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Episode 138 - Support

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Episode 138 - Support

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Episode 138 - Support

Wednesday, 4th January 2023
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0:00

Welcome to a new episode

0:02

of English vocabulary Booster. My

0:04

name is Lara, and I'm a salsa certified

0:06

English teacher. Learning new vocabulary usually

0:09

takes a long time, but we'll do it

0:11

in a way that's easy, quick, and efficient.

0:14

In every episode, we'll learn how to use

0:16

five new English words or expressions

0:18

so that you too can start speaking like

0:20

a native. So let's get learning.

0:23

Hello everyone. How are you? I

0:26

am pretty excited because I

0:29

think I'm gonna take a few days off,

0:31

which is something that I normally never

0:33

do. But I'm going

0:36

away for a few days. So

0:38

we'll see if I can actually leave

0:40

my computer at home. That way, I'm not

0:42

tempted to work We'll see. We'll see.

0:46

But, yeah, other than that, I'm doing

0:48

okay. I'm transiently new

0:51

because I've been trying to find a routine that works

0:53

for and because I'm more

0:55

productive in the morning and then

0:58

I hit this like afternoon slump

1:01

at around three ish,

1:05

and then I

1:07

can't get that much done. So I wanna wake

1:09

up earlier say like

1:11

six, six thirty, but then the problem with

1:13

that is that I have to sleep

1:15

quite a bit to feel rested. And

1:18

so If I do wake up at six

1:21

thirty, that also means I have to go to bed

1:23

at like nine, which means that I practically

1:25

wouldn't be spending time with my boyfriend. I would

1:27

have no time to socialize whatsoever.

1:31

So I'm trying this new

1:33

thing. So I'm waking

1:35

up at around six. In

1:37

the morning, then I start work

1:39

at six thirty. Work

1:42

with no breaks up until three

1:45

thirty ish. And

1:48

that I take a nap, like a one hour,

1:50

two hour nap, and then

1:53

I am ready for the

1:55

evening. So I don't know.

1:57

This also means that I'm recording this

1:59

episode. It's ten fifty

2:02

five right now in the morning. And

2:04

I'm beyond with I'm pretty tired.

2:07

I hope I'm not gonna mess it up. But

2:09

let's see. story

2:12

is about support.

2:16

Hey, Ben. You wanna do something fun?

2:19

Not really. I know your idea of

2:21

fun, CJ, and it's gonna get us in trouble.

2:24

Oh, come on. We're twins. We

2:26

should be doing fun things together. Just

2:28

one less time. It's our last year

2:30

in school together. Fine.

2:33

What do you wanna do? Wish

2:36

a graffiti the store, and

2:38

then say was the new kid who did

2:40

it, Brock. What?

2:43

First of all, that's insane. That's

2:45

missus Whitman's classroom. Trust me,

2:47

you don't 138 to see missus Whitman angry.

2:50

Hello, woman scary. Secondly,

2:53

why would you let Brock take the fall?

2:55

Because I don't know.

2:58

Wait. I think I know why. That's

3:01

because you're jealous. Because you

3:03

used to be the most popular guy in school

3:05

before he got here. And now

3:07

everybody seems to like him even

3:09

more than you. Yeah. Yeah.

3:11

Whatever. Here, take this

3:13

and draw whatever you want. Come on.

3:15

Hurry. Wait, why me?

3:17

I don't 138 to get suspended? It's

3:20

gonna be fine. I got you.

3:22

You got me? Really? Like last

3:24

time? See, you always

3:26

say you have my back. And then when

3:29

we get

3:29

caught, you always let me take the blame.

3:31

But it ain't happening this time.

3:33

Alright, CJ. If I go down,

3:36

you're coming with me. Fine.

3:38

I don't care. Plus, I told

3:40

you, we'll blame it on Brock and then everybody

3:42

will hate him forgetting missus Webman upset.

3:45

Come on, she's coming. What

3:47

should I draw? I don't know. Just

3:50

something. I'll be inside.

3:58

What in the who

4:00

did that? I said,

4:03

who did that? I

4:05

will not tolerate this type of behavior.

4:09

I wanna know immediately who

4:11

defeated my door or

4:13

else the whole class is going to

4:15

get detention.

4:16

I didn't, missus Whitman. Brock?

4:20

You did that? Brock.

4:22

What are you doing? You

4:24

didn't do it. Take

4:26

138 one for the teen girl. That's alright.

4:29

Wow. Alright, Brock. Come

4:31

with me. I'm right. You're losing.

4:33

How do I got you, bro? Thank you

4:35

so much. I guess your

4:40

plan didn't exactly work the way you thought

4:42

CJ.

4:45

Okay. I don't know if you're thinking what

4:47

I'm thinking, but Right

4:49

now, I'm just wondering what in

4:51

the world did it paint on that

4:53

door? I would be so curious to

4:55

know and I know I wrote the story but I

4:57

did not think I didn't wanna make it vulgar,

4:59

so I didn't wanna say

5:01

anything that would be too, Laura.

5:04

Why'd you put that into the story? But,

5:07

you know, let your

5:09

imagination take you where

5:11

it wants to. Let's

5:14

talk about today's expressions and let's begin

5:16

with expression number 138. Take

5:18

the fall. Secondly, why

5:20

would you let Brock take the fall? If

5:23

you take the fall for something, do you

5:25

accept the blame or not?

5:28

If you take the fall for something, you

5:30

accept the blame. You If

5:33

you're taking the fall, you're like, yes,

5:35

I did it. It was me. I

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accept full responsibility. And

5:40

if you take the fall for something, you

5:42

get blamed for something you did

5:44

or for something that you didn't do. Usually,

5:48

when you say that you take the fall,

5:50

you are saying that you're getting blamed,

5:53

you're accepting the blame

5:55

for something that you didn't do.

5:57

So it's this idea of

5:59

in a way sacrificing yourself so

6:02

that other people won't

6:04

get blamed. So

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you're like, you know, I don't want

6:09

everybody else to get

6:11

punished, so I'm

6:13

going to take the fault. I'm the one

6:15

that's going to say, I did it,

6:17

so I'm the only one who gets

6:19

punished. Which is a very very

6:22

nice gesture. It's an amazing thing

6:24

to do. Was there a

6:26

time when you took the fall, when you wasn't

6:28

your fault? Now, I

6:30

don't think there was a time when I

6:32

took the fall. I think

6:34

that and I can't

6:36

really think of anything specific

6:39

that I can tell you, but I'm pretty

6:41

positive that if something did

6:43

happen and somebody

6:46

else was responsible for that,

6:48

I I'm I'm not gonna see him in a,

6:50

you know, say, hey, it was him. I'm not

6:52

gonna write him out or write

6:54

her out. But I

6:56

I don't think I'm I would take the

6:59

fall either. I mean, I'm

7:01

sorry, guys, but I'm being honest, I'm not

7:03

that noble. Expression

7:05

number to, I got you. It's

7:07

gonna be fine, I got you. If

7:09

you tell someone got you,

7:11

does that mean that you will protect

7:13

them or not? Yes.

7:16

If you say I got you

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to someone that by

7:20

saying that you're telling them, I

7:22

will protect you. I will defend

7:25

you. I will do whatever it

7:27

is in my power to make sure that

7:29

nothing bad happens to you.

7:32

When would you tell someone I got you?

7:34

When you want to reassure them, you will

7:36

protect them physically or

7:38

emotionally. It can

7:40

be either. So it can be

7:42

like hey, jump.

7:44

I got you. Like, nothing's gonna

7:46

happen to you. Or

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it can also be like, hey, we're going

7:51

to this party with your family.

7:53

I know you don't get along with them.

7:55

Whatever. Don't worry.

7:57

I'm there with you. I got you.

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Meaning, whatever happens, you know,

8:02

you've got me. And I think

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it's a really it's a

8:06

really nice expression. And

8:08

when you want to make someone

8:10

feels secure and feel protected,

8:13

I think it's a great. It's a great three

8:15

words that you can tell them. Expression

8:19

number three, have someone's back.

8:21

You always say you have my back.

8:23

And then when we get caught, you

8:25

always let me take the blame. If

8:28

you have someone's back, does that

8:30

mean you're willing to support them

8:32

or not? If

8:34

you have someone's 138, that means that

8:37

you're willing to support them.

8:39

So in a way, it's very similar to

8:41

the expression, I

8:43

got you. Meaning, I will

8:46

support you. I will be your

8:48

support. So don't worry

8:50

about anything. And if you

8:52

have someone's back, does that mean you're

8:54

willing to defend them or

8:56

not? Once

8:58

again, yes. Because this idea of having

9:00

someone's back is you're

9:03

basically saying I will if

9:05

if something happens, I

9:07

will defend you.

9:10

Say, for example, that you

9:12

wanna do something bad, but

9:15

you're afraid someone else is going

9:17

to to tell on you. Then

9:20

he that that person

9:22

can reassure you by saying, I

9:24

got your back. If you get

9:26

caught, If I got your back, what

9:28

I'm gonna say is probably, no.

9:30

He didn't do it or

9:33

No. I didn't see anything. Anything

9:35

that will support you

9:37

and defend you. Again,

9:40

you have both ideas, both

9:42

supporting and defending. So I

9:44

I have to share

9:47

some very difficult news

9:49

with a friend. I can bring

9:51

someone else with

9:53

me and hoping that they will have my

9:55

back, meaning that will help

9:57

me, they will facilitate the conversation,

9:59

they will support me, Whatever

10:02

happens. Expression

10:04

number four, if I go down, you're

10:06

coming with me. I love

10:08

this one. This is so evil.

10:10

But it ain't happening this time. Alright, CJ.

10:13

If I go down, you're coming with

10:15

me. If you tell

10:17

someone, if I go down, you're coming

10:19

with me. Does that

10:21

mean if you were to get caught,

10:23

you will protect them or

10:25

not? So

10:27

if you tell them, if I go

10:29

down, you're coming with me, that means

10:31

that if you get caught, you

10:33

will not protect them.

10:35

In fact, you are going

10:37

to tell whoever caught

10:39

you that this other person

10:41

is responsible as well.

10:43

So you have this idea of,

10:45

okay, if Something happens to me. I'm

10:47

sorry, but I'm I'm dragging you

10:49

down with me. I'm bringing you, you know,

10:51

into this mess with me.

10:53

And I think it's a really I

10:56

don't know. It's I know

10:58

it's a fun expression, like you can say it obviously

11:00

in a fun context, but I

11:02

mean, when you're saying that, it's a pretty big

11:04

threat. When would you say if I

11:06

go down, you're coming with me

11:08

before or after doing something

11:10

you shouldn't? You usually

11:13

say it before doing something you

11:15

shouldn't because you're warning

11:17

the other person like hey,

11:19

listen. Okay. Fine. I'll

11:21

accept, you know, whatever you're

11:23

proposing. I'll

11:26

do it. But I'm not happy about

11:28

it. And if I

11:30

get caught, I'm not the only one who's gonna

11:32

be held responsible for this.

11:34

So in a way, it's a nice

11:36

gesture, I guess, because

11:38

you're giving the other person, you

11:41

know, the the choice

11:43

Like, do they want to be

11:46

held responsible as well or

11:48

not? So, again,

11:50

If you know you don't wanna

11:52

be the only one to get

11:55

blamed and you're you're

11:58

wanna do something, that

12:00

might have bad consequences and

12:02

does someone else who's doing it with

12:05

you? Tell them, if I go

12:07

down, you're coming with me.

12:10

Have you ever told someone 138 I go

12:12

down you're coming with me?

12:16

I won't think so. I

12:18

mean, I might have said that as a

12:20

joke, but not for real.

12:22

Also, like, if I am

12:24

going to do something that I'm not proud

12:26

of, I'm gonna take full responsibility. You

12:28

know? I'm not gonna just

12:31

because, you know, somebody else is involved,

12:33

Who cares? If I'm the one involved,

12:36

I'm I'm gonna take full responsibility. So,

12:38

no, I don't think I've ever sent this

12:40

to anybody. Expression

12:44

number five. Take one for the

12:46

teen. Brock, what are you doing? You

12:48

didn't do it. Taking one for the

12:50

teen girl, it's alright. If

12:52

you take one for the team, does

12:54

that mean you accept blame or

12:57

punishment or not? Yes.

13:00

If you take one for the team, that

13:02

means that you're accepting the

13:05

blame or that you're accepting the

13:07

punishment that's about to be

13:09

given to you. And if you

13:11

take one for the team, will the other

13:13

members of the group have

13:15

to accept the blame or

13:17

not? No, they

13:20

will not. That's why you say

13:22

taking one for the team because that means

13:24

that if a whole group is

13:26

being accused of something, maybe

13:28

they did something. The whole group is

13:30

responsible for something, then

13:33

one of them in order to

13:35

not have too many people suffer the consequences of

13:37

what they did, then

13:39

just one person, one member

13:41

of the team, isn't have to be a team. Okay? It

13:43

can just be a group of people. Then

13:46

this one person can stand

13:48

up and say, hey, I did

13:50

it and Obviously,

13:53

they're going to get punished, but the rest of

13:55

the group won't. So that's

13:57

why they're taking one for the

13:59

team. So they're taking the

14:01

punishment as opposed to having the

14:03

whole group be punished.

14:05

Is taking one for the team

14:07

seen as a good thing? Oh,

14:10

yeah. That's that's amazing. Very

14:13

much just like taking the fall. If you're

14:15

taking one for the team. I

14:17

mean, think about it when, you know,

14:19

you're within a group and you did something

14:21

bad, you're afraid you're gonna get punished. And

14:23

then this one person, except

14:25

full responsibility, they take the blame

14:28

for the whole group, then

14:30

obviously, you're going to be

14:32

super grateful to that person. You're

14:34

going to think they're super brave

14:36

for accepting

14:38

the blame and accepting the punishment,

14:40

not sharing the punishment with

14:42

the rest of the people. So it's seen as

14:44

an amazing thing. I mean, people that

14:46

do take 138 for the team, they're

14:48

usually seen as very very

14:51

good people. It's something

14:53

that almost like a

14:55

hero. Have you ever taken

14:57

one for the team? No,

15:00

man. I've never

15:02

taken one for the team.

15:06

I think that I

15:08

don't know. Maybe I've never been

15:10

in that situation. I've never been part

15:12

of, like, something

15:15

bad that

15:17

that concern multiple

15:20

people. So maybe

15:22

I I wanna be honest here. Maybe

15:24

I've never been in that position. But

15:26

I also I am going to be honest with

15:28

you when I say, I don't know if I would.

15:31

If I was in that if I was in

15:33

that position, I don't know

15:35

if I would take one for the team.

15:37

Maybe if the

15:39

punishment wasn't terrible. Well, what I mean if

15:41

we're all getting punished, then maybe I would

15:43

do it. I don't know. We would

15:45

have to see. Depends on the circumstances.

15:47

And that is it for today.

15:49

And remember, if you wanna access the

15:51

transcript, as well as lots of other

15:53

sources, visit enbu dot

15:56

com. That is ENB000

15:59

dot com. Have a great

16:01

day.

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