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horn. Do
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you need ride? Do
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you need ride? Do
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you need ride? With
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Karen and Chris. Welcome
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to Do You Need Ride. This is
2:30
Chris Fairbanks. This is Karen Kilgarris.
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Before we started recording, Karen gave
2:35
us an assignment, which was you,
2:37
it was your idea, you state
2:40
the assignment. We all reveal one embarrassing,
2:42
and we all meeting, me and Chris, on a
2:44
list, does not have to be pulled into this,
2:46
but we all reveal, we too reveal an
2:49
embarrassing fact about ourselves. Fact.
2:51
Factoid. An embarrassing
2:54
fact about myself, because
2:56
I've had embarrassing things happen recently. I'm
2:59
just sorting through it. Oh, I can
3:01
help you. It's hard to come up.
3:03
Will you come up with my embarrassing
3:05
fact? Yep. OK, let
3:07
me have it. You vape. Oh,
3:10
I can't. I mean, that
3:13
was. Do you not want
3:15
to do that? I'm confident. No, everyone needs
3:17
to know I have an addictive personality, and
3:19
they also are proud of me for not
3:21
drinking, and I've replaced it with mango slices.
3:24
Sure, I brag about that one. But
3:27
I've been vaping. Tobacco
3:31
flavored vape. You
3:35
don't even do mango slice flavored? No,
3:37
no, I figure I don't want to
3:39
add sweet tooth to the mix. So
3:43
when you just admitted this, because I was actually
3:45
shitting on vaping, and then you pulled one out
3:47
of your pocket, embarrassfully.
3:50
And so my follow up question
3:52
was, what do
3:55
you believe the benefit to be? The
3:57
health benefits? Well, there are just a reason you're
3:59
doing that. I
4:04
don't know why I chose timing
4:06
wise when I know the most
4:08
about how bad it is for
4:10
you. It turns your lungs into
4:12
popcorn as far as I know.
4:16
As far as I fall, I will
4:18
have no lung capacity when I land.
4:22
You can't go, ah, louder than you go. I
4:26
won't have enough lung capacity to let people
4:28
know I've fallen and cannot get up. The
4:31
worst. Yeah, so I, uh,
4:33
yeah, I've noticed that
4:35
I still have decent lung capacity.
4:38
This isn't an advertisement for it.
4:40
I'm just saying, okay,
4:43
I'm just embarrassed. I can't even
4:45
defend it. No, you can't. Well,
4:48
but lots of people, as my
4:51
focus said long ago, and I'm sure I've said on this
4:53
bad part, everybody needs
4:56
a little bit of oblivion. So,
4:59
especially these days, so if
5:01
you are not drinking, you're going to need a little
5:04
sentence something that gives you the old, okay,
5:06
I get to do what I want. Fuck you,
5:09
whoever person. Yeah, the man.
5:12
I, I, uh, it's my anti-establishment punk
5:14
rock thing that I've been doing. I
5:17
really, that's not even the reason. I
5:19
think you're right. It's just, I'm used
5:21
to having a little
5:24
reward system. Yep. And
5:26
now this is it for now. Yeah.
5:29
It's temporary. Uh,
5:31
I know how dangerous it is
5:33
because it's so easy to just,
5:36
you definitely get more nicotine than
5:38
from just smoking. Sure. For
5:41
sure. Well, it's way better than smoking. And look,
5:43
no judgments because I have smoked on
5:45
and off for a long
5:47
time. In the nineties, that was the
5:50
coolest thing. Remember when camels came out
5:52
with wides, camel wides, those big fat
5:54
fucking, I was like great, more
5:56
of the same please. Yeah. When
5:59
I moved to Texas, it was great. was like filters and
6:02
so I started smoking filterless
6:05
Turkish blend I think it was called.
6:07
Ouch. Yeah.
6:09
Yes. Really getting after it, making
6:11
up for all that lost healthy time. All that
6:14
lost healthy time that you weren't French. Yes.
6:18
And I started smoking immediately, started
6:20
kissing people three times on the
6:22
cheek upon entering a party. And
6:25
hating Americans, which is like what? You can't do
6:27
that. Yeah, and saying things like I need to
6:29
get back into swing dancing. But
6:32
yeah, I don't have
6:35
any desire. I don't think vaping
6:39
would lead back to smoking again. That's the
6:41
one thing I can say
6:43
about it that most people would probably agree.
6:45
Right. Vaping is a step toward stop
6:47
being addicted to nicotine. Yeah.
6:50
Even though it's more addictive than all the things
6:52
I've probably ever done. Yeah.
6:55
Yeah. There was
6:57
a time a couple of years
6:59
ago where I was dipping into the
7:01
cigs again. Yeah. Like, oh,
7:03
I used to smoke just like any, oh, let
7:05
me do my old tricks. You know, I flick
7:07
it in the air, it lands in my mouth,
7:09
people clap, I want little rewards. You're
7:12
a lot like a seal in that way. Yeah.
7:15
I really am. I really am. But.
7:18
It's just a
7:20
baloney shell on my chest. That's an otter.
7:23
I know I'm not. But maybe there's a thing that
7:25
can be your next step. My
7:31
only thing is I've heard so many bad things about the
7:33
chemicals that are in vapes that like, like
7:35
scientists are like scared because kids are doing it.
7:38
And they're like, this is so bad for you.
7:41
Yeah. So what would
7:43
be a good replacement hookah
7:45
pipe smoking? Um, no,
7:47
because then you got to go into
7:49
those hookah pipe specific establishments. Yeah.
7:52
But it's a great way to meet new people. I
7:55
suppose you're right. There's a
7:57
couple in Glendale that I've seen. you
8:00
know, I think you're right. I
8:02
gotta start frequenting these hookah bars. I
8:05
feel like in the time of COVID, a
8:08
hookah bar is a terrible idea. It's like,
8:10
here, I'll pick up this thing everyone's been
8:12
putting their mouth on. Oh, yeah, it's communal.
8:14
Everyone just gathers and puts their lips on
8:17
the same bagpipe
8:19
mouthpiece. What
8:21
if you instead of inhaling blew out and you could
8:23
play hookah bars? I'll tell you what happens. The
8:26
little charcoal piece blows out and the
8:28
staff yells at you. I
8:31
did that at a place called the Rainforest Cafe.
8:34
What? Yeah, I pretended I was,
8:36
you know, in a Scottish
8:38
funeral and I blew into the tube
8:41
and in Chernoff shot
8:44
the hot embers out. Isn't
8:47
the Rainforest Cafe where the mechanical
8:49
gorillas and monkeys thing to you? That's
8:52
the more popular one. Somehow without
8:54
a lawsuit, there was an independent
8:56
Rainforest Cafe by Meltdown Comics. Oh,
8:59
shit, really? That little, you know,
9:01
the little alleyway you would go
9:03
to search for parking, even
9:05
though there was never parking back there.
9:07
Yes. That there was a little building
9:09
right there. Oh. That was the Rainforest
9:11
Cafe. And sometimes after a show, we'd
9:14
all go there and I would drink
9:16
and somehow get home. Let's not talk about
9:18
it. So,
9:21
you know what? I'm
9:23
hearing you that of
9:26
all those things, this
9:29
is slightly better. Yes.
9:31
It's definitely, it was
9:34
gonna stay safer, that's actually not true. Right.
9:36
No. It does
9:38
not inhibit my
9:41
ability to operate a motor vehicle. I
9:43
mean, in that case, this podcast is
9:45
more dangerous. Well,
9:47
I'm operating it. I know. I don't know
9:49
why I always say we. Here's
9:52
what you don't know about as we podcast.
9:54
Karen Stears, but I have my left hand
9:56
down there operating the pedals. This is a
9:59
joint effort. And Annelise
10:01
actually records from the break area. Yeah,
10:03
yeah. So I have to watch for...
10:05
Are you okay down there? Be
10:08
careful. I just punched over. And
10:11
yet the riffing prevails. Oh, yes.
10:13
I mean. I
10:15
mean. I mean. What we're...
10:18
This right now is a good example. Oh my
10:20
God, it's hilarious. That was a riff. Gold
10:22
mine right there. We need to mark
10:24
that. Mark it with a star. I
10:29
need to counterbalance basically
10:32
me confronting you about vaping to do
10:34
my own embarrassing things so that you
10:36
don't feel bad and alone. Okay.
10:40
I'm... Just because our
10:42
personalities are slightly different, I will
10:44
not choose yours for you. You
10:48
know, I can... That's very smart of you.
10:50
Yes. Very smart of
10:52
you. Yes. That reminds me
10:54
of the hilarious story you told me where Mike
10:57
didn't know. You saw my givens and he
11:00
was like, oh, the last time I saw Karen and
11:02
he talked about this job we were on together and
11:04
it was something that he felt bad about. And
11:06
you go, I know she didn't care because
11:08
I've never heard of it. Really?
11:11
But maybe, you told me that it made me
11:13
laugh so hard because it really... It's
11:16
like, yep. Yep. And you
11:18
know me, you know everything I'm pissed off about. Well,
11:20
his reaction to me saying that, let me know how
11:22
well he knew you as well. Because he was like,
11:25
oh yeah. Yeah. Yeah.
11:28
I love that guy. There's very
11:30
little he could do to get off my good
11:32
list that Mike givens. But
11:36
I guess I will say this. He
11:39
just sno... So
11:42
truly, smoking isn't... I'm not
11:44
judging smoking. I'm worried about vaping for
11:46
every person that does it. Right. So
11:49
it's not that. It's not like you should be a certain way.
11:53
I guess I'm
11:55
embarrassed because I am genuinely addicted
11:58
to TikTok. including
12:00
buying whatever anybody tells me to
12:02
buy off TikTok. Oh wow. Okay. That's
12:05
a new layer of the
12:07
old onion. Yes. And I
12:09
now get robo calls from
12:12
all over the nation because they
12:14
sell your data. You
12:17
know what I mean? Like you basically do
12:19
like a one button pay thing. Okay.
12:21
You buy from somebody. They now have
12:23
your data and most
12:26
companies are just like, okay, buy in
12:28
my mic. There goes your data. That's
12:30
funny. I always say I don't care.
12:32
Yeah, go ahead. Have my data. I
12:35
haven't done any federal crimes, but I'm
12:37
realizing that is why I get 7a
12:39
calls a day. Yeah, probably.
12:41
It's not for signing up to that adult
12:43
website in 98. Right.
12:46
Oh, they don't have window cleaners.
12:49
Oh, yeah, I
12:51
noticed they're often
12:54
not there. They're squeegees. They're just
12:56
like because they know Tesla's are going to come
12:58
in and be assholes and leave. Well, the
13:00
funny thing is I've gone in and
13:02
said, hey, where are your squeegees? And
13:05
they just always say they just get
13:07
stolen. Oh, right. That makes
13:09
sense. Because if you have a squeegee and
13:12
a extra
13:14
saliva, you have yourself a
13:16
day of business for a
13:18
day. You don't need business right
13:20
now. Yeah. So it's hard to
13:22
be mad about it. But if
13:25
you really ask nicely, they have
13:27
extra squeegees in the store. Okay.
13:29
Let's see what this guy has to tell us. We've
13:31
got two in a row. And we can put what
13:33
I just said to the test. I can if they
13:36
don't have them up here at this gas station,
13:39
I almost called it a car restaurant. You
13:43
know, when you can't think of the word of the thing
13:45
and you come up with an almost better one. Because
13:48
you're looking at a picture in your brain. So you're
13:50
just trying to say here's what the picture looks
13:52
like. And it is just a car
13:54
with eyes and teeth. Spreegee. Yay.
13:57
Did you know the Chevron car is for
13:59
the from the original commercial
14:01
are what created the
14:04
cartoon cars? No. Larry
14:06
the Cable Truck and all that? Yeah.
14:09
That's a Chevron commercial turned into a
14:11
franchise. Wow. Okay, I'm
14:13
going to... They did great. Pause for a
14:15
moment. Yep. Wow,
14:20
that's so much better. Thank God.
14:26
Amazing job. Really
14:29
good. Look how much better that looks. I
14:31
mean, I really
14:34
did a better job on your side. I
14:36
mean, I know that we didn't need to
14:38
do my side
14:40
also, but there's something about...
14:42
No. It being even? I can
14:45
really do without those streaks I've left. Oh,
14:47
here, we'll do this. Oh.
14:50
Oh, I just
14:52
fucked up your old thing. It's okay. No, we
14:54
did some leaves. As
14:56
it's drying, I feel like this is one of
14:59
my better squeegee jobs. Yeah. Let's
15:01
keep in mind, a lot of those speckled,
15:03
those dots, that's tree sap. Oh, yeah. And
15:06
it's been on there for a while. I've
15:08
just been pretending I don't care. I
15:11
put enough elbow grease into it to where I do
15:13
believe I'll be sore. Yeah, we could
15:15
tell. Yeah, I put my back into
15:17
it. Yeah, you did. I appreciate it. Yeah.
15:21
It made a difference. Missy Elliott. Yeah. You
15:24
can do it. Am I right? Is that
15:26
Missy? I don't. I
15:28
couldn't say for sure. I can't say for
15:30
sure. That's why I'm going to rap it. No,
15:33
we've made that mistake more
15:35
than once. Many, many times
15:38
we've made that mistake. Oh, good. Yeah.
15:41
You know what I've learned since
15:43
we first started podcasting? What's up? When
15:45
someone's being a character, I needn't
15:47
make eye contact. Yeah. Yeah.
15:51
I was going to say, hey, nice hair,
15:53
hat off, hat back on, hair flip, buddy,
15:56
with my eyes. But I didn't. On
15:58
the street. I thought you were going to make a mistake. you meant from
16:00
like when James Adomian was doing Jesse Ventura.
16:04
Get on in here. Be a character
16:06
with us. Don't look at him. Don't
16:08
look directly at him. People have actually
16:10
said when I
16:13
talked to them after my shows and
16:15
talked to our fans, which is always
16:17
a nice experience, surprisingly 99% of the
16:20
time. Yes.
16:23
Yeah, they're great people. A lot of
16:26
people say, do you ever think about
16:28
just picking up a person? And
16:33
I just kind of, just
16:35
a stranger on days
16:37
where we, I think most people
16:39
love it when we don't have guests. I mean,
16:41
this is already one of our better episodes. But
16:45
like just grabbing her and being like, get in
16:47
here? Yeah. I'm like,
16:49
you, when you say that you're thinking
16:52
about your, you live in Fort Collins. Yeah.
16:55
Maybe. Yeah. It
16:58
would be, here's the thing that I like about
17:00
it because what they're saying is like, man
17:03
on the street can be fun and interesting. Sure it
17:05
is. But
17:07
as a person who's produced a lot of
17:09
human interest on television, I'm here to say
17:11
they're wrong about that. Yeah.
17:13
I think a lot of the men on the
17:16
street stuff they've seen, like if it's on TikTok
17:18
or if it's on the talk show or whatever,
17:20
it's highly fucking produced. Yeah.
17:23
They've recorded like eight versions
17:25
and this is the one that actually worked. Yeah.
17:28
You would think.
17:30
When I worked for Fuel and we just went
17:33
to Venice Beach without any kind of permit and
17:35
if anyone stopped us, we'd say it was for
17:37
school. They're like,
17:39
oh, okay. And
17:41
then they'd look down on us and we'd finish the day.
17:44
But there was so many times I
17:46
just picked the wrong person on the wrong
17:48
day. And
17:51
I thought, I wonder if my bills
17:53
will be covered if this turns
17:56
into a violent situation, but
17:59
it never happened. Or also, and
18:01
I've said this a lot,
18:04
because we've all been raised
18:06
on television, and everybody knows
18:08
how to be on television now, where
18:10
there was a time in our history
18:12
where people, that was not what anybody
18:14
did, and it was very odd. So
18:17
they didn't know how to talk to a camera, they didn't
18:19
know the sounds to make. So you
18:21
could actually get good man on the streets, that's
18:23
because people would be authentic. No
18:26
one is authentic anymore because everyone's watched American Idol and
18:28
da da da, and they know they don't want to
18:30
be this person, and they do kind of want to
18:32
be this person. So the idea of
18:34
getting a genuinely
18:36
entertaining authentic person
18:39
is so difficult. And my
18:41
thing was always, my rule when we
18:44
would pre-produce audiences was, no
18:46
redheaded ladies. Because the redheaded
18:48
lady already wants to be the one, and I
18:50
don't mean natural redheads, I mean like,
18:53
people see a dyed red-haired lady
18:55
and go, she's fun, let's talk to
18:57
her. Incorrect. That lady
18:59
wants you to talk to her, therefore
19:02
you're not going to get what you're looking
19:04
for. Right, otherwise she would never, hey talk
19:06
to me. Color-dive. Right, it's
19:08
just that it could be, now
19:11
as a dyed redhead, please don't
19:13
start crying or be enraged. Because
19:15
I'm simply talking about my experience
19:17
in television producing. As that dyed
19:19
redhead, aren't you a little excited
19:21
that we're talking about you right
19:23
now? Gene
19:25
with two N's and an E at the end. I
19:31
always say, Jeannie, sorry redheads. I
19:34
love it when you call me Jeannie. But
19:37
I'm just saying that the best time
19:39
you remember, like, oh let's talk to this
19:41
person and they're going to be normal but
19:44
also interesting, those people don't
19:46
want to be on camera. You have to
19:48
find them and make them be on camera,
19:50
that's how you get the good version. Yeah,
19:53
because everyone's little pocket computer is now a
19:55
production studio essentially. They also are savvy enough
19:57
to know, like, the time I worked for.
20:01
taxi magic and drove around in a
20:03
taxi and said, hey, we'll
20:05
give you your ride for free. If I
20:07
can ask you these trivia questions, almost
20:10
everyone said, no, thank you. I just want to
20:12
ride to the airport. And I'm like, yeah, that's
20:14
what I want too. And so the people
20:17
in the production and the actual people that
20:19
work for taxi magic, they
20:22
were not even around anymore. So I think it's okay to talk
20:24
about it. We had to
20:26
get their friends to show up and just, and
20:28
those were normal people. They're like, all right, I'm
20:30
doing my friend a favor and we got great
20:33
bus that way. Well, they have
20:35
to be a little on the inside in Los Angeles,
20:37
because you were in Los Angeles, right? Yes. That's
20:40
the thing. People move here, they
20:42
get into the business for a while.
20:44
And oftentimes most people get out of
20:46
the business that stay in the area.
20:48
So when they watch some, when they
20:50
watch the kids from the school walk
20:52
up with the camera, they've done
20:54
it already. They don't want, they're not, and
20:57
they're not, they don't think it's
20:59
great. They're not excited. You're interfering
21:01
with their day. And you're
21:03
probably the fourth person to have done it. Because
21:06
it's happened a lot. Yeah,
21:08
you should have asked me this 15 years ago
21:10
when I was trying to make it big. Now
21:12
leave me alone, I'm a union truck driver. Although
21:14
I will say this, our friend, Andrew
21:16
Michonne and his friend whose name you
21:18
might know, but I can't remember, they
21:21
have a podcast called Podcast But Outside.
21:23
Which is doing great. It's
21:26
a great podcast. It's a fucking hilarious idea
21:28
that is so work intensive that I'm like,
21:30
that's even a worse podcast than this one.
21:32
Where they sit at a table in chairs
21:35
with a sign that says Podcast But Outside
21:37
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21:41
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21:46
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25:17
can I get a tall
25:21
one pump hot mocha
25:25
and a bottle of water? I'll
25:27
have a grande coffee
25:29
with almond milk. And a grande coffee
25:32
with almond milk on a
25:34
leaf? That's gonna
25:36
be all. Thank you. You
25:38
ordered me a coffee I said cafe. I
25:40
don't know why. I don't know why I
25:42
said cafe. Can I have a cafe? Can
25:44
I have a cafe for my friend Jack
25:47
A? Oh my
25:49
god could you imagine if we booked Jack A on this
25:51
podcast? It's what
25:53
I know from reading The Secret repeatedly. If
25:57
you conjure it or if you visual... Remember
26:00
the words anymore. We need
26:02
some cash. Ooh, ooh, ooh. Thank
26:07
you. You
26:09
do what I do where, even though it's $1, you
26:11
fold it. Oh,
26:13
it was? It was. See, it works both ways,
26:16
because it looked like one folded dollar, and now
26:18
she's gonna be like, oh my God, that was
26:20
two. She's gonna be like, yeah, yeah, yeah.
26:23
Okay, I don't mean to be depressing on
26:25
this comedy podcast. No, I was just gonna
26:27
talk about local events. I
26:30
was just gonna say, I'm just driving
26:32
by so many buildings that were businesses
26:35
that are now closed. I
26:37
just keep looking at it. What a bummer. I know,
26:39
sorry. That's on
26:41
me. No, it
26:44
is a thing. Yeah, it is. It
26:46
is a thing more so in other
26:49
towns I've been to. Oh, really? In
26:52
Austin, it was kind of staggering and bumming out,
26:54
because I went to all my favorite areas, and
26:57
it was entire blocks. Especially
27:00
around U2 campus, everything
27:03
was closed, including the
27:05
stress test Scientology area. Oh my
27:07
God. Yeah, everything. Everything.
27:10
Yeah. We're
27:14
in a kind of a time of change, and
27:17
so I try to think of it like that. All
27:20
the things that are going on right now that
27:23
are so stressful and upsetting that
27:25
we're looking at on social media, everything
27:28
you look at is a worse thing. But
27:31
it's also a time of change. So it's like,
27:34
I don't want to freak out or whatever. I
27:37
just want to be like, okay, that
27:39
makes sense because no one can
27:42
afford to have a brick and mortar
27:44
business. Many people can't afford it the way they used
27:46
to be able to. Now they just
27:48
have to be an online business, and it works better
27:50
for people. Yeah, a better way,
27:52
even a more positive way of
27:54
looking at it is everyone's discovered.
27:57
You don't need a brick and mortar business. It's just like...
27:59
Why are we paying rent? We
28:02
could be boxing these up in our kitchen. Right.
28:05
And then there's a bunch of people who realize that and they're
28:07
like, I'm going to box this up in my kitchen and I
28:09
get to start making a ton of money because I'm good
28:12
at making, you know, natural body
28:14
oils or what have you or the things, all
28:16
the things I buy on TikTok. And
28:20
every time you feel guilty
28:22
for using Amazon, which I
28:24
guess we all should, it's the number one
28:26
polluter, but it's also where
28:29
a lot of independent people make
28:31
all their sales. Right. So
28:34
keep that in mind. True. I
28:36
mean, I'm sure Amazon takes a big chunk
28:38
of it, which brings it back to the
28:40
part of it being a problem. But here,
28:42
many problems. Do you want to have a
28:44
contest who can bum, be more bummer? Yeah,
28:46
let's do. Let's do. You know
28:48
I'll win it because in every mailbox there will
28:51
be a head with a knife in it. See,
28:53
I promise I wouldn't rap ghetto boys later. That's
28:57
from the Joe DeRosa episode long ago. Oh,
28:59
wow. And for you guys talked all
29:02
about this. I got to start listening to
29:04
more hip hop. Me
29:06
I'm talking about the same stuff
29:08
I was back then and he has
29:10
gone and become a sandwich tycoon. He's
29:13
a fucking sandwich tycoon. He is.
29:15
He pivoted. I know. I
29:18
just, here's the funniest thing. So Joe DeRosa,
29:21
friend of the podcast and
29:23
in real life, which is podcast are
29:25
real life, sorry to tell you. But
29:29
he moved back to New York from Los
29:31
Angeles and I hadn't talked to him
29:33
for a really long time. And then it
29:35
bummed me out because I was like, oh,
29:37
is this intentional on his third? Like, is
29:39
he mad at me for some reason? Yeah, that's what
29:41
we all think. Right. We really, we
29:43
need to be comforted by the fact that no
29:45
one else is thinking of anyone but themselves. Yeah,
29:48
true. And Joe's thinking
29:50
of himself and sandwiches. Yes.
29:53
But I really was like, oh no, did
29:55
I, whatever. This thing we all did. Yes. I
29:59
often. And I mean also, that
30:01
texts some people, men,
30:03
who don't say, hey, it's
30:06
me, Joe, and then say their message, they
30:08
just go, I was at this concert,
30:10
it made me think of you, blood and blood, text
30:13
me back, whatever. And I do not
30:15
text any of them back because I don't know who
30:17
they are. And I was like, if you're not in
30:19
my current phone, there might be a reason, and I'm
30:21
not following for this, and also you're the kind of
30:23
person that wouldn't put your name into a text, and
30:26
we haven't talked for a while. For me, just
30:28
so everyone knows, there's no rhyme or reason. There
30:30
are some very important people in my life that
30:32
I need to talk to every day, and
30:35
I still haven't recorded their name into my
30:37
phone because I'm getting these frequent texts,
30:39
so I just get lazy about it. And
30:41
it's like, well, we'll be corresponding tomorrow and
30:44
the next night, in
30:46
a year or so.
30:48
So why record there?
30:50
You, you're basically, hey, give me them
30:52
digits, and begin a relationship
30:54
of some sort. That's never
30:57
my idea. It's your preference. Well, what I'm
30:59
saying is you put a phone number into your phone
31:01
and never put a number. No,
31:04
no. Never put a name in. The information
31:06
keeps coming. You're
31:09
doing everything from memory? Right, and
31:11
well, when I see them in person, I'll be
31:13
like, hey, you, good to see you, because of
31:15
course I don't know their name. But
31:17
on my phone, to me, they're 3-1-0-5-8-7,
31:19
et cetera, 24. So,
31:22
you know, if anything, I know
31:25
them twice as
31:28
well as other people. No, this is the weirdest. Hold
31:32
on, this is a second shame piece for you. Now
31:34
I have to think of another one. Yeah, I am very lazy
31:36
about all the shame. I'm
31:39
very lazy about recording people's names in my
31:41
phone. I'm sorry, I
31:44
don't enjoy paperwork. Hold
31:46
on, there's no recording, and there's no
31:48
paper. It's one of those things that I'm
31:50
gonna do. It's still hard for me. You
31:53
type in the number, it's like, where's that plus sign
31:55
so I can add it? number
32:00
I always mess up and I'm like well let me
32:02
just send you a text I have to
32:04
put my strawberry vape pen down so this
32:06
is too hard why did
32:09
I buy a two-handed
32:11
vape hold it in your teeth
32:13
like the penguin like every other vapor yeah the
32:16
vape I have at home is just
32:18
like an alto sack it's
32:20
so big and baby and filled with
32:23
carcinogens no come on
32:25
it's just great flavor it's good for
32:27
you it's very do
32:30
you think you could have done a better job drawing
32:32
tacos on the side of that taco
32:34
truck yes or no be honest look
32:38
you know I they aren't
32:40
bad I can just tell that all
32:42
those ingredients it's clip art oh
32:45
so some of the tacos like that
32:47
that quesadilla is pretty good I like
32:49
that it's wood cut line art but
32:51
then the other one you see the
32:53
quesadilla next or the tacos next to
32:55
it's more like stipple and
32:58
then we got some crosshatching it's a mess I
33:00
don't like it when there's a bunch of illustrations
33:02
and it's like clearly
33:05
different people did them
33:07
all oh yeah or they went
33:09
to different books or quip art
33:11
things exactly yeah it's not stylistically
33:13
uniform no it's got to be
33:16
uniform in style yeah
33:22
I'm glad you brought that up actually it
33:24
would have bothered me had we not mentioned
33:26
it well you
33:28
know I goes don't match that
33:30
quesadilla keep talking about phone numbers
33:33
don't get sidetracked hey
33:38
how were your shows in Fort Collins
33:40
and why thank you
33:42
for asking you're so fun
33:45
I felt I finally
33:47
gotten a grasp on this new feeling
33:50
of being super nervous before shows yeah until
33:52
I get that first laugh and then I
33:54
just am in control of things because my
33:56
brain works a little better so I feel
33:59
like I stand up some more fun.
34:02
I have a joke now where I just
34:05
talk about my stand-ups a
34:07
little like jazz music. A
34:09
lot of it's terrible. And
34:12
then I get to go like, blah blah blah blah
34:15
blah. And then everyone in
34:17
the crowd usually yells, no porn! And
34:20
it makes me, I almost cry. I
34:23
let her cry. Well, I know
34:25
why they're coming to see me, but
34:27
it's just a moment that is
34:30
reminding me all at once in
34:32
accountable voices. Yeah, yeah.
34:34
I also didn't realize we
34:36
had that many listeners. I
34:39
always forget. If you, and
34:42
I'm not going to ask you again
34:44
to start doing stand-up, because I know
34:47
it's not like, oh
34:49
yeah, I'll just do it. But
34:51
if you did, it would be a life
34:55
force for you to realize. Just
34:58
because I keep forgetting, and then I go back
35:00
out and it's all these people I'm like, oh
35:02
yeah, people, it's just, I don't get
35:04
those reminders in town. I don't get them for
35:06
some reason a little bit here
35:08
and there. Right. Well, no
35:10
one's going to, a group of people aren't going to yell mouth horn at
35:12
you at the end. Sorry
35:14
to say. No, but it's
35:17
been amazing. And afterwards,
35:20
hanging out and talking for at
35:23
least an hour. Nice. Because
35:26
I sell my little posters and I'm like,
35:28
just come say hi. And everyone buys a
35:30
poster, whether they want one or not. And
35:32
they're so nice. And again, I've been getting
35:34
the Starbucks cards. I just want
35:36
you to know that these people are coming.
35:39
I love it. I do always think like, wow,
35:42
Karen needs a taste of this. I do.
35:45
I love medicine because it is
35:48
amazing. So it's been great. And
35:51
yeah, I didn't plan this last trip
35:53
very well. I got the cheapest flight
35:56
because I did, you
35:58
know, it was fun gig. It
36:00
wasn't like, you know, I do
36:02
some big money gigs, corporates, boats. We've
36:05
heard the golf tournaments that you've
36:07
eaten and stuff. Sure, yeah, I
36:09
do the Christmas party for Halliburton.
36:13
But this, you know, I was
36:15
hanging out. I had like a
36:18
nine-hour layover that required me to
36:20
be in the Las Vegas airport.
36:22
No! Hey, were you wondering
36:24
if there's food ground into the carpet from
36:26
four years ago? You'll
36:28
know once you go to Las Vegas
36:31
airport, terminal A, where
36:33
I saw one fight. I
36:35
saw pretty much everyone was drunk. Oh
36:37
yeah, fish were thrown, no one broke
36:40
it up. And of course, Flavor
36:42
Flav was there. Why wouldn't Flavor
36:44
Flav just be in the airport, being
36:46
clawed at by people? And
36:48
he was very nice to everyone. He'd
36:51
like, oh, roll his eyes and then turn
36:53
around and go, yeah, boy, and take a
36:55
selfie. And
36:58
just so many bedazzled pockets
37:00
of true religion jeans, which I'm
37:02
not being classist or anything, because
37:04
those are expensive jeans. You're reporting
37:06
the facts simply. With
37:09
the flap on them, those back pockets with
37:12
the cowboy-cut flap. And
37:14
DMs, tons of D-Mastrums. Which,
37:17
I have to say, if you're sitting in front
37:20
of the old one-armed bandit for seven hours, which
37:22
is why you're in Las Vegas, you could
37:24
pick a more comfortable pants. A killer
37:26
from the fugitive? You're
37:34
just sitting in front of that actor the whole time?
37:36
I didn't curl my wife. How was
37:38
that? That's Harrison
37:41
Ford. I didn't curl my wife. It's Harrison Ford,
37:43
it's not the one-armed bandit. Yeah,
37:45
but the one-armed bandit curled
37:47
my wife. I hate
37:49
snakes. How's that? It's really good.
37:52
Thanks. Yeah, I get some. It's
37:55
the same as my Jon Hamm. You just have to
37:57
go low. Oh, what's a Jon
37:59
Hamm? Can we just get a taster? I
38:02
have a huge dick. Sorry. I've
38:06
reportedly. Apparently.
38:09
Purportedly. Acting.
38:11
He's the Huey Lewis thing.
38:13
Famous leader. Didn't
38:16
Deb Benson have a joke about Huey Lewis as
38:18
a dick at that one part of the
38:21
movie Shortcuts? Huey Lewis is in it and
38:23
he is standing on the side and
38:26
he pulls his dick out to pee and it's
38:28
just this gigantic dick. Oh, he
38:30
actually saw it? It's in the movie.
38:33
Oh, okay. I think it is common
38:35
knowledge and if it is, and April
38:38
Richardson will remind you that Huey
38:40
Lewis, that's
38:42
the news. He's got
38:45
a big old
38:48
meat cannon as I wish I hadn't just said.
38:50
Sorry. Excuse me. Wait,
38:56
what did you do for Halloween? I did
38:58
nothing. I was, well...
39:01
In Las Vegas Airport? I
39:03
was not feeling well when I got home and one of
39:05
my layovers waiting for
39:07
a shuttle from
39:09
downtown, or Union Station
39:12
in Denver, I had
39:15
five hours I needed to pass before I got...
39:17
Oh, that person's just gonna keep... No. Wow.
39:20
I know you have a toothache but stop it. Should
39:22
have bandaged around her. It was her mess.
39:25
Yeah, it was the other toothache. She
39:27
had an old piece of gauze
39:29
wrapped around her head. It
39:32
could be an Halloween costume. When I did get
39:34
on the shuttle, there was a man with a
39:36
sharpened stick with, I hope, fake blood on it.
39:39
Oh, what? Yeah, he was a
39:41
large, I guess, bumpy, the vampire
39:43
slayer, or a real life murderer.
39:46
But he had a sharpened
39:48
stick. Or a seal hunter. Hey,
39:51
get off my eyeball, loney pal. That's
39:54
Christmas. That's my costume. I
39:56
didn't... I brought stuff to
39:58
be Robert's name. from the
40:00
cure. Oh. But I didn't, I
40:03
decided I just wanted to do stand-up and not.
40:06
Okay. I did some prastic,
40:09
prastic, some prastic surgery. Practice
40:14
sets at a
40:16
regular club where there
40:19
was no dinosaurs.
40:23
Oh, and so it's Christian. And
40:27
they don't celebrate Halloween? Right, right.
40:29
Yeah, none of the heathens that listen to
40:31
our podcast were there. It's just regular folks.
40:33
And I need to keep doing that because
40:35
I don't want to. It
40:39
makes me try a little harder when it's just
40:41
a bunch of grumpy dads. Yes. So I did
40:43
a couple of grumpy dads. The
40:48
MC at those shows spent so much
40:50
time. The first night he was the
40:52
joker and he put a lot of
40:54
work into his makeup. The next night
40:56
he was Freddy Krueger and his daughter
40:58
had done all this face makeup and
41:00
the audience was like mad
41:03
or something. They didn't, they wanted him to
41:05
be the comedian. Yeah. Not the, he was
41:08
like, I don't know why I'm having weird
41:10
sets. And it's like, you're a scary monster.
41:12
Yes, you're a scary monster that's like anyway.
41:14
So anyways, what else is in the news?
41:17
Well, I guess what's in the news, Freddy Krueger,
41:19
is that you died in the boiler room and
41:21
local kids are the ones that killed you and
41:24
now you're getting a revenge. They couldn't get
41:26
the plot from those movies out of
41:28
their head. Right. Yeah. It was like,
41:30
I'd love to enjoy your jokes, but
41:32
you killed all the counselors and the
41:35
campers. You pulled beautiful
41:37
young Johnny Depp down through a mattress.
41:39
I'll never forget it when I first saw it.
41:42
Oh yeah, that was Johnny Depp. Yeah. He had
41:44
21 Jump Street. Yes. Early, one
41:46
of his first gigs. Pre Greco, my
41:48
friend Jennifer gearing my dear,
41:51
beautiful life long friend Jennifer gearing who
41:55
we spent. Our parents were friends. So
41:57
she was like, she was my sister
41:59
got to invite a friend every time we
42:01
went somewhere and I automatically got Jennifer
42:03
gearing up. I was like, oh,
42:05
she's the one I would pick on as well, but
42:08
I always just wanted the choice, but I would
42:10
pick Jennifer anyway because she was the funniest,
42:12
most fun person of all time. Oh,
42:15
she called me because it was her birthday. I was going
42:17
to her house for her birthday and she
42:19
goes, I got this movie, Karen.
42:22
You are not gonna believe this guy. This guy
42:24
in it, like you're not gonna believe your eyes.
42:27
And then we put
42:29
the movie in, we're watching it and he comes on
42:31
screen and we were like, we
42:33
couldn't believe our eyes. Just Johnny Depp
42:35
as an extra? He
42:38
was the first to die, so he was
42:40
like a minor player in that movie.
42:42
He was the Drew Barrymore of that movie. Yeah, exactly.
42:44
I don't know first, actually. There's horror fans,
42:47
we'll be like, what the fuck? He was the
42:49
third to die. That's the
42:51
last episode of Do You Need
42:53
a Road? I listened to. Wow, I
42:55
guess I need to... I've never
42:57
really watched, you know, I'm a dream
42:59
warrior guy. Third in
43:02
the franchise. That's the only
43:04
nightmare. Seriously. That was interesting.
43:06
She was moseying across that
43:08
fucking street. Yeah, what are
43:10
you, John Wayne? I get
43:13
that your skirt looks like a picnic blanket.
43:15
Yeah. Get the fuck out of my way.
43:17
Yeah, go chase some ants
43:19
with your watermelon wedge. You
43:22
know, a picnic. So
43:26
I forgot where we were.
43:29
Johnny Depp. Dream warrior. Franchise.
43:34
Franchise. There we have it. Next
43:38
subject. We're over. I
43:40
am waiting for the shuttle.
43:42
I passed the time. I had
43:44
a non-alcoholic beer and I
43:46
ordered a Scotch egg, something that
43:49
I had once at the
43:51
Village Idiot. Melrose, and
43:53
it's so delicious. You know,
43:55
I'm not a huge meathead, but it
43:58
is a... meat, encapsuled,
44:03
hard-boiled egg
44:06
that is then fried. So of course
44:08
it's good. And I was feeling like
44:10
I needed some comfort. I didn't have
44:13
my vape. And
44:16
I bit into it and it was flavorless
44:18
in a way where I was like, okay,
44:21
this is not cooked, I
44:23
don't think. So
44:25
I didn't finish it and I didn't think
44:27
about it. And I had a great show
44:29
that night and I had a beautiful hotel
44:31
in Fort Collins, the Armstrong. It was haunted
44:34
and I don't need to know
44:36
that by the way because I actually didn't sleep
44:38
very well because every little knock in the night
44:40
I thought was Emily. I looked her up online, the
44:43
ghost was named Emily. Anyway,
44:45
at checkout the next day, 11
44:47
o'clock, that is right when food
44:49
poisoning hit me. Oh! And I... You
44:51
have buried the lead this entire episode,
44:54
Chris. You know, you know me.
44:56
I wish I was a doctor.
44:58
I've been holding this vomit
45:01
and diarrhea story and the
45:04
details are now going to
45:06
flow. It's just
45:08
I was in such a... And I called
45:11
the front desk and they understood right away
45:13
they were so sweet. I'm like, hi, I
45:15
am good at packing. I'm needing
45:17
to check out of the room but
45:19
I just got egged yesterday and I
45:21
know it wasn't cooked and I'm experiencing
45:23
I believe food poisoning and
45:25
they're like, oh no, you need to be
45:28
near a bathroom at all times. They knew
45:30
right away. Yes. But
45:32
I still had to check out of my room. They
45:35
gave me an extra hour and I did
45:37
as much as I could in that time.
45:39
But then I was
45:42
just kind of wandering the
45:44
winter streets of Fort Collin
45:46
visiting each sidewalk tree. Barfing!
45:50
Yeah, well, be thankful
45:52
it wasn't double duty. Oh,
45:58
I was in trouble. And then... I
46:02
called David Rodriguez,
46:06
the guy that runs the
46:09
comedy fort, and he
46:11
said there's a key in the back. And
46:14
I went in and I went to it.
46:16
Because I had a shuttle, I had my flight.
46:18
It was like, I do not have time for
46:20
this. This is the worst. Do I have to
46:23
stay an extra night and miss my flight? Did
46:25
you? No. I managed
46:27
to pull it off. I
46:29
just was like, every
46:31
time there was a restroom, whether it was an
46:33
emergency or not, I was sick. We
46:36
all get sick. I'm not being
46:38
dirty. No, no, food poisoning,
46:40
I love talking about food poisoning because
46:42
it's happened to me, I believe twice, but
46:45
the most recent time it's happened. It's happened.
46:49
Wait, I think it's only happened once. Is it
46:51
happening right now? Do
46:54
you mind if I barf into this side
46:56
pocket of my car? It was
47:00
the idea of it, like
47:03
it was so consistent barfing and shitting
47:05
for almost $48 that I was like,
47:08
this is getting dangerous. I
47:11
had to look up where I should know this
47:13
has to be now a medical issue
47:15
at the hospital. Because it
47:19
was so crazy, I would take little tiny sips
47:21
of water, fat four minutes later, bum back up.
47:25
It was insanity. This
47:28
was on Monday that I was coming back. My
47:30
show was on Sunday at 4Con. Yesterday,
47:35
I was pretty worthless. I don't feel amazing
47:38
right now, but I did
47:40
not eat at all for 24 hours. It
47:42
was out of the question. Yogurt, saltines, none
47:44
of it, no way. I
47:46
just muscled through. In
47:50
the past when I've had food poisoning, that's
47:53
why I'm not entirely sure.
47:56
Well, I did have it. I just didn't eat
47:58
that whole scotch egg. It was two eggs. cut
48:00
in half. It would have been to it. I
48:02
just get one. I'm like, that's not cooked. Had
48:07
I done through all of them, I
48:09
would have also had incredible abdominal sharp
48:12
pain, but I didn't have that. I
48:14
just, it was kind of a weird
48:16
fun version where I actually felt okay
48:18
physically. I was joking about it. I
48:20
was smiling and waving at people as
48:22
I publicly vomited. It
48:24
was like, it was as fun
48:26
a version of it as possible.
48:29
It wasn't the fetal position for three
48:31
days. I mean, it's about the friends
48:33
you make along the way with fruit
48:35
poisoning, I feel like. I
48:38
never felt so social. It
48:40
was such a weird timing.
48:43
I gotta share this with everyone. You were being
48:45
forced to share it with everyone. How
48:47
vulnerable is it when you're just uncontrollably
48:51
puking on the street in Fort Collins? It's
48:53
weird how when your offices are open, so
48:55
is your heart. Listen,
48:59
if you saw Chris Barfing in Fort Collins,
49:01
please write in and let us just describe
49:03
it to us in detail. I was in
49:05
Old Town. I was wearing a Pendleton.
49:10
You saw me. I was the only guy with
49:13
luggage also, and
49:16
it was cold. Normally
49:18
you go to a park and just deal with it,
49:20
but it was all the
49:23
way winter. That's truly terrible.
49:25
Thank you, David, at Comedy Port
49:27
for letting me. He wasn't
49:29
even there. He'd let me go in.
49:31
David. Then it was hilarious because I'd
49:33
be like, okay, I have to get
49:36
my shuttle. He's like, oh, that's good
49:38
because the mayor and some reporters are
49:40
coming now. They're doing an expose
49:43
on the next.
49:46
On Scotch Egg? Yes,
49:48
and they're aftermath. I'd be
49:51
a perfect interview for this, but I gotta catch
49:53
up. You're here for it, Marvin. The
49:58
mayor's about to do it. the ribbon-cutting
50:00
ceremony and I just puke on the
50:02
scissors. Sorry. Horrifying.
50:07
Yeah, it was awful. Just the
50:09
timing. It was so bad that it
50:11
was kind of funny. Yeah, it is funny. Like how
50:13
is this happening? At 11 it
50:16
hit me. And
50:18
it was a nice hotel, so check out, was it 11? And
50:21
they're like, you can have an hour. Yeah. It's
50:24
just like, do you understand how food
50:26
poisoning works? Actually, they were nice at
50:28
the Armstrong. They were like, at
50:30
12, check back in with us. But I
50:32
was like, I'm feeling okay. And I went
50:35
down to the lobby and then I'm like,
50:37
no, I'm not. And they brought me seven
50:39
up. Oh, right. And
50:41
she got me a water and they kept checking on me. And
50:43
they yelled mouth horn at you? No,
50:46
no, it was just the kindness of
50:48
strangers. Yeah, the old
50:50
fashioned, they just
50:53
thought I was a businessman. That's
50:57
because you save your dockers
50:59
for being when you're on the road, right? Oh
51:02
yeah, yeah. You know, if I got a flight,
51:04
got to put on the pleated front. Did
51:07
you see, I saw the picture
51:09
of you at the
51:12
tattoo coffee place that has the
51:14
Fairbanks now. Oh, I have to give
51:16
you your sweatshirt. Yeah, you-
51:18
That's super sweet. They gave me a sweatshirt
51:20
to give you. You withhold all my gifts.
51:23
I have it. I have it and I
51:25
will not hold a costume to slide your
51:27
49ers gear. Wait, I
51:29
still haven't given that to my dad, by the
51:31
way. So I'm equally guilty. Well, it is hard.
51:34
It is in my car. I
51:37
will give it to you right as we wrap. But
51:39
are you saying they gave you a sweatshirt to give
51:41
to me or you just have one of my old
51:43
sweatshirts? Oh, no, no. No,
51:45
they said, here's your sweatshirt. Here is
51:47
also Karen's. Oh, what does
51:49
it look like? I'm so excited. It's the
51:51
one I'm wearing in that photo. It's got
51:54
a Pegasus that is also a
51:56
unicorn. I don't know what those
51:59
are called. the pega
52:01
corn. A pega corn and you
52:04
know it just looks like kind of a
52:06
cool glam like
52:08
heavy metal soup it's a super sweet
52:10
tattoo and it's got the very cool
52:13
illustration and it's just
52:15
your size. That's great and thank you
52:17
thank you super sweet
52:20
not you super sweet tattoo.
52:22
Well you're welcome. Order of
52:24
my gifts. Yes it's been
52:27
my pleasure
52:32
Karen. If
52:35
I left the house I would get gifts too. Yes
52:37
and I just didn't
52:41
know they said if
52:44
we did a drink for Karen would it be mocha
52:48
latte? I'm like that sounds right. Yeah.
52:50
But you know me when we're in
52:52
those drive-thrus I just think of my
52:54
own orders. You're just like what's my
52:57
order? But we have to maybe for
52:59
an episode go to super sweet tattoo
53:02
and coffee and go
53:04
in get some drinks and
53:06
get some ink done. Yeah.
53:08
Should we get matching diner? I
53:10
don't even care anymore. I'll get
53:12
a dinosaur
53:15
on my elbow or something. I'll
53:18
do it. I like
53:20
little tiny I'm a big fan
53:22
of little like that Friday
53:26
the 13th like flash art
53:28
day where they were doing it
53:31
was like a party there. I
53:33
was out of town but little
53:36
tiny tattoos I like how they look.
53:38
Yeah I like people's tattoos these days. I think
53:40
for me it doesn't make a ton of... it's too late for me. I
53:42
think although I think it's a little bit of a
53:44
thing although that would... Where is it
53:47
the exact right time? Or is it
53:49
perfect as I'm in my mid fucking
53:51
50s? But I could get
53:53
my salmon tattoo fixed because
53:56
I have a tramp stamp that's a salmon that
53:58
is just the weirdest dumbest. Alcoholic
54:00
thing I've ever done. Karen, it's a
54:02
lower back art piece. But,
54:06
yeah, I know what you're saying. At the time you
54:09
got it, you wear a tramp. I feel like... Or
54:12
you could get the exact same tattoo I have, and
54:14
then I don't have to do anything, and you have
54:16
to do it. It'd be funny if I got
54:18
a fish on my lower back. Just a
54:20
nice salmon. I
54:22
think I do want to get something
54:24
there. I figure, why not now? If
54:27
we had gotten these statues when we
54:29
were younger, right now they'd be all
54:31
faded. Yeah, mine's kind of
54:33
faded. Yeah. It doesn't look
54:36
good. Time to get doctored up. I was
54:38
going to turn my band-aid back into a
54:40
band-aid and not a corn dog severed penis.
54:42
So, just fill it with some
54:44
pink and lay on some black mines. And
54:47
then that's what then? Not
54:49
a severed penis? No, it'll be back
54:51
to being a band-aid. Yeah.
54:55
The original purpose. I
54:59
always liked that idea. It is a good idea.
55:01
Tattoos of band-aids on my knees and elbows. Yeah.
55:05
Because, you know, skateboarding and stuff.
55:08
Yeah? Yeah. Oh,
55:10
I thought it was just kind of random and an object.
55:13
Just something to stick on your... Yeah,
55:15
it is kind of arbitrary. It could
55:17
be anything, really. But,
55:19
yeah, we'll get tattoos. It's what we'll do. Okay.
55:22
Or we'll go there and you can do whatever
55:24
you want. And I'll do whatever I
55:26
want. Right. Yeah. I
55:28
mean, the idea of having a drink... We can just meet
55:30
there and go our separate directions. And not
55:32
talk. And we will not be recording and it'll
55:34
be like we're in a fight. Yeah. Okay.
55:38
Yeah. Perfect. I
55:40
like that. That's fun. It'll be a very special
55:42
episode. And then it'll be
55:44
the lost episode because we didn't record it. Oh,
55:46
those days are over. Oh,
55:49
my God. Sorry,
55:51
I didn't... That wasn't supposed to be a
55:53
joke against you at all. No. No. No.
55:57
It wasn't... I swear it wasn't. It wasn't taken as a joke.
56:00
Okay, good. It was
56:02
a odd glitchy act. I
56:06
Swear nothing was done wrong. It
56:08
was just haunted that day. It
56:10
was haunted in a way that you
56:13
and I in our Moderate
56:15
podcast experience. I'd never even heard
56:17
before or it was like It
56:20
was kind of ghosty or it's like it's
56:23
you and me and Tig having the greatest
56:25
conversation ever But underwater moved
56:27
to tears. Yeah, or like
56:29
with radio static behind it. Yeah,
56:32
it was bizarre Because it
56:34
would start to sound normal and then voices
56:37
would slow down and get pixelated if
56:40
you could imagine what a pixel sounds like and
56:44
Yeah, just But
56:46
like actually it sounded like it
56:48
was possessed. Wait a second. Let's
56:51
ask our engineer Slash producer
56:54
mostly producer, but only
56:56
what do you think happened? Yes, if
56:58
that's the sound I
57:14
love it inside baseball, but if
57:16
I always say like if you're at 10
57:18
hours left on your card reset it because I
57:24
Didn't know that that's why because I only
57:27
still tell me that well when we were doing it
57:29
on zoom And then I'll be like
57:31
I'm down to three hours No one can tell me what
57:33
to do and I just thought you meant it like we're
57:35
gonna run out of time But I didn't realize I could
57:37
actually be fucking up the report. Yeah, sorry
57:40
about that No, and back then I also
57:42
was doing a lot of you
57:44
know, whoops. I just pull it out without Throwing
57:48
it in the trash and ejecting all
57:50
that sorry. Welcome to tech talk. I
57:52
mean guys podcasting is hard Sorry
57:54
to tell you. Yeah, and for
57:57
years we treated it like it was
57:59
easy You
58:01
can't treat hard things like they're easy
58:04
and expect to get every single
58:06
episode. Yeah So
58:08
that's the store. I'm glad I got that
58:10
food poisoning off my chest that kind of
58:12
and out of your butt Just
58:17
when I think I'm the one you become
58:20
one yep a dirty dirty
58:22
bird I Really
58:28
took when I got food poisoning I took it
58:30
personally because it was I
58:32
ate it was a Chinese chicken salad, but
58:34
it was not made with lettuce It was made with
58:36
cabbage which in and of itself is gross. And so
58:38
I Ingested a
58:41
bunch of E. Coli basically on
58:43
this cabbage. I can't like when something
58:46
is like with this coleslaw I'm like,
58:48
ooh and this happened Um
58:51
Easily 15 years
58:53
ago, right? It's still that thing of like
58:56
when you're in a violent barfing Situation,
58:59
you don't forget it. No, don't I
59:01
will forever blame Scotch
59:03
eggs eggs in general
59:05
and the Scottish people. Yes, and I
59:09
You know much like the time I've got
59:11
so Should have been
59:14
in a hospital hungover. It was Something
59:16
called Southern Comfort, which I've never
59:18
been able to even smell. Oh
59:21
that drink. Yo, that's not even
59:23
a drink Yeah, it's a bathroom
59:25
cleanse. It's syrup. It is
59:27
syrupy Cleanser and
59:29
I still I still remember what it
59:31
tastes like this guy wanted to
59:33
fight me No,
59:38
this was no this wasn't one of those
59:40
many many times I punched him here and
59:42
said I don't like the look you cut
59:45
your Jib asshole. Wait, that's me. I like
59:47
a too late man's cut No,
59:50
this was a dude that was
59:53
later became an acquaintance But this
59:56
night he had a problem with me just
59:58
because I was there and I did didn't have
1:00:00
an outlet so I was being sarcastic
1:00:04
and rude. That's
1:00:06
what Southern Comfort's all about. And
1:00:08
then instead of we got the
1:00:10
fight was broken up, it
1:00:13
was just a pushing thing. I went to
1:00:15
an after party and wouldn't you know in
1:00:17
the living room was this same exact
1:00:20
guy. Oh shit. And
1:00:22
so rather than fight he handed me this
1:00:25
bottle of Southern Comfort and we drank it
1:00:27
out. I did not know that what
1:00:29
I was drinking, I was a young man. It
1:00:31
was like 90 proof and
1:00:34
I got, I should have been in a
1:00:36
hospital. I was sick for many days. It
1:00:38
was a terrible
1:00:41
experience. That guy, he passed
1:00:43
away. You
1:00:45
know most of my stories, we either got to end with
1:00:47
a laugh or end
1:00:49
with a sad. Or drive it
1:00:52
directly down into the ground. That's
1:00:54
right. Yeah. It's important. You
1:00:56
don't want to leave a story idling? No. Let's
1:00:59
not stay neutral and certainly not let's
1:01:01
not leave anybody's previous sadness. Just
1:01:03
remind them there's more sadness in
1:01:06
the world. Maybe
1:01:08
people hearing that will go hey, at
1:01:10
least I am not
1:01:12
dead. Right. Yeah. It's
1:01:15
important to give people those little tests. Yeah.
1:01:19
Quick reminder, we're all alive. We're
1:01:21
very lucky to be alive. Let's talk
1:01:23
about the passing Matthew Perry. Oh no.
1:01:26
I know. I've done it again. I
1:01:29
just really, I realized
1:01:31
how much, I don't think you know
1:01:34
how much. I didn't have a
1:01:36
picture of him on my wall when I lived in Bend,
1:01:38
Oregon. But you
1:01:40
did. Sounds like you did the way you said that. I
1:01:42
had a picture of him doing a pharaenis note on my
1:01:44
wall. I was way into friends. It was at a point
1:01:46
where I was young enough to not
1:01:48
care as much about Seinfeld, which I think
1:01:50
came on right after or
1:01:52
right before. Right. It was a Thursday
1:01:54
night. But all the
1:01:56
snowboarders in
1:01:59
our little group. would come over and we
1:02:01
had a friend's night and we were very
1:02:03
invested in the first couple seasons before Ross
1:02:05
and Rachel got together and I often
1:02:08
am not bragging but a lot of people thought
1:02:12
I was a Chandler type. Oh. The
1:02:15
sarcasm and I really, I like. The
1:02:17
gesturing you're doing right now? And yes, exactly.
1:02:20
He, this is such a bing thing. That
1:02:22
guy's famous from TikTok. The guys that got
1:02:24
out of that Bentley, yes. You really have
1:02:27
a problem. I know, that was crazy. But
1:02:30
all the interviews with him and stuff
1:02:32
lately that have been surfacing, I realized
1:02:35
how goddamn funny he was. Oh my
1:02:37
God. Amazingly funny. Really,
1:02:39
like, conversationally
1:02:42
hilarious. Sharpest attack. Also,
1:02:46
he was a child actor. Thank you, sir.
1:02:48
Appreciate it. He was, yes, he was a
1:02:50
child actor who was on a show called Just
1:02:52
the Ten of Us, just as a, like, Just the
1:02:54
Ten of Us was like a guy
1:02:57
that was a coach at a high school that had 10 children. And
1:03:00
so each child was a different personality and it
1:03:02
was one of those syndicated shows like Small Wonder.
1:03:05
Oh wow. And when
1:03:07
my sister and I watched those kinds of
1:03:09
shows on the weekend, we like literally were
1:03:11
like, if anyone was good or above average,
1:03:13
we'd like memorize, we'd look their names up
1:03:16
or look, you know, wait for their names
1:03:18
in the credits, blah, blah, blah. Back when IMDB,
1:03:20
you had to go to the library and look at
1:03:22
the books. And you'd be like, fucking, you either, you
1:03:24
got the credits and if you miss them, you'd never see
1:03:26
it again and you'd never know their names. But
1:03:29
Matthew Perry was like a boy that one of the
1:03:31
girls on that show liked for one episode. And
1:03:33
we were like, that guy. And so when, later
1:03:36
on, when he was on Friends and just like
1:03:38
so gigantic, my sister actually is the one that's
1:03:40
really good at that. She called
1:03:42
George Clooney. She called Ellen
1:03:44
DeGeneres. She called Matthew Perry. Like, we
1:03:46
would watch the TV. Like, that guy's got the good. Yes.
1:03:49
Oh wow. I kind of could tell like that
1:03:51
is that, you know, star quality
1:03:54
thing. And he had it when he was like
1:03:56
13 years old. Do you remember?
1:03:59
Jason Bates. Oh,
1:04:01
yeah, I mean that he was
1:04:03
we loved him so much
1:04:05
and still do yeah, and I
1:04:08
love Justine The
1:04:11
there was a show called misfits of
1:04:13
science I think yeah, Courtney Cox was
1:04:15
on it like someone was able to
1:04:17
get small I can't remember what all
1:04:19
their powers were. Yeah, I remember
1:04:21
that show. Yeah, I Because
1:04:24
I first saw her after that in like
1:04:26
Ace Ventura, but she was on
1:04:28
that show. Yeah, so Type
1:04:30
that into your Hulu and pay for a 99 an
1:04:32
episode Miss
1:04:34
it to science. Let's check and see if it's
1:04:36
good. I wonder if it well, that would be
1:04:38
like young adult type of show,
1:04:40
right? Yeah, that's definitely why yeah,
1:04:43
interesting. We watched a movie last night because
1:04:45
it was Halloween
1:04:48
so me and the great Jack Noah towers has been
1:04:50
on this podcast with us We watched
1:04:53
a movie from 2007 called
1:04:55
trick-or-treat, which is like an anthology
1:04:58
So it's like little creepy stories Leslie
1:05:00
bibb gets murdered right in the
1:05:02
beginning which we were like what why would she
1:05:05
be immediately dead? She's like a star and then
1:05:07
all these people Anna
1:05:09
Paquin was in it Brian Cox
1:05:11
from succession was in a while and
1:05:14
like each individual story. It was
1:05:18
Really good. Wait, why am I telling this story
1:05:20
now? I can't remember if you get killed in
1:05:22
the middle of her at the very beginning
1:05:24
of an 80s horror movie Apparently, it means you're
1:05:26
gonna be a superstar Right. It's
1:05:29
ever this was from 2007. Oh, my point was okay the
1:05:34
shit they were saying and the shit they were
1:05:36
doing is like Just
1:05:38
now that we have a little we have a
1:05:41
little time a little time has passed between like
1:05:43
when people started going Hey, you shouldn't do that.
1:05:45
You shouldn't say that our word. You should be
1:05:47
nicer You should not just because
1:05:49
a person is different should doesn't mean they should get
1:05:52
Stabbed and everyone makes fun of them. Whatever
1:05:54
be a better joke writer. Exactly
1:05:56
be a little more creative and pick
1:05:58
on the bully not the
1:06:01
kid being picked on or whatever. I'm doing it
1:06:03
with my stand-up even. It's a good thing. Yes,
1:06:06
it's important. Yeah. Well, you've always done it. I
1:06:08
mean, like, your stand-up is not, you
1:06:10
would never punch down. I can't imagine
1:06:12
that you'd ever do that. But in this movie,
1:06:14
there was only 2007. I've always
1:06:17
been middle-time in denominator. That's right.
1:06:19
Not lowest. You're certainly not going
1:06:21
out there and signing petitions for
1:06:23
anybody, but you're also not being
1:06:25
a douchebag. Exactly, right in the
1:06:27
middle. Yep. Yeah. But
1:06:30
in this movie, I was just like, now
1:06:32
the time has passed. It's
1:06:34
right that everybody was too PC. All the
1:06:36
whole movement and the way people are like,
1:06:39
we're being censored or whatever. It's
1:06:42
like, no, no, no. We're evolving. And
1:06:45
this movie was proof. It
1:06:47
was scary and good in parts. But then there was other parts where I
1:06:49
was like, they picked on this
1:06:51
girl who clearly was on the spectrum.
1:06:54
And they were so mean to her where I was
1:06:56
like, why are they doing this? It
1:06:58
was like extra horror in the horror
1:07:00
movie, where it's just like, why would you
1:07:03
bully this girl in
1:07:05
this extreme? I mean, it's a horror
1:07:07
movie. But it was insane for that
1:07:09
piece. Yeah, it's amazing that you only
1:07:12
have to go back to, I
1:07:14
mean, even more recent. But 2007,
1:07:16
it was the Wild West for
1:07:18
being offended. Yeah. And
1:07:21
for being kind of gross and
1:07:23
toxic in a way that just was
1:07:26
like, yeah, that's comedy. And it's like, no, it's not. Or
1:07:29
yeah, it's a horror movie. And it's like, anyway,
1:07:32
I don't even know my point anymore. No, it
1:07:34
comes up a lot. And if something is
1:07:36
like that these days, without
1:07:38
fail, I'll look up when it was
1:07:40
written. And it's a script that's been
1:07:42
laying around for 10 years. You
1:07:45
can tell when something, you know what,
1:07:47
especially in the last few years where
1:07:49
they're like, well, let's
1:07:51
just make this because we have to come
1:07:53
up with content because
1:07:56
of COVID and then also
1:07:58
the strike. A lot of stuff. It's
1:08:00
outdated material that suddenly got recently produced
1:08:03
and it's like nope should have done
1:08:05
a read-through Yeah, yeah. Yeah
1:08:07
for real you should have done like a Gen Z
1:08:09
test of like Hey, would you enjoy this in any
1:08:12
way so that they could be like what are you
1:08:14
talking about? Yeah, that sucks Yeah,
1:08:16
let's have a meeting Okay,
1:08:19
well, we're back at your house That
1:08:22
is a good one it was We
1:08:24
oh god, we were especially in the middle
1:08:26
we've really on fire and on all cylinders
1:08:29
It felt like the old days. I mean,
1:08:31
I feel like it's it started strong, too
1:08:33
So it was like strong strong and
1:08:36
then kind of great at the end. Yeah.
1:08:38
Yeah, we made some good points Yeah, and I
1:08:40
always know it's a good episode when I'm
1:08:42
drenched with sweat as I am that
1:08:45
might just be residual Scotch
1:08:47
eggs Oh Boy,
1:08:51
well, that was fun. Let's keep
1:08:53
doing this podcast. Yep. I Mean
1:08:56
next week not now. Okay, you've been listening
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