Let's talk about 2023 goals. What are mine, how did I come up with these goals and how am I prioritizing things? As a person who is autistic, bipolar, and possibly/most likely ADHD I have had a love hate relationship with goal setting and I wan

102. Holding your boundaries in a respectful and meaningful way

Nov 21st, 2022 29m 37s

I've spent the last two years creating and emphasizing the importance of boundaries. One of the hardest parts of creating and managing boundaries is when we have to communicate a new boundary and we get pushback from the person in question. Tod

101. Budgeting as a Small Business Owner - The good the bad and the ugly and how i'm working through it

Nov 8th, 2022 33m 47s

We are going to talk about some of the struggles of budgeting as an entrepreneur, what starting the candle business has meant for my finances, and how i'm planning for the next few months and prioritizing my funds.

100. Return to Find You Fall In Love

Nov 3rd, 2022 14m 6s

Sometimes in life we make changes and then realize that we have made a mistake. That happened. Let's talk more about mistakes and why i'm changing the name back to Find You Fall In Love. Thank you for your patience with me as I mess up and lear

99. What to do when the should's try and take over

Oct 24th, 2022 19m 55s

You know the should's...i should eat healthy, i should exercise, i should go on dates, i should journal...all those things and all that pressure we place on ourselves to do the self care, while being a good human, while trying to be healthy, wh

98. How far we've come and where we are headed

Oct 11th, 2022 25m 16s

Today I wanted to connect and look back to where we started and talk about all the awesome things I want to do with this podcast. What lies ahead for our future together. We are moving toward a name change, finally, that I think will absolutely

97. Let's talk budgeting...again...but for real this time!

Oct 3rd, 2022 30m 10s

I know we started this conversation a few months back but things have gotten real now and I have worked so much on the shame and other money mindset stuff that was holding me back. Ready to follow along? Here is the link to the spending tracke

Principles vs Wellbeing

Jul 22nd, 2022 11m 37s

Today we are going to talk about a struggle I've been having in my life. Do we move somewhere where my principles are upheld and well regarded...or do we move somewhere where I will feel good most of the time.

95. What being an ally really means

Jun 30th, 2022 33m 27s

Today near the end of pride month i want to talk about courage and what being an ally really looks like and how that could help the youth of today find themselves quicker and fall in love with themselves easier. My hope is that it will inspire

94. The quickest killer of creativity is rules

Apr 20th, 2022 18m 44s

Today we are going to talk through where i've been what's going on over the next few weeks and the new creative outlet i've found. To get your ticket to the summit click here: https://aslocum83--delightfullydesigning.thrivecart.com/spark-pass

Intentionally walking into the new year

Jan 3rd, 2022 24m 20s

Happy new year! I wanted to talk today about intention and what that really looks like when you practice it fully. Let's dive in to it!

I'm learning about my brain and I want to bring you along for the ride

Dec 14th, 2021 31m 40s

I've been spending and enormous amount of time lately really diving into my neurodiverse brain and I wanted to update you on some things and share with you what I've found and how that might inform the podcast/blog going forward. Look to ambers

The role of chaos and how co-creating works

Oct 28th, 2021 17m 45s

Today we are going to talk about what chaos is, how it affects us, and a huge epiphany I had around this idea of being a co-creator with the universe. I'm starting to fully grasp the concept and SEE more clearly what's been happening in my life

September Income Reports

Oct 28th, 2021 8m 3s

As promised, I'm sharing my income from month to month as I journey toward financial independence. This is the one for September

Advocate for your own health - feel your body

Oct 11th, 2021 20m 31s

I am in the midst of a health scare and I want to share how we got to the point we are in the hopes of helping to save a life. I will keep you all up to date with biopsy results and the rest as it comes. But touch your boobies and feel your oth

The journey to financial independence

Sep 29th, 2021 13m 34s

I have a big goal of becoming financially independent within the next few years. And because I do better with accountability I have decided to share this journey with you. Follow along with this once a month series where I lay it all out there.

87. Moving beyond jealousy and the shame that often comes with it

Sep 13th, 2021 28m

Comparison is the thief of joy (I've researched this quote and cannot find the original person who said it. It's been said by a lot of folks)...but is it? Is it comparing ourselves to others or is it the jealousy that comes from seeing others a

Are you running away from what's working?

Aug 11th, 2021 23m 45s

Let's talk a little bit about self sabatoge and what it looks like and how to knock that crap off.

How are you rushing through life?

Aug 11th, 2021 22m 41s

How and why are you rushing through your daily life? Where do you need to slow down simply because it makes no damn sense to keep rushing? Let's talk about that.

Boundaries and respecting our children and therefore ourselves

Jul 14th, 2021 15m 43s

Today we are going to talk about how I recognized that I was disrespecting a boundary my child needed and how I corrected that problem and what that process looked like. And then we dive further in to respect and thinking about how we parent ou

Moving through fear in a new and different way

May 24th, 2021 18m 24s

Fear has a really important purpose in our lives but it can also cause us not to act. I wanted to share an approach that has radically changed my self love, self confidence, and self esteem game! Blog post: https://findyoufallinlove.com/worki

You are a work in progress and that's okay

May 17th, 2021 7m 39s

I wanted to share a guided meditation with you today! A reminder - do not do this while driving! Settle in and let's create a shift in mindset. Join my free facebook group - Mindset, Movement, and Meditation for more like this.

Feeling your feelings and ways to move through grief

May 7th, 2021 20m 34s

An update to one of my first episodes...how to work through grief. This episode is incredibly important for mommas with boys or the men who may listen to this podcast. Really it's important for everyone! I apologize for the very brief interrup

How to conquer overwhelm and complete a crazy big task

Apr 21st, 2021 31m 15s

Today we are going to dive into overwhelming and insurmountable tasks. I wanted to walk through the steps i've taken in the past to really conquer the overwhelm monster and really take a HUGE task and break it down into smaller steps. The thin

How to clear space and make room for growth

Apr 7th, 2021 24m

Today we are going to discuss how you clear out mental space and create a solid foundation for growth and expansion. I also discuss how to clearly identify what is your thought, belief, and feeling and what is society and everyone around you.