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What can I help you with? Yes, I'm

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thinking that my husband is probably in

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an emotional affair. I'm not sure, but

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anything I've read I've

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She thought he was

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in a emotional

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affair. I'm

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sorry, who thought he was in an emotional

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affair? I did not understand your words. A

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counselor that I had been- Counselor.

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Marriage therapist, family counselor.

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By yourself? Yes,

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I had been seeing her before because I

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it. Maybe

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he was not having an emotional affair.

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Maybe you were feeling insecure because of

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the illnesses. Well,

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possibly, but this is that

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happened in 2020. 12

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and did she ever mention that as an option

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as a possible explanation? No,

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not really. Not really. Yeah.

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Get a refund. This

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didn't come about till like 2019 2020 about 2020 when

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I know he was pretty friendly

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with the one girl on the bowling team. They,

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they bowl together every Sunday. Every

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Sunday for nine months out of the year, he

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started getting possessed with me and I wasn't allowed

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me. And then we hit

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pandemic, just put a wall up and we kind of

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checked his phone and many years in

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marriage and I checked his phone and there were texts, they

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were all up and up, you know, but

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they were very friendly texts a couple

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of times a week. And

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I didn't know they were texting. And

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it just seems like they have very friendly, a good,

3:03

good friendship going on, which was just fine.

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But for him not telling

3:09

me that and you

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know, he goes out every Sunday with them,

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with her mostly. If everything you read

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you, why do you think a man

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Well, because she accused him of

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this. And pout,

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honey, you snuck on

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his phone and you saw that

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everything was clean. Well,

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it was clean as far as my sex, but

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she was confiding in him and he was confiding in

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her. And this is a guy that I'm not supposed

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to even look at the opposite side. So

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I think came up because people were trying to

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An emotional affair. Who.

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Are quite. Understand.

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Okay, well I'll give him the benefit of the

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doubt. And. Just

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I get ready. Probably he probably feels

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more comfortable with her. The you. Are

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probably without doubt. yeah. So.

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I think balls as as court. Ah

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no, I think the balls in

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your card you're the one suspicious.

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