I think has
3:04
become easier over the years. Nummy. You
3:07
know, very occasionally I make
3:09
a reservation. I should note that I
3:12
always try to have someone
3:14
else make the reservation because of stress,
3:16
you mean? Yeah. It's just, there's something
3:18
about it. It's like I never bid on eBay because
3:21
there's something about I'm not built
3:24
for the stress of like,
3:27
oh, I'm trying to make a reservation
3:29
and suddenly it's disappeared. You know, it's
3:31
like something seems to be available and
3:33
then suddenly it's gone or like waitlist.
3:35
Will they notify me like down to the
3:37
wire? You know, so I like
3:40
a cowardly, lazy
3:42
person. I usually have
3:45
others make the
3:47
reservation. You guys make me feel like a restaurant
3:49
hype beast. Like I'm always trying to get into places.
3:51
No, I feel like you're really like on it, right?
3:54
Recently I ate at Bangkok Supper Club, which
3:56
is the new restaurant by the people who
3:58
brought us fish cheeks. wonderful southern Thai
4:00
restaurant. And I had to eat there
4:03
at 10 p.m. with my friends in
4:05
order for us to get
4:07
there. It was delicious, it
4:09
was wonderful. We could talk about the masa mankari
4:11
another time. But it was really hard to do.
4:15
And this is kind of exactly what I wanna talk about
4:17
today. It just seems like, and I don't know if this
4:19
is your impression, some point
4:21
between the pandemic and now, the
4:23
experience of going to restaurants become
4:25
this total frenzy, subject to
4:27
market forces but I can't even wrap my head
4:30
around. Online reservations at buzzy
4:32
restaurants, they get snapped up seconds after
4:34
they get released. The tables
4:36
are being swapped like trading cards on
4:38
all kinds of black markets and on
4:40
the dark web. Credit cards
4:42
are offering exclusive access to concierge
4:45
services just to help you get
4:47
into these places. We're at peak
4:49
TikTok restaurant. Something is going
4:51
on right now in the way we think about dining out.
4:53
And so my question is, what
4:55
is it? Why does a good meal at
4:58
a popular place feel like on
5:00
the one hand, such a badge of honor,
5:02
on the other hand, such a scarce resource?
5:04
And what does this moment in the restaurant
5:07
industry tell us about the art, ideas, and
5:09
bourgeois culture of today? All
5:12
good questions. All good questions. Yeah, all good questions.
5:14
This week on Critics at Large, the scene restaurant
5:17
and why we dine out. Wow. Or
5:20
don't. Or don't. Or don't. So
5:22
the other day, and by the other day, I guess I
5:24
mean a couple weeks ago, I went
5:27
to the famous scene
5:29
restaurant Tatiana, that's
5:31
at Lincoln Center. Wow. One
5:33
of my friends, an amazing
5:36
food writer, brought
5:39
me to this restaurant, just included me in
5:41
this party. Did he have juice? He had
5:43
juice. She has so much juice. Oh, she.
5:45
I'm sorry, I'm sorry. The surgeon was a
5:48
woman. Yeah. What? Wow.
5:51
Wow. Yeah. Yeah.
5:54
She had a woman. She had
5:56
a lot of juice, so much juice that I met.
5:58
Chef Kwame. Oh, wow. He sent a bunch
6:00
of stuff to us. It's the first time since
6:02
I was a kid that I ate so much
6:04
that I kind of wanted to throw up. I
6:06
felt very gluttonous. But have you guys just been
6:08
hearing from people about their adventures in restaurant going
6:11
either success stories like mine or otherwise?
6:15
I feel like, yeah, I mean, anecdotally,
6:18
I will say that the way people
6:20
have been talking about
6:22
restaurants and about
6:24
reservations, yeah, kind
6:26
of like the scene of it, rather than talking
6:29
about the food necessarily, right? The
6:32
usage of certain
6:34
types of lingo, for instance, when
6:36
people say forkop in
6:39
regular conversation, or people saying,
6:42
oh, that's a tough table. And these are not
6:45
food people. These are just people like
6:47
us. The inside culture
6:49
has become the culture. Yes, yes,
6:51
yes. The sort of insider-y, yeah,
6:53
conversation lingo is now much more
6:56
widespread. One thing that's changed for
6:58
me, I take a bit of a
7:00
longer view, which has to do
7:02
with, and I know we're gonna talk more
7:04
about this, but the way reservations are made
7:07
from, let's say, the anti-deluvian times
7:09
where you called someone up on
7:11
a telephone, probably one that was
7:13
actually connected to physically a jack
7:15
in your home, and
7:19
spoke to someone and put in a
7:21
request verbally to have a
7:23
table committed to your name. What is
7:25
this, horse named Buggy? I'm trying to tell
7:27
you guys what it was like back in the
7:29
day. It really was like that, if you can
7:32
even imagine, to the current kind of quickest
7:35
finger on the mouse, or scrolling
7:37
on your phone, who can click the
7:40
fastest. And one difference this has made,
7:42
this reservation change has made
7:44
in my life, is the phenomenon of eating when
7:47
you can get the reservation.
7:49
So many restaurants booking 30
7:52
days out, but no more. Oh,
7:54
this random Wednesday at 9.45, a
7:57
reservation is available? All right, I guess I will
7:59
simply gear. My whole week and
8:01
indeed my whole month to
8:03
the fact that that is the time I
8:06
can eat at this certain place And I actually
8:08
have put my foot down recently and said no
8:10
more no more of this Yeah,
8:12
that sort of sense of it is not
8:15
I who is choosing when to dine It
8:18
is being chosen for me. Should I
8:20
choose to accept the mission? Right? Hold on one
8:22
second Yeah, because we have amazing resources in the
8:24
building that we work in. Let's use that. We
8:27
should use them I thought we could invite a
8:29
friend of ours to talk with us Hannah Goldfield
8:31
is a fellow staff writer at the New Yorker
8:34
Covering restaurants and food culture. She's one of
8:36
the magazines food critics. I think she's
8:38
in the office today I heard and maybe she could just help
8:40
us parse some of this stuff. You guys are both pretty good
8:42
friends of hers This is gonna be my
8:44
very good friends. So we're gonna choose the phone
8:46
a friend option We're gonna phone a friend
8:48
when you guys text Hannah right now. Yeah,
8:50
let's text Hannah Hannah
8:56
Come over to the studio Three
8:59
exclamation marks how the
9:01
New Yorker works is you text people and then they show up
9:04
friend There's
9:17
Yeah, we have gear well, we just have Things
9:19
on the moment we've never met How's
9:25
it going, I'm fine we're just kind of
9:28
Talking about the way that reservation culture
9:30
specifically has kind of exploded Is
9:32
that something that you as a professional are
9:35
noticing? What what are we missing here? Yes,
9:38
I am noticing it Hugely,
9:41
I feel like the whole
9:43
landscape has totally changed And
9:46
I have theories and then I
9:49
have some insider Information.
9:51
We love that if there if there were a
9:53
subtitle for this podcast, it would be theories and
9:56
insider information Please I usually work
9:58
on the former and more and
10:00
very weak on the latter. Yeah,
10:02
but you're bringing the juice today. Oh yeah,
10:04
I've got some hard evidence. So what's the
10:06
theory? Let's start with the theory. Wait, but
10:09
before the theory. Yes, I'm sorry. I just
10:11
wanna say, you said that this is something
10:13
that you've been noticing hugely. Yes. Would
10:15
you place that as a post
10:17
pandemic phenomenon? Is it earlier? So
10:19
that's one of my theories. Oh,
10:21
I see. Okay, well, it's definitely,
10:24
at least seemed
10:26
to be a lot harder to make
10:29
a restaurant reservation post pandemic than
10:31
it was pre pandemic. So
10:33
I do think that part of this
10:36
is because people are still
10:38
kind of like crazed
10:40
for restaurants. Right. And
10:42
then I think that my other theory, and
10:45
this is other people have said this to me as well,
10:48
is TikTok. Okay. Like
10:50
there's just so much content and I've been
10:52
really amazed to see that the boost that
10:54
a restaurant seems to get from TikTok is
10:57
much, seems to be much higher than the
10:59
boost a restaurant gets from
11:01
traditional coverage in the
11:03
press. Like if the Times gives the
11:05
restaurant a really great review,
11:08
it'll be harder to get a table. You'll
11:10
see lines, but I've just been, you know,
11:13
on occasion walking around lower Manhattan and suddenly
11:15
I see a really long line outside of
11:17
a restaurant and I'm like,
11:19
what is that? And it's almost, whenever I ask, someone
11:23
will just be like, oh, TikTok. And,
11:27
you know, there are these people who seem
11:30
to be making careers out of
11:32
going to restaurants, filming footage, and
11:34
then it creates like
11:37
a frenzy of people going
11:39
to restaurants. Is it like one of those things where there's like
11:41
a snappy tune in the background or?
11:43
Yeah, there's usually music. There's, it's all,
11:45
there are all of the sort of
11:48
markers of TikTok. There's text,
11:50
there's jump cuts, and
11:52
it's very dynamic and it's hard
11:55
to look away. And then it's
11:57
these really like sensual.
12:00
shots of, you know, like there's the
12:02
first thing that comes to mind is the
12:05
cheese pull and that's become like... What is
12:07
that? It's, you know, cheese being pulled. Like
12:09
like gooey... Gooey melted cheese
12:11
being pulled in such a way
12:13
that I think kind of triggers
12:15
like ASMR, which I know Alex
12:18
has written about in the past. So,
12:20
but cheese pulling, you know, I've been
12:23
to a great number of restaurants, never
12:25
seen a cheese pull. This part
12:27
of the sort of doesn't create another dynamic
12:29
where now restaurants make dishes that
12:31
have these like that occasion,
12:33
these kinds of money shots that people can then like... Yeah,
12:36
exactly. And it's a whole other
12:38
like layer of what used to happen on
12:41
Instagram where it would, you know, things were
12:43
sort of just made to look interesting or
12:45
beautiful or colorful or whatever. And now you
12:47
need this 3D... Right, the movement and the...
12:49
In fact, you need some kind of like
12:51
those, you know, wiggly cakes or like jello
12:54
based things and cheese pulls and everything has
12:56
to... If it doesn't wiggle
12:58
and it doesn't pull, it doesn't fly. Are
13:01
there like specific accounts that you attend
13:03
to? The one that I attend to is the
13:06
one that I think has gotten... I don't know if
13:08
it's gotten the most attention. It's gotten the most attention
13:10
in the things that people that I follow and things
13:12
that I read, which is the VIP list. So tell
13:14
us about it a little bit. Ladies, it's these two
13:16
women and they go
13:18
to restaurants and talk about
13:20
them and they have this
13:22
really like brash... They're young.
13:25
They're young. They're in
13:27
their early 20s, I think, early to mid 20s
13:29
and they use kind of slightly
13:32
dirty language. Everything's
13:35
very sexualized, I would say. And
13:38
can we swear on this podcast? Yes. They'll
13:40
be like this... Like
13:44
the rigatoni sucks. OK,
13:47
you know, I'm so into this that I
13:49
think... They're raspy blondes. They're raspy blondes. Yes.
13:52
I think we're going to try to open one up and
13:54
like just listen to it all together. Oh,
13:56
good idea. Good idea. The
14:00
VIP list. So what you need is one of their like
14:02
nightlife. The food. LA restaurant's worth the hike?
14:04
Yes, this is what you want. ...a city trend.
14:06
Some of y'all are out here catfishing... Some of
14:08
y'all? We decided to
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save you some time and let you
14:13
know which LA spots are actually worth
14:15
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14:17
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14:19
it. Some of the best pots that
14:21
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14:23
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14:25
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14:27
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14:29
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14:33
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14:40
And let's just say they know their way around a
14:42
spicy vodka pasta. Next we have anything
14:44
from H-Wish. Okay, so now I know what a
14:46
cheesebull is. There were so many cheesebulls in
14:48
that. I have one question though for you because
14:50
I do like to take the longer view. And
14:53
there was a moment pre-TikTok when I
14:55
did notice that Rezzy entered the scene.
14:57
It became a whole thing. And
15:00
then there developed this Rezzy culture where
15:02
a certain restaurant, I'm thinking of the
15:04
restaurant Lillia in Williamsburg, the Italian restaurant.
15:06
I started hearing about this restaurant. Did
15:08
I think I was the only one? Certainly not.
15:10
But I thought I had a fighting chance. Then
15:14
I realized that every
15:16
single date is blacked out. And
15:19
then I realized, aha, the tables
15:21
are getting released at a certain hour. And
15:24
then I further realized that hour is
15:26
midnight. Now it seems like
15:28
every single restaurant is on Rezzy. Yeah,
15:30
but sometimes you certainly can get a reservation more
15:32
easily. But tell us a little
15:34
bit about Rezzy culture. So I was going to say, I feel
15:36
like this conversation could be broken
15:38
down into part A, which we've already discussed,
15:40
and then part B, which is Rezzy. Rezzy,
15:43
I think, has totally transformed the landscape
15:45
too in so many ways. And this
15:48
is where my hard evidence comes in
15:50
because I now know a little bit
15:52
more about how Rezzy
15:55
works on the back end, on the restaurant, and
15:57
what they can and cannot do. Will you have
15:59
some tips? Well, let me
16:01
just say the game is fixed, you know? It's
16:05
like, depending on the restaurant. But
16:08
yes, there are tips, but also
16:10
there's a lot that you
16:13
just can't control. So, yeah,
16:15
Resi seems to
16:17
have totally taken over as the
16:19
platform for reservations.
16:22
We should talk about what Resi is,
16:24
I guess. There's a lot of software
16:26
that allows restaurants to take reservations, but
16:29
it also helps them figure
16:31
out where to see people and show
16:33
them how tables are expected to turn
16:35
over. I think there's two things
16:37
going on. I think, one,
16:39
if you're not on Resi, you're kind
16:42
of missing a chance to be discovered
16:44
because Resi is like a nice one-stop
16:46
shop. And it
16:48
shows you a map or a list, and it's a
16:50
way, you know, you're like, oh, I want to go
16:52
out to dinner on Friday night with three people. Let's
16:55
see what's available on Resi. So it's not just
16:57
a place to get where you want. It's also
16:59
a system of discovery. Yeah, exactly. You can see
17:01
what's available. So I think... It's like the explore
17:03
page. Exactly. So I think you want to be
17:05
on there for exposure. I think
17:07
it's hard to get people to book tables
17:09
at your restaurant if you're not
17:11
on Resi. But when you said
17:14
before that the game is rigged, it's fixed.
17:16
Right. How is the fixer? So,
17:18
okay. So what my friend told me, and
17:20
this is a person who owns several,
17:23
co-owns several restaurants, which are
17:26
pretty upscale, is
17:28
when those reservations are being released at, say,
17:30
midnight, or some restaurants do it at 10
17:33
a.m. And it's two weeks out
17:35
or four weeks out. What this person
17:37
told me is that they tend to,
17:39
at least at this person's restaurant, they
17:42
release reservations in what
17:45
they described as the shoulders. So
17:48
they're only releasing the reservations at
17:50
5.45 and 9
17:52
p.m. because those are the hardest tables to sell.
17:55
So you think... So when they say that tables are
17:57
being released... Oh, boy. You're
17:59
not. 7pm or 8pm
18:01
reservations are not being released. They're holding
18:03
on to those. Sometimes
18:06
they give them to VIPs,
18:08
people that they know, and then sometimes
18:11
this person told me they save
18:13
them for walk-ins because
18:16
walk-ins tend to turn
18:19
tables faster. Like the kind of person
18:22
who is willing to just show up and wait
18:24
for a table. They're so excited to go to
18:26
the restaurant that they're more likely to kind
18:28
of be in and out. That makes sense.
18:31
If I made a reservation and I waited
18:33
a month ago, I'm not going to do
18:35
a bulk in debt. It's my living room.
18:37
Right, exactly. Yeah, there's a sense of entitlement,
18:40
I think. I work. That
18:42
makes total sense. Yeah, I work. So
18:44
that's nice too because that means you can serve
18:46
more people in an evening. I
18:48
was also told that, you
18:51
know, so on Resi, if you can't get a table, you can
18:54
put what's called a notification, I guess,
18:56
you hit notify and then
18:58
you'll get, if you're lucky, a notification telling
19:00
you that it's become available. Let
19:03
me tell you, I think the notifications are
19:05
a nightmare. They're a nightmare. But the restaurants,
19:07
there's also a feature on Resi that allows
19:09
you to instantly Google someone. So
19:11
they're all looking us up. This
19:15
is fascinating. They think you're someone cool. They
19:17
might bump you to number
19:19
one. What's so interesting to me
19:21
about this is in some sense, restaurants have
19:24
always worked this way. Of course, you had
19:26
to know the maître d' you have to,
19:28
if you were somebody, absolutely there would be
19:30
a way to get you in. And I
19:33
do think something like Resi has given us the
19:35
impression that it's more democratic. Right. I
19:38
have essentially thought that all the other people trying to get the
19:40
reservation at the same time have snapped up the 730 tables,
19:43
leaving me alone with the 545 or 9pm
19:45
option. I'm still,
19:47
I'm scandalized. No finding out, but that's
19:49
not the case. It was never even available. The
19:52
shoulders were released first. So I have this
19:54
strange sense, the shoulders. Now
19:56
that I know that I'm a shoulder, I'm a fan
19:58
of Resi. Yeah, how do I
20:01
deal with that? I mean, I think
20:04
it's the emotional journey of having
20:06
gone from knowing that the game
20:08
is rigged to believing the game
20:10
to be somewhat less rigged,
20:12
to realizing it's more rigged than ever before.
20:14
It's more rigged than ever before because like
20:16
part of the rigging before is you could
20:19
be a person without any connections and
20:21
you could call the restaurant and plead
20:23
your case. And before
20:26
I wrote about restaurants, I
20:28
may have done that from time to time. Oh,
20:30
this is like you call and you say, is
20:32
there anything you can do? This is a really
20:34
special evening and
20:36
someone's birthday. And sometimes you would get someone who
20:39
would say, okay, we'll move
20:41
things around, see what can be done. And now
20:43
a lot of restaurants do not have phone numbers.
20:46
They don't have phone numbers. So maybe as a final question for
20:48
you. Yeah. I guess I
20:50
just wondered what are diners looking for in
20:52
a restaurant and does it have anything to
20:55
do with this issue of scarcity and hype
20:57
that we're talking about? And how much
20:59
does it have to do with food?
21:01
And cheese poles. And cheese poles. I
21:03
mean, I also think if
21:05
I may just interject, I think that people
21:07
want scarcity. I think scarcity, like I had
21:09
seen, did you see this story recently
21:11
about a group of, I
21:13
don't know if they're students, they're definitely in their
21:15
early twenties, who created for one night
21:20
only a steak restaurant, but they had
21:22
hyped it up to the extent they
21:24
had built up a
21:27
reputation for this non-existent restaurant so that
21:29
people who got reservations there felt so
21:31
lucky to get to eat at the best
21:33
steak restaurant in New York. There were fake
21:36
reviews on Yelp. There was everything. And
21:38
then it was some guy in his early twenties
21:40
with no professional cooking experience flinging some steaks. It
21:43
was really like a brilliant performance art piece, I
21:45
think. Yeah, totally. I
21:47
think a lot of people went along with this effort
21:49
or has no closed situation. People want things
21:51
that they feel like they can't have. And then
21:53
people love to get these really hard
21:56
to get reservations and then be like, oh, the food wasn't
21:58
even that good. part
22:00
of it too. They really want to go
22:02
and be like it was so overhyped. But
22:04
yeah I think you're right. I think it's
22:06
scarcity. Scarcity is sexy. I
22:12
don't think there's a better way we're gonna end this interview.
22:15
Scarcity is sexy. Hannah,
22:18
thank you so much for coming. Thank you for having me. In
22:26
a minute we'll talk about a restaurant that offers
22:29
a completely different picture of why we dine out.
22:31
It's called Le Trois
22:33
Gras. Alex, how do
22:35
you say tres? How do you say tres de tres? I'm
22:39
so hot. If you can get a
22:41
little bit of the tres in the
22:43
throat it's very hard. Oh my god.
22:45
I would say tres gras. But you're
22:47
not getting it? Please say it. Tres
22:49
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22:57
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23:34
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23:36
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23:45
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23:47
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23:51
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24:01
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24:10
we should talk about a film that, by the way, we
24:12
all saw together. Yeah, it was a
24:15
group trip. It was a class trip. Yeah,
24:17
another scarce resource togetherness. It's
24:20
called Menu Plaisir, Les
24:22
Tuagros. It just
24:24
rolls off your tongue. It's like butter. Like
24:27
butter. Yeah, yeah, yeah. By
24:29
the 93-year-old director, Frederick Wiseman. It's an
24:32
incredibly well-made film about
24:34
an incredibly well-run restaurant. Yes,
24:36
yes. And I think it might serve as an extreme
24:39
example of why people like
24:41
us, right, who like art, like
24:45
literature, like
24:47
four-hour documentaries, find
24:50
what we find so irresistible about
24:52
restaurants. Could somebody describe this film for
24:54
me and say the name of it again? Go
24:57
ahead, Alex. It's
24:59
my greatest pleasure. Okay,
25:02
the film is called Menu Plaisir,
25:05
Les Tuagros, and it is
25:07
about a Michelin three-star restaurant owned
25:09
and operated by the same family for four
25:11
generations. So currently, the
25:16
owner, who is depicted in the
25:18
film, Michel, is in the
25:20
process of handing the reins over to his son
25:23
César, who's in the kitchen. So they're
25:25
in central France. They're in the Loire
25:27
region in a town called Oosh, which
25:29
is great to say. That's
25:31
a good... I couldn't say that one. Oosh.
25:34
Mm-hmm. And the film, in classic
25:37
Wiseman fashion, does not feature any talking heads.
25:39
There is no explanation or explication,
25:41
aside from what you get in
25:43
the action of the film, which
25:45
is cooking, going to
25:48
market, preparing new dishes. We
25:51
go and see how cheese is
25:53
made at the local cheese maker,
25:55
or Michel Vittuagros,
25:57
because it's the family name. what
28:02
your perspective on this was, because Weizmann has
28:04
been known in a lot of ways for
28:09
documenting institutions that are civic
28:11
and often involve
28:16
the working class and makes the
28:18
working class seen in a
28:21
lot of ways. And
28:25
this seems like quite a different
28:28
thing. It's about work, but it's about work
28:31
that ultimately serves
28:33
incredibly wealthy people.
28:38
Yeah, but I was just
28:40
wondering what your thinking about
28:43
that was. One
28:45
thing that I... It's so funny. The
28:47
one thing that I question
28:49
in my response to Manu Plazir is how
28:53
honestly annoyed I was when the people started showing up.
28:56
The diners. Yeah. Oh yeah,
28:58
talk about that. There is like a... Just as there
29:00
is an ecosystem that sort of
29:02
occurs between, I don't know, the outdoors
29:05
and the ecology and the inside of a restaurant.
29:07
There is just an ecology
29:09
between the work
29:12
of an artist and the sort of potential
29:15
annoyance of the people who come
29:17
to consume it. The people come...
29:20
There's especially just one guy that I can't stop
29:22
thinking about who was just like sniffing the wine
29:24
in this very interesting way. I feel like
29:26
with that particular one, there's
29:28
something... Weisman's eye is
29:32
a quote unquote objective, but of
29:34
course, an eye
29:37
can never be objective. And I think
29:39
with that guy, the diner, with a
29:41
camera kind of like resting
29:44
on him as he made a kind of big show
29:46
of sniffing the wine and
29:48
smacking his lips and all of
29:50
that is sort of extended, an
29:52
extended moment of all of that. He
29:54
leaned his nose very close to the food
29:56
so that it was basically almost touching, took
29:58
a big whiff and then... removed
30:00
himself and went again. I think I
30:02
had a wish to you when we were at
30:04
Filmform at the 930 a.m.
30:07
screening of this four-hour movie. Talk about the film.
30:09
I wish for you he was
30:13
like Remy the rat from
30:15
Ratatouille Which
30:19
is by the way one of my favorite movies.
30:21
Yeah, if you haven't know it really is I watch it
30:23
I re-watch it on a plane just recently recently
30:27
Over the summer I've seen it several times
30:30
As you know just a just a quick pracie
30:32
for those of us not familiar with the movie
30:35
It's about a rat in Paris
30:38
who Loves
30:40
fine dining and fine cooking and you the
30:42
room a cooking it's an animated film.
30:44
It's an animated. Yes It's our movie. Sorry
30:46
the documentary about documentary And
30:49
he he you know through a series
30:51
of tumultuous turns twists and turns ends
30:54
up being at a fine dining restaurant
30:56
in Paris in the kitchen and
30:59
helps a bumbling kind of intern
31:01
type in the kitchen Become
31:04
a great chef Am
31:07
I still fired you can fire him what?
31:11
Yeah, she made a point of telling you so if
31:13
she rather of you to that effect and find out
31:16
you fired a cook responsible He's a
31:18
garbage boy who made something she liked
31:20
How can we claim to represent the name
31:22
of gusto if we don't uphold his most
31:24
cherished belief and what belief is that? Mademoiselle
31:27
tattoo anyone can cook But
31:31
just to say that that movie
31:33
it's basically about that conundrum of
31:35
like who is fine dining for
31:37
right? Is it for
31:39
the rats quote unquote? You know is
31:41
it can a rat who's like nothing?
31:43
You know less than nothing disgusting vermin,
31:46
etc, etc Enjoy
31:50
Fine dining and you know
31:53
both eating it and cooking it and is it
31:55
for him as well? Is it for everyone quote
31:57
unquote or is it? just
32:00
for the very few, both in
32:02
terms of cooking and dining,
32:05
which I do think is attention in
32:07
the Weissman movie. I
32:09
didn't realize that Ratatouille was a great political text,
32:11
but now I have to think that again.
32:15
It comes full circle. I mean, just anyway. Well,
32:17
what I have to know is, I have the same
32:19
feeling as Yvonne, and what do you think that annoyance
32:21
about the diners was? Well, I think
32:23
what it was, it was
32:27
a kind of, I think for me, a
32:29
sort of sublimated self-centre,
32:33
because the
32:36
big question for me always
32:38
is like, you know, you go to
32:40
the museum, you go to the theater,
32:42
you go to... You
32:44
know, there's a part of me that wants to say,
32:46
you know, I go to restaurants for the same reason
32:49
I do those other things, which is I want to
32:51
be abreast of what the most creative people in our
32:53
world are doing. Be part of the conversation. Be
32:57
a part of the
32:59
conversation, be inspired, be...make
33:01
myself open to the great artistic development of my
33:03
time, and I want to make sure I don't
33:05
miss them on some level. But when
33:07
I go to those places, I notice that the people
33:09
that do that, and I think that... By the way,
33:11
I think that impulse is universal and
33:14
crosses borders of class and race
33:16
and whatever. But then, when
33:18
I go to the places where this happens, it's often
33:21
annoying yuppies. Like me and my
33:23
friends that are there. And the actual
33:25
experience of loving the arts is often different
33:28
than what
33:31
makes us love the arts in the first
33:33
place. So
33:42
what do we really care about? Is it
33:44
the food, or is it the container
33:46
that it comes in? Critics
33:48
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to pick up on where we left off, I
35:10
am haunted by this problem. For
35:13
example, I love the visual arts. But
35:16
then anytime I hear about anything about the art
35:18
market, something in me dies, you know? I
35:21
love the movies.
35:25
And then when I hear about the
35:27
sort of cynicism of the streaming services
35:29
that bring our movies to market and
35:31
how many market and global
35:34
and political forces either
35:36
censor or skew the art that I
35:38
get, I feel
35:40
a queasiness, right? It's like pure
35:42
art and the container
35:44
or the sort of delivery vehicle
35:47
for it. I love food
35:49
and I care about chefs and I care about
35:51
the products that they make. And I also cannot
35:53
stand the culture that has come around it and
35:55
made it an experience for annoying
35:57
people, like we saw in the film.
36:00
the Frederick Wiseman movie. So how
36:02
do we balance those two things? And
36:05
what does it mean about like, why
36:07
we actually want to go out and eat? Well, some of it
36:09
is on the creators themselves to balance. I
36:11
mean, we should say that one
36:14
really cool thing that happens in the Frederick
36:16
Wiseman movie is that they have a food
36:18
truck. Like they have a food
36:20
truck and they take it to the center of
36:22
town and they have these, there's a soup, there's
36:24
a sandwich, there's a whole lunch
36:27
that anyone can come and buy. And rather
36:29
than think of this as a perversion of
36:31
the great cuisine that can only be experienced
36:33
in place, it's a good
36:36
democratization of that. The food can
36:38
exist in different forms and can serve
36:40
different purposes. So I think
36:42
that's some of it. There
36:46
is no dining
36:49
without the eater. Is that
36:51
profound or is that obvious? No, I
36:53
think it's profound. There
36:57
is a painting if no one is around to see it.
36:59
Like there is a book if no one's around to read
37:01
it. We talk endlessly about do you write for the reader? Who
37:03
do you have in mind?
37:05
Fine, but you can't keep cooking if
37:08
no one's eating the food. So we
37:10
are this integral part
37:12
of the experience, ha ha. And I
37:14
think one reason why I found
37:16
the incursion of the diners
37:18
too was because in the Wiseman
37:21
movie, we've been in the kitchen. So we've been observing
37:23
the art making and the craft and
37:25
I of course came to totally over
37:27
identify with these chefs who were
37:29
doing things I absolutely cannot do. You know, when
37:32
people who actually come in, who are my real
37:34
avatars actually come in to eat this food, it's
37:36
like, don't ruin it, it's not
37:38
for you. But of course it is for
37:40
them. It's only for them, it's only
37:42
for them. Yeah, like
37:45
we're just getting to this idea of fellow
37:47
people and eating, you know, for instance,
37:49
if I may just take this in a
37:51
certain direction. Yes, please. My ideal eating experience,
37:54
to me there's one word that summons exactly
37:56
what I want and it
37:59
is conviviality. If
38:01
the restaurant is convivial, then
38:04
I am utterly delighted and it has to do with
38:06
many things. It has to do with
38:08
food. It definitely for me has to do with service. Just
38:11
a general sense that my well-being is
38:13
a matter of concern, which
38:15
can be communicated in many different ways and at
38:17
many different levels. I need that.
38:19
A soft hand on the shoulder? I
38:21
don't need the different shoulder. Just
38:25
a sense of, I think I'm just a little bit
38:27
over, maybe not fully, I may come around. I'm a
38:29
little bit over to the excitement of being
38:31
abused in advance. That does not get
38:33
me going anymore. Much like an
38:36
animal destined for slaughter, if it has
38:38
its adrenaline raised, the meat won't be
38:40
as good. If I've had to stress
38:42
out about the reservation and all these
38:44
things in advance... The metaphor is kind
38:46
of twist... Like you see... Right.
38:49
So your... I don't want to go
38:52
in with my cortisol levels elevated from the struggle.
38:54
I don't need to feel this grand drama of
38:56
struggle and triumph. I simply want to feel welcomed.
38:59
I feel my eyes nearly
39:01
filling with... Not quite filling with
39:03
tears, but it's
39:06
on the way. So what is your
39:08
perfect restaurant experience? Well, I
39:10
don't know. I mean, I think it just... When
39:14
I was growing up, we never really
39:16
went to a restaurant. We
39:19
never really ate out. I
39:22
do think that I've come to think about
39:26
going out as
39:29
part of being
39:32
alive in the world and might
39:34
have something to do with what you were saying,
39:37
Alex, of the sort of conviviality,
39:39
fellowship... And
39:42
I love eating. Yeah. So, you
39:44
know... That helps. So yeah.
39:47
So the combination of
39:49
food, drink, and company... That's
39:51
right. Is just important
39:53
to the ecology of life, I
39:56
would say. Yeah. Yeah. For
39:58
me, it's about... feel
40:01
closer to the people that I came in with.
40:04
When I was very, when I was young, when I was maybe, I
40:06
don't know, 11 and 12 and 13, I
40:09
remember we used to live in Washington Heights and
40:12
my mother and I would walk up the hill
40:14
to Fort Washington and go to this Indian
40:16
restaurant whose name I couldn't tell you. And we would just like
40:19
hang out and talk. And I, you know,
40:21
we felt closer to one another when
40:23
it was done. It was about atmosphere, it was about the
40:25
fact that we both loved the food, but it
40:28
was also just about like deepening friendships. Recently, I
40:31
went to a scene LA restaurant
40:33
and I was with three
40:36
of my very close friends, people that I really enjoyed. You
40:38
know, I was there like, and they give you crayons and
40:40
I was there like drawing on the table and like honestly
40:42
like a little bit more tipsy than I needed to be.
40:44
I was gonna get on a plane later that night and
40:47
just enjoying my friends to death. And
40:49
like the food was great, we're talking
40:51
about food, but then also just like
40:53
talking about writing and work
40:56
and our lives and just
40:58
like, I just felt like I was in the
41:00
bosom of my friendships. And
41:04
this issue of like, you know, the
41:07
crossroads of hype and conviviality,
41:10
it brings into question what the art
41:12
of the restaurant actually is. Because I
41:14
tend to think in these perhaps like
41:17
overly binary ways, this sort of like
41:19
duality between the food and then the
41:21
restaurant, the food being the art, the
41:23
restaurant being whatever, the hype vehicle. But
41:25
there is an art of
41:27
hospitality. Absolutely.
41:31
And this is perhaps the, this is maybe
41:33
why it makes it harder for those of
41:35
us who like, you know, love to apply
41:37
textual analysis to works of art. It's like,
41:39
well, yes, you can do a close
41:42
reading of food, but you also, there is another
41:44
thing, perhaps a more abstract thing. It's like, well,
41:46
how does something make you feel special? Or how
41:48
does something make you feel loved
41:51
by your friends or convivial? There
41:53
is a whole, there is a parallel
41:55
art that I think on the
41:57
far end turns into hype and something that we...
42:00
We don't like borders on PR
42:02
and a sort of cheapening. But there is
42:04
a real art of being in
42:07
a place and feeling really good. Yeah,
42:09
and that makes me think about how in
42:11
the past few years we've seen all these
42:13
stories come out about the abuse endured by
42:15
people who work in restaurant kitchens, the
42:18
shouting, the hierarchical culture, the
42:20
egomaniacal chef leading the kitchen. Even
42:23
I'm thinking about a show like The Bear,
42:25
which really dealt with the trauma of working
42:28
in some of these environments. And also restaurant
42:30
kitchens were a major site and continue to
42:32
be a major site of me
42:34
too excavations. There's a
42:36
lot of sexual abuse we've learned that
42:38
goes on in restaurant kitchens. So those
42:40
stories are awful in their own right,
42:42
of course. But for me,
42:45
I think they do really transform
42:47
the experience of being at a
42:49
restaurant. The ambiance of a
42:51
restaurant, go there. Vincent, it's like what you
42:53
were saying, to feel close to people or
42:56
just to shine and be shined on and to
42:58
have the kind of
43:00
experience that is elevated beyond
43:03
what you can get in your own home. So to
43:05
know that someone is abusing someone
43:07
right behind the pass, for
43:10
me, that does put a damper on the experience,
43:13
unless you're a sadist, which, frankly, I am
43:15
not. Yeah, it's like separating the art
43:17
from the artist, right? It's like how can you
43:20
enjoy the rack of lamb, the
43:25
succulent rack of lamb, when you
43:28
know that the chef has been screaming
43:31
into the ear of his underling? Yeah,
43:33
I just think rarely are they so
43:36
connected as they are in the case
43:38
of dining. Because we have all kinds of ways to
43:40
express this. We have the phrase cooking with
43:42
love or cooked with love, indicating
43:44
that the emotions that
43:47
one has while making food will show through in the food
43:49
itself, but even on a less metaphysical
43:51
level than that. Part of the art of
43:53
the restaurant is to create this space for
43:55
people to come and eat in. And so
43:57
it's not just the finished product.
44:00
with the entire atmosphere and the
44:02
feeling of it. And if a
44:04
totally different atmosphere is presiding behind
44:07
the kitchen door, I do think that
44:10
creates definitely more on an ethical
44:12
quandary. It's a little bit like, you
44:14
know, are you in first class on
44:16
the Titanic? Is below you men stripped
44:18
down to their skivvies or thrusting coal
44:20
into the machines to make the engines
44:22
run while you, you know, just
44:25
dine on porcelain plates? No, I don't
44:27
think that's the ideal restaurant experience
44:29
in 2023. You don't want that. No. Right.
44:31
Yeah. Yeah.
44:34
So we've talked about kind of two
44:37
extremes, the sort of extreme
44:39
art experience of the Twagro
44:42
and the perhaps
44:45
disheartening example of the newly
44:47
sort of TikTok fueled resi
44:50
culture. Is
44:52
there, is there an ideal somewhere in between those
44:54
that we could, that we could point to? So
44:57
I just love a
45:00
wonderful neighborhood restaurant.
45:02
And I think the time has come
45:04
to reveal to the listener that we
45:06
three went to just such a restaurant
45:09
last night. Last night. To get there. Just last
45:11
night. Just last night. Yes. We
45:13
socialize outside of this little room.
45:16
And I would have gladly
45:20
made the reservation on resi, but the place
45:22
where we went does not do
45:24
resi. And so I called and spoke to
45:26
a person and that
45:28
was a great experience. But more
45:30
relevantly, I thought we had a great
45:33
time. We had a great time. The food was
45:35
good, not overly fancy.
45:37
The room was
45:41
pleasantly sunken. The booth,
45:44
you know, soft and inviting. I
45:47
sat down and I said, how
45:51
bad can happen here? And
45:54
the ultimate product, the ultimate
45:56
art object that comes out of
45:58
this. We got a picture out of it. We
46:01
did get a picture of the end. You asked
46:03
your nice server to take a picture of you and
46:05
your friends. It was great. It was totally delicious. You
46:07
had a curry and like any other. That's
46:09
what it was called on the menu. That's right. This
46:18
is rich. That's a good news. We
46:21
can go to Le Tog Hall. It's
46:24
Friday. There are reservations available.
46:26
Let's get out of the way. Okay,
46:28
great. So easy. Yeah, don't pop
46:30
the cost of it. Turn the left
46:32
side. Do you think they can accept this?
46:35
Uh, sure. Find
46:37
out. Find out next time. Find out next
46:40
week. This
46:46
has been Critics at Large. Our senior
46:48
producer is Rhianne and Chloe. Alex
46:51
Barish is our consulting editor. Our
46:53
executive producer is Steven Valentino.
46:56
Alexis Quadrado composed our theme music.
46:59
We had engineering help today from Jay
47:25
and Aksan
47:34
Khen, who is also a chef. Our
47:37
weekly course and exercise is Chris. On
47:40
Dinner SOS we offer you cooking advice to make your week a little less
47:42
stressful. So
47:44
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47:47
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47:49
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47:51
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47:53
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47:55
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47:58
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48:00
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48:02
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