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Hi, it's Rerelease here again
0:03
with a few updates that
0:05
I thought maybe you would be interested in
0:08
Now I know some of you keep
0:11
asking is Dyking out coming
0:13
back. I have said previously
0:15
that it is probably
0:18
most likely not coming back
0:20
at least not as
0:22
a weekly podcast, but also
0:25
never say never and that's why I want
0:27
you to keep subscribed to this
0:29
feed because we could
0:31
always have special episodes Melody
0:33
and I are still talking and
0:36
hanging out and whatnot. It was just
0:38
we needed time to explore
0:41
other projects speaking
0:43
of other projects. I
0:46
have my new podcast, loves
0:48
a pitch, and hopefully,
0:51
that will be being released next
0:54
week. How exciting I
0:57
can't wait. I've already done a bunch
0:59
of interviews for it. So what's left
1:01
a pitch. As a podcast, it's
1:04
going to be a different guest
1:06
each week. And for the most part, it's going
1:08
to be somebody who comes
1:10
on and they have one to two minutes
1:12
to say why they're a catch, and
1:15
whatever that means to them, whatever kind
1:17
of connection that they're looking for. And
1:19
then I ask some follow-up questions about the things
1:22
that they share. And then we just have a
1:24
talk about their dating
1:27
life, what they're looking for, their wants,
1:29
their needs, conversations about
1:32
love and dating in the queer community in
1:34
general. I think it's been
1:36
really interesting. I'm having a great
1:38
time having this conversations, and I
1:40
really hope that you will
1:42
enjoy listening to them. So
1:45
keep an eye out for that speaking
1:48
of loves a pitch. If you're
1:50
listening to this and it is
1:53
before February
1:55
ninth, I have a live, loves
1:57
a pitch show, eight PM,
2:00
Thursday, February ninth at
2:02
come on everybody in Brooklyn.
2:05
Be there. Tickets are still
2:07
on sale. It's truly
2:10
the most fun thing I do. I say that
2:12
over and over, but every show.
2:14
I have an absolute blast. The
2:16
audience has fun. Our judges
2:18
have fun. The contestants have fun.
2:22
Everybody hangs out afterwards. It's a great
2:24
way to make friends, to meet people, maybe
2:26
make out with someone new. You never
2:29
know, there is to be a Burlesque
2:32
performance. Actually, by
2:34
one of the future
2:37
guests on the Loves a pitch podcast,
2:39
So that's a fun thing. Come
2:42
out to it, please. It's so
2:45
so much fun. I love it so
2:47
much that It's my inspiration for
2:50
this new thing that I'm doing.
2:52
And one of the prizes that we're gonna
2:55
be giving away at the show our
2:57
tickets to a Solo
2:59
show that for those of you in
3:01
New York, I want to tell you about and
3:04
if you're not New York, you can see
3:06
some clips of Sam he's been
3:08
doing late night.
3:10
He was on Seth Myers doing
3:12
some standup But Sam Morrison
3:14
is a comedian. A gay comedian.
3:17
He has a show that's at the SoHo
3:19
Play House right now called
3:22
sugar daddy, and I
3:24
was able to see it. And I was
3:26
so glad I did. It is so
3:29
funny. It's also heartbreaking, but
3:31
it's so funny. I was laughing
3:33
the whole time. I told
3:35
Sam after that, you know, the last
3:38
two shows that I saw at SoHo Play House
3:40
were Hannah Gatsby's nanette,
3:43
and fleece bag both
3:46
were outstanding and I'm
3:48
like, oh, Sam has lot to measure up to.
3:51
I might say I
3:53
think I enjoyed Sugar Daddy
3:55
more than those two, and I love those
3:57
two shows. But this
3:59
is just so
4:01
good in so many ways. You
4:04
know, I'd watched Sam work
4:06
out some of the material
4:08
for this at open mics and it
4:10
shows. And I also kind of followed
4:13
the the journey he was on that he talks
4:15
about during the show on Instagram
4:18
through the kind of
4:20
height of the pandemic. I
4:22
just I can't say enough good things about it. So
4:24
if you're in New York, if you get a chance, definitely
4:27
check out sugar daddy.
4:29
Also, a reminder that if you
4:31
are missing diking
4:34
out and I miss it too, I really
4:36
do You can
4:38
hear extra episodes that we've recorded.
4:41
Our diking off topic episodes are
4:43
alive and well. I mean,
4:46
they're not new, but there
4:48
are lot of them there. If you've never
4:50
been a patron before, maybe you
4:52
were a patron in the past and you
4:54
haven't had a chance to listen to them, Even
4:57
before we are doing the Dyking off topics,
4:59
which are just really me and Melody
5:01
talking about our personal
5:03
lives, and what's going on and things
5:06
in the media, what we're watching,
5:08
all of that stuff. Before
5:10
that, we used to do like x kinda
5:13
lightning round q and a's with
5:16
past guests. Those are all up there
5:18
on Patreon as well. So you can go to
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diking out and still get
5:24
that content. I
5:27
hope all of you have been doing well
5:29
I really miss staking out
5:31
with you all each week. I
5:33
hope you're all doing the
5:35
gayest things every single
5:38
week. I mean, my weeks
5:40
have only gotten gay or because Cecilia
5:42
and I got a dog.
5:44
His name is professor. He's
5:47
so stinking cute, but we
5:49
are definitely super
5:51
like, he is definitely the
5:54
dog of a lesbian couple,
5:57
just a true feminist, through
6:00
and through other
6:04
than that, I mean, it's
6:06
been really gay trying to get this other podcast
6:09
up off the ground, but maybe
6:11
Maybe the gayest thing I've been up
6:13
to while diking
6:16
out has been putting out reruns is
6:18
I started curling curling.
6:23
When I tell people that they're like like
6:25
the hair, I'm like, no. I'm not
6:28
curling my hair. I mean, I do curl my hair sometimes,
6:30
but no. The Olympic sport
6:33
curling. Doesn't that just
6:35
feel so gay? Yeah. I have
6:37
yet to meet another lesbian.
6:39
I mean, maybe they are. We're not we're not talking
6:41
about that stuff on the ice. We're all kind of
6:43
dressed for the
6:45
occasion. But yeah, I
6:47
started taking curling lessons. I'm having
6:49
a lot of fun with that and really leaning
6:53
in or lunging in curling
6:55
if you've watched it, it's a lot of lunching. And
6:58
that's that's my life in a nutshell.
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I don't know. A lot's going on actually.
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relate to the world through my
11:51
nipples in a way that I thought.
11:53
Was there really long. And I
11:55
I'm always, like, you know when you're, like, really nervous in your
11:57
nip butt feeling your nipples or, like to me,
11:59
like, everything gets filtered through my nipples. And
12:01
I just thought that's how everybody like
12:03
perceive the world. Let's
12:09
dive out together. See
12:11
what it's all about.
12:24
Hi, and welcome to Dyking Out of Podcast.
12:26
That's the tip. I'm Rerelease Berge,
12:29
a non melody kamali, and today we are
12:31
diking out with writer and actor Michelle Badillo
12:34
about breasts. Michelle
12:36
has written for and acted in some of
12:38
our favorite shows, and we had so much
12:40
fun talking to her. So hang around
12:42
for that. Wow, Melody.
12:44
This is our last recording of
12:47
twenty twenty, our favorite year. We
12:49
did it somehow survive.
12:51
Until the end. I survived honestly
12:54
because of diking
12:54
out. I don't
12:55
know about it. Yes. Something had me
12:57
accountable to get out of bed
12:59
and do something thing. At least once
13:01
a
13:01
week. Yeah. Do you ever wonder what your year would have
13:03
looked like without diking out?
13:05
Oh, Ali and I went on a walk yesterday and actually
13:08
just gusted and we decided it would have been
13:10
very bleak. Well,
13:13
I am so glad for that and I'm
13:15
glad that the podcast did
13:17
survive this year. It's it's been quite
13:19
a year, you know. It started out in
13:21
twenty twenty without a co host. And
13:25
one of the things I'm most thankful for Melody
13:28
is becoming friends with you and having you as the
13:30
host for Dyking
13:31
out. It's been a game changer this year.
13:33
Wouldn't you know it. That is exactly
13:35
what I'm most thankful for myself.
13:38
I'm not kidding. Every morning, I have
13:40
a little gratitude list and diking out
13:42
is like, top three every
13:45
day. Yes. Thank you so much.
13:47
Yeah. I'm grateful for our listeners
13:49
each and every day. Like, every time we get a message
13:52
from them or somebody saying that they're a
13:54
new listener or they've been listening from the
13:55
beginning. I'm just like, thank
13:57
the goddess for these find find
14:00
people --
14:01
Praise her.
14:02
-- giving us life in this
14:04
year twenty twenty because it hasn't
14:06
been easy. No. God
14:09
knows. I joined
14:11
the podcast and wouldn't you know it? A
14:13
global pandemic a few weeks later.
14:15
Yep. I know we mention it a lot,
14:17
but I just really wanna
14:20
emphasize the fact that I
14:23
joined And we had maybe one
14:25
or two recordings in person --
14:27
Yeah. -- before moving remote. Yeah.
14:29
And I think we've done a pretty good job for
14:31
two people forging a friendship and cohost's
14:34
ship Dyking COVID. While
14:36
one of us had COVID, while
14:38
while the other one lost their job,
14:41
and had a record low mental
14:43
healthier. Yeah. Just the the
14:45
odds were stacked against us, I would say,
14:47
and we did it. So I'm gonna
14:49
count twenty twenty
14:51
as a success. Mhmm.
14:54
Weirdly yes. Yeah. I agree. Yeah.
14:56
This year reflecting on it, I was just
14:58
Dyking, like, It's been a a terrible
15:01
year for so many things. It's been
15:03
a good year for some things.
15:05
You know, we can't forget all of the
15:08
work that's been done in terms of
15:10
social justice and, like, all the causes
15:13
and all the organization
15:16
that has happening in the place that
15:18
got money though. It does
15:20
feel like it's gotten a little bit lost
15:22
-- Yeah. -- with just all the multiple
15:25
shit shows happening, but I
15:27
would still say maybe
15:30
a net positive for for the
15:32
year. That was a really hard one,
15:34
but it yeah. Feeling like there
15:36
was such a push and and definitely
15:38
feeling a change in the way that that
15:41
these stories are covered and the attention
15:43
that they get And then on top of that, it was
15:45
just a really gay year. Like, I was thinking
15:47
of all the gay things. I've watched all
15:49
the media that's come out. All
15:52
the people who have All the people who have come
15:54
out. Yeah. It's it's
15:57
nuts. It's like, blind man.
15:59
We have blind manner and water to the lady
16:01
on fire and sister Ronan sitting
16:03
on Cape Winslet's face all
16:05
in the same
16:06
year, that's
16:08
true. We got more
16:10
Sarah Paulson content than we could ask
16:12
for. Yes, Sarah Paulson. It was just like
16:14
an exponential rise in Sarah
16:16
Paulson content. Most people
16:19
haven't caught up with all of Sarah
16:21
Paulson's happenings this year.
16:23
We've got so much great queer media.
16:25
We've got enough bad queer media for
16:27
us to rip apart on the podcast.
16:29
We know the YouHollers love it
16:31
when we rip beloved We're having queer
16:33
media to shreds. You
16:35
know, we ripped up so much
16:37
queer media this last year, but
16:39
nothing will ever receive the backlash
16:41
we got from just one
16:44
lukewarm take on Taylor
16:45
Swift, and
16:46
that's your culture. The
16:49
emails we got, that's so true that
16:51
from from that episode of it was just
16:53
Dyking, like, you know what? I think she's fine. I respect
16:55
her. It's just not for me. The scathing emails.
16:58
Was it and that was just me though, Melody?
17:00
You were, like, I really like this new
17:02
album. I was like, you know, I'm so happy
17:04
for everybody, not for me, but good
17:06
for everybody else and somebody was like, why
17:08
would you even bother saying
17:09
that? If you don't have anything nice, why
17:12
would you spend the time? You guys are monsters
17:14
and everything that's wrong with the community. And
17:16
just so you know, I'm not thin skinned.
17:18
Okay? I live in New York.
17:21
I was born in bread in New York. And boy,
17:23
oh boy, did I look up that person who was
17:25
from upstate who now lives in Portland,
17:28
Oregon. Just
17:31
know if you send a crazy email and
17:33
it's like your name at gmail,
17:36
Sometimes I got I'm gonna look it up to
17:38
figure out how upset I should be. That's all.
17:43
Yeah. Oh, twenty twenty. So many
17:45
interesting listener emails. I
17:49
would say Half of the most memorable
17:51
emails we got this year were about
17:53
Taylor Swift. One was from an old
17:56
joke that I made about Taylor Swift
17:59
that really was just a repurposing of
18:01
one of my stage jokes. Old
18:03
joke. Retrofitted to make a Taylor
18:05
Swift joke. It really had nothing to do with
18:07
Taylor Swift and somebody was
18:09
like, maybe I don't get the sense of humor.
18:12
Maybe I miss something because I'm a new listener.
18:15
But why would you say something like this?
18:17
I'm like, don't work. Horrible. Horrible
18:20
person. It was one hundred percent a joke.
18:25
With that, Taylor Swift did have a new album
18:27
because I'm
18:29
not saying oh, yeah. We're not talking about
18:31
it. Not sorry. I'm not talking about because I haven't
18:33
to it yet, but will get around to it because I love Taylor
18:35
Swift so much and she's the best and everything she does
18:37
is wonderful. So Yeah. What
18:42
else? The lesbian bar project
18:45
happened this year and I just saw
18:47
that it got a nice write up in AutoStraddle,
18:49
and I say it's a nice write up because it did mention
18:51
Dyking out. So nice. Yeah.
18:54
I was happy to see that we were mentioned in
18:56
that article because I always feel like
18:58
there's some type of weird
19:00
ban on diking
19:02
out from Auto Straddle. I
19:05
think we got on their naughty
19:06
list. I think it might have had something
19:08
to do with
19:09
this another one of your jokes from before my
19:11
time, Rerelease? Yeah. No. It wasn't even
19:14
a joke. I think it was, like, maybe
19:16
a personal thing that had to do with a
19:18
bad relationship that transpired between
19:20
people on the podcast. Oh, no.
19:22
Like drama, who may have had a connection
19:24
to Auto straddle because since then,
19:27
I've been reaching out to writers from AutoStraddle.
19:30
I think they're great. We're big fans of AutoStraddle
19:33
here. And
19:35
none of them want to be on the
19:37
podcast or
19:38
responder. We can ever make it happen. I'm
19:40
like, I think we're on the bad list. Uh-oh.
19:44
Someone prove or throng. Proof of truth. That's all
19:46
I'm asking. If if you are an
19:49
employee of AutoStraddle, please
19:51
just like calm my paranoia about this.
19:53
Because I'm so sad and thinking that
19:56
Autostrade's Dyking out and we
19:58
just want to be friends. But anyway, the lesbian
20:00
bar project tap in. That was pretty wig
20:02
and gay. Huge.
20:05
We had some virtual shows and we're
20:07
able to have shows
20:09
where we had a a wider audience. That
20:12
was great. I mean, our audience or you
20:14
haulers have grown our patreon
20:17
community has grown and
20:20
the queer community itself has grown
20:22
who came out this Neezy Nash was a
20:24
huge coming out. Oh, yeah.
20:26
Debrat, Sarah Ramirez and
20:28
Elliot Page both came out as well,
20:32
Sarah Ramirez came out as non binary. Elliot
20:35
Page came out as trans. Dominique
20:38
provost, I ain't gonna get
20:40
roasted for not knowing how to say her name.
20:43
Chocolatey. Dominique provos chocolatey.
20:45
I just know they call her Dom. Dom
20:48
is in a winona herb, came
20:50
out. That was a big big news for
20:52
the Erppers. Alright? I know, Melody,
20:54
you haven't been to collect the colony yet because that was
20:56
canceled, because of COVID, but
20:59
had you gone, he would know what
21:01
a big effing deal Dom is
21:03
just beloved. Okay.
21:06
By queer,
21:09
media nerds who love one
21:11
on her hip. And
21:13
she's out. She's out as queer.
21:15
So
21:17
You know who else came out? Who? In the
21:19
most Gen Z way. Claudia
21:22
Conway. Yes. Oh my gosh. This podcast
21:24
stands Claudia Conway.
21:27
We stand. We Simp all you know, all that
21:30
stuff. We love. Just
21:33
came out to a bisexual
21:36
coded song clip
21:39
on TikTok recently, like last
21:41
week. We had Abby Jacobson make
21:44
a Dyking out day post about how she's,
21:47
you know, still figuring things out on
21:49
her journey. That was like a big first
21:51
overt kind of --
21:52
Yeah. -- statement from her. Right? Taylor's showing
21:55
for the first time even though she'd
21:57
been dating women for a
21:59
few years, but officially -- Mhmm. -- came
22:02
out this year. That was a big one. Jamila
22:04
Jamila. You
22:06
know, I didn't know whether to include that one
22:08
or not. I was looking at these list
22:10
of people who came out and they still have Rosario
22:12
Dawson on there even though she's
22:14
like, I didn't really come out. I've
22:16
never had a a queer relationship.
22:20
Yeah. I saw that. It was just because she said in
22:22
an article, my fellow at LGBTQIA, and
22:24
then people were like, oh, Ricero
22:27
Dawson came out, which I thought made sense
22:29
because I thought that she was Corey Booker's
22:31
beard, and I thought it was a mutual bearding
22:33
situation. No. Yep. And
22:36
And then she followed up and was, like, explicitly, like,
22:39
no. That's not that's not what
22:41
I did. I've never had a clear relationship
22:43
and people are, like, She still came out
22:45
this year. What
22:47
a year? I know. I was trying to think, like,
22:50
who were some of my favorite guests? There have been
22:52
so many great guests this past year,
22:54
but automatically my mind goes back
22:56
to Desirae Akvaan
22:58
just in terms of that Dyking been one of
23:00
the the
23:03
reach guests for this podcast and
23:05
also
23:06
having it be one of the weirder
23:10
interviews we've had just because
23:12
that was like
23:14
that was peak weird, and it was
23:16
it was a couple days before is
23:18
peak COVID culture. Yeah.
23:20
Because that was right,
23:23
you know, May, end of May,
23:26
It
23:26
was, like, the and then Dave's, like, for George Floyd.
23:29
Like, the deck where we're just, like,
23:31
I don't know what I'm Dyking,
23:33
like, nothing I don't know what to
23:35
think about. And then just, like, the next
23:37
day, I saw Desiree out at
23:40
a protest or a
23:40
neighborhood. Yeah. Like,
23:42
is, yeah, crazy time.
23:44
Crazy time for a
23:45
crazy interview. But so many great guests
23:47
and especially this one today has been
23:50
somebody who I wanted talked to for a while,
23:52
which I'm sure you'll be able to tell, because
23:54
I'm geeking out in
23:56
the entire interview, but
23:59
we will get to that in a few
24:01
minutes. Let's talk about
24:04
quickly some things that are going on
24:06
in the queer world because it
24:08
You
24:08
know, like the rest of this year, it's been
24:10
a banner week. Jen Richards got married.
24:13
The cast guess of podcast Dyking of
24:15
dream guests from this year. Oh.
24:18
And speaking of an aptly
24:20
timed
24:20
interview, we interviewed Jen Richards
24:23
like what the day or two after after
24:25
she
24:25
got engaged. Yes. And in
24:27
through lesbian fashion. She
24:30
got married almost just as quick because
24:32
she got
24:32
engaged. Quick
24:33
through lesbian fashion because wasn't it
24:35
her first leg? Real lesbian relationship.
24:38
A short first lesbian relationship. They
24:40
got engaged a year
24:42
in and then
24:44
married you know, less than six
24:46
months after that. And that really
24:48
reflects the timeline of me and Cecilia. So
24:53
It was great. Love to see it. Love
24:55
to see it. And what
24:58
else happened? Oh, Rosie
25:00
O'Donnell is on TikTok.
25:03
That, you know, I was actually just scrolling
25:06
through Rosies TikTok this morning -- Yeah.
25:08
-- not even knowing you wanted to talk about
25:10
it, but I should have known you'd wanna talk about
25:12
it. Because when do you not wanna talk about
25:14
Rosie on TikTok? I mean, yes.
25:16
I've only seen a couple of posts because she
25:18
used to be on her daughter's TikToks.
25:21
So would see her
25:23
making kind of like a a guest appearance in
25:25
her daughter's dance
25:26
TikToks. And then now Rosie
25:28
has fully embraced TikTok and
25:31
oh, yeah. Fully. I think I saw a sponsored
25:33
post this morning. Oh, wow.
25:35
And it's not even you don't see a product. It's like,
25:37
I just wanted to know you to know that so
25:39
and so is the future of banking. Tic Ticke, you
25:42
don't step. Does
25:45
that at the beginning or end of
25:47
every TikTok? I love it. TikTok.
25:49
You don't stop? What's up? So Rosie
25:54
made someone's day, like, yesterday,
25:57
I think. There's a queer potter who's
25:59
just, like, maybe this will get a follow from
26:01
Rosie. In her own
26:04
pottery video. Her, like, throwing a
26:07
bowl or something. And
26:09
then Rosie do edit the video.
26:11
Yes. And it's her
26:14
just waving at the girl.
26:18
And I was that made me think, like, maybe
26:20
ROCE isn't too far away. Rosie's clearly
26:23
given the people that they want engaging with the
26:25
fans. I'm like, what do we have to do? Or what
26:27
do we have to do less of? Because Rerelease, you're
26:30
Gary, I think I did no. I think I
26:32
did too much, and I might be doing
26:34
too much again because we got so close.
26:36
And as my
26:39
my birthday request to all
26:41
of you haulers is ask
26:44
Rosie on TikTok,
26:47
on Twitter, on Instagram,
26:49
because she's doing Instagram live again now.
26:52
If you're on her Instagram live to say,
26:54
ROCE, when are you doing diking out? When are you
26:56
gonna be a guest on diking out? Just ask casually
26:58
like that. Be like, oh, I love this podcast. You'd
27:01
be so great on it. Can't wait to hear
27:03
you on diking out.
27:05
Get it back in her mind. Get her to reach
27:07
out to her assistant and tell her assistant.
27:10
I'm
27:10
blaming the assistant. I don't think it's Rosie. I
27:12
think Rosie wants to die out. She's in very game
27:14
about it. You just have to catch her at the right
27:16
time. So reminders, put them
27:18
out there. Feel free to do the same for
27:20
me, a Kirchner. Oh,
27:23
definitely. Yeah. Do that for well, let's
27:25
do one at a time. What? What?
27:28
If the circles overlapped, I would say one
27:31
at a time, but but Rosie and Mia
27:33
Kirschner are living in two different worlds, so it's
27:35
okay to to hit him up. Okay.
27:38
I just thought, you know, mob
27:39
mentality, I really want everyone to focus.
27:42
Yeah. Do you not think I could handle back
27:44
to back a rosy interview and
27:47
amia Kirschner
27:47
interview? One of your no.
27:50
We need one of your obsessions per quarter.
27:52
Yeah. We're
27:54
eating real business savvy here.
27:55
Mhmm. Two Capricorns. Wouldn't
27:57
you know with birthdays coming up? We're gonna
27:59
set quarterly goals for Dyking out.
28:01
One, Dyking per
28:04
quarter. Hell
28:07
yeah. We
28:09
should dream bigger for twenty twenty one. Yeah.
28:11
Bigger than just one deck on recorder. I
28:13
think we can We're just a humble podcast
28:16
here. Well, we did have one dick on on the
28:18
Pod recently. Jamie
28:19
Babbot. I remember Jamie Babbot talking about
28:21
being excited for wonder woman.
28:23
Yes. Did you see that? I watched
28:25
it. Did you? Not yet. Okay.
28:27
Because I had to binge all of
28:29
the wilds because of one listener. PM?
28:31
Well, let me quickly before we get into
28:33
the wilds because I don't wanna say much about
28:35
wonder woman. I did watch it. And
28:39
it starts off kind
28:41
of like the other one with a lot of gay vibes
28:43
because you're in the world
28:47
where she grows up and it's just all
28:49
like super strong women
28:52
being like super athletic. And,
28:54
you know, like, this is great. This is awesome.
28:56
This is so cool. Then you
28:59
go into her in nineteen
29:02
eighty four, which
29:04
my mom kept asking, what
29:06
year is this supposed to be? I'm like, it's
29:08
called Wonder Woman nineteen eighty four.
29:11
Yeah. Wonder Woman eighty four. Lady.
29:15
And then there's a lot of
29:17
flirting between Kristen
29:20
Wigg and
29:22
wonder woman. So Chris and Wade has this character
29:24
in it. And you're like, oh
29:26
my gosh. They're they're kind of flirting.
29:28
They're kind of in love with each other. It
29:32
plays like, if you're queer and you're watching
29:34
it, you're definitely having a whole other experience
29:36
of what this interaction is. And
29:38
then straight women are having the interaction
29:41
of like, oh, yeah. It's like when
29:43
you meet a girl that's really cool
29:45
and you wanna be her, And
29:47
it's like, oh, it's when you meet a woman who's really
29:49
cool and you wanna fuck her. And
29:53
that's a different and and then it like, then everything
29:56
goes to shit. So, you know,
29:58
if you wanna enjoy wonder woman, I would
30:00
say, watch the first half hour or so,
30:03
and then stop it. Now let's
30:05
tell me all about the wilds. Okay.
30:09
The wilds, I knew nothing going into
30:11
it. We got a DM on Instagram that was just
30:13
like Are you guys watching the wilds?
30:15
Like, that was it? Yeah. So when it
30:17
came up on my Fire TV,
30:20
like, home screen or whatever, I was
30:22
like, oh, something gay. I didn't
30:24
know. I I had no idea
30:26
how gay, who was gay. So I put
30:28
on the show about eight or nine girls stranded
30:31
on an island. And I have to just
30:33
guess who's gonna end up together.
30:36
It's all female. It's
30:38
basically about this. It's
30:41
kind of like a dystopian survivor
30:44
meets like the breakfast club like a bunch
30:46
of like different characters.
30:49
You have your, like, rich girl,
30:51
jock, your moody, lesbian,
30:54
what they did lean into that trope
30:56
with a very angry lesbian. I love
30:58
and actually found out who she was. And
31:02
the character is an indigenous Lesbian.
31:04
So that's cool representation too.
31:07
Love it. I was, like, really studying
31:09
every interaction for the first few episodes
31:12
before it got to, like, who was actually
31:14
the lesbian pairing in the show.
31:17
So I couldn't stop watching it. So, like,
31:19
we thought, oh, let's just watch it and see what this is all
31:21
about, you know, clear content, but it just
31:23
turned into Christmas day into
31:26
last night. It was just all we binged
31:29
all of it. Yeah. And I
31:31
actually did, like, the lesbian character. At first,
31:33
I really did not because she was so
31:35
angry. And I was like, here we go again.
31:38
This is a disservice to the community.
31:41
She's just so combative, but it's
31:43
her turns out she's angry about literally
31:45
everything but her sexuality. So that's
31:47
good. She's like a very cool, confident
31:49
lesbian. Like, she's like,
31:52
nothing like, no internalized
31:54
homophobia detected. Like, nothing
31:56
about that. Like, obviously, she's angry about her
31:59
situation. She stranded on an island. So
32:01
I forgave that and really
32:03
ended up enjoying the lesbian
32:05
arc in the show. Yeah. I mean,
32:08
I think this is controversial, but I
32:10
do love an angry lesbian character.
32:13
As long as there's, like, more to
32:15
them. Taylor's oldest time. Right.
32:18
It feels so comforting to know that they're Today
32:20
was. I was like, oh, a tank top, no
32:22
bra. For Roadshow.
32:25
I get
32:26
it. I love it. I
32:28
am going to have to watch that --
32:30
Yeah. -- mean, all had say was that
32:32
it was all women on an
32:33
island. I'm I'm in.
32:36
That sense It takes place. There's like three
32:38
times. They work with they play with time a lot,
32:40
and it's it's like the before the during and
32:43
the after their time on this island. So
32:45
these girls are stranded on an island
32:47
after a plane crash, but what you know
32:49
No spoilers, really, is that
32:52
this wasn't an accident -- Mhmm. -- the fact
32:54
that they're all there.
32:55
Alright. And you know the the person
32:57
behind it
32:58
is a lesbian. It's a morning
33:00
lesbian. Yeah. Who just wanted
33:02
to watch all these girls on her bugged
33:04
island. But really, it is
33:06
the most lesbian term she uses
33:08
for it. She calls this
33:11
experiment a Gynatopia
33:14
which is now my favorite word. A
33:17
ginotopia, and that it was.
33:19
But one really cool part of the
33:21
show, was the soundtrack.
33:24
Like, it was really good music and a lot of my
33:26
favorites were on it. And whatever
33:28
I didn't know that I really liked, I would show Sam,
33:30
and there was one song I was really feeling
33:32
Shazamda and wouldn't you know it? It was
33:35
by softy softy
33:37
pop star who in a real
33:39
full circle moment was
33:41
around this time last year performing at
33:44
your, like, the halls show -- Yes. -- which
33:46
I showed up to last minute,
33:48
you offered me a comp. Yeah. And I really
33:50
enjoyed the show and I remember me, like, diking out
33:52
so cool. Not knowing
33:54
what the next year had in store for
33:56
me, but really liking softies performance
33:58
Yeah. Softie answer baby girls.
34:01
So that was cool. That's awesome.
34:03
I love a good softie bop.
34:06
And I love a an island full of
34:08
women. Yeah. That sounds pretty gay, Melody.
34:10
Was that the gayest thing you did this
34:12
week? Was watched the wilds? Mhmm.
34:15
At first, yes, I thought so. Very
34:17
gay to binge that gay
34:19
show with my gay girlfriend. But I
34:22
found something gay or on the Christmas
34:25
Zoom we had with Ali's family.
34:27
Ali and I held hands the entire
34:29
time, so I'm gonna call it that the
34:31
gayest thing that we have because Christmas,
34:34
hella gay. Holding hands with girlfriend
34:35
gay. But I am still,
34:38
like, trying to figure out how to interact with
34:40
Ali's family after having to be kinda
34:42
closeted for the first couple
34:43
years -- Yes. -- around them. The Badillo all knew,
34:45
but it was like the children couldn't.
34:47
And then with Christmas, it's like, you're
34:49
basically in the closet because the children it's
34:52
every things so, like, amesh. So
34:55
last year, I got drunk at
34:57
Ally's family Christmas on
34:59
Christmas Eve. Ally's cousin made me
35:01
a very strong drink and I
35:04
got drunk immediately. I
35:06
started following Ali around
35:08
her aunt's house demanding that
35:11
she make out with me. Quote unquote
35:13
in front of your family. Like, that was
35:15
the request. Like, I followed her around.
35:17
I was very handsy in front of everyone.
35:19
And which is like, I think I want to be in front of
35:22
your family, Just do it. Just do
35:24
it. Like and
35:27
Ali's just the most stressed she ever
35:29
is on Christmas Eve. There's a
35:31
lot she has to do she, like, is the glue
35:34
of the family and making sure everyone's,
35:36
like, good and ready and So
35:38
she was like, it was very stressful for her, but
35:40
we still look back on it and left. So there
35:42
we had a nice family zoom where no one
35:45
could see how affectionate I was being
35:47
we held hands the whole time just below
35:49
the laptop. And I was like, you know what?
35:51
This is nice. Get
35:53
prude. We get to be as gay as
35:55
possible. They
35:56
can't they can't see what's going
35:58
on. But -- Yeah. --
36:00
boobs down. And all you did was hold
36:02
hands. Yes. Cecilia
36:04
and I were finger blasting each other on the
36:06
family zoom. Are you kidding? No.
36:08
We didn't we we napped through
36:10
the family zoom.
36:12
I I picked two naps on Christmas,
36:14
and I slept through the family zoom. So okay.
36:18
Well, I'll tell you
36:18
what, Allie and I did eventually
36:21
put our fingers at each other. We did not leave
36:23
the couch for, like, three days. And
36:26
a couple days before Christmas we were doing just
36:28
that and I was knuckles deep
36:30
in alley. Right. Our
36:32
doorbell rang and it was
36:34
our Mexican food and it was just
36:37
like, we like, I slipped
36:39
my fingers out. She went and
36:41
grabbed the food, and then we just
36:44
ate our fajitas. Like
36:47
like, nothing happened and
36:49
we're like, what happened to us? Should
36:52
have ordered tacos for the joke, Melody.
36:54
I know. Right? Had
36:57
we opened tacos? Our fingers
36:59
would have been serving us not forks
37:02
and knives. And the smell would have been
37:04
closer to our faces, and we would have been like, what are we
37:06
doing? We gotta get back to where we started. You're
37:09
right. We should have had tacos. No.
37:12
But we've really just been, like, lazily fingering
37:14
on the couch. I don't know about you. I don't know if it's the
37:17
does the season? Fairly lazy
37:19
couch sex. Yeah. Lazydaysfingering. All
37:21
we're doing is watching TV, and this is just
37:23
one last gay thing. We have
37:26
benched Dawson's Creek
37:29
so hard. And it's because Netflix
37:31
has this shuffle option where
37:33
it's like just play something because we couldn't decide
37:36
and it played the pilot of Dawson's
37:38
Creek. Now I was obsessed as
37:40
a kid and it we found out Allie was obsessed
37:42
too. We were both in love with Joey. Yeah.
37:45
So in love with Joey. We just, like,
37:47
we're, like, realizing that, like, we just can't stop
37:49
watching because we're, like, oh my god, when she
37:51
sings gayness. Oh my god.
37:53
That was it for me. Oh my like,
37:55
just having all these realizations of how, like,
37:58
Joey was huge. For us. Yeah. And
38:00
now we can't stop
38:00
watching.
38:01
It didn't help that Dawson was
38:03
so annoying. Right. I
38:05
don't understand how anyone liked him.
38:08
Yeah. Well, I I liked Casey
38:10
in my fandom. I
38:13
was in love with Casey eventually. Yeah.
38:16
Katie always.
38:17
Yeah. I remember I wanted to
38:19
be I wanted to be a director
38:22
when I was younger, when I was in high school. Like,
38:24
I was looking at film schools for college. And
38:26
honestly, Dawson Leary and
38:28
Dawson's Creek, like, made me second guess
38:31
that I was like, oh, yeah.
38:33
I don't wanna be annoying like
38:35
that. I don't wanna be so obnoxious
38:37
and pretentious. Forget it. Most
38:40
pretentious show ever written
38:42
by, like, New Yorker writers,
38:44
like, fifty year old in New York intellectuals
38:47
or whatever. Right. Right. Teenagers don't talk. But, like,
38:49
Dawson, s someone who didn't
38:51
have that dream done, but did eventually go to,
38:53
like, film school. I'm just
38:54
like,
38:55
oh, like, everyone you hate at film school.
38:57
Yeah, but worse because it's not even
39:00
like it's like Steven Spielberg, which
39:02
is great, but it's like, like,
39:05
he spends a whole first season obsessing
39:07
over, like, just the art
39:09
of ET. Yeah. And it's like, yeah.
39:12
Like, you know, at least some, like, Gus
39:14
Van Sant, like, something
39:16
Yeah. -- for a young filmmaker -- Yeah.
39:18
-- to obsess over. I don't know. Right.
39:20
Right. Dawson's so fucking
39:22
annoying. Yeah.
39:25
What about you?
39:27
For me, it honestly simply
39:30
was buying Ellen DeGeneres
39:33
lighting. Ellen DeGeneres
39:35
has a home collection,
39:37
stage length. Yeah. No.
39:40
Because out of a spotlight on the
39:42
selfish fuck. Ella
39:45
DeGeneres famously is so rich
39:47
that her hobby is flipping mansions.
39:50
So -- Right. She has developed
39:52
AAA line of,
39:54
I guess, like, home decor stuff. I
39:56
don't know the extent of it. All I know is
39:58
that Cecilia and I have kind of like divided
40:00
and conquered the items that
40:02
we need to buy for the house. One of
40:04
them is lighting because
40:07
this previous owner
40:09
was not a fan of having lights. It seems.
40:12
So
40:14
my kinda guy Yeah. Cecilia picked
40:17
out some lights and said, they're Ellen
40:19
DeGeneres brand. I was like, well, then we have
40:21
to get them. That's that's
40:24
a good idea. Yeah. In this house,
40:26
that used to be owned by lesbians, which
40:28
we still get male lesbians. We're
40:30
still getting stuff addressed to Anita and Dolores,
40:33
which is great. Alright. So
40:35
in summary, everything from twenty
40:37
twenty is very gay. And
40:40
-- Mhmm. -- if it wasn't gay, it
40:42
was a mixed bag of things. Let's
40:45
get into this interview because it was
40:48
so much
40:48
fun. We had such a great time.
40:50
I had too much fun. So today, we
40:52
are diking out with writer and actor, Michelle out
40:54
a deal about breasts, something
40:57
we know a thing or two about
40:59
get it? Melody, 20I
41:01
got it. That's why I said I had too much
41:04
Oh, man. How
41:08
did I miss that? Michelle Roper
41:10
shows, like, one day at time, the bold
41:12
type, and the upcoming league of their
41:14
own, and the great north. Plus,
41:17
she's appeared in the show, Vida, and had cameo
41:20
that was very near and dear to my heart on
41:22
one day at a time. Let's get into
41:24
it. Alright,
41:30
Michelle. Thank you so much for
41:32
being here today and diking out about breasts
41:34
with us.
41:35
Thank you for having me. Thank
41:37
you for the topic.
41:38
Bitch. Yeah.
41:40
I've been waiting for this. I know we
41:42
were just saying that we couldn't believe that we
41:44
haven't had a breast specific.
41:46
We've had top surgery, which is closed, but
41:49
not breast. So we're excited to get into that.
41:51
But before we do, we just have
41:53
to talk a little bit about you
41:55
in your career because you have
41:57
written on so many queer
41:59
projects. It's amazing. And
42:03
the Dyking that you've done has
42:06
had such an impact on so many people
42:09
and it's crazy. So, I
42:10
mean, First, I have
42:12
to bring up one day at a time,
42:15
you know.
42:15
Yeah. I make sure restaurants. Yeah.
42:17
I know. I know. I was so bummed
42:20
because I was so excited to hear that it was
42:22
coming back and it was such a back and
42:24
forth. What happened? It's
42:26
such a like it
42:28
was such a long goodbye in a way because
42:31
--
42:31
Right. -- so I wrote for the first three
42:33
seasons and every every year, even after
42:35
the first season, It didn't
42:37
matter that, like, we were getting these great reviews. Like,
42:39
there was always just this fear of
42:41
maybe we won't get us back. And it was always
42:43
like, we were, like, playing this game
42:45
of, like, tag with Netflix. And then, like,
42:47
at the last minute, they'd be like, you guys are picked up. And
42:49
so it was always kind of like, we don't know how long
42:51
we're gonna get to do this thing. Right. And
42:54
And then at the end of the third season, we
42:56
found out that we were officially canceled.
42:58
And then they were, like, oh, we're gonna try. Like, Sony
43:00
was very dedicated the idea of, like, getting
43:02
on and on and of the network. But I don't think
43:05
up to that point, like, plenty of things had gone
43:07
from network to streaming. It had
43:09
never gone the other way around. So we all
43:11
kind of were like, this is a very long shot
43:13
and most of the writers just
43:16
because we all need to keep working, had
43:18
gotten other jobs, including myself and my
43:21
writing partner at the time. And then,
43:23
like, right when we had gotten another job, we found out
43:25
it was getting picked up again. So we couldn't
43:27
actually write for the fourth season, which was very
43:29
sad. So I had to start my goodbye
43:31
then. But just as, like,
43:33
something that I think should exist, I wanted
43:35
it to stay on for as long as human beings possible.
43:39
And then it was so exciting for it to
43:41
get this new home. And then when it didn't
43:43
work out again, it just, like, it
43:46
so I kind of been saying my own goodbye to
43:48
it for a long time, but for what it means
43:50
to so many people and
43:52
what a dearth of of my next representation
43:55
there is on
43:55
TV. It's just like it's a real bummer.
43:58
Yeah. Yeah. I had
44:00
only first heard of the show when it
44:02
got canceled the first time.
44:04
And then that was the year that I went to
44:06
lexicon, and
44:09
the cast was there, and the producers
44:11
and they were talking about all the complications and
44:13
trying to find a new home because you couldn't
44:16
just have it go to another streaming
44:18
service. Because of noncompetes
44:20
and all the stuff like that. But -- Yeah. -- just
44:23
seeing how much love there was for the show.
44:25
So as soon as I got back from that, my wife and
44:27
I started watching and
44:29
she's not Cuban. She's Peruvian,
44:31
but she felt like she could
44:33
relate so hard to it and she said, you
44:36
know, had that a show like that
44:38
been around when she was younger. She
44:40
would have known so much sooner that she
44:42
was gay. She would have been so much
44:44
less scared about feeling like it
44:47
was a taboo thing that she couldn't talk about with her
44:49
family and all that kind of
44:50
stuff. And, I mean, I would openly
44:52
weep like very embarrassingly like openly,
44:55
like, uncontrollably weak when
44:57
we were shooting that first season because I
44:59
just couldn't believe it
45:01
was the same I was like, if I had had this,
45:03
there would have been and I feel like this is
45:05
true for a lot of queer women. Like, there just
45:07
were not examples, and I didn't really know
45:09
queer women in my life, and I just, like,
45:12
you guys know about that thing where you can, like, Google
45:14
will show you your searches for, like,
45:17
since
45:17
Oh, excuse me. No. I
45:19
don't. But Okay. People
45:21
don't
45:22
Somebody drop a bomb on it, but it's,
45:24
like, taken out. It's insane.
45:27
They literally since, like, two
45:29
thousand
45:30
five, like, if you've had any like,
45:32
they have
45:32
recorded your searches on Google
45:34
and you can look it up through your account, like, what
45:37
have I searched? So I was just, like,
45:39
going through when I discovered that. Obviously,
45:41
I was, like, obsessively, like, wanting
45:43
to enable gaze and know what I was thinking about.
45:46
And every minute, And I found this
45:48
day from when I was seventeen, which was, like, when
45:50
I was first kind of, like, understanding that I was
45:52
gay. And in the same night, I
45:55
googled how
45:57
to know if you're a lesbian and how to know if you're a psycho
45:59
male. Because
46:01
I just like and I was like, oh, that is so
46:04
scary and sad that I had so, like,
46:06
little understanding of what I was feeling, that
46:08
I was like, is me, like, not having, like,
46:10
feelings towards men, like, I'm supposed to
46:12
have mean that I'm, like, emotionally, like, dead
46:15
inside as opposed to just, like, you're gay,
46:17
it's fine. And I
46:19
was I would be, like, writing this show. Like, if I
46:21
had seen this when I was fifteen, I
46:23
didn't even have Googled my lesbian
46:25
or my
46:25
sister. Right.
46:27
Oh my gosh. That's so funny.
46:29
You said it goes back to two thousand five? Because
46:31
I'm probably gonna find searches
46:33
like that too. You
46:35
might be able to go back
46:37
that far. It's like, why is being a virgin
46:39
so easy? That's my
46:42
friend. Why
46:45
did I never wanna have sex? And
46:49
the the other thing that I have to mention
46:51
with that show is that you
46:54
have a cameo
46:55
in an episode where
46:57
you play a character called
47:00
Susan.
47:01
In the long line of lesbian, Susan? Yes.
47:04
Thank you. That was,
47:06
I think,
47:07
intentionally, if I can re if I'm
47:09
recalling that
47:09
right away,
47:10
we were, like, what she was saying that's okay. Oh,
47:12
my god. That was making my dream come true
47:14
because We used to call
47:16
our listeners until Melody
47:19
objected. We used to call our listeners
47:21
Susan's -- Yeah. -- because
47:24
thought that there was, like, the gayest name in, like, every
47:26
fictional character on TV. It's, like, it's a
47:28
lesbian. Alright? Let's just Rerelease name for
47:30
Susan. Yeah. Or
47:32
in, like, the puppy episode of Ellen.
47:35
Yeah. She's also Susan. So
47:37
I started an
47:40
account on Instagram called everyday
47:42
Susan. And I -- Yeah. --
47:44
tag me on it. So originally, I put it on.
47:46
And then somebody messaged me and they're like,
47:48
no. Susan's in the episode. I'm like, Susan's
47:50
in the episode. They're like, yeah. If you look quick
47:52
at the funeral scene, she
47:55
like, nods to Susan. I'm like, what?
47:57
So I rewatch. I'm like, oh my
47:59
god. Mine blown. And it's a writer
48:01
on the show, and I have to know.
48:04
The thing? Yes. We I remember they
48:07
were like, what should we name this person? And, like, the three
48:09
lesbian it lesbians in the room, we were all like
48:11
Susan. Like, it's gotta be
48:12
Susan. If it's a lesbian on a sitcom,
48:15
it's gotta be Susan. I
48:16
just can't believe there are three lesbians in a room.
48:19
Like, writer Oh,
48:21
That I know. No. It's insane.
48:24
Yeah. Such a good show. I never thought that,
48:28
like, in these times, I would be
48:30
watching one a multi cam sitcom
48:33
again, and then also one that makes
48:35
me both like laugh and cry every
48:37
episode. I would just be like, why am I
48:39
crying so much? But
48:43
it should be called a sick
48:44
cry. Sorry. Take that out.
48:46
Take that out. And
48:52
then you've also have
48:55
did Invita with
48:57
MacLindres, which is amazing. Yes.
49:00
Who is also we just learned
49:02
gonna be in a league of their
49:04
own, which you're writing for, which we just had
49:06
Jamie Babbot on the podcast.
49:09
And she mentioned that she directed what
49:11
a dream team
49:12
project. What can you tell us about that?
49:15
Insane. I
49:16
don't I'd probably not much, but it
49:18
is I don't think I can say much
49:20
yet, but I think we all can tell
49:22
at this point from the casting and directing
49:25
and the writing that it's gonna be pretty
49:27
clear. I think there's as a lot of
49:29
queer women can attest to, like, there are a lot of undertones
49:32
in the movie, but they didn't go there.
49:34
I think that's, like, because of the
49:36
time and also because there's with
49:39
the league itself as you see kind
49:41
of in the movie too. Like, there was a specific
49:43
emphasis on these women, like,
49:45
not being perceived as but or gay.
49:48
Which was, like, very much not the real
49:51
story. So we're getting into a little bit
49:53
more of, like, the queerness that was
49:55
happening there and the
49:58
cast is incredible, and I'm
50:00
so excited that to Roberta and
50:02
I never actually, like, we've met, but we
50:04
never were on Veeda at the same Okay.
50:06
I'm together, so I'm excited to be able to
50:09
work with her in this capacity. And, yeah,
50:13
it's I think it's gonna be I think
50:15
there's enough in there that will be, like,
50:17
remind you of the movie, but it it very much
50:20
takes its own. It's not so much reboot
50:22
of the movie as it is like a reinterpretation
50:25
of of the leak itself.
50:26
Yeah. A lot more diverse, a lot more gay.
50:29
Even though the leak itself though wasn't really
50:31
diverse. Right? Well,
50:33
so the way we're doing it is so
50:35
there were no black women
50:37
allowed -- Right. --
50:37
which is we're staying true to that in the
50:39
show, but we are following but
50:41
black women were able to play baseball and, like,
50:43
make it as far as the nigga leagues, which were,
50:45
like, the major leagues at time. So
50:48
we are telling that story as well amazing.
50:51
And then there were, like,
50:54
some Cuban women in the league and few Mexican
50:56
American women in the
50:57
league. So we're integrating that into the story
50:59
as well.
51:00
I can't wait. Yeah. When does that come out?
51:02
I wish I knew sometime next year, I think.
51:04
I don't know yet. I
51:06
know that. I'm sure it's sometime next
51:08
year. But I I can't I don't think they
51:10
know exactly for sure yet when.
51:12
So you also have written for the bowl type,
51:15
which I've just started Dyking and
51:17
just so mad at myself for
51:19
how into what I am. Just
51:22
because I've been into free form
51:24
shows before, like, pretty little liars.
51:27
And I'm like, I'm not getting sucked in again. And
51:29
it I He does it every time. They'll
51:32
get you. I mean, I was III
51:35
took a very serious, pretty little Irish
51:37
journey where, like, I would be so deep
51:39
in, and then I would just be, like, distressed I'd
51:41
have to leave it alone for, like, six months. And then
51:43
I would be like Well, now I have to check back in.
51:46
And and then, like yeah.
51:48
It's free form and former
51:51
ABC family. Like, they really have a way of pissing
51:53
you off, but keeping you --
51:54
Yeah. -- I will say though since,
51:56
like because I was watching pretty little liars
51:58
when it was still ABC
52:00
Family and was getting all this pushback for
52:02
being so gay. And then and
52:05
then I just saw the episode of
52:07
the bowl type where she, like, goes
52:09
down on her girlfriend. And
52:12
I'm like, free
52:13
form. Hold on a second. Like,
52:15
they don't
52:15
even show scenes that are, like, this
52:18
explicit on, like, some Netflix
52:21
shows. Like, I was
52:23
shocked. We didn't think we were gonna we wrote
52:25
it and we were, like, there's no way.
52:27
Like, this is, like, like, any kind of as
52:29
everyone knows, like, any kind of especially, like,
52:31
oral sex between women, like, immediately slaps
52:33
you, like, an NC seventeen in
52:35
movies
52:36
and, like, is just not on TV
52:38
at unless it's,
52:39
like, show time. Unless it's the l
52:41
word. Yeah. Except for the l word. I still
52:43
cannot believe I
52:45
know. Like, it's it's gonna happen. I'm like,
52:47
okay. And, like, one second, they're gonna cut away
52:49
to, like, just their feet at the bottom of the
52:50
bed, and that's all we're gonna get to see. And I'm like,
52:53
Hold on. Awesome. I
52:57
mean, as I think, like, if we if you
52:59
just knew about lesbian sex, from watching pretty little
53:02
liars, you would think it was just, like, fee
53:04
touching at the end of a bed. Like, that's
53:06
the extent of lesbian sex. No. I still cannot
53:08
believe. I cannot believe we got oh,
53:10
wait with that. Your other new project too,
53:12
you are so busy is the
53:15
Great North. And that's coming
53:16
out. I well -- Yes. -- because
53:18
that's animation. So that you probably worked on
53:21
a while ago. Give a
53:22
hundred years of timeline.
53:23
Right. Right.
53:24
It's coming out in February of of twenty
53:26
twenty one.
53:27
Stack. Stack. So
53:30
insane. Yeah. I can't wait.
53:32
Jenny Sley, Dolce Sloan,
53:35
Aparna, and Atlantis
53:37
Morrison, what? Okay.
53:39
I almost when I
53:41
heard that that was, like, before I got the didn't
53:43
know before I got the job. And then when I got the I
53:46
mean, I almost, like, fell out just, like,
53:48
in the office hearing that. I was, like, wait. Wait.
53:50
Wait. She's and and she's playing herself. Like,
53:52
she's just, like, playing an imaginary version
53:55
of herself. And I never got to talk
53:57
to her directly, but I did get I was on, like,
53:59
like, a conference call with her in our office,
54:01
and I was sweating. I
54:03
was, like, full body. She couldn't
54:05
see me. I wasn't and I was sweating.
54:07
Yeah. I would be too.
54:08
Yeah. She just has, like, this aura
54:11
about her. She just seems like
54:14
she's so white she had a podcast at
54:16
some point And I was supposed to take yeah.
54:19
She had a podcast and it was just, like,
54:22
this wasn't the name, but it was, like, the Zen
54:24
hour with Atlantis Morrison. I just,
54:26
like, heard talking about, like, gratitude
54:29
for an hour and just, like, her meditate
54:31
like, her practices and things like
54:33
that and, like, everything you would expect from
54:35
an Atlantis Morrison podcast. It's
54:37
just really funny how she went from, like,
54:40
this, like, angry rock chick
54:42
was kind of, like, what exploded her
54:44
onto the scene. And it's like,
54:46
oh, her anger her anger. But since
54:48
then, she's just like this, like, ethereal,
54:51
like Earth mother. Yeah.
54:53
Well, she got all the rage out in the nineties,
54:55
I guess. Yeah. There's nothing left.
54:59
Alright. Well, thank you for
55:02
talking about all the because you've literally,
55:04
like, worked on so many of my favorite
55:06
shows. So thanks for letting
55:08
Rerelease geek out. No.
55:11
Of
55:11
course. I can't believe I've gotten to work
55:13
on so many queer shows. Like, it's
55:16
it's just a product of, like, being
55:18
exactly the right age. Because there weren't
55:20
queer shows, but not really. So I just I can't
55:22
believe I can't believe that I keep getting
55:24
Yeah. I mean, I guess it's not that big of
55:26
a coincidence that you've, like, written on all
55:28
these shows I've seen because I seek out,
55:31
like, every queer show. So Of
55:35
the five, I've been involved with that. Right. Right.
55:40
But today, you are here to deck
55:42
out with us about breasts
55:46
We got him? Yes. What
55:48
made you wanna pitch that idea? Yeah. I
55:50
just I've such a I've had such a I
55:53
guess I'm still probably on on my on
55:55
a journey with my breasts, but I feel like I've had
55:57
such a relationship to them.
55:59
I just remember, like, so when I was a kid, I looked
56:02
I looked essentially how I do now. Look,
56:04
I looked I had short hair, what was a tomboy,
56:06
whatever, and that never, like, didn't make
56:08
sense to me. Like, that I I didn't feel like
56:10
I I wasn't thinking about gender
56:12
deeply, but, like, it would always be, like, really shocking
56:15
to me that people thought I was a boy because I was,
56:17
like, I just didn't understand, like, why just
56:19
because I have short hair, I look I'm
56:21
not being perceived as a girl, whatever
56:24
point being that, like, it got so but
56:26
happening so frequently and got so bad that when I
56:28
was, like, nine, like, in a very early
56:30
there, god, it's me Margaret. I was just, like, praying
56:32
for big breasts with my mother has, like,
56:34
huge tits. And I was like, please
56:37
let me have them so that at least if I
56:39
have big boobs, like, everyone will know I'm a girl.
56:41
And I
56:43
may have it may have worked too well. I
56:46
ended up by the time I was thirteen with double
56:49
d's -- Wow. -- which was then, like,
56:51
which when you're thirteen is, like,
56:53
You know then? It's a mess. It
56:56
is a mess. And especially at
56:58
that I mean, I don't know if kids are different now, but, like,
57:00
there was definitely no kind of conversation about
57:02
consent happening when I was a teenager
57:04
and because I was, like, the one with
57:06
with big boobs, it was, like, I'm snapping my
57:08
bra in middle of class or, like,
57:11
just grab like, just peep the way people
57:13
just, like, thought they could, like, touch my
57:15
body -- Yeah. -- is
57:17
insane.
57:17
They called me tits when they appeared,
57:19
and it stuck through high school. They
57:22
called they was, like, on the hall,
57:24
eight kids. I there
57:27
was a there was a couple other Michelle's
57:29
in my high school, so they just started calling me Big
57:31
Tets Badillo. Oh, my god.
57:35
And so it was just like, hey, big tits.
57:37
So I I really relate very
57:40
much to that. So I had, like, prayed for and
57:42
by that point, I was also, like, like, I had made a
57:44
very, like, specific strategic decision
57:46
when I, like, graduated from elementary
57:48
school that I was gonna let my hair grow out
57:50
and, like, because I just was sick and tired of
57:52
people, like, not thinking
57:55
I was a girl and I just was starting to when I
57:57
was a kid, it didn't matter and then I was going through
57:59
puberty and I just was a
58:01
mess and So then I, like,
58:03
over like, I remember overnight, it
58:05
was at the summer between seventh and eighth grade.
58:07
I went to meet up at my best friend, and she looked at
58:09
me. She was, like, did your, like, kid's girl last
58:11
night and I looked down and I was like, oh my
58:13
god. I have huge kids almost
58:15
in. I had no idea what to do with them.
58:18
And then, like, an eighth grade was just, like,
58:20
that was all. I was, like it was just became,
58:22
like, all about my breasts and I didn't know what the hell
58:24
would do with them. Then I was like, well, it's kinda
58:26
the only thing people like. And I still kinda
58:28
thought I'd like boys and I was like, it's the only sort of
58:30
thing I have that boys are into
58:33
anyway, then when I, like, was like, okay.
58:36
No. I'm a lesbian and not only my lesbian,
58:38
but, like, gender presentation wise, like,
58:40
I'm maybe gonna present
58:42
a little more masculine and then, like, starts to get,
58:44
like, more and more, like, androgynous, whatever. And
58:46
then suddenly, it was, like, now I don't
58:48
know that these breasts, like, fit into
58:50
my conception of, like, what I think
58:53
I should look like because I feel, like, in
58:55
terms of the dearth of representation, the
58:57
only, like, slightly androgynous, butch
59:00
adjacent lesbian was Shane
59:02
on the l word --
59:03
Mhmm. -- whereas, like, No kids to
59:05
speak up. Right.
59:06
Right. I was trying to find
59:08
a curvy butch kind of person
59:10
to reference in this episode and I was googling
59:13
around and it it's just all porn so I gave up.
59:17
It's it's so and and the truth is, like,
59:19
a lot of like and I'm not even
59:21
that butch,
59:22
but, like, a lot of butch women have
59:24
huge breasts -- Yeah. -- in
59:26
life. Yep. Of knowing
59:28
And it's,
59:28
like, where are they on TV? Mhmm.
59:31
Right. So I
59:33
got really tripped out about, like,
59:35
then I was and also, like, as
59:37
we were saying, like, when you're younger
59:40
and your breasts just become, like, public property
59:42
and then, like, I was feeling kind of weird about
59:44
them like that. And then I was like, well, if
59:46
I look like this, I'm, like, not supposed to have
59:49
big breasts. Like, I just didn't under like,
59:51
and I still would struggle with
59:53
this, like, the first time, like
59:56
and I've not had sex with many women, but, like, the
59:58
first time they see me naked, like, the first
1:00:00
thing the first few things they say is, like, you're
1:00:02
really small and wow you have really big
1:00:04
tits. And those always to me feel like
1:00:08
Okay. So that wasn't what you were expecting and, like,
1:00:10
you're upset. Oh, man.
1:00:12
Yeah. Even if that's not what they
1:00:14
mean. I'm just, like, this is exactly my fear was
1:00:16
that, like, you don't think I should
1:00:17
have big breasts and now you're seeing them. And
1:00:19
it's like, now, like, you were attracted
1:00:21
to, like, what you thought I was and now maybe you're
1:00:23
not
1:00:24
because, like, I've tricked you into think which
1:00:26
is
1:00:27
I don't I don't even think that that's true, but
1:00:29
that's where, like, I start to go. Well, I'm like, well, I
1:00:31
tricked you into thinking that I was like, one type
1:00:33
of person and, like, now
1:00:35
I I have big boobs and, like, the jig is up
1:00:38
and,
1:00:38
like, you can leave it, man. Yeah. Yeah.
1:00:40
I I wanna go back to that, like, middle
1:00:42
school thing because it's so crazy
1:00:45
what you say about people just having no boundaries,
1:00:48
no consent, and it's
1:00:51
it's almost like I
1:00:53
don't know. I feel like it always happens, like, over
1:00:55
the summer between, like, elementary school
1:00:58
and middle school, and then we all show
1:01:00
up to middle school, and then, like,
1:01:02
some women have breasts, some
1:01:04
guys have their voice starting to
1:01:06
drop, and you're like, what is going
1:01:08
on here? Like, nobody prepared me for
1:01:10
this. What is happening? And then
1:01:12
you either feel like, oh,
1:01:14
what's going on in my body is wrong?
1:01:16
Like, no matter what side of it you're on.
1:01:19
So, like, I have,
1:01:21
like, a sized breasts
1:01:24
and I always have. So I was
1:01:26
always like, alright, when are they coming
1:01:28
in? When am I gonna fill
1:01:30
something out, this isn't right, and, you know,
1:01:33
I'd get made for that. But then I
1:01:35
also had no idea what
1:01:37
the girls were going through who did have boobs.
1:01:40
And I remember, like,
1:01:42
this one girl with boobs was having
1:01:44
all these boy friends and I'm like,
1:01:46
I don't get why she get has, like, so
1:01:48
many boyfriends. It's
1:01:51
really crazy. Like, what
1:01:54
what do these guys think are gonna happen? Like, they're gonna
1:01:56
touch her boobs no way. And that was
1:01:58
totally what was happening. Like, she
1:02:00
was letting all the boys touch her boobs. That's
1:02:02
why she had, like, a revolving
1:02:05
door. But, like, to me, if that was
1:02:07
so crazy that that was going on because I
1:02:09
felt like I still had
1:02:12
I guess there's, like, innocence, right,
1:02:14
of not having boobs and not having
1:02:16
people wanna touch my
1:02:18
boobs. was
1:02:20
the female friends who were the
1:02:22
worst at calling it out,
1:02:24
completely humiliating me, like,
1:02:26
slapping me with names running up and
1:02:28
squeezing them in the hallway. Yes. Why
1:02:31
is with the running up and squeezing them?
1:02:33
It was a thing. It
1:02:37
was just yeah. It was the Galpels.
1:02:40
We're just constantly bringing attention
1:02:42
to it, which then brought the boys attention.
1:02:44
But it was, like, probably their insecurities because
1:02:47
theirs hadn't come in yet. There's
1:02:49
a whole big mouth episode about
1:02:50
it. I remember
1:02:51
-- Yes. -- which illustrated that
1:02:53
nicely. It just, like, triggers this insecurity
1:02:56
maybe that makes the girls
1:02:58
do that, but it really was, like, instill
1:03:01
to the state. So my best friends.
1:03:03
Just, like, looking back, like, well, you made things
1:03:05
hard for me when
1:03:06
those came
1:03:07
in. Man,
1:03:08
there were these two girls when I was in ninth
1:03:10
grade who, like, in the middle of math
1:03:12
class, I remember they would always, like, start,
1:03:14
like, they would sit on either side of me and then
1:03:16
they would just grab my tits or, like, try and
1:03:18
undo my bra and pull up my shirt. Like, really,
1:03:21
like, graphic crazy shit. And I was, like, telling
1:03:23
my girlfriend and she was, like, that must have been so
1:03:25
hot. And, like, it's the
1:03:27
way I was just I guess, it sounded kind of like
1:03:30
a hot porn, and I was like, no. It
1:03:32
wasn't I was mortified, and then, like,
1:03:34
then yeah. It it was,
1:03:36
like, getting pantsed in the hallways. That's
1:03:38
what it -- Yeah. -- like, felt like And they did
1:03:40
also grab my butt because I had such a comically
1:03:42
small butt. They would screw because you can't have
1:03:44
both. If you have big boobs, I feel like you
1:03:46
usually have a smaller butt and vice
1:03:48
versa. That's just my theory.
1:03:49
I can attest. Okay. So, yeah, I
1:03:51
have a tiny butt and huge boobs. So
1:03:53
they'd come up and squeeze my boobs or
1:03:55
they would run up and cup my boobs and
1:03:57
just be
1:03:57
like, It doesn't you can't even my hands
1:04:00
flat. Like, it was just so
1:04:04
physical. Or, like, if
1:04:06
only you could take some of your boobs and put it back,
1:04:08
that
1:04:08
was a big one. Don't you wish? Yeah. Yeah.
1:04:12
Wow. I don't know if I'm just,
1:04:14
like, repressing memories from that
1:04:16
time, but I'm, like, I wouldn't have dared
1:04:19
grab my friend's boobs or maybe
1:04:21
that was just, like, me, like,
1:04:24
sort of knowing but not knowing already that,
1:04:26
like, they made me feel weird and
1:04:28
uncomfortable. But I
1:04:30
also, like, I don't know if it's just like,
1:04:33
even if I wasn't aware of being gay, like, I
1:04:35
would not have touched anyone's
1:04:37
boobs. Yeah. Same. I think
1:04:39
it was probably subconscious at that time,
1:04:41
but I was like, I don't wanna let anyone get
1:04:43
any
1:04:44
ideas. What I
1:04:46
want.
1:04:46
Exactly. Yeah. Yeah.
1:04:49
I mean, I was always one of those people too that,
1:04:51
like, always had a change in private.
1:04:53
Like, even in the locker room, I would always pick
1:04:55
a locker that was, like, by the corner so
1:04:57
that I could, like, fully face the corner and, like,
1:04:59
quickly change in and out of my shirt.
1:05:01
Like, even though I had nothing there, I
1:05:03
was just, like,
1:05:05
so self conscious about it.
1:05:07
Oh my god. Yeah. Do
1:05:10
you as a brown person
1:05:12
relate to this? The boobs
1:05:14
coming in around that age bend the body
1:05:16
hair and just being
1:05:19
like, this is a lot of masculine
1:05:21
and feminine energy I'm trying to figure
1:05:23
out right now. No one this
1:05:26
is no one talks about this. And people don't
1:05:28
talk about this enough. Like, the boobs coming
1:05:30
in at the same time as the mustache? Yeah.
1:05:33
And then suddenly, I was like, and
1:05:36
I still would if I didn't have laser. Yeah.
1:05:38
I just let my rock now for most part,
1:05:40
unless I'm, like, gonna see my mom, and then I'm, like,
1:05:42
I I better get rid of it. But
1:05:44
Yeah. That, like, where it's, like, you're becoming a
1:05:46
woman and also a man at the same
1:05:48
time. Like, I look at my
1:05:49
professor Snape with double d's.
1:05:51
Yes. But
1:05:54
me too. Oh my god. I've
1:05:56
that's yeah. And and, like, it just
1:05:59
they really don't tell you that these things
1:06:02
are gonna happen. And, like, I
1:06:04
remember, like, that moment when,
1:06:06
like, you you're wearing, like, at the time
1:06:08
Capri's, which I'm so glad
1:06:10
those are kind of dead. But, like, claim When you were
1:06:12
the first time somebody's like, ugh, you have to
1:06:14
shave. Yeah. And then you look around
1:06:16
and, like, nobody else has had to start shaving it, but
1:06:18
you have, like, a full bare leg. Mhmm. That's,
1:06:20
like, getting caught, like, getting caught
1:06:23
in the Capri.
1:06:26
I fully got waxed every Sunday with
1:06:28
my mom. We talked about this on a Patreon
1:06:30
Yes. But I've got a lot of thoughts
1:06:32
on big boobs and body hair. Yeah.
1:06:36
That's standing. The woman who ran the
1:06:38
salon lived in our building growing up.
1:06:40
So it was like very much like we had an in. We're
1:06:42
getting the the mustache, the uni brow,
1:06:44
that's getting done, like, every week. And
1:06:48
then a lot of do you remember
1:06:50
Sally Hanson? There was, like, the Sally
1:06:52
Hanson cream that you you throw in your upper lip
1:06:54
and it was kind of, like, nair, but, like, It was
1:06:57
not your moustache. Not the bleaching.
1:06:59
Yeah. And it would, like, melt the hair and it
1:07:01
never, like Oh,
1:07:02
my whole skin layer
1:07:04
off with the hair. And then you just, like,
1:07:06
yeah, I don't have a mustache, but now I have, like, a
1:07:08
puffy red, like, fleshless
1:07:11
lip. It's, like, I have a stache. It's a
1:07:13
gabstash now. I got rid of the hair
1:07:15
for you guys.
1:07:17
Cool with me now. Oh,
1:07:19
god. I would you couldn't you
1:07:21
there's you couldn't pay. I owe god.
1:07:23
Oh,
1:07:24
I'm, like, I can feel myself, like, feeling like
1:07:26
I'm in seventh grade again. I know.
1:07:28
I'm triggered. I'm fully triggered right now.
1:07:30
But you can't win though. If you don't have if
1:07:32
you have if you have not developed or, like,
1:07:34
just aren't a person who's gonna have big breasts, like,
1:07:37
you feel like a failure. And then if you have them, you
1:07:39
they're just, like, everybody
1:07:41
talks about them and
1:07:42
they're, like, for public consumption and nobody
1:07:44
wins. Yeah. Yeah. Because well, I
1:07:46
know that my relationship with my breasts
1:07:49
have definitely changed over time and
1:07:51
it went from me feeling constantly inadequate
1:07:54
and that I was never gonna,
1:07:56
like, look right in shirts or I was always
1:07:58
gonna be, like, super pair shaped and
1:08:00
never proportional and would never look good
1:08:02
in a dress or anything like that.
1:08:05
To Dyking
1:08:07
like an out lesbian who
1:08:11
is so happy that I never attracted
1:08:14
that amount of attention for men. Like,
1:08:16
I feel like like, I can't can't
1:08:18
even handle the few cat
1:08:20
calls that I get now that had
1:08:22
I had breasts, like, knowing
1:08:25
how much worse it would be. You
1:08:27
know, I was like, thank god I
1:08:29
didn't have that or just like with
1:08:31
my friends just knowing troubles
1:08:34
with, like, getting bras and things
1:08:36
like that and, like,
1:08:41
back pain and all that stuff. So
1:08:43
I've grown to really appreciate my
1:08:46
boobs being small. At the same
1:08:48
time though, there's always this
1:08:52
like like, media and everything
1:08:54
is just so strong and,
1:08:56
like, ingrained in my head that, like,
1:08:59
my body doesn't look like it's supposed
1:09:01
to for a
1:09:03
woman. You know? Yeah.
1:09:05
I mean, this in another million ways
1:09:08
that they just will not let us win. I feel like
1:09:10
you're supposed to have big
1:09:12
breasts. Like, I feel like it struck me
1:09:14
when you were saying that, like, you were never gonna fill out,
1:09:16
like, shirts the right way or a dress. And I
1:09:18
remember at the time, like, going to American
1:09:20
Eagle, which was, like, the thing you had to have
1:09:23
when I was
1:09:23
in, you know, seven to eight and I have grayed out. Shirts.
1:09:25
And literally, not being able to fit into their
1:09:27
shirts.
1:09:28
Yeah. Say that fitting
1:09:31
rooms. Let's just go
1:09:33
there.
1:09:35
Fitting rooms at I still don't go in them.
1:09:37
Yes. I'm like, really I have a hard time.
1:09:39
I'll buy things and take them home and try
1:09:41
them on and then go back and return
1:09:42
them. Wait. Me too. Before
1:09:44
going into fitting room. Wait. Wait.
1:09:47
Just because of the trauma of
1:09:49
being I was also around the
1:09:51
time after puberty. I think I was so
1:09:54
ashamed of my boobs coming in. I was
1:09:56
also did have, like, childhood sexual abuse
1:09:58
with slap a trigger warning on there. You
1:10:00
too? Or yeah. So that's
1:10:03
another byproduct of them coming in
1:10:05
early. And then because
1:10:07
of all the shame from that, I just started
1:10:09
to eat and eat and, like, make
1:10:11
myself as, like, undesirable as
1:10:14
possible and, like, had this, like, fat shield.
1:10:17
So it's, like, the boobs, yes, still
1:10:19
only growing as I grew bigger. Like,
1:10:21
it only got
1:10:22
bigger. And then so not being able
1:10:24
to fit up top, but, like, in general,
1:10:26
it became, like, fitting rooms are like a
1:10:28
bad place for me, but definitely in puberty
1:10:30
when I wasn't, like, the weight wasn't the
1:10:32
problem. I wasn't fitting in, like, adult women
1:10:34
blouses. In in my dumb
1:10:37
small boob mine, I I was like,
1:10:39
oh, were, like, the shirts getting stuck
1:10:41
on you when you were trying to take them
1:10:42
off? Because they got caught on your boobs. Is that why
1:10:44
you don't go and changing her.
1:10:46
I'm an idiot. Got stuck in things.
1:10:51
It's not like I remember not being able
1:10:53
to get a shirt over my boobs. In
1:10:55
a challenging room and, like, opening my
1:10:57
eyes to see, like, the shirt
1:11:00
over the top half of my end, like, my
1:11:02
my breast just, like, bulging
1:11:05
at, like and I
1:11:06
yeah. Yeah. So you're not you're, like,
1:11:08
that's not an incorrect image.
1:11:11
Yeah. Yeah. Absolutely. And
1:11:13
then you I admire your
1:11:15
style so much of stocking your Instagram
1:11:17
today. And I was just like, yeah. You
1:11:20
did it. Like, you're, like, pulling off
1:11:22
the androgynous look and you're
1:11:24
rocking your boobs. And, like,
1:11:27
I gave up on that. Like, I'm still much
1:11:29
on journey with my boobs and my style.
1:11:31
Like, II1 of the first like, the
1:11:33
reason I made a Reddit account way back in
1:11:35
the day was so could post on there and figure
1:11:37
out how to dress androgynously. Like,
1:11:40
I just wanted I was gravitating
1:11:42
towards that style, but I felt
1:11:45
like I couldn't. Like, was talking about not
1:11:47
feeling like real am I a real woman if
1:11:49
I don't have
1:11:49
boobs? I was like, am I a real, like, lesbian?
1:11:52
What if I have big boobs? Like, I don't
1:11:54
-- Yes. -- know what to do here.
1:11:57
That's the trap. It's like, you grow
1:11:59
up with all these, like, ideals about, like, what women
1:12:01
are supposed to look like. And then you think,
1:12:03
like, you would think that becoming a lesbian
1:12:05
suddenly, like, or, like, queer woman, like,
1:12:07
or a queer person, like, just freeze
1:12:09
you from those norms, and then you're, like,
1:12:11
the wait. Is there a new set of of things
1:12:13
I didn't know about that now I don't fit
1:12:16
into? And by the way, I just wanna say in terms
1:12:18
of my Instagram, like, and
1:12:20
how I frequently, like, damn showing my
1:12:22
breasts. And first of all, you'll notice
1:12:24
that it's always nude because
1:12:27
I still kind of don't know how to do
1:12:29
it in clothes. Like, I either don't wear a bra
1:12:31
or I wear a binder. I I, like,
1:12:33
cannot figure out an in between because if just
1:12:35
wear regular
1:12:36
bra, then I just have too too much
1:12:40
breasts happening. You it's Rerelease
1:12:42
so hard. Yeah. It's still a good bra. Yeah.
1:12:44
No matter what's this? And I I know it's harder,
1:12:47
like, I've had friends who used
1:12:49
to wear, like, two bras. And the other
1:12:51
thing is how expensive bras
1:12:53
are. And I feel like that Is
1:12:55
that I don't know. I I think browse need to be,
1:12:57
like, government subsidized, like,
1:13:00
tax free. It can't even get tampons.
1:13:02
Right. It can't get tampons, but but it is
1:13:04
kind of insane how
1:13:08
how expensive they are and, like,
1:13:12
the fact that most people do wear them
1:13:14
every
1:13:15
day and I don't know. Well, for a
1:13:17
good bra for people with
1:13:19
larger
1:13:19
breasts, double that price. No.
1:13:22
I know. I've I've peaked the price
1:13:24
tag and I'm like, you have
1:13:26
got to be kidding and that's, like,
1:13:28
that's where I feel really lucky that I can
1:13:30
just wear one of those, you know, bralettes
1:13:33
or whatever or or go without
1:13:35
one. As I get, like, older and
1:13:37
more confident in doing that. But
1:13:40
it's
1:13:40
I I do make the choice like,
1:13:43
I'm I do make the choice to not wear
1:13:45
a bra, which I never thought I would be that person
1:13:47
because, like, I was I was, like, that's, like, a luxury
1:13:49
for small breasted people that I do not
1:13:51
have. Yeah. And then I just started Okay.
1:13:53
T. You mean, I'm still in that phase. Well, I
1:13:55
just started doing it, but the thing is, like, it
1:13:57
is it does feel for a long time
1:13:59
it still felt pornographic especially because I'm always
1:14:01
doing it wearing like a tank top and I would
1:14:04
go into work like this and I would be like, oh,
1:14:06
like, it yeah. It is like you have to be
1:14:08
ready for it to feel like little like, you
1:14:10
just have they're just out
1:14:11
there. Mhmm. Are are you ever not aware
1:14:13
that they're out there though? Because that that's my
1:14:15
thing. It's, like, unless like,
1:14:17
I'll go without a broad often in the winter
1:14:19
if I'm wearing like a sweatshirt or a sweater
1:14:22
and nobody can tell. But like
1:14:24
in the summer, I'm so aware that like everybody's
1:14:26
gonna know I'm not wearing a bra and I'm just attracting
1:14:28
pension. I am hyper
1:14:31
aware of that and I've tried to make it in my
1:14:33
head. Like, there's something in my head
1:14:35
where I feel like it's kind
1:14:37
of, like, queer and punk to, like, force
1:14:39
it not, like, force everybody to look at my breasts.
1:14:41
Like, that's I don't mean like that, but there's something
1:14:44
that feels, like, queer
1:14:46
to me to just be like, yes, my breasts
1:14:48
are here. Right. And, like, if you have a problem
1:14:50
with that, then that's on you. That's
1:14:53
But it's it's very
1:14:54
scary. It's so funny because I have
1:14:56
a a friend who's straight and
1:14:59
when when she was I think maybe
1:15:01
when she first moved to New York City. She
1:15:04
decided to, like, stop wearing bras because she
1:15:07
also had small breasts. And then one
1:15:09
of her boyfriends
1:15:10
was, like, Are you, like, a lesbian or something?
1:15:12
Just because she,
1:15:13
like, didn't wear a bra. See,
1:15:16
it is gay not to wear a bra. Yeah. Yeah.
1:15:18
I think so. And that's where
1:15:20
I rest. I'm like, that feels like it can be
1:15:22
part of my, like, queer identity. It's just,
1:15:24
like, not wearing a, like, insisting
1:15:27
not not wearing a bra, but but
1:15:29
it is a trip. It's like what you were saying
1:15:32
where you're like, do I am I not a
1:15:34
good lesbian now? Because I have these
1:15:37
these big it's like before III
1:15:39
didn't feel like a real girl because I
1:15:41
didn't have boobs and now I have them and I
1:15:45
I don't feel like a real lesbian or something.
1:15:47
I also have very small hands. So I felt like God
1:15:49
was playing
1:15:49
like a very cruel joke on me. Like, I'm
1:15:51
gonna make this like androgynous lesbian
1:15:54
with like huge boobs and
1:15:56
tiny hands, which
1:15:58
before I had sex with her, I I maybe I would
1:16:00
just grew up, like, knowing, like, hearing
1:16:02
big dick stuff. So I was like, these my fingers
1:16:04
are my dicks. Yeah. And they're small. And
1:16:07
I don't
1:16:07
know, like, how that's that seems not
1:16:09
fair. Yeah. Talk. Talk
1:16:11
about not fair. I will get, like, carpal
1:16:13
tunnel. My dicks
1:16:16
broken for two or three weeks
1:16:18
again.
1:16:19
I I got I got I got
1:16:21
statz discussing, but I had staff infection,
1:16:23
like, in my middle finger, a
1:16:26
couple years ago and, like, it my
1:16:28
finger blew up. I couldn't use it
1:16:30
for sex. So I but I was, like, this
1:16:32
is my, like, sex organ. Yeah.
1:16:34
Mhmm. Like, forgiving. You
1:16:36
know? Like and I just yeah.
1:16:38
It's like you're out of commish. Yeah. Yeah.
1:16:41
But back to breast, No. No bitch.
1:16:44
We can't we're about to veer. I know. I was
1:16:46
just thinking, like, anytime my wife and I are,
1:16:48
like, doing something with our hands or, like,
1:16:50
chopping stuff,
1:16:50
we're, like, be careful. Can't
1:16:53
risk anything happening to
1:16:55
those. It
1:16:58
is but nobody has ever people
1:17:01
have as I've said, when I got naked
1:17:03
have remarked, like, oh, your your boobs are bigger
1:17:05
than I thought or whatever, but nobody's been, like,
1:17:08
I'm not into
1:17:08
that.
1:17:09
Yeah. feel like people are generally excited
1:17:11
to see them. Boobs. Yeah.
1:17:14
I
1:17:14
just I also feel like I turned off by
1:17:16
them. I don't know. I feel like I this
1:17:18
is another thing I wanna talk about with lesbians
1:17:20
and breasts. I don't I feel like I don't
1:17:22
hear enough, like, queer people
1:17:24
talking about like, being into
1:17:27
breath is a thing. Yeah. And
1:17:29
maybe they're not, which is Yeah. -- with, like,
1:17:32
gender clearing more and more
1:17:34
The conversations around breasts, I'll say, with a lot of
1:17:36
queer friends
1:17:37
lately, have been more about top surgery. Right.
1:17:39
And and, like, also, I know for
1:17:42
me, just because of my insecurities about
1:17:44
my own breasts, I never want
1:17:46
to, like, fetishize or
1:17:50
think of, like, larger breasts as something to
1:17:52
be excited about because then that would make me feel
1:17:54
bad about myself for for not
1:17:56
having that. So I'm just like,
1:17:58
all bodies are beautiful and,
1:18:00
you know, every
1:18:02
every pair of breasts is different
1:18:04
and I'm just That's nice. And
1:18:06
they're all beautiful. No. I do I love that
1:18:08
and I feel like that's, like, that
1:18:10
is exciting and, like, that's what because
1:18:12
I'll and, like, breasts
1:18:15
are not Rerelease, like, you
1:18:17
know, there are women without breasts or, like,
1:18:19
people who don't identify as women who do have
1:18:21
breasts. It shouldn't be attached to all these things
1:18:23
at all. But it
1:18:26
is it it it ends up
1:18:28
feeling like this gray area
1:18:30
or something where I I don't know why
1:18:32
because I don't hear that people are into
1:18:34
them. I assume that
1:18:37
they're not and that it's somehow gonna
1:18:39
be
1:18:40
bad. Yeah.
1:18:40
You gotta talk to my girlfriend. It's like
1:18:42
she's such a trucker. When it
1:18:44
comes to
1:18:45
reality, she sounds Yeah.
1:18:47
Allie is more in -- Yeah. -- tubes and
1:18:49
tubes.
1:18:52
I love and and I really respond to that.
1:18:54
That's why I was like, that's nice with Rerelease. Because,
1:18:57
like, with Ally, it's like, who
1:18:59
are you? The way she talks about
1:19:00
breasts, like, we'll be watching TV and she'd like,
1:19:02
I'll be like, oh, that that girl's hot, she'd be like,
1:19:04
ugh, not big enough. Like, she well,
1:19:08
I will say, Cecilia did listen
1:19:11
to last week's podcast where
1:19:13
I called Kate Winslet's breast magnificent.
1:19:15
And she's like, do you wish do you wish my breasts
1:19:17
were more magnificent? Like Kate Winslet's because
1:19:20
my wife also has is
1:19:22
a little bit on the the smaller side like me.
1:19:24
And I'm like, no. Not at
1:19:27
all. Like, I can appreciate all
1:19:29
shapes and sizes of
1:19:30
breasts. But the word magnificent
1:19:33
comes to mind when I think of Kate Winslets.
1:19:36
I feel like we know everyone knows Kate
1:19:38
Winslet has one of the best racks in Hollywood.
1:19:40
Yeah. She has, like She has gorgeous.
1:19:43
Yeah. Whether you're into to breast or
1:19:45
not, like, that's just they're they are
1:19:47
she does have Masterpiece. Yeah. Yeah.
1:19:50
It I mean yeah. Yeah. But
1:19:53
it is and I I've dated all across the
1:19:55
the breast spectrum. Yeah. And it's never
1:19:57
I think also because I have such big boobs,
1:19:59
it's like it's never meant that much to me because it's
1:20:01
like I have them and you can if
1:20:03
you don't have them, I have them and if
1:20:06
you do, like, that's awesome. So It's that's awesome
1:20:08
too. So it doesn't really matter to
1:20:10
me, but I wish, anyway, it
1:20:13
is I did consider top surgery for a long
1:20:15
time because I felt so I was,
1:20:17
like, these breasts aren't, like,
1:20:20
gelling with my, like, self conception --
1:20:22
Yeah. -- or, like, what I think other
1:20:25
people conceive of me, but I always when
1:20:27
I was naked, I would look at
1:20:29
my body and actually
1:20:31
feel okay about it. Like, it my breasts
1:20:33
on their own never, like,
1:20:36
when I was naked, III always felt like
1:20:38
I like my body but I
1:20:40
somehow think nobody else will.
1:20:43
That's where I'm at. Yeah.
1:20:46
Probably a lot of people too. But -- Yeah.
1:20:48
-- I start to consider top surgery once
1:20:51
it became popular. But before that,
1:20:53
it was always breast reduction. Survey
1:20:56
is something I always wanted. It's
1:20:58
like the eighth grade. Yeah. And
1:21:01
but it's weird. Yeah. When I'll, like, look at myself
1:21:03
naked, I'll be like, this rocks, but it's
1:21:05
just like, I don't know, the attention
1:21:08
and just like the have it's like something you
1:21:10
always have to work around. The back
1:21:12
pain is real. I
1:21:15
just had to get one of them. I just had to drop,
1:21:17
like, a couple hundred dollars on these, like,
1:21:19
specific back rollers for the specific
1:21:22
pain
1:21:22
and, like, posture corrector.
1:21:24
Like, it's just, like, literally dropped that link.
1:21:27
Yeah. Yeah. But it is Sherp
1:21:29
is a good product. And
1:21:32
it's I think, like, the the it's,
1:21:34
like, about the clothes too. It's, like, because I
1:21:36
feel also, like, you know,
1:21:38
presentation is, like, so about your like, how you
1:21:40
dress or, like, how you want a dress, and then, like,
1:21:42
the it's the same thing as being in eighth grade and
1:21:44
not fitting into them in American Eagle or something.
1:21:47
It's, like, this way that I the
1:21:49
breasts aren't like gelling with the way that I
1:21:52
wanna look to the world when I'm in clothes.
1:21:54
When I'm naked, by myself, it's fine.
1:21:56
When I have to, like, put it on clothes and go out in the world,
1:21:58
suddenly,
1:21:58
like, these breasts aren't making sense. Yeah. It is
1:22:00
clothes. Well, yeah, I guess I haven't been thinking
1:22:02
about it much in COVID because I'm just, like,
1:22:05
brought us or an umbrella in sweats.
1:22:07
So maybe yeah. I've taken
1:22:09
a little, like, vacation from that stress.
1:22:12
It'll be back. It's,
1:22:14
like, the the one good thing about this time
1:22:16
is, like, no stress. Right.
1:22:20
Titled my new podcast. stress.
1:22:23
Breast dress on your back and in
1:22:25
your heart.
1:22:26
Yeah. I I was putting on a bras
1:22:28
for Zoom meetings, and I'm like, why?
1:22:30
It's not nobody can know
1:22:32
if I have a bra or
1:22:33
not. I'll see. I have one on right now
1:22:35
because of the ring
1:22:37
light and the boob sweat. The
1:22:41
under boob sweat. That's why I'm, like,
1:22:43
addicted to underwire. can't get in
1:22:45
my own home right
1:22:46
now.
1:22:47
I had
1:22:47
to swap it.
1:22:48
Yeah. That's very real. Do you put
1:22:50
deodorant under your boobs? Talk to me.
1:22:52
No. I well, I used to put I used to put
1:22:54
powder until I until the whole,
1:22:56
like, the the powder causes cancer
1:22:58
-- Yeah. Yeah. --
1:22:59
whatever thing. So I just
1:23:01
live with it. I just live with it.
1:23:03
I'll if I'm
1:23:04
right now, I have I talk
1:23:05
to you. You know that move?
1:23:08
I just did it, which I'm sorry
1:23:10
that I did that too, guys. But
1:23:12
but it is a lot about the talk. But
1:23:15
we were talking guys because I started this writer's
1:23:17
room on Zoom and none of us have met person
1:23:19
and somebody was like, oh, we should all talk about how
1:23:21
tall we are so that when we meet in person,
1:23:23
we're out. We're shocked that somebody's really tall,
1:23:25
really short. And then I
1:23:28
was like, I just have to say, like, my my height
1:23:30
will not, like, shock you. I'm, like,
1:23:32
very average height, but, like, it will shock you
1:23:34
because you can't see on Zoom that I have really big
1:23:37
boobs. And then I said that, and then I was like,
1:23:39
I don't think. Now
1:23:41
I feel like I've sexually harassed
1:23:42
all. Yeah. But I wasn't saying it to be like,
1:23:44
you guys, I have like a great rag. Just get ready
1:23:46
for it. I would say, because it's what
1:23:48
I'm anxious
1:23:49
about. I'm like, they're all gonna see me and be like, oh, didn't
1:23:51
know she had such huge, like, and now
1:23:53
it's like now I've also and now it's actually harassed you
1:23:55
all because of my anxiety. Do you
1:23:58
get like cat called when you're
1:24:00
out, like, do you notice that,
1:24:03
like, with with your androgyny like,
1:24:05
in the style clothes you
1:24:06
wear, does it not have an effect on
1:24:08
cat calling Does it not matter?
1:24:10
I will say and I have always said this
1:24:12
and I swear it's true. Men
1:24:15
are so much more into me now
1:24:17
than they were my entire life. With
1:24:20
the entourage. Like, also, I think, like,
1:24:23
like, men don't like to admit to it, but, like,
1:24:25
there is some like, men do fetishize, like,
1:24:28
a certain type of vascular and lesbian -- Yeah.
1:24:30
-- if you have breasts on top. Like, I think yeah.
1:24:32
I have it's so much weirder
1:24:34
and I get so much more male attention now,
1:24:37
which I it's it's
1:24:39
very confusing and
1:24:41
upsetting. No. But I the
1:24:44
the yeah.
1:24:46
It has
1:24:46
it has been I it's almost gotten worse. Interesting.
1:24:48
In my life. Man, maybe
1:24:51
I'll stay firm. I
1:24:53
will. I really don't wanna be as fem as
1:24:55
like present lot of the time because it's just
1:24:57
easier with the
1:24:58
boobs, which is sad.
1:25:00
Well, the LHV is a thing. Long
1:25:02
hair butch, Long hair butch, LHB0,
1:25:05
yeah. Yeah. Yeah. Passguest, Sarah
1:25:08
Hollandquist. Oh, yeah. Yeah.
1:25:10
Mollie Carney. If
1:25:11
you know Molly
1:25:11
-- All the carnies to my mom. Yeah.
1:25:13
-- well, okay. If we're talking
1:25:16
about breasts and and
1:25:18
being a lesbian or being with women,
1:25:21
having sex, boobs together,
1:25:24
the noise. You
1:25:26
mean the the boob queen? Yes. Yeah.
1:25:29
I don't think you've ever talked about it on this podcast,
1:25:31
and I think it's something that just needs to be called
1:25:33
out that it's, like, I
1:25:36
don't know. Every time I it's like I try not
1:25:38
to laugh because I don't want it to ruin it, but
1:25:40
then sometimes it's such a good job that
1:25:42
you have to laugh. And
1:25:44
it's like, And then sometimes it's like no matter,
1:25:46
like, how careful or,
1:25:50
like, conscious you are of it and trying not to
1:25:52
make it happen, like, I
1:25:54
was
1:25:54
like, how is this happening?
1:25:58
That's so funny. I'll try not to laugh at a boob
1:26:00
queen, but I will absolutely laugh
1:26:03
at a real queuing.
1:26:04
No. I would it's just gonna say, like, I nobody
1:26:07
talks about the boob queave. Yeah. Yeah.
1:26:09
And it's it's very real and
1:26:11
happens a lot and, like, it
1:26:13
is I you just have I think
1:26:15
you have to like like as with a regular queuing,
1:26:17
like, you have to laugh. I mean, it's
1:26:19
funny. If if you're not laughing, like, then we then
1:26:22
everyone knows that everyone's
1:26:23
lying. Yeah. I think and I think,
1:26:25
like, sex is bad honesty. Mhmm. And so we
1:26:27
should all just be laughing. Yeah. Because the
1:26:30
the bookkeeper, it sounds so much to
1:26:32
me, like, when you're a kid and you make those
1:26:34
farting noises with your
1:26:35
eyeballs, and that's exactly what
1:26:37
it sounds like.
1:26:40
Does that happen when you have sex with men?
1:26:42
Like, is there a body a body grief
1:26:44
that happens?
1:26:44
Yeah. Let's still remember.
1:26:47
I had sex with a guy once. And
1:26:49
we it didn't I was partial
1:26:51
to positions where it was, like, I was facing
1:26:54
away.
1:26:56
No. No. Yeah. Boom
1:26:59
on their chest. I mean, I haven't noticed
1:27:01
a difference in, like, how often it happens
1:27:04
based on, like, the
1:27:06
size of the person I'm with. So if I'm with someone
1:27:08
else with, like, smaller breasts, it still
1:27:10
happens. Large breasts still
1:27:12
happens. I would almost say
1:27:14
it happened more when I was with someone who had
1:27:16
smaller breasts. It was like the air there was more air
1:27:18
pockets or something. Yeah. And
1:27:23
it would yeah. It's just a It's
1:27:25
like building a fire, so you gotta make room for
1:27:27
the air. Sorry.
1:27:30
I just felt my first fire this last weekend.
1:27:33
Okay. So is everything Dyking? Is is not a
1:27:35
metaphor for everything? Absolutely. That's
1:27:37
so funny, Caroline, when you brought this up, you're like,
1:27:39
a question, boops together. And I
1:27:41
really thought you're gonna be like, is that a
1:27:43
thing, like, Like, do
1:27:45
you want a
1:27:46
boob,
1:27:46
so your nipples can't. Yeah.
1:27:50
There's there's special, like, big
1:27:52
boob sex that's happening
1:27:53
that That's what I think people aren't
1:27:55
talking about. That's
1:27:56
what I think, like, twelve year olds think lesbian
1:27:58
sex is like, just Dyking your
1:28:00
boot in your boot. Together.
1:28:02
No. When I was twelve, I thought it was somebody
1:28:04
pooping on a plate and someone else eating it because
1:28:06
that's what someone told
1:28:07
me. Oh, no. Come on.
1:28:09
Well, that's old. That's not
1:28:11
like Miranda July, like Yeah.
1:28:13
Yeah. It was. That's that's why that's my
1:28:15
favorite seat. A pooping into a bunch of people
1:28:17
coming back and forth forever with
1:28:20
the same poop as my favorite
1:28:22
scene. But because no. I think I was ten
1:28:24
years old and somebody told me that
1:28:27
that lesbians have sex by
1:28:29
one of them pooping on a plate and the other one eating
1:28:31
it. And even though it was only ten, I was, like, very
1:28:33
aware of the fact that my gym teacher was
1:28:35
a
1:28:35
Dyking. And I
1:28:37
would just, like, look at her mouth.
1:28:39
Like, yeah. I'd look at her mouth and look at, like,
1:28:41
the corners of her lips for, like, traces of
1:28:43
poop. Just, like, is
1:28:46
miss Tack having sex? I'm
1:28:48
gonna I'm gonna pass out
1:28:49
right now. Because
1:28:53
I hate that you made me picture
1:28:55
a dry, cracked kind of I
1:28:58
don't know where She was also the owner of the
1:29:00
balance. She was seventy six years
1:29:02
old. Too. That's what makes it even better. I'm like,
1:29:04
I need to know if my old Dyking
1:29:06
elementary school gym teacher is
1:29:09
fucking. Man.
1:29:12
On a plate. On a plate.
1:29:14
On that just into the mouth. I
1:29:17
know. I used to I used to actually have this
1:29:19
in my stand up when I first
1:29:21
started and, like,
1:29:23
tell that story. And I'd be like, which is not
1:29:25
true? We don't use
1:29:27
plates. It's
1:29:29
a waste of a bit of late. I didn't have
1:29:32
to wash it.
1:29:34
You're straight straight into the straight into
1:29:36
the mouth. Two girls, one cup style.
1:29:38
Yeah. Human sentiment. Wasn't
1:29:40
that into a cup? That was in a cup.
1:29:41
Yeah. Yeah. Human sentiment style. Yes.
1:29:44
Yes. Yes. Yes.
1:29:44
That's what lesbian sex is. Yeah. Human
1:29:47
centipede is actually the most accurate lesbian
1:29:49
born ever.
1:29:52
Yeah. And then
1:29:54
I also this incorporating boobs
1:29:56
into sex, like, from watching the l word
1:29:58
which was, like, my what I considered as
1:30:01
it younger person, like, the most accurate
1:30:03
like, how anytime they go down on
1:30:05
someone, they are reaching their breakeven
1:30:08
at the same
1:30:08
time. Yes.
1:30:09
My god. I just thought that was the only that
1:30:11
that's like how you eat someone out. It's like you also
1:30:13
have to, like, be having your hands.
1:30:15
Which is not I mean, it's
1:30:18
the if the heights work out, it can work
1:30:20
out, but it's not always it's not always
1:30:22
doesn't always feel
1:30:23
great. And
1:30:24
do you kind of stand
1:30:25
your hands a hand, at
1:30:27
least when you're a fin. Yeah. So
1:30:29
I might not
1:30:30
Dyking the whole time. Right?
1:30:33
Like Well, you need to How was that? But if
1:30:35
you're not, you know, on a plate. Okay?
1:30:37
It's on Rerelease. That's
1:30:41
so funny. I remember do trying to
1:30:43
do that. Because that's what I was working
1:30:45
off of just that
1:30:46
show. It's a lot of strain on your, like,
1:30:48
upper shoulders if you try and hold
1:30:51
that Yeah. The the I'm doing
1:30:53
it. You can't see on a podcast. Yeah. It's
1:30:55
it's a lot of it's it ends up being a lot of
1:30:57
strain. But I also yeah. I mean,
1:31:00
Lesbans are into or I
1:31:02
keep saying lesbians, which just mean is an
1:31:04
umbrella
1:31:05
term, but I'm
1:31:05
sure it's right for me to just say lesbians. Yeah.
1:31:07
We use Dyking for all deck
1:31:09
is my favorite word. So just you've come
1:31:12
to the right
1:31:12
place. I mean, deck's
1:31:14
like do like breast play
1:31:16
-- Yeah. -- which I've I swear
1:31:18
I had a point coming into that conversation.
1:31:21
But, oh, it was just like my
1:31:24
just about how I'm always scared that, like, people
1:31:26
don't want my breast
1:31:28
in the in the equation, but, like, they're into
1:31:30
people or into breast play. And then I always
1:31:33
felt weird about it for a while, but then because I have
1:31:35
I've Okay. This is, like, too far. But I have,
1:31:37
like, not just sensitive nipples.
1:31:39
Like, I relate to the world through
1:31:42
my nipples in a way that I thought. Was there too
1:31:44
early on? And I I'm always, like, you
1:31:46
know when you're, like, really nervous in your lip button, feeling
1:31:48
your nipples? Or, like, to me, like, everything gets
1:31:50
filtered through my nipples. Like, and I just thought that's
1:31:52
how everybody like, perceive the world.
1:31:55
Like, nerves happen through your nipples. Like, excitement
1:31:57
happens through your nipples. Like, for me, nipples and
1:31:59
nostalgia. Like, for some reason when you start playing
1:32:01
with my nipples, like, I get this weird nostalgic
1:32:03
feeling that sometimes, like, too hard to
1:32:05
handle. Oh my god. But anyway, I just,
1:32:07
like, I I always thought everybody was,
1:32:09
like, nickel centric emotionally, like, men and
1:32:11
women -- Yeah. -- and everything in between.
1:32:13
That was, like, part of the reason why I didn't end
1:32:15
up go like, looking further into breast production
1:32:18
because, like, I do experience
1:32:20
the world through my nipples too.
1:32:22
And I lose nipples sensitivity. There's
1:32:24
a big possibility you could lose that. And
1:32:27
I yeah. I definitely my
1:32:29
nips are too set like, I doing
1:32:31
standup even it was, like, I can't just
1:32:33
wear a t shirts because, like, the nerves
1:32:35
just be, like, hard nips the whole profanity.
1:32:38
As my nips are yeah.
1:32:40
What? They'll turn the world
1:32:42
through, which I love that you said.
1:32:45
I'm so happy to have this issue.
1:32:47
Somebody else. The nipple antennas. Yeah.
1:32:50
And I just thought that's how, like, every single
1:32:53
person with nipples, like, experienced the
1:32:55
world. I was, like, right, you have a feeling and and your
1:32:57
nipples feel it for and show
1:32:58
it.
1:32:58
I don't relate
1:32:59
to this at all. This is frustrating for
1:33:01
me. Maybe because our breasts
1:33:03
are, like, farther out in the world. They're Oh,
1:33:06
that's funny. So I feel like they're like
1:33:08
literal antennas. Yeah.
1:33:10
Yeah. And mine's just not picking up the
1:33:12
signal. I have a weak signal. I have a
1:33:14
weak lip signal. But
1:33:17
I I again can't remember what my whole point
1:33:19
was in everything, but I think it's just like how
1:33:21
I I'm still like working out how I conceive
1:33:23
of of of breast place as
1:33:26
my nipples are
1:33:27
so, like, emotionally sent not just sensitive
1:33:29
to the touch, but emotionally sensitive. That's
1:33:31
wild. I feel like I'm gonna go
1:33:33
down, like, of YouTube rabbit
1:33:35
or just Internet rabbit hole researching
1:33:38
this. Because nostalgia, that
1:33:40
could be interest in the middle
1:33:42
of sex. Yeah.
1:33:45
I I don't know if Michelle just the right
1:33:47
word, but I get this feeling sometimes,
1:33:49
like, right when somebody first starts
1:33:52
touching my nipples where I get this I
1:33:54
think it's like, you know when maybe
1:33:56
somebody touches your like, any
1:33:58
part of your body that's
1:34:00
like a sexual organ before you're like
1:34:03
totally aroused, and it kinda gives you
1:34:05
a feeling that's like -- Yeah. -- not
1:34:07
quieter. It's like something between it's, like, not
1:34:09
bad, but it's also not you're not, like, quite
1:34:11
in, like, an arousal yet. And, like,
1:34:13
for some reason, that space to me, like, feels
1:34:15
like it's like, wanting something
1:34:18
that, like, doesn't really
1:34:20
exist or, like, some kind of, like, I don't
1:34:22
know. I have no idea what I'm
1:34:24
talking about. I'm it just I know that
1:34:26
and then, like, I get worked up and then it's
1:34:28
regular arousal, but I feel like there's a little
1:34:30
space in between where it's, like, maybe
1:34:34
it's like about breastfeeding or something. I don't know
1:34:36
where where it comes
1:34:37
from, but there's like something happening
1:34:39
there. I I'm
1:34:42
interested if
1:34:42
any listeners have this experience now.
1:34:45
Right
1:34:45
now, I wanna know I wasn't breastfed, so maybe,
1:34:48
again, this is where I lost
1:34:50
Oh my god. I just found out I was breastfed
1:34:52
until I was, like, past two. What?
1:34:56
You just found
1:34:57
out? I I just my mom told me I had no idea
1:34:59
getting on that a lot. That long? That
1:35:01
long. Yeah. I was or maybe
1:35:03
maybe it was even three it was, like, something that
1:35:05
shocked me and I just put it away
1:35:07
like, like,
1:35:08
I was like, let's move on. It's a thrifty move.
1:35:10
You say? Yeah. Immigrant
1:35:12
parents trying to -- Yep. -- stretch a
1:35:14
dollar. That's probably
1:35:17
it, honestly.
1:35:19
I mean, you know, if they're if they're still
1:35:21
producing, that's the other thing about
1:35:23
breast too that I think it's
1:35:25
so complex. Being a woman with these
1:35:27
things because it's like they're sexual, but
1:35:30
then they're also like so tied to motherhood,
1:35:32
and then they're also tied to like
1:35:34
death in cancer in a way
1:35:37
that's so in our face and
1:35:39
we're so everybody knows
1:35:41
somebody who has had it or
1:35:44
passed away from it and, like, my
1:35:47
grandmother had it twice and survived
1:35:49
both times, but it was always like a thing in my family
1:35:51
of, like, this fear from
1:35:53
my mom and my aunts and just being
1:35:56
very aware of
1:35:58
that. So Yeah.
1:36:01
I don't know. I don't really have a point
1:36:03
there. It's just like booths are so fucking complicated
1:36:05
a lot. Very complicated. And I
1:36:07
have very as I learned the Pascope
1:36:09
of
1:36:09
years. I had very fibrous breasts -- Mhmm.
1:36:11
-- which I think is something also that happens
1:36:14
when they're just bigger
1:36:14
and so, like, we had a moment
1:36:17
where my my girlfriend was, like, feeling
1:36:19
me up and was like, oh my god, there's a lump.
1:36:21
And then I went to the like, I went to and
1:36:24
there was indeed a lump. That
1:36:26
was very hard. And then I went to the doctor
1:36:28
and they, you know, did x rays.
1:36:30
And they were like, no, you just have really fibrous breasts
1:36:32
and you probably drink too much caffeine and, like,
1:36:34
they'll get Yeah. And I
1:36:37
was like, well, I'm I'm not gonna stop drinking
1:36:39
caffeine, so I guess I'll just have fibrous
1:36:41
breasts -- Yeah. -- with that fear. My
1:36:45
career depends on, I guess, my fibrous
1:36:47
breast at this point. Yeah. It's
1:36:51
a it's a it's yeah. It's part of
1:36:53
it's it's a hazard. Of of my
1:36:55
job that I have to have fibrous
1:36:57
breasts. Yeah. And I know, like,
1:36:59
Melody, you brought up just
1:37:01
like how a lot of your conversations with friends and
1:37:03
stuff are around, like, top surgery and
1:37:05
all this Dysportia for
1:37:08
queer people around there. Breast
1:37:11
and because I I don't
1:37:13
experience dysphoria, but I
1:37:15
I can't even imagine how
1:37:17
complicated that is because it's
1:37:19
like This
1:37:21
is a horrible analogy, but I was, like,
1:37:23
briefly a PhD student, and
1:37:26
I was so miserable And I was,
1:37:28
like, I can't tell if I'm, like, Rerelease,
1:37:30
miserable or if I
1:37:32
need to get out. Like yeah.
1:37:35
Because, like, everybody's miserable in this so
1:37:37
so it's, like, everybody is uncomfortable
1:37:39
with their their breasts. Everybody seems
1:37:42
to like, unless your Kate wins, like, I don't know.
1:37:44
Even she answers, like, issues,
1:37:46
but like, so many people have so many
1:37:48
complicated feelings around it or, like,
1:37:51
have had points where they've looked at their bodies
1:37:53
and thought and, like, there's so much that
1:37:56
informs that feeds into it.
1:37:58
And I've talked to people
1:38:00
who are, like,
1:38:02
struggling with. Like, I I think I should have
1:38:04
top surgery, but I can't tell, like,
1:38:07
what is, like,
1:38:09
what is normal? Like, if if I
1:38:11
don't want people touching my breasts, does that mean
1:38:13
I shouldn't have them? Or does that mean,
1:38:15
like, I can still have
1:38:17
them, but just tell people don't
1:38:19
touch them. You know? Like, what's -- Yeah.
1:38:22
-- to navigate all that just adds
1:38:24
such a Well, obviously,
1:38:26
there just is no normal and because
1:38:28
top surgery is, like, relatively new
1:38:31
and, like, becoming relatively more common
1:38:33
that it now has appeared as an option.
1:38:35
And, like, I think, for
1:38:37
a long time, my especially when
1:38:40
I got my very first job as a writer and I
1:38:42
on TV and I was actually gonna be making
1:38:44
some money. I was like, okay, I'm
1:38:46
saving up for my 25th birthday.
1:38:49
I'm gonna get top surgery for myself. And
1:38:51
then by the time I got to my twenty fifth birthday,
1:38:53
I was okay
1:38:56
about my breasts. And I but it
1:38:58
it was I was I took that very seriously
1:39:00
and it felt like that would be kind of the end
1:39:02
of my problems and, like, my
1:39:05
dysphoria and, like, feeling like
1:39:07
if I and, like, because I was wearing a binder and binders
1:39:09
are, like, really I still wear one sometimes.
1:39:12
They really hurt the shit out of your back. Mhmm.
1:39:14
Really, like, when you wear or at least
1:39:16
they do for me, and it's hard with sizing
1:39:19
too because sometimes,
1:39:21
like, the the bigger the binders made for
1:39:23
bigger breasted women are also just made like, larger
1:39:26
or bigger breasted people
1:39:28
are also made for, like, larger people.
1:39:30
And so, like, I would have to get smaller
1:39:32
ones And then, like, I'd really be, like,
1:39:35
extra stuffed in, and it really
1:39:37
hurt. And I was, like, I can have a surgery
1:39:39
that takes away this, like, bodily
1:39:41
pain I'm in and this emotional pain I'm
1:39:43
in. Right. And then just, like,
1:39:46
just speaking for myself and my journey,
1:39:48
like, I became more okay with my
1:39:50
breath. So I and, hey, maybe in
1:39:52
five years, I will get tub surgery. But -- Right. -- where
1:39:54
I am right now, it feels okay, but I think,
1:39:56
like, everybody's different and if that's
1:39:58
the choice that you make like it. It's a serious surgery
1:40:01
and if you are making that
1:40:02
choice, it it's because it feels like the
1:40:04
right choice for you. Yeah. I mean, everybody
1:40:06
I know who has had it is
1:40:09
so happy with the fact, like,
1:40:11
I have yet to meet someone
1:40:13
who regrets getting
1:40:16
top surgery, but I think that's because
1:40:18
there's so much information out there and resources
1:40:20
and people are connecting and finding support.
1:40:23
And going through all the things they need to
1:40:25
go through before making such a big
1:40:27
decision. had like a panic attack
1:40:29
about my breast and, like, sort of my gender
1:40:31
identity as a whole one day when I was Dyking,
1:40:33
and I had to, like, pull over. And the way that I
1:40:35
got through was was this plan of, like,
1:40:38
gonna get top surgery when I'm twenty
1:40:39
five.
1:40:40
Yeah. So I'm working towards that. And then
1:40:42
I was able to relax because I had this
1:40:44
goal in mind, and then it was almost like through
1:40:46
knowing there was this option and being
1:40:48
able to relax about it,
1:40:50
I almost then just kind of became
1:40:52
more comfortable with myself. So I just
1:40:54
think that, like, as a whole, it is,
1:40:56
like, just knowing you can have
1:40:58
tops or that's kind of enough to
1:41:00
open you up in different way. And then, also,
1:41:03
it's there if you really do want it. And I just I
1:41:05
couldn't be happier that that's, like,
1:41:07
a realistic
1:41:08
goal. Like, a realistic thing that
1:41:10
people can have.
1:41:11
Yeah. No.
1:41:11
That's such a good point, an idea
1:41:13
to just know, like, know
1:41:15
that it's out there
1:41:16
and takes
1:41:17
pressure. Off of your personal
1:41:21
journey. Breasts. Can't live
1:41:23
with them? Can't live without them. Amen.
1:41:27
Amen. guess
1:41:29
that's the final word then. That's the
1:41:31
final word on breasts,
1:41:35
Michelle, thank you so much for this
1:41:37
conversation. Where can people
1:41:39
follow you on social media on
1:41:42
both Instagram and Twitter? I
1:41:44
am at mister Michelle
1:41:47
underscore and that's mister spelled
1:41:49
out, MISTERMICHELLE
1:41:53
underscore at the
1:41:54
end. Alright.
1:41:55
Perfect. Well, thanks, Michelle. Yeah. Thank
1:41:58
you so much for diking out today about
1:42:00
breasts. Thank
1:42:01
you for
1:42:01
Dyking we can't wait to see all of your projects
1:42:04
that I'm most definitely gonna be watching.
1:42:06
Yeah. Definitely. I got stars for
1:42:10
The Nexium documentary
1:42:12
will be trying to binge as much
1:42:14
of Vida as possible. Yes.
1:42:17
You'll see my breasts. Oh, Hell yeah.
1:42:21
You're like, what is going on with
1:42:23
them? Is she having day travel
1:42:25
food through her restaurant now?
1:42:31
And If
1:42:36
you want to hear more from Michelle,
1:42:38
she did stick around to answer our queer
1:42:41
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1:42:44
So if you're a patron look out for
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1:42:55
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1:42:57
the episode. Even more
1:42:58
fun. I think sometimes people would appreciate it. Just
1:43:01
got more and more fun. Was
1:43:02
that where I talked about my pubes? Yeah.
1:43:05
We wasn't
1:43:07
as rapid fire this one. We just
1:43:09
kept the conversation
1:43:11
flowing.
1:43:11
Yep. Yep. Good time. Down there.
1:43:15
Well, let's get to our listener
1:43:17
question for this week. Our last one
1:43:20
of twenty twenty. Here we go.
1:43:22
I'm pretty sure I'm in love with my best friend
1:43:24
in
1:43:25
roommate. Okay. So good.
1:43:27
Twenty twenty chaos right here. Yeah.
1:43:31
We moved in together without knowing each other
1:43:33
and immediately became inseparable. We
1:43:36
get along in every single way and we spend
1:43:38
every minute together. There's been a lot
1:43:40
of interactions that feel like flirting, but
1:43:42
I don't really know She's the best friend
1:43:44
I've had in a very long time, and I'm so
1:43:46
afraid to damage slash lose the friendship
1:43:48
if I tell her how I feel. And I genuinely
1:43:51
can't tell if she reciprocates the feelings
1:43:53
or if it's just how she is as a friend
1:43:55
since I don't know her prior to being roommates.
1:43:58
We've both been trying to date during quarantine
1:44:01
and she has just entered a new relationship,
1:44:03
but it's hard for me to invest myself in anyone
1:44:05
else when I know I have these feelings.
1:44:08
Not sure if it's confusing gay friendship
1:44:10
stuff or if I should just express how I'm feeling
1:44:13
to
1:44:13
her. My gut instinct
1:44:14
after hearing this is don't. Don't do anything.
1:44:17
Is she especially If she's she's seeing
1:44:18
someone now, she's seeing someone, but
1:44:21
that is tough. If you're two
1:44:23
queer women living together and you're vibing,
1:44:26
really hard. Maybe there is something there.
1:44:28
I just think it's a bad idea to date
1:44:30
your
1:44:30
roommate.
1:44:31
It sounds messy. This person's already
1:44:33
started dating someone new. Yeah.
1:44:35
That makes a decision to not do anything
1:44:37
even easier. And
1:44:40
I know it's hard, like, if you have
1:44:42
feelings for her so you don't wanna have
1:44:45
start something with someone else. But,
1:44:47
like, if you have the opportunity
1:44:49
to start something with someone else, it's
1:44:51
not like your
1:44:53
roommate is gonna be out of your life. Like, if it's
1:44:55
meant to be between you and the roommate, then
1:44:58
eventually it would happen because that
1:45:00
would mean that the
1:45:02
person she's seeing and the person
1:45:04
that you would hypothetically be seeing
1:45:06
wouldn't be as good as you two seeing each
1:45:09
other if it's meant to
1:45:10
be. So don't be afraid to see
1:45:12
someone else. Something would have happened already
1:45:15
at this point, you think? You know, if
1:45:17
they were single through quarantine and
1:45:20
you know, this person if the feelings were
1:45:22
reciprocated, this person wouldn't be so
1:45:24
excited about their new relationship. And
1:45:27
it's kinda like you had all of quarantine
1:45:29
to maybe make a move, and it's
1:45:32
maybe a bad idea too once they're already.
1:45:35
Dating someone
1:45:35
else. Yeah. And you also don't wanna ruin
1:45:37
your living situation in the middle of a global
1:45:40
pandemic. I was gonna say, you know, it
1:45:42
might not necessarily mean that this person
1:45:44
didn't have feelings. It could just
1:45:46
mean that they don't wanna fuck up
1:45:48
their living
1:45:49
situation. They don't wanna cross that line,
1:45:51
and that's like
1:45:52
a I've been in that position.
1:45:53
Yeah. I think a bunch of us have.
1:45:56
It's I've
1:45:58
been in love with several past roommates.
1:46:00
And not done a thing
1:46:02
because finding
1:46:05
a good living situation in a major
1:46:07
city is more important to
1:46:09
me. And I wasn't even in a
1:46:11
pandemic. Try dating other people
1:46:14
--
1:46:14
Please. -- and don't worry
1:46:16
about, like, missing out on the love of your life
1:46:18
because if it's meant to be it'll happen
1:46:21
and
1:46:21
it'll be more obvious. It won't
1:46:23
be something that you have to wonder
1:46:25
like, oh, I don't know. Is it Yes.
1:46:28
Like, it'll be super obvious if
1:46:30
you two are both into each other
1:46:32
at the same
1:46:32
time. And you'll be able to go on dates,
1:46:35
you know, and meet up from different
1:46:37
locations. And you'll, you
1:46:39
know, after that date, get to run home and
1:46:41
be excited without a wall
1:46:44
separating you in that
1:46:44
person. And it'll it's just a
1:46:46
good idea to not get
1:46:48
your roommate. I'm actually stressed out now.
1:46:51
You know? What's funny
1:46:54
is that Cecilia's ex wife
1:46:56
was her
1:46:56
roommate.
1:46:57
Oh, really? And actually, maybe
1:47:00
this I don't know if this is a good or
1:47:02
a bad story to tell. They were roommates
1:47:04
and her her ex was
1:47:07
was dating a guy actually
1:47:09
for the first like,
1:47:11
for a big chunk of the first time they were living together, and
1:47:13
they would, like, hang out the three of them.
1:47:16
And then I I
1:47:19
don't know, like, the order of things, but eventually
1:47:22
her ex broke up with the guy and then stuff
1:47:24
happened between her and Cecilia.
1:47:27
So their whole relationship started with
1:47:29
them, like, living together. Like, they never
1:47:31
-- Oh, wow. -- and ended in divorce.
1:47:33
So, you know, just don't do
1:47:34
it. That's good. Exactly. That.
1:47:37
Very
1:47:37
that. Very that.
1:47:40
Well,
1:47:40
best of luck to you, listeners, and I hope
1:47:43
you are able to find someone.
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