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Well. Hey, this is editor Stats Alive. I'm Ed Setzer,
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to think about things, and that it would be the case
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of today. So AJ Swoboda
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is going to be our guest today.
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He's an associate professor of Bible
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and theology at Bushnell University,
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lead mentor for the Doctor of Ministry
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program on Spiritual Formation and soul
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here at Friends University. Uh,
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that's Quakers, by the way. Kids, if you don't know what
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friends University is and which is kind
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of cool, maybe we'll talk about that. He's the author
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of many books, including The Gift of Thorns After
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Doubt, which we've logged a bit about, I think,
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on the program and the award winning Subversive
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Sabbath. He hosts Slow
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Theology podcast with Ninja
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Gupta, and he writes, he
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widely read low level theologian
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Substack. All that, by the way, all the books, his
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bio, the Substack, Substack
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podcast are all linked at editor. Stitcher
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Live.com. So
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super to have you on RJ and appreciate it.
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You know, we're both on the West Coast and as we said before,
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we came on the West Coast is the best coast. But
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thanks for joining us here on Ed Stetson Live editor.
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It's always a gift to get to talk
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to you and thank you for the hard work that you do to serve the
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church.
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Oh, you're very, very kind. Well, let's talk about
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hard work. You put hard work into this book
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and then your publisher did
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you wrong. Let me tell you why. Your publisher did you wrong. I
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don't know, I think it's just funny. I think
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it's funny. The title. So the title is.
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I don't know if maybe your title
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was How to Live Your Best Life.
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You might sell more books than if the title
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was The Gift of Thorns.
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Again, the full title of the book is The Gift of Thorns
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Jesus, the flesh, and
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the War for Our Wants. And yet I think
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most of the books about desire. So we'll
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talk about that. But let's start with the
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the thorns, because, I mean, even as I, as
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I kind of engage your book, I was kind of surprised at
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how, how, how much of
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a theme that is in, I guess. And that's
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one of the things I like is when books sort of like surprise me.
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So, so convince us
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why thorns matter, and then
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I'll, I'll encourage people to get the book The Gift of Thorns.
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But why? Why that title?
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Yeah, well, you'd be surprised to know this as
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a as a fellow writer. This is the first
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time. This is my 11th book. First
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time I've written a book in which my
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proposed title was the actual title of
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that the publisher received. So a
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rare moment of victory in the Swoboda household
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where that.
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Is unusual.
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Actually mattered. Yeah. Uh,
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yeah. So so, uh, it actually,
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uh, goes back to,
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uh, the, the beautiful,
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um, and inspired storyline of the Bible,
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uh, the very beginning, uh,
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of our origin story that goes back to
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Genesis one and two. Humans are
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deceived by the serpent. In Genesis three,
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God tells the man that
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he would turn his attention towards
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his work. He would work the ground and it would
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produce thorns and thistles
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for him. And while
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that that theme of thorns and thistles starts
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almost in at the beginning
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of the Bible, it's it's, oddly enough,
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it's actually a theme that comes up
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over and over and over and over
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again and culminates. And I don't want to ruin it for the
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reader, but culminates in a very beautiful
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moment in the storyline of the Bible. Um,
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and so the big idea is that thorns
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represent a world where we do not get
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everything that we want, and that God has
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created as a result of our rebellion.
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Um, uh, that God
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allows us to experience frustration,
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uh, what Paul calls groaning. And then
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in the end, not getting what
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we want is actually the the greatest
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gift from our creator.
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Mhm. Mhm.
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Again did I mention there's.
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An old.
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There's an old.
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Proverb. There's an old Persian
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proverb that says um
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if, if you want the rose you
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must be willing to receive the thorn.
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And that actually was the a
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proverb that sort of stuck with me as I wrote
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this, that in order for
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us to experience the
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full life of Christ and
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full, you know, to be sanctified,
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to be made holy, we must
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embrace the fact
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that, um, God
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tells us no about things, that God
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limits our lives. He doesn't give us everything
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we want, and that that is a a radical
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gift.
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Hmm. Addressed Hilbert as our guests were talking
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about his new book, The Gift of Thorns Jesus, the
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flesh, and the War for Our Wants. I think it's
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out like two months. So it is new.
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Okay, so, um, thorns.
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And yet a big theme kind of
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known as woven throughout the book is
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how it relates to kind of
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think about desire and how we think about desire
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from maybe a biblical or theological
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point of view, our desires. Good,
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bad. How do you how do you describe them? Walk
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us through some of what you tell us. Tell us.
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Yes, yes. Good
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love all of it. Yeah,
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yeah. So on a on a like just a
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sheer Bible theology level. Um,
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the, the paradigm of, of,
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of Scripture, you know, we begin
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our story begins with. Um,
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all good designers. I mean, the first.
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The first man and the woman in the Eden,
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in the divine space of Eden, uh,
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had a desire for, uh, relationship.
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In fact, Adam longs for a
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partner. This deep sense of
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longing for a relationship
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with the human. Uh, they are
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given, uh, you know, permission
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to name the animals whatever they so desire.
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Uh, whatever Adam desires, um, uh,
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you know, desire for food, for relationship
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with God. They these desires
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are, uh, inextricably
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woven into human
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anthropology. Who humans are. What what a
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human is. Um, this is one of the unique
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features of a human. And I would even argue it's part
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of the Imago Day feature of the humans
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is that we have a unique capacity
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for longing that other creatures
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do not. And of course,
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everything is shattered immediately
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upon the human rebellion.
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They are banished. And even
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in Hebrew, the word for banished is
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the same Hebrew word for divorce.
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It's the idea of being not only
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separated geographically from God, but
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being separated relationally from God
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to the east of Eden. And
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I define actually, this is Paul's word
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for flesh, um, that he utilizes
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quite regularly in the New Testament letters.
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Um, as I define flesh as human
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desire separated from the
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presence of God, because humans continue to
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have desire after the Garden of Eden. It
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just begins to become perverted, um,
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self-centered. It becomes twisted,
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toxic, so on and so forth. So
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many of our desires are profoundly good.
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I mean, I desire to have a good relationship
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with my son. I desire to my dog
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is sitting right here. I want to be a good dog owner. Um,
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I desire to be sanctified in the Holy
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Spirit. And yet. And
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I am a I have a wild
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array of desires that I can tell you are
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not are not good. In our culture. We would
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say you do you. And my problem with you do
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you is, you know, I'm very different on Monday mornings
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than I am Friday nights, and the things that I want in those
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two periods is very different. So the question is,
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well, if I'm supposed to do me, which me am I supposed
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to do? Um, and that I
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need discernment in that because some of my desires,
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if I actually did them, Ed would destroy
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my family. Um,
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and some of my desires, if I did them, would lead
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to life, resurrection, power, grace,
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mercy, and the sought. So
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I here's what that book the book is about
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is. It's about learning the difference between what
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desires God has given to us and
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what desires desperately need to be
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crucified on the cross with Jesus.
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You know.
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And that's a huge distinction for sure. And you actually
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get a kind of start in a way that might
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be, I don't know, maybe a little surprising. You talk
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about the origins of
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desire itself. And um,
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and since gods Desire. So
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talk to us a little bit about where, how how that
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roots the beginning of the conversation.
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Yeah. Well, yeah. The first
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chapter is, um, is
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just a whole chapter on how
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the Bible goes out of its way.
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I mean, it makes it does all
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of this stuff to make it clear
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that the world was not
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created by a robot or ChatGPT.
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Um, the world was created by
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a being who actually
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wanted it. And,
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you know, because ultimately there's a
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obviously huge theological debate around this. Did
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God have to create? Did
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God? Was God forced to or compelled
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to or oppressed to or required
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to? And the answer is, of course, no
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he didn't. He created freely. God can only
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create freely. Um, and so
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why would he create? Well, um, we're told
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multiple times that before the creation of the world,
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uh, that God loved, that God loved. God is
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love. I I'm convinced and
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I write in the book that that God created
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out of sheer desire that God is a desiring
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being who wanted
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us. Which is a remarkable good news.
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I mean, I have a friend who is, um,
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the result of, um, an
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evil, horrible sexual trauma,
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um, before their birth and came to find that they
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were an unwanted child. And
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when she encountered
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the gospel and realized that God wanted
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her and God wants her.
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Uh, that revolutionized her life. Um,
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for those of us who are unwanted, for
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those of us that are unwanted, um, the
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idea that God wants us is
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mind blowing. But there's all this stuff
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in the Bible at about God's desire.
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So, for example, in
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Genesis six, um, there's
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this little moment when God says to himself
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that he will not, uh, that
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that he, his spirit will,
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you know, he can't put up with all this evil anymore,
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right? He makes this comment about how it's just
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gotten so evil. Um, and
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the funny thing about that comment is that there
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is no human present. Who could have known that?
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So it is as theologians. Bible
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scholars call that divine self-talk.
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God is actually talking to himself. He's having
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a it's his inner thoughts, his desires,
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and the Bible is naming it. Why
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would the Bible do this? Because
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clearly the Bible doesn't just want us
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to know God. The Bible wants
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us to know God's desires. And
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in the ancient world, many gods actually didn't
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tell people what they wanted because
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they wanted to keep control over them. It's kind of manipulative.
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If you don't tell them, then they have to constantly live in fear.
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Well, you have 613 commandments in the
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Old Testament. You can
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at least this God in the Bible,
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whether you love them or not. This God
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is always making his will known
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what he wants. So this is
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not only God who has desire. This
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is a God who wants us to know his desire.
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Um, it's almost like he wants to be known.
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Hmm. Hmm.
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We're going to continue our conversation in just a moment with
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A.J. Swoboda. We're going to talk about his
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book desires, uh, what that
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means, thorns and how they relate. And we're going to take
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your calls. Let me remind you that our phone
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number, I think it's a fascinating discussion. I imagine people going
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to ask about, you know, how they wrestle with desires.
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What how do they know what's the right desire? How do they discern the
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desires of their heart? It's (877) 548-3675.
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Again, we're talking about the gift of thorns. Jesus
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to flesh in the war on our wants. 8775483.
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675. Hey!
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We're back. Headsets are live. During the break, I learned
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that I was mispronouncing AJ's name,
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so that's so. That's awesome. I let you know that Karen,
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my producer, actually sent me the correct
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pronunciation. Uh, so because she's
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doing her job. But but I have heard,
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like, when I was at Wheaton College, I mean, AJ, you had that
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book out about doubt and people were
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talking about and I heard what it's Swoboda,
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but it's Swoboda or so.
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Right. I mean, how do you and that just.
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A little, just a little kind of give you a little, little
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cool thing, please. Uh, it means in, in
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Russian or Slavic, uh, languages,
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it means freedom. So if you ever
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watch at the very end of the movie Braveheart,
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when William Wallace screams freedom,
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if you watch the Russian version, he
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screams my last name. So it's,
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uh, he screams very loudly. So a.
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Bonus. What? Bo. Okay. All right, I
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learned this, and this is check. Your name is Czech.
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So, you know, the Czech Republic now
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has changed its name to Czechia, so it's hard for us to take
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the name seriously. Czechia. But I
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don't know. You shouldn't give your country a nickname, but that's like
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the official name now, so I'm a little traumatized
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by that. But anyway, probably more information than anybody
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wants to know. We're talking to a Swoboda.
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Swoboda, not Swoboda, uh,
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about the gift of thorns, Jesus, the
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flesh and the war for our
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wants. And and we kind of framed out a little
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bit, you know, where thorns, where thorns come in,
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what desires are, how they fit. We're taking your
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calls as well. (877) 548-3675.
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Because one of the things you know, we see AJ is
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I mean, throughout the Bible, there's clearly
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a war about wants and desires.
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The very thing I want to do I just don't do. I do the things I
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don't want to do and more. So
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and again, this is a key theme in
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the book, is what it looks like to kind of to
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kind of address, to kind of walk through
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those things and, and
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self denials, a pretty common theme
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that you talk about in the book. So, so
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how do we rightly order
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our desires and
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how do we how do we even think about desires, maybe to get
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there.
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Yeah. Well, so so the the
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language that you just used, um,
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about rightly ordering our
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desires is actually a language that was
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adopted very early on
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in the earliest Christian community
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by, um, who has been called
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the Apostle of Desire, Saint Augustine.
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Um Augustine's writings. This
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is a core theme of Augustine's writings. And in fact,
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when you read his writings through the lens of desire,
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you can tell this is pretty much just his,
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his, his, his
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topic. I mean, he is he is
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a man clearly beset with,
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um, unwanted sexual desires. He's
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a man who is frustrated at
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times that his baptism did
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not cause all of his flesh to
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just annihilate and vaporize
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into the air. He. This is one
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of his core themes as
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the idea of ordering one's
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desires. We tend to
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think that the
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that everything is about doing
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good desires and not
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doing evil desires. And certainly that is
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part of this. Part of this is
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what we would what Paul would say, crucifying
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the flesh. Um,
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and, and yet at the same time, learning to
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do the desires that God would want,
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which we would call the kingdom of God.
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Uh, Dallas Willard's description of the Kingdom
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of God is the effective range of God's
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will, which basically means this whenever
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we do what God wants, the kingdom
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comes. So we yes, that's
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part of this, but another part of this.
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Is ordering our desires in such
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a way that we opt to do
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the God thing over the good thing.
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So let me let me explain what I mean by that. Let me tell
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you about my biggest struggle with jealousy.
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This is my biggest envy. Biggest
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envy. I lose sleep over it,
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I. It frustrates me.
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I get mad about it. In
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my neighborhood where I live, here in Oregon,
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I go for an evening run most
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evenings. And when I do.
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Um, my neighbors either during the day. In
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the evening, my neighbors and my neighborhood will
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leave their garage doors open. And
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this is what kills me is not how much stuff
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they have, it's that their garages are organized.
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Oh, totally. I hate those.
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Because I know my garage and it is uncertified.
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And there it is. The chaos, the
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sanctified realm of the chaotic
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creation. Leviathan lives in there.
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And, um, when I see
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my neighbor's garage, it's the wicked of
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the wick. It's the envy of the wicked
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garage. I
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get really mad because I don't have time
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right now to organize my garage. I'm telling you, I'm
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serious. It it just it destroys
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me. You know what I've had to do? I've
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had to choose at this season of my life, at 43
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years old just now, doing my
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swan dive into my midlife crisis, I have
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had to choose. That
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in this season of my life, I'm not going to
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have an organized garage, but
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I am going to be a present father. And
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that I can't at this season. There's going to come a point
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when I'm going to get to organize a garage and
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I'll get to do that, but right now. I'm
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choosing to be a good dad. And
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this is for me, the work of the spirit.
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Because, uh, it
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is tempting to want to to do
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the garage and neglect things that really matter.
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How ironic and sad would it be
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if I had an organized garage
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and a neglected son? I
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think the work of the spirit in our lives
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is not just to invite
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us to do what God wants.
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It's invite us to do what God wants, not
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only over evil things, but over
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other alternative good things. And
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so ordering our desserts, that's what I have a whole
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chapter called Ordering Desires. We
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have to address what is the most
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important stuff for us to to desire.
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Mm.
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Yeah. I'm I'm I'm trying
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to decide if I should be clever and point out that there are there
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are other options. You could be a good father and
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clean your garage. But I don't want to add shame
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to you.
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I'd appreciate it at this stage to not
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complicate things, but the reality is, I
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mean, you you get the point. We all have a complicated.
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No, no, we were making choices, right? So every day
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we have to make choices of things that
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that we have to say let, let go of in some
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ways. And I have a desire to have a clean garage.
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I have I have the want of it, but not the
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will of it. So I get that. That's right. Um,
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and, you know, we just move. So maybe I have an excuse, but you've
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lived there. How many years in your garage is still a disaster?
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Yeah. Let's move on to the next topic.
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Okay. Next topic. Okay. Fair enough, fair enough, fair enough. Next.
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Next question. So, um, so,
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so sorry. Um.
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All right, so let me remind. Remind our folks who
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that they can call in because we got some good calls lined up
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as well. Uh, and I'll jump to them right in a moment.
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But (877) 548-3675.
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By the way, we're going to give away a few copies
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of the book, The Gift of Thorns
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Jesus, the flesh and the War
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for Our Wants. And
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to insightful callers, not just call up and ask for a copy
19:10
of the book with questions or comments. Again, our
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number is (877) 548-3675.
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We're going to go to we're going to go in just a second
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to Jeanette in Kissimmee, Florida,
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which AJ, the uninitiated
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would say Kissimmee because that's what it looks like.
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But I am not uninitiated
19:29
to the pronunciation because I went on my second
19:31
date, I don't even know decades
19:33
ago with my wife girlfriend,
19:36
uh, to Kissimmee, Florida. So, Jeanette,
19:38
with that backstory, you don't have to comment on
19:40
that, but you were live on the air with your question or your
19:42
comment. Jump right in. Jeanette.
19:44
Thank you. Congratulations on
19:46
knowing that. But I was wondering
19:48
more about if you're well aware
19:50
or not. I shouldn't say that that's presuming
19:53
on God, but if you're you're
19:55
certain that your desire
19:58
is a God given desire
20:00
and it's deferred, meaning,
20:03
um, it's not coming to fruition or
20:05
it's probably never going to be, I
20:07
can't think of a specific one, but I think of,
20:09
you know, maybe someone has a desire
20:12
to have a child, and that
20:14
certainly happens in the Bible. But, um,
20:16
I can think maybe there's others that you think,
20:18
well, it's a God given, um, maybe
20:20
a godly sounding desire,
20:23
but it it's not coming to fruition. What
20:25
should be our response?
20:27
Oh my goodness, the question.
20:28
I'm going to give you a copy. Let me give him a
20:30
copy. Hold on one second. Jeanette I'm going
20:32
to give you a copy of the book, The Gift of Thorns.
20:34
Jesus, the flesh and the world wants. I just need you to hold
20:36
on after you hear AJ.
20:38
And then our producer will come on after he's done
20:40
answering your question. AJ, write to you.
20:43
Yeah, absolutely. I'm just I'm
20:45
I'm I want to I wish I could reach
20:47
through the radio and give you a high five. That's just
20:49
a fabulous, fabulous question.
20:51
Every single one of us
20:54
have good desires for things
20:56
from God that we have yet
20:58
to receive. And what
21:00
we do with those desires. Be it I
21:02
was with a student this week who desires to be married.
21:05
Um, a desire for children, a better
21:08
job, a desire for,
21:10
you know, to to to be able to walk
21:12
through temptations that they struggle
21:14
with. Um, so,
21:16
so what do we do? What do we what do we do with that?
21:19
Um, you know, there's
21:21
this there's this old sermon,
21:23
and I'm gonna I'm gonna I'm gonna pull out an old sermon here
21:26
by a guy named Martin Luther, the
21:28
Protestant reformer. Um, he
21:31
was preaching on. The
21:33
story of Jesus in the boat with the
21:35
disciples. And
21:37
there's the storm. And and he
21:39
has this line in, in
21:41
a in in a sermon on that, on that story
21:44
where. When Jesus
21:46
is sleeping in the boat. Um,
21:49
he asks, kind of in this vulnerable
21:51
moment, he says, why would why
21:54
would Jesus sleep in the boat?
21:56
But it's an interesting question. What's
21:59
the why would Jesus, what are you accomplishing
22:01
by by sleeping in the boat? Jesus.
22:04
And Luther makes this just almost
22:06
throwaway line that he says the
22:09
reason Jesus sleeps
22:11
in the boat. Is
22:13
to arouse his desire, the
22:15
desires of his disciples,
22:17
to need to cry out to him. Hmm.
22:21
And his. And what he's saying is,
22:24
is is he saying, like Jesus
22:26
intentionally goes quiet?
22:30
To to cause the
22:32
humans in the boat to long
22:34
for him. Would you respond?
22:36
When I read that, it
22:39
dawned on me. That is exactly
22:41
what happened in the Garden of Eden. Because
22:44
the man in the Garden of Eden who is alone,
22:47
there's no sin in the garden yet. It
22:49
says that he is alone. There's no
22:52
sin in the garden. God even says it's
22:54
not good for men to be alone. God
22:56
created Adam with
22:59
a desire for something that he did not
23:01
yet have. That was good.
23:04
Well, the sidestep here, the whole conversation that God
23:06
actually created us to
23:08
desire something other than himself.
23:11
God created us to actually want
23:13
community, actually want relationships.
23:15
And God is not frustrated that Adam longs
23:18
for these things because God created Adam
23:20
for these things. God
23:22
is. Why does he do it? I mean, I'm convinced that
23:24
God does this so that
23:26
Adam would not just know God
23:29
as his creator, he
23:31
would also know God as his provider.
23:35
I'm I'm convinced with my entire
23:37
being that those parts of our life
23:39
where we have desires for good,
23:41
godly things are
23:43
actually God's way. It's like he's sleeping in
23:46
the boat. They are God's way
23:48
of causing us to seek
23:50
him with all of our existence.
23:54
Now, what do we do with the fact, whether they come
23:56
or not? We're not sovereign beings and
23:58
we can't control that. But what we
24:00
can do in the midst of the waiting
24:03
is that we can seek God. I
24:05
am struck in the Bible, by the way, how
24:08
often as people wait for
24:10
something from God, that's
24:12
the very moment they're most vulnerable. It's when Moses
24:14
is up on the mountain, and the people
24:16
down below say he's been up there for too long,
24:19
and that is when they make the golden calf. We
24:21
often make our idols in
24:24
the waiting. It is when we wait
24:26
for what God is providing that we worship other
24:28
things so that the key is,
24:30
as we wait, actually trusting
24:33
in God as the one who will provide.
24:37
It's so good. I think. I think that pastoral tone
24:40
was one of the things that I found a little surprising,
24:42
your scholar, but they're very much a pastoral tone. You
24:44
share some of your own journey here as well.
24:47
We're going to continue our conversation with
24:49
RJ in just a minute. Our phone number
24:51
is (877) 548-3675.
24:55
Nancy, I'm going to come back to you on the other side,
24:57
and then we'll jump to some other callers as well.
25:00
But again, I want you to be able to jump in with this conversation.
25:02
I have some questions as well. I'm going to ask
25:05
questions like how do we kind of navigate
25:07
our desires? How do we you
25:09
know, I mean, it seems that a lot of the books premise is,
25:11
um, that the world where we don't always
25:13
get our desires is the best. And I,
25:15
you know, I have questions when I unpack that as well.
25:18
I imagine you will also, our phone number
25:20
is (877) 548-3675.
25:24
We'll give it one more time. Our phone number is (877) 548-3675.
25:30
Let me thank our behind the scenes team here
25:32
at Moody Radio as well. My producer Karen
25:34
Hendren. She's the one I mentioned earlier who sent
25:36
me the correct correct pronunciation
25:39
of Swoboda. Here I am against boda.
25:41
Uh, Swoboda. Swoboda got it back.
25:44
Uh, Swoboda. So we're going to also
25:46
thank Bob Monroe, who's our engineer, Laura
25:48
manning. The phones. I'm going to be back with RJ and
25:50
your calls in just a moment. Again, last time for the phone
25:52
number (877) 548-3675.
26:06
Hey! We're back. Stats are live. I'm Ed Stetson,
26:08
your host. I'm the dean of the Talbot School of Theology.
26:11
Normally. And then on Saturdays,
26:13
I'm your radio host here with AJ. I'm
26:15
going to make sure I get it right. It's swoboda.
26:18
Swoboda. And so I'm getting
26:20
it right that time. Is that right AJ that's
26:22
right.
26:22
You got it. You got it.
26:23
Okay, good. I'm gonna tell you a funny story. Hey, Jake, is this the
26:25
pronunciation of your name has become the subtheme of
26:27
the show? I was, I was
26:30
I was preaching at a very high falutin church once,
26:32
uh, Westminster Chapel in London,
26:34
and I was trying to use the word apostolic,
26:37
and I couldn't for some reason
26:39
say the word apostolic. And I don't
26:42
know why you just sort of get something in your head. I'm sure this
26:44
happened to you. And it's like, and no matter what you say.
26:47
And so finally I said of the apostles, so I
26:49
might just say of the Buddha at some point with,
26:51
with your name. So again,
26:53
Karen Hendren prepared me. It's literally written
26:55
in the bio in front of me, but I cannot stop.
26:58
But anyway, we've got calls lined up as
27:00
well. And again, I really think this is a helpful conversation.
27:02
So I want to encourage people to pick up the book The Gift
27:04
of Thorns after, uh uh, which
27:06
which unpacks I mean, again, I his
27:08
book after doubt I was going to also mention is a good
27:10
book to to read as well. It'll it'll challenge
27:13
make you think about some things as well.
27:15
So let's go. We're going to take some calls here. I said
27:17
Nancy we're going to go to you first. Nancy, you're in Indiana
27:19
and you're live on the air with your question or your comment.
27:22
Yes. Thank you. How do we get rid
27:24
of an evil desire? I've had something
27:27
I've dealt with for several years, and
27:29
it just hangs on.
27:31
Mhm.
27:31
Super question have you feel. Hold on Nancy too. I'm
27:33
going to give you a copy of the book. Uh
27:36
Karen, my producer is going to come on after you hear AJ's
27:38
answer. Going to give you a copy of The Gift of Thorns AJ.
27:40
It's got to be a common question. And you do deal with it a
27:42
lot in the book. So talk about that.
27:44
Absolutely. Yeah. Nancy, thank you for the
27:47
terrific question. The first thing I want
27:49
to say to you, I have some just fabulous
27:51
news. Uh, you ain't alone,
27:53
friend. This is, uh,
27:57
uh, we are all, uh,
27:59
one of actually one of Saint Augustine's, um,
28:01
quotes. As he says, we are a gymnasium of desire,
28:04
which means, goodness gracious. We
28:06
are a wide array of just weird,
28:08
weird desires that some of which we chose,
28:11
some of which we did not. You are not alone.
28:13
And and and why? That's,
28:16
I think, an important thing to recognize is
28:18
that, um, you are not required
28:20
to have to come up with the path. Um,
28:22
you get to follow the path. So
28:24
the, the New Testament answer to that
28:26
is, um. Is
28:29
that our task is to crucify the flesh.
28:32
And what we mean by that is
28:35
it is our responsibility
28:37
is our it is part
28:39
of the discipleship that we have in Jesus
28:42
to put those
28:44
desires on the cross with Christ,
28:46
that they would be cruciform
28:48
desires. They would be desires that have been crucified
28:51
with Christ and formed around
28:54
him. Um,
28:56
here's, you know, it's a it's a, it's a, it's
28:58
a, it's a pretty heavy topic to
29:00
think about the topic of temptation
29:02
and whether temptation is
29:04
a sin or not. And we all, we all face
29:07
significant temptations, right? The evil one
29:09
seeks to get us. I mean, this is part of the Lord's Prayer.
29:11
Deliver us from the evil one. Um,
29:13
that that we experience
29:15
temptations from Satan, from evil,
29:17
from darkness. And
29:20
it's important for us to not
29:23
judge ourselves for experiencing temptation.
29:25
And the reason I can say that is temptation
29:28
is not a sin. Um,
29:30
Jesus himself was tempted by
29:32
the evil one, and he was the sinless
29:35
Son of God. And so
29:37
clearly temptation is not a sin.
29:40
So what I wouldn't invite you to do is
29:43
I would not invite you to, like, beat
29:45
yourself up for it. I would not invite you to
29:47
shame yourself. This is a part
29:49
of living in a world where
29:52
darkness has power and authority to tempt
29:54
us. But when those desires
29:57
from within or without come.
30:00
It is the constant task of the
30:02
follower of Jesus to hand
30:04
those desires to Christ
30:06
and say, I have this, I
30:09
don't want it, and I need you
30:11
to hold this for me. I need you to take this
30:13
from me. I would, in addition
30:15
to that, this say that we
30:17
all need. Kurt Thompson
30:19
is a Christian neuroscientist whose work has really
30:22
been helpful. He writes about what he
30:24
calls confessional communities. This
30:26
is the church. We need an environment
30:29
where we have a person or two
30:31
who we can bear the burden
30:34
of our evil desires, that we can
30:36
actually say it out loud because
30:38
by saying it again, it needs to be a trusted
30:40
person, but by saying
30:42
it, it removes its power.
30:46
Because when you hold that in over
30:48
and it just, it just gets stronger
30:50
and stronger and stronger. As a university
30:52
professor, if I had a dollar
30:54
for every time one of my students came into
30:56
my office to talk about unwanted
30:59
sexual desires, struggles with
31:01
wants for this or that, I'd be a billionaire
31:04
by now. Um, what
31:06
somebody needs in moments like that is
31:08
a trusted person who will listen
31:10
and point you back to Jesus
31:13
and offer forgiveness and the self
31:15
of healing. Because ultimately,
31:18
temptation is not a sin. Giving
31:20
in to the temptation and following it is,
31:23
but having it in and of itself.
31:25
Um, uh, is not is not, is
31:28
not, is not something that we need to
31:30
beat ourselves up over. So I think, Nancy,
31:32
that would be my gut gut level
31:34
response.
31:35
Yeah. It's interesting. I think there's a bit I remember
31:37
hold on, Nancy, that Karen's going to come give you a
31:39
book. I think there is a bit of a conversation
31:42
around, you know, what
31:44
desires. And I just had Rebecca
31:46
McLaughlin and she has a new book on same sex
31:48
relationships, and she's,
31:50
um, I have a podcast called the, uh,
31:52
Stetson Church Leaders Podcast geared towards pastors
31:54
and church leaders. And it's a big navigating
31:57
moment around issues of sexual
31:59
ethics in many churches. And, and
32:02
Rebecca has, uh, has, uh,
32:04
talked about her own same sex attraction.
32:07
And she'd been married, uh,
32:09
to her husband for, I forget, I think 17 years.
32:11
But there is one of the questions that we
32:13
talk about, and I encourage people, if they want to subscribe to the podcast,
32:16
they can just Google Stats or Church Leaders podcast. Actually,
32:18
we'll link it. Karen will link it after she gives away this book.
32:20
She'll link it in Stitcher Live.com.
32:22
But there is kind of a debate and
32:25
you've seen it is our
32:27
temptations of that
32:29
sort. In this case, Rebecca was talking about
32:31
same sex attraction, but just in general
32:33
our temptations towards sin. You seem to be saying
32:35
no, but let's unpack. It's a little more our temptations
32:38
towards, uh, sinful desires
32:40
and actions themselves. Sinful.
32:45
Yeah. I mean, how much
32:47
time do we have? I mean, this is this is such
32:49
a wildly complex,
32:51
um, conversation, especially
32:54
when we're talking about something as sensitive as
32:56
same sex attraction. I will say
32:58
this.
32:59
But we can talk about it in general. In general. I mean,
33:01
like, is is is the temptation itself,
33:04
uh, related to sin, you know, how
33:06
would you frame that?
33:07
Yeah. Um, when I read,
33:10
um, James one, um, there's
33:12
there's this, uh, beautiful and very
33:14
important passage where James
33:17
talks about how, um,
33:20
uh, sin. So he's he's talking about the full
33:22
fruition of sin, and he says, uh,
33:24
in James one, uh,
33:26
that when, uh, when
33:29
you, uh, each person is
33:31
tempted, when they're dragged away by their own evil
33:33
desire, they're enticed after desire has
33:35
conceived. It gives birth
33:37
to sin when it is fully grown,
33:39
gives birth to death.
33:42
So as I read this text and I've
33:44
I've read this a thousand times and I do not
33:46
want to sidestep so.
33:47
Fits so fits your theme in your book too.
33:49
So I get it. Yeah.
33:50
It's very important to recognize
33:53
that, um,
33:56
a James does not
33:58
seem to separate the
34:00
difference between temptation and evil
34:02
desire as some would want. So there's
34:04
a debate to be had about like, is
34:07
somebody's evil desire a culpable
34:09
sin in itself, and
34:11
is temptation from the outside? And
34:13
the argument by some is that evil desire is
34:15
us and temptation is from the outside. And
34:17
I understand that I'm not. I'm not saying that that's
34:19
not accurate, but I'm it
34:21
is odd to me as I wrestle with this,
34:24
that James does not to me
34:26
on appearance seem to separate
34:29
um, uh, temptation
34:31
and desire in the neat, clean
34:33
way that maybe one would want. Um,
34:36
and and at the end of the day, when I'm a
34:38
pastor, um, whether
34:41
somebody is experiencing temptation
34:44
or evil desire, my
34:46
response is going to be the exact
34:48
same. We need to give this to
34:50
Jesus and receive grace and mercy in
34:52
our time of temptation and in our time
34:54
of our flesh. So my response
34:56
would be the same in both. Let's put
34:59
this on the cross together where
35:01
it comes from, whether it's from the devil or
35:03
my own flesh. It's hard to know the
35:05
difference between those two, and
35:07
I don't think we can always suss out as
35:09
we can in James one, the difference
35:11
between those two. But I know that when
35:13
I'm sitting at with a young person
35:15
in my office who is describing
35:18
sexual desires that they know
35:20
do not align with the way of Jesus,
35:23
my spiritual authority requires me
35:25
to to not affirm desires
35:28
that will lead to death. My
35:30
responsibility is to invite somebody
35:33
to crucify those desires and
35:35
put them with Jesus. My pastoral
35:37
response would be the same, whether it were
35:39
temptation or evil desire.
35:42
Mhm.
35:43
Yeah. And I guess the question then
35:45
for me becomes in those pastoral conversations because
35:47
I'm, you know, I'm at Biola University students
35:50
and it's not, it's not just students though. Students have a lot of
35:52
questions around some of these issues. But it's all
35:54
of us. So do they cry
35:56
out to God and ask him to remove those
35:59
desires? How does that
36:01
relate to, you know, the cruciform approach
36:03
you talked about about, you know, putting them on the cross.
36:05
But but how do I how far
36:07
back do I go? Lord, take these desires away. Certainly
36:09
Augustine addresses that. You address that some in the
36:11
book talk to us about that. Yeah.
36:13
Well, this in the early church, there was actually
36:15
a there was a document called the
36:17
Shepherd of hermits. It was this
36:20
one of the earliest kind of spiritual.
36:23
Um, so one of the earliest kind of spiritual
36:25
writings that really edified Christians. But it wasn't
36:28
in the New Testament. So it was many
36:30
actually thought it should be in the New Testament, but it didn't.
36:32
It didn't make it rightfully so. And
36:34
the whole theme of the book is this what do you
36:36
do? What do you do
36:38
when you've been baptized? Saved? You
36:40
love Jesus. And yet
36:42
your evil desires that you had before
36:45
you got saved still remain with you. And
36:48
actually the theme of the book is so important for me because
36:50
when I was 16 and met, Jesus got saved.
36:53
Um, the desires that I
36:55
had before I met Jesus.
36:58
Many of those desires I continued
37:00
to struggle with and continue
37:02
to struggle with today. It is
37:04
a daily journey. I mean, this has been the place where
37:06
I have met God's grace the most
37:08
is in those desires that are wayward, that
37:10
are not God's desires. Um,
37:13
I wish, man, I wish.
37:16
I wish your baptism
37:19
meant that you no longer have to had
37:21
the flesh. But the reality is,
37:23
we walk with the flesh every day until resurrection.
37:26
It has been crucified with Christ, but it still screams
37:28
out really loud to us every
37:31
day. It does not have
37:33
the same power it used to have in us. And that's why
37:35
the sanctifying work of the Holy Spirit is
37:37
so important, because the Holy Spirit
37:39
gives us a pathway to walk out of
37:41
those evil desires in a way
37:43
that we did not have before we met Jesus.
37:46
But those desires, I mean, again,
37:49
I'm just I'm a reader of saints here and
37:51
almost every single saint that
37:54
I read about in the history of the church. From
37:57
Dallas Willard to Eugene Peterson,
38:00
to Henry Nouwen, to
38:02
Dorothy Sayers, to G.K.
38:04
Chesterton. I mean, I could go through this
38:06
list to to Billy Graham.
38:08
Every single saint I
38:10
read. Their biography
38:12
will always describe some
38:15
nagging desire in their life
38:17
that they always had that was
38:19
not of the Lord that they wrestled with. And
38:23
that, if I'm completely candid, is
38:25
profoundly hopeful for me because
38:27
I get so mean to myself
38:30
for having desires that I know are not
38:32
good, as though that
38:34
in and of itself means I'm
38:36
disqualified or a
38:38
complete and utter failure. Um.
38:42
You. You brought up Paul's language.
38:44
If I do what I don't want to do, and I don't do what I should
38:46
do, I mean, he Paul himself
38:49
describes his spiritual journey as
38:51
wrestling with desires after his own experience
38:53
with Jesus that just didn't go away.
38:55
That doesn't mean you're a failure. That means
38:57
God is walking with you.
39:00
Fascinating. We're gonna continue our conversation. We have one more
39:02
segment. We're going to try to go right to calls, which
39:04
means I would encourage our callers to be
39:06
ready. Be ready with your question, your comments.
39:09
Jump right in and then AJ will kind of
39:11
do a little lightning round there at the end. Lots of good questions.
39:13
We're talking about the gift of thorns Jesus, the
39:15
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39:17
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Hey. We're back. Headsets are live. Thanks for listening to this.
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And every Saturday at this time or wherever you listen
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via podcast as well, we're talking to AJ
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Swoboda. He's associate professor
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of Bible and theology at Bushnell University.
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His newest book is The Gift of Thorns
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Jesus, the flesh and the War
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for Our Wants. And
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of course, we've listed all of his books at Stitcher Live.com.
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All the resources are there. We're giving away a free
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copies of The Gift of Thorns as
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well to our callers. I really want to encourage you to get
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right to your question in your comments. So we can get several
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in. We're going to start by going to Tamika in
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Chicago. Tamika, you're live on the air. Go right ahead.
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Uh, thank you for taking my call.
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And, um, RJ, my question
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for you is, um, how do I
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deal with you actually kind of address
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this, um, during the course of this, um,
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conversation, just how do I deal with unfulfilled
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desires that are overwhelming
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me and at times becoming all consuming,
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causing me to lose sleep? I'm
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just trying to. I've been wrestling with it for
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a while. Um, I will say since
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spring of last fall
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of last year, I'm just trying to find
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ways to cope with this and even just
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asking God if these desires are not going to be fulfilled,
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just take it from me, because I just
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desire peace and
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this is just what I'm struggling with. So it's
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a loaded question and you've addressed it.
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And I just wanted to get more info.
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Oh, I think it's good to get more question answered
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here. This is Tamika. Thank you so much for your transparency
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and the question. I want you to hold on after AJ's
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answer so we can give you a copy of The Gift
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of Thorns. I mean, AJ, this has got
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to be just such a common question. What do you say.
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To make your, um, a hero of
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mine for asking and for being so
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in touch with yourself that you, um.
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I even sensed as you were, as you were
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saying that, that
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you were almost holding back tears,
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um, that there's a deep longing
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that you have in your heart and you're wondering
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why, uh, in the world,
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um, you have received yet and what do I what
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do I do with that? Um,
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my wife and I, for
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the better part of six years,
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uh, experienced, uh, a very
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painful season of infertility,
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um, our inability to have a child,
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which is very frustrating when, when, when
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the season went through. We do have a son, and he's
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the greatest kid in the world. Is 12.
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Um, and I love him with
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every part of every atom in my being.
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Um, but it was really it
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was really difficult during that season of,
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of going through infertility because.
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For a person who's walking through infertility.
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Um, the worst thing is Facebook, because
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everybody else can have babies on Facebook.
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And you constantly see it and you
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constantly see what everybody has,
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and you constantly see, um,
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you constantly see that that
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other people who maybe don't
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even want kids can have kids. It's so
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frustrating and wondering, God,
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what are you doing? What
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are you doing? It almost felt at times, and I
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know that he was. And I'm not questioning God's goodness.
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But there were almost at times
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this sense, like I wondered, Is God
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being mean to me? Is
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God mad at me? Did I do something
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that upset the Lord? Like, am
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I paying for sins from college or something
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like that? And
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I think, Tamika, what I had to learn
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in that season of six years.
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Um. Is
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I had to learn to embrace
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that season. As.
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God's way of
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showing me his
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grace in a way that I could never imagine.
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I actually, I think it would be wrong
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of me. It would be spiritual malpractice for
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me to give you some sort
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of tip about how to get what you want, because
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only God can be the provider. Only
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God can be the provider. And in the waiting,
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the need for mercy. The
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need for mercy is so deep
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and the need for grace. I
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think I would say to you to allow,
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allow that deep longing
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and struggle to be a graduate
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level course in
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experiencing the grace of God. That should
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be where you experience God's grace
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every day. One of the great gifts.
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It's funny, Paul says he talks about a
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thorn in his side. Uh, we actually
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don't know what the thorn is. He never mentions it.
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Second Corinthians, he talks about this thorn. He has
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an aside and he says it's there.
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And I've asked the Lord to take it away
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three times. But the Lord has not. Um,
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some have thought that it was a sexual struggle.
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Some thought it was a person. Um,
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a colleague of mine, Leonard Sweet, argues
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that it was that he constantly lived with
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the gnawing knowledge that he was not one of the original
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12 disciples. Uh, we don't
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know what the thorn is, but we know
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this, that Paul goes out of
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his way in Second Corinthians to say, he
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goes out of his way to say that the thorns
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in his side have kept him
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from being conceited. What he's
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saying there is he's saying they have humbled
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me. There
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is a gift in the thorns in our side. And
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the gift is to make of that as
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you as you wait and long and struggle
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with this thing at
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that very place. God is humbling
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you. And he is teaching
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you to become a well formed
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person. I think my
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my encouragement to you would be receive
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it as a gift. Receive
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it as a gift.
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Mhm.
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That's a hard thing for us to do. And we've got just about
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30s left in the program.
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And so, so I hear you saying
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that I want to do that. But I
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struggled at stats or struggles with
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doing this. Help me, help me to.
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How might I receive this as a gift?
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What change in my heart needs to come so
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I can receive it as a gift?
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Um, we, um, we
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need to look at the cross again and
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again and again and
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see that Jesus himself
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submitted his own desires to the
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father, and it brought life to the whole world
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that as Jesus said, the Garden of Gethsemane says,
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father, if there's any way for this not to
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happen, may it be, but your will
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be done. That is how the world
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is saved. It's through Jesus
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who submits himself to the father so
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that we could experience the love of God. It brings
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life. It brings life.
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So good and such a good way
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to end our conversation as well. Let me encourage you if
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you found today's conversation helpful.
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And I just would just transparently our team
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has been just we have a little chat and just we've
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found it very helpful. And I wanna encourage
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you to pick up the gift of thorns, Jesus, the flesh
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and the war for our wants. It's just out
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about a couple of months ago as well. And
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so we've given away a few copies here because we
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want you to be encouraged by that. Thank you so
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much for our callers as well
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mention earlier Laura manning the phones. Thanks for the good
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callers and Laura manning
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those phones as well. We look forward to talking to you again
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next Saturday this.
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Time as well.
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