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First Date follow Up powered

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by the Advocates Injury Attorneys online

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at Advocatesla dot com. Abby

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is on the phone today for our first date follow up and she's

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getting ghosted by a dude named Mark.

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So in a few minutes we're gonna call him and see if he'll tell us why

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he's ghostinger and maybe get her another

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date. But first, Abby, how long has the vinces you heard

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from Mark?

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It's then about a week?

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About a week? Okay?

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Have you tried to reach out to him multiple times?

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I did a few times, but you

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know, I if someone doesn't respond,

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like continuing to message.

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Them, does it normally?

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Yeah?

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I did, like one and then I did one

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more, and.

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Then I saw, well, let's hear

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about your date and how you met him and see if we

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can't figure out why he's ghosting you.

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Yeah, so we met.

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We actually got sat up through

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Mark's co worker and I

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have Mark's coworker's

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wife yoga class I attend

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that cost So me

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and Serena, which is mark

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coworker's wife, we grabbed coffee and

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it was kind of like Serena recruited

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me to go out on a date with Mark,

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but she and.

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Her husband Josh are always

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on.

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The hunt for a wife for Mark, and

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Serena thought I would be perfect.

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So Mark and I met up

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at a si restaurant that has

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amazing tropical.

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Drinks and we shared food

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and chatted about our favorite thing.

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And we had so much in common and

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tonight was so good. We ended

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up going back to mark house for

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like a little nightcap a sip.

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We're like, a, wow, what

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is that? I

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was looking for a nicer way to say it

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came out with sounds. Yeah,

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I'm really sorry.

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Is it just a drink or or.

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Both?

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Okay? I mean yeah, I was super like

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attracted to him, and like I

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could tell that there were like instance sparks

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between.

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Both of us, and it

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was just like.

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Easy and effortless. So yeah,

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we ended up hooking

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up. And then afterwards

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Mark kept talking about his

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job and how close he was to a promotion,

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but I was kind of bored by

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it, so I pretended obviously.

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Okay,

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I'm thinking like maybe he

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knew I was pretending.

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Talking about

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No, I mean, he

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he did like mention that I

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breathed. I breathed like differently

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when I'm in like different

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sleeping phases. So I feel like

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snaby a little

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bus and

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I mean, I'm really excited

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and I want to support like his promotion journey

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and all of that, But

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the time was just like wanting to

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enjoy my posts playtime

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piece. And that was the nicest way

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to get him to shut up

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by pretending I was asleep.

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So what do you want to say to him?

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Well, I want to explain myself

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and that like it might

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have seemed rude, but that wasn't

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like I had good intentions.

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It's like it wasn't my it

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wasn't my plans.

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All right, Well, we'll see if we can figure it out for you. Then

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we'll play a song come back, and then call him

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and see if it's us why he's ghosting you, and see if

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you still want another date after we find out the reason.

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Okay, okay, sounds good.

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Plus I'll come back and get your first day follow up next.

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In the middle of your first day follow up and if you're just

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joining us, Abby is on the phone

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and she's getting ghosted by a dude named Mark,

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and it might be because she was bored by him. We're

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about to call and see

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if you'll tell us why he's ghosting her and maybe get her another

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date. But before we do that, Abby wanted you refresh

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everybody's memory on your situation.

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Yeah.

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We were set up by

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Mark coworkers, and we went out

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to dinner and had drinks and

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had like a great night. We

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went back to mark place

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for a nightcab and we ended

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up cooking up and

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after that I

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wanted to go to sleep, but Mark kept

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talking about his job and

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his promotion he might be getting.

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So I just pretended

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to be asleep.

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And I think he might have noticed,

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and that's why he's not talking to me.

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All right, well, man, let's seef. We can

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figure it out. All right, you're ready for us to call him?

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Yeah?

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Okay, here we go. Hello,

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Hi, man, I speak to Mark please.

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Yeah, this is Mark.

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Hey Mark, what's up?

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Man?

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How are you?

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My name is Jeubel and I host a radio show. It's called The

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Jebel Show.

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Hi, Mark, the show's here. My name is Nina, Hi,

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and I'm Victoria.

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Are calling

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me because you're cool?

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Yeah?

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Did you ever listen to the show at all?

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Oh?

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Wow?

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Yeah? Sometimes?

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Okay cool?

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Wait a minute, I

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think I know where you're going. What is

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this where you guys like call someone after

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they went they met someone.

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Yes it is. It's called the first

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day follow up, where you go out on a date with

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somebody and you ghost them. They can

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ask us to get you on the phone and find out what happened.

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So we got an email about

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you, Mark.

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Oh boy, all right.

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It's from Abby.

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Do you mind telling us about your day with Abby

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and why you're not why you're ghosting?

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I mean, I'm sure she told you by the day, right,

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it was pretty fun, But

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I guess I'll just say that, yes,

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I'm ghosting her for the reason is

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because she used my razor.

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Like did she tell you we went back

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to my place after a date?

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All right?

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She says she wanted to go like freshen up. But

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I never crossed my mind that she would use my razor.

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And I don't like sharing any personal items,

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Like I don't share my razors, not even my tooth brush,

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like not even with like the level of my life.

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I feel it's so gross And

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I thought it was so entitled of her just march

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into my bathroom and just use my

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razor.

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And I know she.

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Used it because there's light, little brown

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hair. This is

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so gross to me, So yeah,

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I ghosted her. That's the reason.

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When when was this that she used your

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razor?

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I'd say, like, I guess

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she used it before we I

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don't know what she told.

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You, but she said, you guys had fun at

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your place.

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Yeah, yeah, we got like cozy

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with each other. Yeah, she must

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have used it before that, because then I didn't notice

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it till I use the restroom in the middle

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of the night and I noticed it.

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And also it wasn't like she put it back where it was.

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It was like fully out,

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like I don't even leave my razor out, it's like in

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a drawer, and like she had it out on the stank to sit

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their hairs with. It

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was gross, and she was just making herself at home.

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Like both of those were just to turn off to me.

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Well, thanks for telling us. I mean, yeah, I don't

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know. I mean, I probably wouldn't care if somebody use my razor.

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But also I mean I probably think it

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was funny, but it might be a little bit interesting.

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Mark Abby is on the phone and

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has been listening and wants to talk to you.

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I forgot I love this part.

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Yeah,

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yeah, I mean, I'm sorry. I had no

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idea about like the

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razor. I didn't

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think it was updake of a deal, and

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I just like I wanted to say,

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like, I'm sorry, I pretended to like be

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asleep.

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I kind of thought that's why you were not

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talking to me.

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You were pretending to be asleep.

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What it just well, what

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like afterwards when you

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were talking about your promotion and stuff,

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I was.

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Just kind of zoning out like

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I normally do after right

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after that time, and I

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just wow, wow, And I.

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Thought maybe you knew that

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I did that and that's why you were mad

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at me.

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But like, I'm really.

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Sorry, I need anyways,

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And.

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No, I actually thought I put you to sleep, and I was

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actually like proud of that.

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No, I mean you did

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it was amazing and you did a very

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good job.

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So I

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have no complaints.

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And I didn't think like the razor would

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be that big of a deal because you know, I

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was doing it for you. I

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was trying to, you know, look

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as fast as I could. I wasn't trying

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to just use your razor for no reason.

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Well that's not the only thing you did for me.

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We're saying the radio,

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Well, Mark,

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would you like another date with Abby?

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Will pay for it? I mean, can you get past the

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razor using I mean she was thinking.

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About you, and I'll buy a razor

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of that oh by it? Yes,

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yes, I would yes, wow.

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Yeah, I mean i'd love to. And I can

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promise you this time like I won't. I won't

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use a razor. I will stay far

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away from it.

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I'll get you a new one. I mean

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you don't need him now the well

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hair.

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Does grow back.

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Well, what are we having this date? How

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far in the future we have his date?

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Well, I'll shave before the date. Okay,

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all right. Jule's

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First Date follow up