Are you in "wait and see" mode? We are talking about why that absolutely sucks and how it can actually derail the success you truly want on this journey. If you are saying, "let's just wait and see" anywhere in your life, you've got to turn this one up.

Transcript:Hey Gorgeous, if you want success on your fertility journey, you've got to have the mindset for it. It's time to kick fear, negativity, doubt, shame, jealousy, and the whole clown car of low vibe fertility journey BS to the curb. I'm your host, Roseanne Austin, Fertility Mindset Master. Former prosecutor and recovering type A control freak perfectionist.

I use the power of mindset to get pregnant naturally and have my baby boy at 43 despite years of fertility treatment failure. I help women across the globe beat the odds on their fertility journey just like I did. Get ready for a quick hit of confidence, joy, feminine badassery, and loads of hell yes for your fertility journey.

It's time to get fearless baby, fearlessly fertile. Let's do this. Welcome to the Fearlessly Fertile Podcast, episode 251, The Perils of the Wait and See Mindset. Loves, I am so excited to be here with you this week as we tackle a topic that I have been wanting to address for some time, and it is The low down, dirty, wait and see mindset.

And I got to tell you, this one is, this is a, this is a really important one, because so often we will take a position in our lives, particularly on this journey and where we say, well, let's just wait and see. And what's interesting about that wait and see mindset is it seems reasonable and, and, and thoughtful.

And concerned in the moment, it seems like, you know, let's make some incremental steps here. Let's just wait and see what happens. And a lot of people say that and, and I don't think they fully understand the implications, which is why I'm raising it with you here today, because chances are, I'm willing to bet there are places in your life as you live this journey where you are currently waiting and seeing.

Right? Oh, we'll, we'll wait and see. But we never really stopped to ask ourselves, well, what am I waiting for? And what am I waiting to see? Right? It's kind of funny when you dissect that and you're like, well, what are you waiting for? And what are you waiting to see? And exactly like, how does that specifically allowing outside circumstances to dictate what your next step is going to be?

Like, how does that actually move you forward? Right? And it's kind of a funny thing because when you take the time to really look at that, like, well, let's just wait and see. There are two very pervasive negative beliefs. That are at the foundation of the wait and see mindset that are, are, it's perilous to your success on this journey, you know, and, and I think what brought this up is, you know, over time, like I hear all kinds of excuses from women and, and it's, it's interesting.

I'm not in judgment of them, I just notice the pattern. Uh, you know, I've had women come across my desk who, you know, they want to do programs, or they want to do this, they want to do that. Oh, but wait, let me see if I'm pregnant first. And again, I'm not in judgment, I just notice the pattern. And I'm raising the pattern with you in a very real way, so that you can see it and catch it if you're living it.

Like, we've had appointments with women when the team is going to talk to women about my programs. We've had women say, Oh, well, you know what? I'm actually in my two week wait. Uh, I'm not sure if I want to do that. And it's like, what do you think that suddenly when you get a positive pregnancy test, that you're not going to need mindset to help you get through 40 weeks of pregnancy.

Or do you think that your mindset is somehow going to be better the minute you get your positive pregnancy test that those saboteurs that have been torturing you for the past few years are just going to go silent with your positive pregnancy test?