Doing the right thing and making the decision to do the right thing is really scary. That is one of my questions How can you do the right thing without knowing what the consequences are? The answer to that question is really easy. You don’t know. But if you know in your heart that it is the right thing to do without being vindictive then you are on the right track. 

Here are some questions you can ask yourself to begin to change the way you believe in yourself.  What was my belief system growing up? How has it served me? Sit with that for awhile and decide if this is the way you want to continue living and if it brings joy, love and growth into your life.