How do you deal with cheating?A letter from a listener sparked this conversation (which turned into a whole show) about infidelity. Cheating is the oldest and most challenging story in the sex and relationship book. Anyone who has experienced it first hand - or been witness to infidelity in others' relationships - knows just how painful it can be. Ultimately it's about jealousy.Special guest, Indigo Stray-Conger notes that jealousy is a totally worthless emotion, that we're all born with. Why are we jealous? Why does infidelity hurt so bad? Why do we feel ashamed both as cheaters and victims of cheaters? Most importantly: What should we do about infidelity? Many feel that it's a deal-breaker - that there can be no forgiveness. Others are more willing to look into the reasons it happened and weigh the behavior against the relationship's potential to be salvaged.Photo by Xavier Sotomayor on Unsplash