Many people don't believe in fear of success, but it is absolutely true.

Fear of success in Failure goal almost hand in hand

We need to make mistakes to become more successful, and those mistakes move us forward. It's 

We are failing forward; the more mistakes we make, the sharper we should get.

People often tend to undermine their success just before they reach their peak. Self-sabotage is an unconscious reaction to success, usually held by some deep-seated belief that we don't understand consciously; that's why they call it unconscious, but we need to pay attention to it, especially if we're continually sabotaging ourselves.

Sometimes, this is caused by the fact that success creates distance or a lot of further potential for drop if you fail later.  In the beginning, failures don't impact us as much when we aren't successful.

The $50,000 per year salesperson, who it's $50,000 in July, and guess what they do for the year....$50,000. This keeps them within their belief about how good they are. Again, we don't realize this often, but it's a subconscious thing, and this is where psychologists, a coach, a mentor, and accountability partners can be a big help.

We adjust ourselves and succeed in our belief system.

Some people don’t like it when others succeed, envy or guilt because they aren’t living up to their potential. 

Take responsibility. There's an old saying: when you're pointing your finger at someone, there's three fingers pointing back at you.

Mixed messages sent by Society: be successful, but it's almost like don't be too successful, then we'll tear you down. 

You have to do the work; sometimes luck plays a part, but you usually don’t get lucky unless you move in the direction you want. 

The $50 bill and the Jockey 

Work to get what you want to buy the Corvette; we are not entitled; we must work

Imposter syndrome is the feeling that we don't deserve to be there even though we've done the work.

Many people feel insecure about their positions, how they got there, and whether they deserve to be there again. That's the Imposter syndrome. People often feel it unjustified because they've worked to get there. Our belief system hasn't caught up with reality and accepts all the hard work.

How much money do you need? You define your own success. 

Everything is about your beliefs!

Pay attention to your thoughts and beliefs, things we picked up along the way that can sabotage our success; for example:

• Rich people are bad
• Money is evil
• You can't get ahead
• Money changes you
• You have to be perfect all the time
• The next thing has to be perfect, bigger, better 

Media- drives our fear. 

Make your own decision, so you like what you're doing or do what you like.

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