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You. Letter

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on. I have a

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are One of my daughter is

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twenty eight years old and she

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was dating a boy that we

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all like for a year and

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then she found out that he

1:03

had been cheating on her so

1:05

they broke up. Or.

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About two to three months

1:09

and now she's decided to

1:11

give him a second chance

1:13

and I'm. I'm

1:15

not so happy about it and I'm just. Not

1:18

really sure what to do, we did. The

1:21

boy did contact us and wanted to meet with

1:23

my husband and I so we buy him out

1:26

and. Had. A conversation

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in. Just not

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sure how I should guide my daughter. I

1:32

mean I know to the that was a

1:35

candid May oh what was yeah conversation with

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him about. You. Had congressman

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and. I. Think that would be very

1:41

interesting and useful for me to hear. What?

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Did he saw a guy? He. Contacted

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us and said he wanted to meet with does

1:49

An. Basically. He'd

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met my husband and I would not my

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daughter's thought that was good. He and he

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told us. That. He

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apologized, He made a mistake. He was.

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The on he realizes that now he

2:02

was in much sure you need said

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all the right things he said He

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had been in a very depressed state

2:09

and he was looking for outside comfort

2:11

or something. I guess. And.

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That he. Apologized,

2:17

And he knows it's gonna take a long time

2:20

to regain our trust. but he wants another chance

2:22

with our daughter. And

2:25

what to do to say? In return.

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To basically how disappointed I

2:31

was and him and. That.

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The reason we were there's because we love

2:37

our daughter and. They

2:39

add fields us take time that I'm it's

2:41

gonna I'm gonna have to watch what he

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does and how we behave with my daughter.

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In order to see if deaths. You

2:48

know, but I mean I like them before

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so it's kinda hard. But yeah, And

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when you say he had he fooled around. How.

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Many women ongoing. You.

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Know him well, Tells. His

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arm billie. Details I know are that he

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had been cut so I don't up. There

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was something before this happened but he had.

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Contacted some of woman i

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guess online and they were

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texting back and forth and

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they did. Beat

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up and sleep together once and then the

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girl. Found. Out that he had

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a girlfriend and she's the one who contacted

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my daughter. as

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he met her online. And

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see if this is a pattern because

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know the guy is bad. Not going

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8:29

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right. So you want to stay with him? Go

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8:35

he won't pay for a wedding that happens in less

8:37

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8:41

All right. I like it. I like it a lot. I didn't

8:44

know if we should just totally block him or hope

8:47

that he's changed or seen

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the light. None of that. None

8:51

of that is your concern. Okay.

8:54

None of it. That's

8:57

hers. She's a grown-up. Yeah.

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don't respect and agree with. Right.

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Yes. Yes.

9:12

I get it. There's anybody who has reason

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Stand up or forever hold your pieces. Okay.

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That's basically what you'd be doing. I'm

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9:24

not going to do it. You

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forgave him three times, but I'm not interested

9:29

in investing money in that. Because

9:31

it is an investment when you pay for a wedding. Yes.

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Yes. Yes.

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she loves him and I know that's what she wants.

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I know, but love is not enough. Correct.

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at some point go, yeah, maybe this is not

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