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April. Twenty Twenty Four. Sobbing
1:01
came from my grandma. For seven
1:03
years now, I left school and
1:05
went straight into Karen. Recently.
1:09
Things have been hard for my
1:11
Grandma. She's been struggling with cancer.
1:13
She also struggled with dementia. Me
1:17
and my not are such a strong
1:19
bond he know should brought me up
1:21
as a kid. She's. More like a
1:23
I'm Summer to be honest should my best
1:25
friend. Twenty.
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Four year old Twist in Essex lives
1:31
in have a nice riding of Yorkshire
1:34
just off the busy has a load.
1:36
It's where his grandmother Jesse Stockdale grew
1:38
up with a working in some assholes,
1:40
many fish factories and later was a
1:42
cleaner and the medical equipment manufacturer Smith
1:44
a nephew. Shot such a big
1:47
family you know? shot some wonderful
1:49
kids and grandkids and she wishes
1:51
well known by everyone. I mean.
1:53
It. Should just walk down the street and should be
1:56
say no high You are right Are you doing?
1:58
Should stop and talk for hours and hours. I
2:02
met Tristan in the full bloom of
2:04
the two bedroom terraced house he shared
2:06
with his Nana as a photograph of
2:08
her hanging on the wall on the
2:11
fireplace as a small blessed some back.
2:13
It was Jesse's crammed full of
2:15
her belongings and exactly she left
2:18
it. Person. Could have
2:20
talked for hours about her and that bond.
2:22
As you've heard, his plight articulate,
2:24
but he wouldn't be interviewed. His.
2:27
Wounds struggles with anxiety so
2:29
instead I left him with
2:31
a microphone. So. That he could
2:33
will lay his story in his own time. As.
2:36
Time passed by. My grandmother scare him
2:38
off rail. Than. Said almost.
2:41
She. Fellow. She.
2:43
Was rushed to whole island family. Pressure.
2:46
Pastor were fought to minutes were. Leaving.
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Is absolutely devastated. Percentage.
2:52
Remember the walls close in in. A
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my grandma taken a las for. Eighty
2:59
nine year old Jesse died in
3:01
November last year. Trust
3:03
him with the best. That. He
3:05
was determined to give his none of
3:07
the most dignified sendoff he in the
3:09
rest of his family could have. food.
3:12
With it just been such a
3:14
shock on has not been prepared.
3:16
Wasn't in like a financial situation
3:19
to be applesauce faulty from the
3:21
basic of funerals look repetitive the
3:23
election com. Twisted. Went
3:26
with Legacy Independent Funeral Directors.
3:28
A family from run by
3:30
Robert Bus. He'd promised
3:32
to take care of all the arrangements
3:35
to the funeral before that twist and
3:37
than his sister Claire went to see
3:39
just his body at the company's chaplains
3:42
West half a mile away from his
3:44
home. Some. Of what
3:46
you about to here is quite classic.
3:49
Those success an unpleasant smell.
3:52
The second you walked into the building
3:54
and I mean up never smile on
3:56
my to perform allies on some at
3:58
me. But.
4:01
With not know when white should
4:03
smell like we didn't think nothing
4:05
of it which is follow. These.
4:08
A funeral directors for to smell like
4:10
this. When I saw
4:12
the coffin my heart stops.
4:15
It meant no assets at making a present
4:17
Zippo. I can just see
4:19
allows a has to sweat. I
4:22
says to do what the same. She
4:24
looks uncomfortable had just so
4:27
it follows. The
4:29
thing is it com black. The. Entire
4:31
cause. Her was just in goal.
4:33
Steamed a block. Sick mouths. A
4:36
coffin. Lots, as I said, been
4:38
matched awarded actually soaked up. The.
4:41
Moisture. At
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his know what to do. I
4:46
did miss this was normal. I
4:49
just out there and. So. She knows
4:51
I'm is that. Around
4:53
thrills of the Coffin. There
4:57
was blood. To
4:59
splice. Play
5:02
for everyone to say. To
5:05
just look at sir. Paul. It
5:07
it. Does
5:09
this list. Of
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speechless. And. Is it
5:14
was on a puts it. Boss.
5:16
Out should stop taking a. Cool,
5:19
but those sounded Legacy Independent
5:22
Funeral Directors Limited in twenty
5:24
ten. He's
5:27
twenty two year old daughter says gets one
5:29
of his two. Children also
5:31
worked. The
5:33
business was renounces three premises one
5:36
eleven miles away in the Monkey
5:38
candid Everly and to in hum
5:40
the first on and the be
5:42
roads next door to a tanning
5:45
salon and a late night off
5:47
licence another on a small industrial
5:49
estate just of has a load.
5:54
this listen to legacy capital of
5:56
west where trust and had been
5:58
list of foods and his
6:00
grandmother Jessie's buddy had looked when
6:02
he went to see her. When
6:05
the funeral arrived he'd been
6:07
assured by Robert Bush that everything
6:09
had been taken care of. Then
6:11
we got a phone call. Hi
6:14
it's Rob from Legacy. I'm
6:18
just calling because we haven't
6:20
been able to get hold of a minister to
6:23
do you Grandma a service. I
6:26
was in absolute disbelief. The
6:29
day before the funeral he
6:32
told us that we'd have to have a celebrant. We
6:35
didn't really have a choice. The funeral's tomorrow and
6:38
I realised there's
6:40
no plaque on the coffin lid.
6:42
It's a sticky note. It's
6:44
got a name on it. It's
6:47
not my lannies. It's
6:49
a Jessica. Now
6:52
my Grandma's name was Jessie. I
6:54
wanted the plaque. It's a bare
6:56
minimum. About 11 days
6:58
later we'd received the
7:01
ashes in what I can
7:03
describe as a sweet jar. I thought
7:06
finally she's at rest. We've
7:09
got the ashes. We'd
7:12
obviously give out the ashes to the family
7:14
so they had a little piece of my Grandma to remember
7:16
her by. This isn't the
7:19
end of Tristan's story far from it.
7:21
He was about to become part of
7:24
what police describe as a truly horrific
7:26
investigation. On the
7:28
side please, how can I help? It
7:32
started on Wednesday March the
7:34
6th when the force received
7:36
a phone call from someone
7:38
expressing concern for the care
7:40
of the deceased. Officers
7:44
were sent to three locations,
7:46
all premises occupied by Legacy,
7:48
the branch in Beverly and the
7:51
two in Hull, including the chapel
7:53
of rest on that industrial estate
7:55
where Tristan had been left traumatised
7:58
after seeing his Grandmother. Police
8:00
have launched an investigation into a funeral
8:02
directive after what they said was a
8:04
report of Concerned for care of the
8:06
deceased families affected by the investigation
8:09
into three funeral premises in Hull
8:11
and East Yorkshire Say they've been
8:13
visited by specially trained officers Two
8:16
days after receiving that call the
8:18
police set up a direct phone
8:20
line for anyone who had concerns
8:22
to contact them In
8:25
homes across Hull the news had
8:27
been met with horror then
8:33
Good afternoon everyone I can confirm
8:35
at this stage that between Friday morning the 8th
8:37
of March and the evening
8:40
of Saturday the 9th of March we
8:42
have now recovered a total of 35 deceased
8:46
who have now been respectfully transported to the mortuary
8:48
in Hull and Formal
8:50
identification procedures and now taking place
8:54
in addition We have also recovered a quantity of
8:56
what we suspect to be human ashes We're
8:59
in the process It's not known what kind of scene
9:01
greeted the officers when they found the
9:03
bodies the police have given few details
9:06
But there was a growing sense of anger
9:08
in Hull People
9:11
were also confused and
9:13
been used I don't know if
9:15
she's at my home or if she's
9:17
back in the mortuary and I just want to
9:19
know Quick answers I've
9:21
had no phone call or anything from the police
9:24
I just want to know if she's in there with me
9:26
at home I'm just sat there staring
9:28
at her and wondering if she's in there or
9:30
if she's somewhere else When
9:37
Rita passed away, I didn't listen to
9:39
any news. I didn't have TV on
9:41
you know news and broke or anything
9:44
I didn't know until our next door
9:46
neighbour told me have you heard about
9:48
legacy? And I said what? So
9:51
the the cabin said well, he's been Investigated
9:54
This is Richard Shaw a retired bus
9:56
driver who lived near Beverly in East
9:59
Yorkshire. His. Wife way
10:01
to died in October last year soon after
10:03
being diagnosed with cancer. The tell me what
10:05
went through your mind, how did you feel
10:08
when you knew that they will been investigated?
10:10
Firm believer and I didn't
10:13
want to play that either.
10:15
process of the derived somebody
10:17
tracinda adjust. I was shocked.
10:19
Really shocked. Which. Had
10:21
and we had met and married
10:23
in this Sisters. He describes how
10:26
is the love of his life,
10:28
fun and caring woman who changed
10:30
his world. At. What point
10:32
did you begin to? will they that
10:34
way to may be involved in this?
10:36
Tell me about when you contacted the
10:38
place. To the three phone number
10:40
where you could ring Op Ed
10:43
or Oprah unexplained old situation about
10:45
return that and or has said
10:47
that get back in two thousand
10:49
Nine some new blue as movement
10:52
and choosy about phone call from
10:54
replace the Us me was her
10:56
into distinguishing marks on races all
10:58
day on acid so as a
11:00
butterfly on the shoulder of you
11:03
got any source address so maroon,
11:05
color over and stuff like that
11:07
did you think at. That point
11:09
because. You've already had reached his.
11:12
Is at that point didn't eat or
11:14
just come gusto You know me mammals
11:16
boson just could call for via you
11:19
know did fail are doing are
11:21
silly. Both are for how much more
11:23
can a person cope with the old
11:25
who knows Had heard. He.
11:27
And Rita had each paid nine
11:30
hundred and sixty four pounds to
11:32
Legacy for soon or plan which
11:34
provided something called a direct connection.
11:37
Is a no frills package which
11:39
doesn't include a funeral service something
11:41
they were those happy with. the
11:44
when we to died while but most
11:47
took care of the arrangements. Which
11:49
had then went to Legacy premises else
11:51
has a load. To. Collect his
11:54
wife's ashes, A gay
11:56
man, our cat carrier. black back,
11:58
partially decorated, The white box
12:00
and sad and in such a white box
12:03
was a back with ashes in those like
12:05
a label is it reads the show and
12:07
is given day when she passed away. It
12:10
was eleven weeks later. The.
12:12
News of the investigation. Blink when
12:14
Saturday Rinaldo Different stories about people
12:17
on Tv and radio effort well
12:19
I forgot races ashes are other
12:21
got somebody elses? I should just
12:23
go around a it's own offer
12:25
of i'm just gonna try and
12:27
think of it as raises. ah
12:30
she's not so good to tell
12:32
me about the cool that you
12:34
see someplace. Or got a
12:36
phone call on Good Friday and it
12:38
was from a lead a place lady
12:40
and she says something to tell you
12:42
reached set your why sashes or of
12:45
homes royal and send me a said
12:47
whoa about the ashes of got and
12:49
then ago and she says oh that
12:51
and said well we don't know but
12:53
you can keep the ashes issue on.
12:57
Says well I've had c r
12:59
she ear with day and going
13:01
to keep I'm said so the
13:03
said that saw rice and i
13:05
says. Though the reason than a caper
13:07
miss costs surpass I'm a no One
13:09
wants to keep him out of nowhere.
13:11
The care. I
13:13
remember think from a life and and
13:16
and wonder if spread around last. When.
13:18
Will you be able to get the answer is
13:20
to get meet. I don't
13:22
know the said at the present time because
13:25
of desks. Within.
13:27
Two days of the start of
13:29
their investigation, the police had received
13:31
three hundred and fifty calls from
13:33
concerned members of the public. Among.
13:36
Them twist in Essex off to
13:38
make in the initial phone call
13:40
somehow Tom. Would. Receive comes
13:42
hot sauces less than twelve August
13:45
last we had a phone call
13:47
in the afternoon to say com
13:49
a come visit it's replace the
13:51
read this this pre planned. Statement.
13:54
In the State Monday read: Thirty.
13:56
Four bodies had been discovered at Legacy
13:59
Will Belief on. the bodies to be
14:01
of late Jesse, the Grandma, because
14:03
of an ankle bracelet that the hospital had
14:05
put on in the mortuary. It
14:07
felt like my heart had dropped into my stomach.
14:10
We'd said it must be wrong.
14:13
The ashes are there on the
14:16
fireplace. They just sat right there.
14:18
I'd been talking to
14:20
them, you know, as if it was
14:22
my Grandma and we don't even know
14:24
who's in this ashes box. We
14:27
don't know if they're real human ashes, if
14:29
it's several people, even if it's brick dust
14:31
or cement or what. I offered the ashes
14:34
back to the police and I said, you
14:36
know, I feel really uncomfortable. Obviously we know
14:38
it's not my Grandma. Can you
14:40
take them back? They actually told us to hang
14:42
on to them until we get some more information
14:44
and things and they still sat on my fireplace.
14:47
You know, I feel very uncomfortable at the
14:50
here and obviously they're not our loved one.
14:52
They're not my Grandma. At the
14:54
same time as Tristan learned that the
14:56
ashes on his fireplace might not have
14:58
been his grandmother's, Robert
15:00
Bush and his daughter Saskia
15:02
were arrested at Heathrow Airport
15:05
by officers from the Metropolitan
15:07
Police after stepping off a
15:09
flight from Los Angeles. I
15:12
can confirm that a man and a
15:14
woman have been arrested on suspicion of
15:16
the prevention and lawful and decent burial,
15:18
fraud by false representation and
15:20
fraud by abusive position. They
15:22
have since been released on police bail
15:24
with conditions whilst our investigations continue. By
15:27
Tuesday, five days after the police
15:29
started their investigation, 120 officers were
15:32
working on
15:34
the case and a thousand people
15:36
had called them. One
15:41
of them, a woman who asked
15:43
not to be identified, told
15:45
me her mum had died in July
15:47
last year after what she described as
15:49
a terrible and lung illness. She
15:54
sent me a lung WhatsApp message which
15:56
we asked an actor to read. At
15:59
the time I was... so traumatized
16:01
and physically and mentally
16:03
exhausted by the experiences I've just
16:06
shared with my mum, I
16:09
didn't really take much in or question
16:11
anything. When I
16:13
went to Legacy to see my mum in the
16:15
viewing room, I was
16:18
told by Rob that I couldn't
16:20
see her because she'd already started
16:22
to decompose. I
16:25
didn't question it as I was too heartbroken that
16:27
I wasn't ever going to see my mum again.
16:30
She told me she'd been left traumatized after
16:33
being told why it wasn't possible to see
16:35
her mum for the last time. In
16:38
the following weeks I tried to arrange to collect my
16:40
mum's ashes and each time was given a different
16:42
reason. He was busy, he went
16:45
in the building as he was in back to back
16:47
funerals, and other time it was because
16:49
he was in Doncaster and didn't know what time he would
16:51
get back. On the
16:53
23rd of September I was sick
16:55
of waiting so I just went to Legacy on Essel
16:57
Road as I wanted my mum back. He
17:00
took me in and sat me in a room while he went
17:02
through the back but he locked the door to the room I
17:04
was in. I was sat
17:07
there over half an hour for him
17:09
to come back in and tell me he couldn't
17:11
find her ashes. There must
17:13
have been misplaced. How
17:15
do you lose or misplace someone's ashes? Later
17:19
that night he turned up at my house and passed me
17:21
the ashes. My
17:23
mum's ashes don't seem full. I've
17:25
always said they don't feel half as heavy as my dad's
17:28
and my mum was bigger and heavier. The
17:31
bag feels half empty. She'd
17:33
planned to scatter her mum's ashes on
17:35
Mother's Day, the 10th of March, but
17:38
she hasn't been able to do that. We're
17:40
all living in a nightmare, sat
17:43
waiting for answers. I have
17:46
millions of questions running around my
17:48
head. How could we let the ashes go
17:50
knowing it might not be all of her or
17:53
even her at all? It's
17:56
soul destroying. from
18:00
legacy's high street premises is
18:02
a former police chief, now
18:05
occupied by Mixon's family funeral
18:07
director. Kevin Mixon is sharply
18:10
dressed in a grey suit.
18:13
He was a police officer for more
18:15
than 20 years before sustaining a wrist
18:17
injury, forcing him to retire from his
18:19
job as a bubby in North Yorkshire.
18:22
That's when he started working as a
18:25
trainee funeral director. The
18:29
walls in the reception area
18:31
are covered in framed certificates
18:33
and diplomas. So this is
18:35
what we call column bearing, which is the area
18:38
where we keep cremated remains. And
18:40
as you can see inside here, we've
18:42
got shells which are labelled with various
18:44
letters, so they're all in alphabetic load.
18:46
They'll come back usually in the cardboard
18:48
box depending which crematorium they've been cremationed
18:51
to place at. It'll have
18:53
the name and details on here of the
18:55
deceased, the cremation number, etc. I can see
18:57
that there are labels all over that. There
18:59
are labels on the paper bag, on the
19:02
box, on the carrier bag, on the shelf.
19:04
There's a certificate. There were many layers of
19:06
identification. There is. It tells you the date and time
19:08
of the cremation. It tells you the other funeral directories.
19:10
It tells you the crematorium where it took place and
19:13
confirms. We've asked Kevin to give us
19:15
a rare glimpse of what happens behind the
19:17
scenes at his funeral home. So it's
19:19
paramount that that document, the cremation certificate,
19:21
stays with the cremated remains, because they
19:24
are still human remains. And
19:26
so you've always got an audit trail all the way
19:28
through. It will be extremely difficult to get it mixed
19:30
up. When you go and you've had a cremation at
19:33
a crematorium, when you go to pick those cremated remains
19:35
up, you have to sign their register so that you
19:37
or one of your staff or whoever it is has
19:39
picked those remains up. Are they a requirement? No, you're
19:41
not forced to keep them, but any funeral director will
19:44
want that information because you never know when you might
19:46
need to look back at it. It
19:48
might surprise you to know that
19:50
the funeral industry isn't regulated. In
19:53
2020, the Competition and Markets
19:55
Authority called for the introduction
19:57
of formal regulation and... mandatory
20:00
inspections of what they call
20:02
back of house services. The
20:05
Scottish Government has put in place a
20:07
mandatory Code of Conduct, but
20:09
there's nothing similar in the rest of the UK. If
20:12
I was setting a cafe up on the corner
20:14
of the street here, I'd have to have environmental
20:16
health come and check the premises for hygiene, I'd
20:18
have to have a food safety certificate or something
20:20
along those lines before I start selling food. But
20:22
as a funeral director, sadly, there
20:24
are no regulations yet. You could open
20:27
the shop up next door as a funeral director knowing virtually
20:29
as ill she built it. Are you surprised
20:32
that mistakes could happen within
20:35
a funeral home? Mistakes can always
20:37
happen. And by mistakes, I mean things like, you
20:39
know, you might get the wrong flowers ordered, you
20:41
might get a press notice wrong for somebody if
20:43
they're in a newspaper notice, things like that. Whilst
20:48
there is no statutory regulation of
20:50
funeral directors, there are a number
20:53
of trade bodies. One
20:55
of the biggest is the National
20:57
Association of Funeral Directors, or
20:59
NAFD, which represents
21:01
around four and a half thousand
21:03
of the six thousand funeral businesses
21:06
in the UK. Bylon4
21:08
has learned that Legacy joined
21:10
the NAFD in 2011, a
21:13
year after the family business was founded. But
21:16
its membership lapsed in late
21:18
2020. And according
21:21
to the organisation's CEO, Andrew
21:23
Judd, it was six
21:25
years ago when its premises were last inspected.
21:28
There were a few very minor
21:30
comments that we noted from our
21:32
inspection, all that were very swiftly
21:35
resolved and were of an
21:37
administration nature. They were
21:40
clean, they were comfortable, they were well
21:42
presented. And in the one
21:44
site where there was a mortuary, we
21:46
were very comfortable with that. But
21:48
the business can change considerably in
21:50
six years. One woman has
21:53
told us that she couldn't see her mother's
21:55
body because it was in a state of
21:57
decomposition after just a few days. Is that
21:59
normal? No, it's not
22:01
normal and we
22:04
have very clear guidelines for our
22:06
members on how to safeguard deceased
22:08
people. Are funeral directors
22:10
legally required to have a work
22:13
in refrigeration unit? No
22:15
they're not and that is what we
22:17
are campaigning for is for
22:19
some statutory help from the government so
22:22
that we can legally enforce. If
22:24
a funeral director chooses not to join a
22:27
professional trade association or chooses to
22:29
leave one then they are not
22:31
under the scrutiny of anybody
22:33
and we don't feel that that is
22:36
the right situation. We feel there should
22:38
be a level playing field and
22:40
consistent standards of care and safeguard
22:42
for the deceased wherever they are.
22:45
The Competition and Markets Authority
22:47
report from 2020 was primarily
22:49
focused on the cost of
22:52
funerals but it also
22:54
uncovered serious concerns about back
22:57
of house procedures by some
22:59
funeral companies. Funeral
23:02
Partners, the third biggest provider
23:04
of funeral services behind the
23:07
co-op and dignity, told investigators
23:10
it had witnessed dreadful practices at some
23:12
companies when it viewed them with the
23:14
intention to buy the business. Bodies
23:17
included insufficient storage space
23:19
leading to topping and tailing of
23:22
corpses, bodies
23:24
left on the floor, poor
23:27
identification procedures surrounding corpses
23:29
and ashes increasing the
23:31
risk of incorrect identification
23:34
and a lack of appropriate embalming
23:36
facilities such as proper drainage and
23:38
ventilation. Something
23:43
terrible has happened in Hull but
23:46
if something good comes out of it then
23:48
we should seize the day and we should
23:50
put our shoulder behind it. We
23:53
know that it matters because we hear
23:55
so much the difference that
23:57
a funeral director has made to a family of the
23:59
two. when they've lost somebody that they love and
24:02
we shouldn't lose sight of that. We've all
24:04
been to funerals and seen
24:07
the coffins and the flowers and the
24:09
herses and the service but
24:11
what we're saying is integrity
24:14
is about doing the right thing when
24:16
nobody's looking at you. Despite
24:19
its membership having lapsed, stickers bearing
24:21
the trade body's name were still
24:23
on display above the door of
24:26
the premises in Annabell Road and
24:28
a blog in the information section of the
24:31
company's website said it was a member. Let's
24:33
be clear, when an organisation chooses
24:36
to leave our membership that's
24:39
a travesty because we
24:41
lose the oversight and if they
24:43
don't comply with the rules
24:46
and regulations of leaving a
24:48
trade association we have
24:50
no statutory teeth on that. We
24:52
will enhance our digital
24:54
sweeping because there's so
24:57
many things on the internet that
24:59
we can't control but if
25:01
we ever come across a member that is
25:04
displaying something on their website they shouldn't be
25:07
then we can ask them not to. But
25:10
again, we don't have the teeth to stop
25:12
them. By the 15th of
25:14
March, a week after the 35 bodies
25:17
had been removed, police said all
25:19
the families had been contacted. By
25:22
now they'd received more than 1,500 calls
25:24
from concerned relatives
25:27
and the National Crime Agency
25:29
was helping with what they
25:31
described as an extremely complex
25:33
investigation. We are continuing
25:36
to support the families involved through this
25:38
extremely difficult and distressing time. This
25:41
has been a truly horrific
25:43
incident and understandably they
25:45
are distraught and have many questions to
25:47
be answered. They
25:50
said attempts to identify ashes
25:52
recovered from the premises were
25:54
ongoing. You
26:01
do it Said it was she has ever
26:03
seen the rather have her Billie Joe So
26:06
so. The weights Most
26:08
excruciating. She.
26:10
Lives on the great feel the state to
26:12
the east of whole city center with her
26:14
two daughters and have five month old baby
26:17
boy. She.
26:20
Lost her brother Dwayne and her father
26:22
Andrew within five days of each other,
26:25
nearly two years ago in July. Twenty
26:27
Twenty Two. About the
26:29
scene will happen quickly. But. Had
26:31
Dots was delayed by five
26:33
months. Well. Over a
26:35
year later, She's. Still hasn't
26:38
received his ashes. the
26:40
so soon or both got left the
26:42
may I didn't know what I've never
26:44
even as an act that in of
26:46
land for funerals Astral gold that and
26:48
then and that Iraq is like to
26:50
say and they took mobile that we
26:52
had my brother's funeral quite quick said
26:54
it go message from up have lots
26:56
of money in his arm crackle. Term
26:59
fed swim. Cerebral had it
27:01
would send off with it off him up
27:03
as I. Madame. The of
27:05
ram doesn't have the funds for that
27:07
say I explained some all that in
27:09
up the phone for it'll can still
27:11
which officer was else has to out
27:13
without dimmable rebels in a restroom together.
27:16
On can edit everything hit the as a
27:18
while the soon will what made you choose
27:21
Legacy as a translator say was just the
27:23
and passion that without make every of the
27:25
shuttle power what causes the money situation desert
27:27
didn't win an earth to their lie of
27:30
say I was a major doesn't have enough
27:32
for me See faces questions asked me. When
27:34
I'm pregnant from Roses? Been
27:37
on. Surveys.
27:40
Can. See, this is really artfully. of
27:43
her mother mobile home but as a
27:46
suit offer that was gonna get cremated
27:48
by the council of as is everything
27:50
him up how it operates and not
27:52
let that says but after her initial
27:54
release that she'd found a funeral director
27:57
has taken the responsibility of giving her
27:59
dead. The to other a
28:01
dignified sendoff. She. Say She
28:03
later became concerned about some of the
28:05
things she had been told about of
28:07
of a tracksuit got medieval will smile
28:10
when ass rob see if i could
28:12
see him with on if so a
28:14
pull it off the added even questionnaire
28:16
destroys is doing it is it It
28:18
looked the same he said. As
28:20
to Dwayne service she say she then
28:23
sold out forms with Will but Bush
28:25
and applied for funding for her father's
28:27
funeral to the Departments of Work and
28:29
Pensions. My dad didn't get
28:32
life as said the still savants last
28:34
I've met up with as in the
28:36
July and August said essential to December
28:39
hopefully the films in with Rob Etiquette
28:41
said emailed it and every summer during
28:43
the to we'll pay dirt cheap. Well
28:46
prepared for the funeral. I can't say
28:48
that it receives nothing satellite for any
28:50
question that may vices I just read.
28:53
did it again redid the from. Angleton,
28:56
Silda and myself over the phone
28:58
and it miles and close and.
29:00
Love but pats them on a so
29:03
then we have the service and I
29:05
as much as but if his albums
29:07
and the light travels they pushed in
29:09
anything. I was wonderful
29:11
Orion's red moon to build like the west
29:13
of as a base they would have made
29:15
ring in a mosque in the a seat
29:18
as out yet to that's all it to
29:20
up with a funeral of secrecy with the
29:22
time. Of the drug another. love it
29:24
so long but. Yeah. If Eight eighty
29:26
Eight, so consoles or December today,
29:29
so it out. After the funeral
29:31
finally happened. Billie. Joe made
29:33
several attempts to get hold of
29:35
her dad's ashes. But. The
29:37
No Vale. Of it's own you
29:39
serving in it but the under such a
29:41
sad with for that they will call Buster
29:44
Posey else made it like I was a
29:46
call Yeah Thanks Love love No worries I
29:48
feel about sharing amongst the olivier wire during
29:50
the funeral. Hundred rooms are sick for the
29:52
out Me and I was at Great Falls
29:54
a asset like I owed him some. On.
29:57
A pool. The force. The. Police. another
30:00
press conference, sharing dreadful
30:02
news that many families didn't want to
30:05
hear. Unfortunately, given the high
30:07
temperature required to carry out cremation, the
30:09
DNA will have been broken down and
30:11
degraded to such a level that we
30:13
would not be able to recover a
30:15
meaningful DNA profile. This
30:18
means that we are unable to attribute
30:20
any of the human ashes or identify
30:22
them. Billy Joe has now lost all
30:24
hope of ever being able to get
30:26
hold of her dad's ashes, and
30:29
for Richard Shaw, the retired bus
30:31
driver who was given the wrong
30:33
ashes after the death of his
30:36
wife Rita, there was another
30:38
blow. Richard, we've got here
30:40
in front of us two policies
30:42
because you'd actually prepaid for yours
30:44
and Rita's funeral with
30:46
legacy, haven't you? Tell me
30:49
about the process of buying these policies
30:51
from legacy. Well, it
30:53
came down to the house and
30:56
he said, ask me what we
30:58
wanted and we explained what we
31:00
wanted and then Rita paid for
31:02
the price for the funerals
31:05
with a card and then it came out of a bank.
31:08
These documents are incredibly official
31:10
looking. They state on them
31:13
that the policy
31:15
is with an insurance
31:17
company called Ecclesiastical. You
31:20
have rang them this past week, haven't you, to
31:22
check on your plans? Yes, I
31:25
run last week to double check on
31:28
things and there's no record
31:30
of mine or Rita's policy on
31:32
them at all. I
31:35
think if Rita's allowed, I think she'd be
31:38
heartfully heartbroken. What? You trust somebody,
31:40
she would not be able to
31:43
grasp it. She'd go crackers,
31:45
absolute crackers. Richard
31:47
wasn't alone. A couple
31:49
of weeks after the start of
31:51
the police investigation, it transpired that
31:53
others who'd bought funeral plans from
31:55
legacy had been told there
31:58
was no record of their policies. This
32:00
is a booklet we got from Legacy when
32:03
we met him up at Beverly. Seemed really
32:05
well, everything professional, it looks good. And
32:07
in the end, it's a lot of money that
32:09
you can ill afford to lose and now we've
32:11
got to do it all again. So it's going
32:13
to be another, at least another maybe £4,000 because
32:17
they've all gone up since. I needed to have it
32:19
all settled and done to make me feel
32:21
better. Afterward we paid so we
32:23
didn't have any more worries. We had
32:26
the money then. About £10,000 we've lost between us. So
32:31
we're all in the same boat, we're all retired,
32:34
we're all in pensions, you know. You
32:36
have to be careful now we're in the same boat. It's
32:38
sad. Hull
32:40
City Council has said it became
32:42
apparent in February last year that
32:44
Legacy's debts were becoming significant. At
32:46
the time they owed over £50,000, some
32:49
of which was unpaid fees for
32:53
using the Council's crematorium. The
32:56
Council obtained the county court judgment
32:59
by February this year. Legacy
33:01
had cleared just over £10,000 of that debt.
33:06
The BBC also understands the company owes
33:08
£2,000 to each round of Yorkshire Council
33:11
for unpaid burial fees. Now
33:14
looking now on the company's house
33:16
website, on several occasions
33:19
between January 2022 and March of this
33:21
year, Legacy
33:24
was given formal notices that it
33:26
would be struck off the company
33:28
register and would no longer legally
33:30
exist according to company's house. However,
33:33
on four occasions
33:35
Legacy was given a reprieve and
33:38
a fifth warning was temporarily suspended
33:40
on the 19th of March because
33:43
the registrar received an objection.
33:47
Last week a formal move to
33:49
dissolve the firm also stalled. The
33:52
government has pledged up to £2m
33:55
of funding to support families affected,
33:58
many of them live in the house. The
34:00
Pezzle Road area wants the
34:02
heart of the city's fishing
34:04
industry. Emma Hardy is
34:06
a Labour MP there. The particular area
34:08
that we're talking about today that's been
34:10
most impacted by legacy funeral
34:12
is the poorest part of
34:14
the constituency. It's an area
34:16
that suffers multiple disadvantage and
34:19
it's an area that's faced a huge amount
34:21
of challenge. But it's also an
34:23
area of a very, very tight community as
34:25
well. This area doesn't have an
34:27
awful lot of trust in people of authority.
34:31
To be honest, they don't naturally
34:34
revere or respect people in authority. This
34:36
was somebody who was respected in the community,
34:38
the number of people who told me how
34:40
nice he was, how friendly he was, how
34:42
charming he was. He couldn't do enough for
34:44
us. I think it's been a huge blow.
34:48
It's not just 35 families because this
34:50
has affected the whole community, the people
34:52
who live down the same
34:54
street, the people who are related and linked
34:56
to each other. So it's
34:58
devastated. Since the investigation
35:00
into legacy began, a number of vigils
35:03
have taken place in Hull. They've
35:07
allowed families to come together and
35:09
grieve. Many of
35:11
the people I've spoken to while
35:13
making this programme have said that
35:15
having unidentified ashes in their home
35:17
is causing them huge distress. Many
35:20
have talked about the need for a
35:22
group memorial plot in which to place
35:24
these ashes. But that's
35:26
expensive. One of the
35:29
things that the families were talking to me about at
35:31
the vigil is the idea of
35:33
some lasting memorial. One of the
35:35
ladies who was talking to me, she said, if we all
35:37
got a symbol for all of
35:40
the ashes that we'd all collected, that
35:42
we'd all been given, and we
35:44
put them all somewhere in a place
35:46
altogether, everybody did that, then
35:48
we'd know. She was saying, I'd know
35:50
if I went there. My
35:53
loved one would be there if everyone
35:55
had done it. Hull City Council told
35:57
us they would be liaising with those
35:59
affected. and the wider community
36:02
in the coming weeks to agree
36:04
how unidentified ashes should be
36:06
laid to rest. They've also called
36:08
for the government to introduce regulation
36:11
of the funeral industry as a
36:13
matter of urgency. They
36:15
say they're focusing on ensuring the
36:17
families get the support they need
36:20
and that they're offering advice and
36:22
counselling. Humberside
36:25
Police have warned this will be a
36:27
long investigation. In the
36:29
meantime, the families involved are
36:31
left in limbo. I
36:34
feel more relaxed compared to what
36:36
some people are going through. At least I know
36:39
I'll have a closure in time, but when
36:41
the time will come I don't know. I
36:44
don't know if it's going to be weeks or years, I
36:46
don't know. We've got no closure. We don't know if that
36:48
is my brother and I don't know where my dad is. It's
36:51
a real overwhelming feeling like my heart sinks. It
36:53
begs me not to let no one bury him,
36:55
it begs me to make sure that I keep
36:57
him within. He stays
36:59
with me no matter where I move, he says
37:01
always take me where you are. So
37:04
you can't wear this scat room anyway, can you? No,
37:06
that's what I mean. I want a scat room because I'm
37:08
scared that they're not his, but what if they are his?
37:12
But if they're not, then
37:14
the thought of it, the anxieties, and really
37:17
breathtaking. I panic about him, I feel
37:20
like he's lost. I
37:22
need to go look for him. This
37:27
File on 4 podcast was presented
37:30
by Lindsay Smith and produced by
37:32
Nicola Dowling and Holly Clemens. The
37:34
technical producer was Craig Boardman
37:37
and the production coordinator was
37:39
Tim Fernley. The editor
37:41
was Carl Johnston. It
37:43
was a BBC long form audio production
37:46
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