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Ted Audio Collective. Hello,
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first question comes from a listener.
2:41
We're gonna be calling Jessica Sell
2:43
let's hear her voice Help say
2:45
an incentive I am calling in
2:48
today's to. Figure out
2:50
how best to. Approach
2:52
a question with my boss.
2:55
I'm a marine scientists and I've
2:57
been working in my lab for
2:59
about ten years. And I
3:01
would like to make a big move.
3:03
Across Country which involves. Leaving.
3:07
This job leaving an
3:09
intimate relationship. It's a
3:11
small. Nice field so
3:13
I know that I'm going to
3:16
come across the soaks in my
3:18
lap again at some point in
3:20
our careers. And. I
3:22
really just make sure I'm not
3:24
burning bridges. That and maintaining his
3:27
release. The. Release. It said.
3:29
I. Hope you guys have some free advice and
3:32
full. And. Thank you so
3:34
much. As. Ah, I'm
3:36
here in the steaks and the her
3:38
voice. And this is a question. We
3:40
get a very sound this question. I
3:43
mean a lot. Yeah, which is, you
3:45
know, how do I gracefully. Quit
3:47
my job. Yeah. And
3:50
I find there's two things they have to
3:52
think about. We do it. One is, when
3:54
we're leaving her job, we tend to want
3:56
to shrink. What the world can handle
3:58
from us. And so we're. Oh
4:00
you know I have to be the small
4:03
little perfect saying and any perturbed. So we
4:05
gotta like we get it, own ourselves into
4:07
want to shrink when we're doing it. And
4:09
then the second part is when he tried
4:12
the second paragraph. You do the second
4:14
part so I i her question and you can
4:16
hear her voice I think reveals. What a.
4:19
Thoughtful and hi emphases person
4:21
see as and I think
4:23
it's really hard for. People.
4:26
Like us is I may be so bold.
4:29
To do things that will
4:31
knowingly disappoint. Other people.
4:34
So I think your point number one
4:36
is really in. Portland. For
4:38
the people out there for whom people
4:40
pleasing is our weakness and if that's
4:42
the case, I think you really want
4:45
a plan this whole thing out. Sell.
4:48
You. Gotta do the right things here.
4:50
And I think the right thing here
4:52
means. Give proper notice,
4:55
In terms of time, give people a
4:57
heads up. Give them a while. I.
5:00
Said. Give them some insight into
5:02
your decisions you don't have to
5:04
reveal. All. Of it. No,
5:06
please don't. You can be a
5:08
little selfish here, but you gotta
5:10
reveal some of that and you
5:12
have to save some for the
5:14
opportunity to learn and grow. In.
5:18
Their presence essentially. And.
5:20
But I think we really wanna make
5:22
sure that you do. Is it You
5:24
give people a story that they can
5:27
turn around and repeat. So whether it's
5:29
to go tell their boss it's hereditary
5:31
say Here's what happened at work. but
5:33
people need to have their version of
5:35
the story that they can repeat to
5:37
others and feel good about it's he
5:39
has to give enough information to cylinder
5:42
details. Of their story. Yeah
5:44
and on the on the gratitude. Part francis,
5:47
I'm also syncing about the power of.
5:50
whom. Sincere and specific In this
5:52
know, this is a great time
5:54
to exercise that muscle of of
5:57
sincere and specific gratitude. Yes, for
5:59
lead. So chances are good that
6:01
not every aspect of the job
6:03
worked out perfectly, but. Something
6:06
did. And
6:08
if you can describe it in
6:10
the way in a way that
6:13
really feels Austin tex then it's
6:15
ah, it's gonna make that this
6:17
this whole saying this whole exit
6:20
moment that's feel better and and
6:22
go smoother. And. Then and
6:24
then if you just it benefits of eggs
6:26
and you and and what I love about
6:28
that and is that it will the gratitude
6:31
will be the highlight of the story. the
6:33
person turns around tells I that's exactly right
6:35
now I mean and and and as the
6:37
great. My. Hips
6:39
observed. People actually wants particular Remember
6:41
what you say or what you do
6:43
in the summer? Do they are gonna
6:46
remember how you made them feel and
6:48
that is that the person you're quitting
6:50
on. That's what they're gonna remember from
6:52
this whole interaction is how you made
6:54
them feel in that moment. Beautiful and
6:56
I'd like to write this. all downs
6:59
because you're a writer as I like
7:01
to talk about it in front of
7:03
the here has been I disease or
7:05
in the proper letter of resignation here
7:07
in part because I also don't trust
7:09
myself. In that moment see your point
7:12
to not. The I make
7:14
myself smaller and try to protect
7:16
people from the truth. And
7:19
so does. Get out there
7:21
but planet and. Don't. Be
7:23
afraid of this and ancient artifacts. That
7:25
is the letter of resignation. As you
7:27
say that I realize when I left.
7:30
H B S to go to Hoover.
7:32
I was in the administration was a
7:34
senior associate dean Ababa but. And them
7:36
I wrote a letter of resignation
7:38
and gave it to the dean
7:40
at the time. but. Gave him a
7:42
little preamble and read it in my presence. and
7:44
then we had the conversation and you're right
7:46
it went swimmingly well after that and i
7:49
don't think i would have been able to
7:51
in the moment capture it and so i
7:53
think we wanna make sure we don't underestimate
7:55
what people can handle that that would nor
7:57
should we underestimate the context they need They
8:00
can handle a lot and they
8:02
need a lot of context. Let's put them
8:04
in a position to wish us well and
8:06
to continue to root for us. Yeah. I
8:08
think that's beautiful and a beautiful example. Also
8:11
because in that moment, there are a lot
8:14
of emotions for us that are showing
8:16
up too. There's a lot of adrenaline and this
8:18
letter allows you to check all the
8:21
boxes you want to check without having
8:23
to rely on that moment by moment
8:25
performance. Then the last thing I'll say on
8:27
this is, plan
8:29
it all out and then don't be attached to
8:31
the results. Yeah. Because whatever happens
8:34
next, that other person's reaction
8:36
likely has nothing to do
8:38
with you. Yes. In
8:41
this moment, we're often not at our
8:44
best. We encode
8:46
this as a rejection of some
8:49
kind and it can split those emotions and
8:52
that's fine. Those emotions are likely temporary and
8:54
they're also totally out of your
8:56
control. Give yourself
8:58
permission to be at peace, whatever
9:00
then happens next. It's a lesson
9:02
that I have learned in coaching
9:04
faculty in the classroom, which
9:06
is deeply prepare so
9:08
that you can loosely teach. Francis,
9:12
we're going to take a quick break and
9:15
when we come back, we're going to talk
9:17
about how to speed things up
9:20
when we believe that they're moving too
9:22
slow. This is an
9:24
ode to one of my favorite mathematical
9:26
theorems, which our listeners might be hearing
9:28
for the first time, but my wife may
9:31
be hearing it for the first time today. Canva
9:39
presents unexplained appearances. It
9:41
was an ordinary workday
9:43
until- That presentation appears out
9:46
of thin air. Also, it's
9:48
eerily on brand. Wait, did
9:50
that agenda just write itself?
9:53
Words appear, making this unexplainable
9:55
case- Unexplainable? It's Canva's
9:57
AI tools. I can generate slides
9:59
and- The
10:02
real mystery is why I'm only learning
10:04
this now. canva.com, designed
10:06
for work. All
10:10
right, we're cruising now, so let's take a
10:12
look at another submission. I love it. This
10:16
one is from a manager who would like to
10:18
remain anonymous, and they wrote
10:20
to us with the following question. What
10:22
is the right thing to do if
10:24
employees are very slow at work and
10:27
the work needs to be done quicker and
10:29
they say they can't work faster? So,
10:32
Frances, where does your beautiful mathematical
10:35
mind go with this one? Oh, Little's
10:37
Law to the rescue. What
10:41
is Little's Law? I'm so glad you asked. I've been waiting
10:43
for you to ask. So
10:46
Little's Law actually contemplates working
10:49
harder and working smarter. What
10:52
I'm hearing from this listener is that
10:55
they have reached the limits of working
10:57
harder, and Little's Law gives us
10:59
a way to work smarter. Say
11:01
more. It's a cliffhanger.
11:05
How do I work smarter in a situation
11:07
like this? Almost
11:09
always. We are working on too many
11:11
things. And so
11:14
I simply have too many things in front of
11:16
me, so no matter how hard I work on
11:18
any one thing, if there's 10 things in front
11:20
of me, even if I get faster at each
11:22
thing, it's still going to take too long
11:25
to get through them. So what I
11:27
as a manager need to do for my team
11:29
is remove what we call the work
11:32
in process. I need to remove some of
11:34
the things they're working on so that we
11:36
get a better, what we call throughput time.
11:38
So work goes through more quickly. And
11:41
if I recall from the work of
11:43
Professor Little, part of his breakthrough inside
11:45
here was that the length of your
11:47
to-do list, what we call the work
11:49
in process, the WIP, WIP
11:51
doesn't just matter. It matters just
11:53
as much as that. It matters
11:56
more. It
11:58
matters much more. So if you ask me... So,
12:00
can you go faster by working harder?
12:02
I'll say it's what your instinct is
12:05
gonna be. You're gonna exhaust yourself and
12:07
you're only gonna make marginal improvement. But
12:09
if you affect the to-do list, you
12:11
will dramatically improve order of magnitudes better.
12:14
Working smarter is order of magnitudes better
12:16
than working harder. Okay, so what's your
12:18
advice to Anonymous here? One
12:21
is that I would remove a little bit
12:23
of the judgment that they have on their
12:25
employees, just a little bit. Just a little
12:27
bit. It's a little judgy. And I would
12:29
bring in curiosity. And it's curiosity about what
12:32
they're working on. And I would practice radical
12:34
prioritization and remove things. I wouldn't even give
12:36
them a not now. I would remove things
12:39
from the list. And watch
12:41
what happens then. All of a sudden the employees that
12:43
we're judgy about are gonna be superheroes. And you're
12:45
gonna wonder, what did they do differently? They didn't
12:47
do anything differently. I did something differently by putting
12:49
a different set of tasks in front of them.
12:52
So, Frances, for the absence of doubt, if
12:55
I remove the whip in the
12:57
system. Everything gets done faster. Everything
13:00
gets done faster. And that's a
13:02
better strategy than trying to go faster.
13:05
Which your people call cycle time. Yes, and
13:08
I would say if you want to have
13:10
like a sense of how much, I think
13:12
it's probably 10 times more effective. It's wildly
13:14
more effective. So I shouldn't judge my team
13:16
and yell at them and make them go
13:18
faster. I should remove the number of things
13:20
that they're doing. So who is errant? You're
13:22
the problem, not them. Who's judgy now? You're
13:26
right. I got a little judgy. You take
13:28
it. I did. All right. This
13:31
reminds me of the CEO
13:33
of Etsy who we wrote about in our
13:35
book, Josh Silverman. So when he was turning
13:37
the company around, one of
13:39
the things he observed when he got there is
13:41
that too many projects were, and this was his
13:44
word, suffocating the organization. Oh, so good. It's exactly
13:46
what they do. And I just to give you
13:48
a little texture on this. The
13:51
number of employees at Etsy was under
13:53
a thousand and the
13:55
team was working on more than 800 business
13:59
development projects. And this
14:01
is in the public domain as as reporting
14:03
by Cel Lava at Sports. And so
14:05
Silverman and his team eliminated,
14:07
sas of these initiatives said:
14:10
"It's a little last for
14:12
a test drive here and
14:14
they made. Organization.
14:17
Level commitment As you said to working
14:19
smarter. And it's usually we
14:21
can't usually work smarter on our own
14:23
because we don't get to pick what
14:26
we work on unless we're in very
14:28
specific sealed. So this is actually the
14:30
person who called in. That's exactly. It
14:32
is within your power to have the
14:34
work go faster and you know what
14:37
else is gonna happen. Qualities can be
14:39
higher. Sentiment is gonna be higher. Like
14:41
you have a beautiful thing that's about
14:43
to happen. but you have to take
14:45
responsibility for what you're giving them to
14:48
work on. and you have an. Etsy
14:50
problem is. My guess the other fun
14:53
side to that little law. That I
14:55
had retained is that it's often just
14:57
some one time effort but that to
14:59
pull whip out of the sir? Yes
15:02
sir, That's a really important part that
15:04
is a it's usually like. The classic
15:06
example is a call center. And at
15:08
the Common with a problem and it takes two weeks to
15:10
hear back and you're like oh my gosh, it's too weak.
15:13
And it's because that's how many things are in line. And
15:15
front. but they're stacked correctly. that is,
15:17
they have the right number. Of. People: For
15:19
the number of projects they're working on, there's just
15:21
a two week backlog and if you do, the.
15:24
One time effort to remove the
15:26
backlog as those. Effortlessly so by
15:28
deception their prep might not have
15:30
helps. But it nearly one did hi
15:32
my friend or if I brought in a
15:34
crap team or one we went removers. For
15:36
a week and the promise of the problem. Is
15:38
solved and the only thing us to do
15:41
is now monitor. Work in process and
15:43
you know has builds, Work and process.
15:45
When. We think no idea as bad idea. oh that
15:47
sounds good. Let's do that too. That's. How
15:49
we end up with the problem. So
15:51
as long as at sea resist
15:54
the mission creep of new projects.
15:57
Than the company gets to maintain this
15:59
new speed. that's Silverman inspired and
16:01
that's the beautiful part of it. Alright
16:08
that's our show. Thanks for listening everyone. As
16:10
always please get in touch if you want
16:12
to figure out your workplace problem together or
16:15
not together as in this
16:17
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16:20
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16:22
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16:24
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16:31
can even text us if that's easier.
16:33
I really like this one. It's so nice
16:36
to go fast. Yes it is.
16:38
Thanks for listening everyone and thanks to everyone who's
16:40
reached out with a problem for us to solve.
16:42
We couldn't make this show without you. By the
16:44
way we have been running some really interesting polls
16:47
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16:49
result from one of them which
16:51
is that when we asked people if
16:54
they feel comfortable speaking candidly about mental
16:56
health at work almost 60% of
16:58
people said no. So we
17:01
definitively do not feel comfortable talking about
17:03
this critical issue in the workplace. It's
17:05
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Cohen episode and it really underscores a
17:09
lot of the things that he said
17:11
about the scope of the problem and
17:13
that we can make a lot of
17:15
headway in addressing it immediately just
17:17
by getting more comfortable being honest about
17:20
it. Half of us if I can
17:22
round off half of us don't feel
17:24
comfortable. Imagine if we could move
17:26
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