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SiriusXM Triumph 111, Sharon,

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you. I. I.

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Thank. You very much. For

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time caller. And.

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I'm trying to. He.

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Do what the actual problem

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is in my. Books.

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And a half your marriage. From

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my husband of Plan A, my have and

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I are planning out how large bakery? How

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old are you? How old is he. And.

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What number than everyone this be? A.

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Seventy One And Seventy Seventy

1:15

Four. And Seventy One is

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my second marriages third. Guy.

1:22

And. Are they are divorces

1:24

or deaths behind us? I.

1:27

Was divorced after forty.

1:29

One years of marriage and he

1:31

has both a death and a

1:33

divorce and his hair. And.

1:36

Is the last one? A.

1:39

Death or Divorce. And

1:41

more do. What? Does he told you The.

1:44

Reason. For the divorce was. Ah,

1:48

I'm there are children

1:50

involved parenting dispute. I'm.

1:55

Acting. For kids were little in Ottawa, the

1:57

way each one parent had gotten the way. The

2:00

arm as he puts it. They probably never sure

2:02

got together to begin with. Where.

2:05

The stepchildren. He

2:08

had two stepchildren with from her yeah

2:10

and he had one national fund. Yes

2:13

with. Her. No.

2:16

No. Would

2:18

always the first wife. Got.

2:20

It So. There were three stepchildren, just on

2:22

different sides. Correct.

2:25

K. And.

2:28

Tell. Me about your divorce. I'm.

2:33

As. Kind of a movie of the week. I'm.

2:37

My. Husband had a whole different side

2:39

of him and was carrying on

2:41

on mine arm and hook up

2:43

things and he traveled and I

2:46

found. Out About It on.

2:49

His behavior started a very bizarre. he

2:51

had a very well for a lotta

2:53

years and then he developed feelings for

2:55

someone else suffers somebody got involved with

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them that Flynn like the job was

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up so. Did.

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He go on to marry her. Know.

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For. How did

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you to meet? My

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first has and I on my current

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husband blow the current the current. Ah,

4:24

I'm finals since I'm

4:27

trousered. And we got

4:29

together at one of those high school reunion

4:31

for they had different classes all come together.

4:34

And. Down got together at after

4:36

that. Romantic.

4:40

So. What did it were album we have today. Well.

4:44

The problem is I feel like a spoiled

4:46

brat and I when I tell you what

4:48

the problem is. I. Don't

4:50

think I'm going to get on pursuits of

4:52

seeks to fight or think. I deserve it.

4:55

But. We never took a honeymoon.

4:57

Ah, always our honeymoon with spent

4:59

moving to a very lovely home,

5:01

smaller home and Florida on both

5:03

week he lived in Maryland at

5:05

the time or we got married.

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I had moved down from upstate

5:10

New York. Who.

5:12

I'm and we both moved down to for one we

5:14

got married one at a fresh start on just the

5:16

two of us. We. Moved to

5:18

Florida and got a lovely home

5:21

in a city five in over

5:23

community and I'm he's. Been.

5:26

Talking to me for a couple years now

5:28

about wanting to take a big trip. And

5:31

the money. I don't think money is an

5:33

issue. But. That's just my opinion.

5:36

And so we've booked a passage on

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one of those lovely on touring boats

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adult the Danube, and we're going to

5:42

do the European capitals. And

5:44

it's a lot of money. And.

5:47

So said money is not the issue.

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But. I

5:54

think it's a lot of money. But it's

5:56

well. let me let me put into this way.

5:58

it's a lot of money. Yeah.

6:01

We agree on that. Yeah. And

6:03

will this mean you can't eat?

6:05

pay a mortgage? Pay. Your health

6:08

insurance. Next

6:10

we can do all that. So.

6:14

Would put. Will. You even

6:16

notice it's gone. In

6:18

terms of your everyday. Finances.

6:23

All. Me when I am reminded. Of

6:26

say. Okay, like you're reminded

6:28

of what. I'm.

6:31

Not sure I understand yet what he reminded

6:33

of it. it is a lot of money.

6:35

We both agree. He agrees it's a lot

6:37

of money. Of however your

6:39

clarifying that it doesn't put a dent.

6:42

In. Your future doesn't make you

6:44

unsafe financially. Correct.

6:46

So so then I would guess that's

6:49

not the issue. You're. Using that

6:51

as an issue, but I don't think it is the issue.

6:54

So. Assuming I'm not doing so, what

6:56

of our of what are other options?

6:59

You have anxiety that traveling you don't want

7:01

to become a member of the Titanic. If

7:04

you don't want to be stuck on a boat, Similarly,

7:07

Not interested in getting on and off about

7:09

looking at cities. You're gonna have to help

7:11

me understand. you don't like leaving home. You

7:14

don't want to be read all of. Know. If

7:16

the trip itself is not a problem, The.

7:18

Problem is. That. There

7:21

are. This is the practical

7:23

side of me. It. Seems like.

7:26

The. Things that I have asked or

7:28

not all of them. But.

7:30

Things like I'm updating the bathroom

7:32

and getting a new or find

7:34

those kind the same. I get

7:36

a stalled. Know we can afford

7:39

at blah blah blah. But. He wants

7:41

to take the said the take the on the

7:43

ship and the worst way and so. I

7:46

booked at a time excite.

7:48

I'm. I.

7:50

Guess I'm kind of excited about it

7:52

until the shower handle falls off in

7:55

my hand when I try to turn

7:57

the shower and or a job the

7:59

innocent. That being about how he hasn't

8:01

been repainted when wells years. Got.

8:04

It. And.

8:06

What makes you such a weenie? Why?

8:08

You weenie. I. Don't understand.

8:12

I'm. Why have a Lego they would have a

8:14

said i'm not happy. That. We're

8:16

not spending money. Forget the trip. Make.

8:18

Believe we don't even know about that. Because

8:21

I don't know why you've been a weenie up to this

8:23

point of doing the repairs. Are

8:26

you asking me to say that to him Are to

8:29

myself? You are tied a week

8:31

I'm a meal are the we know you are

8:33

the when I'm. Upset.

8:35

So I wanna know why you've been a weenie.

8:37

In. Not getting these things self, I get very

8:40

annoyed. women do this. They don't say anything, they

8:42

don't say anything, they don't say thing and then

8:44

when something peripheral comes up they do this. I

8:46

don't wanna do this or I don't know why

8:49

I don't want to do this and then they

8:51

so to ruin it because they're angry about things

8:53

they never spoke up about in a concrete way.

8:57

While. My advice To you know,

8:59

don't talk anymore. My Advice: A You

9:01

use you've messed this up. Us.

9:04

Not him. Is. He a sheep.

9:06

I'm sorry you picked him. However,

9:08

karma in terms of basic things

9:11

getting. Sick. So it's not

9:13

a health issue when the trip

9:15

is over, Enjoy

9:18

yourself on the trip and when the

9:20

trip is over. Sit.

9:23

Down with him and say these are the

9:25

things that need fixing and the order of

9:27

priority. These are the ways I'm going to

9:29

have it fixed. I took bids from these

9:31

people. These people. these are good and it

9:34

costs a little less so I'm gonna go

9:36

with this. Just wanna win for me. But

9:46

not speaking up and then being Pc. Is

9:49

nothing we have a relationship. It's.

9:52

Just not how you do it. It's like setting them

9:54

up. So. Have a

9:57

good time. Comeback. Make.

9:59

The list. That with him. these are the

10:01

things. these the beds this is. I'm going to

10:03

get it done. This is a timeframe. These.

10:06

Things are going to be done now. And. Don't

10:08

mention the money spent on the truth. Is.

10:11

That. Is. A done deal and that

10:13

just makes him feel bad. We're. Not

10:15

trying to hurt him, were trying to

10:17

move along in these repairs. My.

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