Julia wants something serious — a committed relationship, a long-term partner — but she doesn’t know how to say this without freaking guys out. And she doesn’t want to waste her time dating guys who will never want to commit. Jane brings in Jason Mantzoukas (The League, Comedy Bang Bang, How Did This Get Made?) for some hard truths on dating and relationships.

Spark something new with DTR—the official Tinder podcast, produced in partnership with Gimlet Creative.