I talk about E.L. James’ erotica trilogy Fifty Shades of Grey, because love it or hate it, the books and films exist, and there isn’t a whole lot that can be done about it. But the problem isn’t that Fifty Shades is unrealistic, the problem is that people think this is how BDSM actually works – which is a particularly dangerous thing. I also answer a listener’s question about transitioning from submissive to slave. Got a question or want to leave feedback about this episode? Call 312-373-0069‬ and leave a message.Pick up my book, Welcome to the Darkside: A BDSM Primer on Amazon: amzn.to/2RI1kcPSupport this podcast